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Please. Tell us how we can see.You're alive and interactive educational.Whatever you call it on Facebook or zoom or zoom or wherever.I would greatly appreciate that.Thank you Your wisdom and insight is amazing.And I wish I had a answer like you to put sense into my head and my heart
I began to see all of the signs, but what helped me believe it was I started writing down the fruit, (behavior, interactions, tones, gestures, and facial expressions) these individuals would show me. I noticed a pattern. Writing it down helps because it can be easy to go back and forth with yourself because you may be shocked. I also paid attention to how I felt after having interactions with them. I did a slow fade and became less available until they stopped calling altogether, and we went our separate ways. In another scenario, I stepped away cold turkey, no explanation, because the disrespect was loud. If you can’t remove yourself from them, I would be as vague as possible about everything if they ask about you. Keep the conversation neutral. Never let them see what you’re up to, your experiences, or what’s on your heart. Conceal your mishaps and mistakes around them, not to appear perfect, but because it gives them joy, fuel, and something to run with. Even if it’s small.
Good advice 👍🏽. I'm dealing with this, but it's hard to step away because it's a strange case of a senior person at the workplace. Your tips are a good reminder of things I can do.
This is why I stopped fooling with these so called ''friends'' because they turned out to be narcissist. The Jealousy, Envy, competition, lies/gossiping about me and one upping got old real quick. I cut them off and never looked back. I have peace in my life while they are experiencing karma. AMEN!!!!!!
Amen ! This has happened to me as well . My so called friend that call herself my sister kept telling me that I have a good husband and she said this more than once . One day I told her when she told it to me again that he (my husband) has a good wife !!! Also I told her what the word of God says about when a man finds a wife he finds a good and receives favor from the Lord !!! I no longer have a relationship with this so called friend/ sister because she was also always trying to one up on me and I decided to let the relationship fade out without any explanation why and she also didn't follow up with me as well 😊.
When a person keeps finding a way to bring the conversation back to a particular topic that you're not even talking about, that's a sign I learned. Why do you keep asking questions about my husband, no matter what we're talking about? Are you trying to get to know him or me?🤔
Yep, yep. Here's another angle. People like this will try to use YOU when they are trying to get to your circle. I had one young woman who KEPT asking me, EVERY TIME SHE SAW ME, how my girlfriend met her husband, where does he work, what does he do for a living, on and on. The last time she did it, I quietly dialed my friend's number and say, 'Ay. I'm here with X, she wants to know XY and Z about Luca.' When I called, my girlfriend was having company! ROFL! And had me on speaker phone, which is normal. But I had no idea her family was over! This chick standing next to me was mortified. And the hubs goes, 'What nut is asking all of this again?' Ahhhh, it was a moment! That was some years ago. But it goes down in my savage book of memories. You want info on her man? Let's get her on the phone, Jezebel. ROFL
Yep my new boundary is I’m not so fast to mix my friend groups or introduce my friends to my new friends. I don’t post my friends or tag on social media . And my future man will be imaginary to them . 😂. Just makes it easier to vet and distance if needed . I’ve had a few jealous friends get so mad they cannot infiltrate or exclude me , fixate when I do mention in passing I hung out with someone .
I had no idea the power friends had to ruin my life until I was well into my 20’s. I tried my best to avoid making friends with fake people, but I accidentally missed red flags in 2 different friends, each at a different point in time. I learned the hard way after one friend turned on me while we were living together and put me in danger of going homeless. Then I learned again when the other friend tried to sabotage my marriage. She showed pretty much all the red flags for coveting a friend’s man that you listed in this video. You were literally describing her! After I was betrayed by that second friend, I learned to pay attention to my instincts and not to assume I’m overthinking or reading into things too much when I see subtle red flags. I now take new friendships slow, and I distance myself from people when they say things to me that don’t sit right.
