REALITY CAN SUG MY BOOTYHOLE ✧✧✧ maladaptive daydreaming?idk
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- Опубліковано 8 вер 2024
- Idk really what the term is, but when I go thru pain or stress or anxiety I slip into this dream state where I focus on a world or reality that isn't in the physical world i guess.
Weirdly enough, I always thought that being locked away in jail would be a luxury because then I would have my accomodation and food paid for while I continue to live in my dream world.
Idk how toxic or hurtful this can be for me because I don't tell anyone about my imaginary world. It's so detailed that I could draw every branch, every tree, every plant in my dreams. I could draw a map etc
Please someone educate me on maladaptive day dreaming in simple terms. I haven't found anything that can explain it simply, maybe this is a different term to what I do to escape reality. idk lemme know..
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reality sucks
yess, it's such a powerful protective thing that the mind can do. I heard the term maladaptive daydreaming only this year, and I instantly related to it. I used to go into my dreams while I was walking around town, and sometimes I'd walk right into traffic or feel like my feet were kicked out from under me because I was doing something else in my mind. especially if I'm listening to music, I go somewhere else.
Yes!! esp to music!!
I’ve just learned of this term. Ive been doing this since I was about 11. It’s a very personal thing for me and I will never share my world with almost anyone. I notice I do it more when I am going through tough times. I swear it’s saved me from doing some seriously bad things to myself bc I can always go there if I need to. It’s a coping mechanism. I’m so glad people are finally taking about this as a real thing bc I thought I was weird for doing it. But I know it’s saved my life more than once. It’s a place of comfort.
I can relate to maladaptive daydreaming. It’s something that I’ve used to distract myself from the negative aspects of life. I love the idea of getting away from humans, and going to live on a farm to raise chickens, ducks, cows and cats. Or, sell everything and go and live in a cave
I do this when I'm depressed I slept
all the time as a teenager too when I felt like giving up. I've been watching you since I was 12 I'm turning 21 now the first video I've seen of you is reading suicide notes I searched for it, You helped me get through my worst days thank you💖
The world is great, but the world sucks is the poetic and real statement. Escapism is the only thing that helps me cope my mental health issues tbh. I feel safer in daydreams, dissociation, and psychosis then reality.
i feel u my dude
it always lovely to see you posting ana
Thanks for opening up to me 🥺💕🫶🏽
@@BabvBlues thank YOU for opening up to us! 🥰❤️
I think I go through this too I found the term a few years ago and I suggest to research it a lot more because for me it just made be feel a lot more seen and made it a lot more normalised. It’s a way our brain can help us out during trauma or whenever we can’t deal or cope with the way things are going. Another part of it is acting out the daydreams accidentally in real life which I didn’t realise I did at first but the more I tried to recognise how my brain was coping the more I realised that I would accidentally be mouthing words of moving my hand😂😂it can be a little embarrassing but also I used to push it away and I did succeed at it and it made my life so much more worse. Also yes with the manifesting it happens to me too. I’m glad that you posted this it so refreshing to here another person talk about it.
Omg thank u for the insight!
I love you, your vids helped me go through the darkest parts of my life and you really inspire me ❤️
OMG THANK U!! Ily
Thanks for sharing quite literally your inner world to us. I must quite say, your fantasyland seems to be really nice. Escapism is I guess fundamental to all humans so don't feel bad when engaing in ecsapist dreams. I often, like many people, do escape by listening to music, watching fascinating series/movies in which I submerge myself in, creating art etc. I also like to research and learn new things, I guess you could partially categorize that under escapism as well. Either way, love your vids and you as a person.
Keep dreaming, your creating your own realty. You will never escape all people as we need eachother to survive it's about balance in all things. You are going forward step by step that's all that matters right now, congratulate yourself. You inspire me. We love you. Love yourself x
my mdd stems from trauma growing up and is my brains way of dissociating. I have an entire universe with different worlds/realities and i can change them any time at will. i do lose sleep some nights from intense daydreams but i'm used to it since it's been all of my life
The mind is A POWERFUL THING. I related a lot to what you said .
