Same, I zone out so much randomly throughout the day, I shut down if there is too much going on or if I'm under stimulated as well, Then I normally give up easily, I also tend to tell people random thoughts and information I shouldn't give people. Zoning out to the point where I I forget what someone said, what I'm typing or righting or doing etc, Also get sad when people point out my adhd symptoms and sometimes feel gilt too much. I also vent a lot about my adhd problems and problems in general. If I hold things, Then I blow up in anger and sadness and struggle to function. Sorry if this is too much to read, this is my current brain's mood lol after a long day at work. :)
Zoning out is a big one for me as well. If you want to do a documentary on your life you could make it several smaller videos and create a playlist. I don’t know what you have to do to make the playlist play in the proper order though. But consider doing it that way. It would be easier to create it in smaller chunks than a full blown documentary.
You know, on a few things, we share so much in common. I'm a scripted conversationalist because I was born undiagnosed as well. Been that way my entire life. I try to figure out what to say to anyone I meet without making a complete utter fool of myself. Not that easy, but it gets the job done. If that makes sense. Honestly, communication is not always easy, which is why I'm still friendless and single to this day.
I relate to so many of these! Overtalking or zoning out when someone is speaking. I’m undiagnosed currently but in talks with my doctor awaiting follow ups with ADHD people to start. Also I’d like to start a club for people who get told they are “too much” - saw a quote somewhere else which I want to use but im terrible at standing up for myself 😅 “if I’m too much, go find less”
Along the lines of what you said about going off on tangents that make sense to you and no-one else, I've found my humour can be so deadpan that no-one picks up that I'm joking and I can come across as really rude and ignorant when in reality I was just trying to crack a joke, it's pretty awkward sometimes ! x
so you asked me what i want and this is what I'm struggling with the most keep it internal I know its just an emotional part of my brain reacting but i can't keep my parenting off it my mind just keeps pushing that bad event that triggered into my awareness and i always say that's just life and it all a learning lesson from the universe I'm rely spiritual it helps a lot to practice shamanism
Let's see... 1. Yup! 2. Yeah. 3. That's me. 4. That's me, too. 5. Uh-huh. 6. Totally. 7. Yuppers! I love your vids and would love to see whatever else you post! :D
Thank you Molly you once says thank you for me supporting you Molly but I need to thank you for supporting me if it wasn't for you I wouldn't understand as much as I do about conditions so thank you Molly for helping and supporting me and others your videos are encouraging and very helpful keep up the good work Molly
less hyperverbal mode and being emotionally triggered less bad those 2 things currently working on by the way I also noticed I now zone out on autopilot I don't want to fit in I want to be a less toxic way so I can at least be somewhat friendly i don't care if I'm not perfect I will never able to do it because of my AuDHD and pda and all the stuff I have yeh labels but I'm still different I need to work with it and not beat myself up that's just life
I wish I was able to communicate with sign language as sometimes it is too hard for me to talk (appropriately). It takes a lot of energy. I mumble and have problems to find the right volume or my emphasis is off. It’s worse when I take my ADHD meds. I’m not diagnosed with autism but definitely feel that there’s something else in addition to my ADHD.
I live in Germany where the sign language is called DGS and I have started to learn the alphabet and a few signs already. Learning languages is my thing :-). I’m pretty sure my relationship would profit from it. Maybe I can convince my partner to learn it together with me. It’s interesting for me that you sometimes communicate with your mother via text messages. I also thought about doing that with my wife and now feel encouraged to try it. Thank you very much for your content.
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Same, I zone out so much randomly throughout the day, I shut down if there is too much going on or if I'm under stimulated as well, Then I normally give up easily, I also tend to tell people random thoughts and information I shouldn't give people. Zoning out to the point where I I forget what someone said, what I'm typing or righting or doing etc, Also get sad when people point out my adhd symptoms and sometimes feel gilt too much. I also vent a lot about my adhd problems and problems in general. If I hold things, Then I blow up in anger and sadness and struggle to function. Sorry if this is too much to read, this is my current brain's mood lol after a long day at work. :)
Zoning out is a big one for me as well. If you want to do a documentary on your life you could make it several smaller videos and create a playlist. I don’t know what you have to do to make the playlist play in the proper order though. But consider doing it that way. It would be easier to create it in smaller chunks than a full blown documentary.
