So, she made horrible life choices that ruined her life, and somehow this is OP's fault? Sounds like OP freed himself from two c-ncers instead of one...
Three. The reason he blamed himself was the guilt of failing his marriage, overcompensating at his own expense. So the mutation, the gilt, and the brat are all cancers he got rid of.
@@Fireice2929 we seniority every ambiguous word that a crazy actıvıst might find to offend their soy venti lattes, cause the algorythm is wild and there's no telling what words get your posts removed.
The fact the daughter expected him to just go crawling back, even believing he was either dead or still dying and expected him to do something for her, yeah naw, that was never gonna heppen, shes a horrible person for ever thinking that and doing the stuf she did.
The daughter ticked me off. Mainly because I have been in a similar situation. Dad had colon cancer and I was his caretaker. How cruel of a kid do you have to be to act like how she did
Facts. When my grandpa got sick, BOTH his daughters moved back to their home state to help my grandma take care of him. Uprooting our life wasn't easy, but I absolutely would do it again because my grandpa was an outstanding husband, father, and grandfather. I can't even imagine how selfish you'd have to be to abandon the person who helped raise you while they were DYING.
Story 1 : Honestly, just to be petty, were I the father... I would not only have disowned the biological daughter, but also, after her visit, made social posts with the new gf and her daughter, with captions like "happy true family", and made them the inheritors of the will XD.
@@MrArielK I don't know if it is true nor fake, nobody can know for sure other than OP. I was only expressing an hypothetical way of responding to such situation in story one.
@@renadu30 These are all fake, it’s pretty known. They’re AI stories. :P These channels have gone from Reddit only stories to AI stories they make themselves OR AI stories others have generated/prompted. It’s the common thing to do nowadays. Just don’t want you thinking these are real situations is all.
@@bakedandbeaded I'll just copy/paste my previous answer since you seemed to not adress it : " I don't know if it is true nor fake, nobody can know for sure other than OP. I was only expressing an hypothetical way of responding to such situation in story one."
I do not know how a 22 year old woman can do this to their own dad! My pop was diagnosed with cancer he was like a father figure to me and when I was 17 I dropped out of school moved states to look after him in his last months mind you op had a nurse, well my family didn’t I was a full time nurse for not only my pop who was dying at 17 and my nan as well who was also dying! I was 17 years old dropped out of school and move states to a town where I knew no one to look after my dying grandparents because no adults in my family would stand up and do it! I never regretted doing it I loved spending the last moments with them! The 22 year old daughter needs to be thrown out
Wow, just wow, this daughter is a waste of oxygen, i was raised by my grandparents as my mum abandoned me and my bio dad when i was 6 months old, when i was 17 my gramps got cancer (behind hos nase and wasnt diagnosed in time so it spread), i looked after him giving up college and then my job to look after him full time, yes in the last few weeks we had nurses come in (i was also a carer for my wheelchair bound nan) i wouldnt swap that time wiyh my gramps for all the money in the world even the weekend where he reacted to some meds and i only got a couple of hours sleep in 4 days, it was all worth it and even when he passed away and it was just me and my nan with him when he took his last breath, i wouldnt swap it at all. You dont look after loved ones for money you do it cos you love them and you want the best for them. I hope anyone suffering from cancer has loved ones supporting them and they all recover from this nasty disease 💖🤞💖
The video title I can understand because it probably has an impact on UA-cam's algorithm for showing the video to people, but yeah in the comments there's no real need to censor 'cancer' like people do
Why are other peoples trigger words anything to do with you? You don't need to be involved in this subject, but you are because you just have to be a special little snowflake ❄
My fathers cancer had an incredibly low survival rate, but I never once even considered the thought of abandoning him. I spent however much time I could, visiting him… though I wish I did more to increase that time. He tried getting approved for doctor assisted d**th, and wondered if it’s something I’d be willing to deal with, and of course I said I’d be there with him when it happened. But sadly, he wasn’t approved, and he had to endure many months slowly suffering till the bitter end. I was beside him when he finally passed. I love you dad… I love you so so much. I think about you every day.
Story #1 NTA What the hell in the end the daughter have the audacity to beg her father to not abandon her after she happily abandoned him on his potential "deathbed" and even returned hoping for inheritance, frankly she sounded less upset about him "abandoning" her and more upset that he wasn't "dead" and the inheritance in her hands along with the house to enjoy!!
You can't raise chidren without sometimes disciplining them, she never been told no Her father is dying and she's arguing about little thing with the nurse The god have mercy on her husband
She infuriates me. My mom and I were both sick and I was still there for her till her dying days I WISH my mommy were still here with me, yes I hold some negatives feelings towards her but I’d never have called her a burden or treated her the way this child did to her only parent that cared for her
I can understand the stress of being young and taking care of sick parents. I did the same thing with my parents injuring themselves beyond employment but sometimes you got to do the right thing. That's what i did. Balancing multiple jobs and full time school
I've heard an exact story, but with the wife and daughter leaving, then coming back for money thinking OP was dead Edit: Guys... guys... I did try to find it, but just by searching the Breif description, dozens of stories with the same premise came up. If I do find then I'll make another updateb
I can never understand how a child can just abandon their own parent during difficult times when they took such good care of their kids. And then she had the audacity to just come back and expect inheritance?! Damn, there's delulus, but she's on a whole other level.
