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Reckon you can switch sides of the spectrum? Because I believe I was hyposexual for year but after I got divorced and started enhancement supplements,the urges and overwhelming desires have hit me with a ton of bricks lol

You have just described my life

I hate brushing my teeth too. Gotta force myself.

I can relate, and oversharing can be a big problem sometimes.

This is exactly me

Oh Molly, I hear you and really feel for you with this. Whilst you have not found it yet, there is a hidden switch that will let you roll play a good driver until you become one and there are so many ways to positively engage your hyper-focus. There are plenty of very competent emergency response level drivers out there and driving instructors who have been where you are now. Time won’t fix this for you alone, although it may help if your brain is still developing. What you need, is coaching with a skilled accountability partner who has the right skill set, and a dash and rear view cam. One of the most positive things you could do would be to find an ex police instructor (modern) and explain the ADHD - they will understand. Your local police driving school might know someone who has retired and able to help. Also consider putting the keys down or being accompanied during your luteal phase (until you have meds adjusted or have found that consistency you need). You will get through this.

I always order the very same menu from some merchants. I find some shops are good on specific dishes/meals only. So, if it suits my taste, it will be my forever menu and I seem to never change my liking. Some people (and shop owner) may confused me for looking down other menus. In fact, that is not the case! I'm just obsessed with those specific menus.

Hahaha exactly! 😂

i had an accident on ice ... and i think that the problem was i was never trained/informed (how) to drive on ice in the driving school ... but if really applies "who cant (anything, that field), teaches (it)", maybe i am glad i wasnt ...

Okay, so I would like to know some peoples own experiences and maybe what could be happening with me I’m not trying to self diagnose. I’m going to be tested for any neurodivergent conditions I might have, but is it a thing where a person touches you and then you can kind of feel the person keep on touching/on you for the next couple hours to days after any physical touch has happened. this happened to me recently and it ended up making me go into a freak out where everything bothered me and I don’t know what that is I don’t know how to describe it. It just felt like too much everything. Sorry to write an entire book. Any advice or help would be amazing thank you.

I feel so seen😭😭thank you Molly

What do i do...how do i get started on the process of seeing if something is up? Im a minor and my parents arent taking me seriously

Yeah, there's no doubt I've been scripting my entire life.

Well, this hits close to home. 😅

I tend to repeatedly script lines in my head for emails I intend to send.

Yasss this is so relatable ❤❤

I’m wondering if your dad and sister are also autistic since you said they have flat affect and lack expressive faces.

My question about the “scripts|rehearsing” which I do do. I find my conversation really does not come out as practiced in my head ?????

Do you get any pain fybromyalgia symptoms also are you hypermobile

I feel like a pedo, when i thought about sex with people everytime i look at them everyday. Even with people i don't even attract. Im trying to change my ways. I try my hardest to control myself.

Well said, thanks for keeping on track. I'm so shutdown I can't regulate thinking in a straight line. Seems nowhere to help including dr/mental health. Good to know the condition is recognised

In my experience being able to experience important things is a myth lol. I can remember the names of characters on tv shows and movies from when i was a kid lol but not almost anything else lol

"I don't need to write that down..." Heckin' yeah relatable. I too am an AuDHDer and with me, I'll write an important date down, never look at it again and will still remember it, so my brain will be like "hmm, guess we didn't need to write that down after all!" How wrong we were, my brain and I. How wrong we were. Now, I write things down twice, even if the event is tomorrow - once in my phone's notes the moment I hear about it and another time on a giant wall-sized poster board I have in my room where I randomly jot down things just cause. "I'm going to love this forever...this is the one" is my version of your second one plus the notebook one. But yeah, equally relatable. Especially now that I have a SteamDeck. With notebooks, it wasn't until I started thumbing through older ones that a noticed I couldn't remember what I was going to do with said notebook. Every few pages was a random shift in content. So, for my next notebook purchase, I'm going to write a giant title on it and see how long it takes because my next next notebook purchase lol. "I'll just say no next time..." BIG. HECKIN'. RELATE. Hearing you say this made my heart sink into a dark place - in a please-hold-my-hand kind of way. It sucks because in my mind (lol) saying no is so easy. But in real life, for me, my 'yes' sounds like 'yes🙂🙂' and my 'no' or even my 'no thank you' apparently comes off as 'P!SS-OFF-YOU-CVNT-WHY-THE-PHXK-WOULD-I-DO-THAT!?!?'. The people pleasing reflex kicks in because I anticipate that people will ask questions about (and therefore will have a problem or may be unhappy with) my refusal. I'm still working on this one. A therapist I saw once related this to growing up with and around people who would use people like us, especially when we were younger, to emotionally regulate themselves. They would manipulate us with ridicule, rejection, abuse, derision, etc to then conditioning us to trip over ourselves to take responsibility for them feeling inconvenienced, and I think about that every time the time comes for me to give a firm 'no' and stand by it but instead I choke.

