You Accept The Love You Think You Deserve 💔

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 75

  • @malebs8332
    @malebs8332 Місяць тому +31

    For the personal videos, I think you should get someone to interview you. They will ask questions and help put a lot into perspective.

    • @TheeMsutu
      @TheeMsutu Місяць тому

      Right?! You're onto something

    • @neolerefolo584
      @neolerefolo584 Місяць тому +8

      Madam Speaker would do this Justice. In fact, perhaps the Queen Ninja could go onto her Channel. They have similar experinces and she can relate more than most. 🙏

    • @SibsM93
      @SibsM93 Місяць тому

      ​@@neolerefolo584I was about to say the same thing

  • @TheeMsutu
    @TheeMsutu Місяць тому +36

    I’m not even mad at this video for being a voiceover 😂😭it was so nice and soothing, something different and refreshing 🤍. Sending you love Ninja! 🥷

  • @victorianethanani8578
    @victorianethanani8578 20 днів тому +1

    This was me with friendships....i used to give it all, always helped...poured into flowers that never poured on mine....I ended up doing some self introspection and i stopped...Now I'm happy and glowing beautifully 😍😇

  • @rosamalebe172
    @rosamalebe172 Місяць тому +4

    Thank you for being vulnerable Queen Ninja. This is relatable. However, don’t blame yourself for someone else’s selfishness. It was not your fault at all. Love and light🤍

  • @allthingsmotivational1014
    @allthingsmotivational1014 Місяць тому +16

    Your voice sounds so beautiful and relaxed Owamie 💕

  • @sidrakadri4702
    @sidrakadri4702 Місяць тому +2

    I'm self-reflecting myself too ❤ u videos is such an escape for me

  • @TheeMsutu
    @TheeMsutu Місяць тому +10

    Please do vlog while in Venda, even if it’s not a full blown serious vlog coz I understand that you want to relax, but just snippets here and there for TikTok and IG stories. I’m curious to see how Venda looks😭it’s one of the places I need to go to and I’m just curious to see refreshing emakhaya content of cooking on the fire and stuff. Yes we want civilization but yho our rural areas must be preserved guys, they are so refreshing

  • @pamgaks
    @pamgaks 26 днів тому

    Oooh Owamie💖🫂,am glad that i know when am being loved right.

  • @sibongisenisakhele3114
    @sibongisenisakhele3114 Місяць тому +4

    Deep stuff! We are constantly BECOMING. Life's journey is a long process. We live and learn. Awareness is the first step. POWER to you!

  • @MsSwanlake
    @MsSwanlake Місяць тому +5

    Good job Owams, the healing journey is not easy but you're doing it and doing it correctly ❤
    It's very brave of u
    You couldn't have seen it cause they manipulate very well, and your kingdom spouse is being prepared for you, he lost a good one, u gained your peace and prosperity
    Pls also note the moon cycles, as a moon child that time is a very emotional introspective time, few days leading to the full moon, emotions do come out

  • @Kamo27944
    @Kamo27944 19 днів тому

    This Video might have saved my life. Life is dealing with me rn, it has nothing to do with a relationship. But there's certain things you said that I needed to hear right this moment. Thank you Owamie. ❤

  • @nothandothambokhulu
    @nothandothambokhulu Місяць тому +2

    This hits home😢

  • @neliswanoah7663
    @neliswanoah7663 Місяць тому

    Love and light Owami ❤️🙏🏽

  • @Elizabeth-vu1tb
    @Elizabeth-vu1tb Місяць тому +2

    This felt like a WhatsApp vn from a bf.❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ sending you lots of love Ninja. I wish we can respond via vn too.🤣🤣🤣

  • @itskwenaa
    @itskwenaa Місяць тому +1

    Girl you’re not alone 💯

  • @MissNAS23
    @MissNAS23 Місяць тому +1

    Love this content ❤

  • @PhindieVicky
    @PhindieVicky Місяць тому +1

    Congratulations for the audio development in UA-cam, when someone said they will be audio books,I couldn't understand.

  • @SnehN
    @SnehN Місяць тому

    Love & light Queen 🥷 we love you.

  • @bukelwamlanjana4666
    @bukelwamlanjana4666 Місяць тому

    yazi life happens and it goes on, glad you're taking time to reflect and get help

  • @MinglewithMpumi
    @MinglewithMpumi Місяць тому +1

    Love and light Queen ninja, healing is not linear and it takes time but we love you and this too shall pass.

