Therapist Reacts to Prison Sex by Tool

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  • Therapist analyzes the lyrics of Prison Sex by Tool to discuss the cycle of abuse and how often those who were abused become abusers. Instead of distancing ourselves from such an uncomfortable cycle, the therapist invites us to use the song as a gateway to get comfortable with the uncomfortable so we can bring awareness to our own cycles because it's only through awareness that we get to heal.
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  • @ClanMcDuck
    @ClanMcDuck 29 днів тому +198

    Hey, I made the puppets for this video! Well, it was a whole team, not just me, but it was fun. Adam Jones from the band helped out. He used to be a special effects guy. Worked on Jurassic Park before the band got a record deal. Good times.

    • @carlonbass
      @carlonbass 28 днів тому +8

      Very nice! Love the Alex Grey stuff too. Adam is amazing. Nice job on this!

    • @jeffhelton3364
      @jeffhelton3364 27 днів тому +25

      Did you make sure all the pieces fit?

    • @shanehamilton6773
      @shanehamilton6773 27 днів тому +5

      Hey, I goto a therapist and my therapist says people who make puppets can't be trusted!

    • @Peron1-MC
      @Peron1-MC 26 днів тому +4

      thanks i hate it. jk jk but they are disturbing. XD

    • @Gabriel_Moline
      @Gabriel_Moline 26 днів тому +2

      Right on!🌿🌸

  • @damiondifranco2967
    @damiondifranco2967 29 днів тому +140

    I never knew I needed a therapist to react to Tool songs as much as I apparantly did

    • @edwardmunoz7853
      @edwardmunoz7853 29 днів тому +4

      Well said my friend 👊

    • @scottdolby
      @scottdolby 27 днів тому +3

      Whatever will bewilder me.
      A therapist reacting to Tool (my normal therapist).
      It's when 2+2 = 13

  • @MikeyC19836
    @MikeyC19836 29 днів тому +172

    Listening to Tool has helped me get through some of the worst moments in my life. This band has literally saved my life.

    • @bubbasboyngirl
      @bubbasboyngirl 29 днів тому +11

      Many times brother, many times...

    • @ashmostro
      @ashmostro 29 днів тому +7

      same same, brother Mikey. Much love.

    • @jsc5590
      @jsc5590 29 днів тому +7

      So glad to hear this…stay happy & healthy!

    • @matthewmcmahon1541
      @matthewmcmahon1541 29 днів тому +6

      Same. Stay strong and spiral out!

    • @travisgriffin8216
      @travisgriffin8216 29 днів тому +5

      So many hard times and they are always there.

  • @bubbasboyngirl
    @bubbasboyngirl 29 днів тому +97

    The cycle of abuse portrayed in beautifully, disturbingly, perfection...

  • @jameswatt5557
    @jameswatt5557 29 днів тому +74

    The Grudge. That is the song you should be reacting to.

    • @adampindell
      @adampindell 26 днів тому +2

      One of their best!
      But they have so many, I guess that's not saying much 😅

    • @damiondifranco2967
      @damiondifranco2967 24 дні тому +2

      Yes, and also every other one

  • @DanielRodriguez-eh1qd
    @DanielRodriguez-eh1qd 29 днів тому +42

    I was sexually abused as a child and I’ve never really dealt with it. I had a mental breakdown a week ago and was a very dark day for me again. So I’m finally seeking the help I need to learn more about myself and deal with it, I have an appointment next month with a psychiatrist. Hopefully I can finally overcome and battle my demons.

    • @juanvaldez5422
      @juanvaldez5422 23 дні тому +2

      It doesn’t have to define who you are . It shouldn’t . Right now it probably is more than it ever should but hopefully the help you seek will help with that . Been there. Godbless

    • @marthablessedandsanctified
      @marthablessedandsanctified 22 дні тому +1

      I went through the same thing. My abuse was from 2 until 10 & then the beatings were for a long time after! My step father was the one who did it. And my mom didn't believe me. And she said maybe I wanted it! Wanted it, how the hell would a 2 year old baby girl want some type ish like that! I still can't wrap my mind around that! And the pain that I carried with me made me sick for decades. And the only one who helped me come out on the other side was the Lord Jesus Christ Almighty!! And I pray that he'll help you with your trauma & heal from it!! I love you so much & I'm so grateful that you're here. I'm praying for you. May Abba Father continue to Bless you & Keep you. May he cause his face to shine upon you & be gracious unto you. May he lift up his countenance upon you & give you his Beautiful Peace which surpasses all understanding in Jesus Mighty name I pray, Amen!

    • @nathanshull9119
      @nathanshull9119 22 дні тому +2

      You are incredibly strong! You got this

    • @taramaforhaikido7272
      @taramaforhaikido7272 21 день тому

      I knew someone that was sexually abused by their dad. The dad died on the couch as the daughter held his hand.
      Then she got sexually abused (can we please just use the R word? Bloody censorship) by a stranger in the street. Which is different. That's discarding after at that point.
      It's one thing to use someone. It's another to discard.