I can relate so much to this! I always walk around in my room for hours while dreaming. It really holds me back from doing things and forces me to stand up and interrupt things I'm doing right now. Even though it is actually helpful and helps me to survive in this world, it also exhausts me mentally and physically so much..
Greetings from Vienna!
I think it’s important to visualize and dream of a better life. Even if it is escapism, that’s also the blueprint for the future. I’m so excited for you to have your own land and make your dreams come true. I’ve always dreamed of living on a tropical island. ☺️
It’s a form of dissociation, and a lot more common than people realise but people don’t share it for 1 like you said a “safe space” but also because explaining it to people may come across as form of psychosis and people are afraid of coming across as “weird” or really ill when it’s literally dissociation & super common for people to maladaptive daydream.
When you’re doing better in life you also are less likely to maladaptive daydream because your reality is as good as the dream so you don’t feel the need to escape it. But when reality sucks you’re more likely to live in your dream world.
I also think subconsciously when we maladaptive daydream we manifest it into reality because we are living and believing more that it is our reality which is the point of manifestation is to live like it is already yours.
But also it can get to a level of you not living in reality at all and not being present. Have to work on a happy medium. :)
I go to the same dismissive avoidant daydream lol. It’s so fun seeing people pop up talking about this now. I’ve always had my own world as long as I could remember and the longer time goes on the harder it is to be in this realm I’d rather be “elsewhere”. The daydreams do come true though, whatever you focus on grows
hey girlie, maladaptive daydreaming is a symptom of a lot of mental illnesses but the big ones are PTSD, depression, autism, DPDR and ADHD. I do it too
I’m so glad to see you still posting!! I’ve been following you since I was 13 and I turn 22 in a few months. I completely understand everything you said in this video🥺 the mind is a powerful thing!!! sending you lots of love, harmony, and peace❤️
Omfg finalllyyy you made a video about this!!!!
It’s always so comforting hearing your perspective on things because I can really relate but I don’t know how to put it into words but you do such a good job x
Ive lived in 3 different countries in the last five years, I thought by moving things would change. I now see I ended up repeating old patterns and cycles regardless of where I lived. Now I'm turning within to heal and break those cycles
I know this is completely random but your hair is giving ace flag energy and I love it 🖤🤍💜
I relate to this video soooo much! Thank you for putting words to it. Reality does suck, and it’s so hard. I would love to join you living in a self-sustainable treehouse but I know you said you don’t want people and, as an introvert myself, I can respect that lol☺️ You sound just like me!! Lol. But sounds like your daydreams are perfectly harmless. Plus, they’re a healthier way to escape and feel safe. Also, you are clearly a master manifestor! You are magical!!!✨💖✨
I did the exact same thing before I went to bed when I was youger because I had a realy hard time falling asleep. I would start thinking about falling asleep and that strange moment when you just wake up in another day, I would think about the feeling of not beeing there for a moment... that always led me to think about what it would be like to be dead and it would be a downward spiral, I couldn't stop crying. So I started imagining a magical world, inside there were many different worlds that I imagined throught time... At some point I shared this with a friend and she had here own world inside of mine and we would imagine that we meet there. It's soo cool to know other peopole who do the same! Stay a daydreamer! Lots of love!
in therapy you actually learn to make yourself a safe place in your mind to calm down & some people have developed this skill without that ♥️
it gets maladaptive when you daydream "too much"/in "inappropriate" situations/uncontrolled 🌻
thank you for explaining!! my therapist taught me to make a safe 'room' in my mind but I always referred to my safe place instead of the room!!
@@BabvBlues yes room & place are interchangable - for some its also a garden! whatever image works 🌻
its healthy coping (and a form of meditation) as long as you can both escape reality when necessary & ground yourself back to enjoy reality (friends, hobbies, work etc) ♥️
life is so fucking scary and it feels like I'm being pushed into something I have no fucking clue how to do like college or work it's so much all at once and there's no way to stop it or control it it feels like there's nowhere else to go and it's fucking scary
very inspiring as always thank you 💗 also life is whatever you want/make it to be 🌻
V true 🥰
you have a sakret space in my heart. thank u for every single rant for your bravery and for shining a light in dark times. i hope you get everything u dream of.