That’s a great Idea thankyou!!
Also the documentary sounds really interesting! Would definitely like to see it.
Thankyou! I wanna make a mini series type thing x
You know, on a few things, we share so much in common. I'm a scripted conversationalist because I was born undiagnosed as well. Been that way my entire life. I try to figure out what to say to anyone I meet without making a complete utter fool of myself. Not that easy, but it gets the job done. If that makes sense. Honestly, communication is not always easy, which is why I'm still friendless and single to this day.
I relate to so many of these! Overtalking or zoning out when someone is speaking. I’m undiagnosed currently but in talks with my doctor awaiting follow ups with ADHD people to start.
Also I’d like to start a club for people who get told they are “too much” - saw a quote somewhere else which I want to use but im terrible at standing up for myself 😅 “if I’m too much, go find less”
Oversharing is my biggest enemy 🫶🏼
Along the lines of what you said about going off on tangents that make sense to you and no-one else, I've found my humour can be so deadpan that no-one picks up that I'm joking and I can come across as really rude and ignorant when in reality I was just trying to crack a joke, it's pretty awkward sometimes ! x
I can relate to the autopilot mode, scripted conversationalist and non-verbal parts. Anything else just makes me come across as weird or abrupt.
so you asked me what i want and this is what I'm struggling with the most keep it internal I know its just an emotional part of my brain reacting but i can't keep my parenting off it my mind just keeps pushing that bad event that triggered into my awareness and i always say that's just life and it all a learning lesson from the universe I'm rely spiritual it helps a lot to practice shamanism
Let's see... 1. Yup! 2. Yeah. 3. That's me. 4. That's me, too. 5. Uh-huh. 6. Totally. 7. Yuppers!
I love your vids and would love to see whatever else you post! :D
I appreciate you taking the time to leave a comment❤️
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When I talk it's like I don't realise how loud iam as someone far away comes over and joins the conversation
I can relate 🫣
Hi Molly this all makes sense to me I understand what you saying it's perfect sense in my head
Thank you x
Thank you Molly you once says thank you for me supporting you Molly but I need to thank you for supporting me if it wasn't for you I wouldn't understand as much as I do about conditions so thank you Molly for helping and supporting me and others your videos are encouraging and very helpful keep up the good work Molly
less hyperverbal mode and being emotionally triggered less bad those 2 things currently working on by the way I also noticed I now zone out on autopilot I don't want to fit in I want to be a less toxic way so I can at least be somewhat friendly i don't care if I'm not perfect I will never able to do it because of my AuDHD and pda and all the stuff I have yeh labels but I'm still different I need to work with it and not beat myself up that's just life
I get that!❤️
Brilliant molly another interesting video xx ❤
I wish I was able to communicate with sign language as sometimes it is too hard for me to talk (appropriately). It takes a lot of energy. I mumble and have problems to find the right volume or my emphasis is off. It’s worse when I take my ADHD meds. I’m not diagnosed with autism but definitely feel that there’s something else in addition to my ADHD.
Have you thought about learning BSL?
I live in Germany where the sign language is called DGS and I have started to learn the alphabet and a few signs already. Learning languages is my thing :-). I’m pretty sure my relationship would profit from it. Maybe I can convince my partner to learn it together with me.
It’s interesting for me that you sometimes communicate with your mother via text messages.
I also thought about doing that with my wife and now feel encouraged to try it. Thank you very much for your content.
So recognizable 😅 I've started with short working methylfenidate today and I'm curious to see if my communication style is going to change.
Best of luck! Let us know how it goes
Yes people think I'm on drugs! Even asking me if I want more🙄
Oh i’m sorry people say that!
@@MollysADHDMayhem makes me laugh