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Ladies, please be financially self sufficient! Whether you are single or married. You are much more protected from a lot when you can 100% provide for yourself & your children
Well said.
Very very important sister
Cheating is abuse , that hit home , if women can understand this statement !!
Sisi teachings are everywhere, they just dont want to listen. no one will love you more than your soul,
Most woman they think its a must to get married and have kids, kanti there's life on focusing on yourself,
A man is not everything people...
A man is not everything 💯 but you yourself alone you are everything ♥️
Nifunde ukuzithanda bantombazane.🍻
You always give such sound advice. It couldn’t have been said better.👌🏼
I just don't see myself entertaining the fact that my husband is not satisfied with me, repeatedly cheating, aowa😢.
I mean clearly there's something wrong there. Yoh le nna I can't
Definitely every woman should aim to be financially independent.
When it comes to Promise, the two of you just have different priorities & that's ok. As you said every woman has their own non-negotiables. She has said that she can tolerate cheating & that provision is the most important thing to HER. So she won't stay with a man who doesn't provide.
You on the other hand you don't tolerate cheating & will leave but you were able to tolerate a broke man for years & you were the (sole) provider at some point.
Different strokes for different folks🤷🏽♀️
@@QueenZanWhen did Zanzibar become Cape Town?😅😅
Your advices are forever solid!
I have realized that women can ignore a lot of things in their marriages because they are benefiting more than they are losing.
They emotional check out and nothing hurts them anymore because they know what they're gaining until they decide to it's enough.
I have come to the conclusion that a woman will leave her marriage when she has made up her mind and it has nothing to do with her having or not having money or whatever other reason one may come up with. It does not mean she is not aware that she is burning, but the heat is still bearable for her there will be a time where the heat will be too mich for her to handle. There will be an inner voice that will say: come babes its time to move.
A complex topic, you totally making sense but also there's a layer to what Owamie is saying... that a woman must formulate her own decisions and not necessarily be influenced by an influencer😅 that's just me being silly but anyway my own stance on all of this...do you...life works out differently for all of us and izindaba za bantu sometimes tires me because I have my own izindabas to deal with 🫶
@naledindlovu976 hey you are absolutely correct to each their own.
I think women need to consider the effect this has on kids while she's still waiting for her breaking point
💯 percent correct.
Hi Queen Ninja, black women love struggle love shem 😅. There is no way you can stay in a Relationship with man who is repeatedly cheating on you or a broke man and call that love 🙄.
My two cents maybe that woman realized that she can capitalize about her situation full stop.
You raised valid point. Please let's look at those questions.
“Next thing Weskopies”😂😂😂 m lounging but that is some damn deep truth Owami
Sometimes it's important to ignore other peoples business because we don't really know the dynamics of their realationship.
We know the dynamics of their relationship akere they talk about it openly
She made it our business by going into that podcast isn't it!?
So we assume she traveled alone coz her marriage is shaken? What if hubby is busy or he doesn’t want to travel?
Until we understand that the internet is nothing but a lie,?😅😅sana, never take anything you hear or see on the internet by heart ❤️ .lana we phusing time for views and following. Nna i love it for her..🎉ngwanyana wa mopedi is content bathong😂😂😂😂.
😂😂😂😂 Owami are walk to my friend's shop then next trip is to weskoppies, you finished me
Tjowe when you said that these are different men at these different stages. That hit..... Wamie hle tjo
old as i am, that statement opened my eyes, a good lesson right there.
But Owamie that's what she do is non of your business. Am not a hater but i hate it when you do this kind of video
She's not giving an advise She's gossiping nje straight,she hate seeing Promise hapy
Khuphuka ngapho daughter of the soil..... You always tell us inyaniso kukuthi ukuba siyithini.... Let me tell you... I LOVE YOU ❤
is this about Promise? if u have beef with owamie u have beef with owamie until the casket drops. Yho guys I love owamie and her subliminal shade
I think she was actually very cordial and respectful. She's a public figure right so Owami is just giving her 2 cents in the matter
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@@yongamamakehleni4826 I know my love but she is also being shady to some degree and I love it 😂
The blogger who blogs about other bloggers ( Promise) 😂😂😂
Promise has thrown SO Much subliminal shade to Owamie in multiple videos on occasions where it wasn't even relevant or contextual. Promise is the first one to throw shade. She even brought Big Guy on her channel to interview him and of course, she threw so much shade to Owamie in just one video!
