I got married at 16... But should YOU?
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What a pile of codswaop
Your son is 15 and is 6'1 already ما شاء الله. He'll be towering over you in no time InshaAllah
I got married at 16...my dad's plan.. Alhamdulillah.. 27 years later.. All is well..
Damn which country was this and are you a guy or girl can't tell
@@theogsa5371 😂😆😂😆😂😂😂
@@d.bcooper2271 bruh the guys still hasn't replied lol 😂
@@theogsa5371 a girl named barry. Sheeesh
@@unknownbear9811unlikely a Muslim Would be called Barry
It’s good seeing a Muslim man talk to thr Muslim youth in a language they can relate to. Most of us can’t listen to these 40 year olds telling us about the religion in a way we already know but can’t relate to because of the circumstances. Mahdi does a great job at keeping it 100 with us and acknowledging the shit that we all know most of us do
Fax 💯
Yeah
Right okay
Hes not 40 yet
@@xyzpositive1 you must not be the sharpest tool in the shed
Akhi Mahdi absolutely great video. This information is priceless for young Muslim men like me. Very annoying that no Muslim dawat make videos like this. May Allah reward you. I’m just curious brother, what was your parents reaction to having children?
JazaakAllahukhair. They were not happy intially
Yes. The pro of being protected from zina outweighs all cons.
@@alghurraba 16yr olds can work and pay mahr easily and pay some of the expenses and the parents can help with the rest. The expenses aren't that much when you live with parents. It's temporary until he progresses and is able to cover all the expenses.
they aren't kids dude, women used to get married at puberty until the 20th century lol.
@@alghurraba they arent kids when they can get pregnant. A man can quickly adapt and having responsibility forces a boy to become a man very quickly. The parents would've taught him all the principles by the time he reached 16. If not, then its still much better than committing zina.
@@onlyallahisworthyofworship5599 No one is arguing that they're 'kids' from a biological perspective. Yes, you have the capacity to impregnate a girl, but that doesn't make you a man capable of handling responsibility and fulfilling certain duties as a husband or wife. Most 16 yearolds nowadays, and i'd argue people in their mid 20's, still live with their parents and have no understanding of responsibility to the degree that people of old did. Not to mention that life expectancy was much lower back then. People in their mid-late 20's were basically approaching middle age at that time, whereas our 'middle age' is 30-40. Times are changing, and that includes the age at which we are expected to marry. The yardstick for marriage should not be based on age, but rather physical maturity, mental maturity, finances, imaan among other more superficial variables.
@@ahmedalmahdi2185 yes its the parents responsibility to get their children ready for marriage as soon as they hit puberty. I'm a supporter of brothers getting married even earlier than 16yrs old.
The way he said "she's a naughty girl" was too much hahaha I couldn't keep a straight face
Same lol
🤢🤢🤢🤢
This video is soooo eye opening I wish I saw it 10 years ago.
loved this video as a mom, i know now what to advice my children, this life isnt easy
Responsibility makes one grow up👍
This is your first video that I’m watching and wow I love your honesty. Thank you so much for putting this out here. Well done 👏🏾
This is pretty good advice Masha Allah. Also, I definitely agree with women having more patient standards for younger men as opposed to older men! Personally, I never felt more mature than men my own age (and I still like the idea of marrying someone younger than me if possible). Though whenever I try to measure up between a younger guy and older guy, I can believe in the idea of "potential" more with a younger guy who I could motivate. As opposed to an older guy who settled into below average mediocrity, especially as others within his age group could be more plainly seen to be more advanced
So you're a women?
Habibi I appreciate the video so much and there is definitely some really good points you raised, it’s really great to know that we have someone that can give us advice like you do based on personal experience I love your advice but it would definitely be easier to listen to if you spoke with more hayaa ❤️❤️
You could have also touched on how very young couples grow up through their marriage and often grow apart too ! I married very young ! AlhamdoLillah I am still married as a result of hard work and perseverance mainly . But I often feel that my son who is very young and hormonal should hold out and not marry young . Your video has made me think and reconsider my view . The challenges that the youth face now in this increasingly sexualised society are even greater than before . I guess if we become an obstacle in their desire for nikaah , then there is high chance of them falling into zina . It really is a double edged sword I guess .