I could write a book on this topic. When I listened to this all I could do is nod my head in agreement. I have had many friendships, female inlaws and coworkers who fit the bill. Signs they are trying to covet your spot are as follows, 1) They minic everything you do. Example, I bought a car in 2005 with a sunroof, and I promise you four people in my circle of people also bought cars with sunroofs 2) I was the only person with a daughter at the time and I found out these nasty chicks were talking to my child about me, bashing me and trying to turn her against me. 3) I had been invited by my sister in law to pilates class and I was so excited, I wanted her to like me so much and I felt that she was finally warming up to me, it turns out she was talking about me to the teacher and she only took me to embarrass me. I will never forget that, it hurt so bad. 4) Never share intimate details about your husband to your friends, this opens the door to envy, keep personal details to yourself. 5) Never travel with females. I was heartbroken to hear that story of the young lady being killed by her friends on that girls trip. I only travel with hubby, daughter or myself. I have good friend now, but just prefer to be with my crew. I have lived this too many times and the ladies in my life now who are friends I have no doubt love me, most importantly love GOD. We are happy for each other. My advice to you is drop them, it will lead to nothing but heartache if you continue in these toxic environments. I love being alone and my friends respect that and I love them for that.
What happeh after the class with your sister in law? Maya Angelou said "people often forget what you say, but they never forgot how they made you feel. I know it must be difficult to be in the same room with her.
@@vfree4579 I was able to handle the class and my sister in law was hoping I would not be able to hang, and when I did handle it fine, she looked disappointed, she was the one grunting and struggling not me. A little history, I mentioned before this that I was taking a pilates class on video and it was a good workout so I found it interesting she signed up for a pilates class herself.
@@vfree4579 She was upset because I was able to hang in the class because what she wanted was for me to not be able to handle the class. The teacher put me on blast in the beginning by saying, a video is not the same as taking a class. My sis in law had been talking about me to her teacher. The only person who was grunting and exhausted was my sis in law.
Trust me, you are not crazy for noticing those signs/behavior. First they want to befriend you or create some kind of association so they won't look ridiculous coming for a person they don't know personally. Mine started to like my social media posts, acting like she adores my craft. Then she purchased my products but I already felt like her intention was to make me feel like I'm her "servant" because after all, she is my customer. Then I've started to notice that suddenly she posts that she is obsessed in the things that I love to do. Whenever I post something good she ignores it but she copies my interests, the way that I speak, the way that I pose in photos. She even uses her daughters to make it look like she also loves the things that I'm passionate for. Then recently she nitpicks my clothing, and posts about how some successes aren't always what they seem. That was to invalidate me as a small business owner. They cannot hold it any longer, the digs will turn out into outright hostility. These people are hungry for drama. So I unfollowed her. Can't unfriend her right away because it's my business that is at risk. I usually take screenshots of receipts. Now, when I can sense that a person is jealous/envious of me, I IMMEDIATELY cut them off. They know exactly what they are doing. They are evil and sneaky. Don't show your social media pics, don't show your achievements to them. Change the social media setting so only the right people can see it. Don't feel guilty when it comes to protecting your peace.
Sister Cassandra, how do you KNOW what we are going through? This literally has been happening to me! A woman I coached is trying to look like me, sounds like me, taking my content and is calling it “inspiration”…it’s been so hard to deal with. I don’t want to reject her but her borderline stealing from me is where I draw the line.
@@fitgirlism3038 I already have. She still watches every social media story and likes my content. Shortly thereafter she does the same thing. Blocking her won’t help. I already addressed it politely but she deflected and feigned ignorance. It’s weird at this point
I noticed some unsettling trends so I distanced myself slowly at first then went complete no contact. Zero regret and it was much better with that person out of my life. I think listening to your gut is important.
I've chosen to cut ties with everyone, and it's been one of my best decisions yet. I only engage with people when necessary. My peace and happiness are my top priorities, regardless of who might disagree.