Owamie was actually respectful and even when she spoke about Promise on the Lungelo KM interview, she said nice things about Promise.
@@cobainbridewhen was this? I can't see Owamie's interview there
😂😂😂..talk about settling for nonsense..
Powerful message, thank you Queen Ninja ❤
This is soo true and im glad you talking about this...we need to learn
This is excellent advice!❤
We already know the lady 🤭
Women who bekezela on a cheating husband....how do you deal with STIs and Aids
That question runs in my head so many times. Abasabi yini?!
They don’t 😂they hope for the best just to be able to say I’m married 🤮
I need her to start cheating back. I wonder if her so called marriage will be able to survive if she was the one cheating
It will end on the spot man don't forgive shame they love their selves but they want you to forgive them
🥹🫵🏾I thought I wasn’t gonna watch YT today 😂wanna be productive and do my research proposal but why would I miss my Ninja?!😂❤️
😂😂😂😂😂 now after this go be productive 😂
@@boldlyowamieplease 😭😭😂
You same here. I'm in the middle of exams I'm supposed to be studying
My Everyday Struggle😂😂😢Owamie Is Like A Drug.So Addictive 😢😂
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Leaving a relationship where you are cheated for so many years is hard. I have my own reasons and I pray that I get the financial break through because, when you are the only one taking care of the bills and 4 children late with a receptionist salary........it's hard. This is one of those where u get to understand when u r in the situation. Some of us are not even well educated, can't even find for our studies. Yoh kuningi and once u sit with those that are going through it, then I will understand 💔 it's hard!
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Sorry, I don’t think Owam is Judging, she is advising women to make money.
@@naledikuse6343 I totally get you, I know she wasn't 😊 I was just trying to say it's hard and like for me, I whole heartedly want to get out and I'm working on it but it's hard also. I know she means well ❤️
You can stay and plan your exit strategy, you got to have a plan babe, you can’t continue hurting yourself for years. And if possible, don’t make more babies in that marriage. If you feel you can stay there for life then it’s okay but no one should be in such a situation.
@@Manifester661 I am working on it, and going through therapy cos I'm scared that I might feel sorry for him and go back again. I just want heal while executing my exip plan.......when I feel ready I'm going to leave. Thank you 😊
Oh my, was waiting for any upload from you ❤
We are here woman to woman too 😄😄
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Ninja checking in🤗🤗🤗
Cheating is a not good at all..thts why men leave when thy r been cheated on,no body can stand 4 it..I love you ninja❤
Nothing but the truth ,we are learning ❤
Wise words queen ninja!!!
So true❤❤❤
Great video 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 a word indeed. But please also tell us who’s this woman I wanna see something 😩
It’s P…….
You know ninja i feel like millennials are too far gone they can’t be saved. As long as they are able to say I have a husband they don’t care. As a genzer I am genuinely afraid of men, they endanger us so much ka bofebe ba bona, they will chase you and swear up and down they are single whereas they have a long time partner they haven’t married and their partners are witches. Ke shapo ka banna shem
Lol I haven’t listened but the title is already cracking me up
Preach 🤞🤞🤞
Uyaseyisa yazi 😂😂😂. She's saying we get a lollipop and zimbas 😂😂😂😂😅. I love you sis.
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Ninja signing in, 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Thanks for always looking out for us❤
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Word 📌
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A woman will only leave the table as soon as she’s full and not a minute sooner
Within 🖤
We are here for it Shibubu❤
But if she’s okay with a man cheating, why does she need solo travel to get away from the drama and heartache?