I’m 16 and I have no problems looking after my sick dad. I understand it’s hard but it’s your father, you should be there. This story hits real close to home. She should help her dad, especially if a 16 year old (I’ve been looking after my dad for years, he’s been sick for 30 ish years but it’s getting worse. He Got bad in 2019 and I STILL looked after him) can do it.
Not that it isn’t a weird line but I find it funny that you find that line strange for a guy in his fifties saying a line like that instead of saying “dude” and “lol” I get some older people like to sound “fresh and cool” but let’s be honest no older person talks like that 😂
@@gamernerd5830Well, no. Its another giveaway. A lot of these stories are written in a way that just doesn’t sound like a real person. More like its an author describing a scene in a book. Which makes sense because most of these AI bots have probably been trained to do this but ripping from a load of fiction books.
That's what I was wondering. When the dad got sick, did the daughter reconnect with the mom who made her act this way? The dad did say that the divorce was fairly amicable and that the ex-wife is still married to the other guy. It doesn't sound like the mom would have any ill will towards the dad, but who knows? Maybe the daughter met another guy like the first guy she married and then divorced, who told her that since/if her dad died, they should/would have all the money. Honestly, it seems like the daughter was traumatized by her mom leaving and never worked to get over that, leading her to be entitled and honestly, a little dumb. If she thought her dad died 2 years ago, why didn't she look into his estate back then? In a lot of states, after 2 years, the estate would've been settled and closed, and no more claims against the estate could have been made. Waiting so long would just make it worse for her if the cops really were called. I do feel bad for the daughter a bit because of how traumatized she is after the mom left. It seems like, in the daughter's mind, her dad getting sicker meant that he WAS going to pass and leave her too. There was no "he might get better option" because there had never been a "mom might come back" option before. So, she ran because she didn't want to face that "fact" and instead wanted it to happen when she was away. She might also have blamed herself when he still got sicker despite her help (because she didn't realize how rough cancer treatments really are) and instead of getting counseling to deal with those feelings, she lashed out at everyone else. If he was seemingly getting sicker still and her care wasn't helping like she imagined, she also might have thought that him passing would then be her fault, and she didn't want to face that either. Him surviving and being cancer-free might have snapped her out of it, and she could be feeling genuine regret. She could also just be cold and selfish and want to manipulate the situation back in her favor. Who knows? The dad was definitely not in the wrong here, though. I hope the daughter gets the help that she needs and maybe has the chance to reconnect before it's too late.
I knew how hard to take care of a relative who had cancer for 10 years, because my mom lost to her breast cancer last year. To see a strong and kind women reduce to such a state, I really hate cancer. I won't judge her because I had been burnout for taking care of my mom so many times throughout those years (caregiver burnout syndrome), but everytime it happened after a few days it would give me a flash back when she would take care of me every time I got sick so I can't give her up yet or I would regret it forever. And I'm glad I didn't give up until the end.
The karmic justice in the second story was great too... woman thought she got herself a sugar daddy, only to find out she was the disposable meat piece. Awesome.
I wish people would start using ugly names for the antagonists. Example: Hannah is a beautiful name, but calling her Rut (a hole without a purpose) would have been 😂.
All the events stated are connected to you and your wife’s separation. A child losing her mother can create permanent damage. Everything your daughter has done is most likely to stem from you and your wife’s breaking up.
At least her dad tried to be a good dad. The daughter is a horrible human being for treating him like trash and leaving him all alone. The nerve of her to cry about being abandoned when she left her dad in a heart beat. Being hung up about her parents divorce is no excuse for her crappy attitude and her bad choices.
That daughter in a horrible person. At least Op was able to still walk, speak clearly, stand (expect after chemo) and still kinda function on his own. My grandfather cannot function at all. Everything I wrote down he can’t do. We help him from putting him on the toilet, putting him to bed, and drive him around after spending the whole day to plan the drive since it could kill him. OP was still able to function on some days, had a nurse who did most of the work, and all the daughter had to do was provide emotional support and help a little.
I feel bad for the dad like he did so much for her but bc of how much of an enabler and pushover he was, she ended up like that. Directing her anger towards him bc he's all she's got when she really need to direct that to her mom. He did the best he could but I think Hannah would've been cooked regardless bc of how spoiled she is. Throwing tantrums should've been nipped in the bud years ago bc now she's bold enough to be rude to and fight strangers w/little consequence. 🤕
Father provided for the daughter all these years selflessly and the moment he had to do something for himself, she lost it. That's not a human, not even an animal.
