This video is the most beautiful of all. Thank you for opening up in such an honest way. Through your reflectios and discussions, you shared deeply and clearly about your relationship. It opened up a great deal of emotion and realizations for me. THANK YOU! ❤
“New and fun. FUN, FUN, FUN!” Your conversations are so in-depth and descriptive. However, Hannah’s enthusiastic and giddy response above spoke directly to me! I checked all the boxes on a checklist for a potential spouse (or so I thought) with my “male best friend” and then fell madly in love with a woman. FUN, FUN, FUN - like a lightening bolt of now, I get the Big Picture! 19 years and counting with my wife. 🌈🤠
Loving how the intellectual discussion can be so romantic! :) I'm with Sadie about the acknowledgement of feelings (unexpectedly), then followed by choices whether to act on it or not. Personally, i think this can apply to all perspectives of human emotions, say...when you're pissed by someone being so rude to you, the best thing is to emotionally aware you're pissed...then it's your choice to A) walk away B) punch them in the face! or C) B then A (LOL!!). Eventually, it's your job to deal with all the consequences. Fortunately, both of you have chosen the perfect choice to be together! Love the vid. Big thanks to both of you!
That’s such a good point Lilly- that this acknowledgment of feelings applies to any sort of emotion. Sadie has helped me learn this- that while everyone is entitled to their emotions and actions, they must also be willing to accept the consequences of their actions. Anyway- thank you so much for this comment and for watching!
You two are so cerebral! I love it! Your thoughtful analysis of how your liking of one another developed into a romantic love is so refreshing especially with so much superficiality to be found on UA-cam. Without a doubt, building and maintaining a long term healthy relationship takes a lot of work but the odds for success are exponentially higher when you both share the same core values. It is clear that your close, loving friendship laid a very good foundation on which to build a deeper relationship. It doesn't mean that you don't or won't drive each other crazy every now and then as, opposites tend to do, but you both sound very self aware and reflective which is what it takes to be able to find that middle ground with your partner, when necessary.
Yesss Diane! Your comment is spot-on. Starting our relationship from a strong friendship had such a big impact on how we communicated, and allowed us to open up really quickly. Thank you for your comment, and for listening to our story!
Wow! All these conversations and thoughts you're having are so refreshing. It's like these topics have always been around us but don't get to be discussed and just left up in the air. Your conversations are very insightful and a breath of fresh air. Thank you for sharing this with us.
Like always, I'm grinning from ear to ear. The timing of when you upload means for us southern-hem folk a brilliant start to the day. Thanks for sharing.
Another beautiful conversation ❤️ . And here's me, who had never commented on a UA-cam video till yours a few weeks back, commenting again and again! 😂 But I feel it is important to tell people when they are appreciated and I truly appreciate your videos. Thank you for being so honest and willing to share such insightful and meaningful conversations. If only the world was as compassionate and self-reflective! I agree with a lot of what you girls said, I think one of the reasons I am so drawn to your channel is because I see a lot of myself in you, and a lot of my relationship in yours (not so much how we got together lol me and my girlfriend also met 10 years ago but we've been together since the day we met! Love at first sight some would call it, if such a thing even exists! 😉) but in the way you communicate so openly and empathically with one another. I too, like Hannah, cry at everything (it's a gift people tell me haha!) and was wondering if you had heard of the term "highly-sensitive person"? There is very interesting research around it and it resonated a lot with me when I read about it. As with everything, it is a spectrum and different people will fall on different points of the scale but worth a peek if it interests you! Anyway, this will be an essay soon, I shall shut up! ps: my cheeks also hurt from smiling from ear to ear throughout this whole video! ❤️❤️❤️
Wow thank you Marta!! I have definitely heard about being highly sensitive, but haven’t done much reading about it. With a label like that, it sounds like a super-power:) Anyway, thank you for the comment and for watching! Sending love❤️
Diane Constantin thank you so much, Diane! That’s very sweet of you to comment. I’m glad we can support Hannah and Sadie and be a part of the awesome online community they’re building! ❤️🥰🌈
Golden girl- I agree, I usually don’t comment on you tube videos either, but you too ladies are adorable, and enchanting in the ways that you are able to share your most intimate experiences with the world! You too are awesome and I’m so happy that you have found Happiness and away to monetize 😍
So validating to know I'm not the only one who looks at love in such an analytical way. And that it doesn't make things not romantic! You two are so sweet. #goals
THIS!!! Just perfection. Sharing your story through these very personal and intimate moments and feelings is the content that other same sex couples need to see. Whether young or old, anybody can identify with, relate to, and grow from your experience and through that openness, can evolve and become stronger. Thank you once again for sharing.
Hi Sadie an Hannah. I am a mom. An straight. I like you both to know how blessed you both are to have each other an to work threw different things in life. Keep working on it an always talk threw it. I pray you both have a wonderful life together an my all ur dreams come true. Enjoy ur openness an being real. Blessings
I'm so happy for you guys that you have found your person. I'm a lot older than you guys and have just come to terms with the feelings I have had since I was very young. Now I feel that I'm too old to find my someone. It's entirely my fault though. I have always been too afraid to choose myself before my families expectations. take care and keep choosing your truth.
Of course you all had the cutest first “I love you” moment! I love that’s it was a very quick response of “too late!” Thank you for linking the article!! I was just about to go looking for it!
I think, when Sadie says, "she didn't have a choice..." that feels to me to be part of the "falling" aspect. Like literally falling, once it starts you don't have s choice. How you react, the decisions you make are part of it. Try and catch yourself, allow yourself to fall and roll out of it, or flip around like a cat and land on your feet, give the.. I meant to do that look.