    • @xenoxaos1
      @xenoxaos1 5 днів тому

      Definitely consider a therapist as well as a psychiatrist. It can sometimes take a few tries to get the right one.

  • @matthewmcmahon1541
    @matthewmcmahon1541 29 днів тому +13

    Invincible off the newest album. I'm a retired Marine and that song broke me.

  • @wickman33
    @wickman33 29 днів тому +121

    H. and Reflection will restore your faith in Tool

    • @fisheresque
      @fisheresque 29 днів тому +14

      As full and bright as I am, this light is not my own…

    • @PongGod
      @PongGod 28 днів тому +4

      I've recommended Reflection to her several times. It's right up her alley. Great song!

    • @EnlightenedSavage
      @EnlightenedSavage 25 днів тому

      10000 days more so

    • @wickman33
      @wickman33 25 днів тому

      @@EnlightenedSavage the deepest cut..I wasn’t going that far that quickly

    • @phosion
      @phosion 24 дні тому +1

      H. is all-mighty!

  • @aaronwolf3587
    @aaronwolf3587 29 днів тому +54

    It needs to be recognized that Tool pulled this off in the early 90’s when all the gangster rap was being heavily criticized for its content. Yet these artists did this in the same time period without the same level of scrutiny. Pure genius ✌️

    • @edwardmunoz7853
      @edwardmunoz7853 29 днів тому +2

      Nothing but raw talent 💯🔥

    • @bom2
      @bom2 16 днів тому +1

      This video was banned from MTV for being too offensive so your statement isn’t really accurate.

    • @aaronwolf3587
      @aaronwolf3587 15 днів тому +1

      @@bom2 just remember seeing it several times…….on MTV. It’s the very first place I saw it. Maybe stuff happened after that but I’m mostly so happy about you being right.

    • @chriswilcox2115
      @chriswilcox2115 17 годин тому

      ​@@aaronwolf3587I think your last comment totally missed @Bom2. He seems to not have the ability to detect sarcasm. He is right though as the song was quickly banned after it was dropped. MTV wasn't too keen on the title of Stinkfist either as it was labeled as "Track 1." Makes you wonder how things would have went down if "HWAP" was ever released as a single or a video. If they didn't ban it and just forced a name change I mean. Like what would they have come up with? Hopefully something better than Track 7. I think "entrepreneur with a Phalice" would have suited just fine.

  • @corepuncher
    @corepuncher 29 днів тому +30

    Now that you are past the nasty ones, THE GRUDGE...THE GRUDGE...THE GRUDGE !!! Gold!

    • @assortedrubbish1197
      @assortedrubbish1197 27 днів тому +4

      please please please.... took me a long time to appreciate 'the grudge' but now it is one of the the most helpful of Lateralus album...

    • @adampindell
      @adampindell 26 днів тому +2

      ...Transmutate these leaden grudges into gold...
      This might be my favorite TooL song!

  • @alexgrindnshine2522
    @alexgrindnshine2522 29 днів тому +37

    Tool song Bottom off the same album, and Pushit both have powerful messages. Looking forward to your reaction to both of those.

    • @nonopk
      @nonopk 29 днів тому +2

      Pushit

    • @laceydez
      @laceydez 28 днів тому +1

      YES Pushit!

    • @mattpullen6866
      @mattpullen6866 28 днів тому +1

      Both bottom and push it, my favorite top two songs

    • @abecoates7012
      @abecoates7012 22 дні тому

      Also has Henry Rollings doing the spoken word part.(Bottom)

  • @JasonGreen-jt5qt
    @JasonGreen-jt5qt 27 днів тому +14

    This song made me realize I had ptsd from years of abuse at 12 yrs of age. I'm 43 now and thank TooL for giving me the courage to face my fears and carry on.

  • @chriscary9269
    @chriscary9269 29 днів тому +21

    Maynards mother saga is worth a listen as well
    1. Jimmy/The patient - Tool
    2. Judith -A Perfect Circle
    3. Wings/ 10000 days-Tool
    4. Horizons-Puscifer
    Probably just do a little back story research too

    • @assortedrubbish1197
      @assortedrubbish1197 26 днів тому +1

      truly magnificent set, similar mother saga and helps put it all out there.. these have been a blessing

  • @1088933
    @1088933 29 днів тому +28

    The song The Patient by them- absolute mental health/ depression breaker for me every time.

  • @LukeNukem82
    @LukeNukem82 29 днів тому +12

    You are bar none the greatest at doing what you are doing right now. The complete grasp at the message portrayed is honestly refreshing in this sector of youtube. So many reactions not fully grasping the message (tool songs especially) and only looking for likes and subscribes. I applaud you for doing what you do.

  • @tattoodude8946
    @tattoodude8946 29 днів тому +35

    I remember reading that this song was actually used by therapists as a way of dealing with abuse that their patients had experienced.

