Learning how to read people and accepting what you feel is one of the most important skills in life. People can say almost anything but body language and energy hardly ever lies. Most individuals are not good at hiding body language if we’re honest. I’ve just learned to accept what I felt and keep it cordial.
So true! Wish I had held on to this when I noticed this at work, now I’m openly seeing the terrible nature of such people, now I am keeping silent doing my job and trying to keep my peace. In the midst of snakes and shady coworkers. Lesson learned
12/14/24: this word is for me… in this case- relatives and some who have known me for years… The Holy Spirit TOLD ME to listen to this particular word ❤… I am growing and I know who I am… still Evolving and the wolves are livid. You are a Blessing!
Wow..BRILLIANTLY said ... Got me thinking how did l get off track? People pleasing maybe? The Truth is: I needed too see who they really are. I've confronted the Truth now. I have Wolfs amongst me that hurts my soul. I've always hated emotional pain. Family or other. On a positive note. I love myself more than they... Wish it was the same,but its not. Unconditional is what l know is True ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ ❤
Cassandra I would love for you to do something on clingy friends. Who takes personally if people don’t call her daily. So insane. Thank you for your content
I really appreciate your advice it came to me exactly in the right moment when people were causing me anxiety and try to cause disruption and turmoil.🙏thank you
Thank you, my sister visited me over the Labor Day weekend 2023. She said and did a lot of evil things doing her visit. But, I didn’t get upset, I was cool the whole time of her visit. But, I realize that God wanted me to see her clear for who she really is as a person. I told her that she cannot come for another visit if I can’t come to her house. I said this because I have no intention of going to her house period. I also realized that I needed to stop any and all interaction with her. She is evil, jealous and bitter towards me and she show it every time.
Wow , I have a similar experience with my sister. I have decided to cut all ties with her for good. She is narcissistic, and always plays the victim role, although she causes strife . I believe she is jealous, evil and miserable.
The people in most circles may claim to be "concerned" about the future of their friends and family members, but they often give suggestions that make sense, for them. But to the person who has a SPIRITUAL ASPECT of the things they want to accomplish, their suggestions won't work for THE SPIRITUAL PERSON.
And as always thank you for your wisdom. I have been listening to you for a few years now and I am grateful I’ve found your voice you have helped me tremendously in navigating all types of relationships.
Excellent message and should be required conversation for anyone in our community before Entering the Corporate world specifically. I’ve worked with Several women like The One in your train pass story. And if you are not a patient person, or one who spots their game early and knows exactly how to move, They will get you caught up! The look of rage you described when you beat her at her own game 😂😂😂😂 Priceless! I know that look all too well. Some people on these jobs given positions of power are TRULY disturbed.
Thank you sister Mack for another insightful lesson. I literally agree with your different techniques of dealing with someone who you don't trust. I strongly believe that people who are distrustful and misuse their power to mistreat. others lack wisdom. Whether it's a family member, friend, or co-worker you should strive to impact or motivate someone's life in a positive way. People who finds pleasure in making other people's life miserable is going to have a crucial moment in life where they're going to regret their behavior. Thanks again Cassandra, God bless you and fellow viewers.
This very god topic but definitely the truth how people are but i don't retagetate against people because come towards inwrong way i stay humble let god deal with them whoever they are because im not going give them satisfaction getting under my skin because that make them win i just leave everything in God hands
Thank you for this! My husband and I have an engagement party/Halloween party at the end of this month to attend and a narcissist ''friend'' that I cut off a while ago will be in attendance. She is dangerously obsessed with me, jealous and envious of me to the point that it's creepy. She stalks me, gossiped/made up lies about me behind my back to control how others see me. I never let it bother me because people see through her lies and see that she is jealous and obsessed with me. I just really do not want to interact with her at this party. I pray the Lord gives me strength not to lay into her miserable ass.
Have a game plan. Decide ahead of time who you will sit by and mingle with. Depending on the type of party, plan some time on the dance floor with hubby so you're enjoying yourself away from the frenemy. Have a set time that you and your husband arrive and a set time that you exit so nothing jumps off.