Keep making the videos. You’re doing a great job AlhamdoLillah
Families need to support youngsters
Akhi mahdi, just some sincere advice bro, to not to put women on the thumbnails of your videos, especially when they have tabarruj or not in proper hijab as their awrah will be seen. I believe there’s views of the entire woman being awrah. So it will definitely be better for you and the brothers who follow you to not to. Jazakallahu khairan.
Alhamdullilah he changed it
Yes. Please.
What is awrah?
@@ItzTrickshotHD The parts of the body that are not permissible for outsiders to see. This protects the person, protects the viewer from sin, and preserves modesty.
Mah ShaAllah brother May Allah Subhanadallah Guide us All and bless us with wisdom 🤲
آمين، ثم آمین يا رب العالمين 🤲
وصلوا على النبي
اللهم صل على محمد وعلى وآل محمد وبارك وسلم 😊
This the best one I’ve seen yet! I think you did great! Marrying young is the best! When your intentions are pure n clean good will always come out of it! N advising others to get married young is good ! If they do wait a bit maybe they should take that time to do background checks on the girls family and upbringing ? Coz at the age of 16 we really wouldn’t care much about it but when u live with the girl and notice certain issues u realise their upbringing and family have a huge effect on how she will be with you n ur kids unless you think you are capable of moulding her into good shape n she will change coz she’s young … a dysfunctional family upbringing can damage a persons mental health which has a effect for life no matter how much you think u can fix it ! You simply can’t! When we was young our parents would tell us marrying into a good family is important we’d say we marrying the person not their family! N brush it off, but it actually is important n as 16 years olds we won’t understand that! Until years later you Open your eyes and see why she is the way she is and by then it’s all such a mess and too late to fix :-(
We living in a day in age where certain siblings or parent/child are complete opposites. Even Mufti Menk said your advice is what was advised back then, but now there are relatives who definitely not close to each other and are complete opposites. Many of us now grow up in broken households and yes we are broken men/women, but some are still doing their best to stay on the guided path and their family members are a big test/hinderance to them yet they still nanage to their best to be amongst GOD's righteous servants striving on his path.
Being the last born out of 7 siblings, I was the only one abused mentally, physically and emotionally by my family. They even put down 4 of my marriage proposals as they didn't want me to get married before my two elder sisters who were not married at that time. Alhamdulillah this last proposal Allah made it happened even when they wanted to put it down too. They actually followed me to where I got married and they wanted to ruin the marriage to reach divorce. But Alhamdulillah Allah still kept us together. It took me years to put myself back again from the scratch mentally, physically and emotionally. I'm still struggling to cure my uterus to have Children. I realised they damaged my health completely. I was to get married when I was 22 but I ended up getting married at 34. Alhamdulillah I'm now keeping on fine as I got a man who really understands my situation and he doesn't rush me to get kids until I'm in a good health. Allah will pay back to all wrong doers ☝️
Hahaha its like u talking about what happened to me and the mindset I had SubhanAllah.😅
Ehat happened to you?@@Idris.1994.Norway
Salam mashallah ur on another level.
Or should I say we have lost real knowledge? And now this knowledge is liberating us back. Thanks
I need to be making at least 10k a month and have built the aesthetic v-taper on my body first before I'd feel ready to marry. I'll be about 25 by then.
You are an idiot.... Lol
I am haven't seen such a better example of bullshit thinking, not saying I am not saying the same
I married at 17 and i feel the same i was a baby. My son is 20 now and i feel still he is baby
I was married at 16 but my wife is a few years older than me..Alhamdulillah it worked out well
@@barryirlandi4217 alhamdulilah for you brother
I got married when I was 17 yrs old!
I highly don't recommend that!
Mine was a forced marriage!
Your an exception dude
UI got married against your own will
@@doomdesire3460 Exception? Oh that is very common in certain cultures. You must be living under a rock if you think it’s an exception.