    • @danduntz2539
      @danduntz2539 26 днів тому +1

      I can tell you it’s not an approved method of treating trauma, but I do agree that music can play a part in healing, but not as the primary treatment, when there exists tried and true methods. Music would be more of an expressive form that the client can associate with or relate to, or have the same or similar experience, which could normalize their experience.

    • @tattoodude8946
      @tattoodude8946 26 днів тому

      @@danduntz2539 l never said it was “approved” (whatever that means in this world today and by whatever government body decides such things) or was the primary method of treatment, I said it was being used by some therapists - that’s all.

  • @joshs8685
    @joshs8685 29 днів тому +17

    "Cycles that we are unaware of are often repeated." So well said. Your reactions are fantastic. Ty 🎉

  • @Dexiray
    @Dexiray 29 днів тому +14

    8:57 😭
    "i know it's a responsibility you don't wanna bear" 😭

  • @albertosillywhips7281
    @albertosillywhips7281 26 днів тому +3

    I found a vid of Maynard talking briefly about this song, and I think that your interpretation is 100 percent spot on.
    I remember him saying that people shouldn't turn away from dark, ugly things in life and that we should try to understand them.

  • @JimboSlice7797
    @JimboSlice7797 29 днів тому +21

    Tool are great at making a sad reality a mind opening experience. You’re very good at breaking down their music and explaining the message. Too many people today have a small minded view when it comes to music and the deeper message.

  • @saga1ism
    @saga1ism 29 днів тому +45

    [[[[[Tool - Jimmy]]]]
    For when you wanna talk about helping our childhood self.

    • @kl8455
      @kl8455 29 днів тому +3

      song made me a fan of the band. never hear it on the radio which is a true shame.

    • @johnnyb6067
      @johnnyb6067 29 днів тому

      @@kl8455I heard it on the radio once. Definitely edited but it was still pretty great.

    • @saga1ism
      @saga1ism 29 днів тому +1

      @@kl8455 Yeah def needs more air time

    • @DUKE_of_RAMBLE
      @DUKE_of_RAMBLE 29 днів тому +8

      I can only support this suggestion of her making a video on it, if _Intermission_ is allowed to properly segue into _Jimmy_ as it does on the album; no pause. 😊
      Seriously, that is my *favorite* lead-in of all time!! 🥹

    • @saga1ism
      @saga1ism 29 днів тому +5

      @@DUKE_of_RAMBLE Oh absolutely they MUST be played the way it was intended on the album.

  • @PortaPooper
    @PortaPooper 29 днів тому +6

    I found TOOL back in the mid 90s as an early teen. Easily my favorite band of all time. I can't even begin to put into words how this band has helped me on an emotional level. You can listen to the words and realize you aren't alone in suffering, and at the same time, lose yourself in the sound. The entire Lateralus album, from beginning to end has pulled me out of a lot of dark places. The Albums from beginning to current are almost caterpillar of self loathing and hate transforming into a winged beast of loving yourself and feeling awake and alive. I love this band so much.

  • @gstevenson7781
    @gstevenson7781 29 днів тому +32

    This is genuinely turning into one of my favourite channels due to the content and your reactions.
    I’d like to recommend “Poet and the Pendulum” live at Wembley by Nightwish. It is not the normal song people start with when it comes to Nightwish, however it is the song that suits this channel the most as it deals with depression and struggle. It was written by Nightwish’s song writer the keyboardist Tuomas during the hardest time in the bands history and he basically ended his life in the song to stop himself doing it in real life, however the new song finishes positively with a new beginning. It is one of the best written pieces of music you will come across and is broken into Acts. I won’t say more about it.
    Nightwish hold the record for most reacted song in UA-cam history with “Ghost Love Score” (normally what people start their Nightwish journey with. However, as previously mentioned, “Poet” suits this channel perfectly, especially if the research is done on the songs meaning beforehand.

    • @brettwillard8892
      @brettwillard8892 27 днів тому +1

      Poet is my favorite song, though I am suicidal everyday. So I listen to it on repeat all the time to help me cope.

    • @gstevenson7781
      @gstevenson7781 27 днів тому +1

      @@brettwillard8892 I’m sorry to hear about your struggles. I’ve been there and just keep moving forward one day and one step at a time.

  • @mennaris
    @mennaris 28 днів тому +12

    My parents were physically, emotionally, and mentally abusive. I've long found solace in rock and metal, more so than people. I still, to this day, struggle with depression and trusting others.

    • @metasolo1222
      @metasolo1222 27 днів тому

      I can relate. They hate me and turned my siblings against me.

