Alvin, I agree with you. I've seen others, based upon peer pressure, treat others, and me, badly. I have no respect for those people, especially when they do not apologize for their actions.
Trying your heart looking van video's and to day I'm relax I do way I'm with you family he's broke my heart keeps good do gems and forget try to help me a bout proses to train I'm with you 💪👍😀😊
Yasmine, I more than often, let people walk all over me, so to speak. I let them say what they want, etc. But when they tell lies about me, and others believe those lies!!! I come out swinging, and can easily defend myself from their sad lives. You are right, Yasmine, speaking up for yourself IS the most important thing! It's hard to do, for some, but it MUST be done. And once you do, you will feel impowered, and others who really didn't know you, will look at you in a different light, and respect you for it! Also, their lies have a way of surfacing too !
I remember when i was in grade 12 it was 2013 my older brother was advising me and i still remember very freshly he told ‘’Be yourself , control your emotions and Learn to say No ‘’’ May God bless him 🙏
read up on assertiveness. people say to be nice but do not mention to the people they advise that there are such people like 'narcissists', 'sadists' and average manipulators (read up on such things too). these types thrive on abusing nice people and exploiting their nice nature.
Just believe your kindness is oké. Remember your intension wash honestly . So be prowt. Iff others try To take advance of it ....its the other intension. Keep distance and tell honest your feeling against the ( parasite ). Take care. Robert Belgium
You can't earn anybody's respect. There are ppl who no matter what you do they will not respect you because of who they are and not because of who you are. Respect should be just given because its the right thing to do, its called manners. Its impossible to please everyone.
Speaking directly & confidently and don't apologize when you say you can't do something. It's our right to decide what we want and what we don't want. I learned to say No I'm not able to do that, or No, this will not fit into my schedule or simply say, i have other obligations so have a great day and i smile and walk away. Lots of respect comes when you say these few statements 😎
Lololololololololololol is that so?! Are you speaking from personal experience or?! I didn't know that talking too much got you disrespected/disliked. 👀 Then again, who am I kidding. I'm well aware that when someone says things/is saying that which isn't considered "popular opinion", they will not only be disliked, but their words won't be respected. But what self respecting (not to be confused with arrogant or pompus) individual will retract that which they mean?! Anyone can play that game of not saying anything and catering to whomevers ego to feel and appear right. But that doesn't mean that they person necessarily respects you. They're just happy that you appear or are stupid and they appear to be knowledgeable. In situations as such both individuals aren't respecting each other at all. They're really just going through whatever motions for the time being. Which btw isn't respectful, more like tolerating each other.........which on occassion leads to disdain and 1 or both individuals talking negatively about the other.
@@trueevolution6211 that's the thing......it doesn't matter what folk think! As half the time most can't even think, much less present/come up with solutions that are productive. So how and why should anothers thoughts be of importance. Often times, playing this quality of game to a mind that is pompus only caters to their ego. I bet if you open your mouth and what you've said profoundly affects them in a way that bruises their ego........they will hate you out of no where........which basically means that they never respected you. Not that you necessarily have to prove a point to everyone, but respect goes beyond getting every and anyone to like you/see you as likable, until they no longer like you👀👀👀. As needing to appear a certain way that deceives those that you yourself don't respect or necessarily care about just reveals the quality of your level of respect
No if someone doesnt respect him/herself suppose he is eating too much..that doesnt mean i shouldnt respect him. Respect others can be done even if they dont calue themselves..but never hurt, take advantange or abuse the other person
HyperVault yes u can. ..so many people have loved others though they didnt love themselves.that is only valuing others more than yourself..they expect others to love them as they love others..( if everybody lived by it would be peaceful.. ) but sadly most people are egoistic.
people who want respect, delete everyone is their life who looks like they might not respect them and then end up trusting no one and they don't care about anyone. so the the people who want to be nice AND have respect from others get the egotistical people who think they are better than everyone else.
Be youself not who others want you to be. Who cares how others see you it's how you see yourself what matters. Discover who you are or what you want to be. Honest value compassion kindness sweet. Active listening. Be understanding. Be positive Express yourself Always be on time. Don't waste time. I agree gossip is never good. Don't bad mouth or accuse hulimate bully or abuse. dont asumse. Stand up for what you believe in even if it mean standing alone. Have your own mind. People should stop being a push over or a doormat. People don't always have to agree on everything. Speak up again bullies or abuse. Stand up for other in positive way. Believe in your ideas embrace yourself. Care about positive people don't care of the negetive ones. Be good at what you do and start small and make your way up. Value is important. Help others when you have free time. People should control there emotions and learn from there mistakes. Be open minded and speak your mind. inspirational and encouraging. Say no to others not always say yes. Self respect and others. Stop negetive thoughts. Stay postive not be in the past stay in present. Avoid negative unhealthy relationships.
