I understand Dorothy. People's words can really leave an imprint in your mind and you start to identify yourself by someone's opinion. Though people may look at you and they think you look great, mentally you cant see or accept yourself as such. Body dysmorphia, BUT we have to pray and work on it and put out more body positivity for our generation and the generation to come.
I Ama mother of one and a size 8 and petite with a baby face, I can really relate with Ms. Ostin. It is sometimes very depressing and gets frustrating most of the time. And surprisingly, no one understands you because they believe you have the perfect body.
I can really relate with Dorothy but I am really appreciative of her boldness however as I have learnt I hope she starts learning to speak up and loving herself no matter how it may appear. The key thing is to remain healthy. When baby comes it will get scarier. Still learning to embrace my looks postpartum whiles maintaining healthy habits without pressure
Guys, I'm really enjoying this conversation but one thing we need to know and prioritize is to accept and appreciate ourselves and focus on living a healthy life. Thanks.
Please ladies, be grateful that you’re healthy and aim to maintain your health not a perfect body. Pray, eat healthy and find some activities you enjoy doing.
I feel the lady in the fro. Until she explained, I now realize why I am mostly sidelined and talked down to at work. Why’s worse is I’m reserved so you can imagine. I’m 30 and most people think I just completed university (22-25)
This was an eye-opener. Both ladies are soooo beautiful! 🤗🥰 It's unfortunate that society expects so much of a woman's body. Personally, I've never been proud of my arms because that's where my fat sits but I love sleeveless and strappy tops so everyone should deal. 😂 Love your body, ladies! It's doing so much for you already! ❤
I'm so glad self love got me to embrace my body in whatever shape and size it came with. As far as I'm eating healthy, drinking enough water and exercising regularly. I do it because it's makes me happy, it gives me peace and keeps my confidence alive😊 but not because I need validation for my body image, not anymore.
I am a mother of one and a size 8 and petite with a baby face, I can really relate with her. It is sometimes depressing and gets frustrating most of the time. And surprisingly, no one understands you because they believe you have the perfect body.
Goodness I should have been on this show!! I’ve been through HELL!!! For being tall and slim in Ghana?? I’ve been through hell and still going through it!! From primary school, Jss, sss, university!! From being called python, skin and bones, electric pole, skeleton, rope, broom stick, wire name it!!! I was always sad!! I would look on the mirror and cry and ask God why he made me so ugly!!! I was not confident!! I didn’t want to go anywhere!! It affected me so badly!!! Friends and family meme bets would pass nasty comments all the time!!! I was always so sad!! I felt so ugly!! Then I discovered Alek Wek, Iman, Gisele Bunchen, Tyra!! It was a whole new world for me!! There I knew that somewhere else on this planet i was the most fabulous person ever! Then I studied a lot from them. Fashion, make up!! I started building confidence, walking with my head up!! Even now people still pass very stupid comments but the difference is I’m so confident and I’ve sharpened my mouth for people like that! We do not need validation from anyone however human beings thrive on love and support and pats on the back so the same way we are affected by negative comments. Imagine every single day of your life someone telling you there’s something wrong with you because you do not look how they want you to look. Just recently a friend met me and said “Ei won’t you gain weight for us? You’re still the same” for you?????? I should fain weight for you.?? Because I live for you.? How does my look affect your life???? Please don’t listen to anyone concerning your health apart from your doctor!!!! I hated being tall my goodness!!! I would always wear flats and bend my knees to fit in. Eiii I also learned that people pick on you because of their own insecurities. One girl who was about 5ft tall would always pick on me that I was too tall and too skinny! But it was never because perhaps she was rather too short??? Noooo I was the problem. Human beings!!! You listen to them get surgeries get botched and the same people will come and tell you you looked better before why did you get surgery. Smh!!
Dorothy is so beautiful,I was going through her Instagram page to see if there is one picture where she looks fat and there isn’t any.People should really stop giving unnecessary comments about someone’s body
I definitely can relate with them, but mine was my shoes size. I wear a size 13 in women size. When I was in Ghana I was having a hard time finding my shoes size specially when everyone had to wear the same shoes in school. Most of my shoes was coming from out of the country when it comes to picking what to wear. I can see the shame that comes from it when it’s not even your fault.