    • @HeartSupport
      @HeartSupport  27 днів тому +2

      From AliceBlue: @mennaris I hate that you experienced so much hurt and abuse from your parents. I’m deeply sorry for the pain it must have caused and may still cause you.
      Our parents are such a huge instrument in our lives for the better and unfortunately for the worse. Having to survive through abuse is something nobody should ever have to experience.
      It’s often a repeated cycle passed on from before, but it doesn’t make it okay and it sure is something horrible and difficult to have to be the one to break the cycle that was so unfairly passed onto you.
      I love that music is such a connection and bridge to so many. There’s something less isolating hearing a song that reflects your soul and life experience and then seeing other people come out and say the same thing. There’s some solidarity in the midst of the hurt and pain. There’s a beauty in people coming together to say “this hurts and it ends with me”.

    • @HeartSupport
      @HeartSupport  13 днів тому

      From Micro: @mennaris It's hard to learn to trust others when the very first people in this world who should have protected you happened to hurt you in such brutal ways. It makes sense to feel the way you do and to still struggle with this, even years later and even after working on how these traumas have been affecting you, your life, your heart.
      There is something profoundly scary in trusting someone, something uncertain and risky at the same time. It can be a door that leads to beautiful, and even healing, connections with others. There are good people out there that are worth it. But it's also possible to be hurt again, and once you already carry this wound with you, it becomes so difficult and so challenging to overcome this inner barrier. Somehow, it has very legitimate reasons to exist: to protect you, to keep you safe, to ensure that nothing bad would happen again and no one would hurt you. When you're not trusting someone, when you're letting them in, at least you have control over the outcomes - you know what to expect an you won't get caught up by surprise because of someone else's poor choices and behaviors. It makes sense to feel the way you do, really.
      Although I personally relate to what you've described and understand firsthand how safe this position can feel, I also feel for you with this and for how isolating/lonely it can be sometimes. t almost feels like you are forbidden from having access to love and joy that so many others seem to get so easily, and that freaking hurts. I hope that, in your own world and in the places that feel safe to you, you'll manage to cultivate *some* sense of connection with others too, at your very own pace. Connections developped on your own terms, that woul be made of nothing but respect, authenticity and true care for who you are, for YOU.
      You deserve to feel at peace without having to retreat yourself outside of this world. From the bottom of my heart, thank you for inviting us here to see and know a little bit of this world of yours. It is a special gift.

  • @tattedandgatted
    @tattedandgatted 26 днів тому +3

    I liked Tool until I saw them live in 1997 at Lolapalooza in St. Louis. Seeing them live gives you new appreciation for them and the sou ds they produce. Not many bands are better live than in the studio.

  • @H46_2
    @H46_2 29 днів тому +7

    They sing about life, the good and bad. Thanks for tackling this song and subject matter that most will not. A lot get grossed out and miss out on the great music of this song.

  • @Humanipathic
    @Humanipathic 29 днів тому +6

    Clean version of song. It took “shit blood and cum on my hands “ where it wasn’t a double entendre
    A OTRM live version has a bridge and more lyrics
    “show me something 4x
    thought I could make it end
    thought I could wash the stains away
    thought I could break the circle
    if slip right into your skin
    so sweet was your surrender
    we have become one
    I have become a my terror
    and you my precious lamb and martyr”

  • @davidward9737
    @davidward9737 29 днів тому +11

    Taylor you are brilliant! Thank you for your take on songs. Not only do you bring a strong presence and a joy to watch on some really tough topics, your positivity and message at the end is wholesome and meaningful. Thanks for the love you ❤ at the end too. Some people need to hear that.

  • @XathexX
    @XathexX 29 днів тому +12

    Tool has grown with time and their albums change with their personal views. The Lateralus album I think may have the most positive outlook.

  • @liquididentity101
    @liquididentity101 20 днів тому +1

    This is a heavy song and I applaud this channel for not shying away from putting this reaction out there. Some things in life are absolutely disgusting, and thankfully there are people and places like this where support can be found to get us all through it.

  • @warspyder7406
    @warspyder7406 29 днів тому +11

    The Grudge next please! Honestly, for yourself, do their discography. For the purpose of this channel, The Grudge.

  • @johnlynnbeck
    @johnlynnbeck 29 днів тому +4

    When I first listened to this album way back in high school, it fundamentally changed how I thought about music -- what one can do with it, what parts of the human condition are "in bounds" to talk about. Music is an expressive art that can be a teaching tool, a therpeutic instrument, a thought experiment, a way to shine a light in dark corners. Maynard and Tool are just... they are a singular talent in terms of artistry and expressive courage. And listening to this song alongside your insight as a therapist, it brings a sudden realness to it. It's almost like hearing the song again for the first time. Love it!

  • @seminole17910
    @seminole17910 29 днів тому +2

    "Pushit" is like Part 2 of this song. My favorite song of all-time. Not just TOOL song. The subject matter is dark but it's so powerful, poignant and a complete adrenaline rush all at once. It's like going on an emotional rollercoaster.

  • @portraitart_rb
    @portraitart_rb 5 днів тому

    I would definitely pay to go to a therapist and just sit there rock out listening to tool together and analyzing everything.