Seems like the daughter had inheritance on her mind the moment dad was diagnosed (or maybe even before). She was probably upset that the nurse was further prolonging his death, which meant prolonging her getting the house. I think her abandoning dad was supposed to be a big enough shock to kill him.
Goddamn, my moms been abusive and i still took care of her when she couldn’t walk and needed it. Man if this guy needs a new daughter ngl just sign me up
My dad getting early dementia or Alzheimer's because of an accident at work where he fell and hit his head from about 18 feet. I get super frustrated at him but i wont abandon him, even though mom is in the picture too. I could never imagine abandoning my dad or my mom if they needed me even when i eventually move out fromt their place.
You can tell when you've put in a bad word or phrase it will initially save your comment and then if you go back and edit it it won't save your edit. Some times it will just outright delete your comment and not even give you a notification that it did so. YT is terrible in that regard.
The one thing I hate about certain people is not there constantly crying to other people that they’re victims instead of getting up off their ass and doing something with their lives they’re too busy, telling others about their victims and the poor me scenario!!! Don’t feel bad for those type of people
Story 1: Okay.... So, obvious OP's NTA, but I have a bit more of a nuanced take: From age 17-22, I feel is a weird time to *expect* a son/daughter/offspring to become a caretaker for a parent. 17 is legally a minor (USA), and 18-21 is only technically an adult; they are not established enough as fresh adults to reliably care for themselves (completely independently: house, car, income, development, etc.), let alone support a whole other adult. That part alone was too much to ask. Enter the nurse. The nurse needs space and a certain level of authority to do their job effectively. I don't care HOW that daughter felt about it: she had NO RIGHT to interfere with her father's care in any capacity, including harassing the attending nurse over the daughter's unprocessed trauma. That daughter was lucky she wasn't dragged over the coals for impeding treatment the way she did. That alone was grounds enough for her to be kicked out the house. Everything else: L daughter, W dad. That girl had plenty of time to improve herself, turn things around, APOLOGIZE for projecting her traumas on both her father and his nurse, but NOO. She plotted to take advantage of an allegedly dead man, and cried "family" when nothing went her way. Let her rot in the festering field she sowed for herself.
Even if they had a relationship (which is not) , that's none of her business lol. How can she call the nurse a mistress when there's no wife in the first place. I bet she always dreamed of her mom coming back home and going back to the happy family they once were ... That girl need hard therapy bruh
My Grandma kind of went through the same thing, but she sadly passed away. But we never abandoned her. We always changed Her. s***** diapers. Everything we took care of her.
Everyone is so quick to blame the daughter but I bet 99% here have never been in that situation. I'm 19 and take full time care of my diaper dependend 6 year old sister. I absolutly don't complain about it and I love her but taking care of her and trying to manage my own life with college is very exhausting and in times I do really feel burned out
the 1st story i loved bot in the bad way but like im happy he dident just let the cancer kill him and die and he stayed alive i hope he got marryd to that 1 person and had a good life
Hannah wanted him dead. Pretty obvious. First she cried because she thought her meal ticket would die, but then she realized she could get a lump sump if she hastened his demise.
I dunno. It's understandable that his condition is sure to put a lot of stress on your family members. But the way she's blowing up, I can't help but think she's been putting on an act this whole time. That she's always felt like this. OP did nothing wrong, he's defending himself against horrible accusations while SHE'S the one blowing things out of proportion. Blowing his money on his nurse for certain proclivities? What Money? He has to use his money on his treatment in which keeps him in bed for DAYS at a time, he also has to use that money on providing for her. Does she seriously think he has money and energy to spare for that sh*t? She's only mad that she can't have her 'allowance'. I'd just say "Bye Felicia". ungrateful brats can show themselves out for all I care.
I get that the daughter has gone through some stuff; but if you never let switch flip and realize you need to get your own life, then there's no hope for you.
My father has always been the picture of strength, vitality, and patient, unending endurance, like the ox in front of an old covered wagon or an enormous glacier that slowly grinds mountains to dust. I can not imagine him sick, bedridden, or even tired, but even glaciers melt. When my father eventually gets too old and starts to die, I will be be there to ensure his dignity and see to his comfort as best I can. It will not be pleasant, but I will clench my jaw, roll up my sleeves, square up against it and just fucking take it. I may not be as strong as my father, but I am a strong man, and that is only because I have an ideal role model and have a nearly perfect example to follow.
I’m so sorry OP ended with a sorry excuse for a daughter. He did the right thing & it was a long time coming. I probably would have said some really ugly hurtful things that once said can’t be unsaid that would destroy her and never look back or feel regret because I am very petty. OP is a good person.
i’m so confused you don’t need a wheelchair for colon cancer and you can use the bathroom normally unless if they took his colon out completely. Ik this cause my dad had stage 3 colon cancer and did everything himself and still went to the hospital to check his patients. Only time he needed help was right after his surgery
I don’t even like my mother. She was a terrible parent but, I make sure she has everything she needs and take her to doctor’s appointments. This girl is truly garbage.