@@-glitch-8195 in our culture force marriage was a thing
New generation it's died out
We don't do it anymore
@@doomdesire3460 What culture are you from?
@@-glitch-8195 Pakistani
@Mahdi
PLEASE DO NOT MAKE THUMBNAILS WHERE THE AWRAH OF THE WOMEN IS SHOWING!
I got married when I was 15, and I got divorce three years later because he was so young too and he had no responsibility. Alhamdulillah I don't regret anything, I believe everything comes from Allah is good for his people.
I just want to say people are different from the prophet's (صلى الله عليه وسلم) time because they were so mature in a very young aga due to their religiosity, but our time men are different and need time to know their responsibilities towards women,so they make them suffer much.
The problem is that marriage is romanticized too much. That is why divorce rates are high.
@@steveredstone1711 marriage has been romanticized through out history that's not the reason for high divorce rate. It's the liberal, femanist mindset being carried over to an Islamic marriage.
@@InfiniteCuriosity1210 Romanticism is basically skipping the hard parts of marriage. They don't show it basically. Marriage isn't a straight road without bumps. Strangely, those hardships are never mentioned, especially these days.
Solution is for girls to marry older men then. But it is what it is.
Where sre you from
I have criticized akhuna mahdi in other videos.
But on this one MashaAllahu Mahdi said the Haqq.
😂❤️Beautiful story. I wish my parents also help to get married. I'm 17 and I am searching for a deeni woman to get married. But no one's helping me. Everyone just demotivates me that.... No child you can't get married before 25. May Allah help us youth to get married for the sake of Allah swt♥️❤️
When I was in Palestine there was a shepherd boy married to a girl. Both were around 12. This kid acted mature and was dressed like a little man in Bedouin sunnah atire. He sat amongst men and didn't behave like a teenager. Mashallah. There is merit to marrying young. I think in Western societies at least by the time a person finishes high school they should be on the hunt for marriage with full support from parents.
in Bedouin culture the kids are so mature for their age. It’s because since they are little kids they don’t baby them they talk to them and act towards them the way you would to an adult. And once they reach the age of puberty they give them the responsibility that they would give a grown male/female. You have 18 years in America acting like they are in grade school
@@s.m.a580 same
I agree that for western cultures straight after highschool is a good option.
@@s.m.a580 I agree with you. I hope to raise my future kids to be very mature and ready for marriage at a young age Insha’Allah
The only thing that freaks me out is pregnancy on a 12 year old girl. It can be really dangerous because the hips haven't developed yet
How was you raised in Islamic environment and you didn't pray... Hardly Islamic... More like cultural... My sons both been praying since 6....alhamdulillah
How did you provide for your family during uni years?
MashAllah one of the most beneficial vids on UA-cam
Now that's a video I enjoyed watching. It's like u were grateful to Allah for facilitating halal intimacy ,care,affection that u took His deen seriously.
the story with the prayer in the hallway killed me
Yeah same kinda
I am so so pleased to have found this video, I want my kids to marry young and I learned a lot from listening to your story, jazak Allah khair
Wish my father was like you man. May Allah allow you to stay firm on this decision of your(Ameen)
I feel horrible for your first wife. After being the only wife and your only love, and then you bring in other women? No woman would be okay with that. And, if she says she is okay with it then she is lying.
What if the parents doesn't agree to the person you want to marry and you know for a fact you want this girl
I am a simple man. I see Mahdi, I like it before watching.
Habibi
@@MahdiTidjani Brother
In Subcontinent, families live together and both the young husband and wife are guided by their parents in how things should go. Till they turn 25-30 and are able to guide their grandchildren.
16 is an adult. Regardless of religion, there should be no red tape involved.
Its not… at all. 😂
@@chanellllllll8190 not everyone is a manchild like you who still lives with their parents, and plays gta and minecraft, while being a 20 year old virgin smoking skunk.
@@7Kazi7 The fact that you base adulthood based on those things already shows that rebutting your argument is useless 😂
@@chanellllllll8190 those things don't make your adulthood, I never said that. They simply say alot about yourself, and who you are, a person who spends their time actively looking for mahdi videos just to make a bunch of comments that get no likes. No likes, no life.