And as for Pam and Roy- I feel really thankful to be at a point in my life where I can recognize an unhealthy relationship. I think it takes a lot of reflection and growth to get there! So thank you😊
Perfect! I love seeing you talk and rambling around feelings and stories! It's super sweet and honest. Thank you. I actually needed this in a way to kind of find hope in "falling", being and just love in general. You're story and your perspective on things even if it's not 100% equal to mine, I just like how you process, work on it and dive into it. It's not actually about the answer or result itself, but also more about the emotion/story within the answer. So once again, thank you for sharing and also for that link 🤪 I've been thinking on using it for a while and you just randomly gave it to me 🙏 just gotta find with whom to use it with 😂 Also ps: there's no need for any make out sessions on video for us to feel the love that flows between you two, it's actually more beautiful to sense it even without the huge physical "prove", just goes to show how it comes from within and shines out of you ❣️
Love is so different from person to person. It can be scary to some, calming to others, sparkly to some, and just exists to others🤷🏻♀️ You both talked about it from so many different angles, and I enjoyed listening to your ideas about it all. Thanks for the video! Also, I enjoyed you guys just having this convo with no “prep” so to speak🦥✨
Loving these conversations! They are thought provoking, honest and so insightful. My wife and I are going on 21 years and 4 kids later. We are opposites who also had to find a balance early on learning how we reacted to situations in such differeny ways. We learned to understand and embrace that. Still going strong and going to look up the NY times questions to keep falling in love.
I love you guys - the conversation and the depth of your discussions is fantastic. I’m a family and relationships attorney and mediator in Australia and I love what you do.
I love y'all's videos! You're so honest and I wish I had had something loke this when I was figuring out my sexuality. Also, Hannah the way you look at Sadie is adorable!!!! It reminds me of how I look at my girlfriend.
I remember when I first said 'I love you' to my girlfriend. It was such an overwhelming feeling that I was barely can breathe :) That was over 10 years ago. When I watch your video I remember all my feelings again and I m so happy :)
What a wonderful couple and story. Some times you have to drive down a bumpy road to see the views. You found each other and have the relationship you were always meant too. Wishing you love and happiness.
Its the little things that matter and the realization that this is it. ❤️ I m a huge Sadie fan..!! The way she bursted laughing after Hannah said they are perfect now.. 🤣😎
Hello ladies, loved your video again, I click on your videos as soon as I get notification. You both bring a calmness into my life at least for the 30 minutes length of your conversations, I’ve enjoyed all your videos, I just look forward to a bit of me time to watch them, so please keep up the good work. I find your questions really interesting and thought provoking, so thank you. Sending you both love and big hugs from England.
Finally someone said it falling in love is just an expression used for a long time and may be its right for others but choosing to love a person and put work in relationship is more realistic then just saying falling in and out of love. Well congrats to you ladies both chose to pursue the relationship, accepting love for each other and expressing it. You have one of the realistic and great love stories. Thank you for sharing. Love you and take care ❤️
Knowing my partner through an internet forum as we from being an acquaintance that only chats by replying to each other messages, later to develop as the friend that occasionally chat online and finally falls to each other...not to mention about the obstacles that we were faced back then such as our age gaps, culture difference so forth and last but not least, our long-distance (cross-country) relationship. 5 years of long-distance and for this coming Oct will mark the 4th "being together" anniversary of ours, so yeah I'm for sure to say that, Love truly is by Choice! or at least for me, it is. bdw you two are just marvelous! with lots of love. ❤️❤️❤️
I thought Sadie made a great point with the understanding your partner point..it is paramount in a relationship to be understood..it leads to better communication,feeling truly apart of the relationship and even accepted within the relationship.. this was really great content ladies!!
Love this Video💜 I agree with Sadie you cant always control your feelings. It was too cute on how y’all first said I love you.. I always say you can love anybody but you can’t be in love with everybody. To have some to be in love with is a beautiful thing.
Thank you for this video, it's super cute AND very helpful :) Super interesting to hear your (very thoughtful) perspectives on love! Now i have to think about how i view love ^^
It is a such a refreshing series. People should talk more about Love in not the typical film style love, it will save lot a people from misery they face when the expectations are not fulfilled. In marathi it is known as 'अपेक्षा भंगाचे दुःख"
Aww the two of you are so cute..... Firstly just want to say "The both of you complete us" - The Hannah & Sadie Love story... But the line "You complete me" is from Jerry McGuire.... Love this vid... The heart is the strongest muscle, and when you fall in love it's hard to ignore, but I agree, you still have to make a choice whether or not you follow your heart... And putting the pieces of your thoughts together with your feelings can be hard, but once you get there it's so rewarding.... Correct me if I'm wrong, but Hannah you come across as the more emotional one (not saying Sadie isn't emotional).... I'm not the most emotional person, and usually walk away from a situation before I do get emotional... Anyway, thanks for the vid ladies you made a somewhat difficult Wednesday so much better. Dankie dames 💕🌼🇿🇦
Oh and Sadie, hope you as excited as I am about the She Believes cup... Go USWNT... Now I just have to find a site to live stream it and then stay up late enough to watcg.... ⚽🏅🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸
Hannah here- Hussey thank you!! Yesss Jerry McGuire. It's so funny to think of emotion as coming from the heart vs head vs gut! Yes, I am definitely the more emotional/sensitive one. Happy Wednesday- the weekend is near! And ooooo I'll have to text Sadie about the She Believes Cup! We will definitely be tracking down a sports bar that will show the games...
