@@theemilyandtoddpodcastThx but not really what I meant. I do have a great physique and no problem attracting women though I don't like them that much. It is just amazing how weird the world is when taking a step back and looking at what is currently going on. Love your podcast btw :)
Being red or purple pilled is a great way to understand female nature, I think it is a common misconception that red pilled men are women haters, while it's actually the opposite. Simply put, being blue pilled and 'simping' really does hurt men as a whole. I don't want to fall into a friend zone situation ever again, so I took the red pill.
Cheerful and uplifting, oh yeah, sarcasm does not come across well in text. Appreciate both of you putting in the time and effort to share your thoughts and offer the guidance you can.
Running game as an introvert is like faking a high paying job while unemployed. You'll get 1-2 hookups at best before she finds out and is understandably let down, and you still won't even get that unless you meet her looks threshold.
Its natural for all women of a population to be attracted to the top percenters of men. Men have to accept this reality to avoid mental health issues, and avoid hating women, because honestly that attraction is out of women's control. Its important for men to also remember that earning a basic income renders you a top earner on a global scale. An average income of 50K per year makes you extremely attractive to the women of the rest of the world. its never been more critical for men who struggle to find dates locally in the United States to travel to other countries to find companionship. Women of these other countries are for the most part gorgeous, and welcoming to Americans. Utilize the opportunities gentlemen.
Money and status doesn’t make you attractive to women all you get is gold diggers who will use you it’s basically longterm prostitution at that point being a beta bucks if your short ugly balding ethnic they will never feel genuine desire for you looks and height trumps all primal attraction is the real attraction than after that she wants a provider which she will never really show the same affection
Anxiety for love of life Anxiety for pain Anxiety, a feeling that you know you can't contain Anxiety destroys us but it drives the common man Foundation of society… Anxiety Suppress it if you can (BR)
I’m terrible at this so take my advice at your peril, but to me Another piece of avoiding black pill is to take it to warm environments. Figure out a way. I know enough unattractive guys with relationships (some with less attractive women, but not always!) to know there’s more at play than looks, but none of it matters if you’re only online. And I wouldn’t totally avoid bars and clubs either!
There are fewer and fewer warm environments. Workplaces are not ideal but an important way of networking. Nightclubs are one the worst places to try to meet a high value woman.
We need to analyze your outliers even if they are valid they aren’t the rule I guarantee you it’s reason why those guys got success multiple things aligning most likely beta bucks though
He got it all wrong. “game” is not cringe or manipulation. “game” is a method of signaling a man’s value to a woman. It is , at its core, salesmanship and a value proposition to a woman, because ultimately a woman decides which offer she accepts and which she declines
I think y’all got some things right, however one thing I will say is this……status definitely matters. I’ve known women that wouldn’t date or marry a plumber or electrician even though they can make easily over a 100k a year. So status and money do matter cause it seems the common thread I hear is women want men who make 100k at the bare minimum. So men have a greater up hill battle ahead of them now then they did even 15-20yrs ago
Just get money status bro lol you do realize those things don’t trigger genuine desire from women you’ll be used by gold diggers if you don’t have the looks height to go along with it money status is just a bonus if you have looks but with out them it’s nothing those guys are in longterm prostitution relationships beta bucks
@@thedarkestknight8381 I know two guys (ones a electrician and the other a plumber) and they work 50-55 hour work weeks and easily clear 100k. But they work their asses off and earn every bit of it.
Blue pill ruined a lot of lives! Just imagine if we said to men you don't need to do anything to be successful - just be yourself, bro. You are great the way you are! You don't need to study or learn skills, work hard etc. One day some company will just appear in your life and appreciate you for what you are and will give you 1 million yearly salary and it will happen when you are least expecting it - playing video games in your undies...😅😅😂
@@theemilyandtoddpodcast Lol I personally only care about one of the 6’s: 6 figures - I’m an engineering student, currently broke, but I can get provisioning from my parent rather than a partner 6 feet - I’m short, a foot shorter than that, so it makes no difference to me 6 pack - I don’t prefer the lean shredded look, I prefer some bulk 🌚
@@theemilyandtoddpodcast I’m a woman lol! And I like being a short woman tbh, every man I’ve been with has called my height cute :) I feel bad for short guys though.