  • @zlcrow
    @zlcrow 29 днів тому +8

    Try "the patient" is one of their most beautiful songs

  • @GrimrDirge
    @GrimrDirge 29 днів тому +2

    Metal has long served as a canvas for exploring forbidden feelings.

  • @danielburr982
    @danielburr982 29 днів тому +5

    please listen to and analyze jimmy or the patient next!!! so many great tool songs to go through.
    keep going with them!

  • @Flesh4Toast
    @Flesh4Toast 17 днів тому

    One of my favorite songs of theirs. Incredible. Nothing compares. Nothing

  • @neilolson7851
    @neilolson7851 День тому

    DAM GIRL YOU HAVE FORCED ME TO SUBSCRIBE. THE WAY YOU EXPLAINE THE SONGS MEANING IS ON POINT AND MAKE THE SONG SOOOOOO MUCH BETTER THANK YOU SO MUCH AND PLEASE KEEP THEM COMING ❤️

  • @DJMAERZ
    @DJMAERZ 29 днів тому +1

    Glad you made it through the whole thing. All the elements of the song, when broken down would be quite prolific on their own. When reassembled it's a new level of masterpiece that only TOOL is capable of achieving.

  • @_THE_ASYLUM_
    @_THE_ASYLUM_ 29 днів тому +4

    Between NIN TOOL and Nine Inch Nails, they have have almost single handedly seen me through every bad, sad, horrifying, happy (of which there were few), confusing and even just the days when i was doubled over in pain.
    Trent Reznor and Maynard J Kennan are two of the most talented musicians spanning the stretch of they have, which is pretty damn considerable. Cant wait for your first NIN reaction, try "something i can never have" he did a rendition of it where its just him on piano and a gitar joining. Pure eargasm.

    • @B0bCat11
      @B0bCat11 29 днів тому

      In that case...Potions - Puscifer is a colab between Trent & Maynard. And it fully kicks ass

  • @chriscary9269
    @chriscary9269 29 днів тому +5

    Just remember Maynard is in 3 active bands at 60 still rocking it.
    Give his other work a sample
    A Perfect Circle - Disillusioned
    Puscifer- Arsonist, The Remedy, Mama Sed
    Totally badassery music made by adults for adults.

    • @Matt-en1kn
      @Matt-en1kn 29 днів тому

      Maynard is a straight up lyrical genius

    • @PearsAreOkay
      @PearsAreOkay 28 днів тому

      60? Fuuuuu

    • @brettwillard8892
      @brettwillard8892 27 днів тому

      I hear Green Jelly is making a comeback as well

  • @katodee4593
    @katodee4593 29 днів тому +1

    The entire Lateralus album helped me through some of my darkest times in my life. It’s my healing album since it speaks to all the different feelings I have experienced.

  • @compujohn96
    @compujohn96 29 днів тому +4

    I'm crying right now with ugly face. I KNOW Tool. I have explored every track and know every bit of their music...BUT I SO NEEDED you to say that that responsibility to break the cycle is not fair. I live with the abuse that I endured EVERYDAY and now I'm a single father with a 10 yo son. I decided long ago that he would not live through the cycle that I have seen in my family for generations. I don't talk to them at all we have built or own family....but that FEAR is always there.... and that is the song H. and I think it would be great to see you react to it and to hear your understanding.
    THANK YOU for your openness and courage to discuss these topics.
    I also NEED NEED NEED you to listen to Pink Floyd - On the turning away. It is what Heart Support is all about.... and I thank you for NOT joining in the turning away.

    • @HeartSupport
      @HeartSupport  29 днів тому +1

      From Micro: @compujohn96 The injustice of having to be a cycle breaker is too often unseen and unspoken, thank you for bringing light to this topic as well and sharing about your own journey. It's good to hear how this part of the video especially brings light on this topic, resonates with you and offers validation. Breaking the cycle of generational trauma is a kind of experience that shouldn't even *have* to be, and definitely feels like self-sacrifice sometimes. Although you know that a decision would be *right* and healthy, it doesn't make it easier or less painful to deal with. It forces you to grieve so many things at once, and the idea of how life *should* have been prior to any abuse and trauma. When you are forced to be in this position, it's hard to not delve into the ruminations of wondering WHY it happened to you, and how to make sense out of it without hurting yourself even more.
      Somehow, there is a strength to find in this feeling of injustice - it activates a needed anger that helps the wounded child that you were to stand up for themselves and the people they love. It's an incredibly powerful way to embrace what is *right*, what is *safe*, and what love truly is - at millions and millions of miles away from the abuse you've suffered while growing up. It was sold to you as love or care because that's what your parents also learned - but you have refused to stop looking at this narrative like some truth to be preserved. No, you've stepped away from it, saw it for what it is, named it accurately, and are doing the work of an entire family just in one life. That is a huge responsibility, and it's understandable that it feels profoundly unfair at the same time.
      For what it's worth, I'm on the same path as you regarding generational abuse/traumas and going no contact with my parents. It's been an insane amount of ugly tears and feeling like my soul gets ripped apart - which I have no doubt you're familiar with. As you said so well, the sense of fear that feels like it's sticking to you, at your core, is an awful reminder of all the pain you've been through and the burdens you've been left carrying as an adult. Sometimes it is healing to scream out the anger and injustice, but other times this very sense of unfairness feels like a cage that our soul could be stuck in for the rest of our lives. It's hard to figure out how to move outside of it, to re-build a complete identity and purpose that isn't the result nor the consequence of the abuse, without ever forgeting where we come from, without ever losing sight of who we DON'T want to be.
      You are without any doubt a wonderful dad who leads by example. Not one made of lies, illusions and false expectations. But one who learns to embrace their own vulnerability, who shows strength through authenticity, and who encompasses through who they are what unconditional love truly means. Your younger self would look up to you and be proud of you. I hope that, somehow, he can find comfort in the way you have been learning to re-parent yourself while being an amazing dad to your little boy. :heart:
      -Micro

