INFPS ADVICE - Read! Read! READ ( become articulate/eloquent ) -self Discipline ( if you say you going to do something do it!) -HAVE a schedule (I have a yearly planner) -stop victimizing yourself!!!! (but forgive yourself also we can be hard on ourselves) -Go to the GYM!! (especially if you're female) -Save some money ( thanks to TE infr.) -Learn a new instrument ( I learned the🎹) - dress to impress ( MY ESTJ mom got it right on this, it does Make a difference how people treat you) -go out and make friends ( meetup, bumble, volunteer, school, gym etc thats how I did) -Solo travel ( trust me on this one) -Practice gratitude ( before you step foot out of bed I know is cringey but it does help) -Have a self care routine at least at night -Clean your House( this is therapy for me ) - - We are triple outcome so we want things to work out asap but I started lil by lil step by step before you knew it I was fully progressing. DROP YOUR ADVICE BELLOW⬇️
The gym 'especially female' advice seems off to me. Intense gym exercise can influence your period and therefore fertility, so it doesn't make sense at all to me that this advice is 'especially female', it should be the opposite.
@@melino9709 did you feel like giving up?? I often feel like this it's been 41 days since I've been doing mediation, daily journaling, exercising, but I've got no motivation to study or learn new things which I know I'm a little in touch wid it how did you recommend you solve this problem.... I always feel lazy ... Pls give advice I want to improve and yeah if you got any tips for social anxiety pls share your thoughts
As an INTP, I can see so much truth in this. I recognize incredible potential in myself, but I'm just so damn lazy. I've actually achieved a lot in the past, but always find a way to sabotage myself. I literally did the "shock and awe" thing of moving to another country by myself. It helped me grow a lot, but it's still a struggle to continuously move out of my comfort zone.
INFP here. Wow CS Joseph is SPOT ON. At one point in my youth I didn't care at all about being in the streets, somehow that seemed like the only way out of the Si child loop I was in. I watched this video with my INTP husband and he spent his 20s living all over the world. CS Joseph said exactly what my husband told me: the reason he moved to a new environment every few months to a year was to be on survival mode from the get go. You are cynically accurate. All the CS Joseph haters are just in denial ...
I hate to say it but he's always spot on about how disgusting we INFPs can be. And my parents just keep providing a nest for me and actually like having me there as I help with lots of things. I've become the useful child. Now it's like..... I can see where I may never leave as I'm simply not disciplined enough to reach my full potential. I have always done so much better in my life when I've been completely alone, or travelling alone, in another country alone. All of this. I'm capable of huge strength and creativity and have done crazy things nobody else would dare do when I've literally had to survive. I seem to have a very strong survival instinct that kicks in. But once you get stuck back in the comfort zone you really are stuck. Physically and mentally. And stop trying. I can see I'm going to have to cut off from everyone at this point in my life and go it alone.
As an INTP I constantly have to battle with myself to get out of bed. It took me 2 years just to find a new job because I got too comfortable at Amazon. On my days off im extremely hedonistic. My most of my free time consists of smoking weed, eating, playing Rust, and watching UA-cam. I have noticed the only time I actually go out of my comfort zone is when I'm forced too.
I don't know if this is helpful, but so many people feel uncomfortable with their jobs and generally their lives. You're not alone in this sentiment. I forced myself to move away in a situation that was 100% out of my comfort zone because I was sick of where I was in my life. It was hard, but it taught me a lot and allowed me to experience profoundly beautiful things. If you are terribly bored, think of all of the beautiful things out there that you could enjoy if you just took a chance
INTP here. It's true. You have to face adversity, or seek it out. I think I was at my lowest when all I had to my name was a room I rented (no kitchen, no phone). I was so broke I had to heat up my canned soup (it was all I could afford) in a little coffee maker. No car, no license, and a mountain of legal issues to tackle (doing the time - may as well do the crime right?!). The public library was a beacon of light. Now I have a wife, a house, kids, and I work remotely. It's awesome. The specter of just saying "fuck it" comes back to haunt me on occasion. Sometimes you just need a little you time.
Thank you for your knowledge and guidance... I am lazy and stuck in my comfort zone. I know it's all on me to break these cycles so i can live and feel good about myself. Appreciate you.
INTP’s in a comfort zone are definitely bad news, as I myself used to be one. Going back to school, becoming a good parent to two children were the two best decisions I ever made
I'm INFP my brother INTP and we are both in comfort zones. Both not fulfilling full potential. But this is the year I'm changing it up as I'm tired of it.
I know that as an INTP female there was a point where I gave up on live because of the fact that I got bullied at school so badly for being different. I dropped out just a few credits short and started working. After nearly 10 years I decided to go back to school after getting fired from multiple jobs, having countless failed relationships and realized how lazy I was. I was just fortunate that I was still on the attractive side and didn’t have weight issues.
I'm an INTP and I struggled with these things for a long time. I ended up losing everything and going into survival mode. I had to figure it out and find a way to get what I needed. I caused a lot of problems for myself by being complacent and not trying harder. Finding out about personality types and understanding who I am helped out a lot. (No Thyself) I cut everyone out of my life and went out on my own to face my fear and test my beliefs. I watched a video where someone said you need to go stand on deadly ground which meant no turning back like you had no choice. They said there were soldiers who went out on boats and after landing on shore they would burn the boats and have to face off with another army in front of them which gave them a sense of assertiveness and helped them win the battle. What will you do when your back is against the wall? I'm all by myself and barely surviving but as a man you have a responsibility to yourself and you must do whatever it takes to live independently on your own without a need for others. You must stop caring about what other people are doing and thinking. I'm not where I want to be but I'm a lot closer and a lot happier. Good luck on your journey. 👍😊
Couldn't agree more, sometimes the light-switch is at the end of the hallway... And by the time you find that light-switch you could've already conquered your fear of the dark.
As an INTP, as soon as I'm in my comfort zone, I'm falling down, don't want to do anything, making excuses to convince myself to stay in the comfort zone. I'm not a "typical" INTP, I love sports and doing martial arts from age 5, I'm 24 and training in Krav Maga and I see that even when I get a less skilled opponent to spar with I won't do my best because my confidence is too high as result of knowing I can easily win and this makes me to try less hard and actually perform bad in oppose to low confidence with stronger opponent, I do my best only in stressful situations. Also, only when I got in really really stressful reality, as a result of learning the hard way by failing myself and not learning from others mistakes(also a problem I struggle with) and losing huge amounts of money, only then I tried study by myself software development and found out that I actually very good at it and have potential in it and today working in the field as self thought developer. If there were no deadlines or stress I would keep gaming 12 hours a day...I even keep my financial balance as low as I can(moving money to savings) because I understood that when I see that I got some safety I work less and start to procrastinate. I'm having thoughts about being an entrepreneur later in life but I can't decide or act about it due to much of analysis paralysis and how this will affect me as an INTP, It's interesting that the people surrounding me are freelancers who are ESTP, ESTJ and ENTJ which make me thinking every time that I'm not good enough, they really don't give any value besides just being good with people and managing them.