I don't see how me not agreeing with the fact that 16 year old teenagers are adults has anything to do with the way i live, but you do you.
hi mahdi!!!
I'm a 19-year-old girl and I am studying at the university and my parents are separated.
He is a very kind person with others but with me and my mother he's very hard in all aspects. He doesn't support me financially, he is not interested in me and he doesn't support me in what I do).
My treatment with him is always respectful although he is not with me.
I wanted to ask you about how to treat my father and try to convince him to change his behavior towards me. I would like to make him see that I am his daughter and not his enemy.
I can't see a way to change him.. Patience ans do your dute to Allah by respecting him and obeying as much as you can..
It's not you. It's his own issues. It took me 30 odd years to understand my own father. Very difficult character.
You focus on your health & fitness, studies & mostly on your Salah. So zikr sweet heart Allah hears you. Allah's sees you. Be patient.i m sure you are a good daughter. Keep out of his ways. Just show respect & courtesy.
Ask Allah SWT to protect you, give you strength, increase your rizque income or job. Some help & support. Doors will open up. Help & care for your mother. Count your blessings.
Real Man. Allhumdulillah
As a 16 years old, this video is very intersting
So your telling girls “ take note , I only married my EX WIFE cause she was in abaya”….yea, so now we know EXACTLY hot to become an EX WIFE
😂😂
Exactly she wear hijab but internally having alt account to do haram stuff and pretense in public as pious. I know hijabi wearing hijab just to look islamic while having boyfriend. I'll get my son married to only 14 year old cousin daughter with the gaurentee of chastity rather than being decieved by abaya
His ex-wife lost respect of him that was why he separated I guessed.
Pros
1. 02:10 Halal intimacy
2. 09:26 Children at a young age/rizq (provision from Allah)
3. 11:00 mature quickly
4. 13:55 settled and focused on one's mission
Cons
1. 16:19 immaturity at young age
2. 19:20 struggle to earn money
You took your wive seriously because of Islamic dress now you are divorce. That doesn't sound to me in favour of rushing on marriage because of religion.
Hi Mahdi. Can you do a video on matrimonial apps and how to use them effectively?
@اميرة🌹 damn
ther'ye shit, not worth your money.
My brain cells died when he said ex-wife.😢
In my opinion best for marriage is 25+ but who wants earlier all the best to them
Brother If you can always add the numbers, statistics and sources It would be helpful jazaak Allahu Khayran. Can you elaborate with numbers and methodology of "skimping and scraping".
May be l'm gone see five generation that was nice 😁😁😁
After watching your video I can clearly guess that it was too much for your wife, she left you that could be a reason as well that you hardly spend time with her and you were running after what's important for you
"Keep the clean ones clean and make the dirty ones dirtier" -Mahdi
You are misleading many, many Muslim brothers with your arrogant ways. Stop it. I would suspect someone at your age wouldn't be so arrogant.
Truth.. May Allah guide him
thats what he was thinking when he was 16...not now
@@persianprince2012 no bro this dude is narcissistic watch his new vids he don’t live what he say
Thank you for sharing your story...
At such a young age, how is this financially possible unless you're from a wealthy family. How can you find a suitable job that will support your family without the help of a government stipend. Am from the States and it's impossible with a whiter collar job.
The one common theme running tru all humans existence is hypocrisy. Respect to all beings .👍
Fasting is also an option...
Assalamu alaykum brother Mahdi, for you next video, please can you discuss how a young man in his late teens can provide for his wife when he gets married; because I am an 18 year old male and I really want to get married, but it is hard for me to find halal sources of income in my current situation.
Just get a job and tell your parents to help you
Get your money right first.
@Mahdi Tidjani what do you think about surhery me? I'm 17 years old, ugly and get called a creep. I'm severely balding too, like a Middle aged man.are hairline surgery halal? And rhinoplasty to fix my bad nose?
I've tried everything, creams, pills my hair isn't growing. JazakAllah
@@popcornto6032 I use it, that and finesteride I bought it online, it made me get even worse gyno, I work out 6 days a week too and I'm abt 12% bf
My skin went from okay to dry with minox, it's not your fault, I knew this months ago and took the risk. May I ask how tall are you?