Brilliant! When read this, I showed my friend immediately. She said this was amazing! And I agreed with her, this really is amazing! This should be at 3,000 likes! If I could just show this to about 50 people I know, the results would be amazing, I know they would. Thank you for opening my mind and a few others! 💡
i didn't believe in myself, maybe i didnt respect myself, i wasn't self-confident to be respected by others. i practice to be nice with others and help them with my abilities and i realised the way people treat my differntly so i think i am on the good way. this video is very helpful. thanks so much.
We need this kind of communication. Sometimes, we end up finding ourselves caught in cycle of negativity, as result loos our morale values. This is good!
I've always LED my life. In good or bad always worried about peoples reaction. Now I learned from people's reactions. And what they may say about me later on in years because of their reaction. I've learned to not worry about what other people are thinking and actually means nothing to me because I try to think clearly and look at the others before I look into myself and sometimes I have to look into myself before I look at others and react to their mean ing I take courses in the morning in sociology
Here are couple more. 1) Do Not talk over other when that person is talking. Don't think you're witty by interrupting your opponent's speech because you don't want to hear it. That's totally disrespectful. Let the person finish his/her statement then you it's your time to voice your opinion or not. 2) When someone asks for a moment of your time, give them the full moment, your undivided attention. Do Not walk away 30 seconds later or in the middle of the speech. Even though you don't like to talk to that person. That's rude and disrespectful.All critics welcome. I learn something new everyday.
Exactly! I would like to add just a little thing: When words does not reach the person then the good old rule of "actions speak louder than words" may be followed without being disrespectful.
Agreed!! I will not accept that behavior from anyone.. There is absolutely no acceptable reason outside of someone dying or severely injured to constitute acting like that..
on the other hand, I interrupt people all the time because I don't like to listen to stupid sinful people. I have no problem walking away from stupid corrupt people. They don't deserve my respect 💁♂️
U can't make people respect you respect yourself and don't let others put you down it's more important what you think of yourself than what others think of you
i did #8 multiple times, but i got thanked by insults or friend betrayals... it worked very few times so stand up only for nice, trustworthy people or you won't get what you deserve
Every point brought up here resonates with how I would define ‘RESPECT’... something I’ve always tried my best to mirror with. Thank you for the reminder 😊
@@univuniveral9713 That's called grooming behaviour and is designed to gain trust then as soon as childhood finishes then its like 'fuck you pal' for the rest of your life.
Thank you for these amazing & helpful videos. I’m spiritual & I am an empath as I suffer Ptsd due to trauma I was forced to endure as a child, until I was age 14. I left home early but it was a matter of life or death type situation so I had to make choices I was simply too young to be making but I know I did not have any other choice, if I wanted to live! Sounds extreme but it’s why I am the way I am. I’m always seeking to progress, as an understanding, loving, sensitive being. I love your advice and tips! Great work...👌🏽✨❤️
I've left a job in a restaurant recently because everybody from managers to kitchen liked to gossip, gossip... gossip, to a point where I've noticed I was starting to get involved because that was all they talked about, but I've decided one day to have enough and quit right there and on the spot; One of the best decision I've ever made in my life, no regrets, and good riddance. Be careful with whom you surround yourself with... be very careful when building your character.
Personally my best advice I would tell anyone is to be calm no matter how you’re feeling you don’t have to say much but something about being with the presence of someone that’s calm calms nature too “you are part of nature”
Its nice to know that I'm already doing, at least, some things right. However, I can also see what still needs a little work. After all, many of us here are watching this video, because we need to know what we can do to improve our social lives. As such, I'm still working on dealing with my emotional responses, because I'm a passionate person. Being this way can be fine if I'm singing, or writing poetry. However, it can be rather awkward when I'm dealing with others.
Double Thumbs up to you guys!!! This is what they should teach in American school's Everywhere!! Even secondary schools. Decent common behaviors, like what you guys are teaching is very much needed in today's society. Especially, with the Government in which we have at this time. Thanks! Love and Light!!
#20: There you are, I was waiting. It has to do with the aspect of empathy you mention, but I fully believe that the most effective way to gain respect is to give it. Don't treat people like your inferiors and don't treat them like idiots, even when you do legitimately know more. It's worth it to remember that there are better people than you, too.
Dont do that. Poor people will see you as naive, and try to take advantage. Respect your equals and your superiors, but keep a safe distance from your inferiors. Trust me, you wont get anything positive from people below you.
@@pedrocarvalho4999 Poor people may earn you votes that rich can't, especially in Africa. Also depending of your approach and what kind of deal with them, know that many of them will not remain the same after months, they shall be potential customers..However as u said, your relationship with them requires more wisdom.