15:32 As an INTP in my 30s, who just got back from a year away to S Korea, this is great advice. Before going though, you should build up a little mental resistance through knowledge in psychology so that you have the techniques to survive when things go bad, but you have to put yourself in an environment you are not comfortable with to widen your comfort zone
6 years ago I took a one-year course in self-discipline. I can discipline myself to do anything. So what if I have no idea what I would use it for? I exercise, I changed my diet, no sweets, no junk food, no Netflix, no weed, no alcohol, no games. Nobody cares or they even feel threatened. It doesn't bring me any joy, it doesn't give me a sense of achievement or purpose. I use apathy for not to stop it. It's not a victory, it's just changing one shit for another. I'm not a movement type, I don't appreciate change, only results. People don't care, it's not more interesting, it doesn't make me feel better. But I have to be an adult and swim anywhere, even though swimming seems pointless.
I must say it's a real struggle but I try to be more productive everyday and achieve little goals daily that build up over time. I think I'm developing my unconscious (ENTJ) and sometimes can be really difficult because I have two voices in my head going at each other, one lazy and the other demanding. And I feel like trash when I don't accomplish the tasks that I'd set - INTP
Absolutely amazing advice. I can confirm, taking that leap of faith after being lost and depressed in my early twenties was the greatest thing i ever did. Yes it was terrifying, and I had no idea what I was doing, but it was what made me grow. Now, I think I have to do it again because I got too complacent. Time to take another dip in the ocean.
Fuck this is so accurate from an infp.... I m lazy af and iam trying to change it....i started writing dairy journal since 41 days doing meditation doing exercise uninstalled games but still i can't see the results yet and i feel like giving up but still I am going on..... Thanks for recommending the book .. I will read it
Hey Chase! Relate heavily to a lot of your points and lived a life full of fear and hedonism throughout a lot of my early twenties that set me back a lot. Thankfully, although I’m not perfect now, I’ve replaced a lot of my bad habits with healthy ones, and am looking to move to a new place where I don’t know anyone in order to continue my growth without as many distractions. Keep up the great work!
These types should have a family young…. Over and over you will see through the things motivating you and the duty to people who depend on you is the only thing that will keep you consistently moving in those periods where you are vulnerable to apathy and laziness. This time period … there isn’t much social value placed on what your minds have to offer… so unless you are an extreme outlier who builds something that overcomes that resistance and continually places demands on you…. close relationships that do value and need you os really crucial IMO.
Hey CS Joseph I have a question. I know the example of getting out of the comfort zone and exposing yourself works for most types, but considering that the INFP/INTP have Si Child wouldn't that be considered "child abuse"? Those two are the types that struggle by far the most in this type of situation, and I have seen some examples of parents forcing the INTP/INFP children to live alone and it did not turn well, in fact they got worst. Don't you think it would be better if the inferior functions were the ones pushed instead (since they are the ones that focus on growth the most)? For the INFP the ideal would be to push his Te inferior, so threatening his authority and reputation can force him to do what needs to be done to protect it. For the INTP the ideal is to push his Fe Inferior so exposing that the INTP is a bad human being with no value can make him stand up for it. Then if that doesn't work, then they can go for the Si Child indeed. But attacking the child should be last resort, and I have seen so many INFPs/INTPs who had their child function threatened and they protected it with all might, and in the end instead of helping them grow they got even worst.
@@felixthecat2786 I didn't say that staying in the comfort zone is good. I said that for those two types INFP/INTP improving their inferior function might be better to help them improve and eventually they can leave their comfort zone on their own volition instead of having someone else threatening constantly their Si Child.
@@reload6887 Things like exposing stuff to other people so other people can think lower of them. Therefore he loses authority and status. Therefore he loses power.
Went back to school this fall to prove my worth to myself and someone else. Relationship didn’t turn into anything (ISTP, lol) and I found myself with 17 units and a job in responsible for and nobody that loves me 😂. It’s been hard but I’ve stuck with it. I’m looking forward to making something of myself. I can see why you say what you do about unhealthy INxPs. There are still lies I’m shaving to burn away on my own because my family doesn’t know how. They never pushed me and I was really sheltered growing up. I had every opportunity to push myself as well but didn’t take them-that disgusts me as well. But I’m not scared anymore. You’ve helped a lot, chase. Thank you.
16:34 It can be a result of frustration in dealing with the more sociable E types that leads the InTp to yanking the chair. I doubt there are any other types who are more frequently buttered up by the sweet talking extroverts and made to feel accepted and secure in the validity of having a true emotional connection with them or with a social group of friends in order to get the In-p to perform some difficult task or use their technical abilities to repair or correctly set up things that other types dont quite understand only to watch that emotional connection they thought existed evaporate the minute that the actual real world work is finished. The trust faith and sense of belonging that an In-p struggles to develop with others is their weakness that many other less thoughtful but more socially adept types use to get the In-p to dedicate themselves to a task or cause knowing that the In-p will believe in and want that connection that is so difficult for them to make with others. The In-p type elates in what seems to be a real emotional connection with others of the group only to find themselves excluded from the companionship and social acceptance that they desired. It's too often a case of "Oh I'm so glad were friends. Thank you for helping to get the sound and lighting systems up and working correctly. This is going to be the best party ever, that you're not invited to. But thanks for all your help. The whole gang is really going to love it. I'll let you know how it turns out." This plays out repeatedly for an InTp who over time becomes more and more isolated and pissed off about being emotionally manipulated and deceived by an individual or even the entire group. Eventually the In-p gets to the point of feeling depressed and hopeless about ever having any real friends or meeting someone to be intimate with. Being used this way and then abandoned by people who dont care in the least about how much their deceptions hurt others can lead to a real bad case of "Fuck you, fuck you and fuck YOU too!" The In-p types are thought to be less emotional but that's not true. We are more emotional in our inner worlds because we value the, for what us is rare, emotional bonds we make. Or beLIEve we've made.
I remember your videos about INTPs got me out of a rut and motivated me to improve myself. Now I no longer can relate to your description of INTP's hedonism
Don’t get overconfident, it will come back so keep up the work. I’ve noticed not falling back into my old ways is something I will always struggle with, but the effort is well worth the reward
What a juicy punch for the inferior function. Thing is I see through that kind manipulation and in my opinion it is essential to wake up some of those decadents to real life. Maybe I would be critical of you were trying to pull some bullshit by shaming INXPs, but because it's done with the good intention of yours, I kindly appreciate this kind of message. INTP
I have an INFP woman friend who is not power hungry at all. I wondered if she was a schizoid because she was so apathetic, unmotivated, unreactive, has zero interest in politics and eats junk and games for hours daily. She is a wonderful person but her life is totally unstructured. She says every day that she will clean her room, but never does. She can barely walk in it. She doesn't seem interested in power at all. I think INFP's love social connectedness and feeling cared about.
