Too late. Got married and had kids with one. I've been ruined, but I'll be damned if I'm going to pay that two-timin' beach child support after what she did. She doesn't deserve to raise my kids... to deign to teach them how to be decent, responsible people.
I have BPD. The symptoms of NPD stated in this video and the relationship description between the two types of people sound EXACTLY like me and my ex. Like literally word for word. This helped me a lot to understand my previous relationship and now I think it'll be easier for me to heal from it😊
You can call me crazy or delusional if you want. But watching all these personality videos on this channel left me with one very saddening but true insight into the world. People these days cannot acknowledge others, empathetically speaking. The borderline is comfort being the most dangerous drug out there, a feeling of belonging that has the momentum to destroy people in all aspects of their general everyday lives. As a victim of mental health, only a few will understand what I'm saying, but the rest of the people on this planet will remain blind, ignorant, narcissistic, and in denial.
My experience with borderline personality disorder was the person aggressively convinced me to give them a chance and then abandoned me, came back and so on...I don't react well with sudden rejection and ended up clinging to them🤦🏼♀️
I think everyone here is one thing or another. that's why we're all here watching these videos. We're all coo coo for co co puffs lol. Embrace it, they say a lot of great people were and are these things. So maybe we are special and we know it. it's hard to reach within ourselves and pull out the magic. If you have a creative side I say embrace and nurture it. Play your instruments, write new songs, post them on UA-cam. Paint, draw, write, do whatever it is you do. Be great!!! Love it!!! The universe made you. It loves you. Normal is boring.
@@alicevill2259 Some days are better then other… but the struggle will always be there… Not to mention the enormity of not understanding what it is like to have a normal personality.
I'm 49 and never married. I have a very hard time in relationships. I feel very guilty/ and blame myself about this. I also worry that I'm narcissistic because of how i act in relationships but i feel terrible for my past lovers 💔 😕 😔 😪 that truely cared for me. I'm not a narcissist because i care about their feelings ❤
Could you walk through a common overlap between borderine phsycopathy combined with bpd-narcissistic behaviour, it is something that I personally have a lot of experience with and I have realized that sub genres and combinations of these disorders are almost more common than the pure diagnoses themselves.
I have been studying with my sociology degree your series. I actually fit under this category tooth a hue😅 I ran into my very first narcissist that just blows me away 🙃☝️II came right up under the BPD but stop right there ☝️I walked away and now I’m educating myself and have had many years of therapy, but this one is a doozy. What is healthy or normal❓I always love that one. What is normal💁♀️❓⁉️
True normalcy is being free of self-destructive influences. Social normalcy refers to a norm...which could mean mass psychopathy in a certain population. World war II Germany would be an example. This is why it's important for individuals to get themselves mentally grounded...by learning behaviors and habits that support good mental health. A good starting point is to learn the seven deadly sins and move on from there.
This is only my opinion Source: Trust me bro Lack of empathy in the wrong minds can lead to mass killings and inconsiderate choices that affect humans as a whole. For instance, Hitler's reasons for what he did had merit but the way he went about it was wrong and could have easily been avoided by making Germany a german only state and kicking all Jews / foreigners out. ( Im not saying i agree with Hitler's logic but there was an easier, faster, and more efficient way )
@@senselessjay8193 No that would´ve been stupid from Hitlers point of view as he thought the Jews were a plague a poison for the world and killing them would be a good thing also Hitler wanted to conquer the intire world and therefore kicking them out would only have delayed it. and wtf does that have to do with my question what I wanted to know was why a psychopath should agree to get treatment as for him there arent any real disatvantages
I think I have that kind of symptoms. I have Asperger's and autism. even of mental condition call retardation. I can read I can focus and trying to struggle to learn. I am a disability person who mental condition symptoms I'm not easy
Right!? I know a Vietnam vet that went to the Midwest to some big psych place out there for a few weeks or a month or something. They stirred up things that his mind had blocked out and he said he wishes he never went because now he remembers things he doesn't want to remember...just give us good drugs(AKA medication) and let us enjoy this short life we have here😢🎉😊
I thought I knew, but it turns out I didn't. I stopped reading about cognitive and social neuroscience for a while and fell for a dangerous personality type hook, line and sinker. I should have devoted more time to study. I don't regret having my kids, but the sex and her usefulness were really subpar for how dirty she done did me. 🤭 Oops! I guess that's a real narcissistic, sociopathic APD thing for me to say. 🤗 At least I strive to be honest and forthcoming about my issues to the best of my knowledge. I'm trying to keep from using my issues as a crutch or a shield. I simply flaunt my dark side as a warning. Those who decide to try to get to know me or be a part of my life should do so with some informed consent.