@@HannahSadie you right Hannah... Gut too... Heart, head and gut... And sometimes you have to remove one or two of them to come up with some sort of amswer for yourself.... Choices... Part of life💕... But at the end of it I kinda just hope love conquers all... Have a great Wednesday... Mine is done, time for bed... 🌼😴
Listening to you two feed off of each other with "oh, that reminds me...," or "I want to go back to what you said..." reminds me of a passage from Kerouac's "On the Road". (yes, it is misogynistic, racist, homophobic, and steeped in privilege [it was written over 70 years ago], but it was a book I discovered as I was divorcing at 40 and it left a mark upon me.) In the book there's a story about how Sal (Jack Kerouac) has driven West and met up again with Dean (Neal Cassidy) and the two of them spend a night trying to "say everything." Every sentence or story from one would lead to another sentence or story from the other. Meandering through their lives, experiences, and perceptions. While the characters (and the real people they represented) acknowledge that they are seriously flawed, it was a scene of intense pureness. There was no filter, no judgement, no sense of melancholy or regret; just this is what I experienced and as a human, I want to express to what you, another human, what it was. That is fundamental to being human. Keep the communication going, it will serve you well...
Really enjoy your videos.👍. Your opening discussion reminds me of a song title from actress/musician Heather Peace from the U.K....."Fairytales Have A Lot to Answer For." So true....
I think that everybody perceives love differently. At the beginning there must be some kind of attraction and connection to form a basis from which you can work on your love and this is true for most people. Of course it's a choice if you want to act on this first connection. When I connected with my now wife, I knew that there was trouble ahead because she had the wrong religion for my parents and also because she worked for the dental technician who worked for my father, a dentist. I kept her secret for 6 months before telling my parents, who of course knew her. Their reaction, which shocked me, was: "at least you're not gay". They also tried to convince me to break up with her and told me that they wouldn't attend our wedding (far from being planned). We made a conscious decision to stay together and work on our relationship which was very rocky the first 1.5 years until I broke up with my family for 5 years. We're now dating for over 25 years and are married for over 23 years. Before connecting with my wife I could have connected with other genders, but was too afraid to do so at the time. I do, however, acknowledge (because I also saw this happening) that there is love at first sight, although very seldomly. Thanks for constantly inspiring me with your videos.
This series go far beyond expectations... ❤️❤️❤️ Honestly even if friendship is the foundation and u enter more than Friends, differences still keep coming out.. As sayings goes when u get married expect the unexpected.. 😂 😂 😂 Think it applies too when you enter into something serious.. But good thing you both get along well with arguments, choices, endure patience to one another.. As Hannah say, you were opposite, but look now, perfect 👌.... Nearly there ladies.. 😂 😂 😂 Nearly there to cancel my Netflix..
Wait did you guys have to get rid of the intro music cause of copyright or something? I'm going back through old videos and all I hear is the awkward sounds of you guys making tea??? bahahahhah
wow another discussion #content👏 I agree w/ both points, I think that attraction and choice should be together. w/ Saddie about attraction that you have no choice w/ " falling" because for me that is intuition w/c you cannot control and w/ Hannah it is a choice for you to pursue that attraction, there's no path, this is exactly same to me there's no limiting belief or like pattern...I always thought I'm "bi" but then there's demisexual and sapiosexual idk😂anyway love you both.💚🇵🇭
Yes- good point that the two (both "falling" and "choosing") can go hand in hand. Cheers to not having to nail down a single identity😂 We send our love!
I love this "love episode " you two beautiful humans are cute and adorable. You have something beautiful, I hope you both equally take care of it always💎 🌠💕
Great book you would likely enjoy is Just Ask by Michele O’Mara. The true beauty is that none of the questions are hetero-normative, they are for any couple.
So question, I tend to have all the "sparkly, butterflies enamored" feelings for people who unfortunately do not feel the same for me. So I'm here (quickly approaching 40) and I'm alone, always falling for people who don't share my feelings. Do you think that some people are meant to be alone?
Hey Sara! That kind of situation can be so hard. I don't think I believe in all our destinies being predetermined. No matter what, we send our love to you!
Hey Sara, I would recommend to check out Alan Robarge's work on UA-cam. He talks about love addiction in a wonderful, healing way... Oh I know, love addiction is a big word. You can call it insecure attachment, or simply being a bit intense in love. All of this is okay and there are many of us feeling this way at all ages because romantic love triggers a lot of very powerful, sometimes self-destructive emotions. I would really recommend checking out resources regarding insecure attachment, maybe even try to find a good therapist to help you through this. It would be a shame to convince yourself that you are predestined to be alone when really, you don't know and life is full of surprises. Also keep in mind that you are 100% deserving of and even built for love. Hugs!
Stereotypes... being in a relationship with another person (straight or gay) it should be an everyday choice. Only then you work for the relationship and living in the present. Stereotypes make you run years ahead to build the "happy ending" that's the family with two kids but you escaping the present while you doing that. That's why most relationships after 15 years and kids saying "I don't recognize you anymore" because they didn't even noticed the small changes
I like the way you talk about stereotypes resulting in people “running ahead.” And you’re right- I think it makes people miss crucial moments they could have recognized as red flags in the earlier stages of a relationship.
@@HannahSadie thanks, I love your channel! You are authentic and no "gay for views" (if you know what I mean). Your videos are funny but you talk about some society issues and I love it. (Btw your story is ideal for movie) Stay healthy and authentic girls!