Know the toxic behavior signs and have boundaries. They can’t be trusted at all it doesn’t matter what kind of relationship it is. One of reason I dont deal with to many people. Dont tell ur business it will get used against you, they will gossip about you , and judgemental/controlling spirit. Life too short for drama and anything cost me my peace it to expensive. You hang with snakes 🐍 even one 🐍 it will bite or choke you to death mentally and spiritually.
I didn't know it until MUCH later, but there have been MANY times folks got phony with me to try and take over my life, and now I know quite a bit better.
This is great and helpful. This happened to me three years ago with a cousin. I am still working through this.She was my Judas. God works all things out for his Glory but the hell this girl started was unbelievable and extremely hurtful.
"Im joking..kind of". 😂😂You slay me! But this is very creepy. I watch as this person tries to 'buy' my kids, talk over me while Im talking w them, but I'm good.They are wise and well trained to always keep one eye open. They've made it clear tht they wldnt help me if they saw me drowning..yes they did! I can feel them in my shadow just dying to slip their feet into my shoes before my feet are completely out of them. Its hard to believe these pple actually exist in the world. 😢
I maybe oversharing in this channel but I can't help it because this is one of my safe spaces. 😅 Your videos are wise and on time as always. We will overcome all of the challenges we face. Amen.
24:23 Someone that tries to bulldoze a way into your life. A friend of a friend went from declaring herself my new bestie to hating and blocking me forever in a single afternoon because I didn't respond her first, ever, message to me right away. I was at work! At the end of the day I heard her bestie proclamation, a few messages complaining about me not answering, then the last one. Ok then!
I recently experienced this with a coworker. Their manager assigned them to work with me and told me they had problems working with other people. Then said coworker had an introductory convo with me, telling me they didn’t intend to step on my toes. As time went on, found out she was badmouthing a teammate, amongst other bad vibes. I got the coworker removed from the team. But it has since caused some emotional drama. Coworker dragged another colleague I respected into it by playing the victim, and now I think that bridge is a bit burned. Which hurt, admittedly. But it became obvious this coworker was posturing to equate herself to my position and “win” favor with colleagues I had already been working with. It has surprisingly had an emotional toll on me, but at least the toxic coworker is removed from my team (and they claim that they are looking for other jobs, according to their manager).
Hi. One person, I currently noticed may not want my spot, but definitely my resistance and my energy. She keep trying to transfer her darkness and ungodly thoughts unto me k owing who I serve. She wants my advice on her life and anything ungodly. Yet, let me even speak a word about GOD. SHE thinks I can't see her. Even to say, she is surprised I talk to her "being a witch" well she is a supervisor. I see you, I told her and those demons...and YOU ALL SEE ME. COVERED IN THE BLOOD OF JESUS & FIRE OF THE MOST HIGH LIVING GOD.🥰
I have run into people that really seem to want what I Have NOT Something Similar but want what belongs to me without having to put in the effort. Video is on point. When they can't have what you have they spend all their time advertising to you what they do. They also show up the places you go. They will also block you from doing things that they may not be able to do.
Once you see it in someone you can’t unsee it you can be naive all you want it can be dangerous. Dealt with this many of times. I had someone go into nursing because I was going in that direction she wanted to be like me and I left that behind, then God Bless me with a husband from another country and we decided to travel the world then many got inspired but couldn’t do it on our level so they will try and get close to you to figure you out to set you up so they can become you they took our life as a form of secret competition when we was just living in our own world lol. Better have keen discernment to catch it quickly before things get out of control. How to navigate around it is close all doors! (form a weapon against it) around that person (s) it’s going to cost you many relationships but it must be done for your protection. Now you force them to live in their truth, which will later be an embarrassment on their end if you had many mutual ppl between you two and you completely went no contact. Great Video Ms. Cassandra👏🏾
I cut 3 friends out of my life.Left with one bestie. Is just tooooo dangerous to keep such ppl around.The one was always thinking i want her hubby,very insecure csuse she knows am a bundle of greatness and taking care of myself including cooking which she lacks lol.