Reeeeeal 😂 ATLEAST BANG MY BRAINS OUT IF YOU'RE GOING TO BE EVIL AND THIS IS COMING FROM SOMEONE WITH PSYCOPATHY. Didn't do anything to deserve this shit man
This is not exactly true at ALL. There are so many different layers to both diagnosis. There are borderlines who don’t actually act out any clingyness at all and can spend YEARS alone due to being so afraid to feel the awful feelings they get during relationships. And there are many narcissists who are aware enough not to go around acting superior all the time. Your detailing of these disorders leaves much to be desired
My girlfriends coworkers mom says this same thing and she's absolutely depressed. She just told me about her like a month ago so it's "top of mind" lol
My mum and my sister wtf 😂down to a ratio of one percent maybe wrong🤔😱💤💯🥹come to the point of parculiar strategies as a empath family member😩😤😳🫣🤭😴🤧😷🤫🥶🤬😭😖😟😒😎🧐🤪🙃but why?? Solved all my family issues I already knew watching this video. Silence is worst when they’ve come to ahead . Mum bored . Sis is winging now trying lies scheme they way out of mums medals 30 lately over years. My duty fix everyone and I will. I see believe it or not there both 25 percent empaths in my group very short like 10 minutes a year if there medals are superior enough to support the illusion.. fucking illusions my childhood for fucksake .. disorder expert now. Therapist strategies and severe autism mum. Third child. My older child is on the sociapath group from my ex side of family going through non verbal brother. His world seemed be on lately mission combined my npd mum borderline sociopath traits is the answer and I didn’t care but it really a scenario were I’m like wasn’t there help them through … and energy was n my son really sad but necessary growth, mission since diagnosed my son at 7 years right. Later 13 years by experts ha. Not in my care then🧐 feel the love ❤️ all alive healthy, this for future generations of knowledge hurt unnecessary pain but the range of combinations. Best part face of hehehe no one suppose to see. Winners medals 🏅 superior which she’s elderly now. Ha. Sister next generation learning cope npd to empath combination. Other 2 sons full empaths like me.
I know 2 woman with BPD and they are the sweetest people I know and so caring even when they are having emotional issues.
NEVER interact with a BDP narcissist. Easily one of the worst experiences in my life, and that was all from me walking away and not really doing much.
So you can get an overlap in both ? I'm sure my ex was both BPD and narcissistic
have dated one before, truly draining and tiring...
The dodgy court doctor labled me that when i aint , it didnt help my court case i think it is the otherway round i wouldnt discriminate though
Too late. Got married and had kids with one. I've been ruined, but I'll be damned if I'm going to pay that two-timin' beach child support after what she did. She doesn't deserve to raise my kids... to deign to teach them how to be decent, responsible people.
In this case it can be u or ur given situation n also ur partner
I have BPD. The symptoms of NPD stated in this video and the relationship description between the two types of people sound EXACTLY like me and my ex. Like literally word for word. This helped me a lot to understand my previous relationship and now I think it'll be easier for me to heal from it😊
i’ve been learning more and more about bpd for the last month or so and i think i need to bring it up to my therapist
Work out, eat well, meditate and go for walks and you'll need no therapy
Dont be scared to! Im trying to do the same and my parents are trying to convince me im fine. I just brought it up to my therapist
I'd think they would have seen it in you but that's just my opinion and I'm no professional.