Been doing these my entire life and nobody respects me for it, in fact it seems people who do the opposite get more, which makes no sense to me. However, by now I'm used to being unpopular so I'd rather be that person who helps people out when they don't want me to instead of leaving the people I like to suffer from their own or someone else's mistakes and bad behavior. I'm a cornerstone with no-one's name etched in.
Only 1 way: Be around people that realize that a certain degree of respect is due to every individual, either they like him/her or not. In other words, if you are among people who make you feel that you have to do something or be someone else in order to receive even the minimum respect then you either: a) stay there and completely ignore them and b) or just move on, with the least possible or zero explanations. Respect your self enough as to realize what you deserve and what not.
If you want respect, dish some out.Many ive talked and counsed,interest me,my perception i here is.To become the person i want to be,ive got to stop being the person i am.🌷
I was raised as a child to be nice to everyone. Sure I speak whats on my mind sometimes. But should I try to stop being nice simply because others could think am not being genuine?
This is very intresting.I struggle with my social skills due to Autism - Asperger's Syndrome & ADHD as well! Thank you for helping me as this video went into a lot of things I was ignorant about and some I wasn't but needed elaboration on.
I would add that when it comes to those in positions of respect (ex. teacher), children need to learn to show respect even if there is no respect earned. I don't mean blind submission, but some modicum of order is needed even when the respect is not in your heart. Example: a court room judge: even if not deserving of respect, it is important to still be respectful.
Very good video. Honor & resoectful recognition are valuable foundational principles that when you work them they will work for you. At least I have discovered this to be true.
Stand up for yourself but don't be cocky. Be nice but don't be walked over. Many people take kindness for weakness. Stand by what you will say you will do. If you can't call them and explain. Apologies are to be used for the right reason. Do it when you honestly made a mistake. Be the person you are and not someone else. If you see someone is having it hard do something nice. Many people will appreciate it. If they don't you did your best. My father always said you earned respect and trust. They are not a given. If someone expects you to respect them the first time you meet then be careful. These people may walk over you in the future. People have to earn my respect. I will be nice but do not take it that I will be walked over. I may respect a person because they have a job that gets respect. That does not mean I respect the person. To get respect from someone you should be willing to earn it over time with your actions and being yourself. Of you take the time to earn someone's respect and they don't respect you back. Remember you tried your best. It is their loss not yours. Walk away knowing you did your part. Respecting yourself will show others that you are able to respect others and know how to treat people. All of this goes for people be it your family or friends or just people you meet on the street. This goes for everyone. To get respect give it. It is not your fault if they do not give it in return.
Hey There!!!! I am here to say that I like this video about respect . I learned about respect growing up Usually I wouldn't clicked, but I am having difficulties among my coworkers . For example I was promised to have full time work by Thursday, I. Was .told. do not come on Friday , we will call you if we need for .few days next week I say okay thanks. Coming back home , I was thinking what when wrong because I know I have done great work. I respected everyone. I followed all the rules. Yet ... what happened? But I remembered hearing comments from people that direct the production from the distance. Things like: ' people who live in the ghetto. People who don't have money. And few other comments very inappropriate. I was in chock .so, I chose to ignore them like I always respond with silent I know that I am to decent . I will never change who I am despite I need the money to pay my rent good and transportation So I saw this video to looking for mistakes in my part. Except being nice in order to cope with them. It takes o lot of energy to smile to people who abuse you just because I need to survive. Would you please kindly suggest me what else could I do? Thanks for reading
many work environments contain narcissists and women and men who use 'relational aggression' like throwing words so that you may hear. it is perhaps because you were such a hard worker that they singled you out. in future, try to take note, write down exactly who said the thing, what they said, what time they said it, and if possible, where they were standing when they said it, who else was present and where you were. when you bring up the abuse you will have a list of interactions which reflect workplace abuse. some people find it successful to sue the company for not properly attending to instances of abuse. so they would need to take action. look up local laws and consult a lawyer if at all possible if you are being harassed and misspoken to at work. Knowing that you are decent is SO important. Many are not. Knowing this truth about yourself is a strength. Rest in that knowledge that you are strong. In the meantime, I would say start looking for another job. Sometimes, this could be a blessing in disguise.
Yasmina Cera Hello Yasmina. Employers in the USA can get away with abuse. It is considered under the laws in most states, your word against their word. Employees in the USA have ZERO rights. All civil rights and employment rights attorneys will tell you this. Get another job.
Yasmina Cera If your purpose is to keep your job, ignore them and concentrate on your work while you try to find out if there is any other thing you need to know about your job and your work place. I believe that after sometime they will let you be, for I have found out that some people for some reason best known to them would always want treat new employees with disdain as if they were there to take over their place. You can also begin to look for another work, incase that refuse to stop and you can nolonger bear it. But before you go make sure you left all of it there. What I mean is that if you decide to go, try to talk to them. Don't be afraid of anyone not even your Boss. Let know how their actions had made you fell and how your not willing to continue because of it.