I have so much to say but right now I just want to say Thank YOU JESUS for helping me thru your channel and book! Looking forward to the Wednesday meeting ❤
I've had this happened a few times through out my career I'm so blesses that I've recognize this behavior and keep things more on a professional level. The last time this happened I presented her the opportunity with another company and encourage her to make that spot her own. Now I'm dealing with another ...God keeps sending me these challenging people.
Just saying I love your videos and they’ve helped a lot for the past few years. I posted a comment and it disappeared so I thought I’d just say this. ❤
Hello!I'm a 41 year old married woman from Georgia w/2 children,seeking new friendships with other married and engaged women.I'm a vegetarian and big on fitness,if interested,please don't hesitate to reply.God bless!❤
Hi C Great content. You descripe my Fam.They never invite me to their functions. Brother wants all i worked so hard for.Strange cause they live large.I stay away from them to protect myself,the energies is off.Demon time for real.
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Please.
Tell us how we can see.You're alive and interactive educational.Whatever you call it on Facebook or zoom or zoom or wherever.I would greatly appreciate that.Thank you
Your wisdom and insight is amazing.And I wish I had a answer like you to put sense into my head and my heart
I’m just going home
I began to see all of the signs, but what helped me believe it was I started writing down the fruit, (behavior, interactions, tones, gestures, and facial expressions) these individuals would show me. I noticed a pattern. Writing it down helps because it can be easy to go back and forth with yourself because you may be shocked. I also paid attention to how I felt after having interactions with them. I did a slow fade and became less available until they stopped calling altogether, and we went our separate ways. In another scenario, I stepped away cold turkey, no explanation, because the disrespect was loud. If you can’t remove yourself from them, I would be as vague as possible about everything if they ask about you. Keep the conversation neutral. Never let them see what you’re up to, your experiences, or what’s on your heart. Conceal your mishaps and mistakes around them, not to appear perfect, but because it gives them joy, fuel, and something to run with. Even if it’s small.
Good tips! 👍🏾
Thank you sister ❤
Amén
Super insightful and helpful. :)
Good advice 👍🏽. I'm dealing with this, but it's hard to step away because it's a strange case of a senior person at the workplace. Your tips are a good reminder of things I can do.
This is why I stopped fooling with these so called ''friends'' because they turned out to be narcissist. The Jealousy, Envy, competition, lies/gossiping about me and one upping got old real quick. I cut them off and never looked back. I have peace in my life while they are experiencing karma. AMEN!!!!!!
Amen ! This has happened to me as well . My so called friend that call herself my sister kept telling me that I have a good husband and she said this more than once . One day I told her when she told it to me again that he (my husband) has a good wife !!! Also I told her what the word of God says about when a man finds a wife he finds a good and receives favor from the Lord !!! I no longer have a relationship with this so called friend/ sister because she was also always trying to one up on me and I decided to let the relationship fade out without any explanation why and she also didn't follow up with me as well 😊.
you did the right thing, she was jealous of you
main one they say is I wanna be like you when I grow up .. and they already grown 😂
😂😂😂😂😂
15:06 If they ask, “How do you know your man’s not cheating on you?” I would ask them, “How do you know he IS?”