You can call me crazy or delusional if you want. But watching all these personality videos on this channel left me with one very saddening but true insight into the world. People these days cannot acknowledge others, empathetically speaking. The borderline is comfort being the most dangerous drug out there, a feeling of belonging that has the momentum to destroy people in all aspects of their general everyday lives. As a victim of mental health, only a few will understand what I'm saying, but the rest of the people on this planet will remain blind, ignorant, narcissistic, and in denial.
My experience with borderline personality disorder was the person aggressively convinced me to give them a chance and then abandoned me, came back and so on...I don't react well with sudden rejection and ended up clinging to them🤦🏼♀️
I’m a Borderline and believe me i didn’t choose this to be me..
Same
I think everyone here is one thing or another. that's why we're all here watching these videos. We're all coo coo for co co puffs lol. Embrace it, they say a lot of great people were and are these things. So maybe we are special and we know it. it's hard to reach within ourselves and pull out the magic. If you have a creative side I say embrace and nurture it. Play your instruments, write new songs, post them on UA-cam. Paint, draw, write, do whatever it is you do. Be great!!! Love it!!! The universe made you. It loves you. Normal is boring.
Did you handled yourself better in everyday life after being diagnosed?
@@alicevill2259 Some days are better then other… but the struggle will always be there… Not to mention the enormity of not understanding what it is like to have a normal personality.
BDP, it seems describes way more people than, statistically should be possible. I guess that is modern society to you.
I'm 49 and never married. I have a very hard time in relationships. I feel very guilty/ and blame myself about this. I also worry that I'm narcissistic because of how i act in relationships but i feel terrible for my past lovers 💔 😕 😔 😪 that truely cared for me. I'm not a narcissist because i care about their feelings ❤
Could you walk through a common overlap between borderine phsycopathy combined with bpd-narcissistic behaviour, it is something that I personally have a lot of experience with and I have realized that sub genres and combinations of these disorders are almost more common than the pure diagnoses themselves.
The REALLY fun ones swirl both personality disorders together in a hybrid dance remix.
Perfectly said..
With disasterous consequences.
Psycopathy added too cause why not? it's marvelous hell on earth? 💅
I enjoyed listening to this video it shed light on my understanding. Thank you for sharing your video it's educational and informative.❤
Glad it was helpful!
This is hard work
I have been studying with my sociology degree your series. I actually fit under this category tooth a hue😅 I ran into my very first narcissist that just blows me away 🙃☝️II came right up under the BPD but stop right there ☝️I walked away and now I’m educating myself and have had many years of therapy, but this one is a doozy. What is healthy or normal❓I always love that one. What is normal💁♀️❓⁉️
True normalcy is being free of self-destructive influences. Social normalcy refers to a norm...which could mean mass psychopathy in a certain population. World war II Germany would be an example. This is why it's important for individuals to get themselves mentally grounded...by learning behaviors and habits that support good mental health. A good starting point is to learn the seven deadly sins and move on from there.
can someone pls explain to me why a Psychopath should get treatment?
This is only my opinion
Source: Trust me bro
Lack of empathy in the wrong minds can lead to mass killings and inconsiderate choices that affect humans as a whole. For instance, Hitler's reasons for what he did had merit but the way he went about it was wrong and could have easily been avoided by making Germany a german only state and kicking all Jews / foreigners out.
( Im not saying i agree with Hitler's logic but there was an easier, faster, and more efficient way )
@@senselessjay8193 No that would´ve been stupid from Hitlers point of view as he thought the Jews were a plague a poison for the world and killing them would be a good thing also Hitler wanted to conquer the intire world and therefore kicking them out would only have delayed it. and wtf does that have to do with my question what I wanted to know was why a psychopath should agree to get treatment as for him there arent any real disatvantages
😬 said it was only my opinion and the source was nothing. Kinda overreacted there.
Because they’re not all evil. They just don’t feel anything which is apathetic and depressing
Ya we're not all serial killers
I don't think this video explains well what BPD is, it's more based on stigma and stereotypes than anything else.
Signed: a BPD :)
Imagine a relationship between a bpd and a social path... 😮💨
You should make a video about people who lack spiritual wisdom.
Yes I want to know about myself
I think I have that kind of symptoms.
I have Asperger's and autism. even of mental condition call retardation. I can read I can focus and trying to struggle to learn.
