In 1985 She RULED the Charts-Then DISAPPEARED….15 Years Later Came Back In a RAGE!-Professor of Rock

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  • @ProfessorofRock
    @ProfessorofRock  Рік тому +156

    Poll: What is your pick for the greatest "message" song of the rock era?

    • @RBS_
      @RBS_ Рік тому +36

      *....FEEEED THE WOORRRRR-LLLLLDDD....* 'Band -Aid' changed the GAME... ; )

    • @catherine6653
      @catherine6653 Рік тому +33

      Oh Father, Madonna.
      Time After Time by Cyndi Lauper is about the difficult relationship with her controlling boyfriend manager.

    • @jamalstephenson7140
      @jamalstephenson7140 Рік тому +34

      Imagine

    • @pinballinc1752
      @pinballinc1752 Рік тому +35

      Tears For Fears - "Woman in Chains"

    • @SPak-rt2gb
      @SPak-rt2gb Рік тому +39

      Eve Of Destruction - Barry McGuire

  • @bonitadiablo
    @bonitadiablo Рік тому +1126

    I was in an abusive relationship when this song came out. Believe it or not, this song gave me the impetus and bravery to get out. I will always be grateful to her for this song.

    • @loganswiss6903
      @loganswiss6903 Рік тому +29

      Music is a powerful and vital thing, so I believe you! I'm really sorry you ever were in an abusive relationship, I know all too well about that... I'm so glad to have music in my life, if nothing else!!! Be well, always 😌

    • @michah321
      @michah321 Рік тому +15

      I'm so glad you were able to hear the message from this song and escape. There's been a lot of songs that have made a really big difference in my life. Say Lou Lou has a song Beloved. I used that to identify when a few relationships weren't where I needed to be.

    • @LOOSEbowelz
      @LOOSEbowelz Рік тому +4

      This song gave you impotence that's crazy 😮

    • @joan.nao1246
      @joan.nao1246 Рік тому +36

      ​@@LOOSEbowelzreally?? Don't be that person.

    • @jb3983
      @jb3983 Рік тому +6

      Me too!! Very powerful

  • @sunshineluvr12
    @sunshineluvr12 Рік тому +429

    Yup, I had an abusive husband, Aimee’s song helped me to see how wrong and bad it was, so I got out before he succeeded in strangling me. Thank you Aimee for your courage to sing about abuse, it gave me courage to get out with my 6 month old baby girl.

    • @TingTingalingy
      @TingTingalingy Рік тому +4

      That means you had to deal with that monster regularly to let him see his kid. That's tough

    • @user-ff7wb4fm9k
      @user-ff7wb4fm9k 7 місяців тому +1

      Good for you, lover of 🌞 sunshine. Get that baby ( and urself) outta that! Before that little one gets trauma from violent home happenings. I speak from experience. Trauma stays on our hearts when we experience it. But it ain't about us no more, ma'am. It's about the 👶 babys

  • @ROBYNMARKOW
    @ROBYNMARKOW Рік тому +135

    Aimee Mann is one of the most criminally underrated singer/songwriters .Love her songs w/ Til Tuesday & especially her solo work👍

    • @ImaRockStarPR
      @ImaRockStarPR Рік тому +2

      She’s not underrated.

    • @ROBYNMARKOW
      @ROBYNMARKOW Рік тому +13

      @@ImaRockStarPRTrust me, she is. I’ve mentioned her name to quite a few people & have gotten a blank stare from them. That’s fine though since Mann’s a “niche” musician..

    • @ImaRockStarPR
      @ImaRockStarPR Рік тому +1

      @@ROBYNMARKOW Robyn, if anyone is underrated, it’s you. For you are my dream, my heart, my hope, my way, and i can’t get into words how much I adore you.

    • @ROBYNMARKOW
      @ROBYNMARKOW Рік тому +1

      @@ImaRockStarPR Appreciate the compliment but u don’t even know me...

    • @ImaRockStarPR
      @ImaRockStarPR Рік тому +1

      @@ROBYNMARKOW see! That proves we are soulmates! Will you marry me?!

  • @drothberg3
    @drothberg3 Рік тому +1391

    Aimee Mann's solo career is convincing evidence that some of the best music being made is not the most commercially successful.

    • @xxlilly_playsxxkiz9980
      @xxlilly_playsxxkiz9980 Рік тому +48

      Exactly. You can’t just get your music from the Hot 100. If you only look at the mainstream, you are missing out on so much incredible music like this.

    • @robertmichalscheck3072
      @robertmichalscheck3072 Рік тому +34

      I’m in agreement,she has plenty of songs that weren’t considered big hits,but they sure were to me,she’s great.

    • @cuchillxs
      @cuchillxs Рік тому +6

      👏🏻

    • @PomegranatesWeather
      @PomegranatesWeather Рік тому +6

      Fax!!!!!

    • @JohyeahM
      @JohyeahM Рік тому +10

      Commercially successful music is very rarely the best music being made. It generally follows the underground scene, albeit late on the uptake. Whatever genre you're into...the underground scene will always be the most rewarding in a musical sense.
      99% of the commercial stuff that attaches itself to that scene will suck.

  • @chriscarlson3700
    @chriscarlson3700 Рік тому +534

    Aimee Mann is the only person to ever be a guest vocalist on a Rush song (Time Stand Still), which is high praise of her skills. Voices Carry always takes me back to the summer of 1985, but it has a timeless sound and message. She’s a treasure.

    • @xxlilly_playsxxkiz9980
      @xxlilly_playsxxkiz9980 Рік тому +42

      You know you’re a legend when you’re the sole guest singer on any Rush song.

    • @dannynysus
      @dannynysus Рік тому +9

      What about the dancing skeleton on Roll The Bones?
      Oh, so he doesn't count just because he's dead, is that it? Skeletons are people too, you know 🐔

    • @chriswhite2151
      @chriswhite2151 Рік тому +13

      One of my favorite Rush songs

    • @stephenmiller2337
      @stephenmiller2337 Рік тому +10

      I was just about to post the same thing until I saw your comment.

    • @dukecraig2402
      @dukecraig2402 Рік тому +17

      She also sang backup on a few other songs on that album and was in the video for Time Stand Still.
      And of course there's her appearance in the movie The Big Labowski.

  • @jontanner4789
    @jontanner4789 Рік тому +46

    Thank you so much for covering Aimee and specifically Voices Carry. As an 18-year-old young man when this song came out I was considered a total wimp by my other buddies for falling in love with this song, but its musical power and the power of its lyrical message was undeniable in my mind. It’s still my favorite song out of the 80’s, and Aimee will always be a genuine star in my mind. ❤

    • @Out_of_My_Head
      @Out_of_My_Head 6 місяців тому +2

      That shows how strong you are because empathy is a great strength.

  • @simonezoe
    @simonezoe Рік тому +218

    I saw Aimee & her husband Michael Penn on tour together in May 2000. They both had an aversion to their best known song, so they sang each other’s biggest hit - Michael sang “Voices Carry” and Aimee sang “No Myth”. They had a comedian instead of an opening band - I think it was Patton Oswalt. Truly a wonderful show, so glad I was able to see it!!

    • @Elhastezy888
      @Elhastezy888 Рік тому +16

      Jeez that sounds awesome!!
      Lucky duck lol 💓
      quack

    • @simonezoe
      @simonezoe Рік тому +15

      @@Elhastezy888 it was! I was able to meet Michael & talk to him for a bit after one of his solo shows in 2005, he was just great. Always hit or miss when meeting a favorite artist, but I was a lucky duck (again). 🦆

    • @jasfan8247
      @jasfan8247 Рік тому +4

      ​@@simonezoeNice story, rule no.1 is never to disagree with the performers. ( just heckle in the back!)

    • @cinemaocd1752
      @cinemaocd1752 Рік тому +7

      That is so awesome. I adore both those songs.

    • @Elhastezy888
      @Elhastezy888 Рік тому +5

      @@simonezoe 🤩 oooh! even better!
      Cool, thank you for sharing 🦆
      many blessings

  • @katwashere194
    @katwashere194 Рік тому +592

    She never disappeared. She’s been making amazing music her entire career, and still to this day.