@@popcornto6032 dude, I will get divorce graped if I go to those countries, ur a smart tall young man. If I was you Id marry a white woman, these ethnic women will rather marry a white man so let them.
Do you want advice on Balding or no ? i can help you 100% tell me akhi
Salam Mahdi, what kind of questions would you ask a sister you was meeting for marriage purposes to find out if she has feminist ideas/inclinations, will be obedient, virgin and any other questions you think are important to ask. Also what kind of response would you look for from her? Perhaps make a video on it, jzk
So you continued your education and she didn't. She divorced you and now she cant provide for herself. Is that correct?
What are acceptable grounds for divorce in Islam? Why aren't you together anymore? Why did you get married multiple times?
Wait how did u support your wife and kids, as you did u didn’t work, where were u living??
What kind of parents let their child
Get married?!?!…absolute weirdos
What kind of parents allow their child to have girlfriend or boyfriend?
when you will have a daughter, we will see how much you'll leave her at night or around the boys
@@MM-mr2gw she probably wrote it in a sarcastic way jeez
just because the West says it's ok doesn't mean it is
If they reach puberty there not a child.
“ the dirty girls, we will make them
Dirtier”…..which Surah in the Quran was that in?
Yes, this line of thinking is disgusting and dehumanized women. Typical extremist thinking.
His time was Maybe different but today even hijab and abaya have tinder boyfriend and everything so can't judge by hijab and abaya because I have seen hijab girls having boyfriend and doing things and pretending pious to deceive man. The purpose of hijab and abaya today is not fear of allah but pretense and faking good character while having alt account to do secret haram stuff
Thats not in the QURAN!!!
A whole lot of world marries very young and are mostly better off. There's no 0% divorce rate anywhere.
Because most of the world lives below the poverty line. People back home are poorer and marry young as they think having more children will get them a bigger source of income through child labour.
@@susanna9831 absolutely not true. Sure that happens but you are just generalizing. Many middle class upper class families I know married young. Parents are rushing to become grand parents early and the whole family takes care rearing the kids, so no need for nannies or any kind of outside help. I know someone married at 16 with his wife 15, by 21 they had three kids with fourth on the way. The grand parents in their late 30s of course pretty young themselves so the parents don't have to stress when taking care of the kids. Oh and they are middle class with a much higher quality of life than a middle class family in the US.
Now this doesn't happen often in well off families since they trying to focus on careers first but the parents will force you at times to marry early. This way the grand parents take care of the kids will the parents go to college.
Could you do a video with book recommendations?
One book that he recommeds
" The boy crises "
Single mom due to war ?
If I could do it over, I would've married young, but had kids maybe in my mid 30s.
He said no she not she a bad gyal, she a naughty gyal!!!!! 😂😂😂
Hey bro, just seen your library. Can you make a video suggesting books for men please, btw im new to the channel
I started feeling lonely and wanted to have a wife when I was 21 years old, I had my first wet dream then. I was born in an area where we have a very strict Islamic culture, you won't see a woman without a burqa. I got married here in England when I was 24 years old now I am 32 and want another wife 😆 in Sha Allah
Pakistani women don't wear Burka
@@d.bcooper2271 don't generalize lol
Maybe your wife should look else where too?!
@@artsybluecat if that was halal
I keep hearing the words “I was not practicing Islam.” There’s no such thing.
What do you say about the "forgotten men"? For every 100 women aged 18-29 three are 105 men, ie 5.men will always be left out? I'm a forgotten man at the age of 17.
There isn't "someone for everyone", not for me and for a lot of men. I don't know why people say every man will get married? Why do they do that?
@@popcornto6032 BTW I loved the insightful comment you made about marriage, the one were u said make a $100 a. Month lease so you won't be counted as. A couple, that's. Ingenius honestly.