    • @compujohn96
      @compujohn96 29 днів тому

      @@HeartSupport Thank you for your response and sadly, your understanding...but more importantly your own strength.. I know that I'm not alone in this trauma and I send you hugs and strength to continue your own battle. I came to terms with my abuse a long time ago...BUT I'm lucky and so many are not. What y'all are doing helps us all. Discussing these topics with a pure intention takes some of the sting away and opens doors for others to tell their story.

  • @martincastrogiovanni812
    @martincastrogiovanni812 19 днів тому

    I have just found your channel and I love it. I have been a Tool fan for decades and I always get caught up in the music with its various time signature and tones and percussivness. To my demise, I have never paid much attention to the lyrics. You have made everything old fresh again. I will be a fan of your channel. Thank you

  • @OverlordC
    @OverlordC 29 днів тому +10

    That's what Tool does best.. Provoking thought. Maynard should teach critical thinking at Uni.

  • @gbogey2661
    @gbogey2661 29 днів тому +2

    Wow.... you are amazing..... this might be the best reaction to any song on you tube.

  • @OoPHaze
    @OoPHaze 29 днів тому +1

    These reactions have been incredibly therapeutic, I'm learning why as a teen I identified so much with these songs. Now, as a new father, these lessons and messages carry a whole new meaning to me. Stinkfist, prison sex, and pushit are my top 3 tool songs, please listen to pushit.

  • @jeremywanner4526
    @jeremywanner4526 22 дні тому

    Was never a big Tool fan but your lyrical analysis has given me a new found appreciation for the band.Sometimes it only takes one moment to make it all click.Thanks.

  • @richpeltier9519
    @richpeltier9519 29 днів тому +2

    For me and my long history with TOOL, this song cuts right to heart of the subject matter. Maynard didn't bury or obscure the topic.
    Even the radio edit was panned by the radio.
    Was a rough bit when I was singing this at karaoke and during the musical break, remembered the lyrical bomb i was about the audience. I detest the radio edit, but understand that in certain environments it is a sad reality.
    I'm glad that you had a chance to use this song and it's message to help others learn and heal. In 50+ years on this planet, searching for magic, the closest thing I've found is music. TOOL is one of the finest practitioners of this magical form of communication and therapy.
    TOOL is Pink Floyd for the new millennium.
    🤘🧙‍♂🤘

  • @michaelhardie9193
    @michaelhardie9193 29 днів тому +1

    I love Tool, and I knew this song would come up eventually. I applaud you for listening to it, hearing the message, and showing the compassion you did at the end. Thank You

  • @user-lv6bs6yk6n
    @user-lv6bs6yk6n 3 дні тому

    This song is so honest. Im breathing so i guess im still alive. Its so sad and it hurts. I have had so many friends who had no idea what was happening and had no Idea how wrong it was intell we were old enough to realize it was so wrong. I appreciate his honesty. Maynard will never know how much he made us feel not alone.

  • @nonopk
    @nonopk 29 днів тому +1

    Terrifying, brilliant and soul crushing.

  • @deancarmichael6293
    @deancarmichael6293 28 днів тому +1

    Thank you, for doing what you do, the way you do it.

  • @user-yp8mv3rl4p
    @user-yp8mv3rl4p 29 днів тому +1

    I barely ever make comments, just gotta say love your break downs on these Tool reactions, keep em coming.. Keep Going 🌀

  • @jeremylong7533
    @jeremylong7533 29 днів тому +1

    Just a suggestion to the editor. It might be pretty cool to scroll the song lyrics under the music video on the screen while it's playing so viewers who aren't familiar with the lyrics can also read a long and understand more. Love these videos and it's just a friendly suggestion. Keep up the great work 👍

  • @cytotoxic14
    @cytotoxic14 29 днів тому +4

    Haha I love how your reaction is always the teeth showing and scared when it comes to tool…. Try wings part 1 and 2😂😂

  • @xtop23
    @xtop23 25 днів тому

    That song is beautiful and brutal. Honestly it’s one of my favorites from TOOL. It’s revealing … aggressive….redemptive ….apologetic…..tragically sad…..man.