I am a disability person who mental condition symptoms I'm not easy
What if ur both ?
Therapy rarely helps these people because they don't want to change in any substantive way.
What types of therapy have been shown to help?
Right!? I know a Vietnam vet that went to the Midwest to some big psych place out there for a few weeks or a month or something. They stirred up things that his mind had blocked out and he said he wishes he never went because now he remembers things he doesn't want to remember...just give us good drugs(AKA medication) and let us enjoy this short life we have here😢🎉😊
I have now realized that these are my parents, dad with npd, and mom with bpd
And it is spot on on how their relationship has been for over 20 years
And I really feel that I’m on the verge of the two
Good
Marco
Polo
idc bro i guess im just the main character of all this
I'm the side character 😂
Yo I ve seen all this in the retail world my hole career is awesome and enlightening
Seen what? Nutty people?
I thought I knew, but it turns out I didn't. I stopped reading about cognitive and social neuroscience for a while and fell for a dangerous personality type hook, line and sinker. I should have devoted more time to study.
I don't regret having my kids, but the sex and her usefulness were really subpar for how dirty she done did me. 🤭 Oops! I guess that's a real narcissistic, sociopathic APD thing for me to say. 🤗 At least I strive to be honest and forthcoming about my issues to the best of my knowledge. I'm trying to keep from using my issues as a crutch or a shield. I simply flaunt my dark side as a warning. Those who decide to try to get to know me or be a part of my life should do so with some informed consent.
Reeeeeal 😂 ATLEAST BANG MY BRAINS OUT IF YOU'RE GOING TO BE EVIL AND THIS IS COMING FROM SOMEONE WITH PSYCOPATHY. Didn't do anything to deserve this shit man
Bree Chavez.
Good vid
Thank you, glad you found it useful
yum
This is not exactly true at ALL. There are so many different layers to both diagnosis. There are borderlines who don’t actually act out any clingyness at all and can spend YEARS alone due to being so afraid to feel the awful feelings they get during relationships. And there are many narcissists who are aware enough not to go around acting superior all the time. Your detailing of these disorders leaves much to be desired
This is bunch of horse poo poo ...date and get to know one another . life could be boring .
i dont believe in depression, or any of in video people are just bad people
I know 2 people with bpd both are truly good people. go fuck yourself
@@Getlucky07 +they are not good people. They are all manipulators. Some bpd people hide manipulation and are better in it than others
@@Getlucky07 my advice for you is stay away from people with mental illness
My girlfriends coworkers mom says this same thing and she's absolutely depressed. She just told me about her like a month ago so it's "top of mind" lol
@@ebriadhlaceratus6609 denial
My mum and my sister wtf 😂down to a ratio of one percent maybe wrong🤔😱💤💯🥹come to the point of parculiar strategies as a empath family member😩😤😳🫣🤭😴🤧😷🤫🥶🤬😭😖😟😒😎🧐🤪🙃but why?? Solved all my family issues I already knew watching this video. Silence is worst when they’ve come to ahead . Mum bored . Sis is winging now trying lies scheme they way out of mums medals 30 lately over years. My duty fix everyone and I will. I see believe it or not there both 25 percent empaths in my group very short like 10 minutes a year if there medals are superior enough to support the illusion.. fucking illusions my childhood for fucksake .. disorder expert now. Therapist strategies and severe autism mum. Third child. My older child is on the sociapath group from my ex side of family going through non verbal brother. His world seemed be on lately mission combined my npd mum borderline sociopath traits is the answer and I didn’t care but it really a scenario were I’m like wasn’t there help them through … and energy was n my son really sad but necessary growth, mission since diagnosed my son at 7 years right. Later 13 years by experts ha. Not in my care then🧐 feel the love ❤️ all alive healthy, this for future generations of knowledge hurt unnecessary pain but the range of combinations. Best part face of hehehe no one suppose to see. Winners medals 🏅 superior which she’s elderly now. Ha. Sister next generation learning cope npd to empath combination. Other 2 sons full empaths like me.
No my sister bpd spiritual all of us. With her 25 percent empath. I mean