@@HannahSadie sooo i have an online friend who is also LGBTQ, hut aside from that shes a poet. She has a podcast where she has 20/30min conversations with people about their stories (usually creatives) and then turns their conversation in a poem on a typewriter. This video made me think yall may like it. I just happen to be driving to Denver from OKC tonight to record an episode. Highly reccomend checking it out the episodes already out. Its called Poems for People 😊
Sleeping beauty: she's only waking up because the 100 years have passed exactly at that moment... Lucky for her that she likes the prince who happens to be kissing her... that's how I always read the story, even as a kid ;)
Yay my girls are back, the best highlight of a cozy rainy day 🙂, i won't get over ever the #CutenessOverload you have. Yoy are meant to be girls , from sec one i saw you thats it. Meant to be !!!! Y Sadie ? "Hazlo. Y Se Estan Miedo Hazlo Con Miedo 😉. Loads of Love
😊😊Thank you Twee!! And thank you for pointing that out- I should've included that in the description. Here's the link! www.nytimes.com/2015/01/11/style/36-questions-that-lead-to-love.html
This video is the most beautiful of all. Thank you for opening up in such an honest way. Through your reflectios and discussions, you shared deeply and clearly about your relationship. It opened up a great deal of emotion and realizations for me. THANK YOU! ❤
“New and fun. FUN, FUN, FUN!” Your conversations are so in-depth and descriptive. However, Hannah’s enthusiastic and giddy response above spoke directly to me! I checked all the boxes on a checklist for a potential spouse (or so I thought) with my “male best friend” and then fell madly in love with a woman. FUN, FUN, FUN - like a lightening bolt of now, I get the Big Picture! 19 years and counting with my wife. 🌈🤠
Yes yes the most fun ever! Oh my gosh 19 years is so incredible. Congratulations to you and your wife!! 🌈🥰🥰
You two are well suited and have such healthy communication. A sincerity that is not usually seen in youtube couples expressing online.
Loving how the intellectual discussion can be so romantic! :)
I'm with Sadie about the acknowledgement of feelings (unexpectedly), then followed by choices whether to act on it or not. Personally, i think this can apply to all perspectives of human emotions, say...when you're pissed by someone being so rude to you, the best thing is to emotionally aware you're pissed...then it's your choice to A) walk away B) punch them in the face! or C) B then A (LOL!!). Eventually, it's your job to deal with all the consequences.
Fortunately, both of you have chosen the perfect choice to be together!
Love the vid. Big thanks to both of you!
That’s such a good point Lilly- that this acknowledgment of feelings applies to any sort of emotion. Sadie has helped me learn this- that while everyone is entitled to their emotions and actions, they must also be willing to accept the consequences of their actions. Anyway- thank you so much for this comment and for watching!
Not to be religious here! But it's sort of the principle of karma (positive/negative actions&results) in Buddhism. Ooh....way too serious though! 😅
You two are so cerebral! I love it! Your thoughtful analysis of how your liking of one another developed into a romantic love is so refreshing especially with so much superficiality to be found on UA-cam. Without a doubt, building and maintaining a long term healthy relationship takes a lot of work but the odds for success are exponentially higher when you both share the same core values. It is clear that your close, loving friendship laid a very good foundation on which to build a deeper relationship. It doesn't mean that you don't or won't drive each other crazy every now and then as, opposites tend to do, but you both sound very self aware and reflective which is what it takes to be able to find that middle ground with your partner, when necessary.
Yesss Diane! Your comment is spot-on. Starting our relationship from a strong friendship had such a big impact on how we communicated, and allowed us to open up really quickly. Thank you for your comment, and for listening to our story!
I love how you both are still finding out stuff about each other and how open you both are
Thank you Sonia!!
Wow! All these conversations and thoughts you're having are so refreshing. It's like these topics have always been around us but don't get to be discussed and just left up in the air. Your conversations are very insightful and a breath of fresh air. Thank you for sharing this with us.
Tin Tin we're so glad you've been enjoying them:) Sending love and good vibes to you!
"Fun and new and fun and fun and new..." Accurate description on being in a relationship with a woman for the first time!! 🤣🤣😂
😂😂 I was clearly rendered speechless by the memory!!
"Do you wanna fall in love with me?"
Ok, that's gutsy, fun and super cute...
You’re so right- it was brilliant!
"Too late" -- what a GREAT movie line.
Those questions are intense...😳😲 It would take someone i felt incredibly comfortable with to open up like that....😅
I want a girl who looks at me the way Hannah looks at Sadie!!! 😍
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Don’t we all.
“Do you wanna fall in love with me?” VERY SMOOTH!
THANK YOU! I thought so 😉
Like always, I'm grinning from ear to ear. The timing of when you upload means for us southern-hem folk a brilliant start to the day. Thanks for sharing.
🥰🥰 We hope you have a great day Nick!
"Do you want to fall in love with me?"
"Too late!"🤣
❤Love this series.....