OMG...finally someone who does the same thing as me! I've built up a whole person, her love life, her hobbies, her career, where she live, her friends, the whoooollllleeee nine. I literally have a different world in my head. The girl who is the main character or "me" is Leia and she's in a band. I could write a book about her life. I'm not even joking. It's innnnsaaane! It started off when I was like 8 or younger, but the people in my day dreams were called "boy and girl" lol!! As I got older it became extremely complex to the point I got into this world when I got through something tramatic, when I'm depressed, or even when I'm high and feeling good as fuck. It's so hard to explain to people. They think you are weird or crazy. Actually I have never told anyone about this. Not my close friends, not my mom, not my dad, not my siblings, literally only I know about it and I guess now random internet strangers do too haha. You have sooo much confidence in yourself to be able to talk about this on UA-cam. You are so inspiring to me girl. My boyfriend/ father of my child just passed suddenly and a part of me is gone. Your videos are helping me cope and keep my mind off the grief I'm going through. Thank you so much and I hope we can meet each other one day.
Your not alone. I daydream just the same as you,
You seem interested in a lot of topics; I get the feeling of the mind burning from overthinking too. The diversity of the topics is my personal selling point! Subscribed!
I believe its okay to have an imagination, okay to hunger for a better world. Keep being honest and compassionate, and keep educating yourself. Im not sure how "maladaptive" these dreams are.
It's called dissociation or derealization. It's a coping mechanism that helps your brain escape the stresses of everyday life due to trauma and mental illness.
Look into DBT therapy and emdr therapy.
Hey Ana, I've been watching for a while and never knew what to say but the way you talk about daydreaming is amazing. I strongly suggest getting into Carl Jungs works, if you don't know them already. Maybe you'll find reassurance. I am.
Greetings
I need to put my life out there even more than I have . Koz I know we need to do that. Show ourselves.
you got me through so much in middle school, thank u for saving me
ps ur too cute 🥺come to my city
If you haven't heard of reality shifting, I highly recommend doing some research there. It may sound far-fetched, but I 100% believe in it. there are some things that I just don't think can be explained away. I've also known people who have had no clue what shifting is, and do it completely unintentionally. I'm currently dreaming up my desired reality in as much detail as I can, in hopes of shifting there. I've experienced endless synchronicities regarding it, as well. That's my escapism. Hoping to go somewhere else, and daydreaming about it in the meantime.
I can’t do this but when I’m most depressed I sleep as much as possible, and tend to have more vivid, life-like dreams that I escape to. When I can’t sleep though I dissociate and smoke oiud a lot which increases the dissociating. It’s not the worst coping mechanism but it’s definitely not healthy lol
I miss you keep posting !
When i want to forget about my life and reality i like to watch movies or tv shows and then i can sometimes feel like the character in the movie and just feeling different helps idk if that makes that sense but i was also advised in therapy to create my inner safe place in my mind where i can ground myself when my anxiety is bad. My imaginary safe place changes depending on what i need at that moment. Sometimes it's a stone cave in the middle of nowhere where i am all by myself and can hide and be nothing but most of the times it's a beautiful garden with a small river and huge trees to lie under. Anyway it was really interesting to hear about your safe place and i think it's not a bad thing to daydream a lot i think it's just your mind protecting you ✨🦋
Your so beautiful 🤩 I really love ur videos. Your a good role model 4 me 😇💙🎀
I do this too, I remember starting to understand that it was a coping mechanism after quarantine because people would treat me strangely because I dissociated so often. Its nothing to worry about most of the time, so don't stress about it :)
As a student in uni studying Psychology with a minor in Child Development that's so normal. My sister actually told me she had a golden dome futuristic black excellence society that would have concerts and study and be progressive. I have derealization depersonalization disorder so I kinda just turned off 😅 from the trauma we were both experiencing at the time. You definitely are not alone I hope that validates you a bit bub. I love u xx
Master manifesto 💞
Your so pretty omg. Girl 💕
Overthinking is the act of creating problems that will never exist. Stay in the moment. The past is irrelevant and the future is an assumption. The present moment is the only thing that will ever exist. Fear and anxiety cannot exist in the present moment.. it’s where true peace is. Get outta your head worrying about tomorrow or regretting the past. It takes practice. But the more you learn to stay in the present moment.. the longer you will learn to be in the present. Meditation is key. To silence the mind, one must listen through the noise. Namaste 🙏
To me that's pure bullshit things you have done in the past should absolutely matter this is why I hate the world because it is all about what you can do now never what you already done
Hi I was interested as to what you believe in spiritually, if anything. Whilst you were talking about entering your dream world I couldn’t help but be intrigued as to what you study and practice. Your videos are a massive breath of fresh air and I truly hope you continue to prosper and live abundantly! Stay kind to yourself🪷
you look so different. like totally different, even in your face, haven’t watched your channel in years but i can’t put my finger on specifically what’s changed and it’s tripping me out looool 😂
The lips ?😂 it’s obvious that the only thing that’s different about her face is the lips have fillers now . Lip injections can make the entire face have a diff look even thou u changed one thing . She looks stunning 🤩
I really love your videos thank you
The only time I didn’t do this was when I was happy. It just sucks I’m back in that place again. I escape more often then I’m here. It’s like him here but not present in my mind.