    • @bookgirl2
      @bookgirl2 Рік тому +17

      They talked about just that when she appeared on Portlandia.

    • @pastxmas
      @pastxmas Рік тому +44

      Yeah people like the "Professor" think that because a musician isn't at the Taylor Swift level they aren't doing anything. I have enjoyed Aimee Mann's music for over 30 years. She is very much active.

    • @katwashere194
      @katwashere194 Рік тому +6

      @@pastxmas agreed for sure. Every album I listen to is it’s own unique vibe and the quality is always there. Top notch ✨⚡️⭐️💫☄️

    • @sebastianblack6506
      @sebastianblack6506 Рік тому +24

      Her Magnolia soundtrack songs were really good.

    • @2uconner
      @2uconner Рік тому +6

      Is she on line still for new recordings someone so talented just doesnt fade

  • @NativeNYerChicHK
    @NativeNYerChicHK Рік тому +269

    The 2 most impactful songs for me in the 80’s was ‘Til Tuesday “Voices Carry” and Susanne Vega “Luca”. Heavy lyrical content but so beautifully done. Things previously unspoken but in your face here. Important music to have been made.

    • @markb20
      @markb20 Рік тому +24

      The same topic of abuse was done very well at the time (mid '80s) by 10,000 Maniacs with their song What's The Matter Here.

    • @Kari.F.
      @Kari.F. Рік тому +9

      Luca still gives me goosebumps to this day. When that song hit the charts in my country, I had just left an abusive relationship with a guy who was beginning to add physical abuse to the coercive control and constant barrage of "humorous" put downs I had lived with for a couple of years.

    • @amandab8433
      @amandab8433 Рік тому +7

      Mine was definitely Small Town Boy, and Why by Bronski Beat.

    • @Kryonsmommy
      @Kryonsmommy Рік тому +8

      I was singing that Luca song out of nowhere the other day ,”Please don’t ask me what it was..”

    • @shawnc5188
      @shawnc5188 Рік тому

      Aimee Mann and Susanna Hoff released a collaboration last year ua-cam.com/video/pBmhCgaZ8m8/v-deo.html

  • @mybrothernumsie841
    @mybrothernumsie841 Рік тому +119

    Everything about Aimee Mann was avant-garde. Her music, her hair, her clothes. Amazing voice! Coming Up Close’ is my absolute favorite of hers. Great episode, Professor! ☮️💟

    • @shoebillsrcool
      @shoebillsrcool Рік тому +1

      Avant garde??? Not even close. She was good but didn't do anything avant garde.

    • @markb20
      @markb20 Рік тому +6

      Coming Up Close is Aimee's masterpiece. It has to be the most underrated song of the 1980s.

    • @billybigtime2808
      @billybigtime2808 8 місяців тому

      @@shoebillsrcoolwell said

    • @brigantinebob1157
      @brigantinebob1157 4 місяці тому

      ​@@markb20masterpiece song, you nailed it.

  • @SarahRenz59
    @SarahRenz59 Рік тому +280

    Voices Carry was such a groundbreaking song in that it illustrated not just the physical abuse, but the psychological and emotional abuse that occurs in a toxic relationship. The latter wasn't much recognized or talked about in the 80s. I listened to the lyrics and realized that at least one man had pulled that crap on me. Aimee let me know that it was NOT okay. I'm probably one of many women whose eyes were opened by this song.

    • @loganswiss6903
      @loganswiss6903 Рік тому +11

      Your comment is very moving... emotional abuse is indeed NOT okay... NEVER is... I'm so glad that at least I have music in my life... Thank you for your testimony and be well, Sarah 😌

    • @sarah2.017
      @sarah2.017 Рік тому +9

      I hope it has also helped men who were being abused by the women in their lives, and people in LGBTQ+ relationships.

    • @loganswiss6903
      @loganswiss6903 Рік тому +9

      @@sarah2.017 I have the same hope as you, and I'm sure it did cuz I was in a three year relationship with a woman where there was almost nothing but gaslighting, psychological and emotional abuse, as well as being an absolute one-way-street relation... When you're in it, because of the love you feel, you don't notice that, but thanks to the artistry of someone as talented as Aimee Mann is, you are exposed to "digested experiences" helping you with your own transition... The best thing to do is breaking the cycle of "hurt people hurt people"... Thank you for your thoughtful comment, and be well, Sarah 😌

    • @Trix897
      @Trix897 Рік тому +7

      As a survivor of emotional abuse, this was the song that helped me wake up to what was happening to me since birth.
      They don’t have to hit to destroy lives.

    • @loganswiss6903
      @loganswiss6903 Рік тому +3

      @@Trix897 Very well said, Jane! I am both glad to hear further examples of how empowering a song can be, and absolutely heartbroken that it was happening to you since birth... I'd like to think that your courageous comment is proof that you are now in a better, healthier environment...it is my wish for you anyway, cuz nobody deserves what you went through, NOBODY! You are indeed a survivor, and some trolling the comment section for this video could learn what real strength is from you! Be well Jane, always😌

  • @narishaloflin9314
    @narishaloflin9314 Рік тому +56

    I remember being shocked by the graphic depiction of domestic violence in the video & yet so very touched by it. It was a ballsy move back in 1985, especially on MTV. The searing poetry of Aimee's lyrics cut me to the core. The contrast between the disturbing subject matter & that undeniable hook you simply can't get out of your head makes it one of the 80s BEST songs!

  • @lorrieoiler1878
    @lorrieoiler1878 Рік тому +110

    This song is so meaningful to me. My brother Kenny loved this song and Aimee Mann. Kenny and I were both very much into 80s music, and this song was always in his top 5. Kenny passed away in 2019, and I miss him every day. Thanks for highlighting such a great song and Aimee Mann's brilliance...and for bringing back some wonderful memories of Kenny ❤

    • @Redlox70
      @Redlox70 Рік тому +1

    • @shellyann8818
      @shellyann8818 Рік тому +1

      ❤😔🙏

    • @53205330
      @53205330 Рік тому +3

      RIP Kenny

    • @NT-jm9uh
      @NT-jm9uh Рік тому +1

    • @Here4TheHeckOfIt
      @Here4TheHeckOfIt Рік тому +3

      💔🌹 I'm sorry for your loss. It sounds like you and Kenny had a lot of fun together. Hope the wonderful memories helped you find some peace 🙏

  • @callen8908
    @callen8908 Рік тому +128

    The film Magnolia was structured around her songs. An immense talent. Been a huge fan from back in the day. Insightful, beautiful songs and a stellar vocalist

    • @luvzdogz
      @luvzdogz Рік тому +3

      Thank you for commenting that! I knew her name was familiar to me and that's what it was from.

    • @poorthing
      @poorthing Рік тому +3

      Magnolia.
      Great great soundtrack

    • @lulumoon6942
      @lulumoon6942 Рік тому

      Fantastic 😊 and album. Great time.

    • @berthutto5391
      @berthutto5391 Рік тому +2

      One of my favorite movies!

  • @09rja
    @09rja 3 місяці тому +8

    Thank you for for posting! I've heard a million stories about what that song is about. I was a teenager in the 80's, and I always thought that was the most underrated band of the decade.

  • @alisalavine1052
    @alisalavine1052 Рік тому +171

    I was 17 when Aimee entered my world. Voices Carry was the anthem for us angsty teenage girls who ate up the New Wave and New Romantic era. Her voice was perfect for all of altos to sing along with in a sea of mezzo and sopranos that filled the airwaves. Aimee was a goddess.
    I was also a huge Rush fan and later, when she did her duet with Geddy Lee, this young mother felt like music had come full circle.
    I'm now 55 and still love Aimee. Her more recent music spotlights a rich and warmer timbre that doesn't have the bright and wobbly voice of her youth. It's matured beautifully. I still love singing with her. Just like I did back in 85' when I would rewind the cassette to hear Voices Carry, just one more time.
    Thanks, for the memories.

    • @poorthing
      @poorthing Рік тому +6

      Nice comment!
      I'm older than you but feel the same about Amiees music & still sing full out to her songs.
      I also longed to cut my hair, bleach it WHITE WHITE and that yes! All that wild spikey styling.
      I never did...but, still have that urge...