When a person keeps finding a way to bring the conversation back to a particular topic that you're not even talking about, that's a sign I learned. Why do you keep asking questions about my husband, no matter what we're talking about? Are you trying to get to know him or me?🤔
Yep, yep. Here's another angle. People like this will try to use YOU when they are trying to get to your circle. I had one young woman who KEPT asking me, EVERY TIME SHE SAW ME, how my girlfriend met her husband, where does he work, what does he do for a living, on and on. The last time she did it, I quietly dialed my friend's number and say, 'Ay. I'm here with X, she wants to know XY and Z about Luca.' When I called, my girlfriend was having company! ROFL! And had me on speaker phone, which is normal. But I had no idea her family was over! This chick standing next to me was mortified. And the hubs goes, 'What nut is asking all of this again?' Ahhhh, it was a moment! That was some years ago. But it goes down in my savage book of memories. You want info on her man? Let's get her on the phone, Jezebel. ROFL
Yepppp
@@fitgirlism3038😂😂😂😂😂😂 my goodness this was good to me
@@fitgirlism3038 God bless you, you're a real one💯 Women with no moral values are plenty out there it's appalling
Same here
Yep my new boundary is I’m not so fast to mix my friend groups or introduce my friends to my new friends. I don’t post my friends or tag on social media . And my future man will be imaginary to them . 😂. Just makes it easier to vet and distance if needed . I’ve had a few jealous friends get so mad they cannot infiltrate or exclude me , fixate when I do mention in passing I hung out with someone .
I had no idea the power friends had to ruin my life until I was well into my 20’s. I tried my best to avoid making friends with fake people, but I accidentally missed red flags in 2 different friends, each at a different point in time. I learned the hard way after one friend turned on me while we were living together and put me in danger of going homeless. Then I learned again when the other friend tried to sabotage my marriage. She showed pretty much all the red flags for coveting a friend’s man that you listed in this video. You were literally describing her! After I was betrayed by that second friend, I learned to pay attention to my instincts and not to assume I’m overthinking or reading into things too much when I see subtle red flags. I now take new friendships slow, and I distance myself from people when they say things to me that don’t sit right.
I could write a book on this topic. When I listened to this all I could do is nod my head in agreement. I have had many friendships, female inlaws and coworkers who fit the bill. Signs they are trying to covet your spot are as follows,
1) They minic everything you do. Example, I bought a car in 2005 with a sunroof, and I promise you four people in my circle of people also bought cars with sunroofs
2) I was the only person with a daughter at the time and I found out these nasty chicks were talking to my child about me, bashing me and trying to turn her against me.
3) I had been invited by my sister in law to pilates class and I was so excited, I wanted her to like me so much and I felt that she was finally warming up to me, it turns out she was talking about me to the teacher and she only took me to embarrass me. I will never forget that, it hurt so bad.
4) Never share intimate details about your husband to your friends, this opens the door to envy, keep personal details to yourself.
5) Never travel with females. I was heartbroken to hear that story of the young lady being killed by her friends on that girls trip. I only travel with hubby, daughter or myself. I have good friend now, but just prefer to be with my crew.
I have lived this too many times and the ladies in my life now who are friends I have no doubt love me, most importantly love GOD. We are happy for each other.
My advice to you is drop them, it will lead to nothing but heartache if you continue in these toxic environments. I love being alone and my friends respect that and I love them for that.
What happeh after the class with your sister in law? Maya Angelou said "people often forget what you say, but they never forgot how they made you feel. I know it must be difficult to be in the same room with her.
@@vfree4579 I was able to handle the class and my sister in law was hoping I would not be able to hang, and when I did handle it fine, she looked disappointed, she was the one grunting and struggling not me. A little history, I mentioned before this that I was taking a pilates class on video and it was a good workout so I found it interesting she signed up for a pilates class herself.
@@vfree4579 She was upset because I was able to hang in the class because what she wanted was for me to not be able to handle the class. The teacher put me on blast in the beginning by saying, a video is not the same as taking a class. My sis in law had been talking about me to her teacher. The only person who was grunting and exhausted was my sis in law.
On point.🎉🎉
@@vfree4579 I kept it to myself but I have forgiven but will never forget.
Trust me, you are not crazy for noticing those signs/behavior. First they want to befriend you or create some kind of association so they won't look ridiculous coming for a person they don't know personally.