Reality is what you make it. If your life sucks its because you suck. Theres no need for me to escape reality and "daydream" because I'm living it. Good luck
I love this because i have been dreaming since i was a kid. Remember it is life only if you make youre life a certian way into ur own reality.
humans take care of the earth and preserve it. open your eyes world wouldnt be here without us.
I have this too
your daydream world sounds like stardew valley 🥺
I have a question that may be odd... but does it feel real when you're there? Like as real as here, can you use all your senses? The state you go into is very curious to me, and I relate to it deeply, especially in the way in which it's manifested in your current reality. Thank you so much for sharing with us!
I wish I had something like this to hide away somewhere safe
Classy.
I do exactly this and have never mentioned it to anyone
me too... thannk u for sharing something you havent ever shared
Wait it has a name?? I've been doing that all my life lmao I didn't know other people did it too. Thanks for the info! I'll have to look into it more
My inner place is a person with whom I have a relationship and we go on cute dates and soon move in together and sometimes we fight. I don't know if that counts tho, it's a bit weird :3
This is such an odd concept for someone who doesn't have a mind's image. For myself I dissociate but I'm more like a zombie
I have headphones in 24\7 to escape reality
I love this amazing and fantastic video as a 49 man i am agreeing with you 100 percent your thoughts about dreams are like my own so thank you for your honesty and putting it out there as i now no i am not alone so thank you again from the bottom of my heart 💓 please stay safe and take care love your family friend John prayers and thoughts for you and your family love John xxx and I am using your videos as a way of stop going further so thank you very very much xxxx I use reading and certain videos on you tube and your not alone love John xxxx
Your videos inspire me. Stay strong
🥹 awww
I guess you don't like people for whatever reason, but I also have maladaptive daydreaming. I want to make music but i daydream about being a famous artist, making beautiful music and doing cool shit.
Same bruh
It’s been awhile since I seen ur videos
Had the same dream problem but they went away when i got older, i also had a lot of dejavu's who came true, they also went away when i got older.
love you and your video
u so sweet aww
Lowkey wish I was reality rn 🌝
Hi ana great to see you you are such an incredible strong woman you are one of my heros i look up to you so much i am so so proud of you love you so much ana you are such a strong womanif if the real world isn't enough create you own world iam so proud of everything you have achieved awesome video
AWWWW THANK U SM
So feel u
omg wait have you moved to Finland? I remember years ago you saying that you were part Finnish I think right? Like one of your parents being from there
i can relate a little bit to you but i feel like your still searching for some escapism in your life but anyways i like your videos you are a unique person going through things an i hope you stay inspired ❤❤
Have a great day 💕💕💕🫶🏽
its hard for me to visualize a perfect sequence of scenes, it feels like stop motion or something. any tips?
its all good homes
I need your advice on my teenage daughter so can I please send you a email about it as I really need your advice xx
I compose music.
hi im reality 😝
We are very similar..
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I'm reality