    • @2CheekyRabbits
      @2CheekyRabbits Рік тому +2

      RUSH ❤️❤️❤️

    • @FGSAtlanta
      @FGSAtlanta Рік тому +6

      I too am a huge Aimee Mann fan. You described this just as I also feel. I was a junior in 1985. Omg. New wave !!!! I loved it. I am now also 55, and I still listen to 1985 new wave music. It’s the best.

    • @FGSAtlanta
      @FGSAtlanta Рік тому +1

      @@poorthinglol. I always wanted to also. But …. Well. I guess i never will.

    • @poorthing
      @poorthing Рік тому +4

      @@FGSAtlanta if we knew each other we could double up our courage go to the salon together and ask for the Aimee 1985....
      @ 73 & 55 yo,
      well that stylist would never recover

  • @ivermec-tin666
    @ivermec-tin666 Рік тому +225

    Aimee Mann's move in the last several years to self publishing and self promotion on her own boutique label is a triumphant move on her part. Her last few albums are well worth the listen. She still has a gift for creating ear worms. Her album, Mental Illness, is a masterpiece.

    • @ProfessorofRock
      @ProfessorofRock  Рік тому +21

      She's amazing. In every syllable of the word. Have you heard her first 3 solo albums?

    • @LazyIRanch
      @LazyIRanch Рік тому +14

      I love her album, "Whatever". Her song "Mr. Harris" is almost the antithesis of "Voices Carry". In "Mr. Harris" the song is about a young woman who finds love with an older man who reminds her of Jimmy Stewart. It's such a sweet song without being sappy.

    • @stevenfunderburg1623
      @stevenfunderburg1623 Рік тому +9

      I like the sound of that, as well as her fantastic contributions to the "Magnolia" soundtrack, much better than an anecdote involving a very young, very snobby Aimee working in a Boston record shop in the early 80s and making condescending comments about punk rock to members of Gang Green, an incident well documented in American Hardcore: A Tribal History by Steven Blush. Not a good look for a gal who likes Iggy Pop. These are references I make for Gen X and older as the kids can't interpret or appreciate the sophisticated films of Paul Thomas Anderson nor possess the necessary attention span to read a book 😜

    • @raybear0801
      @raybear0801 Рік тому +9

      @@ProfessorofRock I'm with Stupid is still on pretty regular rotation in my world. I have adored that record since the day it came out. Aimee Mann = genius! And a huge thank you to you for doing this video and shedding light on such an important subject.

    • @bpalpha
      @bpalpha Рік тому +4

      Absolutely love her work and have most of her releases. Some of her songs have helped me through song terrible times. I adore her.

  • @lisawhite-pagano3455
    @lisawhite-pagano3455 Рік тому +56

    This song always hit me so hard. My ex husband, then boyfriend in the 80’s, used to gaslight me for decades and one of his favorite things to do was to shoot me “the look” if I got too loud; especially if I was telling a story or if I was so happy or excited that I would let out a No Way!! it would immediately make me freeze up and shrink back down to a place where he wouldn’t be judged by my actions. I’m 61 and at times I still get loud when I’m telling a story to family and my 88 year old mother will act like I’m screaming at the top of my lungs and she will look around like the neighbors will here me. It never fails to make me feel like shit. After I divorced the ex one of my favorite things is that when I have to be around him for my kid’s sake I can say and do things that I just know makes him want to be able to shoot me that look - and he can’t. The few times that he’s done it I just laugh and keep going. 😄

    • @pzh3334
      @pzh3334 3 місяці тому

      I'm in my late 40s, and it sounds like I'm a lot like you, animated and excited (or, loud) when I'm telling a good story. My laugh is loud and recognizable anywhere on this earth 😂 I was in 2 abusive relationships, and being loud enough to be noticeable was an "embarrassment" and something I would pay for dearly, specifically when alcohol was involved. They changed me for a while. Luckily, I found 2 souls in this world that love this about me enough that they made it known often, so when people give me "the look" when I'm getting excited, it reminds me that this excitement is what makes me, ME, and it's what people I care about love about me! We're not for everyone, we have something different, but it makes us who we are. I'm not going to let anyone dull my shine anymore, and I hope you don't either ❤

  • @bongodave13
    @bongodave13 Рік тому +76

    Aimee is truly an underappreciated talent. You should interview her!

  • @MissUnderstood_Mom
    @MissUnderstood_Mom Рік тому +58

    Man… I’m so glad I grew up in the 80’s. Going to the record store and buying my first tapes and then CD’s is such a great memory. Aimee’s album Whatever was on repeat my last year of college in 1993. She’s a great songwriter. Thanks for the breakdown!!

  • @austriagiancarlo602
    @austriagiancarlo602 Рік тому +88

    Aimee Mann is the queen of '80s pop/rock. I was lucky enough to interview 'Til Tuesday in Boston where I lived at that time. Aimee was intelligent, sensitive, brilliant and funny as Hell. The rest of the band (I ALWAYS interview the entire band, not just one person) was engaging, with fascinating road stories, and teasers as to the meaning of certain songs. They were great! No ego trips. TY Professor of Rock for REALLY breaking it down right. 😊

    • @markb20
      @markb20 Рік тому +7

      Lucky you; she was fantastic then and has had a great career, though sales of her music should have been deservedly higher.

    • @katherinepearson386
      @katherinepearson386 Рік тому +4

      I was lucky enough to meet her in 84 in Faneuil Hall, after hearing her on the ol Bryant College radio station JMF & the Boston's video station (think it was ch. 68, if memory serves correctly.. being a 14 yr old punk (1st in my high-school) I was totally star struck and she was so generous with her entertaining my teenybopper self

    • @darrenbrown896
      @darrenbrown896 Рік тому

      Really? One hit wonder. Queen of 80s?! Lol You may have heard of a chick named Madonna??? Whitney Houston? Cindi Lauper?

    • @sharksport01
      @sharksport01 Рік тому +1

      The way people gush in the comments.

    • @darrenbrown896
      @darrenbrown896 Рік тому +1

      @@katherinepearson386 lol "¹st in my high school" ....did you get a trophy?!?! ;)

  • @JPMJPM
    @JPMJPM Рік тому +173

    I am SUCH an Aimee Mann fan! Her solo career - OMG. Simply genius writing. She’s a female Elvis Costello!

    • @ProfessorofRock
      @ProfessorofRock  Рік тому +8

      Good point!

    • @geebeeinga
      @geebeeinga Рік тому +5

      Wouldn’t have thought of that one but great analogy!

    • @xxlilly_playsxxkiz9980
      @xxlilly_playsxxkiz9980 Рік тому +3

      She’s awesome.

    • @1683clifton
      @1683clifton Рік тому +5

      Doesn't hurt they're both Burt Bacharach cultists. (Joke)
      That guy was boss.

    • @JeffMTX
      @JeffMTX Рік тому +4

      She’s a female Michael penn ;)

  • @declanfarber
    @declanfarber Рік тому +126

    She didn’t disappear, she was always there. I bought all her records as they came out. Particularly in her solo career she was/is a brilliant singer/songwriter. She doesn’t get enough attention, inexplicably.
    Oh, BTW, she was one of the Nihilists in The Big Lebowski, the source of the missing toe. Impress your friends with your learning. :^)

    • @JMcMillen
      @JMcMillen Рік тому +9

      She also appeared on Buffy the Vampire Slayer performing a couple of songs at the Bronze (S07E08). Her character/self was also aware of the existence of vampires, something most normal people seem to not acknowledge.

    • @mattdad8429
      @mattdad8429 Рік тому +4

      I didn't know that! I knew Flea was one of them, but not her. That's very interesting.

    • @tdublakeo
      @tdublakeo Рік тому +3

      She also wrote and performed most of the soundtrack for the Movie Magnolia...those songs were an unforgettable part of the story.

    • @pzh3334
      @pzh3334 3 місяці тому

      Omg!! I never realized it was her!! Thanks for that tidbit!

  • @Trix897
    @Trix897 Рік тому +23

    I’m so glad this song came out when it did. As an abuse survivor by my family and a few partners, this song hit me hard and made me start realizing I didn’t need to tolerate the BS I was dealing with.
    Her solo work has helped me work through a lot of stuff, especially “Wise Up” as well, but it was “Voices Carry” that helped me the most.

