You Can’t Stop People From Talking Behind Your Back But You Can Stop Them From Playing In Your Face

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  • @bealeyneskitchenadora
    @bealeyneskitchenadora 6 місяців тому +9

    Thanks!

    • @CassandraMack
      @CassandraMack  6 місяців тому +4

      Thank you very much for your generous donation. I am truly grateful for your kindness. Every donation helps our ministry immensely

  • @riel4553
    @riel4553 7 місяців тому +111

    Seriously do not share your plans with family, coworkers or room mates that are even a tiny bit antagonistic. You're just giving them ammo.

    • @InspirationalSpaceship
      @InspirationalSpaceship 7 місяців тому +20

      You’re right. I never share plans with people until it’s done and in motion. Never share plans, show results!!

    • @damienwelch9067
      @damienwelch9067 7 місяців тому +2

      @@InspirationalSpaceship true

  • @StineoMiller-rb1jv
    @StineoMiller-rb1jv 7 місяців тому +77

    The. Mask of a HATER ALWAYS falls OFF.....❤

  • @MoveInSilence000
    @MoveInSilence000 7 місяців тому +23

    I don’t tell anyone my business at all. Keep my business to myself once you show me you’re two faced. I stay far away from you.

  • @Jennifera777
    @Jennifera777 7 місяців тому +30

    This is why I have to isolate myself where ever I live.

  • @tina8796
    @tina8796 7 місяців тому +35

    Sadly, most people are two-faced and cannot be trusted. Just because someone smiles at you doesn't meant they're your friend. Quite the opposite unfortunately.

  • @sameernelson9684
    @sameernelson9684 7 місяців тому +48

    What we not going to do, is be fake, always be truthful 😊

  • @damienwelch9067
    @damienwelch9067 7 місяців тому +53

    Well these people if they can't destroy you their will put everyone against you 💯 to assainate your character 💯 🤷 pick at you for everything you do

    • @Jennifera777
      @Jennifera777 7 місяців тому +4

      I've dealt with this my entire life and now I'm 52 living with 3 roommates like this. I'm at my wits end, I feel like I'm going to go psycho on these creatures!

    • @damienwelch9067
      @damienwelch9067 7 місяців тому +2

      @@Jennifera777 lol 😆 I know the feeling 😅 I have one saying she would put acid on anyone head to toe they messed with her but she meaning me in different way just let God fight the battle

    • @gayanngodfrey2824
      @gayanngodfrey2824 6 місяців тому

      Yes

  • @CrisPisces
    @CrisPisces 7 місяців тому +48

    Going thru this right now, but I truly believe ppl reap what they sow. What comes around, goes around...😮

  • @nikkinanette8807
    @nikkinanette8807 7 місяців тому +16

    Block them EVERYWHERE!!!

  • @sooozannah33
    @sooozannah33 7 місяців тому +71

    Sometimes it's best to let people find out about someone the hard way. Whilst I can see that some people (usually the narcissistically inclined) use the pretense of 'warning' someone as a cover to gossip about, smear and discredit another person's character, others do sometimes try to genuinely and quietly warn others that they feel are in some sort of danger because it isn't always appropriate or safe to be outrightly confrontational or direct. They are usually 'rewarded' by the person going straight to the person they were warned about and saying such and such said x, y and z about you. This is why I no longer warn anyone - they will drop you in the proverbial time and time again, without any consideration of the awkward/hostile situation they may create.

    • @Peaceinmytime
      @Peaceinmytime 7 місяців тому +7

      This is the exact thing, and I appreciate your comment, along with Cassandra’s wisdom.

    • @boosiechic1
      @boosiechic1 7 місяців тому +4

      Perfect Comment!

    • @user-dx2dm8oq8g
      @user-dx2dm8oq8g 7 місяців тому +7

      I noticed that the problematic people who know you're not buying their bs are just waiting for you to talk about them so that they can be a victim and confront you with their puppets to back them. This is why I stay happy, never speak of them and stay away from them. Some people need to be confronted, but with narcissists it's best to completely disengage and play dumb to be safe. Unless we're close friends I'm not warning anybody. Some people also need to learn that lesson for themselves.

    • @boosiechic1
      @boosiechic1 7 місяців тому +4

      @user-dx2dm8oq8g yes yes yes!! They live for drama! I don't let them live I'm my head rent free. Best thing is to never bring up their name or think about them. Place your mind on things of value and your purpose!

  • @queenofyoworld
    @queenofyoworld 7 місяців тому +41

    A good comeback....... I don't want to know what they (he or she) said. I want to know why you are so comfortable listening?

    • @lauryngreen111
      @lauryngreen111 7 місяців тому +4

      I love that!

    • @marilynngraham7129
      @marilynngraham7129 7 місяців тому +8

      Usually when someone is telling you what someone else said, they leave out what they said too. They aren’t just listening. Can’t trust a talebearer.

  • @Mrdonny908
    @Mrdonny908 7 місяців тому +41

    This couldnt have came at a better time. Thank you.