Hey There Thanks for your response. I am presently not working. In my line of work, it is not worth it to reason with any worker. They offer what they have which is ignorance., Walking away from their madness gives me a sense of respect. Sorry, I am watching TV while typing.) Nice hearing from you. Yasmina
Personally I respect people who aren’t afraid to be different. Holding values and ignoring peer pressure is a great way for me to respect someone.
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Alvin, I agree with you. I've seen others, based upon peer pressure, treat others, and me, badly. I have no respect for those people, especially when they do not apologize for their actions.
Love a black sheep
😢I'm so sad can ask whats bad almost Muslim's it's brother and sister all God respect 🙏
Trying your heart looking van video's and to day I'm relax I do way I'm with you family he's broke my heart keeps good do gems and forget try to help me a bout proses to train I'm with you 💪👍😀😊
Speaking up for your self is the most important thing . It shows that you don't accept to be beaten or mistreated
Yasmine, I more than often, let people walk all over me, so to speak. I let them say what they want, etc. But when they tell lies about me, and others believe those lies!!! I come out swinging, and can easily defend myself from their sad lives. You are right, Yasmine, speaking up for yourself IS the most important thing! It's hard to do, for some, but it MUST be done. And once you do, you will feel impowered, and others who really didn't know you, will look at you in a different light, and respect you for it! Also, their lies have a way of surfacing too !
Speak up for yourself when the matter is worth it. Speaking up just to command respect is bull-shitting yourself
Sure thing.
That's right. We can be nice while sticking up for ourselves when needed.👍
This is the thing to do but sometimes, when I am treated with no respect or indifference I get angry and I speak up for myself in an angry manner
I remember when i was in grade 12 it was 2013 my older brother was advising me and i still remember very freshly he told ‘’Be yourself , control your emotions and Learn to say No ‘’’ May God bless him 🙏
May *God* bless you for passing on the advice.
That's a bro everyone should have. Great advise.
I agree with controlling your emotions, it’s hard for some people
Wise guy
Say my elder brother
I always try to be nice to others but many a times people take the advantage of it.
read up on assertiveness. people say to be nice but do not mention to the people they advise that there are such people like 'narcissists', 'sadists' and average manipulators (read up on such things too). these types thrive on abusing nice people and exploiting their nice nature.
Just believe your kindness is oké. Remember your intension wash honestly .
So be prowt. Iff others try To take advance of it ....its the other intension.
Keep distance and tell honest your feeling against the ( parasite ).
Take care. Robert Belgium
Whoa! We’re on the same page😅
@@seemasharma7336 😄🙂😉😎👍🏿
Ahmed Andalous Eh?
The ONLY thing I'd like to add is, THINK BEFORE you speak or act, in order avoid NEEDING TO apologize often.
igspal I wouldn’t respect someone that is not spontaneous and fears judgment from others.
@@rmcd823 Thinking it over before saying so is not equal with fearing judgement.
Smile,and the world smiles with you 🤠
Amen!
They covered that. Instead of reacting, respond. Which means be calm, think before you react.
Learning to say no to people is the easiest way to gain their respect.
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You can't earn anybody's respect. There are ppl who no matter what you do they will not respect you because of who they are and not because of who you are. Respect should be just given because its the right thing to do, its called manners. Its impossible to please everyone.
No it isn't!
Loyalty is a big one for me. I respect loyalty as a divine virtue.
Unfortunately people in authority take advantage of loyalty, knowing when to break it off and move on without a doubt is key.
Neediness doesn’t earn respect. In fact, it pushes people away.
Speaking up for yourself or for someone else can be challenging and even intimidating, but IMO get you the most respect.
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"Moses Emmet.👍🏿😲😗🙂😃😀😅😄😉😎👍🏿."
And sometimes it just ruins your life.
It's important to stand up for other people. Not many people do it these days.
Very true..
Speaking directly & confidently and don't apologize when you say you can't do something. It's our right to decide what we want and what we don't want. I learned to say No I'm not able to do that, or No, this will not fit into my schedule or simply say, i have other obligations so have a great day and i smile and walk away. Lots of respect comes when you say these few statements 😎
What you lack in one,you gain in another,god gave us all,different gift's,
Don't badmouth other, respect yourself and you'll be respected.
Thank you very much sir
I wish I could have known all of this 30 years ago. Excellent advice
Don't talk too much and people will respect you. You are welcome🙋🏻♂️
Agree
You keep your mouth close some may think you a fool, you open your mouth they will know you're a fool. My teacher use to say that all the time.