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Another beautiful conversation ❤️ . And here's me, who had never commented on a UA-cam video till yours a few weeks back, commenting again and again! 😂 But I feel it is important to tell people when they are appreciated and I truly appreciate your videos. Thank you for being so honest and willing to share such insightful and meaningful conversations. If only the world was as compassionate and self-reflective! I agree with a lot of what you girls said, I think one of the reasons I am so drawn to your channel is because I see a lot of myself in you, and a lot of my relationship in yours (not so much how we got together lol me and my girlfriend also met 10 years ago but we've been together since the day we met! Love at first sight some would call it, if such a thing even exists! 😉) but in the way you communicate so openly and empathically with one another. I too, like Hannah, cry at everything (it's a gift people tell me haha!) and was wondering if you had heard of the term "highly-sensitive person"? There is very interesting research around it and it resonated a lot with me when I read about it. As with everything, it is a spectrum and different people will fall on different points of the scale but worth a peek if it interests you! Anyway, this will be an essay soon, I shall shut up! ps: my cheeks also hurt from smiling from ear to ear throughout this whole video! ❤️❤️❤️
Wow thank you Marta!! I have definitely heard about being highly sensitive, but haven’t done much reading about it. With a label like that, it sounds like a super-power:) Anyway, thank you for the comment and for watching! Sending love❤️
Love your perspective, Marta! It really resonates with me since I too can relate to how these two young women think. Thanks for sharing!
Diane Constantin thank you so much, Diane! That’s very sweet of you to comment. I’m glad we can support Hannah and Sadie and be a part of the awesome online community they’re building! ❤️🥰🌈
Golden girl-
I agree, I usually don’t comment on you tube videos either, but you too ladies are adorable, and enchanting in the ways that you are able to share your most intimate experiences with the world! You too are awesome and I’m so happy that you have found Happiness and away to monetize 😍
So validating to know I'm not the only one who looks at love in such an analytical way. And that it doesn't make things not romantic! You two are so sweet. #goals
THIS!!! Just perfection. Sharing your story through these very personal and intimate moments and feelings is the content that other same sex couples need to see. Whether young or old, anybody can identify with, relate to, and grow from your experience and through that openness, can evolve and become stronger. Thank you once again for sharing.
Thank you so much Kimberly, and thank you for watching!
Hi Sadie an Hannah. I am a mom. An straight. I like you both to know how blessed you both are to have each other an to work threw different things in life. Keep working on it an always talk threw it. I pray you both have a wonderful life together an my all ur dreams come true. Enjoy ur openness an being real. Blessings
I'm so happy for you guys that you have found your person. I'm a lot older than you guys and have just come to terms with the feelings I have had since I was very young. Now I feel that I'm too old to find my someone. It's entirely my fault though. I have always been too afraid to choose myself before my families expectations. take care and keep choosing your truth.
Awwwwwwwww what an adorable love story "too late" my heart melted. Love the end scenes too you guys are so cute and funny! Adorbs! ❤️😂😘🌈
Aww thank you so much!! 🌈😍🥰
Of course you all had the cutest first “I love you” moment! I love that’s it was a very quick response of “too late!” Thank you for linking the article!! I was just about to go looking for it!
Aww thank you Taylor! And yesss best questions ever😊
I think, when Sadie says, "she didn't have a choice..." that feels to me to be part of the "falling" aspect. Like literally falling, once it starts you don't have s choice. How you react, the decisions you make are part of it. Try and catch yourself, allow yourself to fall and roll out of it, or flip around like a cat and land on your feet, give the.. I meant to do that look.
And unlike Pam, neither of you 2 would stay with a Roy, with or without a Jim in your life. So yeah, both of you are Jim.
Yes- that's definitely what we meant in talking about Sadie at the beginning! I love the flip around like a cat analogy😂
And as for Pam and Roy- I feel really thankful to be at a point in my life where I can recognize an unhealthy relationship. I think it takes a lot of reflection and growth to get there! So thank you😊
Perfect! I love seeing you talk and rambling around feelings and stories! It's super sweet and honest. Thank you. I actually needed this in a way to kind of find hope in "falling", being and just love in general. You're story and your perspective on things even if it's not 100% equal to mine, I just like how you process, work on it and dive into it. It's not actually about the answer or result itself, but also more about the emotion/story within the answer. So once again, thank you for sharing and also for that link 🤪 I've been thinking on using it for a while and you just randomly gave it to me 🙏 just gotta find with whom to use it with 😂
Also ps: there's no need for any make out sessions on video for us to feel the love that flows between you two, it's actually more beautiful to sense it even without the huge physical "prove", just goes to show how it comes from within and shines out of you ❣️
Totally agree- it's as much about the emotion as it is the actual story! Thank you so much for watching and commenting!
¡Me encanta cómo contais vuestra historia de amor y que hayais compartido vuestra experiencia públicamente! Escucharos es enriquecedor. Gracias.
Love is so different from person to person. It can be scary to some, calming to others, sparkly to some, and just exists to others🤷🏻♀️
You both talked about it from so many different angles, and I enjoyed listening to your ideas about it all.
Thanks for the video!
Also, I enjoyed you guys just having this convo with no “prep” so to speak🦥✨
Wow thank you!! 😍
Loving these conversations! They are thought provoking, honest and so insightful. My wife and I are going on 21 years and 4 kids later. We are opposites who also had to find a balance early on learning how we reacted to situations in such differeny ways. We learned to understand and embrace that. Still going strong and going to look up the NY times questions to keep falling in love.
Yessss 21 years is amazing!! We added the NTY questions in the description in case you need the link:)
I love you guys - the conversation and the depth of your discussions is fantastic. I’m a family and relationships attorney and mediator in Australia and I love what you do.
Woah that's high praise then! Thank you so much!
I love y'all's videos! You're so honest and I wish I had had something loke this when I was figuring out my sexuality. Also, Hannah the way you look at Sadie is adorable!!!! It reminds me of how I look at my girlfriend.
Aww thank you Kate! We send love to you and your girlfriend
Thought-provoking, sincere, sensitive, intelligent and entertaining: a delight. Thank you.
Wow- thank you so much!