Man this hits hard because my name is Hannah. I had a not so good relationship with my dad. Me and him didn't have a whole lot of contact because he kicked my mom out when I was a preteen I went with her because I couldn't be away from her, after that I kind of lost my relationship with him. I did eventually end up living but even then Instead of spending his money wisely you would waste all of his money, he didn't truly care about his health until he started getting sick to the point he was dying, by that time he had lost both of his legs which means him miserable he was always an active person. As a preteen and as a teenager that caused me to be really hurtful to him I never went this far though. I took care of him when he got sick, I was there every time the nurse visited the house to see him, I was there the day he died I stood by him I was the only person that saw his last breath even in a room full of people. I miss him, I see his face every day and I'm haunted by it. Every memory I have of me being horrible to him haunts me because at the end of the day he was my dad he wasn't perfect but he always tried; this is sounds like ops daughter never did feel that guilt, that regret, the sorrow of missing him.
how stupid is she? if she thought he was dead, she should've looked up the registry for her inheritance, not just tried to break into his house. Did she think the house could still be in a dead man's name?
Let's get real about chemotherapy! As someone who has dealt with it because of my husband there are facts the person receiving doesn't realize. It changes your personality majorly. They become irritable to those closest to them. They put on a happy face for others but those nearest get the full picture. They are cranky and hostile all the time. Irrational in their behavior and just UNPLEASANT! I have no empathy for the father in that aspect. He raised a spoiled brat, after dropping out of college he should have kicked her out. I am a caregiver and have been one for several years. They think they are being nice but slowly get more demanding as time goes by. So the father can't see out of the rose colored glasses he sees himself in. Oh and on average a cancer survivor dies usually 5 years after being declared cancer free, just a fact.
wait hand on 1 second is that a typo or did he just say his daughter packed up her stuff into a bloody tank!!! wtf did this happen in ukraine or russia??
I am in the daughter's position time 3. People don't know what she is being through. To help someone that you close to is hell. I sympathize with her. I didn't leave, but i understand why she broke down. The op said that he felt that he failed. No, he didn't, but he doesn't understand that he put her in impossible position.
These AI stories and then read by text to speech are sssniperwolf/xqc quality content. Bottom of the barrel. The way some sentenaces are phrased shows its not even a good ai. Its literally an ai from Temu or Wish.
So, she made horrible life choices that ruined her life, and somehow this is OP's fault?
Sounds like OP freed himself from two c-ncers instead of one...
Three. The reason he blamed himself was the guilt of failing his marriage, overcompensating at his own expense. So the mutation, the gilt, and the brat are all cancers he got rid of.
two birds with one stone
It's so stupid that we have to censor kancer. "it's for the kids!¡!¡" As if there aren't kids with cancer
We censoring cancer now?
@@Fireice2929 we seniority every ambiguous word that a crazy actıvıst might find to offend their soy venti lattes, cause the algorythm is wild and there's no telling what words get your posts removed.
You didn't fail as a father, she failed you as a daughter
Bro this story is fake as fuck
@@Oppenheimer.J.Robert maybe this one in particular, but I can confirm that people do this because my sister did while our dad was dying of cancer
@@nighthawk0317 Sorry to hear that
Nah, he failed her
Facts
The fact the daughter expected him to just go crawling back, even believing he was either dead or still dying and expected him to do something for her, yeah naw, that was never gonna heppen, shes a horrible person for ever thinking that and doing the stuf she did.
The daughter ticked me off. Mainly because I have been in a similar situation. Dad had colon cancer and I was his caretaker. How cruel of a kid do you have to be to act like how she did
I was my dads caretaker and now I’m my moms. I couldn’t imagine abandoning either of them.
It a fake story
@@maryjane4432it a fake story
Ur a good daughter
Facts. When my grandpa got sick, BOTH his daughters moved back to their home state to help my grandma take care of him. Uprooting our life wasn't easy, but I absolutely would do it again because my grandpa was an outstanding husband, father, and grandfather. I can't even imagine how selfish you'd have to be to abandon the person who helped raise you while they were DYING.
So she refused to take care of her father AND chose to bully his nurse?! What a pos
"School DROPOUT THAT'S HOW" Hanna REALLY had it coming. GOOD FIRST OP.
Ngl that was some smoke out of nowhere kinda unnecessary but I loved the spice
Story 1 : Honestly, just to be petty, were I the father... I would not only have disowned the biological daughter, but also, after her visit, made social posts with the new gf and her daughter, with captions like "happy true family", and made them the inheritors of the will XD.
It’s fake
@@MrArielK I don't know if it is true nor fake, nobody can know for sure other than OP. I was only expressing an hypothetical way of responding to such situation in story one.
@@renadu30 These are all fake, it’s pretty known. They’re AI stories. :P These channels have gone from Reddit only stories to AI stories they make themselves OR AI stories others have generated/prompted. It’s the common thing to do nowadays. Just don’t want you thinking these are real situations is all.