Mine started to like my social media posts, acting like she adores my craft. Then she purchased my products but I already felt like her intention was to make me feel like I'm her "servant" because after all, she is my customer. Then I've started to notice that suddenly she posts that she is obsessed in the things that I love to do. Whenever I post something good she ignores it but she copies my interests, the way that I speak, the way that I pose in photos. She even uses her daughters to make it look like she also loves the things that I'm passionate for.
Then recently she nitpicks my clothing, and posts about how some successes aren't always what they seem. That was to invalidate me as a small business owner.
They cannot hold it any longer, the digs will turn out into outright hostility. These people are hungry for drama. So I unfollowed her. Can't unfriend her right away because it's my business that is at risk.
I usually take screenshots of receipts. Now, when I can sense that a person is jealous/envious of me, I IMMEDIATELY cut them off. They know exactly what they are doing. They are evil and sneaky. Don't show your social media pics, don't show your achievements to them. Change the social media setting so only the right people can see it. Don't feel guilty when it comes to protecting your peace.
When someone shows you who they are the first time..Believe them..MAYA. ANGELOU..🙏❤️
❤ this!!
Sister Cassandra, how do you KNOW what we are going through? This literally has been happening to me! A woman I coached is trying to look like me, sounds like me, taking my content and is calling it “inspiration”…it’s been so hard to deal with. I don’t want to reject her but her borderline stealing from me is where I draw the line.
Whoa, I can feel how vexing that is! I really hate anything remotely close to plagiarism. Is there any way to distance yourself from her?
@@fitgirlism3038 I already have. She still watches every social media story and likes my content. Shortly thereafter she does the same thing. Blocking her won’t help. I already addressed it politely but she deflected and feigned ignorance. It’s weird at this point
Unfriend her n hide ur WhatsApp status from her let the calls reduce
this has got to be tough😮 yes she knows what we're going through I will pray for God to give you wisdom and how to handle this
Describing a narcissist.
Fe real
I noticed some unsettling trends so I distanced myself slowly at first then went complete no contact. Zero regret and it was much better with that person out of my life. I think listening to your gut is important.
With some gossips it can be obvious right from the minute you meet them.
I've chosen to cut ties with everyone, and it's been one of my best decisions yet. I only engage with people when necessary. My peace and happiness are my top priorities, regardless of who might disagree.
Know the toxic behavior signs and have boundaries. They can’t be trusted at all it doesn’t matter what kind of relationship it is.
One of reason I dont deal with to many people. Dont tell ur business it will get used against you, they will gossip about you , and judgemental/controlling spirit.
Life too short for drama and anything cost me my peace it to expensive. You hang with snakes 🐍 even one 🐍 it will bite or choke you to death mentally and spiritually.
I didn't know it until MUCH later, but there have been MANY times folks got phony with me to try and take over my life, and now I know quite a bit better.
This is great and helpful. This happened to me three years ago with a cousin. I am still working through this.She was my Judas. God works all things out for his Glory but the hell this girl started was unbelievable and extremely hurtful.
"Im joking..kind of".
😂😂You slay me!
But this is very creepy. I watch as this person tries to 'buy' my kids, talk over me while Im talking w them, but
I'm good.They are wise and well trained to always keep one eye open.
They've made it clear tht they wldnt help me if they saw me drowning..yes they did!
I can feel them in my shadow just dying to slip their feet into my shoes before my feet are completely out of them. Its hard to believe these pple actually exist in the world. 😢
I maybe oversharing in this channel but I can't help it because this is one of my safe spaces. 😅
Your videos are wise and on time as always.
We will overcome all of the challenges we face. Amen.
24:23 Someone that tries to bulldoze a way into your life.
A friend of a friend went from declaring herself my new bestie to hating and blocking me forever in a single afternoon because I didn't respond her first, ever, message to me right away. I was at work! At the end of the day I heard her bestie proclamation, a few messages complaining about me not answering, then the last one. Ok then!