Lololololololololololol is that so?! Are you speaking from personal experience or?! I didn't know that talking too much got you disrespected/disliked. 👀 Then again, who am I kidding. I'm well aware that when someone says things/is saying that which isn't considered "popular opinion", they will not only be disliked, but their words won't be respected. But what self respecting (not to be confused with arrogant or pompus) individual will retract that which they mean?! Anyone can play that game of not saying anything and catering to whomevers ego to feel and appear right. But that doesn't mean that they person necessarily respects you. They're just happy that you appear or are stupid and they appear to be knowledgeable. In situations as such both individuals aren't respecting each other at all. They're really just going through whatever motions for the time being. Which btw isn't respectful, more like tolerating each other.........which on occassion leads to disdain and 1 or both individuals talking negatively about the other.
@@trueevolution6211 that's the thing......it doesn't matter what folk think! As half the time most can't even think, much less present/come up with solutions that are productive. So how and why should anothers thoughts be of importance. Often times, playing this quality of game to a mind that is pompus only caters to their ego. I bet if you open your mouth and what you've said profoundly affects them in a way that bruises their ego........they will hate you out of no where........which basically means that they never respected you. Not that you necessarily have to prove a point to everyone, but respect goes beyond getting every and anyone to like you/see you as likable, until they no longer like you👀👀👀. As needing to appear a certain way that deceives those that you yourself don't respect or necessarily care about just reveals the quality of your level of respect
I've been doing that my whole life.
The most important point is 19. You need to respect yourself before you can gain respect.
Yep. Can't expect someone to love you if you don't even love yourself😳
No if someone doesnt respect him/herself suppose he is eating too much..that doesnt mean i shouldnt respect him.
Respect others can be done even if they dont calue themselves..but never hurt, take advantange or abuse the other person
HyperVault yes u can. ..so many people have loved others though they didnt love themselves.that is only valuing others more than yourself..they expect others to love them as they love others..( if everybody lived by it would be peaceful.. ) but sadly most people are egoistic.
Said my mind
You can be respectful but this wolrd is full of crazy people that do not care about anybody,,so sad.
You can say that again my friend u cant win too much crazy people in the world and selfish u seems like a very wise guy wow u said it perfect
big fat fish I feel the same way as well. Too many crazy people out there to try to earn respect
Especially when most people get rich they stop respecting themselves
@@nasinandi4521 exactly in my experience 🇰🇼🇵🇭✌️
people who want respect, delete everyone is their life who looks like they might not respect them and then end up trusting no one and they don't care about anyone. so the the people who want to be nice AND have respect from others get the egotistical people who think they are better than everyone else.
Doing the right thing, when nobody is watching. And this out of an sense of honour.
You're right!
hurbit123 that's integrity!
Integrity, very needed nowadays
I agree...thumbs up.
My dad did this and he was very respected - but don’t expect people to know you do these things
It's not how much you love but how much you are loved by others.....Thanks, wizard of oz.
Be youself not who others want you to be.
Who cares how others see you it's how you see yourself what matters.
Discover who you are or what you want to be.
Honest
value
compassion
kindness
sweet.
Active listening.
Be understanding.
Be positive
Express yourself
Always be on time. Don't waste time.
I agree gossip is never good.
Don't bad mouth or accuse hulimate bully or abuse.
dont asumse.
Stand up for what you believe in even if it mean standing alone.
Have your own mind.
People should stop being a push over or a doormat. People don't always have to agree on everything.
Speak up again bullies or abuse.
Stand up for other in positive way.
Believe in your ideas embrace yourself.
Care about positive people don't care of the negetive ones.
Be good at what you do and start small and make your way up.
Value is important. Help others when you have free time.
People should control there emotions and learn from there mistakes.
Be open minded and speak your mind.
inspirational and encouraging.
Say no to others not always say yes.
Self respect and others.
Stop negetive thoughts.
Stay postive not be in the past stay in present.
Avoid negative unhealthy relationships.
great video
This deserve more likes
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Brilliant! When read this, I showed my friend immediately. She said this was amazing! And I agreed with her, this really is amazing! This should be at 3,000 likes! If I could just show this to about 50 people I know, the results would be amazing, I know they would. Thank you for opening my mind and a few others! 💡
I tried this all and it still doesn't work. I don't understand what's wrong with me. I just want to die. I'm tired of this.
Respect starts with respecting yourself.
i didn't believe in myself, maybe i didnt respect myself, i wasn't self-confident to be respected by others. i practice to be nice with others and help them with my abilities and i realised the way people treat my differntly so i think i am on the good way. this video is very helpful. thanks so much.
Applying most of these in my daily life, I'm working on being more assertive and I'll get there Insha'Allah
Cheers
Insha ALLAH 👍🏻
InshaAllah 🤲🙏
Stupid ass religion
The most important thing is respecting yourself.Believing in your potential and never let anybody makes you down.