The range Rover pulling up part.....Is so true...I'm a nurse and we barely wear our uniforms now for where I work...I have a bit of a fupa but with a banging body .the day we had an official meeting I wore my uniform with a corset underneath... My God....the complements...hmmm...I even got a hamper dropped for me a couple of days later...just for having a well kept body....so I'm a bit conscious now especially when I'm going be wearing fitted dresses
Great episode! You’re supposed to eat more protein, veggies & fats with keto - you’re not starving yourself of nutrients!! Healthy lifestyle trumps all!!
"I'm tiny" too in people's eyes....one time a patient who visited a facility I worked at was told I'm the Dr on duty and the only thing he could say was "apuuuu"....just because I took tiny....so yh....I've developed a tough skin tho.
Wow, 🤭I watch this and I am full of gratitude. I have a tiny waist and that's where I draw my confidence from. I am very glad I don't need to deal with this coz like the pressure is real
I hope Dorothy doesn't do anything to her body; she looks so beautiful! She's been much affected and conscious about her body because of what she's been told. I have the lower abdomen fat as well, but I wear whatever I want. I do intermittent fasting, especially one meal a day, to keep a healthy BMI. No one is perfect, and as long as I'm healthy, that's all that matters.
I was really laughed at for being so slim and tall and it disturbed me alot which lead me to taking in weight gain medicine just to look a little fat. It's really disheartening and heart breaking
This is the problem am facing now And realy hate it that it’s normal to our people to speak to someone like that without thing twice . I was born in Holland and realise that even when I ask them do I look ugly have a gain weight they always say oh Naa you look good . There is nothing wrong with you . But when I go to church or party the things people tell makes me feel so ugly to the point of people saying how wil u get a husband gaining weight like this . Like they have made me feel soo ugly idk what to do I don’t even take pictures anymore
Kontomire and cucumber? That’s it? That’s crazy. Keto should incorporate protein, how can someone sustain in it? This is hard Some diet programs are tough- this is too much
Yes, keto is more of protein than anything else. Proteins, veggies, and good fats as in pear. And I don't think you need to be restricted on the veggies. She could have had lots of the Kontomire to make up.
I understand Dorothy. People's words can really leave an imprint in your mind and you start to identify yourself by someone's opinion. Though people may look at you and they think you look great, mentally you cant see or accept yourself as such. Body dysmorphia, BUT we have to pray and work on it and put out more body positivity for our generation and the generation to come.
I love Naa so much. She's so honest.
I Ama mother of one and a size 8 and petite with a baby face, I can really relate with Ms. Ostin. It is sometimes very depressing and gets frustrating most of the time. And surprisingly, no one understands you because they believe you have the perfect body.
I can really relate with Dorothy but I am really appreciative of her boldness however as I have learnt I hope she starts learning to speak up and loving herself no matter how it may appear. The key thing is to remain healthy. When baby comes it will get scarier. Still learning to embrace my looks postpartum whiles maintaining healthy habits without pressure
Guys, I'm really enjoying this conversation but one thing we need to know and prioritize is to accept and appreciate ourselves and focus on living a healthy life. Thanks.
Naa gives really good advice.
We appreciate your honesty Dorothy and you look stunning
Please ladies, be grateful that you’re healthy and aim to maintain your health not a perfect body. Pray, eat healthy and find some activities you enjoy doing.
I feel the lady in the fro. Until she explained, I now realize why I am mostly sidelined and talked down to at work. Why’s worse is I’m reserved so you can imagine. I’m 30 and most people think I just completed university (22-25)
This was an eye-opener. Both ladies are soooo beautiful! 🤗🥰 It's unfortunate that society expects so much of a woman's body. Personally, I've never been proud of my arms because that's where my fat sits but I love sleeveless and strappy tops so everyone should deal. 😂 Love your body, ladies! It's doing so much for you already! ❤
I'm so glad self love got me to embrace my body in whatever shape and size it came with. As far as I'm eating healthy, drinking enough water and exercising regularly. I do it because it's makes me happy, it gives me peace and keeps my confidence alive😊 but not because I need validation for my body image, not anymore.