  • @labrowngirl06
    @labrowngirl06 Місяць тому

    Thank you Owamie! I genuinely learn a lot from you!! Thank you for your transparency, and honesty!! ❤ 🇨🇦

  • @powertalks6936
    @powertalks6936 Місяць тому

    I love this and please do consider doing this more

  • @sinothando-lusandamadlala6064
    @sinothando-lusandamadlala6064 Місяць тому

    Ooooh wow Owamie... I'm sorry you have been going through it... Healing is a journey not a destination so there will be triggers and and and... Just acknowledge the pain and work through it... It will heal and get easier... Set the standard for how you want to be loved and the universe will hear you somehow... You can't change who you are but you can be more discerning as to who you open yourself up to from now on... ❤❤

  • @tashsmart1397
    @tashsmart1397 Місяць тому

    Love and light Queen ❤❤❤

  • @modikiramaisa4619
    @modikiramaisa4619 Місяць тому

    Very relatable stuff O . Sadly I think it’s how we are designed as women we love hard but many of us are now unlearning things and moving differently

  • @ugogojessica7545
    @ugogojessica7545 Місяць тому

    It was part your spiritual journey what u went through, speaking about it it's part of healing journey and helping other women who are going through what u went through

  • @Letstalkaboutit2323
    @Letstalkaboutit2323 Місяць тому +1

    Podcast ninja?i love it ❤

  • @KbMkhize
    @KbMkhize Місяць тому +2

    Tjoooh queen ninja, hope you heal completely. ❤❤

  • @samke1ndlovu
    @samke1ndlovu Місяць тому +2

    Love and light mama ❤️🌹

  • @Drip3657
    @Drip3657 Місяць тому +1

    Safe travel Queen Ninja ✨💕... A soothing voice over in the morning✨

  • @neolerefolo584
    @neolerefolo584 Місяць тому +1

    You are real, you are genuine. How you express your vulnerability is what creates this amazing community of like minded human beings that respect and subscribe to You. This is also the reason other women and men feel safe in sharing their lived experinces with you on your platform. Keep being you, keep touching lives. Do not be too hard on yourself. At the end of the day yours is a heart full of passionate love. 🙏

  • @unlockwiththandomaumela
    @unlockwiththandomaumela Місяць тому

    But I'm glad you have Lebo in your life as a friend. You're blessed there. Love and Light to you Ms Owami ❤️

  • @mphosimelane568
    @mphosimelane568 Місяць тому

    Why are you describing my situation, I feel so stupid for staying 15 years with a man who didn't love me and who abused me financially 😢 thank you for this

  • @affectionatewhati4526
    @affectionatewhati4526 Місяць тому

    Peace to u mama ❤

  • @CoachThirdhope
    @CoachThirdhope Місяць тому +3

    You must look at your mom’s marriage.Her being second wife also affect your self esteem.Hence you feel you deserve bare minimum

  • @momentswithcuteangel
    @momentswithcuteangel Місяць тому

    Hi Queen Ninja, this is one of the most saddest post and made me cry too. Unfortunately we have to do alot of undoing through therapy, because of our parents, and our past we've accepted alot of things as normal. We have a long way to go as people.

  • @manchathexplorer
    @manchathexplorer Місяць тому

    Take it easy Sisi and look after yourself,I know easier said than done but hey you’ll come out even more stronger than you are,some of these experiences painful as they’re are there to prepare you for even a better life ahead,hold your head high and continue to be boldly you ❤❤❤

  • @kumkanikazi.7229
    @kumkanikazi.7229 Місяць тому

    There’s a silver lining in most things, at the time, those interviews that your ex did, seemed so vindictive and unnecessary. But here you are today, healing and being able to connect the dots, using those same videos. Indirect closure. ❤️

  • @thando_t1723
    @thando_t1723 Місяць тому +1

    The title of this video 😭😭I thank you Owami 😭🙏🏻

  • @SainorasKitchen
    @SainorasKitchen Місяць тому +1

    This happened to me, everything you said on this video, and worse, I was abused by the men I dating and they happened to be my 2 baby daddies, emotionally and even worse physically and also financially, now for the physical part I chose not to report to the police because I didn't want to take the Blame fir for their iresponsibilities and narcissistic behavior

  • @NgwetjiyaDinare
    @NgwetjiyaDinare Місяць тому +1

    09:00 on a Monday Queen Ninja we just got to work n it’s hectic . We haven’t picked up , we still in that Monday blues. Your recent watch time won’t pick up . But hey I know nothing . At least Monday night I will have something to watch

  • @konwabaxuba9747
    @konwabaxuba9747 Місяць тому +1

    It’s giving asmr

  • @Esf715
    @Esf715 Місяць тому

    God loves you mntase for coming out of that marriage without a child. 🕯️more healing lover.

  • @xpnn
    @xpnn Місяць тому

    This is why it’s sooo important for ladies to be in therapy. That psychologist will always hold a mirror to you and force you to reflect so you can heal

  • @sunrise7640
    @sunrise7640 Місяць тому +1

    Owamie you were recently bullied on tiktok about your hyperpigmentation on your hands. Even though I think you have beautiful hands I am very insecure about mine. For some reason my skin on my hands and feet always get darker. I'm always hiding them. If we can just have a brief discussion with products you have tried to eradicate the hyperpigmentation maybe some ladies can teach us a thing or two. We always get bullied and people always assume and conclude we use bleaching agents.