I need women to stop lying to themselves
Its her birthday maybe thats what she wanted to do
@@thathappened2009 Oh, I missed that part
Maybe there is onother man there
😭😭ey I don’t think I’d stay with a cheating husband ne? But I feel like leaving is not easy so the only reason I would stay is if his cheating hasn’t affected the household dynamics and how the household is ran😭yho but still nka Shwa shame!
Tooo much
I feel like the more women stay and become strong women the shit increases. I used to say the same and say I'll stay as long as money is there and he comes back mara looking at it now absolutely no.Cheating is abuse and hate speech. I'ts evil nje.
As for Swim with Tortoise🤣🤣
I won't lie am even afraid to get married 😂
❤so tru Ninja
Just a side note, not all couples want to do every single thing together. Sometimes people enjoy having time alone to do things alone and create their own memories.
mara birthday yona?!?! aowa my darling🤣
Now you know damn well she’s not trying to spend her birthday alone, she is highly male centered
Apparently wives aren't allowed to take solo vacations😭.
@@RayOfLetsatsi your name is so cool🔥
@@RayOfLetsatsilistening is a skill
I want to go to tiktok now and search for people who are away on vacation😂😂😂,
Prom..Makuny…
Owami, the last time you spoke about this particular person your family secrets were exposed and that wasn't nice.
Please leave her alone, the fact that ya'll have blocked each other just let it be.
I come in peace ✌️
There’s no family secrets that was exposed, a broke bitter x spoke lies and I don’t care
Ninjalicious in the house
Mhm I get you & your advice is valid, but you could've left Promise out of this since y'all don't get along. Now it looks like you & your followers are keeping tabs on her while yena she hasn't spoken about you in a long time if I'm not mistaken.
Thank you! She could have said whatever she wanted without giving hints about the lady in question.
It will end in tears.😢
The last time she spoke about this famous influencer, her family secrets were exposed.😳
Some ninjas are actually Owamie's haters & want her to be in another nasty public beef so bad.
No one who really likes you will bring you information about someone you don't like & have blocked.
Nayi because she was waiting to have a gotcha moment she entertained it.
Even if she didn't mention the woman in question, we still would have figured out who or what she's reporting on. And this very comment would have shown up in the comments section... "We all know who she's referring to..."
Why are we giving money so much power ?. Deal with your PROBLEMS. Shopping, Travelling etc is the same advice as saying DRINK, Do drugs. As long as your “HAPPY “.. there is no amount of money that can fill that void. Travel all you want . Buy everything but your own MENTAL HAPPINESS is worth more than that. People don’t even have peace of mind, suicidal because we don’t want to deal with our problems.
Money isn’t the solution Owamie. You’re also very wrong .. please please stop substituting problems with coping mechanisms. Fix your problems before you BREAK. You’ll die young.
Your demons will follow you, spilling into other people’s marriages.. it’s painful that’s why you’ll own up and even accept an unfaithful marriage because you don’t even know what is right anymore.
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Money is power ninja it's a solution to most problems. That's why it's so spiritual
@@ZeeInterpretations That mentality is the reason why people don’t have shame/morals anymore. They sleep with married men,older men, ritualisms etc.. living in loveless marriages. Compromising your life for money.
It shouldn’t be given that much power. That’s all I’m saying.
This is excellent advice my word!!! People should DEAL with their problems bathong 😢,wow you have said it ausi💯
Hmm…🥃I totally agree @Elizabeth-vu1tb
This!!!!!!
😂😅😅 awuse Thixo!!!😂😂😭
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Good advice Owamie.
Is also good to know that you are also a blogger that blogs about other bloggers (Promise)
Good advice Owamie and is also good to know that you are also a blogger that blogs about other bloggers (Promise)
Weskoppies 😂😂😂😂😂
Ninja 😂🎉
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Not me realising that she blocked me 😮🤣🤣
Why would she block you? 🚫 the question is who are you behind this creepy accounts blackwoman 🤔
Let’s go make money
8:00-8:17 this right here 👏
when you have encountered that you can't be the same.
Yah, even myself am not the same person i was last week,ke chencha beke le beke😅
Indeed make boundaries clear from the get go to avoid the other person being shocked when you walk out the door
Queen ninja why are you so obsessed with Promise Makunyane though?