I like you Naa. Just be confident with your body and for who you are. God bless you Naa.
I share in Mz Orstin's pain. I'm just like her and have to face the same if not more of those humiliations. May God help us.
Me too ooo...
I am a mother of one and a size 8 and petite with a baby face, I can really relate with her. It is sometimes depressing and gets frustrating most of the time. And surprisingly, no one understands you because they believe you have the perfect body.
The truth is really none of our business✨. Kindness will always pay in the end 💕💕
You only live once,live it well and forget the opinions of frustrated people...Real people will reason with you and love you for who you are😍😍😍
Goodness I should have been on this show!! I’ve been through HELL!!! For being tall and slim in Ghana?? I’ve been through hell and still going through it!! From primary school, Jss, sss, university!! From being called python, skin and bones, electric pole, skeleton, rope, broom stick, wire name it!!! I was always sad!! I would look on the mirror and cry and ask God why he made me so ugly!!! I was not confident!! I didn’t want to go anywhere!! It affected me so badly!!! Friends and family meme bets would pass nasty comments all the time!!! I was always so sad!! I felt so ugly!! Then I discovered Alek Wek, Iman, Gisele Bunchen, Tyra!! It was a whole new world for me!! There I knew that somewhere else on this planet i was the most fabulous person ever! Then I studied a lot from them. Fashion, make up!! I started building confidence, walking with my head up!!
Even now people still pass very stupid comments but the difference is I’m so confident and I’ve sharpened my mouth for people like that!
We do not need validation from anyone however human beings thrive on love and support and pats on the back so the same way we are affected by negative comments. Imagine every single day of your life someone telling you there’s something wrong with you because you do not look how they want you to look.
Just recently a friend met me and said “Ei won’t you gain weight for us? You’re still the same” for you?????? I should fain weight for you.?? Because I live for you.? How does my look affect your life????
Please don’t listen to anyone concerning your health apart from your doctor!!!!
I hated being tall my goodness!!! I would always wear flats and bend my knees to fit in. Eiii I also learned that people pick on you because of their own insecurities. One girl who was about 5ft tall would always pick on me that I was too tall and too skinny! But it was never because perhaps she was rather too short??? Noooo I was the problem.
Human beings!!! You listen to them get surgeries get botched and the same people will come and tell you you looked better before why did you get surgery. Smh!!
You look perfect Dorothy, getting slimmer won't make you look good in a tight dress. A size 10/12 is great for your height.
Dorothy is so beautiful,I was going through her Instagram page to see if there is one picture where she looks fat and there isn’t any.People should really stop giving unnecessary comments about someone’s body
I definitely can relate with them, but mine was my shoes size. I wear a size 13 in women size. When I was in Ghana I was having a hard time finding my shoes size specially when everyone had to wear the same shoes in school. Most of my shoes was coming from out of the country when it comes to picking what to wear. I can see the shame that comes from it when it’s not even your fault.
the 6 kids part got me lauging! The look on Naa's face alone and the return look from Dorothy is so dramatic 🤣🤣🤣
The range Rover pulling up part.....Is so true...I'm a nurse and we barely wear our uniforms now for where I work...I have a bit of a fupa but with a banging body .the day we had an official meeting I wore my uniform with a corset underneath... My God....the complements...hmmm...I even got a hamper dropped for me a couple of days later...just for having a well kept body....so I'm a bit conscious now especially when I'm going be wearing fitted dresses
Great episode! You’re supposed to eat more protein, veggies & fats with keto - you’re not starving yourself of nutrients!! Healthy lifestyle trumps all!!
I think you are just amazing Dorothy so pretty am just sad you ain’t seeing your beauty
I know. It's like all she's focused on is her lower belly, but her beauty is absolutely more than what she's actually focusing on.