I'm at the point where im semi-successful but dont have the drive to push further ): im in hedonism while not being a failure. I think I need to find a way to torture myself
Are you sure INTPs are most likely to be obese? I ask this because Enneagram 5 is suppose to be generally thin. And as an INTP I can see the logic of not overeating just because it feels good.
I see your point here as an INTP Enneagram 5w4. I myself never really had any weight issues, albeit I struggled with self esteem during my teen years and during my 20’s. I also never met an INTP that was obese. Only my INTP closest friend is about 60 pounds overweight only because he is forced to sit on a wheel chair for long periods of time. Before his accident, which caused him to be partially paralyzed, he was athletic and thin.
@@GHOSTCICERO Lmao, true! I used to have that one INFJ friend that was really overweight. She winded up door slamming me a few years back. The one that I still have is slightly overweight, but not too, too bad. Lol
I bought the INFP page, and can't wait for the updates. Especially if there has been more about type-specific development because ultimately I believe that's the goal of all of this.
INxPs are either skinny or fat no in-between. though i am quite fit compared to your average INXP. There's nothing to disagree with, and i understand your disgust. it probably reminds you of your old self as well.
6:18 Hm. Honestly power and authority have never been strong motivators for me. I did jack (pun intended) shit as patrol leader in the Boy Scouts and being captain of my schools drum line hasn’t done much for me either in terms of motivation. But I’ll keep listening, still watching the vid lol.
One small problem: what do you do with the abused ones? Bitter ones? You yourself said INTPs are potentially the most dangerous when improperly raised. Sure in theory hardship should produce empathy and gratitude, but what if those where there but there was no self care are a result of a disfuntional to the core society, that produced disfuntional parents and families. Best case scenario, you abandoned the INP and they succeed, most likely they kill themselves slow or fast ( sad, but to be expected), but what if they aquire the strength and discipline but never let go of the bitterness. Or is this the " par to course" social self district button for a social system beyond the point of no return? Not saying that any of the information in this lesson is wrong, but could there be something missing?
As an INTP loser, I do understand the nic usage...it helps my active, but still a loser, brain compute things very fast....I do wish I was extroverted like you though.
Good one. I am wondering what you think about trauma theory and how it applies to your theories of typing? For me this is the main topic in life and sort of "philosopher stone". As well in regards to sloth I think dismantling those "trance states" of numbing out etc. Trough proper therapy is the best way to get past it. There is an INxP guy called Stephen Wolinsky who wrote imo veryy good books on this topic.
99% angry rant, 1% advice. (Be fearless and get out of your comfort zone.) 😂 Was expecting concrete tips. Please change title accordingly to “How can INPs Stop Being Lazy and Useless? CS Joseph Rants.” Seriously it’s not how to motivate us, at least not me. Gimme some inspiration man. You almost got me with Einstein. Btw, some other famous INFPs (because I once heard you say Robert Greene was the most famous iNFP…) lol. Really? Uh, how about Shakespeare? Tolkien? They wrote a thing or two that stood the test of time. Instead of angry shaming (I see through to your good heart here trying to help, though-but even if there’s a cognitive awareness and temporary jolt, that doesn’t last-and not everyone can afford to be nor should be starved on the street or thrown into a waterfall). We INPs actually need concrete tips on process, inspiration, and how to access our obsessions and life callings to create in a way that is sustainable. This INFP got an MFA in poetry and has had a career as a writer and creative director for a couple of decades, but now turning to fiction, it’s still hard with Si child to develop those habits that feel good, to trick me into creating through new sensory routines.
I know. I like what you do, if I didn’t I wouldn’t keep coming back. I am just giving you a hard time… and I figured if you dished it, you could take it too. ;)
and also, guess what… bc I’ve been taking in a lot of your content on INFPs and INTP. I can see your heart of gold and doing what you think you have figured out to push us. And you’re not wrong, for temporary change, but it doesn’t create lasting change. INPs already feel like complete shit about ourselves 99% of the time. We don’t have confidence in the things we feel and think, and it’s hard for us to believe in ourselves, no matter what affability, apathy or chill-ness is portrayed on the outside. I think INPs are the hardest on themselves. the low self -esteem is what keeps us in our cycles. yes INTJs have it too but at least they don’t care as much, and they have their goals to reorient to. ENFJs may struggle to believe in themselves but they have their ‘others’ to focus on and take care of which brings them meaning. INFJs even have a plan and more focus on that INPs. What INPs need is sustained focus, which must come from purpose + inspiration + obsession. Bc even if we get temporary break-through, it is hard to sustain. So I’m letting you know, shaming and guilt trips and “group interventions” will not work in the long run. We may react temporarily “the right way” by externally responding the way that we know everyone wants to see, but deep down it can breed resentment, distrust, disgust, and further alienation from the person who was trying to help, because they just didn’t get us. We don’t believe in ourselves. INPs can be stubborn too, walking away is our greatest power, and we use it to protect ourselves, usually from people who don’t understand us. We need to be understood before we can be helped. In my life I’ve only had 2 people who truly did, and I’m very lucky to have them. I’m where I am today because of them. Through their unflagging support I’ve been able to fly, believe in myself, and write my ass off. INPs already have little confidence in bringing their ideas to the world. That’s why we need the status and power structure you speak of, to give grounding to and balance out our personal lack of power. If you want to truly empower INPs from the inside out, we need people to see us, believe in us, help us connect ourselves to our obsession and purpose. Then, forget about it. You will have to get out of our way! We will create all the amazing things that we were made to create, and bring lots of beauty, utility and truth to the world. Because INPs are truly gentle souls that feel and think deeply, can feel pummeled by the world, and yet are connected to divine truths and beauty that need to be expressed here on earth (look at van Gogh, Debussy, Tolkien, Bob Dylan, Orwell, Kierkegaard, Mr Rogers, Einstein, Lincoln, Darwin). Anyway, feeling self-conscious that this is getting long. Thanks for reading. Your channel and content are powerful, and people listen to you, you clearly impact people, which is why I took the time and energy today to write this comment in hopes you would listen. Thanks for what you do.
@@badpoetry33 whoa....you got triggered and have an unmet emotional need here. observation #1. observation #2 stop projecting your unmet emotional needs on a content creator who has his own agenda for the content that he creates and shares. observation #3 idealism personified in what you expected this content to do for you. Wow.
I would love to know are INFPs born, or are they result of the types and way they are raised in childhood? As my sister is almost opposite to me very focussed goal oriented and forceful.
Hi Chase, do you think Infp or Intp single parent tends to raise children end up being the same mbti type? This trend occurs to me, my friend and my other friend's child...