I'm often left wondering when justice will come. I worked for a pastor who denied Christ, lied about it, and turned an entire congregation against me saying I lied on him. They cut my hours and gave HIM a raise. I'm in a job rn where my teammate lied, then lied about lying and cried to get out of it. He turned other employees against me and now one of the managers bought him tickets to Puerto Rico. My higher ups believe and support me, and frankly cannot stand this employee as he's lied on them too trying to get them fired. Point being. If you're doing anything for Christ, if you live in truth, expect the devil and his children to COME FOR YOU without ANY SHAME. Expect people to applaud and reward those who do evil and wrong, because they do the exact same.
So the miliondollar question in these situations is: Can you cope/ withstand with the backlash that WILL come when you are unwavering about / keeping your your boundaries? Even when ppl who want to manipulate you are offended. YOU teach ppl how to treat you. DONT show your hand!! DOnt let them succeed in their mission to take the smile off your face..Figure out what's going on QUICKLYin social situations... thank you Cassandra...
I'm renting from my mom's friend and she has the nastiest attitude but covers it with kindness. I see right through her. Calling my mom and gossiping about me. I have to interact but am actively looking to be out.
I understand this. I have a real estate agent who is a compulsive liar, thumbs her nose at the law and doesn't issue notices , gaslighting at its finest. These people are exhausting and I desperately want out but the industry is riddled with these types of people.
@@Kelly-oe8kr praise God I am finally out of her filthy house. She basically did the silent treatment and told my mom I had to leave when she sees me everyday. She told me to save my money bc I was in school and didn't have to pay the last month's rent. I said ok thank you but once I got the money I went back and made sure to pay her back and left it in front of her door so se has no ammo to talk ish or say she "helped" me out. I ended up renting a room at another psychos house but it didn't last long bc she did voodoo and wanted me to be w/ her perverted ugly son. Now I tell everyone NEVER rent a room and you mind as well live with family or get your own place.
This message is so needed and right on time Sis. The Lord 🙏❤️is using you to speak the truth. Forgot about the type of people who are known to control everyone, but pick on certain days to try to miss use their authority on. These type of ppl are very manipulative they know which ones to aggravate and which ones not too. You’re right Jesus Christ called us to show peace in workplaces not doormat. The workplace can be so simple and a breeze but nawl ppl make it harder. It’s not always the job it can be certain ppl who have this off and on thing with ppl. One min can be very nice, next min turning up out of nowhere. Talking so loud to embarrass you and making it seem like you the problem. Like I’m very confused, it’s giving day and night.
I'm so thankful for ur videos Keep me sane Bc u talk about what really happens Thank u thank u People really don't like boundless I love that u said advanced warefare Thank u Alot of believers got issues keeping it all the way real
Thank you so much Cassandra- lirlterally going into the lions den shortly. Your Grandma is Royalty 👑in heaven, and the apple does not fall far from the tree🙏❤️🕊🔥 God bless you and give you peace
I have a relationship I valued very well and I had been overlooking the wolf in the person but i just recently had to come to reality with who the person was.I have been battling to control myself not to react emotionally which has not been easy, but this video just gave me strength to do so , thanks Cassandra from Nigeria, you have been one of the most influential people in my life for the past two years.Hope to meet you someday in the future ❤.
Ive been looking for videos on this by my favorites for a while. Couldnt find it.. I love your channel Cass, it helps me work on my mental health and how to maintain healthy relationships‼️ Much love‼️🎯💯❤
Your teaching came at just the right moment! My SIL arrives tomorrow for a visit (from another country) and I've always found her highly challenging and unkind. Love your singing 🙏
Thanks for reminding Me, in this New situation,how to deal with Confusion& Discord. I remember hearing your Story about the Bus pass before and Today it Resonates. You are an Excellent Teacher & Warrior of God!!Peace & Blessings STR8 OUTTA DC 🥰
Let it out.. tell them off.... think of it as a guide, you are angry for a reason.... if they back away, get more upset, then so be it... they arent trying to understand, so why should you deny yourself of being human and removing that understanding from yourself for them? They can atleast understand that and back away? Why should they make ur soul angry, this aint a one way street 😅
Thank you Cassandra, I'm new to your channel , love your advice, and your using of scriptures love it ,had to laugh about msg i once send ,and wish I could take it back 😂,bless you,and I will continue to grow and learn ,gonna check out the membership thing❤😊shalom greetings from Aruba
I have three months left on my apartment lease so I can find me another place to live. I have two manipulative female neighbors that are bringing chaos my way.😡😡😡😡😡
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Learning how to read people and accepting what you feel is one of the most important skills in life. People can say almost anything but body language and energy hardly ever lies. Most individuals are not good at hiding body language if we’re honest. I’ve just learned to accept what I felt and keep it cordial.