  • @bigmiked6390
    @bigmiked6390 Рік тому +8

    It's 2023, I still love this song. Such a powerful message. Very brave woman

  • @mattmallecoccio8378
    @mattmallecoccio8378 Рік тому +29

    She also was the only outside collaborator with Rush when she did a duet with Geddy Lee in the Rush song Time Stand Still - one of my favorite Rush tunes of all time

    • @ProfessorofRock
      @ProfessorofRock  Рік тому +8

      Exactly. They don't just work with anyone.

    • @xxlilly_playsxxkiz9980
      @xxlilly_playsxxkiz9980 Рік тому +1

      Proud feat.

    • @AndE667
      @AndE667 9 місяців тому

      Not accurate, Hugh Syme played the mellotron on Tears, and Ben Mink played the violin on Losing It

  • @JulissaHernandez-xp1qx
    @JulissaHernandez-xp1qx Рік тому +39

    I absolutely STILL LOVE this song. So haunting and beautiful and the video is amazingly awesome. This song gave me the courage to see the abuse I was going through in a relationship. I thank Aimee Mann and Suzanne Vega for being one of the first artists to bring awareness to the subject of abuse.

    • @markb20
      @markb20 Рік тому +4

      Congrats on your courage. Though it didn't get noticed as much at the time (mid '80s), Natalie Merchant of 10,000 Maniacs sang about the same subject of abuse in the song What's The Matter Here.

    • @thing_under_the_stairs
      @thing_under_the_stairs Рік тому +1

      @@markb20 What's The Matter Here got loads of attention here in Canada, the home of Natalie Merchant and 10,000 Maniacs. I was a huge fan of theirs back in the day. That song hit home way too hard for me.

  • @canviv
    @canviv Рік тому +21

    I was born in 1987 and only knew of Aimee’s solo career. I had no idea she was the vocalist of this incredible song! I’m so stoked to dive into the band’s albums now. Thank you!

  • @taniashurko5760
    @taniashurko5760 Рік тому +23

    Aimee Mann writes the most beautiful songs about the hardest issues in life like abuse and drug addiction with brilliant lyrics. One of the most under appreciated song writers and artists. She speaks to everyone’s experiences of life’s worst moments.

  • @drina6685
    @drina6685 Рік тому +34

    She has been here forever. Her first solo album, "Whatever" is what got me listening to her back in the mid 90's but it came out in '93. She has been making badass music ever since. I went to see her twice. First when my fav album, "Lost in Space" came out, and again right before "The Forgotten Arm" came out. She put an album out in 2021.. Now she's working on a graphic memoir. She's a freakin genius.... i guess you can tell im a big fan, eh? 😊

  • @ValoCaraveo
    @ValoCaraveo Рік тому +369

    Aimee Mann and Linda Perry are proof that you don’t need to be commercially famous to be successful in the music business.

    • @KabobHope
      @KabobHope Рік тому +5

      Aimee Mann is cleaning houses to make ends meet.

    • @stylebyniall
      @stylebyniall Рік тому +11

      Linda Perry has written some of the biggest hits in the last 30 years. She's practically a household name

    • @w.neuman
      @w.neuman Рік тому

      @@KabobHope : Good·For·Her, At-Least She DIDN'T SeLL Her SouL For The EVIL & UngratefuL °Industry !

    • @fattoria_di_bastoni
      @fattoria_di_bastoni Рік тому

      @@stylebyniallperry is very talented but far from a household name. She’s not liked in the industry as she’s an alcoholic and hard drug user who is apparently extremely difficult to work with.

    • @wvu05
      @wvu05 Рік тому +3

      ​@@KabobHope And Sarah McLachlan is a gardener.

  • @mikhaelis
    @mikhaelis Рік тому +50

    In a digital world of idiocy, stupidity, click bait, false narratives, fake outrage, and lies this channel is a beacon of light in a throwback to a world when everything was simple. Thank you for the wholesome nostalgia devoid of modern commentary.

    • @JLeeeP
      @JLeeeP Рік тому +2

      Are you serious? This very video has a clickbait title and this channel is immediately going on the “I call bullsh*t” list. IMann didn’t disappear at all. Til Tuesday made two more albums and she continued touring. Once some legal bs was cleared up with the record label she started a solo career, which continues to this day (along with a band she’s also in).

    • @7beth
      @7beth Рік тому +1

      Agreed

    • @khills
      @khills Рік тому +3

      Except for the fact that the premise of this whole video is clickbait wrong, right?

    • @JamesThompson-zk1ht
      @JamesThompson-zk1ht 4 місяці тому

      This guy does that shit CONSTANTLY. He does generally do the research and impart info that I didn't know before, which is why I keep watching him, but I'm constantly annoyed with him and can only watch so much at once.

  • @starrywizdom
    @starrywizdom Рік тому +11

    *I'm With Stupid* is one of my Desert Island Discs. The album is gem-studded with amazing tracks; "Superball", "Amateur", & "It's Not Safe" are particularly scintillating. Thanks for covering Aimee.

  • @Fakeaorta
    @Fakeaorta Рік тому +63

    Loved her voice. Important message when people when people didn't want to hear the dark side of life.

    • @ProfessorofRock
      @ProfessorofRock  Рік тому +4

      For sure. Thanks my friend.

    • @xxlilly_playsxxkiz9980
      @xxlilly_playsxxkiz9980 Рік тому +2

      Gave these people a voice.

    • @cozmicpfunk
      @cozmicpfunk Рік тому +2

      Amy found a way to become successful and have authenticity along with her own voice in her own style of music. So what it took years to accomplish that, better late than never. she didn't fade out into obscurity like so many 80 one hit wonders. Also worth mentioning was her collaboration with Rush on Time Stand Still- which is a truly great song from the prog rock power trio. I personally favor authenticity over commerciality anytime. Rock on Amy Mann :)

  • @lulumoon6942
    @lulumoon6942 Рік тому +19

    Cannot express what this song, video, and even her career meant to a young girl & woman. Suffering to inspiration. That's art.
    ❤️🙏💞

  • @Ephesians-xt4xc
    @Ephesians-xt4xc 6 місяців тому +3

    You know it's a great song when you never get tired of listening to it. Voices Carry, was one of those great songs from the 80's among many others.

  • @surrealistgirlx
    @surrealistgirlx Рік тому +6

    That song wrecks me. I'm a survivor of childhood abuse. It was the way my father treated us, always screaming. I just wanted him to shut up, to stop. I always cry when I hear it.

  • @Bibliomaniac69
    @Bibliomaniac69 Рік тому +17

    Thank you so much for putting together awesome stories. Because I’m so old, I watched the very first broadcast of MTV. “Voices Carry” remains one of my favorite videos of all time. I was unaware of the backstory until now. I remember I cried the first time I watched “Voices Carry,” and I would shout to my sister to come watch it every time it aired. Today, when I hear this song, it’s a gut punch. I can’t wait to share this video with my husband, who is my high school sweetheart. We grew up watching MTV and listening to The Cure, Ministry (since their early years), The Smiths, Et. al. In the early years of MTV, alternative musicians had airtime. I can clearly remember watching the Clash, Kate Smith, and the Cure. Unfortunately, as the years progressed, MTV focused on main stream music, and my husband and I had to watch 120 Minutes to see the bands we followed.

    • @poorthing
      @poorthing Рік тому +2

      Me too....!

    • @StephenHutchison
      @StephenHutchison Рік тому +2

      Running joke in 1989: "Remember when MTV played music?"

    • @JamesThompson-zk1ht
      @JamesThompson-zk1ht 4 місяці тому

      For their last several years, maybe even a decade although I actually was not aware of it when they stopped showing music videos cuz I'd already given up on them completely... but for that last several years, 120 Minutes was the only time of the week that was worth watching.
      I distinctly remember that it was on that show that I was introduced to Liz Phair via the video for Never Said, which was a perfect pop song and should've been a huge hit. But her label didn't promote that (her first) album beyond making that video, so I never heard it on the radio, and the regular rotation on MTV was just awful. That first album, Exile In Guyville, was simply outstanding, one of the very best of what turned out to be a very good decade for music. But I digress!
      So yeah, 120 Minutes was our last bastion while it lasted.