Most sites I’ve seen that address this question usually report the Buddha was an INTP; I’ve practiced Theravada pretty intensely in the past and was curious about this too.
From his life story he seems affiliative. Also interest, decision to just sit under a tree until something happens doesn't sound like systematic to me.. Since he was wandering around the country, he didn't come off as a person who chooses to experience fixed variety of reality like xxxj types, thus perceiving.
@@imjustapenguinguys he gave up princehood, all the wealth he had, his wife and child, his kingdom, ignore the prophecy that said he would rule the entire subcontinent and have all the power just to find his own path to enlightenment. He tried conventional methods of doing this by starving only to realize he must find his own way. Broke the three philosophies of sukha, nithya and athma. He went against most things in india. So i think he is an pragmatic Ni user. Sympathy was also a big part of buddhism (aththupanayaka dharma) so most likely he is an Fi user. Not sure about systematic or interest. However he approached everyone the same way and did not blend to fit to his listeners. Chase said he is an INTJ so i am going with it.
Einstein was credited with discovery of theories he didn't personally fully accept. He believed in the ether that constitutes the material irreducible that must exist for any types of waveform to travel through. By the way the force vector angle that would have to exist between gravity pulling towards the center of a spherical Earth and the lateral pull of angular velocity along the axis of rotation would go from a 90* right angle at the poles to a 0* angle or direct opposite at the equator. The only place the 2 forces could find balance and obviously the only place water could find level. Newtonian mechanics proves easily that Earth cannot be a spinning ball with gravity "pulling" towards the center otherwise all oceans would be in a disk above the surface at the equator. This is not what we observe therefore we're not on a spinning ball. The cult of Scientism and NASA is filled with lies that even most highly intellectual people still fall for.
If you are a man, then you just gotta find the pleasure in maximizing muscles, affluence and game, because then you will get: *STATUS, MONEY, SEX* - it's basically a built-in "purpose of life". You may say that it's "shallow" or whatever, but it still puts you in a better position, doesn't it?
@@CSJoseph woops! social blunder, i apologise. It was a question after you talking about your early years I think in 2009. I was building a timeline in my head of you and in general someone's life stages - when someone changes, when people start to fully become adults. I've found it starts on the brink of being 30.
@@sylviaowega3839 🙈 i can hear my enfj bestie pulling me back after i've asked it. Se trickster not being aware of what experience we're giving? - infp
@@bonnielass277 Well … I do know for a fact that ENFJ’s have a much greater social awareness than us INTP’s; -and even more than you INFP’s. I know because 3 of my other friends are ENFJ’s, whilst one is an INFJ and the other an E/NTJ. My Se is unfortunately inferior and not being used very often, although those ENFJ’s seem to enjoy picking my brains. Lol
INTP here. First of all, you’re talking about hedonism while smoking a cigar 😂😂. Not that I care lol, do you you’re awesome. That said, here are my thoughts on the content. As an INTP, I do agree about a tendency to love my comfort zone. I also agree in the intp case it’s not laziness. Though I can definitely be lazy, I can and do push myself out of laziness. In fact I do work pretty hard to push myself. And the problem I’ve encountered is actually pushing myself too hard, past my limits, to the point where I metaphorically collapse. Then I’m in recovery mode. So idk, I want to take your point but I don’t think it’s that simple. CS Joseph or others with insight please lmk what you think.
@@reload6887 intp here- in the same position right now. I feel brain blocked. I know I can accomplish a lot, as you said surpass and exceed. But then I end up exhausted, taking long breaks that end all productivity. How would an INTP remain consistently productive? I know more can be done I just don’t have the energy. Btw I also work nights that will explain some of the exhaustion.
@@reload6887 lol, it was ment for c.s. Since you were already on the topic. Yes, routines can help. I just have a problem enforcing discipline to keep those good habits . Lack of motivation and tiredness keep me stagnant.
@@blop711 the main problem that a lot of people who rely on logic (and intps do a lot) encounter is that they will suppress their emotions. As a fellow intp at this moment i am learning to recognise my feelings and to conduct myself in such a way that my suppressed emotions don't negatively impact my logic, because when that happens, I get that moment of "fall" after which I have to recover
Hmmm this kinda stuff makes me think I’m not infp… I’m not really lazy. Add me back on insta Also I know you would have made an informed decision about your cigar smoking - which is making me think there’s other thing going on
INFPS ADVICE
- Read! Read! READ ( become articulate/eloquent )
-self Discipline ( if you say you going to do something do it!)
-HAVE a schedule (I have a yearly planner)
-stop victimizing yourself!!!! (but forgive yourself also we can be hard on ourselves)
-Go to the GYM!! (especially if you're female)
-Save some money ( thanks to TE infr.)
-Learn a new instrument ( I learned the🎹)
- dress to impress ( MY ESTJ mom got it right on this, it does Make a difference how people treat you)
-go out and make friends ( meetup, bumble, volunteer, school, gym etc thats how I did)
-Solo travel ( trust me on this one)
-Practice gratitude ( before you step foot out of bed I know is cringey but it does help)
-Have a self care routine at least at night
-Clean your House( this is therapy for me )
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We are triple outcome so we want things to work out asap but I started lil by lil step by step before you knew it I was fully progressing.
DROP YOUR ADVICE BELLOW⬇️
Do shadow work, throw away your morality mask.
@@Pheonix1111 wow, “Stop dreaming Your Life away” GREAT ONE!
The gym 'especially female' advice seems off to me. Intense gym exercise can influence your period and therefore fertility, so it doesn't make sense at all to me that this advice is 'especially female', it should be the opposite.
Omg thank you and I'll Google shadow work
@@melino9709 did you feel like giving up?? I often feel like this it's been 41 days since I've been doing mediation, daily journaling, exercising, but I've got no motivation to study or learn new things which I know I'm a little in touch wid it how did you recommend you solve this problem.... I always feel lazy ... Pls give advice I want to improve and yeah if you got any tips for social anxiety pls share your thoughts
coming back to get roasted let's go
I’ll do anything to get roasted by Joseph no I really liked the criticism and I really understand what your putting down.
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We are searching a guaranteed outcome, it could be a guaranteed failure, and staying in the bed fulfill the premise.
As an INTP, I can see so much truth in this. I recognize incredible potential in myself, but I'm just so damn lazy. I've actually achieved a lot in the past, but always find a way to sabotage myself. I literally did the "shock and awe" thing of moving to another country by myself. It helped me grow a lot, but it's still a struggle to continuously move out of my comfort zone.
INFP here. Wow CS Joseph is SPOT ON. At one point in my youth I didn't care at all about being in the streets, somehow that seemed like the only way out of the Si child loop I was in. I watched this video with my INTP husband and he spent his 20s living all over the world. CS Joseph said exactly what my husband told me: the reason he moved to a new environment every few months to a year was to be on survival mode from the get go. You are cynically accurate. All the CS Joseph haters are just in denial ...