How to gain respect:
1 Honor what you say
Don't waste others people time
And dont let ppl waste your time
“Most good relationships are built on mutual trust and respect.”
Mona Sutphen
I prefer honesty and trust to
We need this kind of communication. Sometimes, we end up finding ourselves caught in cycle of negativity, as result loos our morale values. This is good!
Being myself has really taught me something, embrace the people who want to be in your life and let go the people while being yourself
I agree, you can't please everybody.
THIS IS SO MUCH TRUE. I HAVE DONE THESE ALL AND I EARNED MY RESPECT. THANK GOD.
I've always LED my life. In good or bad always worried about peoples reaction. Now I learned from people's reactions. And what they may say about me later on in years because of their reaction. I've learned to not worry about what other people are thinking and actually means nothing to me because I try to think clearly and look at the others before I look into myself and sometimes I have to look into myself before I look at others and react to their mean ing I take courses in the morning in sociology
Here are couple more. 1) Do Not talk over other when that person is talking. Don't think you're witty by interrupting your opponent's speech because you don't want to hear it. That's totally disrespectful. Let the person finish his/her statement then you it's your time to voice your opinion or not. 2) When someone asks for a moment of your time, give them the full moment, your undivided attention. Do Not walk away 30 seconds later or in the middle of the speech. Even though you don't like to talk to that person. That's rude and disrespectful.All critics welcome. I learn something new everyday.
These points right here are gold.
Literally my no. 1 pet peeve
Exactly! I would like to add just a little thing: When words does not reach the person then the good old rule of "actions speak louder than words" may be followed without being disrespectful.
Agreed!! I will not accept that behavior from anyone..
There is absolutely no acceptable reason outside of someone dying or severely injured to constitute acting like that..
on the other hand, I interrupt people all the time because I don't like to listen to stupid sinful people. I have no problem walking away from stupid corrupt people. They don't deserve my respect 💁♂️
U can't make people respect you respect yourself and don't let others put you down it's more important what you think of yourself than what others think of you
Yes!
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For sure
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Exactly.
i did #8 multiple times, but i got thanked by insults or friend betrayals... it worked very few times so stand up only for nice, trustworthy people or you won't get what you deserve
After watching this I realized that I'm on the right path ☺️
Mark Stunna 😂
Being respectful goes a long way for me. Great video!
We are never to old to learn more...thanks. Wished i knew this years ago.
More people need to watch this video. They should show these kinds of videos in schools and businesses.
Yes i agree
Very informative I loved it. Thanks for sharing 👍👍👍👍
Every point brought up here resonates with how I would define ‘RESPECT’... something I’ve always tried my best to mirror with. Thank you for the reminder 😊
You teach ppl how to treat you 😊
You're videos are really helpful and informative...
Just like gaining new thoughts!!!🤗
Thanks for watching!
Number 4 is honestly something I've struggled with for about three years now, but this year, I will do better.
Working with others to achieve common goals is a great way to. It opens the lines of communication, thus team work leads to all.
Do others really wanna work with you? I am beginning to hate people. They only love you when you are a child.
@@univuniveral9713 That's called grooming behaviour and is designed to gain trust then as soon as childhood finishes then its like 'fuck you pal' for the rest of your life.
None of these have an affect on an inadequate person.
But that doesn't mean you should not apply them to yourself.
Thank you. I have learned a lot listening to you
Thank you for these amazing & helpful videos. I’m spiritual & I am an empath as I suffer Ptsd due to trauma I was forced to endure as a child, until I was age 14. I left home early but it was a matter of life or death type situation so I had to make choices I was simply too young to be making but I know I did not have any other choice, if I wanted to live! Sounds extreme but it’s why I am the way I am. I’m always seeking to progress, as an understanding, loving, sensitive being. I love your advice and tips! Great work...👌🏽✨❤️
I promised myself & my mom that I will, control my mouth, & start being more respectful, and be more reliable. I started from yesterday.
I've left a job in a restaurant recently because everybody from managers to kitchen liked to gossip, gossip... gossip, to a point where I've noticed I was starting to get involved because that was all they talked about, but I've decided one day to have enough and quit right there and on the spot; One of the best decision I've ever made in my life, no regrets, and good riddance. Be careful with whom you surround yourself with... be very careful when building your character.
Very good set of guidelines for earning respect.
Love your neighbor as you love yourself !!! Blessings from France
This is the best video on respect I've watched so far...Very good content...I look forward to more videos..
Be respectful and gain respect. We all the same, anyhow. Even when they take disadvantage of you, still respect. Respect wil make you go far in life
these video's are consistently amazing!
1. Listen more than speaking;
2. Do something good that will improve your prestige. 3. Behave politely;
unfortunately , all these things are impossible in my situation ( the study at school in Iraq ) but I try to achieve some points .
hey me too i am iraquian are you syriac ? god bless
عباس الابراهيمي muslims are the easiest, I thought
Because Iraq is unfortunate ♿
This can be achieved in any situation my friend.