  • @hopehealthhappiness465
    @hopehealthhappiness465 Рік тому +10

    Voices Carry to me is a very honest and haunting song that addressed a topic that hadn't really been dealt with in a song before and was something many woman could identify with. She opened my eyes to the fact that there were toxic relationships between lovers and also made me realize this behavior could go on in other kind of relationships such as between friends and between parents and children. For me it rang true and was a startling realization. Thank you Aimee for writing this song.

  • @WallisMoore
    @WallisMoore Рік тому +8

    Aimee Mann has always been one of my most favorite musicians, and I feel like she is woefully underrated. Thank you for this.

  • @RinJERKS
    @RinJERKS Рік тому +8

    I first heard ‘til Tuesday on March 15, 1985 when they opened for Hall and Oates. I still have the faded ticket stub in a box. When they played Voiced Carry, the hair on my arms stood up and I just KNEW that was gonna be a big hit! That summer on vacation, I started hearing them on the radio. 38 years later, we are still talking about that haunting refrain and the raw emotion of that outro… I was 16 then and it is still one of my favorites at 55+!

  • @KitsuyuutsuR
    @KitsuyuutsuR Рік тому +8

    I was a young teen when this song came out. I immediately loved it and I honestly think it empowered me to NEVER get into relationships like that and, if I found myself in a situation like that (which I did once for a short time) to get the hell out and don’t look back. This song was really influential to a lot of women no matter what their age. Thank you, Amy! ❤

  • @craigs1266
    @craigs1266 Рік тому +91

    I was on Dial MTV one time. And have the VHS tape to prove it. 😂

    • @ProfessorofRock
      @ProfessorofRock  Рік тому +17

      Ha ha. Awesome. Will you ever post it?

    • @billystutz55
      @billystutz55 Рік тому +8

      Prooove it 😅 I wanna see it

    • @digitalhunter42
      @digitalhunter42 Рік тому +5

      I’d like to see it, post link if you upload it to UA-cam

    • @magnaman80
      @magnaman80 Рік тому +10

      All you need now is a….VCR……🤷‍♂️

    • @Frankie5Angels150
      @Frankie5Angels150 Рік тому +2

      Thank You for making this about YOU.

  • @aniellstar1259
    @aniellstar1259 Рік тому +14

    Thank you for joining the fight for awareness against all types of abuse. Thank you Aimee for your amazing music!
    I just saw the movie Sound of Freedom yesterday. It had a huge impact on me as well. Keep rising.

  • @derekgilbert2884
    @derekgilbert2884 Місяць тому +3

    Aimee Mann voice haunted but really beautiful fall in love with her voice. 😊😊😊😊😊😊 Thanks again Aimee your beautiful voice leaving us more love towards your music.

  • @DanieVargas
    @DanieVargas Рік тому +25

    I loved Aimee Mann’s voice since the first time I heard Voices Carry. Radio tried to “kill” this song by all the constant repetition… I found the song again in 2002 and remembered her magnificent voice. And then I found What About Love! God, what a song!! Aimee Mann’s voice was (and still is) OH SO UNDERRATED!

  • @scograham
    @scograham Рік тому +12

    I saw her perform at St. Andrews Hall in Detroit in 1995 and she performed Voices Carry in its usual form at the end of that show. Her solo work is tremendous. She’s my favorite songwriter of the last 30 years.

  • @adrianab.5809
    @adrianab.5809 Рік тому +7

    There's no question that Aimee Mann is truly a talented woman in her own right...I had endured an abusive childhood myself and this song brought me a sense of inner strength to not only overcome my tormentors then, but anybody else who even tried to subdue me later in life. So thankful for her bringing this song to the masses ❤

  • @southloopsoxfan
    @southloopsoxfan Рік тому +33

    Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers are by far my favorite band of all time. I saw them in 1985 in suburban Chicago at Poplar Creek with Til Tuesday opening up for them. What is still etched in my mind till this day is Amy's voice echoing all over the venue with Voices Carry. It was amazing. I was just 20 years old, but I knew that night was special

    • @poorthing
      @poorthing Рік тому +2

      What a great venue!

    • @tashamillard8762
      @tashamillard8762 Рік тому

      Aha.. would have been great to see ... what part of Chicago u from?

    • @poorthing
      @poorthing Рік тому

      @@tashamillard8762 NW IN right on Lake Michigan/Dunes....
      Chicago has always been the go to for entertainment, dining, shopping... lots of folks here work in Chicago/South Shore train easy transportation

    • @tashamillard8762
      @tashamillard8762 Рік тому

      Nice .. I was born in Chicago heights left in 86 live in reno nevada... most of the family moved into dyer

    • @poorthing
      @poorthing Рік тому +1

      @@tashamillard8762 yes, I know Dyer.
      Worked in hospital there.

  • @shawn2380
    @shawn2380 9 місяців тому +3

    "Til Tuesday's Everything's Different Now album is one of the best albums ever. Give it a listen. Absolute perfection.

    • @charlesowens6400
      @charlesowens6400 17 днів тому +1

      I totally agree 👍 I had the album on tape and bought it again on CD. And still listening on UA-cam and Pandora.

  • @Porcelaindoll1028
    @Porcelaindoll1028 Рік тому +2

    I met Aimee Mann when she played at city winery. I was working and had an opportunity to talk to her tell her that voices carry helped me find strength to walk away from the toxic relationship I had with my family. It’s a beautiful song and I still cry when I hear it.

  • @DoctorJohnSmith9
    @DoctorJohnSmith9 Рік тому +22

    I've always loved the construction of the chorus. The first chorus is just Aimee. The second, more...voices...come in, like as support. The final choruses just seem to ROAR with the subdued anguish of the first two. Brilliant writing and production!

  • @donnaroberts281
    @donnaroberts281 Рік тому +5

    “Coming Up Close” is one of my favorite songs from the ‘80s. Probably of all time. Her voice expresses such emotion.

    • @darrylmccormick4607
      @darrylmccormick4607 Рік тому

      Agreed. I connected so much with her lyrics as I was so in love with a girl and we just drifted away into our different worlds....miss her so much. Regrets. When I hear that song I'm instantly transported back to that time. Love her for her expressing what I couldn't

  • @troyducote1846
    @troyducote1846 Рік тому +10

    I love Aimee Mann and she was an amazing talent. The fact that the Canadian Prog Rock Trio Rush had her guest appear and sing on their 1989 Time Stand Still single just shows how good and respected she was as a musician. She still makes that Rush song sound great to me. And I cannot remember them ever asking any other artist to guest appear on a studio album. Great memories! She is a pretty good bass player too.

  • @LaminarSound
    @LaminarSound Рік тому +27

    Let's talk about how incredible this album is sonically. Especially Voices Carry the song... it's masterfully tracked, mixed and mastered. Just incredible when you consider it was all to tape. This album is amazing.

  • @rashidclark
    @rashidclark Рік тому +7

    Thank you for the video!
    I agree with you that Till Tuesday is underappreciated. I've always felt that their song, "Coming up Close", deserved just as much fame as "Voices Carry".

  • @YorkieUniverse1
    @YorkieUniverse1 Місяць тому

    I loved the video that went with Voices Carry, especially the end when she stands up in an audience shouting the song and the guy is so embarrassed. I never realized it was about abuse until I saw that video. This is definitely one of my favorite songs.

  • @Cicilo1983
    @Cicilo1983 Рік тому +15

    Til Tuesday are one of the 80s' most underrated bands. As much as I adored the "Voices Carry" single (and still do), their debut album was just okay for me. Then they released "Welcome Home", one of that decade's most unfairly overlooked albums, and the even more personal "Everything's Different Now", and it was such an impressive leap. Aimee was key for that progression, because she handled most of the songwriting for those two albums. And here's the thing : her last solo albums are some of her finest, especially the Grammy-winning "Mental Illness" released in 2017. You can't say that from many artists. Thanks for highlighting this true 80s classic song !