I hate to say it but he's always spot on about how disgusting we INFPs can be. And my parents just keep providing a nest for me and actually like having me there as I help with lots of things. I've become the useful child. Now it's like..... I can see where I may never leave as I'm simply not disciplined enough to reach my full potential. I have always done so much better in my life when I've been completely alone, or travelling alone, in another country alone. All of this. I'm capable of huge strength and creativity and have done crazy things nobody else would dare do when I've literally had to survive. I seem to have a very strong survival instinct that kicks in. But once you get stuck back in the comfort zone you really are stuck. Physically and mentally. And stop trying. I can see I'm going to have to cut off from everyone at this point in my life and go it alone.
As an INTP I constantly have to battle with myself to get out of bed. It took me 2 years just to find a new job because I got too comfortable at Amazon. On my days off im extremely hedonistic. My most of my free time consists of smoking weed, eating, playing Rust, and watching UA-cam. I have noticed the only time I actually go out of my comfort zone is when I'm forced too.
How old are you
@@Sam-ng3of 23
Lol I can relate to the smoking weed and playing rust part (as an INFP)
I don't know if this is helpful, but so many people feel uncomfortable with their jobs and generally their lives. You're not alone in this sentiment. I forced myself to move away in a situation that was 100% out of my comfort zone because I was sick of where I was in my life. It was hard, but it taught me a lot and allowed me to experience profoundly beautiful things.
If you are terribly bored, think of all of the beautiful things out there that you could enjoy if you just took a chance
You're a software development engineer in Amazon?
INTP here. It's true. You have to face adversity, or seek it out. I think I was at my lowest when all I had to my name was a room I rented (no kitchen, no phone). I was so broke I had to heat up my canned soup (it was all I could afford) in a little coffee maker. No car, no license, and a mountain of legal issues to tackle (doing the time - may as well do the crime right?!). The public library was a beacon of light. Now I have a wife, a house, kids, and I work remotely. It's awesome. The specter of just saying "fuck it" comes back to haunt me on occasion. Sometimes you just need a little you time.
I too relied on the library
you are living exact same as my intp brother. I was always think at least he had a kid!
Thank you for your knowledge and guidance... I am lazy and stuck in my comfort zone. I know it's all on me to break these cycles so i can live and feel good about myself. Appreciate you.
INTP’s in a comfort zone are definitely bad news, as I myself used to be one. Going back to school, becoming a good parent to two children were the two best decisions I ever made
As an INTP my first job out of university was a teaching English job in Taiwan. Which was a trial by fire experience.
How long did you do it? What kind of things did you learn from the experience?
I'm INFP my brother INTP and we are both in comfort zones. Both not fulfilling full potential. But this is the year I'm changing it up as I'm tired of it.
*My need for a guaranteed outcome is destroying my life. What a weird way to exist!*
Same... Not even my psychotherapist knows how to help
I know that as an INTP female there was a point where I gave up on live because of the fact that I got bullied at school so badly for being different. I dropped out just a few credits short and started working. After nearly 10 years I decided to go back to school after getting fired from multiple jobs, having countless failed relationships and realized how lazy I was. I was just fortunate that I was still on the attractive side and didn’t have weight issues.
you sound like me but no university for me.
I'm an INTP and I struggled with these things for a long time. I ended up losing everything and going into survival mode. I had to figure it out and find a way to get what I needed. I caused a lot of problems for myself by being complacent and not trying harder. Finding out about personality types and understanding who I am helped out a lot. (No Thyself) I cut everyone out of my life and went out on my own to face my fear and test my beliefs. I watched a video where someone said you need to go stand on deadly ground which meant no turning back like you had no choice. They said there were soldiers who went out on boats and after landing on shore they would burn the boats and have to face off with another army in front of them which gave them a sense of assertiveness and helped them win the battle. What will you do when your back is against the wall? I'm all by myself and barely surviving but as a man you have a responsibility to yourself and you must do whatever it takes to live independently on your own without a need for others. You must stop caring about what other people are doing and thinking. I'm not where I want to be but I'm a lot closer and a lot happier. Good luck on your journey. 👍😊
I did always felt the following: I need to lose everything, before i can see my path again.
Guess i haven't lost enough.
Couldn't agree more, sometimes the light-switch is at the end of the hallway... And by the time you find that light-switch you could've already conquered your fear of the dark.
As an intp, i feel the same.
As an INTP, as soon as I'm in my comfort zone, I'm falling down, don't want to do anything, making excuses to convince myself to stay in the comfort zone.
I'm not a "typical" INTP, I love sports and doing martial arts from age 5, I'm 24 and training in Krav Maga and I see that even when I get a less skilled opponent to spar with I won't do my best because my confidence is too high as result of knowing I can easily win and this makes me to try less hard and actually perform bad in oppose to low confidence with stronger opponent, I do my best only in stressful situations.
Also, only when I got in really really stressful reality, as a result of learning the hard way by failing myself and not learning from others mistakes(also a problem I struggle with) and losing huge amounts of money, only then I tried study by myself software development and found out that I actually very good at it and have potential in it and today working in the field as self thought developer.
If there were no deadlines or stress I would keep gaming 12 hours a day...I even keep my financial balance as low as I can(moving money to savings) because I understood that when I see that I got some safety I work less and start to procrastinate.
I'm having thoughts about being an entrepreneur later in life but I can't decide or act about it due to much of analysis paralysis and how this will affect me as an INTP, It's interesting that the people surrounding me are freelancers who are ESTP, ESTJ and ENTJ which make me thinking every time that I'm not good enough, they really don't give any value besides just being good with people and managing them.
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As an INTP in my 30s, who just got back from a year away to S Korea, this is great advice. Before going though, you should build up a little mental resistance through knowledge in psychology so that you have the techniques to survive when things go bad, but you have to put yourself in an environment you are not comfortable with to widen your comfort zone
6 years ago I took a one-year course in self-discipline. I can discipline myself to do anything. So what if I have no idea what I would use it for? I exercise, I changed my diet, no sweets, no junk food, no Netflix, no weed, no alcohol, no games. Nobody cares or they even feel threatened. It doesn't bring me any joy, it doesn't give me a sense of achievement or purpose. I use apathy for not to stop it. It's not a victory, it's just changing one shit for another. I'm not a movement type, I don't appreciate change, only results. People don't care, it's not more interesting, it doesn't make me feel better. But I have to be an adult and swim anywhere, even though swimming seems pointless.
Do you see INxPs as I do, as coal that needs to be subjected to pressure (stress) in order to form a diamond ("improved INxPs")?
I'm watching a guy chugging on a cigar telling me I need to change my habits.
I really needed this tough love. Thank you C.S. Joseph.