  • @charlesmorgan6597
    @charlesmorgan6597 27 днів тому

    Thank you for what you do. I’ve gone through some crap and know friends that have and it sucks. We’ve come to be good people that really despise crap

  • @TheKononos
    @TheKononos 27 днів тому

    Every aspect of Tool is incredible, from the layers of the music to the undeniably complex lyrics.

  • @chrisbergmanniii59
    @chrisbergmanniii59 18 днів тому

    Assuming the lyrics were blocked for UA-cam but you saw them in their entirety. Brutal.

  • @josephberg1586
    @josephberg1586 29 днів тому +1

    I got to see them twice in less than a year, 23 and 24. I’ve seen TOOL with my brother 3 times. 10 shows between the 2 of Us. Never disappointed My friends or Us once Live.

  • @djwphx
    @djwphx 26 днів тому

    Ive heard this song at least 1000x and still got goose bumps in the first 30 seconds of the video.

  • @DRSmith8808
    @DRSmith8808 29 днів тому +2

    Inspiring words but some people are just not ready to see the matrix. That deep of focus on the most painful memories of your life could easily trigger someone and we don’t want that either. It’s a very fine line.
    “Art saves lives.” - Maynard James Keenan

  • @sercumvent
    @sercumvent 26 днів тому

    You reactions with this video puts a whole new shine on this. The video was artsie and cool but when you know thw subject matter with your anaylis really hits home! Thx and no thx LOL.

  • @ThisissoStupid1234
    @ThisissoStupid1234 25 днів тому

    2:20 -- This exactly
    1st time hearing it . . . This song Rocks!
    < reads lyrics>
    oh. oh no. oh god.

  • @jaredmort54
    @jaredmort54 18 днів тому

    Great analysis! I truly value your therapeutic knowledge.

  • @GOLDENCORE78
    @GOLDENCORE78 28 днів тому +1

    i had been virgin since 35 years old. i never understand why until I go to the therapist, and with her help I free a some memory the the neurosis delete in the depth of myself. so I start a real deep struggle with myself for about 1 year and half. and after struggle I start my first relation. that now is my wife. I win using therapy and the positive power of the bhuddist chanting. so I win, I win so many times against myself, but it seems I got to win every day in my entire life.

  • @dregnar85
    @dregnar85 13 днів тому

    This song kept me from doing hard crimes as a teen, the fear of going to jail was real.

  • @alteraciondeltiempo
    @alteraciondeltiempo 14 днів тому +1

    it's not only about sexual abuse. It is a methaphor about how society forces us and conditions usus

  • @tray5377
    @tray5377 27 днів тому +1

    Maynard has always been and always will be an absolute, without a single doubt, lyrical genius.

  • @halfdeafmusic
    @halfdeafmusic 13 днів тому

    This analysis is brilliant. I love this.

  • @ezralane5496
    @ezralane5496 День тому

    I like how you adress the reptition from abusee to abuser it is classic. As somone that was abused sexually i understand "do unto others what has been done to me" because i was compelled at a young age to continue the cycle hence said sentence. As i grew older i understood my abuse and what happened. Nowadays i couldnt stand the concept of said abuse. Happeneing to anyone. The song is so perfect iN Conveying what a victim feels even at their lowest

  • @stevewillis8710
    @stevewillis8710 28 днів тому

    I appreciate your analysis of Tool's music from a therapist's viewpoint. Different music connects with different people in ways that are hard to put into words, but Maynard's lyrics are very interesting because he reacts to the recorded songs and reacts to them without the preconceived notions that one has when they both compose and write. Anyway, I think you would like The Grudge for it's musical and lyrical excellence. In fact, the entire Lateralus album is a masterwork. Thanks for posting!

  • @allensizemore1481
    @allensizemore1481 9 днів тому

    I've been a Tool fan for a very long time and picked up bits and pieces of this song over the years but needed this reaction to have a better understanding of it. When I was 6 years old (insert the worst thing that comes to mind that a dude can do to a little boy) happened to me. I have had anger and rage issues most of my life and I'm now 45 years old. I have just recently learned to let go a little bit and just let shit be what it is but if there is ever a situation where I need to unload the evil I have buried down deep it is there cocked and loaded, ready to go.

  • @TheJesterretseJ
    @TheJesterretseJ 29 днів тому

    One of my fav. reaction channel! Keep ehm coming mam

  • @wallchris75
    @wallchris75 29 днів тому

    H. Is kind of a follow up to this song and deal more with breaking the cycle of abuse. Not to mention its a beautiful song. Highly reccomend.

  • @KWC33
    @KWC33 27 днів тому +1

    You ever notice that we need professionals to react tool ! just proves that it’s not just musically brilliant but psychologically as well! Some people just don’t understand that. Oh well, their loss.