I remember when I first said 'I love you' to my girlfriend. It was such an overwhelming feeling that I was barely can breathe :) That was over 10 years ago. When I watch your video I remember all my feelings again and I m so happy :)
Awww we can totally relate! Cheers to you and your girlfriend❤️❤️ and thank you for watching!
This is definitely the best video ever. You spread such a great, motivating, calming and loving mood. Ly
Noa that warms our hearts! Thank you!! 💕💕
Insightful, thought provoking and moving... I’m a crier like Hannah! I’ve downloaded those questions too- can’t wait to use them. Thanks for that :)
Thank you Rachel! Yess the questions are so good.
What a wonderful couple and story. Some times you have to drive down a bumpy road to see the views. You found each other and have the relationship you were always meant too. Wishing you love and happiness.
Thank you for your well wishes and for watching!!
Such a great discussion. Thank you. “It’s almost like right before you pass out!”😂
Its the little things that matter and the realization that this is it. ❤️
I m a huge Sadie fan..!! The way she bursted laughing after Hannah said they are perfect now.. 🤣😎
Hello ladies, loved your video again, I click on your videos as soon as I get notification. You both bring a calmness into my life at least for the 30 minutes length of your conversations, I’ve enjoyed all your videos, I just look forward to a bit of me time to watch them, so please keep up the good work. I find your questions really interesting and thought provoking, so thank you. Sending you both love and big hugs from England.
Sarah!! That is so kind❤️❤️ and we will absolutely try to keep producing videos to that affect! Thank you so much for watching.
Sending love and hugs to you in England!
thank you guys for such integrity . 💕
Loved how little you edited this one. Thank you so much for sharing.
❤❤❤MAG thank you for the support!!!
You two are so cute! Love your honest conversations. It’s great to find happiness!❤️
Finally someone said it falling in love is just an expression used for a long time and may be its right for others but choosing to love a person and put work in relationship is more realistic then just saying falling in and out of love. Well congrats to you ladies both chose to pursue the relationship, accepting love for each other and expressing it. You have one of the realistic and great love stories. Thank you for sharing. Love you and take care ❤️
Yes!! Working at it is definitely more realistic. Thank you for your awesome comment and for watching! Sending all our love!
Knowing my partner through an internet forum as we from being an acquaintance that only chats by replying to each other messages, later to develop as the friend that occasionally chat online and finally falls to each other...not to mention about the obstacles that we were faced back then such as our age gaps, culture difference so forth and last but not least, our long-distance (cross-country) relationship. 5 years of long-distance and for this coming Oct will mark the 4th "being together" anniversary of ours, so yeah I'm for sure to say that, Love truly is by Choice! or at least for me, it is.
bdw you two are just marvelous! with lots of love. ❤️❤️❤️
Wow what an awesome story! 5 years of long distance seems so long- so cheers to you two!! Thank you for commenting and we send our love back💕💕
omg this was such a sweet conversation to watch 🥰
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Aww the love u have for each other is so pure and beautiful on to the next video
Thank you Teara🥰🥰
I need someone to look at me the way Hannah looked at Sadie with tears in her eyes before kissing her! So pure and beautiful!
I'd look at you the same way Hannah looks at Sadie but I doubt I will have tears in my eyes...
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Love is love 🌈 🌈 🌈..I really like ur videos and discussions.. molding and understanding each other make us mature in every relationship we have..
Thank you for watching Izzy!!
Hannah & Sadie spread the love 🌈
I hope to find that some day ✌️❤️🤣
I thought Sadie made a great point with the understanding your partner point..it is paramount in a relationship to be understood..it leads to better communication,feeling truly apart of the relationship and even accepted within the relationship.. this was really great content ladies!!
YES I totally agree. She's brilliant😍 and thank you!
Love this Video💜 I agree with Sadie you cant always control your feelings. It was too cute on how y’all first said I love you.. I always say you can love anybody but you can’t be in love with everybody. To have some to be in love with is a beautiful thing.
Aww thank you for watching! That's a great way to put it - distinguishing between "loving" and being "in love". 💕
Thank you for this video, it's super cute AND very helpful :) Super interesting to hear your (very thoughtful) perspectives on love! Now i have to think about how i view love ^^
It is a such a refreshing series. People should talk more about Love in not the typical film style love, it will save lot a people from misery they face when the expectations are not fulfilled. In marathi it is known as 'अपेक्षा भंगाचे दुःख"
Yess we share that perspective totally! Thank you for watching
Thanks for your videos. I'm here from the beginning and it's getting bettet and better.
Nadine! Yess you've been around from the start! Thanks for sticking around😊😊
Saving those questions on my phone for future use! Watching your videos definitely showcases your love for one another. Happy for you both. 🌈❤️
Yayy Michele! Thank you so much🌈💕💕
Aww the two of you are so cute..... Firstly just want to say "The both of you complete us" - The Hannah & Sadie Love story... But the line "You complete me" is from Jerry McGuire....
Love this vid... The heart is the strongest muscle, and when you fall in love it's hard to ignore, but I agree, you still have to make a choice whether or not you follow your heart... And putting the pieces of your thoughts together with your feelings can be hard, but once you get there it's so rewarding....
Correct me if I'm wrong, but Hannah you come across as the more emotional one (not saying Sadie isn't emotional).... I'm not the most emotional person, and usually walk away from a situation before I do get emotional...