@@popcornto6032 free. Speech yt keeps deleting my comments, lol, they don't want the truth to get out
Or else men would drop out of society, even worse sue aside
@@popcornto6032 amazing man, it's good to learn from non Muslims, whoever says other wise is lying. We speak English live in the west, use westeke inventions etx
@@jeffreyepstein4310 You just haven't learned how to play the game. Your generation is royally f'd since you don't have any OGs teaching you.
The solution is quite simple. Build yourself up. Workout, eat healthy, take care of yourself and work towards a career. Then go look for a wife. It's much easier when you have made something of yourself.
Watch the fresh and fit podcast.
Mahdi Brother I’m 19 how do you suggest I get married in the halal way any Islamic apps you suggest?
marry early then discard her then do not marry a divorcee.
Well obviosuly cuz his former wife wasn't a good partner? Hence she might do the same to the next guy? Sometimes logic gives you better understanding than emotions, sisters ;)
@@livingjoke3083 of course , divorced women are guilty until proven innocent
@@livingjoke3083 You forget bro, women can't digest logic.
@@d.bcooper2271the wife who he divorced was married once & didn't marry after him. This brother has been divorced 3 times, in the divorces he was the common denominator, what does logic say about that plz?
@Asma Zafar,he took back what he said about marrying divorced women after he was reminded by Muhamamd hijab that most the Sahabi women were divorcees :) what thier podcast Alhmdulillah he realised his mistakes & took back a lotttt
“We will make them even dirtier” 😭😭 what is life
Mahdi do you have any sibilings if I may ask?
sisters
@@MahdiTidjani are there some that aren't married yet?
Free mixing is everywhere unfortunately 😢
question
do women mature faster due to the fact that more responsibilities generally entrusted to them than men or is it purely biological and not as a result of societal pressure
@@popcornto6032 True
Biological
Both. Women hit puberty earlier. But also men don't have much responsibility nowadays apart from getting a job at 21, which is what women do as well
2:49 says a lot about you and explains everything
What's wrong with liking a practising muslim? Shall we marry kafirs, who will raise kafir children, who will take us all to jahannam? Grow tf up.
A woman who wears burqa abaya is willing to risk everything for her husband
It's a sign of respect
Though this is not always the case
Some niqabis can be deviant
As a muslim woman knowing that you got married young and divorced this puts me off of marrying young men
What's your age?
It's not about age. It's about mental maturity, physical maturity, imaan, ability to provide financially. We tend to compartmentalize things because it makes them easier to understand, but marriage is not that simple. There are 30 yearolds who still have the mind of a 16 yearold and the bank account of a broke uni student.
There is no context to just come to that conclusion
People of all ages get divorced.... actually as people started marrying older divorce became more common. Thinking because you delay marriage your chances of divorce decrease is a fatal and stuiped mistake
Sister, this dude is a clown, do not act injustice to young Muslim men willing to work things out
and another question that appeared on my mind: are you talking to women or men when youre saying "if it is a fear of zina, then you should marry but if you can wait a few years then I recommen you to wait"??
@@popcornto6032 ok...but if the women has desires and their parents tell her to study first and then you can think of marriage..
@TheReal Deal how do you know that? youre not a woman, so dont say anything you have no experience of. Women do have strong desires too not only men
Where are you from, brother ?
Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu. Did you do istikhara for your first marriage?
Assalamo alaikom brother I have a degree in Management and speak 3 European languages but I have a hard time finding a good job or figuring out how to "build my empire". Can you help out?
You should have watched Aaron Clarey, but it's too late now.
@@vost2916 exactly, so STEM or don't bother, and even then it needs to be from a good university with a good grade
I can't believe people get into debt for useless degrees
@@vost2916 uh.... okay .. give me good advice
@@karimtemri1664 Watch Aaron Clarey, he has good advice. The dude stopped me from throwing my life away.
Should I wait until I'm 40 or 50 . Or never get married. Woman is too much headache.🤔
Him saying he's now divorced from the first wife kind of tells me that he was too young when he got married. Should've controlled his urges better by fasting or something.
Why every guy seemed to have that hair style on thumbnail 10 years ago, who started the trend?
Child rate is around 4.50 to 5.00 pounds a hour, working you can't manage as a single parent. Do not force your parents with the burden of your baby marriage
Great words...