  • @beverleyreid7572
    @beverleyreid7572 7 місяців тому +36

    I agree. No integrity or morals.

  • @onetiacutts
    @onetiacutts 7 місяців тому +32

    Yes!! The Holy Spirit will lead and guide us into all truth! We must be willing to accept the truth of what He shows us. As you always say, “Move accordingly!” Thank you!!

  • @damienwelch9067
    @damienwelch9067 7 місяців тому +16

    Keep reading 📚 the Bible for these enemies 🙏 keep praying 🙏

  • @DaughterofZyion
    @DaughterofZyion 7 місяців тому +12

    There's been many who are two faced ,I'm breaking down in pain and she goes blasts me over her FB wall to the trouble maker and joins in on it ,then realised she's changed her settings so I can see it all ,and pretends she's talking about the trouble maker...two faced friendenemy

  • @rhondagreene1792
    @rhondagreene1792 7 місяців тому +20

    Prayers to help reveal hidden agendas! That’s the one ☝️ Thank you!🙏🏼 ❤

  • @darrenhawkins9040
    @darrenhawkins9040 7 місяців тому +11

    What's up opinion seeker's , my parents warned me and my siblings about the predator's that will be out in society and we needed to have discernment because our parents knew that we will be betrayed and we'll be able to notice the difference between fake and authentically genuine it's hard to do just allow them to expose themselves.

  • @mmonae6122
    @mmonae6122 28 днів тому

    In the same location but not in the same place.💯 it often happens at work.

  • @fredajohnson506
    @fredajohnson506 4 місяці тому +1

    One thing don't like is tw faced people once find out they like that i longer have anything do with them if they were my friend but if they are a family member i just saty my distance but still treat them right because their family but our relationship will longer be like was before because im a real person not fake don't have time for that kinda of foolishness Thanks minister Cassandra Mack for these awesome videos definitely helping me

  • @LA-Will
    @LA-Will 7 місяців тому +14

    How long do we pray for those that persecute us?

    • @beverleyreid7572
      @beverleyreid7572 7 місяців тому +20

      Once. And move away from them as far and as fast as possible.

    • @lovelyr9773
      @lovelyr9773 7 місяців тому +8

      Good question and answer Thanks ❤

    • @Erica-cf1xb
      @Erica-cf1xb 5 місяців тому +1

      I pray for them daily and multiple times a day. But I'm "delusional " like that.

  • @TruthWillprevail13
    @TruthWillprevail13 7 місяців тому +8

    So true. I get so much hate for sharing my testimony. It’s truly the sign of the times I needed this today. Thank you. Heavenly Father please continue to give me strength I seem to bear the weight of the world on my shoulders as a single mom, I face challenges that can seem impossible especially with raising two children with special needs. Lord I’m struggling to make ends meet, to pay bills, and to put food on the table for my children and I feel so alone. I’m constantly in fear. At times I want to give up. Jesus give me strength and renew my faith.💕

  • @alaysiakayebutler6299
    @alaysiakayebutler6299 7 місяців тому +4

    I can see how it effects adults to be emotionally manipulated, but it is a whole other level of evil when they use all manner of duplicity to isolate a small child, sabotaging their development, by sabotaging relationships behind the scenes, removing protective factors, safe adults that provide a consistent involvement with care, a sense of security. Thank you Cassandra! You are my go to for valid insights, that never fail to clarify what I know, but evil goes to great lengths to destroy ability to take proper actions. The evil intentioned, just doubles down

  • @godess4993
    @godess4993 7 місяців тому +4

    I don't care about who want to chat me behind my back that is the least of my problems I discuss certain situations with someone too because if you have something there must me at least one person you can talk to about it gossip is different thing tearing down people's and causing drama is not nice

  • @mcmurmies
    @mcmurmies 7 місяців тому +9

    Amen❤ thank u. Getting older I have found I tried to avoid conflict and have more fear of things getting out of control because I used to have so much anger and I didn’t like that side of myself. But I avoid conflict enough to put up with BS and sometimes I freeze Until I end up exploding. Or end up stewing. I realize I need to speak up and nip things in the butt.I will be putting this more to practice with God behind me and more prayers. Thank you so much❤

  • @TonyaK-ky5pd
    @TonyaK-ky5pd Місяць тому

    My second daughter/30 is after my spot in my fathers life since he mentioned a will;
    After my father/81 decided to move me/54 and his great grandaughter/5 in, my daughter
    have been coming to Philadelphia from Charlotte every two weeks up until now this is
    about her third week gone, everytime she come she take teh opportunity to pose for
    he grandfather, now he is evicting us to get me out of the picture!

  • @nothing-b2n
    @nothing-b2n 7 місяців тому +8

    It will Never change,,that's people

  • @Mytonealone
    @Mytonealone 7 місяців тому +8

    That Titus verse!? Whew. So glad I found your channel again. God bless.

