I doubt the dumper is scared to ask u back. If anything they are scared of themselves not wanting u still and then they will have to break up with u again and don’t want either of you to have to go through that😒
He told me he didn’t see any reason for us to avoid each other, but that he’s afraid of trying again a relationahip with me right now. I told him I couldn’t do that, I couldn’t keep in touch with him if he’s so sure that he doesn’t want to come back, so I was the one who removed him from social media. I really don’t know if I should be the one who breaks NC because I fear he will find me inconvenient and get overwhelmed if I do, and I also think he might be scared of speaking with me again because I made clear that I want to come back and he can’t deal with that expectation. This is so hard
Thank you! I found this video very valuable. Your insight is helping me to have more clarity as I decern my boyfriend's current behaviors and efforts to show he is genuine in commiting to building s healthy/secure relationship.
Great video, really wish I found these sooner, it’s been almost 10 months since she decided to leave me. You say there’s no time limit on potentially getting your ex back, but what if she’s removed you from socials for a second time and you’re in no contact for a third time?
10 months later... unblocked for 4 or 5 days then blocked again. I remain in no contact proving my worth that I do not beg any woman and will give her space to feel safe. She never spoke but this shows intent to reach out doesn't it. The fear obviously and not being ready had to block me just incase. She must think i will notice and because the lines of communication are open, I I contact her and she doesn't want to hear from me. Oh and she unblocked me 3 hours before our anniversary date (one year since we first met) surely that is of some significance. ❤
I doubt the dumper is scared to ask u back. If anything they are scared of themselves not wanting u still and then they will have to break up with u again and don’t want either of you to have to go through that😒
He told me he didn’t see any reason for us to avoid each other, but that he’s afraid of trying again a relationahip with me right now. I told him I couldn’t do that, I couldn’t keep in touch with him if he’s so sure that he doesn’t want to come back, so I was the one who removed him from social media. I really don’t know if I should be the one who breaks NC because I fear he will find me inconvenient and get overwhelmed if I do, and I also think he might be scared of speaking with me again because I made clear that I want to come back and he can’t deal with that expectation. This is so hard
How long have you been in no contact ?
@@westcedar hi, it´s been about 6 weeks now
Thank you!
I found this video very valuable. Your insight is helping me to have more clarity as I decern my boyfriend's current behaviors and efforts to show he is genuine in commiting to building s healthy/secure relationship.
I'm happy to hear that
Excellent video, thank you!!
Great video, really wish I found these sooner, it’s been almost 10 months since she decided to leave me. You say there’s no time limit on potentially getting your ex back, but what if she’s removed you from socials for a second time and you’re in no contact for a third time?
10 months later... unblocked for 4 or 5 days then blocked again. I remain in no contact proving my worth that I do not beg any woman and will give her space to feel safe. She never spoke but this shows intent to reach out doesn't it. The fear obviously and not being ready had to block me just incase. She must think i will notice and because the lines of communication are open, I I contact her and she doesn't want to hear from me. Oh and she unblocked me 3 hours before our anniversary date (one year since we first met) surely that is of some significance. ❤