If you can't get a woman being yourself, why wouldn't you learn game? If you eventually internalize game and it becomes your normal behavior and thought process resulting in you consistently doing well with women, isn't that being yourself? This podcast has some good diagnosis of the issue, but horrible actionable advice for young men. Demonizing Chad and PUA's is like demonizing billionaires while you are trying to get rich.
Would you rather be yourself or would you rather be loved? Some people can do both but many have to give up 1 for the other and personally, I'd rather be myself
@@jcransome5616 It's a skill set. Learn it or don't learn it. Use it or don't use it. Money, looks, game. If you have all three, you aren't complaining about drowning in pussy. If you can only have one- choose the easiest and most important one.
@@razer0072073 not lies, I want to love the person I am based on their unfiltered personality. He just has to be who is. All the men I have dated were considered "average" but when I got to know them they became irritable to me
Love this. Two of the greatest musicians of all time wrote the song attached. Roy Orbison died of a broken heart, George Harrison too. Roy’s son died and he never recovered, George had his personal space invaded and never recovered. They were both very successful, but the basic human instinct to protect the people they love was lost. The games & names of the dating circuit are very important, but no matter how humble or great you are perfectly are summed up in this song ua-cam.com/video/TBkN03eF1x8/v-deo.html
The dating world has changed due to technology and the fact that women have more leverage now as these two point out.
I'm also 19 but feel like an old man looking at the world disappointed by the crazyness around him
You’re too young to give up hope. What I looked like at 19 vs 25 was very different.
@@theemilyandtoddpodcastThx but not really what I meant. I do have a great physique and no problem attracting women though I don't like them that much. It is just amazing how weird the world is when taking a step back and looking at what is currently going on. Love your podcast btw :)
These are two really smart people, talking about stuff that actually matters long-term. Valuable info if you pay attention.
I am 100% blackpilled. I will die alone eaten by my cats.
Being red or purple pilled is a great way to understand female nature, I think it is a common misconception that red pilled men are women haters, while it's actually the opposite. Simply put, being blue pilled and 'simping' really does hurt men as a whole. I don't want to fall into a friend zone situation ever again, so I took the red pill.
Based
Taking advice from a chad is like taking study habits from an academic genius in my opinion.
I feel the same way when people talk about confidence. It's like a billionaire saying "just get rich"
Cheerful and uplifting, oh yeah, sarcasm does not come across well in text.
Appreciate both of you putting in the time and effort to share your thoughts and offer the guidance you can.
Running game as an introvert is like faking a high paying job while unemployed. You'll get 1-2 hookups at best before she finds out and is understandably let down, and you still won't even get that unless you meet her looks threshold.
Its natural for all women of a population to be attracted to the top percenters of men. Men have to accept this reality to avoid mental health issues, and avoid hating women, because honestly that attraction is out of women's control. Its important for men to also remember that earning a basic income renders you a top earner on a global scale. An average income of 50K per year makes you extremely attractive to the women of the rest of the world. its never been more critical for men who struggle to find dates locally in the United States to travel to other countries to find companionship. Women of these other countries are for the most part gorgeous, and welcoming to Americans. Utilize the opportunities gentlemen.
Money and status doesn’t make you attractive to women all you get is gold diggers who will use you it’s basically longterm prostitution at that point being a beta bucks if your short ugly balding ethnic they will never feel genuine desire for you looks and height trumps all primal attraction is the real attraction than after that she wants a provider which she will never really show the same affection
Geomaxxing doesn’t work for ethnics
What if you dont take any pill .
You don’t have to but just know the blackpill is the reality and so you will take it one way or another
I can’t wait for this world to end
Anxiety for love of life
Anxiety for pain
Anxiety, a feeling that you know you can't contain
Anxiety destroys us but it drives the common man
Foundation of society…
Anxiety
Suppress it if you can (BR)
I really want to chat with these two
I’m terrible at this so take my advice at your peril, but to me Another piece of avoiding black pill is to take it to warm environments. Figure out a way. I know enough unattractive guys with relationships (some with less attractive women, but not always!) to know there’s more at play than looks, but none of it matters if you’re only online. And I wouldn’t totally avoid bars and clubs either!