@@bakedandbeaded I'll just copy/paste my previous answer since you seemed to not adress it : " I don't know if it is true nor fake, nobody can know for sure other than OP. I was only expressing an hypothetical way of responding to such situation in story one."
She would seethes
You are not a failure!!!! That girl doesn't know what a good family is
I do not know how a 22 year old woman can do this to their own dad! My pop was diagnosed with cancer he was like a father figure to me and when I was 17 I dropped out of school moved states to look after him in his last months mind you op had a nurse, well my family didn’t I was a full time nurse for not only my pop who was dying at 17 and my nan as well who was also dying! I was 17 years old dropped out of school and move states to a town where I knew no one to look after my dying grandparents because no adults in my family would stand up and do it! I never regretted doing it I loved spending the last moments with them! The 22 year old daughter needs to be thrown out
It a fake story.
Wow, just wow, this daughter is a waste of oxygen, i was raised by my grandparents as my mum abandoned me and my bio dad when i was 6 months old, when i was 17 my gramps got cancer (behind hos nase and wasnt diagnosed in time so it spread), i looked after him giving up college and then my job to look after him full time, yes in the last few weeks we had nurses come in (i was also a carer for my wheelchair bound nan) i wouldnt swap that time wiyh my gramps for all the money in the world even the weekend where he reacted to some meds and i only got a couple of hours sleep in 4 days, it was all worth it and even when he passed away and it was just me and my nan with him when he took his last breath, i wouldnt swap it at all. You dont look after loved ones for money you do it cos you love them and you want the best for them.
I hope anyone suffering from cancer has loved ones supporting them and they all recover from this nasty disease 💖🤞💖
yeah go femenism,she is hard in to hating all men,i see,what a sorry excuse of a human being,chad and tyrone will have a lot of fun with that one.
I hate that phrase "one thing lead to another". Some very specific things had to happen for someone to cheat. Cheating is never justified.
You be suprised how many people dont even believe in free will
Wait, cancer is now a trigger word? WTF?
God dam babies!
The video title I can understand because it probably has an impact on UA-cam's algorithm for showing the video to people, but yeah in the comments there's no real need to censor 'cancer' like people do
Everything's a trigger word for Gen Z these days
@@c.b.h1151Gen Z didn't write UA-cam's algorithm. So if you want to say someone's triggered, say Boomers and X'ers.
@@c.b.h1151 coming from the people who couldn't say fuck on a broadcast without reprucussions
Why are other peoples trigger words anything to do with you? You don't need to be involved in this subject, but you are because you just have to be a special little snowflake ❄
My fathers cancer had an incredibly low survival rate, but I never once even considered the thought of abandoning him. I spent however much time I could, visiting him… though I wish I did more to increase that time. He tried getting approved for doctor assisted d**th, and wondered if it’s something I’d be willing to deal with, and of course I said I’d be there with him when it happened. But sadly, he wasn’t approved, and he had to endure many months slowly suffering till the bitter end. I was beside him when he finally passed. I love you dad… I love you so so much. I think about you every day.
Story #1
NTA
What the hell in the end the daughter have the audacity to beg her father to not abandon her after she happily abandoned him on his potential "deathbed" and even returned hoping for inheritance, frankly she sounded less upset about him "abandoning" her and more upset that he wasn't "dead" and the inheritance in her hands along with the house to enjoy!!
You can't raise chidren without sometimes disciplining them, she never been told no
Her father is dying and she's arguing about little thing with the nurse
The god have mercy on her husband
Which one (?) as with a charachter like that, it's unlikely that she will have several over the course of her life.
I am so glad for second OP. And good for him! Dont make the same mistake twice!
She infuriates me. My mom and I were both sick and I was still there for her till her dying days I WISH my mommy were still here with me, yes I hold some negatives feelings towards her but I’d never have called her a burden or treated her the way this child did to her only parent that cared for her
I can understand the stress of being young and taking care of sick parents. I did the same thing with my parents injuring themselves beyond employment but sometimes you got to do the right thing. That's what i did. Balancing multiple jobs and full time school
I don’t really care if this is real or not, I’m just here for a good story
I've heard an exact story, but with the wife and daughter leaving, then coming back for money thinking OP was dead
Edit: Guys... guys... I did try to find it, but just by searching the Breif description, dozens of stories with the same premise came up. If I do find then I'll make another updateb
Yea it was better than this one too
Name?
Same
You remember the name of this one?
Sounds like the daughter is a brat like her mother
I’d bet anything that her mother was talking s*** about OP for years.
I can never understand how a child can just abandon their own parent during difficult times when they took such good care of their kids. And then she had the audacity to just come back and expect inheritance?! Damn, there's delulus, but she's on a whole other level.
I’m 16 and I have no problems looking after my sick dad. I understand it’s hard but it’s your father, you should be there. This story hits real close to home. She should help her dad, especially if a 16 year old (I’ve been looking after my dad for years, he’s been sick for 30 ish years but it’s getting worse. He Got bad in 2019 and I STILL looked after him) can do it.