  • @krisztina_google9019
    @krisztina_google9019 7 місяців тому +6

    Thank you Cassandra! Compared to about a month ago I have grown so much. The phenomenons you cover made me freeze when I saw them but now I don't freeze anymore and I am stronger. We enjoy listening to your preachings, you are a warm person and very eloquent

  • @queenadventures4258
    @queenadventures4258 7 місяців тому +11

    Let the Church say Amen!

  • @junejones9819
    @junejones9819 7 місяців тому +3

    Let The Young Folks Say. PERIOD! Standing on My Square.🎉🎉❤ Amen 🛐💒

  • @ladylaura93
    @ladylaura93 7 місяців тому +2

    Yes, it can be a character and loyalty issue...🎯

  • @karenm9084
    @karenm9084 3 місяці тому

    I wish i knew this before it actually happened to me. 😊😊

  • @melissasmind2846
    @melissasmind2846 Місяць тому

    ❤ shared AMEN

  • @uagang3872
    @uagang3872 5 місяців тому

    Ppl forget that Jesus is the lion and the lamb!!!💯

  • @davis947
    @davis947 7 місяців тому +5

    Yes! This is the topic of the year, for me.

  • @kellysnyclife663
    @kellysnyclife663 2 місяці тому

    Nicole McClain from Bridgeport, ct - she was a poor excuse for General manger at the banana republic store in the Stamford mall. This was 10 yrs ago but the woman still stalks me and i have since gotten the local authorities involved and when i asked her what i did to her she said nothing 😢😢

  • @22RosesGrow
    @22RosesGrow 5 місяців тому

    Thank you.

  • @damienwelch9067
    @damienwelch9067 7 місяців тому +7

    Much needed word 🙏

  • @chryslergeorge
    @chryslergeorge 2 місяці тому

    I love your channel and content, Cassandra ❤️❤️

  • @ayak6317
    @ayak6317 7 місяців тому +7

    love you Ms Mack

  • @sandy-pf9bb
    @sandy-pf9bb 7 місяців тому +5

    Thank you. I'm in a bad situation right now. I needed this soooo much.

  • @Anonymous_Anon882
    @Anonymous_Anon882 7 місяців тому +7

    It’s true.

  • @bealeyneskitchenadora
    @bealeyneskitchenadora 6 місяців тому +1

    Thank you so much ma'am for the reminders. So true that we should always keep it real. I might share to help other people validate their experiences and make wise actions, but I have no problem saying what I think to their faces. I prefer to distance from them after I have discovered their lies. No need to have any confrontation. They know what they did. Blocking them is enough message that I can see through them. No need to get even. Let God do the rest.

  • @JavonPen
    @JavonPen 7 місяців тому +5

    Amen ❤

  • @angl.a-a
    @angl.a-a 7 місяців тому +3

    Amen. Thank You.

  • @arethalee428
    @arethalee428 7 місяців тому +1

    Amen

  • @TheCollective87
    @TheCollective87 7 місяців тому +2

    He does what he sees fit -

  • @LA-Will
    @LA-Will 7 місяців тому +5

    Amen!! ❤

  • @abtarmiah3799
    @abtarmiah3799 7 місяців тому +3

    Kwiin of keeping it moving!!

  • @EmpressEmpress-53
    @EmpressEmpress-53 7 місяців тому +5

    💯 😇

  • @MITRAKS111
    @MITRAKS111 6 місяців тому

    🙏🙏🙏

  • @KeepSmiling0411
    @KeepSmiling0411 5 місяців тому

    What is if it my own Daughter?
    It pains me so much to know, that it is my 22year old daughter and my step mom. They will come, visit me, laugh with me and go and talk bad about mee at my back. Yes I want to break the contact, but it is painful😭
    Thanks very much for your words. They have a Helsingborg effect to me🙏🙏

  • @CassandraMack
    @CassandraMack  7 місяців тому +2

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  • @lordscuti9671
    @lordscuti9671 7 місяців тому

    This message is really speaking to me thank you Cassandra!

  • @alphasuperior100
    @alphasuperior100 5 місяців тому

    I think people hate me because I got a good physique and face it really annoys me sometimes.

  • @ChevellePierce
    @ChevellePierce 7 місяців тому +4

    Thanks!

    • @CassandraMack
      @CassandraMack  7 місяців тому +3

      Thank you Chevelle for the donation. I truly appreciate your kindness. God bless

  • @myattsr4405
    @myattsr4405 7 місяців тому +1

    Thank u...

  • @abtarmiah3799
    @abtarmiah3799 7 місяців тому +2

    Kwiin of hey

  • @sharrocks10011
    @sharrocks10011 7 місяців тому

    😊

  • @CAM-wk3dj
    @CAM-wk3dj 6 місяців тому

    The battle belongs to God.
    Jesus said love them anyway❤️

  • @vividquest1488
    @vividquest1488 7 місяців тому +1

    Man… this all makes sense, and right on time ! Thanks Cassandra 💯🫵🏽

  • @RiaG777
    @RiaG777 7 місяців тому +9

    Thanks!

    • @CassandraMack
      @CassandraMack  7 місяців тому +1

      Thank you for the donation. We truly appreciate your donation to our ministry