There are fewer and fewer warm environments. Workplaces are not ideal but an important way of networking. Nightclubs are one the worst places to try to meet a high value woman.
We need to analyze your outliers even if they are valid they aren’t the rule I guarantee you it’s reason why those guys got success multiple things aligning most likely beta bucks though
He got it all wrong. “game” is not cringe or manipulation. “game” is a method of signaling a man’s value to a woman. It is , at its core, salesmanship and a value proposition to a woman, because ultimately a woman decides which offer she accepts and which she declines
And your trying to sell your genes
I think y’all got some things right, however one thing I will say is this……status definitely matters. I’ve known women that wouldn’t date or marry a plumber or electrician even though they can make easily over a 100k a year. So status and money do matter cause it seems the common thread I hear is women want men who make 100k at the bare minimum. So men have a greater up hill battle ahead of them now then they did even 15-20yrs ago
100k a year is rare
Just get money status bro lol you do realize those things don’t trigger genuine desire from women you’ll be used by gold diggers if you don’t have the looks height to go along with it money status is just a bonus if you have looks but with out them it’s nothing those guys are in longterm prostitution relationships beta bucks
@@thedarkestknight8381 I know two guys (ones a electrician and the other a plumber) and they work 50-55 hour work weeks and easily clear 100k. But they work their asses off and earn every bit of it.
Blue pill ruined a lot of lives! Just imagine if we said to men you don't need to do anything to be successful - just be yourself, bro. You are great the way you are! You don't need to study or learn skills, work hard etc. One day some company will just appear in your life and appreciate you for what you are and will give you 1 million yearly salary and it will happen when you are least expecting it - playing video games in your undies...😅😅😂
Bruh five 6’s? I counted four
You are correct. My bad. 4 is already too much. Most guys don’t even have 1 out of the 4
@@theemilyandtoddpodcast
Lol I personally only care about one of the 6’s:
6 figures - I’m an engineering student, currently broke, but I can get provisioning from my parent rather than a partner
6 feet - I’m short, a foot shorter than that, so it makes no difference to me
6 pack - I don’t prefer the lean shredded look, I prefer some bulk
🌚
Being short is a killer in today’s dating market. I feel for you bro. Go for very short women. You’re a smart guy if you’re an engineering student
@@theemilyandtoddpodcast I’m a woman lol! And I like being a short woman tbh, every man I’ve been with has called my height cute :)
I feel bad for short guys though.
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If you can't get a woman being yourself, why wouldn't you learn game? If you eventually internalize game and it becomes your normal behavior and thought process resulting in you consistently doing well with women, isn't that being yourself? This podcast has some good diagnosis of the issue, but horrible actionable advice for young men. Demonizing Chad and PUA's is like demonizing billionaires while you are trying to get rich.
Would you rather be yourself or would you rather be loved? Some people can do both but many have to give up 1 for the other and personally, I'd rather be myself
Game. It’s a a meme
“internalize game” is just a cooler way to say “re-learn habits and methods”.
@@jcransome5616 It's a skill set. Learn it or don't learn it. Use it or don't use it. Money, looks, game. If you have all three, you aren't complaining about drowning in pussy. If you can only have one- choose the easiest and most important one.
Because its time consuming. And you will fail 99% for a long time. Most people arent willing to put in the work and cant overcome the failure
I like the blue pill lol
The blue pill is lies lol!
Because ignorance is bliss to you
@@razer0072073 yup, lucky enough not to worry about it
@@mesooofrugal So you like comforting lies over uncomfortable truths?
@@razer0072073 not lies, I want to love the person I am based on their unfiltered personality. He just has to be who is. All the men I have dated were considered "average" but when I got to know them they became irritable to me
Love this. Two of the greatest musicians of all time wrote the song attached. Roy Orbison died of a broken heart, George Harrison too. Roy’s son died and he never recovered, George had his personal space invaded and never recovered. They were both very successful, but the basic human instinct to protect the people they love was lost. The
games & names of the dating circuit are very important, but no matter how humble or great you are perfectly are summed up in this song ua-cam.com/video/TBkN03eF1x8/v-deo.html