I recently experienced this with a coworker. Their manager assigned them to work with me and told me they had problems working with other people. Then said coworker had an introductory convo with me, telling me they didn’t intend to step on my toes. As time went on, found out she was badmouthing a teammate, amongst other bad vibes. I got the coworker removed from the team. But it has since caused some emotional drama. Coworker dragged another colleague I respected into it by playing the victim, and now I think that bridge is a bit burned. Which hurt, admittedly. But it became obvious this coworker was posturing to equate herself to my position and “win” favor with colleagues I had already been working with. It has surprisingly had an emotional toll on me, but at least the toxic coworker is removed from my team (and they claim that they are looking for other jobs, according to their manager).
Hi.
One person, I currently noticed may not want my spot, but definitely my resistance and my energy. She keep trying to transfer her darkness and ungodly thoughts unto me k owing who I serve. She wants my advice on her life and anything ungodly. Yet, let me even speak a word about GOD.
SHE thinks I can't see her. Even to say, she is surprised I talk to her "being a witch" well she is a supervisor. I see you, I told her and those demons...and YOU ALL SEE ME. COVERED IN THE BLOOD OF JESUS & FIRE OF THE MOST HIGH LIVING GOD.🥰
I have run into people that really seem to want what I Have NOT Something Similar but want what belongs to me without having to put in the effort. Video is on point. When they can't have what you have they spend all their time advertising to you what they do. They also show up the places you go. They will also block you from doing things that they may not be able to do.
Excellent
This is one Smart Lady!
Once you see it in someone you can’t unsee it you can be naive all you want it can be dangerous. Dealt with this many of times. I had someone go into nursing because I was going in that direction she wanted to be like me and I left that behind, then God Bless me with a husband from another country and we decided to travel the world then many got inspired but couldn’t do it on our level so they will try and get close to you to figure you out to set you up so they can become you they took our life as a form of secret competition when we was just living in our own world lol. Better have keen discernment to catch it quickly before things get out of control. How to navigate around it is close all doors!
(form a weapon against it)
around that person (s) it’s going to cost you many relationships but it must be done for your protection. Now you force them to live in their truth, which will later be an embarrassment on their end if you had many mutual ppl between you two and you completely went no contact. Great Video Ms. Cassandra👏🏾
I cut 3 friends out of my life.Left with one bestie.
Is just tooooo dangerous to keep such ppl around.The one was always thinking i want her hubby,very insecure csuse she knows am a bundle of greatness and taking care of myself including cooking which she lacks lol.
Amen, amen & amen. This is so accurate. Holy Spirit speaks, sister
I have so much to say but right now I just want to say Thank YOU JESUS for helping me thru your channel and book! Looking forward to the Wednesday meeting ❤
I've had this happened a few times through out my career I'm so blesses that I've recognize this behavior and keep things more on a professional level. The last time this happened I presented her the opportunity with another company and encourage her to make that spot her own. Now I'm dealing with another ...God keeps sending me these challenging people.
This is extremely powerful and helpful for my life 😊 ✝️ Thank you all the way from Minnesota
Just saying I love your videos and they’ve helped a lot for the past few years. I posted a comment and it disappeared so I thought I’d just say this. ❤
This video is such a blessing ❤
Whooaa, this is Confirmation. 💯
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AMEN!
Always on time ❤
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Hello!I'm a 41 year old married woman from Georgia w/2 children,seeking new friendships with other married and engaged women.I'm a vegetarian and big on fitness,if interested,please don't hesitate to reply.God bless!❤
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Hi C
Great content.
You descripe my Fam.They never invite me to their functions.
Brother wants all i worked so hard for.Strange cause they live large.I stay away from them to protect myself,the energies is off.Demon time for real.
🙏🏾 confidence 🙏🏾self worth 🙏🏾👎🏾passive aggressiveness and 🙏🏾👎🏾people pleasing…. Amen🩷