That's the thing, people have varying circumstances.
Personally my best advice I would tell anyone is to be calm no matter how you’re feeling you don’t have to say much but something about being with the presence of someone that’s calm calms nature too “you are part of nature”
Yes be yourself is the best .
One of the most amazing videos I've ever watched. Thank you.
Wow one of the most beautiful videos I've seen in a very long time!
Its nice to know that I'm already doing, at least, some things right. However, I can also see what still needs a little work. After all, many of us here are watching this video, because we need to know what we can do to improve our social lives. As such, I'm still working on dealing with my emotional responses, because I'm a passionate person. Being this way can be fine if I'm singing, or writing poetry. However, it can be rather awkward when I'm dealing with others.
Double Thumbs up to you guys!!! This is what they should teach in American school's Everywhere!! Even secondary schools. Decent common behaviors, like what you guys are teaching is very much needed in today's society. Especially, with the Government in which we have at this time. Thanks! Love and Light!!
Before all the students get killed♿
#20: There you are, I was waiting. It has to do with the aspect of empathy you mention, but I fully believe that the most effective way to gain respect is to give it. Don't treat people like your inferiors and don't treat them like idiots, even when you do legitimately know more. It's worth it to remember that there are better people than you, too.
How right you are,
I always treat people the same wheather rich or poor
Dont do that.
Poor people will see you as naive, and try to take advantage.
Respect your equals and your superiors, but keep a safe distance from your inferiors.
Trust me, you wont get anything positive from people below you.
Same here!😃
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@@pedrocarvalho4999 Poor people may earn you votes that rich can't, especially in Africa. Also depending of your approach and what kind of deal with them, know that many of them will not remain the same after months, they shall be potential customers..However as u said, your relationship with them requires more wisdom.
Been doing these my entire life and nobody respects me for it, in fact it seems people who do the opposite get more, which makes no sense to me. However, by now I'm used to being unpopular so I'd rather be that person who helps people out when they don't want me to instead of leaving the people I like to suffer from their own or someone else's mistakes and bad behavior. I'm a cornerstone with no-one's name etched in.
Money's the answer to all problems
Fathomlessbeauty yet it can create new problems too.
@@misterhot9163 One of the problems caused by money are the parasites that are attracted to you for money or status and nothing more.
Thank you so much for reminding us and has assured that we've done the right behaviour...
Thanks so much for sharing with us this wonderful advice.
1) Respect people in the same way that you want to be respected.
Thank You So Much! You Are So Right Not Everything People Say About Some People Is The TRUTH At All !
Only 1 way: Be around people that realize that a certain degree of respect is due to every individual, either they like him/her or not. In other words, if you are among people who make you feel that you have to do something or be someone else in order to receive even the minimum respect then you either: a) stay there and completely ignore them and b) or just move on, with the least possible or zero explanations. Respect your self enough as to realize what you deserve and what not.
Respecting myself first that is key.👍
A real masterpiece. Kudos brainy dose
I'm Not to people but if Disrespect me I don't let Them I Stan up for myself 💪 This Video is Useful for me and is Okay Disagree with Someone Else
What i think is you got a very nice voice and these tips are way too helpful. Thanks brainy dose 😊
It's very explicit presentation. Thanks much and keep up the good work. God speed 🙏❤
If you want respect, dish some out.Many ive talked and counsed,interest me,my perception i here is.To become the person i want to be,ive got to stop being the person i am.🌷
I love all your tips 🙏💖 thank you for sharing 💖💖💖
I was raised as a child to be nice to everyone. Sure I speak whats on my mind sometimes. But should I try to stop being nice simply because others could think am not being genuine?
SnowWhiteQueen091590 you keep being you, but also don't be a doormat
Fuck what others thing
Nice genuine speak ☢
Nice and cordial are different. You don't have to treat every person like a friend to be respected. Just don't be mean.
I like, please the most and thank you, simple but seriously, I've got a friend who needs to be adjusted and this has helped a lot thank you 🙏🏼
Great video very educational...self respect and respect other is the🔑 key...
Anti-social is the best answer to everything. This way u don't have to worry who respect u or not. Save all the trouble. Enough said
This video is a masterpiece. Thanks a lot for such wise words.
This is very intresting.I struggle with my social skills due to Autism - Asperger's Syndrome & ADHD as well! Thank you for helping me as this video went into a lot of things I was ignorant about and some I wasn't but needed elaboration on.
The information was very helpful
talk when it is necessary, dont be talkative
Fuck off
@@faisalrajah3811??! Ugh
The little things in life matters... volunteer!
