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  • @manonf.9002
    @manonf.9002 6 місяців тому +326

    the fact that’s her mom that did the pictures for the bookmark’d collection is soo cool, she’s soo talented

  • @patriciapegueros7092
    @patriciapegueros7092 6 місяців тому +127

    there is nothing wrong with living with your parents. you move out when your ready, dont let people tell you when. your ready to move out when you personally are ready. your relationship with your mom is the greatest its so sweet.

  • @lilybick
    @lilybick 6 місяців тому +192

    your relationship with your mom is the sweetest i LOVE the mom content

    • @susansegal1808
      @susansegal1808 6 місяців тому +2

      I can’t Wait till I get extra $ so I can wear sweatshirt to chemo treatment’s.,

    • @hamdii4444
      @hamdii4444 6 місяців тому +2

      @@susansegal1808wishing you a speedy recovery all the best ❤️❤️❤️

    • @KaylaIwanejko
      @KaylaIwanejko 5 місяців тому

      Des is so sweet I love u

  • @brittanyhayes5824
    @brittanyhayes5824 6 місяців тому +154

    The way you describe being busy all day and then when you lay down at night you just want to sleep. That’s how I feel EVERY DAY after work. It’s so frustrating bc I just want to read! I feel you girl

    • @peppercat239
      @peppercat239 6 місяців тому +9

      same! And then when I do get to read, I will fall asleep or get really tired after like 10 min or something! :(

    • @maddiereads88
      @maddiereads88 6 місяців тому +3

      it's literally the worst knowing work takes away all your energy to do anything else

  • @lyndsayhammond6884
    @lyndsayhammond6884 6 місяців тому +90

    I can’t believe you’re only 21 years old. You have a strong work ethic and level of maturity for such a young person!

  • @imchristinac
    @imchristinac 6 місяців тому +28

    It’s super normal in Europe and Asia to just live at home even well into your 20s. Don’t put too much pressure on yourself to move out quickly

  • @bonniemae1397
    @bonniemae1397 6 місяців тому +140

    Your videos are such a safe space for so many of your viewers! I’m sorry to hear the internet hasn’t made you feel that way lately🥺 do whats best for you and we’ll be here with you always 💓💓

    • @patriciapegueros7092
      @patriciapegueros7092 6 місяців тому +1

      i totally agree. some of us will always be here for you. through the good and the bad.

  • @katpablo
    @katpablo 6 місяців тому +35

    I'm so sorry about the negative comments. I just want to chime in and say how much I appreciate your vlogs. The love and thoughtfulness you put into them. Thank you, Destiny ♥

  • @stephaniecox102
    @stephaniecox102 6 місяців тому +38

    I suffer from anxiety, and it’s nice to see someone who is realistic about having it as well. But only share what you want - this is your channel, and it should ultimately bring you happiness and success. ❤

  • @ainhoar1624
    @ainhoar1624 6 місяців тому +21

    i really dont understand why in the us is so important to move out so early on in your life, here in spain you cna be 25-30 yo and nobody even question anything, stay with your parents, save money (life's rough) and enjoy your family in the meantime ♡

  • @Joana-b5l
    @Joana-b5l 6 місяців тому +125

    I love when Destiny has her hair like super curly! She looks so cute ❤

  • @LaurettaJanine
    @LaurettaJanine 6 місяців тому +25

    Girl, keep whatever you want private; you don’t owe that to anyone! I hope you’re doing well, and your merch is so cute!! Congrats to you and Sara!❤

  • @stephaniecason
    @stephaniecason 6 місяців тому +9

    I remember seeing so many people commenting on that video "stop drinking so many energy drinks, that's why you have anxiety and panic attacks" and it made me so angry. That is so ignorant. I have awful anxiety completely random for no reason and I almost never drink energy drinks. And I'm 30 years old so it's not a "grow up" or "grow out of it" kind of thing. It's not a phase, it's not a plot for attention (majority of the time those with mental health issues keep it to themselves) so people who don't suffer from it or have a medical degree and years of training shouldn't say a damn thing about it. Love you Des and support you in all you do. Congrats on the merch and 1 year of the pod. Keep up the amazing work! You're killing it girl!

  • @madisonc_x0
    @madisonc_x0 6 місяців тому +5

    Please never feel like you have to tone yourself down for ANYBODY! All of us are here every single week because we love how real you are, we love how you bring a smile to our faces & we love how YOU motivate us to be ourselves - so much love🩷

  • @Anna_Ranae
    @Anna_Ranae 6 місяців тому +25

    At this point Des is just an auto watcher UA-camr the second I get a notification I watch. She’s just a comfort ❤️❤️

  • @amelia..swift13
    @amelia..swift13 6 місяців тому +54

    Ahhh!! I love these videos! I just wanted to say ty for posting because you’re the reason i fell into reading, and for that i am forever grateful!