So true! Wish I had held on to this when I noticed this at work, now I’m openly seeing the terrible nature of such people, now I am keeping silent doing my job and trying to keep my peace. In the midst of snakes and shady coworkers. Lesson learned
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I had to learn this the “hard way”… but most folks are associates. Even some family members are in the category.
@@jaymaskey5227yes bro
Great advice ❤
12/14/24: this word is for me… in this case- relatives and some who have known me for years… The Holy Spirit TOLD ME to listen to this particular word ❤… I am growing and I know who I am… still
Evolving and the wolves are livid. You are a Blessing!
Wow..BRILLIANTLY said ...
Got me thinking how did l get off track? People pleasing maybe?
The Truth is: I needed too see who they really are. I've confronted the Truth now. I have Wolfs amongst me that hurts my soul. I've always hated emotional pain. Family or other. On a positive note. I love myself more than they... Wish it was the same,but its not. Unconditional is what l know is True ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ ❤
I really like your introduction song . You have a beautiful voice. God bless you.
Cassandra I would love for you to do something on clingy friends. Who takes personally if people don’t call her daily. So insane. Thank you for your content
I really appreciate your advice it came to me exactly in the right moment when people were causing me anxiety and try to cause disruption and turmoil.🙏thank you
Thank you, my sister visited me over the Labor Day weekend 2023. She said and did a lot of evil things doing her visit. But, I didn’t get upset, I was cool the whole time of her visit. But, I realize that God wanted me to see her clear for who she really is as a person. I told her that she cannot come for another visit if I can’t come to her house. I said this because I have no intention of going to her house period. I also realized that I needed to stop any and all interaction with her. She is evil, jealous and bitter towards me and she show it every time.
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You're so strong. Congratulations on your revelation.
@@rasheedahmcgoodwin Thank you
Wow , I have a similar experience with my sister. I have decided to cut all ties with her for good. She is narcissistic, and always plays the victim role, although she causes strife . I believe she is jealous, evil and miserable.
@@karinazrzu Go bless you and keep you strong sister.
Everything that comes to head don't need to be said
The people in most circles may claim to be "concerned" about the future of their friends and family members, but they often give suggestions that make sense, for them. But to the person who has a SPIRITUAL ASPECT of the things they want to accomplish, their suggestions won't work for THE SPIRITUAL PERSON.
Cassandra, I just wanted to say great job on your intro song! I love it!! Especially how it comes in and the fades out at the end, genius! ❤❤❤
Thank you
And as always thank you for your wisdom. I have been listening to you for a few years now and I am grateful I’ve found your voice you have helped me tremendously in navigating all types of relationships.
I like that song! It got a little Motown sound in it yet very original, AMEN!🎯⚓🏆
Excellent message and should be required conversation for anyone in our community before Entering the Corporate world specifically. I’ve worked with Several women like The One in your train pass story. And if you are not a patient person, or one who spots their game early and knows exactly how to move, They will get you caught up! The look of rage you described when you beat her at her own game 😂😂😂😂 Priceless! I know that look all too well. Some people on these jobs given positions of power are TRULY disturbed.
Thank you sister Mack for another insightful lesson. I literally agree with your different techniques of dealing with someone who you don't trust. I strongly believe that people who are distrustful and misuse their power to mistreat. others lack wisdom. Whether it's a family member, friend, or co-worker you should strive to impact or motivate someone's life in a positive way. People who finds pleasure in making other people's life miserable is going to have a crucial moment in life where they're going to regret their behavior. Thanks again Cassandra, God bless you and fellow viewers.