I must say it's a real struggle but I try to be more productive everyday and achieve little goals daily that build up over time. I think I'm developing my unconscious (ENTJ) and sometimes can be really difficult because I have two voices in my head going at each other, one lazy and the other demanding. And I feel like trash when I don't accomplish the tasks that I'd set - INTP
Absolutely amazing advice. I can confirm, taking that leap of faith after being lost and depressed in my early twenties was the greatest thing i ever did. Yes it was terrifying, and I had no idea what I was doing, but it was what made me grow. Now, I think I have to do it again because I got too complacent. Time to take another dip in the ocean.
Fuck this is so accurate from an infp.... I m lazy af and iam trying to change it....i started writing dairy journal since 41 days doing meditation doing exercise uninstalled games but still i can't see the results yet and i feel like giving up but still I am going on..... Thanks for recommending the book .. I will read it
With intps the river turns to a swamp
With infps the river freezes
Hey Chase! Relate heavily to a lot of your points and lived a life full of fear and hedonism throughout a lot of my early twenties that set me back a lot. Thankfully, although I’m not perfect now, I’ve replaced a lot of my bad habits with healthy ones, and am looking to move to a new place where I don’t know anyone in order to continue my growth without as many distractions. Keep up the great work!
These types should have a family young…. Over and over you will see through the things motivating you and the duty to people who depend on you is the only thing that will keep you consistently moving in those periods where you are vulnerable to apathy and laziness. This time period … there isn’t much social value placed on what your minds have to offer… so unless you are an extreme outlier who builds something that overcomes that resistance and continually places demands on you…. close relationships that do value and need you os really crucial IMO.
someone should make a meme: how INXPs go to bed knowing they are the most undesirable and nothing but a disgusting rotting burden
Hey CS Joseph I have a question. I know the example of getting out of the comfort zone and exposing yourself works for most types, but considering that the INFP/INTP have Si Child wouldn't that be considered "child abuse"? Those two are the types that struggle by far the most in this type of situation, and I have seen some examples of parents forcing the INTP/INFP children to live alone and it did not turn well, in fact they got worst. Don't you think it would be better if the inferior functions were the ones pushed instead (since they are the ones that focus on growth the most)?
For the INFP the ideal would be to push his Te inferior, so threatening his authority and reputation can force him to do what needs to be done to protect it. For the INTP the ideal is to push his Fe Inferior so exposing that the INTP is a bad human being with no value can make him stand up for it. Then if that doesn't work, then they can go for the Si Child indeed. But attacking the child should be last resort, and I have seen so many INFPs/INTPs who had their child function threatened and they protected it with all might, and in the end instead of helping them grow they got even worst.
Seems like the opposite to me. Staying in your comfort zone over and over for your entire life is self abuse.
@@felixthecat2786 I didn't say that staying in the comfort zone is good. I said that for those two types INFP/INTP improving their inferior function might be better to help them improve and eventually they can leave their comfort zone on their own volition instead of having someone else threatening constantly their Si Child.
@@reload6887 Things like exposing stuff to other people so other people can think lower of them. Therefore he loses authority and status. Therefore he loses power.
true that
the powerlessness is paradoxical. you need power to change things, including yourself
You are the only inspiration I need every now and then -intp
Thank you for this episode. I really needed to hear this. I love your book recommendations, and I can't wait to read The 50th Power
Went back to school this fall to prove my worth to myself and someone else. Relationship didn’t turn into anything (ISTP, lol) and I found myself with 17 units and a job in responsible for and nobody that loves me 😂. It’s been hard but I’ve stuck with it. I’m looking forward to making something of myself. I can see why you say what you do about unhealthy INxPs. There are still lies I’m shaving to burn away on my own because my family doesn’t know how. They never pushed me and I was really sheltered growing up. I had every opportunity to push myself as well but didn’t take them-that disgusts me as well. But I’m not scared anymore. You’ve helped a lot, chase. Thank you.
16:34 It can be a result of frustration in dealing with the more sociable E types that leads the InTp to yanking the chair. I doubt there are any other types who are more frequently buttered up by the sweet talking extroverts and made to feel accepted and secure in the validity of having a true emotional connection with them or with a social group of friends in order to get the In-p to perform some difficult task or use their technical abilities to repair or correctly set up things that other types dont quite understand only to watch that emotional connection they thought existed evaporate the minute that the actual real world work is finished. The trust faith and sense of belonging that an In-p struggles to develop with others is their weakness that many other less thoughtful but more socially adept types use to get the In-p to dedicate themselves to a task or cause knowing that the In-p will believe in and want that connection that is so difficult for them to make with others. The In-p type elates in what seems to be a real emotional connection with others of the group only to find themselves excluded from the companionship and social acceptance that they desired. It's too often a case of "Oh I'm so glad were friends. Thank you for helping to get the sound and lighting systems up and working correctly. This is going to be the best party ever, that you're not invited to. But thanks for all your help. The whole gang is really going to love it. I'll let you know how it turns out."
This plays out repeatedly for an InTp who over time becomes more and more isolated and pissed off about being emotionally manipulated and deceived by an individual or even the entire group. Eventually the In-p gets to the point of feeling depressed and hopeless about ever having any real friends or meeting someone to be intimate with. Being used this way and then abandoned by people who dont care in the least about how much their deceptions hurt others can lead to a real bad case of "Fuck you, fuck you and fuck YOU too!" The In-p types are thought to be less emotional but that's not true. We are more emotional in our inner worlds because we value the, for what us is rare, emotional bonds we make. Or beLIEve we've made.
I remember your videos about INTPs got me out of a rut and motivated me to improve myself. Now I no longer can relate to your description of INTP's hedonism
Don’t get overconfident, it will come back so keep up the work. I’ve noticed not falling back into my old ways is something I will always struggle with, but the effort is well worth the reward
What a juicy punch for the inferior function. Thing is I see through that kind manipulation and in my opinion it is essential to wake up some of those decadents to real life. Maybe I would be critical of you were trying to pull some bullshit by shaming INXPs, but because it's done with the good intention of yours, I kindly appreciate this kind of message.
INTP
I have an INFP woman friend who is not power hungry at all. I wondered if she was a schizoid because she was so apathetic, unmotivated, unreactive, has zero interest in politics and eats junk and games for hours daily. She is a wonderful person but her life is totally unstructured. She says every day that she will clean her room, but never does. She can barely walk in it. She doesn't seem interested in power at all. I think INFP's love social connectedness and feeling cared about.
*My ISTP Demon: "Life's a journey."*
*Me: "What's a journey?"*
Journey is nothing without mood.
Dude, loving the intro!
I'm at the point where im semi-successful but dont have the drive to push further ): im in hedonism while not being a failure. I think I need to find a way to torture myself
Are you sure INTPs are most likely to be obese? I ask this because Enneagram 5 is suppose to be generally thin. And as an INTP I can see the logic of not overeating just because it feels good.