Anyway, thanks for the vid ladies you made a somewhat difficult Wednesday so much better. Dankie dames 💕🌼🇿🇦
Oh and Sadie, hope you as excited as I am about the She Believes cup... Go USWNT... Now I just have to find a site to live stream it and then stay up late enough to watcg.... ⚽🏅🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸
Hannah here- Hussey thank you!! Yesss Jerry McGuire. It's so funny to think of emotion as coming from the heart vs head vs gut! Yes, I am definitely the more emotional/sensitive one. Happy Wednesday- the weekend is near! And ooooo I'll have to text Sadie about the She Believes Cup! We will definitely be tracking down a sports bar that will show the games...
@@HannahSadie you right Hannah... Gut too... Heart, head and gut... And sometimes you have to remove one or two of them to come up with some sort of amswer for yourself.... Choices... Part of life💕... But at the end of it I kinda just hope love conquers all... Have a great Wednesday... Mine is done, time for bed... 🌼😴
@@husseytdh5743 Love does and will conquer all!! Sleep tight Hussey💕💕
Listening to you two feed off of each other with "oh, that reminds me...," or "I want to go back to what you said..." reminds me of a passage from Kerouac's "On the Road". (yes, it is misogynistic, racist, homophobic, and steeped in privilege [it was written over 70 years ago], but it was a book I discovered as I was divorcing at 40 and it left a mark upon me.) In the book there's a story about how Sal (Jack Kerouac) has driven West and met up again with Dean (Neal Cassidy) and the two of them spend a night trying to "say everything." Every sentence or story from one would lead to another sentence or story from the other. Meandering through their lives, experiences, and perceptions. While the characters (and the real people they represented) acknowledge that they are seriously flawed, it was a scene of intense pureness. There was no filter, no judgement, no sense of melancholy or regret; just this is what I experienced and as a human, I want to express to what you, another human, what it was. That is fundamental to being human. Keep the communication going, it will serve you well...
Really enjoy your videos.👍. Your opening discussion reminds me of a song title from actress/musician Heather Peace from the U.K....."Fairytales Have A Lot to Answer For." So true....
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Great story telling - content and presentation/style. Cute-o-meter off the scale!
Aww thank you so much!😘
I think that everybody perceives love differently. At the beginning there must be some kind of attraction and connection to form a basis from which you can work on your love and this is true for most people. Of course it's a choice if you want to act on this first connection. When I connected with my now wife, I knew that there was trouble ahead because she had the wrong religion for my parents and also because she worked for the dental technician who worked for my father, a dentist.
I kept her secret for 6 months before telling my parents, who of course knew her. Their reaction, which shocked me, was: "at least you're not gay". They also tried to convince me to break up with her and told me that they wouldn't attend our wedding (far from being planned). We made a conscious decision to stay together and work on our relationship which was very rocky the first 1.5 years until I broke up with my family for 5 years. We're now dating for over 25 years and are married for over 23 years.
Before connecting with my wife I could have connected with other genders, but was too afraid to do so at the time.
I do, however, acknowledge (because I also saw this happening) that there is love at first sight, although very seldomly.
Thanks for constantly inspiring me with your videos.
I love this episode so much and watch/listen this over and over again. "(romantic)Love" is a complicated concept. Thank you both for sharing this! :D
Thank you so much for your comment and for watching!
Love your videos. I think your intro is awesome. I really don't know how I got to your channel but I'll be coming back.
Aww thank you Ricardo!
This series go far beyond expectations... ❤️❤️❤️
Honestly even if friendship is the foundation and u enter more than
Friends, differences still keep coming out.. As sayings goes when u get married expect the unexpected.. 😂 😂 😂 Think it applies too when you enter into something serious..
But good thing you both get along well with arguments, choices, endure patience to one another..
As Hannah say, you were opposite, but look now, perfect 👌....
Nearly there ladies.. 😂 😂 😂
Nearly there to cancel my Netflix..
Monica! Thank you for being such an awesome supporter! And omg it seems like we had about 6 months of expecting the unexpected😂
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Hannah have you ever considered doing stand up? Your comedic timing is awesome!
😮 Joyce that's the first time anyone has ever said that to me thank you😭 and I honestly think I've picked it up from Sadie😂
Hannah & Sadie you crack me up every video I swear! Lol y’all are awesome.
This is such a powerful conversation.❤
Thank you!! ♥♥
I have been SO curious. What fields do you two work in? Y’all communicate so well and I’m wondering where that let you both professionally. Ty!
You two are so FREAKING CUTE!!🥰🥰 I FOR ONE LOVED THIS VIDEO. Congratulations on finding REAL LOVE ✌️❤️😁
Dottie you're the best😍 THANK YOU!!!
Que vídeo lindo, parabéns! Estou amando a série de vocês ♥️♥️♥️♥️🌈
Greatful to receive the questioner.
You two are adorable. Thank you for keeping it real.
Thank you so much!
Wait did you guys have to get rid of the intro music cause of copyright or something? I'm going back through old videos and all I hear is the awkward sounds of you guys making tea??? bahahahhah
thank you for sharing , i think this cuteness came from you are truly and fully understand each other i loved that about you both
Aw thank you Reham!!
Love this video❤ really opened my eyes 😁 thank u
Thank you for watching Lucy!!
wow another discussion #content👏
I agree w/ both points, I think that attraction and choice should be together. w/ Saddie about attraction that you have no choice w/ " falling" because for me that is intuition w/c you cannot control and w/ Hannah it is a choice for you to pursue that attraction, there's no path, this is exactly same to me there's no limiting belief or like pattern...I always thought I'm "bi" but then there's demisexual and sapiosexual idk😂anyway love you both.💚🇵🇭
Yes- good point that the two (both "falling" and "choosing") can go hand in hand. Cheers to not having to nail down a single identity😂 We send our love!
when I tried to tell stories ppl lose interest after 2 sec and many ppl have it like this
I love this "love episode " you two beautiful humans are cute and adorable. You have something beautiful, I hope you both equally take care of it always💎 🌠💕
Wow thank you so much Maria!!