This is the advise all women need to hear.
@@Manifester661 I understand the advise is valid, but her obsession with Promise is getting out of hand. Promise is living her best life and she's happy with her life choices. Each to their own honestly. I also don't support cheating but honestly there's no need to ridicule those who don't have a problem with cheating,as long as bale happy hle.
@@Lebogang-dy3zxmaybe I missed it but I didn't hear Owamie ridiculing Promise 🤞🏽
I think She is obsessed with her too. She always throws shade at her. Im glad she has closed her ears
But maybe let’s let these two women be, remember Promise drove all the way to another Province where Owamie’s ex husband lives to interview him so she can know how he details about their marriage which ended, for me, nothing tops that.they are obsessed with each other 😂
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One thing, they will not tell us everything. But OWAMIE, OWAMIE & OWAMIE let people live their lives. Certain things they’re not worth a video. You left, she stayed. Let’s move on my sister ❤️❤️. Let’s do entertainment videos and to hell & back. We are happy. Please sesi I beg you 🙏🙏
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Hey Ninja
It's sad to see 2 Powerful, Content Creators, Beautiful Black Woman, from Limpopo not getting along.
The works of the Devil's Division amongst black women
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I smell obsession and its getting out of hands,u so obsessed with Promosed,the cheating u talking bwt happend b4 married and during their break up not inside her marriage.she's out der having fun n when u so stressed bwt her happiness.This is not an advise u just here talking bwt Promise and her happiness
I'm sorry I came late
❤no w🤐rds well said Queen Ninja.
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Hi Ninjas ❤
😢 my comments aren't showing what's happening?
I see them 🥰
Hmm…🥃anyone with too many options will choose badly
Guys I know she said she doesn’t want to mention names but who’s the tiktoker guys? angimazi mina usisi
Pro… Maku
She's talkinga bwt Promise,Mrs law
Owami I have a story for you. How can I get in touch with you ? How can I report a story .
Father neglect his duties and owes me money but claims for protection oder against me and my son
Ninja I've been following u for years and I love how you always educate us especially about the sexual health.
I wish most Christians can gather here. The doctrine of bekezela and pray for your marriage is over preached there, and still being labeled as failures if they divorced.
100%
Married to a dream🥲
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She also affords therapy 😂
Yaah and here with my self l will end up in mental hospital kkkkkk
I'm first ...
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But when you go out the country as “a break” to herself. All you doing sis is giving him more room to cheat in peace. And collect all kinds of sicknesses to pass to you!!
Could never be me but to each their own
But the man has been given a free pass already whether she is in or out of the country he will cheat so she might as well go and explore and in another country.
Promised never said her Husband is cheating,the cheating she was talking about was b4 marriage and all dat break up they had b4 marriage now dat they married she said dat she knows non of him cheating and there are no signs just dat Owami makes it seems like he's cheating even today dts what she wants every one to know n believe
@@NosiphoDlamini-wq5gd Exactly,you are spot on also people are allowed do what they want in their marriage and how they choose to celebrate their birthday it’s not like she is in prison that she can’t go anywhere or leave the country if and when she feels like it.
I wonder who I that lady 🤔
Ninjas am I the only one who has to keep on pressing sub button because every time I watch this channel it says subscribe although I did the last time I watched the videos on this channel?
Yaas ninja, you’re the only one.
😂😂 I just subscribed again
@@thabsilechamane3774 🫢
It is not witkoppies NinjA,IT IS WETKOPPIES
It's Weskoppies ninja 😂😆
Nawe ulungisa into ewrong ninja😂
@@MsSwanlake😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 miss red pen got red penned herself. I thank you.
Lol lewena o wrong 😂😂😂
Aowa Owamie, you are literally reaching, a married woman actually needs alone time, it doesn’t mean there was cheating! This microscope you have on her marriage is a bit much, considering you also stayed for many years putting up with crap just that it wasn’t cheating! You’ve totally missed the mark here shem
Prms😂😂
People have different tolarence levels and different turn off in a relationship. Let the lady be.