  • @destineecoughenour3574
    @destineecoughenour3574 Рік тому +6

    I’ve been waiting for this one Professor! So glad you featured this song! One of the best from the 80’s! I have to admit I didn’t love this song at first, I was around 11 when it came out. But between the videos heavy rotation and my older cousin’s influence, I grew to really love this song and it’s meaning. Great background reporting on Amy Mann and the history of the song. Great episode Professor!

  • @markb20
    @markb20 Рік тому +57

    'Til Tueday and Aimee Mann NEVER got the recognition they deserved. The next two albums, Welcome Home and Everything's Different Now are simply amazing.
    Aimee's masterpiece, Coming Up Close, is one of the best songs of the entire decade.

    • @m.r.e.5731
      @m.r.e.5731 Рік тому +4

      That song gives me chills every time.

    • @Phoenixhunter157
      @Phoenixhunter157 Рік тому +4

      Oh god, I love Coming up Close.

    • @markb20
      @markb20 Рік тому +6

      It's one those perfectly crafted songs- cool lyrics, wonderful melody and beautiful harmonies. Aimee created a sparkling gem that still sounds great today.

    • @theresas740
      @theresas740 Рік тому +3

      Everything's Different Now is Brilliant!

    • @markb20
      @markb20 Рік тому +1

      @@theresas740 One of the best albums of the 1980s. Why it didn't sell better is beyond me.

  • @JohnDrummondVA
    @JohnDrummondVA Рік тому +11

    Her eyes and her voice have captivated me for nearly 40 years....

  • @RC32Smiths01
    @RC32Smiths01 Рік тому +7

    Incredibly powerful story, and it is just as incredibly to see these emotions translated into music. What an honest and vulnerable piece indeed.

  • @mattbellows5985
    @mattbellows5985 Рік тому +6

    The Everything’s Different Now album is highly, f-ing, underrated!! Brilliant. Amazing lyrics. Just perfect!

    • @markb20
      @markb20 Рік тому +2

      Absolutely. That album was one of my favorites from that entire decade. The previous lp, Welcome Home was outstanding too. Everything's Different was even better; I never understood why neither album didn't sell better than they did. Aimee's solo lps in the '90s are very good too.

  • @anonymohipp9097
    @anonymohipp9097 Рік тому +8

    Great video! Aimee Mann deserves much more recognition. She is one of my favorite singers and songwriters, and she's great live.

  • @simonm7133
    @simonm7133 Рік тому +5

    I saw her in concert at the Shepherds Bush Empire in London in 1994. There was an awkward moment when she started a song and then stopped saying ‘F… it, I’ve forgotten the words’ The audience cheered, gave her a massive round of applause and she smiled ‘ and said you people are so understanding’ Bit of adjustment and then carried on. Great performer and came across as genuinely nice to everyone. I was introduced to her music by a girl I was heavily involved with in the late 80’s and our split up was acrimonious and tearful. For years the song ‘Believed you were lucky’ always touched a nerve as I felt that is how our relationship was.

  • @paulwilkinson8308
    @paulwilkinson8308 Рік тому +11

    She didn’t disappear! She has been and, as far as I know, still is creating music. She’s awesome.

  • @thebluesrockers
    @thebluesrockers Рік тому +9

    "Adam, as you know, Pat Benatar had two songs on abuse, Love Is A Battlefield & Hell Is For Children.
    Voices Carry, is a song that used to follow, or be played back to back with Love Is A Battlefield. There was a lot of new wave bleeding into the pop music.
    Great video. You have a way of taking people back in time. I wasn't into any of the songs above but I sure miss those times of my youth. Love your channel. Peace.. Joe

  • @corinnerogersconstable223
    @corinnerogersconstable223 2 місяці тому

    It was an anthem to those of us who were in those types of relationships! It was a therapeutic song for us. Thank you for sharing Aimee with us again.🤟🏼😎

  • @madmaxit2
    @madmaxit2 Рік тому +5

    I remember seeing her play with Michael Penn at Cafe Largo in the mid nineties. They both sounded fantastic and she was very friendly and open to talk to. I remember asking her what she had coming up and she mentioned something about a movie centered around her songs. I had no idea that was to become Magnolia. Great work as always professor!

  • @georgegeysen6499
    @georgegeysen6499 Рік тому +13

    Great job, Adam! Did not know about her early childhood trauma. So glad you covered the years following Voices and Boston and her fight for creative independence. Some of her solo work, Bachelor No. 2, Lost in Space and, of course, the Magnolia soundtrack are so beautifully expressed, lyrically and melodically. One of my favorites.

    • @xxlilly_playsxxkiz9980
      @xxlilly_playsxxkiz9980 Рік тому

      I have checked out some of her solo stuff, and it’s so cool. I need to dig deeper!

  • @anakreyszig303
    @anakreyszig303 Рік тому +5

    Aimee Mann has had such an incredible career arc. It's great to see a talented performer have multiple acts in her life.

  • @lindabrittner5062
    @lindabrittner5062 Рік тому +15

    When I first heard this song in 1985 as a 24 year old college student, I felt her pain. I grew a long rat tail and played Voices Carry frequently for a few years as I had my own turbulent youthful romances. It's a powerful song by a true artist, Aimee Mann.

    • @TP-om8of
      @TP-om8of Рік тому

      I hope you got a normal haircut since then. I never would have hired you.

    • @lindabrittner5062
      @lindabrittner5062 Рік тому +1

      I never had a lack of good paying jobs.

    • @abnerlookatthis
      @abnerlookatthis Рік тому

      @@TP-om8of All the things you could have said and this is what you choose. Hope you've "evolved" since then.... if you refused to hire someone with a rat tail, you'd be s**t out of luck with today's prospects.

  • @RayneSaltair
    @RayneSaltair Рік тому +7

    There was a girl I went to school with, who had her hair done like this. One day she was working as a checkout clerk, and I just couldn't take my eyes off of her, wondering if she was in trouble, and needed help. She looked up at me a couple of times and to this day I wish I had said something. I'll be 50 tomorrow and I hope I was wrong. Years later I got into an actual abusive relationship myself after being raised by abusive parents. Glad I got out.

    • @loganswiss6903
      @loganswiss6903 Рік тому +3

      Happy Birthday, and even happier that you got out of an abusive relationship! I'm afraid you were right about the checkout girl... it's heartbreaking when you can tell about something like that, but cannot do anything about it, really... but you can look at it as if she was supposed to be haunting you to ultimately give you the strength needed to leave a toxic situation... I'm 52, dealt with a toxic relationship, and a few haunting visions myself... funny thing is: sometimes I've received more genuine human interactions from checkout ladies, than from friends... most of all I'm so grateful music is always there for me... Thank you for sharing your story and be well, always!!! 😌

    • @RayneSaltair
      @RayneSaltair Рік тому +1

      @@loganswiss6903 Thank you so much. It was a great birthday. So sorry you went through the toxic as well.

  • @tonyajackson8827
    @tonyajackson8827 Рік тому +4

    I absolutely LOVED this song, back in the day, as well as the video! Aimee's lyrics just pulled at my heart strings, and the instrumentation in the song itself was just surreal. SO many wonderful things about this song. I was delighted years later to hear the song 'Coming Up Close', which I feel was definitely one of their best and SO underrated.

  • @nicktucker4916
    @nicktucker4916 Рік тому +4

    Totally agrees, 'Til Tuesday created some amazing music that I listened to over and over again and still do.. Crying shame they didn't have more success, they certainly deserved it.

  • @dranet47
    @dranet47 Рік тому +18

    I remember that early version of Ministry, and I really liked them back then. I still have my With Sympathy album, in fact. I had no idea Aimee Mann was a member. She has an amazing voice and deserved to be on her own or fronting her own band anyway. Voices Carry still sounds so haunting.

  • @jc0730
    @jc0730 Рік тому +2

    Voices Carry is powerful, deeply moving and a classic. Bravo Aimee!

  • @thebarbecutioner6977
    @thebarbecutioner6977 Рік тому +9

    Coming up close is TT's best song. It's in my live repertoire to this day. Every show. Aimee is special indeed.

  • @OweEyeSea
    @OweEyeSea Рік тому +6

    Her voice and vocal styles are addictive. I still enjoy listening to the deep tracks and popular cuts from both Til Tuesday and her solo career.