Real estate agents and dodgy landlords take note
Cassandra, thank you! In the majority of your videos, it seems that you are speaking directly to ME!😊🙏👏🙂
That part!!!
I come from a large DNA family, but I truly consider my close family as very small. I have friends, but close friends I have very few!!!
I needed this ❤
This very god topic but definitely the truth how people are but i don't retagetate against people because come towards inwrong way i stay humble let god deal with them whoever they are because im not going give them satisfaction getting under my skin because that make them win i just leave everything in God hands
I been dealing with a clingy intrusive co worker, this was helpful thank you
You are a woman of wisdom ❤️
This came right on time!
Absolutely💯
@@freereign911💯
I feel you.. For me it’s my job. Not in a good position
Thank you for this! My husband and I have an engagement party/Halloween party at the end of this month to attend and a narcissist ''friend'' that I cut off a while ago will be in attendance. She is dangerously obsessed with me, jealous and envious of me to the point that it's creepy. She stalks me, gossiped/made up lies about me behind my back to control how others see me. I never let it bother me because people see through her lies and see that she is jealous and obsessed with me. I just really do not want to interact with her at this party. I pray the Lord gives me strength not to lay into her miserable ass.
I understand how that is! Try to have very little interaction with her, and do not allow her to engage you in conversation.
@@karinazrzu Thank you so much!
@@AbsoluteMdot you are welcome 🙏
Have a game plan. Decide ahead of time who you will sit by and mingle with. Depending on the type of party, plan some time on the dance floor with hubby so you're enjoying yourself away from the frenemy. Have a set time that you and your husband arrive and a set time that you exit so nothing jumps off.
@@chavelahutchinson2657 Thank you!!
❤ 100%. Getting much better at this with God's grave.
This message is 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Thank you for your videos. I find them very helpful and enlightening. God bless.
I'm often left wondering when justice will come. I worked for a pastor who denied Christ, lied about it, and turned an entire congregation against me saying I lied on him. They cut my hours and gave HIM a raise.
I'm in a job rn where my teammate lied, then lied about lying and cried to get out of it. He turned other employees against me and now one of the managers bought him tickets to Puerto Rico. My higher ups believe and support me, and frankly cannot stand this employee as he's lied on them too trying to get them fired.
Point being. If you're doing anything for Christ, if you live in truth, expect the devil and his children to COME FOR YOU without ANY SHAME. Expect people to applaud and reward those who do evil and wrong, because they do the exact same.
So the miliondollar question in these situations is: Can you cope/ withstand with the backlash that WILL come when you are unwavering about / keeping your your boundaries? Even when ppl who want to manipulate you are offended. YOU teach ppl how to treat you. DONT show your hand!! DOnt let them succeed in their mission to take the smile off your face..Figure out what's going on QUICKLYin social situations... thank you Cassandra...
I'm renting from my mom's friend and she has the nastiest attitude but covers it with kindness. I see right through her. Calling my mom and gossiping about me. I have to interact but am actively looking to be out.
I understand this. I have a real estate agent who is a compulsive liar, thumbs her nose at the law and doesn't issue notices , gaslighting at its finest. These people are exhausting and I desperately want out but the industry is riddled with these types of people.
@@Kelly-oe8kr praise God I am finally out of her filthy house. She basically did the silent treatment and told my mom I had to leave when she sees me everyday. She told me to save my money bc I was in school and didn't have to pay the last month's rent. I said ok thank you but once I got the money I went back and made sure to pay her back and left it in front of her door so se has no ammo to talk ish or say she "helped" me out. I ended up renting a room at another psychos house but it didn't last long bc she did voodoo and wanted me to be w/ her perverted ugly son. Now I tell everyone NEVER rent a room and you mind as well live with family or get your own place.