Lucky you. Saved from a lot of Zina.
@@alghurraba 16 year olds aren't kids, 16 Is old for a woman, her prime is her early teens. At least according to science
@@jeffreyepstein4310 according to science she is most fertile in her late teens to early twenties. Young girls getting pregnant is risky.
@@jeffreyepstein4310 says Jeffrey Epstein
@@m-5973 Source? 20s, yes. Late teens is still tricky. "Adolescent mothers aged 10-19 years face higher risks of eclampsia, puerperal endometritis and systemic infections than women aged 20-24 years." - WHO
@@bfa8750 hmm my mistake. I guess early twenties is better
in our country parents start thinking about marriage once the son head becomes white
Did his wife stay at home + stop going to college when they had children?
salam brother where do i search for a burkah-wearing housewife any help
Come to usa 🎉
@@fahmida4inayat salam daughter in Islam, I was looking for my son "Rishta" but alhamdulillah 5 months ago WE found what we were looking for jzk u.k
assalamu alaykum wa rahmatullah wa barakatuh, just wanted to mention something that some young women are struggling with, the parents makes it hard to marry because they have not agreed with you marrying and afterwards they tell you "go study, look at your grades you do not have any good grades enough, and you cant even cook yet" so what can you advice on this? gonna try to convince them to let us marry or what?
@@popcornto6032 true, cooking is no problem, im not planning to go to uni either, the issue here is approval from parents
@@popcornto6032 how can I delay kids when intimacy will be a part of the marriage life,? like, each time intimacy would be done, there is a better and better risk at getting babies and we never know when a baby pops out u know. How can I delay kids, when I have no power at all to know when I will have kids? Like only Allah knows. Ouf help.
@@islamicreminders7607 don't delay kids for university, that's bad advice. A major purpose of marriage is to have children. The more children the better. Delaying children means less children.
@@onlyallahisworthyofworship5599 just have 10 kids and give them a poor quality of life theory
@@jeffreyepstein4310 that's the mentality of non Muslims who end up with only 1 or 2 children. Every Muslim should aim for at least 10 children.
At my university, no muslim female is wearing abaya lol. Most have white boyfriends. It's over for zoomer brothers
Lol that’s everybody nowadays - especially desis. They love their whiteys haha
@@ImmiSuccess you ask them for marriage and they bombard you with high maher and expectations but thoes standards suddenly disappear when a white guy want to smash for free. It's done bro. Especially in continental Europe and the US
@@Ok-gd3jl that makes it easier to find the practising sisters because they will stand out from the rest of the sisters.
@@onlyallahisworthyofworship5599 that's a positive in theory but it hits hard when literally none stand out. To be fair I happen to go a very liberal University in the US
"It's over for zoomer brothers" LOOOOOOL
I haven't been to Uni but hamdulillah have managed to create a 6 figure business in that time so I'm doing well at my age (23). I avoided riba and the potential of ending up in zina somewhere along the line. Some things happen for a good reason. I tend to agree that what I generally see on social media is not encouraging. A lot of Muslim girls are adopting the liberal mindset, have completely abandoned hijab and have no shame in committing tabarruj. Most of them don't even come close to being suitable candidates as strong Muslim mothers and wives. It is a difficult time for us, may Allah make it easy for us and strengthen us in both imaan, physicality and material wealth.
Age is irrelevant. You should not get married until Allah and His messenger ﷺ are more important to you than yourself and any other person or thing.
Allah was barely mentioned in this video. Muhammad ﷺ was not mentioned in this video.
Mashalla your story is nice but I wouldn't promote it not all parents want to be burdened by there children getting married no income no roof and bringing wifes and children in the home at under 18yrs
Mashallah Brother.
These words, the ones that r dirty that men will make them dirtier. Subhanallah it makes me think of the poor sisters who were taken advantage of and other words I'm not allowed to use according to utube, in childhood for example and so more and more filthy men hunting them like their uncles, their fathers friends brothers friends and they're getting passed around. Fear Allah ﷻ al will be held accountable Alhamdulilah
FACTS !!!
I will discuss with Mustapha.