  • @jimmbear3998
    @jimmbear3998 Рік тому +5

    Love the mid 80’s, early prime time MTV period sooo much better than today. Aimee’s performance in this video made this already great song even better. Even her understated acting parts are great.

  • @ChillyRelleno
    @ChillyRelleno Рік тому +6

    Great video, Adam. Aimee Mann is one of my favorite songwriters & performers, and I'm glad you made the time to show her some love. Some extra trivia: her husband is Michael Penn. Which begs the question - when are we going to see your video about him?

  • @jean-francoisrobitaille6560
    @jean-francoisrobitaille6560 Рік тому +8

    Aimee Mann’s voice is so beautiful. What she did on Rush’s Time Stand Still is stellar.

  • @PeterKardas
    @PeterKardas Рік тому +1

    PLUS! It was FUN to see my friend, Bill Rieflin, make a brief appearance (the drummer of Ministry)...I never knew she was IN that band...I met them all, after she left, apparently...so again, thank you! Bill's gone now...but definitely not forgotten

  • @thegillman777
    @thegillman777 Рік тому +5

    Aimee is an incredible songwriter. This song was one of my favorites during my High School Freshman year, and I continue to be a fan through her solo career.
    My girlfriend, who is 6 years younger, said she used to think the song was “This is Scary” when she was a kid! I love that!

  • @MaNkYmInX
    @MaNkYmInX Рік тому +9

    Absolute brilliant songwriter and lyricist. Her voice is amazing and she does not get the credit or recognition she deserves. When I first heard the song Voices Carry, I thought it was about an affair and abuse. I remember watching the video on MTV and thought, wow, she is amazing! New subscriber here! Looking forward to more amazing videos such as this one. Love your style POR.👍✌

  • @humblemonkm61
    @humblemonkm61 Рік тому +48

    I was in the Air Force when this song came out, I come from a physically abusive childhood, saw my mom being treated horribly by some of her relationships throughout the 60's through the 70's, I recognized within the song the suppression & denial required & expected from the victims of abuse & trauma perpetrated by so called "loved ones" & family, while being very aware to staying silent in order to keep the voice of truth from carrying out into the world drawing the "wrong" kind of attention from the outside world.
    This song was a catalyst to unfreeze all that fear & self-loathing buried deep in one's soul, the kind of fear that twists & distorts the psyche. This song put a very visible crack in the facade of perfection that was very mainstream in those golden days of our society. Where it was a man's world w/ women & children expected to put on a happy face in order to conceal from the outside world all the torture going on behind the veneer of god-fearing decent people.
    It was imperative to keep what was happening behind the walls of our house from ever being discovered by neighbors, teachers, friends, church, & family for fear of scandal where the victims would be called liars, possessed by demons, & the list was endless. The abusers always got away with their behavior & if some trouble did occur that aroused suspicion causing somebody to spend & few days in jail to dry out, when he got out & returned home everybody paid the price for bruising his ego & pride. So it was just easier to smile & hide the belt & switch marks on our body's & deliver our best Southern manners to the outside world & keep the curtain tightly drawn shut hiding the truth that was occuring behind those walls of our personal Hell from any prying eyes.
    Watching the video on MTV was a tonic of sorts that eventually led me to facing my horrible childhood & finding therapy & support.
    Unfortunately I am the only survivor of those days. I can't help but wonder if I had not been gay & which led to being thrown into the street at age 16 & told to never come back because of Jesus thinking I was a disgusting pervert, mind you I was a sexual virgin until my early 20's in the Air Force, so I never quite understood why Jesus was so mad at a virgin gay teenager that deserved to be disowned & thrown away, but that was the early 1980's for ya.
    I've been on my own ever sense. The others all died from addiction issues. I could never go back home, so I truly believe that being thrown away ultimately saved my life, everybody that stayed behind all died. "Voice's Carry" touched my unspoken trauma & gave permission for people to acknowledge their secret pain. I think God moves through artists & I believe for myself that Aimee Mann was put on this Earth to provide that catharsis for me & others. I'm not saying she's a prophet, but she did put a huge light onto the underbelly of how some relationships can be devastatingly toxic & that one can choose to stand up & say enough, no more, let our voices carry, we deserve to be heard, we matter, & we all deserve genuine authentic unconditional love.
    Thank you Aimee Mann, I still cry hearing the song, but my tears are no longer from recognizing my hidden pain, but now they are tears of compassion, forgiveness, & gratitude!❤

    • @katherinewild1599
      @katherinewild1599 4 місяці тому

      And Jesus does love you.

    • @humblemonkm61
      @humblemonkm61 4 місяці тому

      @@katherinewild1599 I appreciate the sentiment, but I left Christianity behind decades ago. I do respect the Mystic Christ principle, but I have no use for the Christian faith. Once I came into the knowledge of Santana Dharma & Kashmiri Shiavism, I dedicated my life to Lord Shiva & Shakti where I found the profundity of the Vedas & the ancient Dharma of Tantra practiced through Kriya, I came to realize how Christianity was sourced from an amalgam of previous ancient Dharmas. The dying god man motif, the consumption of God's flesh & blood, selfless service to all mankind, devotion to God through all things & actions performed, I found peace & was able to rid myself of my pain & sorrow. 10 years of wandering the Himalayan mountains as a renucient monk where I had my first personal experience of Lord Shiva & Shakti. My Guru sent me back to the US to live once my personal breakthrough occurred to live as a householder, but still I remain a renucient in Spirit. I have created a successful existence where I am capable of continuous Spiritual practice & living as an example of Dharma, I live quietly & in peace, I focus my existence on being dedicated to living in Selfless Service. Again I appreciate the kind thought, I know it comes from a place of love & compassion on your part, so thank you, you're very kind. Peace be upon you!❤️

    • @JamesThompson-zk1ht
      @JamesThompson-zk1ht 4 місяці тому

      @humblemonkm61 Right on, brother. It's clear from the way you speak that you're on a level well beyond "recovery" - it's a shame that things have to be that bad for some of us, but the fact is that if we do the work, we can not only come out the other side healthy, but we can actually be ahead, in that we can carry forward with us the kind of empathy and compassion that makes a good and giving nature even more accessible, and that can be difficult to attain without originally suffering. Keep on keeping on and doing good.

    • @pzh3334
      @pzh3334 3 місяці тому

      Beautifully written insight, @humblemonkm61. You've said it so well I've taken a screenshot of the top part of your comment. You said what I've been trying to articulate when people talk about "how great" those days were. They weren't so great, they were huge populations of people living a lie in fear, in suppression, trying to be some perfect (or at least "normal and functional") version of what society expected. Don't admit the abuse, the addiction, or the sadness, or if you do you will be shamed and outcasted. It was a lonely, confusing time for me, thinking it was just my family that had issues. These days we aren't keeping quiet and keeping things suppressed like we used to, people must face the uncomfortable truths more often that have ALWAYS been there. This is what the people I know that want to return to those days really mean, they don't want to live in a world where people make them uncomfortable with their honesty, for a myriad of reasons. I agree music is a spiritual experience, it changed my life many times, and feels otherworldly. I'm so impressed with the work you've done and how you've persevered and succeeded in life. It's truly amazing what you've achieved, especially after living through the days where sexuality was shamed and people were harmed, I'm really proud of you, even though I don't know you. Thank you for sharing your beautiful story! ❤

    • @humblemonkm61
      @humblemonkm61 3 місяці тому +1

      @@pzh3334 thank you. ❤️

  • @williambenner701
    @williambenner701 Рік тому +6

    Thank you for the backstory of this amazing song! I never misunderstood the lyrics, but was deeply impressed by the message of this song. I was expecting Tell Tuesday to become a bigger influence in the music industry, and now I understand better why this didn't happen.

  • @junevertucci3420
    @junevertucci3420 Рік тому +20

    Thanks Adam. Always loved this song and have continued to follow Amy as a solo artist. She's a truly gifted songwriter. As a woman who has experienced domestic violence, this song was always an empowering anthem for me. BTW Love your channel.

    • @ProfessorofRock
      @ProfessorofRock  Рік тому +2

      So sorry to hear. Glad it empowered you!