“Tears welled up in my eyes” that’s how you know it’s made by AI. Every single story has this line it’s so predictable 😂
I mean if something sad happened to you wouldn’t you describe it the same way? But yeah most of these story’s are fake
Not that it isn’t a weird line but I find it funny that you find that line strange for a guy in his fifties saying a line like that instead of saying “dude” and “lol” I get some older people like to sound “fresh and cool” but let’s be honest no older person talks like that 😂
Very common line. I've read tens of thousands of books in my life. No joke.
But even if it was written by AI, so what? Was the story good?
It’s between that and “I was taken aback” and “spilled the beans”
Hate it 😂
@@gamernerd5830Well, no. Its another giveaway. A lot of these stories are written in a way that just doesn’t sound like a real person. More like its an author describing a scene in a book. Which makes sense because most of these AI bots have probably been trained to do this but ripping from a load of fiction books.
Story 1: I wouldn't be surprised for even a second if the daughter's mom taught her to hate her father.
That's what I was wondering. When the dad got sick, did the daughter reconnect with the mom who made her act this way? The dad did say that the divorce was fairly amicable and that the ex-wife is still married to the other guy. It doesn't sound like the mom would have any ill will towards the dad, but who knows? Maybe the daughter met another guy like the first guy she married and then divorced, who told her that since/if her dad died, they should/would have all the money.
Honestly, it seems like the daughter was traumatized by her mom leaving and never worked to get over that, leading her to be entitled and honestly, a little dumb. If she thought her dad died 2 years ago, why didn't she look into his estate back then? In a lot of states, after 2 years, the estate would've been settled and closed, and no more claims against the estate could have been made. Waiting so long would just make it worse for her if the cops really were called.
I do feel bad for the daughter a bit because of how traumatized she is after the mom left. It seems like, in the daughter's mind, her dad getting sicker meant that he WAS going to pass and leave her too. There was no "he might get better option" because there had never been a "mom might come back" option before. So, she ran because she didn't want to face that "fact" and instead wanted it to happen when she was away. She might also have blamed herself when he still got sicker despite her help (because she didn't realize how rough cancer treatments really are) and instead of getting counseling to deal with those feelings, she lashed out at everyone else. If he was seemingly getting sicker still and her care wasn't helping like she imagined, she also might have thought that him passing would then be her fault, and she didn't want to face that either. Him surviving and being cancer-free might have snapped her out of it, and she could be feeling genuine regret. She could also just be cold and selfish and want to manipulate the situation back in her favor. Who knows? The dad was definitely not in the wrong here, though. I hope the daughter gets the help that she needs and maybe has the chance to reconnect before it's too late.
I knew how hard to take care of a relative who had cancer for 10 years, because my mom lost to her breast cancer last year. To see a strong and kind women reduce to such a state, I really hate cancer. I won't judge her because I had been burnout for taking care of my mom so many times throughout those years (caregiver burnout syndrome), but everytime it happened after a few days it would give me a flash back when she would take care of me every time I got sick so I can't give her up yet or I would regret it forever. And I'm glad I didn't give up until the end.
The karmic justice in the second story was great too... woman thought she got herself a sugar daddy, only to find out she was the disposable meat piece. Awesome.
I wish people would start using ugly names for the antagonists. Example: Hannah is a beautiful name, but calling her Rut (a hole without a purpose) would have been 😂.
If Reddit was to be believed women called Linda (LITERALLY Pretty in Spanish) are nothing psychotic MIL and SILs.
Agree with this😂😂
All the events stated are connected to you and your wife’s separation. A child losing her mother can create permanent damage. Everything your daughter has done is most likely to stem from you and your wife’s breaking up.
OP's daughter is a textbook narcissist. Holy shit
At least her dad tried to be a good dad. The daughter is a horrible human being for treating him like trash and leaving him all alone. The nerve of her to cry about being abandoned when she left her dad in a heart beat. Being hung up about her parents divorce is no excuse for her crappy attitude and her bad choices.
That daughter in a horrible person. At least Op was able to still walk, speak clearly, stand (expect after chemo) and still kinda function on his own. My grandfather cannot function at all. Everything I wrote down he can’t do. We help him from putting him on the toilet, putting him to bed, and drive him around after spending the whole day to plan the drive since it could kill him. OP was still able to function on some days, had a nurse who did most of the work, and all the daughter had to do was provide emotional support and help a little.
lmao censoring "cancer" and "dead".
Like mother, like daughter. Genetics don't fail and she inherited all aspects of her mother and nothing from her father
I feel bad for the dad like he did so much for her but bc of how much of an enabler and pushover he was, she ended up like that. Directing her anger towards him bc he's all she's got when she really need to direct that to her mom. He did the best he could but I think Hannah would've been cooked regardless bc of how spoiled she is. Throwing tantrums should've been nipped in the bud years ago bc now she's bold enough to be rude to and fight strangers w/little consequence. 🤕
Father provided for the daughter all these years selflessly and the moment he had to do something for himself, she lost it. That's not a human, not even an animal.