🙂
If you have a listening skills you are golden, speak up with honesty.
great contents thanks a lot for this video l am gonna use it properly to gain respect . Big respect to you 😎😎
Be ourselves but the best of ourselves always.👍
Thanks for that lovely video it changed my life 🤗
Man... thanks for creating this video 🥺🥰
I would add that when it comes to those in positions of respect (ex. teacher), children need to learn to show respect even if there is no respect earned. I don't mean blind submission, but some modicum of order is needed even when the respect is not in your heart. Example: a court room judge: even if not deserving of respect, it is important to still be respectful.
Thank you so much. Your videos are really helpful.
Valuable thoughts.added somthing to life.thanks
Always respect yourself first if you want to gain respect from others. They're very awesome tips.
Very good video. Honor & resoectful recognition are valuable foundational principles that when you work them they will work for you. At least I have discovered this to be true.
Honestly and integrity is all you need
Stand up for yourself but don't be cocky. Be nice but don't be walked over. Many people take kindness for weakness. Stand by what you will say you will do. If you can't call them and explain. Apologies are to be used for the right reason. Do it when you honestly made a mistake. Be the person you are and not someone else. If you see someone is having it hard do something nice. Many people will appreciate it. If they don't you did your best. My father always said you earned respect and trust. They are not a given. If someone expects you to respect them the first time you meet then be careful. These people may walk over you in the future. People have to earn my respect. I will be nice but do not take it that I will be walked over. I may respect a person because they have a job that gets respect. That does not mean I respect the person. To get respect from someone you should be willing to earn it over time with your actions and being yourself. Of you take the time to earn someone's respect and they don't respect you back. Remember you tried your best. It is their loss not yours. Walk away knowing you did your part. Respecting yourself will show others that you are able to respect others and know how to treat people. All of this goes for people be it your family or friends or just people you meet on the street. This goes for everyone. To get respect give it. It is not your fault if they do not give it in return.
One of the best videos👌👍
Hey There!!!!
I am here to say that I like this video about respect .
I learned about respect growing up
Usually I wouldn't clicked, but I am having difficulties among my coworkers .
For example I was promised to have full time work by Thursday, I. Was .told. do not come on Friday , we will call you if we need for .few days next week I say okay thanks.
Coming back home , I was thinking what when wrong because I know I have done great work. I respected everyone. I followed all the rules.
Yet ... what happened?
But I remembered hearing comments from people that direct the production from the distance. Things like: ' people who live in the ghetto. People who don't have money. And few other comments very inappropriate. I was in chock .so, I chose to ignore them like I always respond with silent
I know that I am to decent . I will never change who I am despite I need the money to pay my rent good and transportation
So I saw this video to looking for mistakes in my part. Except being nice in order to cope with them.
It takes o lot of energy to smile to people who abuse you just because I need to survive.
Would you please kindly suggest me what else could I do?
Thanks for reading
many work environments contain narcissists and women and men who use 'relational aggression' like throwing words so that you may hear. it is perhaps because you were such a hard worker that they singled you out. in future, try to take note, write down exactly who said the thing, what they said, what time they said it, and if possible, where they were standing when they said it, who else was present and where you were. when you bring up the abuse you will have a list of interactions which reflect workplace abuse. some people find it successful to sue the company for not properly attending to instances of abuse. so they would need to take action. look up local laws and consult a lawyer if at all possible if you are being harassed and misspoken to at work.
Knowing that you are decent is SO important. Many are not. Knowing this truth about yourself is a strength. Rest in that knowledge that you are strong. In the meantime, I would say start looking for another job. Sometimes, this could be a blessing in disguise.
Yasmina Cera Hello Yasmina. Employers in the USA can get away with abuse. It is considered under the laws in most states, your word against their word. Employees in the USA have ZERO rights. All civil rights and employment rights attorneys will tell you this. Get another job.
Yasmina Cera If your purpose is to keep your job, ignore them and concentrate on your work while you try to find out if there is any other thing you need to know about your job and your work place. I believe that after sometime they will let you be, for I have found out that some people for some reason best known to them would always want treat new employees with disdain as if they were there to take over their place.
You can also begin to look for another work, incase that refuse to stop and you can nolonger bear it. But before you go make sure you left all of it there.
What I mean is that if you decide to go, try to talk to them. Don't be afraid of anyone not even your Boss. Let know how their actions had made you fell and how your not willing to continue because of it.
Hey There
Thanks for your response.
I am presently not working.
In my line of work, it is not worth it to reason with any worker. They offer what they have which is ignorance., Walking away from their madness gives me a sense of respect.
Sorry, I am watching TV while typing.)
Nice hearing from you.
Yasmina
The Lord loves you and has a plan. Hang on. You do well.
Amazing thank you for the video!
Wealthof wisdom. Thanks.
I loved it boy you nailed and i will try to follow up may God...bless u