I’ve actually seen more INTJs/INFJs who are obese then INxPs. That’s just from my experience though..mostly INTJs though.
Sorry I’m dumb but what does having 5 enneagram have to do with being thin
I see your point here as an INTP Enneagram 5w4. I myself never really had any weight issues, albeit I struggled with self esteem during my teen years and during my 20’s. I also never met an INTP that was obese. Only my INTP closest friend is about 60 pounds overweight only because he is forced to sit on a wheel chair for long periods of time. Before his accident, which caused him to be partially paralyzed, he was athletic and thin.
@@sylviaowega3839 yeah, exactly. I rarely see any INXPs that are obese it’s all the INXJs that I have seen that are.
@@GHOSTCICERO Lmao, true! I used to have that one INFJ friend that was really overweight. She winded up door slamming me a few years back. The one that I still have is slightly overweight, but not too, too bad. Lol
2 episodes in one day, yes!!
I think it was a glitch, but yay!
I bought the INFP page, and can't wait for the updates. Especially if there has been more about type-specific development because ultimately I believe that's the goal of all of this.
How can one purchase only the infp page please? Any link? Ty
Am interested only in infp and infj rehated content for now
INxPs are either skinny or fat no in-between. though i am quite fit compared to your average INXP.
There's nothing to disagree with, and i understand your disgust.
it probably reminds you of your old self as well.
How did you became quite fit
@@pinklasagna8328 working out, and cycling.
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Hm. Honestly power and authority have never been strong motivators for me. I did jack (pun intended) shit as patrol leader in the Boy Scouts and being captain of my schools drum line hasn’t done much for me either in terms of motivation. But I’ll keep listening, still watching the vid lol.
It's almost like infps were made for meditation
Or infps made meditation...
Thanks for the video. Lazy INFP: P
"They're probably going to stay in bed." me watching this while in bed 😳😂
I understand your perspective 100%. I am an INTP. But I don't think this is the take of an ENTP.
Shinji Ikari almost disliked this video, but Asuka told me to stop him or else she would have killed him.
One small problem: what do you do with the abused ones? Bitter ones? You yourself said INTPs are potentially the most dangerous when improperly raised. Sure in theory hardship should produce empathy and gratitude, but what if those where there but there was no self care are a result of a disfuntional to the core society, that produced disfuntional parents and families. Best case scenario, you abandoned the INP and they succeed, most likely they kill themselves slow or fast ( sad, but to be expected), but what if they aquire the strength and discipline but never let go of the bitterness. Or is this the " par to course" social self district button for a social system beyond the point of no return? Not saying that any of the information in this lesson is wrong, but could there be something missing?
As an INTP loser, I do understand the nic usage...it helps my active, but still a loser, brain compute things very fast....I do wish I was extroverted like you though.
Thank you C.S. Joseph, may I have another!?
Plz make a video about si and se sensations
Yep. That's what I did to a Nice Guy INTP five years ago. Never looked back since.
This is really challenging, but a challenge worth doing. Been doing that in certain areas of my life, but most of the time I still fall on it.
What deadly sin would apply to the infj?
Lust.
Good one. I am wondering what you think about trauma theory and how it applies to your theories of typing? For me this is the main topic in life and sort of "philosopher stone". As well in regards to sloth I think dismantling those "trance states" of numbing out etc. Trough proper therapy is the best way to get past it. There is an INxP guy called Stephen Wolinsky who wrote imo veryy good books on this topic.
thank u for this info. I will look for the book. bcse I think trauma is difficult
Well presented.
Thank you.
Cs Joseph, do you know of any INFP fitness gurus or mentors that I can learn from?
99% angry rant, 1% advice. (Be fearless and get out of your comfort zone.) 😂 Was expecting concrete tips. Please change title accordingly to “How can INPs Stop Being Lazy and Useless? CS Joseph Rants.” Seriously it’s not how to motivate us, at least not me. Gimme some inspiration man. You almost got me with Einstein. Btw, some other famous INFPs (because I once heard you say Robert Greene was the most famous iNFP…) lol. Really? Uh, how about Shakespeare? Tolkien? They wrote a thing or two that stood the test of time.
Instead of angry shaming (I see through to your good heart here trying to help, though-but even if there’s a cognitive awareness and temporary jolt, that doesn’t last-and not everyone can afford to be nor should be starved on the street or thrown into a waterfall). We INPs actually need concrete tips on process, inspiration, and how to access our obsessions and life callings to create in a way that is sustainable. This INFP got an MFA in poetry and has had a career as a writer and creative director for a couple of decades, but now turning to fiction, it’s still hard with Si child to develop those habits that feel good, to trick me into creating through new sensory routines.
Guess what, I don’t care. I do what I do, if you don’t like it, no skin off my nose.
I know. I like what you do, if I didn’t I wouldn’t keep coming back. I am just giving you a hard time… and I figured if you dished it, you could take it too. ;)
and also, guess what… bc I’ve been taking in a lot of your content on INFPs and INTP. I can see your heart of gold and doing what you think you have figured out to push us. And you’re not wrong, for temporary change, but it doesn’t create lasting change. INPs already feel like complete shit about ourselves 99% of the time. We don’t have confidence in the things we feel and think, and it’s hard for us to believe in ourselves, no matter what affability, apathy or chill-ness is portrayed on the outside. I think INPs are the hardest on themselves. the low self -esteem is what keeps us in our cycles. yes INTJs have it too but at least they don’t care as much, and they have their goals to reorient to. ENFJs may struggle to believe in themselves but they have their ‘others’ to focus on and take care of which brings them meaning. INFJs even have a plan and more focus on that INPs. What INPs need is sustained focus, which must come from purpose + inspiration + obsession. Bc even if we get temporary break-through, it is hard to sustain. So I’m letting you know, shaming and guilt trips and “group interventions” will not work in the long run. We may react temporarily “the right way” by externally responding the way that we know everyone wants to see, but deep down it can breed resentment, distrust, disgust, and further alienation from the person who was trying to help, because they just didn’t get us. We don’t believe in ourselves. INPs can be stubborn too, walking away is our greatest power, and we use it to protect ourselves, usually from people who don’t understand us. We need to be understood before we can be helped. In my life I’ve only had 2 people who truly did, and I’m very lucky to have them. I’m where I am today because of them. Through their unflagging support I’ve been able to fly, believe in myself, and write my ass off. INPs already have little confidence in bringing their ideas to the world. That’s why we need the status and power structure you speak of, to give grounding to and balance out our personal lack of power. If you want to truly empower INPs from the inside out, we need people to see us, believe in us, help us connect ourselves to our obsession and purpose. Then, forget about it. You will have to get out of our way! We will create all the amazing things that we were made to create, and bring lots of beauty, utility and truth to the world. Because INPs are truly gentle souls that feel and think deeply, can feel pummeled by the world, and yet are connected to divine truths and beauty that need to be expressed here on earth (look at van Gogh, Debussy, Tolkien, Bob Dylan, Orwell, Kierkegaard, Mr Rogers, Einstein, Lincoln, Darwin). Anyway, feeling self-conscious that this is getting long. Thanks for reading. Your channel and content are powerful, and people listen to you, you clearly impact people, which is why I took the time and energy today to write this comment in hopes you would listen. Thanks for what you do.