You two give me hope. You are adorable!
Aww thank you Melissa!!
I love how half of this video is you two trying to end each other's sentences 😂
Love is unlimited, for everyone is different But your Love is truly amazing....!!!!
Thank you so much Evi!!
Priceless 🤣🤣.... ( Now we are perfect ) 🎬
Great book you would likely enjoy is Just Ask by Michele O’Mara. The true beauty is that none of the questions are hetero-normative, they are for any couple.
Adding this to my list! Thank you!
You two are the best!
🥰🥰 Thank you Randy!
Oh my gosh, so wholesome
Ugh we would love if that were the overall takeaway! #wholesomecontent is my favorite♥
Another great video 👍👌
😊😊Thank you Ernie!
#12 - If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability, what would it be? That would be a great video! Wonderful video!
Oooo that's an interesting question! I'll make a note of it.. thank you:)
So question, I tend to have all the "sparkly, butterflies enamored" feelings for people who unfortunately do not feel the same for me. So I'm here (quickly approaching 40) and I'm alone, always falling for people who don't share my feelings. Do you think that some people are meant to be alone?
Hey Sara! That kind of situation can be so hard. I don't think I believe in all our destinies being predetermined. No matter what, we send our love to you!
Hey Sara, I would recommend to check out Alan Robarge's work on UA-cam. He talks about love addiction in a wonderful, healing way... Oh I know, love addiction is a big word. You can call it insecure attachment, or simply being a bit intense in love. All of this is okay and there are many of us feeling this way at all ages because romantic love triggers a lot of very powerful, sometimes self-destructive emotions. I would really recommend checking out resources regarding insecure attachment, maybe even try to find a good therapist to help you through this. It would be a shame to convince yourself that you are predestined to be alone when really, you don't know and life is full of surprises. Also keep in mind that you are 100% deserving of and even built for love. Hugs!
I really love your stories! ☺️🌈🌈🌈🌈
Thank you for watching them!! 🥰🌈🌈
Who made the first move to kiss one another. and how long did it take before you knew you wanted to be together as girtlfriends, not just friends
Get you someone who looks at you the way Hannah looks at Sadie at 26:05. SO SWEET!!! 🥰
😭😭melting over here
you guys should read bell hooks if you havent already!
Asbergian over analysis....categorize, label, compare, re-evaluate, is this my best option. So hard to fall in love.
Yes- we didn't talk much about over analyzing feelings but it's definitely worth discussing. And yes- it's a lot of work! 💕💕
Stereotypes... being in a relationship with another person (straight or gay) it should be an everyday choice. Only then you work for the relationship and living in the present. Stereotypes make you run years ahead to build the "happy ending" that's the family with two kids but you escaping the present while you doing that. That's why most relationships after 15 years and kids saying "I don't recognize you anymore" because they didn't even noticed the small changes
I like the way you talk about stereotypes resulting in people “running ahead.” And you’re right- I think it makes people miss crucial moments they could have recognized as red flags in the earlier stages of a relationship.
@@HannahSadie thanks, I love your channel! You are authentic and no "gay for views" (if you know what I mean). Your videos are funny but you talk about some society issues and I love it. (Btw your story is ideal for movie)
Stay healthy and authentic girls!
Que pareja mas bonita y enamorada, se les nota el 💕
I literally use those questions allll the time lol
Yesssss Sarah they're the best🙌
@@HannahSadie sooo i have an online friend who is also LGBTQ, hut aside from that shes a poet. She has a podcast where she has 20/30min conversations with people about their stories (usually creatives) and then turns their conversation in a poem on a typewriter. This video made me think yall may like it. I just happen to be driving to Denver from OKC tonight to record an episode. Highly reccomend checking it out the episodes already out. Its called Poems for People 😊
Sleeping beauty: she's only waking up because the 100 years have passed exactly at that moment... Lucky for her that she likes the prince who happens to be kissing her... that's how I always read the story, even as a kid ;)
I love your channel
Aw thanks David!
Love u guys
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Yay my girls are back, the best highlight of a cozy rainy day 🙂, i won't get over ever the #CutenessOverload you have. Yoy are meant to be girls , from sec one i saw you thats it. Meant to be !!!! Y Sadie ? "Hazlo. Y Se Estan Miedo Hazlo Con Miedo 😉. Loads of Love
Ahhhhh thank you Evi!! And UGH SUCH NICE WORDS thank you!! 💕💕
@@HannahSadie This moto changed my life completely and made me think about me and what i need and want. And have a wonderful woman in my life :) xoxo
Couldn’t click on this vid fast enough. Such a cute and romantic I love you moment.
Could you share those questions with us? Thx
😊😊Thank you Twee!! And thank you for pointing that out- I should've included that in the description. Here's the link! www.nytimes.com/2015/01/11/style/36-questions-that-lead-to-love.html
YOU COMPLETE ME IS JERRY MCGURE TOM CRUISE MOVIE
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Please make an Instagram so we can follow you! #couplegoals
Alright Emm, we caved! @hannahandsadie10
patiently waiting for your instagram account so that we could follow your daily life 🌈🥰
We did it! @hannahandsadie10
Hannah & Sadie iam glad you did it 😭😭
Have you guys ever been jealous of others chatting up your gf?