    • @xxlilly_playsxxkiz9980
      @xxlilly_playsxxkiz9980 Рік тому +1

      I am VERY sorry you went through that awful experience June. Hope you’re in a better place now. ❤

  • @jerrycote659
    @jerrycote659 Рік тому +10

    “Everything’s Different Now” album is absolutely brilliant and even though it was released as a Til Tuesday album, for all intents and purpose it was actually Aimee’s debut solo album seeing as she mainly completed it on her own after the dissolution of the band. Each and every track on “Everything’s Different Now” is a masterpiece. The album is stunning in its beauty and also in its honest and emotional telling of Aimee’s heartbreak over the ending of her relationship with musician Jules Shear which is the running theme throughout the record. A very underrated masterpiece of a record and one deserving of much, MUCH more recognition.

  • @CR41489
    @CR41489 Рік тому +5

    Thank you, Professor. Great overview of the song and Aimee Mann. She’s such a special artist. 👍

  • @nicolenovi4619
    @nicolenovi4619 Рік тому +5

    Hi Adam im here early today! I cant believe youre covering this song- as soon as i heard you talk about it i knew what it was...im a child of the 80s and remember connecting w this song as a little girl. Let me just say as a survivor of abuse i know why now. This is very important and Thank you for bringing attention to this song. ❤❤❤love u

    • @ProfessorofRock
      @ProfessorofRock  Рік тому

      Thanks for watching and sharing. So glad you fought through it! What else would you like to see?

    • @xxlilly_playsxxkiz9980
      @xxlilly_playsxxkiz9980 Рік тому

      Nicole, I hope you are in a much better place now. The POR community is here for you. ❤

    • @loganswiss6903
      @loganswiss6903 Рік тому

      Having the courage to speak about your own abuse is AS important, thank you for that!!! The song, Adam's video, all the comments by survivors made me cry... The entirety of Aimee Mann's catalogue is flawless, BTW. Thankfully music is a faithful companion... Thank you for your comment, Nicole, and be well always!!! 😌

  • @neonchamber
    @neonchamber 7 місяців тому

    Utterly obsessed with this song as a kid… have the single and the album on vinyl. Saw her live here in Australia in the 00’s… thought i knew everything about this song… my god she was in Ministry. This is the stuff i come to the Professor for. Thank you. Brilliant work

  • @KimS910
    @KimS910 Рік тому +49

    I loved Aimee Mann’s voice - Love in a Vacuum, Voices Carry - those really take me back. She also adds something special to Rush’s Time Stand Still.

    • @pastateconstablesoffice
      @pastateconstablesoffice Рік тому +5

      I always enjoyed how the Live shows would insert Aimee via prerecorded video.
      For an interesting read, check out Neil Peart's backstory on why he wrote the song and felt including a Female vocalist added to the atmosphere of the song.
      PS - they initially wanted Cyndi Lauper, then Chrissy Hynde (of the Pretenders).
      I think Aimee's "softer" take than the "rasp" sometimes used by Cyndi or Chrissy worked much better with Geddy's voice.
      Absolutely one of the best tracks to "introduce" Rush to a new Fan ...

    • @Hollylivengood
      @Hollylivengood Рік тому +1

      And her base playing. Not many like that.

    • @Highland804
      @Highland804 Рік тому

      Her version of Leonard Cohen's "Avalanche" is my favorite.

    • @fletchbg
      @fletchbg Рік тому +3

      She's the only bass player to ever appear on a Rush studio album other than Geddy. Of course her appearancs wasn't playing bass, but it's still true

    • @xxlilly_playsxxkiz9980
      @xxlilly_playsxxkiz9980 Рік тому +2

      She elevated that Rush song for sure.

  • @jaykay6939
    @jaykay6939 Рік тому +19

    Im glad you finally covered Till Tuesday. 1985 seems to have the most memorable new wave/post punk music of that decade. It had other great hidden gems like Perfect Way by Scritti Pollitti, Love &Pride by King and Small Towb Boy by Bronski Beat . Alyou you had Tears For Fears, A-ha, and Simple Minds making it big that year . Voices Carry is a very powerful and moving song. Aimee also has an unrated solo career and I love that song she did in Magnolia Save Me especially when the whole cast starts singing

    • @lindamcfarland9656
      @lindamcfarland9656 Рік тому +1

      My friends and I had completely forgotten Love and Pride until recently when the ghost of that song drifted through my memory triggered by _another_ memory of dancing at a club back in the day 😂! It's now on all our 80's playlists. I never hear about it otherwise so its nice to see someone else bringing it forward!😊

    • @eightiesmusic1984
      @eightiesmusic1984 Рік тому +2

      I am a huge King fan and seriously rate their second album Bitter Sweet from which Love and Pride comes. The Taste Of Your Tears is also a superb song. They owned a large part of 1985 in the UK with several appearances on TOTP. They are largely forgotten but were much better than the critics allowed- they were proficient musicians and could really play live. Paul King's solo album is a bit patchy though not bad. There is a four part interview at a museum in Coventry on You Tube where Paul King talks about the band. There are also a couple of other interviews on a radio station that are online. He has recently bought a farm in Valencia, as you do.

    • @eightiesmusic1984
      @eightiesmusic1984 Рік тому +1

      @@lindamcfarland9656 King made two excellent albums and Paul King has a great voice.

    • @eightiesmusic1984
      @eightiesmusic1984 Рік тому +2

      1985 was the second best year of the eighties. Winner has to be 1984!

    • @xxlilly_playsxxkiz9980
      @xxlilly_playsxxkiz9980 Рік тому +1

      There was also Be Near Me by ABC and You Spin Me Round by Dead or Alive. In my opinion, the top three years of the 80s in order have to be 1984, 1983, then 1985.

  • @olderwiser64
    @olderwiser64 Рік тому +5

    Coming Up Close is one of my all-time favorite songs. It is so beautiful! She’s such an amazing songwriter and just an all around phenomenal artist. There’s nothing she can’t do. Love her! ❤ Great Video.

    • @markb20
      @markb20 Рік тому +1

      I always believed it was Aimee's masterpieces. Cool lyrics, wonderful melody, beautiful harmonies. Just a perfectly crafted song.

    • @olderwiser64
      @olderwiser64 Рік тому +1

      @@markb20 🎯 Absolutely agree!

    • @brendendesimone9278
      @brendendesimone9278 Рік тому +1

      Definitely one of my two favorites by Til Tuesday...the other one is Believed You were Lucky

    • @olderwiser64
      @olderwiser64 Рік тому

      @@brendendesimone9278 Another great one!

  • @kellyg200
    @kellyg200 Рік тому +6

    Aimee Mann is my favorite artist of all time! Her voice is so unique and beautiful. Originally, I thought the Voices Carry chorus was "Even downtown was so scary!"

    • @whoisjohngault3270
      @whoisjohngault3270 Рік тому +2

      Same! Back in the day my friends and I continued to sing it that way just for fun.

  • @judymusselman567
    @judymusselman567 Рік тому +4

    I've always love her and the power of her voice. You felt it when she sang. Such a beautiful sound❤

  • @natashafaulkner666
    @natashafaulkner666 Рік тому

    I knew exactly when your channel popped up who you were talking about. I love till Tuesday and voices carry was of course my favorite song. And now me being 50 years old and I'm looking back I can see what it's about. Of course is about physical abuse emotional abuse and even sexual abuse you just had to watch her look at that moment. Thank you so much for talking about this I think I'm going to play❤

  • @stinkypinkeee5085
    @stinkypinkeee5085 Рік тому +4

    "Voices Carry" is something else...heard it all Summer at the public pool over the PA, and, being a kid, only paid attention to the chorus and music...1985 was a fun year, and this song places me back there instsntly...

    • @ProfessorofRock
      @ProfessorofRock  Рік тому +3

      So many classics were heard in the pool! Awesome.

    • @xxlilly_playsxxkiz9980
      @xxlilly_playsxxkiz9980 Рік тому

      There were a lot of great songs in 1985.

    • @blockaderunner
      @blockaderunner 2 дні тому

      yep this is where I heard it, in Summer/pool church Sunday school afternoon, the Sun shinning Deep South, had a crush on gal there I remember 1985, so I was still single digits years old