  • @TheeMsutu
    @TheeMsutu Місяць тому +5

    Morning Ninjas 🌹

  • @tladimakuse7445
    @tladimakuse7445 Місяць тому

    ❤firstly, let me say I love you so much Queen Ninja, I love your channel, I love your views and perspectives. You continue to be who you are, genuine😢. Don’t punish yourself on someone you have not see it coming. You have demonstrated strength and courage over time, and I am proud of you. You desrve big girl because you are a great and liveable person ❤❤a pig will always be a pig. Don’t judge your character based on what you don't have control over. Your channel is a University of life. I appreciate you and will always do. Continue do good and continue charging lives. I love you and I love your voice

  • @PhindieVicky
    @PhindieVicky Місяць тому

    I hear you Queen ninja but one thing about 'them ', they put themselves first. So,as a woman you have a mandate to study anyone around you( character) 🤞

  • @anthiamashudu2663
    @anthiamashudu2663 Місяць тому

    ASMR vibes 😊❤

  • @tidimaloselebi8274
    @tidimaloselebi8274 Місяць тому

    Owamie you are really getting better girl! Please keep this tone. Exodus 14:14. The Lord will fight for you; you need only to be still.

  • @valentefredericks4118
    @valentefredericks4118 Місяць тому

    I remember seeing a video with you and ur EX, i could tell that man never liked you. But thats hes fault and thats on him. You deserve someone to love you. Dont blame urself, you had good intentions in ur marriage.You doing so well, keep pushing through.keep praying and keep ur head up sis. ❤

  • @buhles626
    @buhles626 Місяць тому

    So vulnerable... &, i love it... Sat in the dark in bed & i HEARD U... love u❤

  • @snazomnyakama622
    @snazomnyakama622 Місяць тому

    🤡 that is me didn't like voice podcasts. But today it worked for me late for work but i still need to listen coz i know i will gain some knowledge. But this time im glad i could listen whilts taking my shower.
    ,😇😘

  • @dancinginthepurplereign4126
    @dancinginthepurplereign4126 Місяць тому +1

    I think the onus of abuse is pn the abuser.
    If you met someone who is kind and is not looking to exploit you, you wouldn't hve been exploited.
    They violated you. I understand thst you are trying to take accountability for it because you don't want it to happen agan, but it really was not your fault.
    Shame on him for treating you like that. He is a psychopath.

  • @jay02021
    @jay02021 Місяць тому

    Still waiting for the to hell n back video. Is everything fine Owamie?

  • @fortunatekhosa3150
    @fortunatekhosa3150 Місяць тому +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @sheilamogadime8681
    @sheilamogadime8681 Місяць тому

    Ahhhh Mommy love you so much ❤

  • @margaretlesoleso
    @margaretlesoleso Місяць тому

    Some people need to go back to their upbringing 😱. This blame game has a root, the lenghth people will go for validation is horrendous 🙄🙄. Looking up to a parner to play a role of a father in a marriage, can be damaging to one's self esteem. Blaming other family members of your husband is not going to solve your issues😱. You are the problem here. So do some introspection and start all over🙄🙄. Hope you find love in this your lifetime, do you

  • @tremainexichavo60
    @tremainexichavo60 Місяць тому +1

    Hey queen ninja

  • @nelzg5819
    @nelzg5819 Місяць тому

    Can we talk about how many women are in this beneficial and convenient marriage with men who hate them. Hence the numerous broken marriages and women tolerating the most all in the name of love when they can see and feel that this isn't working out. The good thing here is that U loved and respected yourself enough to know u dont deserve this and u wont put up with it. Many women dont have that courage and they are afraid to leave . maybe they are staying for their own selfish reasons or whatever but kudos to return soldiers. We celebrate u especially when u come out alive and thriving and still want to sgare tour story so that many can learn and gain strength to do the right thing from it. Life is too short and too precious to be played and used by another human being . marriage should not be hell

  • @nthabelengkubeka5073
    @nthabelengkubeka5073 Місяць тому

    That is a result of loving someone with a toxic mother. From what I’ve heard ninja your ex has a narcissistic parent and he wasn’t gonna make it unless he realises it and admit them deal with it. I’m ashamed for the woman he is going to marry next

  • @nthabelengkubeka5073
    @nthabelengkubeka5073 Місяць тому

    You need to know that it was not you. The problem was not you. He has childhood traumas and things he hasn’t dealt with himself and that’s why I’m a relationship individuals must go to therapy to heal their own problems

  • @mirenke2014
    @mirenke2014 Місяць тому

    I'm waiting for the new upload for Monday

  • @africanbrowny
    @africanbrowny Місяць тому

    💜💕💜

  • @munangwasdiary9525
    @munangwasdiary9525 Місяць тому +1

    ❤️I’ve never been this early 😂

  • @Noko_Masholoane
    @Noko_Masholoane Місяць тому

    Wamie will promise us a video and not post 😭😭😭😭😭😩😩. This is also part of the financial abuse 😫

    • @mirenke2014
      @mirenke2014 Місяць тому +1

      I have been checking still nothing

  • @nothandothambokhulu
    @nothandothambokhulu Місяць тому +1

    🫶🏿🫶🏿🫶🏿Owwww owami😢

  • @makgabomahopo
    @makgabomahopo Місяць тому

    🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍

  • @botshelojansen4656
    @botshelojansen4656 Місяць тому +1

    🫶🏾