  • @opal555
    @opal555 6 місяців тому +33

    i don't know if you'll see this but i'm so incredibly proud of you and how far you've come. showing up for yoursellf is a highly admirable trait and i feel so inspired by your dedication. so happy about the bookmark'd crewnecks

  • @mirandasreads
    @mirandasreads 6 місяців тому +7

    I seriously love your relationship with your mom. Soak it all in now while you can. I moved away from home and miss being able to just spend time with my mom whenever we want

  • @lamandabaucom4721
    @lamandabaucom4721 6 місяців тому +51

    I’m so sorry you got comments like that on your video talking about anxiety 🙁 I found it so relatable hearing you talk about it bc I have very bad anxiety as well.

  • @jennafeldcamp
    @jennafeldcamp 6 місяців тому +17

    I see so much of myself in you which makes your videos such a comfort. I genuinely care about everything you have to say and it makes me sad that you’re going through such a hard time. I know it’s difficult but try not to beat yourself up about how much you film, read, post, etc. because in the end we all just want what’s best for you 😊

  • @emsfofems
    @emsfofems 6 місяців тому +7

    girl you’re getting so much brand deals lately im so proud of you get that bag!!

  • @nenasimone3294
    @nenasimone3294 6 місяців тому +3

    the trader joe’s sunscreen is so good! it’s 40spf and clear so it doesn’t give a weird tone to your face

  • @beckyjo2914
    @beckyjo2914 6 місяців тому +5

    Girl, I moved out to live with a significant other and it did not go well. I’m also in a super fortunate situation and my very grateful that at 26 my parents let me come right back home after a shitty situation. Know that your fam is there for you now and will always be.

  • @michaelarende1622
    @michaelarende1622 6 місяців тому +13

    Thanks Des for your honesty. I’ve been watching for a while and I really love all your different kinds of videos, it really feels like we’re friends!! I’m sorry people online suck sometimes… I can’t imagine how hard that is. You’re so strong 🫶🏻 we love you

  • @jaxon8091
    @jaxon8091 6 місяців тому +7

    I'm not quite sure where I got the motive to write this comment, but I really hope you see it Destiny. I have been watching you I think for over a year now, and you just bring so much happiness to my week. I love sitting down on sundays and watching your vlogs, while listening to you rave about books and Taylor Swift. (fellow bookwarm and swiftie haha) anyways, just know that you have so many supporters and people who care about your well-being. The effort that you put into your channel and podcast is so clear and it really is amazing entertainment. It is so obvious when watching your videos that you have such a kind and caring personality with a loving heart. Thank you so so much for being who you are :)

  • @san-jw8gh
    @san-jw8gh 6 місяців тому +9

    The fact that sara and destiny are posting at the same TIME???!!! GURLLL MY DAY IS SOOO MUCH BETTER NOW

  • @bygracealone8
    @bygracealone8 6 місяців тому +5

    your mom is THE cutest ever aweee

  • @emerygraf1323
    @emerygraf1323 6 місяців тому +2

    I feel you about the Sabrina Carpenter makeup 😭 I wish I could achieve that look so bad😭 also girl if you are fortunate enough to live with your parents then do it girl!! It helps you save money for the future and nothing is wrong with it, I'm in the same boat!!❤️ Don't feel like you need to hide from us but also I understand there are freaks on the Internet so I get needing to keep your privacy!❤️❤️

  • @ryenmarsh8290
    @ryenmarsh8290 6 місяців тому +1

    I just wanted to come on here and say that you are doing great. Everyone is living their life on their own time and you have already accomplished so much. I know personally I relate to you a lot with the anxiety and even your personality and I find it so comforting to know someone is also dealing and sharing in my struggles but also my joys in life. You have so much support here in the comments, but just know that no matter what you always have at least one supporter, keep doing what you’re doing girl! ❤

  • @madelineskau671
    @madelineskau671 6 місяців тому +5

    thank you for being such a comfort creator for so many of us!! we love you!!!

  • @emerygraf1323
    @emerygraf1323 6 місяців тому +1

    I bought the doodle crewneck, dote shirt, and am going to buy the book crewneck tomorrow during the restock because it sold out to fast the first time!! I'm SO excited to get them, and you and Sara bring me so much sunshine so I'm so happy I get to support you!❤️

  • @Jbarry13
    @Jbarry13 6 місяців тому +3

    Hi Des! As a pale girlie some of the best sunscreens ive ever tried are actually baby sunscreens- Aveeno baby zinc 50spf is thick but helps a lot with sensitive skin as well as works deeper than basic coverage. And for face suncreen - isntree's hyaluronic acid watery sun gel works amazing under makeup and its 50 spf, hope this can be helpful!

  • @Abby-jc2hp
    @Abby-jc2hp 6 місяців тому +3

    we love you des, protect your peace and know we all hope you're doing well

  • @camasreads
    @camasreads 6 місяців тому +2

    I don't know what was different but I LOVED this vlog! It just hit real hard! It felt super real and personal I love it!🌞thank you Des!