@@badpoetry33 whoa....you got triggered and have an unmet emotional need here. observation #1. observation #2 stop projecting your unmet emotional needs on a content creator who has his own agenda for the content that he creates and shares. observation #3 idealism personified in what you expected this content to do for you. Wow.
Thank you so much for the video
YUPP it’s disgusting!!! Thank you!!! 🙏🏻
I love food but i am not fat bc i am not prone to weight gain, lucky me lol and i dont eat every waking hour
-intp
I would love to know are INFPs born, or are they result of the types and way they are raised in childhood? As my sister is almost opposite to me very focussed goal oriented and forceful.
Why would shattering an infp's ego investments make them even worse?
Hi Chase, do you think Infp or Intp single parent tends to raise children end up being the same mbti type? This trend occurs to me, my friend and my other friend's child...
No, not at all
What brand ya smoking chase?
Kristoff and Laranja
I'm an intp, i didn't realize any my potential though. Idk.
It's very on point.
Omne die I will die anyway, so what's a point of doing anythimng ?
I'm working out my laziness now. 😔🤣
Thanks a lot. 💖💖💖
This is so true omg
Ouch. Thanks man.
Could someone perhaps tell what type is Sidharta Gautama?
Most sites I’ve seen that address this question usually report the Buddha was an INTP; I’ve practiced Theravada pretty intensely in the past and was curious about this too.
From his life story he seems affiliative. Also interest, decision to just sit under a tree until something happens doesn't sound like systematic to me..
Since he was wandering around the country, he didn't come off as a person who chooses to experience fixed variety of reality like xxxj types, thus perceiving.
@@imjustapenguinguys he gave up princehood, all the wealth he had, his wife and child, his kingdom, ignore the prophecy that said he would rule the entire subcontinent and have all the power just to find his own path to enlightenment. He tried conventional methods of doing this by starving only to realize he must find his own way. Broke the three philosophies of sukha, nithya and athma. He went against most things in india. So i think he is an pragmatic Ni user. Sympathy was also a big part of buddhism (aththupanayaka dharma) so most likely he is an Fi user. Not sure about systematic or interest. However he approached everyone the same way and did not blend to fit to his listeners. Chase said he is an INTJ so i am going with it.
@@pinklasagna8328 thanks
@@pinklasagna8328 Where did he say it though?
3:50 Made me laugh because that's so funking true. Lol.
Einstein was credited with discovery of theories he didn't personally fully accept. He believed in the ether that constitutes the material irreducible that must exist for any types of waveform to travel through. By the way the force vector angle that would have to exist between gravity pulling towards the center of a spherical Earth and the lateral pull of angular velocity along the axis of rotation would go from a 90* right angle at the poles to a 0* angle or direct opposite at the equator. The only place the 2 forces could find balance and obviously the only place water could find level. Newtonian mechanics proves easily that Earth cannot be a spinning ball with gravity "pulling" towards the center otherwise all oceans would be in a disk above the surface at the equator. This is not what we observe therefore we're not on a spinning ball. The cult of Scientism and NASA is filled with lies that even most highly intellectual people still fall for.
If you are a man, then you just gotta find the pleasure in maximizing muscles, affluence and game, because then you will get: *STATUS, MONEY, SEX* - it's basically a built-in "purpose of life".
You may say that it's "shallow" or whatever, but it still puts you in a better position, doesn't it?
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Couldn’t help but notice you have your Apple Watch upside down :P
Question, how to survive the icy sword of truth.
Call on your face and admit your wrongs. Beg for mercy and hope it will go your way.
Bro, I'm just wondering if we can play some WoW classic together 😂😂
Alot of good advice in this but the end went a bit off the rails.
I always go off the rails
How old are you Chase?
Asking men their age is as appropriate as asking a woman her age?
@@CSJoseph woops! social blunder, i apologise. It was a question after you talking about your early years I think in 2009. I was building a timeline in my head of you and in general someone's life stages - when someone changes, when people start to fully become adults. I've found it starts on the brink of being 30.
So is that an example of one of our INTP social blunders? Lol 😂
@@sylviaowega3839 🙈 i can hear my enfj bestie pulling me back after i've asked it. Se trickster not being aware of what experience we're giving? - infp
@@bonnielass277 Well … I do know for a fact that ENFJ’s have a much greater social awareness than us INTP’s; -and even more than you INFP’s. I know because 3 of my other friends are ENFJ’s, whilst one is an INFJ and the other an E/NTJ. My Se is unfortunately inferior and not being used very often, although those ENFJ’s seem to enjoy picking my brains. Lol
INTP here. First of all, you’re talking about hedonism while smoking a cigar 😂😂. Not that I care lol, do you you’re awesome. That said, here are my thoughts on the content.
As an INTP, I do agree about a tendency to love my comfort zone. I also agree in the intp case it’s not laziness. Though I can definitely be lazy, I can and do push myself out of laziness. In fact I do work pretty hard to push myself. And the problem I’ve encountered is actually pushing myself too hard, past my limits, to the point where I metaphorically collapse. Then I’m in recovery mode. So idk, I want to take your point but I don’t think it’s that simple. CS Joseph or others with insight please lmk what you think.
What does smoking a cigar have to do with hedonism? Are you assuming I smoke every day?
@@reload6887 intp here- in the same position right now. I feel brain blocked. I know I can accomplish a lot, as you said surpass and exceed. But then I end up exhausted, taking long breaks that end all productivity. How would an INTP remain consistently productive? I know more can be done I just don’t have the energy. Btw I also work nights that will explain some of the exhaustion.
@@reload6887 lol, it was ment for c.s. Since you were already on the topic. Yes, routines can help. I just have a problem enforcing discipline to keep those good habits . Lack of motivation and tiredness keep me stagnant.
You don't know how much he smokes.
@@blop711 the main problem that a lot of people who rely on logic (and intps do a lot) encounter is that they will suppress their emotions. As a fellow intp at this moment i am learning to recognise my feelings and to conduct myself in such a way that my suppressed emotions don't negatively impact my logic, because when that happens, I get that moment of "fall" after which I have to recover
16:26 😩
when did you start smoking so much, you should change that bad habbit@!
Andrew Tate wannabe
No thanks. I am a better me wannabe.
Hmmm this kinda stuff makes me think I’m not infp… I’m not really lazy. Add me back on insta
Also I know you would have made an informed decision about your cigar smoking - which is making me think there’s other thing going on