Wow
This is an amazing episode…a lot has been learnt here….i love Dorothy’s personality, you look beautiful the way you are hunnay🥰❤️
"I'm tiny" too in people's eyes....one time a patient who visited a facility I worked at was told I'm the Dr on duty and the only thing he could say was "apuuuu"....just because I took tiny....so yh....I've developed a tough skin tho.
Loving the honesty!
Dorothy has explained my life completely 😩
Thanks darling for this program, by God's grace I just started my UA-cam in U.S.
Wow, 🤭I watch this and I am full of gratitude. I have a tiny waist and that's where I draw my confidence from. I am very glad I don't need to deal with this coz like the pressure is real
All 3 ladies are supper gorgeous
I hope Dorothy doesn't do anything to her body; she looks so beautiful! She's been much affected and conscious about her body because of what she's been told. I have the lower abdomen fat as well, but I wear whatever I want. I do intermittent fasting, especially one meal a day, to keep a healthy BMI. No one is perfect, and as long as I'm healthy, that's all that matters.
I have two kids(boys) hey it difficult, stressful and many more
You dorothy jst believe in yourself you're so beautiful
I was really laughed at for being so slim and tall and it disturbed me alot which lead me to taking in weight gain medicine just to look a little fat. It's really disheartening and heart breaking
Was looking forward to another video and here it is!!
Sooo insightful ❤️❤️
😂😂😂6 children 👶? Naa, after the first one she will change her mind 😂
After body image issue after 2 kids ..not comfortable about myself when I dress to go out
I experience that all the time, but I don't care anymore. Maybe Naa you should interview me one of these days
Such an interesting topic 👌
I can really relate with Dorothy
Amazing topic
Lovely
Dorothy is funny 🤣🤣🤣
She wants to have six kids
Pregnancy and motherhood is far difficult than this my dear Dorothy 😃
This is the problem am facing now
And realy hate it that it’s normal to our people to speak to someone like that without thing twice . I was born in Holland and realise that even when I ask them do I look ugly have a gain weight they always say oh Naa you look good . There is nothing wrong with you . But when I go to church or party the things people tell makes me feel so ugly to the point of people saying how wil u get a husband gaining weight like this . Like they have made me feel soo ugly idk what to do I don’t even take pictures anymore
I'm currently battling with the same thing. I don't take pictures anymore because of this and it makes me sad..
@@josephineandorful7860 it’s just said there I even Started a hashtag movement #normalizeEmpathytowardsothers# cause this is realy Emotional damage
Seems the convo was too focused on Dorothy. Great session though
It's so true what Dorothy is saying....it's a struggle.... honestly...
She has body dysmophia. Some People will never understand
I'm just like Mz Orstin and it hasn't been easy. You get the small boys proposing to you all the time
😂😂😂
Sorry my dear
Ah the way I admire this Dorothy's physique paaa?
Hmmm. This table .......
Kontomire and cucumber? That’s it? That’s crazy. Keto should incorporate protein, how can someone sustain in it? This is hard
Some diet programs are tough- this is too much
Yes, keto is more of protein than anything else. Proteins, veggies, and good fats as in pear. And I don't think you need to be restricted on the veggies. She could have had lots of the Kontomire to make up.
Dorothy is funny 😄
You look great Naa
Dorothy you are mad😂😂🤣🤣 we are going to eat fufu this Saturday wai. Im dragging you by force!
The "mwe mwe delicious" part around 17:20 makes me feel like getting a Range and pullover at ladies but whom am I.
😂😂😂
Mz austen is my senior, she can dance papa...lol
The discussion was centred too much on one person.
Where are my fellow boy mums? She wants 6!!! 🤣🤣🤣
Kontomire and cucumber? Ei😂
The fupa stress is so real…..
Kodus🤲🤗
So you are saying that in Ghana, children are not address as human being or with decency
Well their opinions mostly doesn’t count. That’s the reality
Dorothy 🤣😂🤣🤣
Sandra
3ne3 mede3 mas3e
Mum jeans 🤣🤣
Yes we have mom and boyfriend jeans. It's just the name of it. I guess Naa hasn't heard it before.
@Agnes Ofosu yes I know. Naas reaction was what got me. 🤣🤣🤣🤣