  • @Maltozombie
    @Maltozombie 19 днів тому

    Using the term “Dead Inside” is some intense foreshadowing for this record and you don’t even know it yet 🤜🤛

  • @dustytool
    @dustytool 29 днів тому

    Thank you for being so real in the end of this. I have spent so many years worried that I would become what I hated most. I will not become a statistic. I will not let evil win. Through much therapy and tears I’ve made it this far. ❤

  • @michaelposteraro3811
    @michaelposteraro3811 27 днів тому

    There is a live version they used to do in the 90s, with an added verse, during the breakdown (bridge) the lyrics are "Thought I could make it end, thought I could wash the stains away if I slipped out into your skin...so sweet was your surrender, we have become one....I have become my terror, and you, my precious lamb and martyr" Right about 6:05 or so in your video.

  • @charleshewell7089
    @charleshewell7089 25 днів тому

    My goodness, you are so booksmart! I love therapist who have actually experienced the things they speak to...

  • @gregnovotny5230
    @gregnovotny5230 23 дні тому

    Be happy you heard the edited version of the song...

  • @baki2332
    @baki2332 29 днів тому +3

    Listen to the wings of Mary. Part 1 & 2. Maynard isn’t even religious and he wrote his mother the most beautiful religious song. lol. The man is truly magnificent.

    • @matthewmcmahon1541
      @matthewmcmahon1541 29 днів тому

      She isn't at that part of her Tool journey yet. She needs to get through Jimmy, Judith, and then she can get to them. All with good time.

  • @robertcombs9728
    @robertcombs9728 24 дні тому

    this video is worth it just for the facial expressions, bravo

  • @scottriddell7893
    @scottriddell7893 23 дні тому

    The hardest prison to escape is the prison of your mind, the prison of hope.

  • @tomauclair5560
    @tomauclair5560 28 днів тому

    "Invitation to awareness" -- beautiful thought. Thanks again for taking the time to dig deep into Tool.

  • @edwardrinehart1967
    @edwardrinehart1967 19 днів тому

    When I saw Tool on this tour Maynard prefaced this song as a Love Song. I’m sure it was in sarcasm. Powerful learning experience.

  • @westbank5436
    @westbank5436 29 днів тому

    The Patient, The Grudge, Jambi, Bottom, ticks and leeches, Pneuma all great Tool songs .

  • @tray5377
    @tray5377 27 днів тому

    Another lyrical genius to get familiar with in my humble opinion is from the band Sleep Token...incredible.

  • @mpotter9944
    @mpotter9944 25 днів тому

    Brilliant tune, great reaction.

  • @TonyBudenz
    @TonyBudenz 29 днів тому

    Thank you for taking on the tough songs and taking time to give great advice to break cycles. Very cool to use the song as a tool (no pun intended) as a catalyst for change.

  • @williammann376
    @williammann376 29 днів тому

    I think you're doing a great thing with your channel. Exposing people to music that might help them heal is a noble thing to do. Tool helped me thru many dark times in my life too, so i appreciate what you do.
    Ive got a request. Graves by Caligula's Horse. The song is about the lyricist becoming a father. He pours his excitement, fears, hopes, anger, and love into a single song. Its worth listening to. Very relatable.

  • @geeblanco
    @geeblanco 24 дні тому

    I took the only course of action i felt possible to avoid the screaming terror in my mind, and that was to reach the age of 50 without ever having a child of my own which has left me with a void in my life of unlived moments of beauty and pride in the children who might have been, but were too priceless to ever selfishly not break the chain that is documented, and i am not self centred enough to put myself ahead of an innocent child.

  • @zacharysmithingell5460
    @zacharysmithingell5460 26 днів тому

    The song, and especially the video, leaves me in tears every single time.
    The dark alien figure keeping the child puppet in fear, painting the puppet with a dry brush, then the child painting itself the same color as the alien.
    The dark figure holding the child's hand down at the end is so hard to watch.

  • @seminole17910
    @seminole17910 29 днів тому

    Spiral out, keep going, Spiral out, keep going, SPIRAL OUT!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @chrisgibson7645
    @chrisgibson7645 27 днів тому

    Such a hard song to listen to but something that needs to be addressed. 😢

  • @Wreckageintow
    @Wreckageintow 29 днів тому +1

    love your channel, love that you love tool, this band saved me from suicide

  • @kennethriddle433
    @kennethriddle433 29 днів тому +1

    There used to be more lyrics in the bridge that hammer the point home. Makes it even more disturbing....
    Thought I could make it end
    Thought I could wash the stains away
    Thought I could break the circle
    By slipping into your skin
    So sweet was your surrender
    We have become one
    I have become a my terror
    And you my precious martyr and you my precious lamb and martyr

  • @user-ei3bs3wt1g
    @user-ei3bs3wt1g 29 днів тому

    I've been a huge fan from the beginning...
    I'm happy that you can now see the genus TOOL brings!!!!!