Seems like the daughter had inheritance on her mind the moment dad was diagnosed (or maybe even before). She was probably upset that the nurse was further prolonging his death, which meant prolonging her getting the house. I think her abandoning dad was supposed to be a big enough shock to kill him.
Sucks for her that her absence made OP feel better 😂
Goddamn, my moms been abusive and i still took care of her when she couldn’t walk and needed it. Man if this guy needs a new daughter ngl just sign me up
My dad getting early dementia or Alzheimer's because of an accident at work where he fell and hit his head from about 18 feet. I get super frustrated at him but i wont abandon him, even though mom is in the picture too. I could never imagine abandoning my dad or my mom if they needed me even when i eventually move out fromt their place.
jeezus how many words does yt have to censor
You can tell when you've put in a bad word or phrase it will initially save your comment and then if you go back and edit it it won't save your edit. Some times it will just outright delete your comment and not even give you a notification that it did so. YT is terrible in that regard.
The one thing I hate about certain people is not there constantly crying to other people that they’re victims instead of getting up off their ass and doing something with their lives they’re too busy, telling others about their victims and the poor me scenario!!! Don’t feel bad for those type of people
Story 1: Okay.... So, obvious OP's NTA, but I have a bit more of a nuanced take:
From age 17-22, I feel is a weird time to *expect* a son/daughter/offspring to become a caretaker for a parent. 17 is legally a minor (USA), and 18-21 is only technically an adult; they are not established enough as fresh adults to reliably care for themselves (completely independently: house, car, income, development, etc.), let alone support a whole other adult. That part alone was too much to ask.
Enter the nurse. The nurse needs space and a certain level of authority to do their job effectively. I don't care HOW that daughter felt about it: she had NO RIGHT to interfere with her father's care in any capacity, including harassing the attending nurse over the daughter's unprocessed trauma. That daughter was lucky she wasn't dragged over the coals for impeding treatment the way she did. That alone was grounds enough for her to be kicked out the house.
Everything else: L daughter, W dad. That girl had plenty of time to improve herself, turn things around, APOLOGIZE for projecting her traumas on both her father and his nurse, but NOO. She plotted to take advantage of an allegedly dead man, and cried "family" when nothing went her way. Let her rot in the festering field she sowed for herself.
Yeah, another reason added to my already-long-list-of-reasons-to-be-child-free
Even if they had a relationship (which is not) , that's none of her business lol. How can she call the nurse a mistress when there's no wife in the first place. I bet she always dreamed of her mom coming back home and going back to the happy family they once were ... That girl need hard therapy bruh
I have a parent who is absolutely vile. If I could, I would leave too, but then she would be homeless within a year. So I doubts about this story.
My Grandma kind of went through the same thing, but she sadly passed away. But we never abandoned her. We always changed Her. s***** diapers. Everything we took care of her.
Everyone is so quick to blame the daughter but I bet 99% here have never been in that situation. I'm 19 and take full time care of my diaper dependend 6 year old sister. I absolutly don't complain about it and I love her but taking care of her and trying to manage my own life with college is very exhausting and in times I do really feel burned out
the 1st story i loved bot in the bad way but like im happy he dident just let the cancer kill him and die and he stayed alive i hope he got marryd to that 1 person and had a good life
The dad in the first story didn’t fail as a father his daughter failed as a daughter.
The daughter is a cruel and heartless person for abandoning her father who is suffering from cancer!
Hannah wanted him dead. Pretty obvious. First she cried because she thought her meal ticket would die, but then she realized she could get a lump sump if she hastened his demise.
Why in the hell would he cry after that beyatch packed up and left? One of the most toxic women ever.
Hannah could take out life insurance policies for when her sad dies ?
Hanna's turnabout was...odd. Did she get into drugs?
Why would anyone censor the word "Cancer"?
I dunno. It's understandable that his condition is sure to put a lot of stress on your family members. But the way she's blowing up, I can't help but think she's been putting on an act this whole time. That she's always felt like this. OP did nothing wrong, he's defending himself against horrible accusations while SHE'S the one blowing things out of proportion. Blowing his money on his nurse for certain proclivities? What Money? He has to use his money on his treatment in which keeps him in bed for DAYS at a time, he also has to use that money on providing for her. Does she seriously think he has money and energy to spare for that sh*t? She's only mad that she can't have her 'allowance'. I'd just say "Bye Felicia". ungrateful brats can show themselves out for all I care.
I get that the daughter has gone through some stuff; but if you never let switch flip and realize you need to get your own life, then there's no hope for you.
I actually had a baseball coach named andy once
cancer is spelled wrong
It’s to avoid demonization issues with UA-cam.
Cried my lungs out and baseball stick!!!????