This message is so needed and right on time Sis. The Lord 🙏❤️is using you to speak the truth. Forgot about the type of people who are known to control everyone, but pick on certain days to try to miss use their authority on. These type of ppl are very manipulative they know which ones to aggravate and which ones not too. You’re right Jesus Christ called us to show peace in workplaces not doormat. The workplace can be so simple and a breeze but nawl ppl make it harder. It’s not always the job it can be certain ppl who have this off and on thing with ppl. One min can be very nice, next min turning up out of nowhere. Talking so loud to embarrass you and making it seem like you the problem. Like I’m very confused, it’s giving day and night.
AMEN. YES MA'AM. 🙏🕊️🙏, COOL AS A CUCUMBER 🙏😇🙏
I'm so thankful for ur videos
Keep me sane
Bc u talk about what really happens
Thank u thank u
People really don't like boundless
I love that u said advanced warefare
Thank u
Alot of believers got issues keeping it all the way real
This message is a gift I gratefully receive thank you so much really needed to hear this today 🙏 your work soothes the wounded soul I appreciate you.
Always on time❤
Thank you so much Cassandra- lirlterally going into the lions den shortly. Your Grandma is Royalty 👑in heaven, and the apple does not fall far from the tree🙏❤️🕊🔥 God bless you and give you peace
Great Word. Thank you again. ❤
I have a relationship I valued very well and I had been overlooking the wolf in the person but i just recently had to come to reality with who the person was.I have been battling to control myself not to react emotionally which has not been easy, but this video just gave me strength to do so , thanks Cassandra from Nigeria, you have been one of the most influential people in my life for the past two years.Hope to meet you someday in the future ❤.
Ive been looking for videos on this by my favorites for a while. Couldnt find it.. I love your channel Cass, it helps me work on my mental health and how to maintain healthy relationships‼️
Much love‼️🎯💯❤
You have the voice of an angel. Love you intro.
Your teaching came at just the right moment! My SIL arrives tomorrow for a visit (from another country) and I've always found her highly challenging and unkind. Love your singing 🙏
Good afternoon wishing everyone a blessed weekend 😊
Thanks for reminding Me, in this New situation,how to deal with Confusion& Discord. I remember hearing your Story about the Bus pass before and Today it Resonates. You are an Excellent Teacher & Warrior of God!!Peace & Blessings STR8 OUTTA DC 🥰
Calm in yourself
I have held my peace with people whom I don’t trust and care for at all. But, why do I get angry later with myself because I didn’t tell them off.
Let it out.. tell them off.... think of it as a guide, you are angry for a reason.... if they back away, get more upset, then so be it... they arent trying to understand, so why should you deny yourself of being human and removing that understanding from yourself for them? They can atleast understand that and back away? Why should they make ur soul angry, this aint a one way street 😅
@ Thank you
You sound GREAT! Beautiful Voice!!!🙂
Peace=Clarity!
AMEN!
Thank you Cassandra, great information. Have a great day 🌞 God's blessings upon us all 🙏
Cassandra, The title made me laugh, lol, thank you. I'll be back to listen later. LOL!!!!!
Thank you Cassandra ❤ !!! These videos help me get through and understand why I go through what I do and how to deal with!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙏🏾
I love your theme song😊
This is so good. Thank you❤
absolutely love your intro song!
Thank you Cassandra, I'm new to your channel , love your advice, and your using of scriptures love it ,had to laugh about msg i once send ,and wish I could take it back 😂,bless you,and I will continue to grow and learn ,gonna check out the membership thing❤😊shalom greetings from Aruba
Thank you for your advice
God bless ❤️
💯 🙏🏾
How to deal with all the people I know.
How do you know what we’re needing Ms. Mack? God bless you. I hope to meet you in person someday.
Proverbs 29.11
Thank you so much
Amen ❤
Amen 🙏
Facts
10.10
Cassandra did you sing the beginning tune yourself? Beautiful warm voice 🙂........
I have three months left on my apartment lease so I can find me another place to live. I have two manipulative female neighbors that are bringing chaos my way.😡😡😡😡😡
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Kwiin of snake-handling
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Amen🙏🏽🤍🙏🏽
What an amazing soul thank you for sharing this wonderful piece of work with us.🫶🏾💥💥
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