I need to save this video so I can come back to it next time my ableist AuDHD-denying imposter syndrome internal critic tries to tell me I'm just lazy and weird and forgetful and a terrible procrastrinator. Each of these hit me square between the eyes, with the exception of the notebook doompile, my version of which is years of spreadsheets with very similar names, texts to myself, google docs, note apps (evernote), trello type apps... and the only thing that's worked for me at all is google calendar. Thanks for doing the hard work to get this on youtube! Very validating.

check, check, check .... yeah 🫤

When I tell myself I don't need to write something down I know full well that I will forget it, and once the thing I've forgotten inevitably crops again up later I'm always taken back to the moment I told myself I didn't need to write it down lol but I never learn my lesson

All of them, worst part is if I write it down I don't need to look at it again to be reminded. I am trying more and more to say no, and stick to it, but afterwards feel guilty about saying no and not going to what I was asked/invited to. The only notebook I use is to write down my guitar tabs and actually use it.

I relate to the buying stuff you don't need all the time mollyxxx

Yessssss, 1-6, all the things. I have recently found some notebooks that I actually use though so…. yay😅

Dang i think a symptom of lookin all cute up in here should be added.

Relatable as a non autistic and non ADHDer. :)

Awesome sound selection, really relate to this 💙💙 Totally loved the show too. Dewey was my favourite 😂

Yes, these all resonate. Please can you do a part three? 🤓 thank you, Molly 🙌😎

such a helpful video, thank you ❤

So me

“And Carl”☠️

Let's talk on how this may play into fawning?

I enjoy you answering yourself in this video. Have you ever heard of the program Word Jazz with Ken Nardine I think was his name. Very unique approach to his once a week midnight radio program which is long gone at this point in media history. Possibly you could extend your use of this audio technique.

8:29 my god that is relatable! I've failed my driver's test twice due to being confused and overwhelmed with instructions, and in a panic I committed instant errors that made you fail instantly

I love that show. Right now my comfort show is Monk. I've watched Brooklyn 99 like that too

Adhd is a disorder to the degree, that you are living in a environment, that isn't compatible with your way of beeing. If you were born in a nomadic environment, it could have been an advantage possibly. If you have learnef, that you are not good how you are, it's a disorder then i guess.

Call them both.

wats it Called ?

Thankfully caffeine actually does stimulate me and I can get a little hyper with it. Not really understanding how other people with ADHD don't have the ability maybe it's because I'm not just ADHD or not at all ADHD I don't know but it seems like I have the same thing as ADHDrs do.

Lots. I wanna buy them now that ive realized they could just get taken off of streaming at will of the people who are hosting them. Buying blurays and etc. ❤

I'd really love a video where you focus on the not getting on paper thing bc Im not sure but I think it's THE thing I struggle with the most bc Im so burnout but also understimulated at the same time. I keep thinking I lack confidence to start but really it's a struggle to know how to start translating it into the real world. I like abstract A LOT but as soon as I need to make abstract super concrete, I lose my creativity. I become super rigid and afraid which is why I think Im AuDHD.

Oh my gosh yes I do this all the time. I have decided now to just click on something random and watch a bit of it in hopes it will grab my attention