My father has always been the picture of strength, vitality, and patient, unending endurance, like the ox in front of an old covered wagon or an enormous glacier that slowly grinds mountains to dust.
I can not imagine him sick, bedridden, or even tired, but even glaciers melt. When my father eventually gets too old and starts to die, I will be be there to ensure his dignity and see to his comfort as best I can.
It will not be pleasant, but I will clench my jaw, roll up my sleeves, square up against it and just fucking take it. I may not be as strong as my father, but I am a strong man, and that is only because I have an ideal role model and have a nearly perfect example to follow.
I’m so sorry OP ended with a sorry excuse for a daughter. He did the right thing & it was a long time coming. I probably would have said some really ugly hurtful things that once said can’t be unsaid that would destroy her and never look back or feel regret because I am very petty. OP is a good person.
i’m so confused you don’t need a wheelchair for colon cancer and you can use the bathroom normally unless if they took his colon out completely. Ik this cause my dad had stage 3 colon cancer and did everything himself and still went to the hospital to check his patients. Only time he needed help was right after his surgery
not everyone reacts the same way
I don’t even like my mother. She was a terrible parent but, I make sure she has everything she needs and take her to doctor’s appointments. This girl is truly garbage.
Man this hits hard because my name is Hannah. I had a not so good relationship with my dad.
Me and him didn't have a whole lot of contact because he kicked my mom out when I was a preteen I went with her because I couldn't be away from her, after that I kind of lost my relationship with him. I did eventually end up living but even then Instead of spending his money wisely you would waste all of his money, he didn't truly care about his health until he started getting sick to the point he was dying, by that time he had lost both of his legs which means him miserable he was always an active person.
As a preteen and as a teenager that caused me to be really hurtful to him I never went this far though. I took care of him when he got sick, I was there every time the nurse visited the house to see him, I was there the day he died I stood by him I was the only person that saw his last breath even in a room full of people. I miss him, I see his face every day and I'm haunted by it. Every memory I have of me being horrible to him haunts me because at the end of the day he was my dad he wasn't perfect but he always tried; this is sounds like ops daughter never did feel that guilt, that regret, the sorrow of missing him.
Complete AI Recreation of another story, Telltales your losing your touch bro, up the quality and maybe it would be more convincing
I think I have to stop watching these videos because I'm losing faith in humanity.
She definitely sounds like her mothers daughter.
4:36 Quite literally 🥲🥲🥲
NTA she failed as a daughter
how stupid is she? if she thought he was dead, she should've looked up the registry for her inheritance, not just tried to break into his house.
Did she think the house could still be in a dead man's name?
I would give my soul heart and life for you
Why is Cancer censored in the title?
Because UA-cam will demonetize a video over the smallest shit
"My wife and daughters would rather see me die on my white horse than see me fall off of it"
Wait, did the daughter leave in a tank? O_o
Saw that. Perhaps they meant truck.
I do not know if this is fake bt i believe it is
Let's get real about chemotherapy! As someone who has dealt with it because of my husband there are facts the person receiving doesn't realize. It changes your personality majorly. They become irritable to those closest to them. They put on a happy face for others but those nearest get the full picture. They are cranky and hostile all the time. Irrational in their behavior and just UNPLEASANT! I have no empathy for the father in that aspect. He raised a spoiled brat, after dropping out of college he should have kicked her out. I am a caregiver and have been one for several years. They think they are being nice but slowly get more demanding as time goes by. So the father can't see out of the rose colored glasses he sees himself in. Oh and on average a cancer survivor dies usually 5 years after being declared cancer free, just a fact.
Hey guys is the story 2 have continuetion right? Because I feel like it is a cliffhanger.
Awww she lost her $oul mate
wait hand on 1 second is that a typo or did he just say his daughter packed up her stuff into a bloody tank!!! wtf did this happen in ukraine or russia??
What's a baseball stick? 🤔
Ungrateful and entitled all in one😤
I wanna read the reddit post for the 1st story
So you can't say cancer? You can't say dead? Fucking ridiculous.
I am in the daughter's position time 3. People don't know what she is being through. To help someone that you close to is hell. I sympathize with her. I didn't leave, but i understand why she broke down. The op said that he felt that he failed. No, he didn't, but he doesn't understand that he put her in impossible position.
'separated amicably' is such a dumb saying
Hell yeah that's karma
Would it be possible to slow down the text read speech? :x
Edit the sentences
"She stormed the door at my face."
Like wtf is this
What if the cancer was developed due to the massive stress??
Jesus what a horrible daughter
She drives a tank? what?
That b pissed me off send her to jail
8:23 The same nurse, right?
Did u really censor the word cancer!?
Why can't you say cancer?
Cancer*
8:23 So it.was a 2nd divorce?
I was 16-19 took care of my dad smh
These AI stories and then read by text to speech are sssniperwolf/xqc quality content. Bottom of the barrel. The way some sentenaces are phrased shows its not even a good ai. Its literally an ai from Temu or Wish.