  • @brookebizilia
    @brookebizilia 6 місяців тому +1

    as a recent subscriber and viewer of your channel i can confidently say you’re one of my favorites! you are so real and genuine and you emote that through your videos so well! i love watching you and hope you feel encouraged and uplifted cause you’re doing great 🤍

  • @rachelkirkx
    @rachelkirkx 6 місяців тому +14

    I love that you are setting boundaries, everyone deserves their own privacy Des and we will still be here🩷

  • @Belle-cr4tg
    @Belle-cr4tg 6 місяців тому +1

    SUNSCREEN RECOMMENDATION: Hey Des!! Hope you're doing well when you're reading this. A couple of months ago (I think it was the beginning of march) I got really into korean skincare (which I have to say: SLAYYYS!!!) and I bought the Beauty of Joseon Relief Sun Screen (SPF 50+)! It's really lightweight and not greasy at all (I have oily skin so I know hihi). Give it a try if you want!! I'm sooo looking forward to the bookmarked merch and hope I won't forget (because I'm living in Germany, which means the merch drops at 12am on Sunday - hopefully I won't sleep by then). Have a great day!! Love you and the video💖💖

  • @rorilisa
    @rorilisa 6 місяців тому +1

    gosh des, i just love you. you really do feel like my best friend. thank you for being you 🥰🩵

  • @macybradford2616
    @macybradford2616 6 місяців тому +1

    Today has been a tough day for me and seeing this really made me smile, thank you for being such a light in my life❤

  • @natashacorrado
    @natashacorrado 6 місяців тому +2

    Actually obsessed with your natural hair!!

  • @coraleeh1104
    @coraleeh1104 5 місяців тому

    i don’t really comment that much on your videos (but i constantly am watching them), and i just wanted to say that i am so sorry that you received comments like that when talking about your mental health. i truly understand wanting to take a step away from talking about it, and i just wanted you to know that you talking about it made me feel less alone with my own struggle with anxiety. so thank you for that, and keep what you want private girly! you’re not alone, and we appreciate you so so much.

  • @gRATEDreads
    @gRATEDreads 6 місяців тому +2

    we love you des, and support you no matter what ❤❤

  • @anisha-ahsina
    @anisha-ahsina 6 місяців тому +7

    It’s almost 12:00am and this is really tempting me to stay up late, I’m so excited to watch this tomorrow! I love your videos Des❤

  • @juliaaisabel
    @juliaaisabel 6 місяців тому

    la roche posay melt in milk sunscreen spf 100 is AMAZING i wear it under makeup all the time and it’s personally never affected it at all

  • @KayBurkhardt-xw8gv
    @KayBurkhardt-xw8gv 6 місяців тому +2

    Love your videos!! The content is real,honest and you really have a fun personality!!! Books,reviews, workouts,journaling,and dogs 🐕rule!!! Keep up the good work!!!😊

  • @noraa75993
    @noraa75993 6 місяців тому +3

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY CHARLIE WE LOVE UUU❤️❤️❤️

  • @badassbaroness
    @badassbaroness 6 місяців тому

    Byoma moisturizing gel sunscreen. 24:24
    It feels amazing and it’s moisturizing but not greasy so good for acne prone skin.

  • @readingisbelieving5248
    @readingisbelieving5248 6 місяців тому +1

    I also disconnect myself when good things "happen to me" (I worked hard and earned said thing) so I completely understand what you're saying. I think something that helped me is knowing that yes I may be lucky to have earned success, but I did earn it and you have too! I know we don't see everything but from what we do see it is evident that you work super hard and deserve good things!!

  • @haydendonahue5892
    @haydendonahue5892 6 місяців тому

    24:27 i really like the cerave lightweight one for oily skin. i find that if i use the la roche posay cicaplast as a moisturizer under it it’s my power duo. idk if you have oily skin or not but i do find that it leaves a healthy glow even though it supposedly leaves a matte finish (maybe it’s the double moisturizer) but i truly recommend. i’ve gone through idk how many of them they’re my ride or die

    • @haydendonahue5892
      @haydendonahue5892 6 місяців тому

      also i have a trial size glow screen from supergoop that i find looks SO GOOD under makeup but i want to try the elf glowy sunscreen bc i think it would be a great dupe

  • @adelabustamantemartinez2330
    @adelabustamantemartinez2330 6 місяців тому

    your videos are really helping me push through the hardships in my life recently, and motivating me to achieve my goals. especially as someone who also has anxiety. i really look up to you even if you're just one year older than me, it really is as if we were best friends. it is really nice to feel so similar to someone you've never met. i love how watching you feels like a warm, long hug and how i see so much of what i want to become in you. thanks for making this channel such a safe and happy place for everyone. we are in this together destiny, and we really love and appreciate you.

  • @keiraalexisreads_
    @keiraalexisreads_ 6 місяців тому +2

    this is what my life was MISSING lately ✨

  • @elizagrey5006
    @elizagrey5006 6 місяців тому

    I use the Aveeno spf moisturizer to begin with & Supergoop tinted spf & it’s so nice for the summer! 🥰🥰

  • @caffeinatedreader_
    @caffeinatedreader_ 6 місяців тому +1

    sending you big hugs Des, take some deep breaths, you’ll be okay and you’re going great 💕

  • @CarolinaMaranhao-fy7ow
    @CarolinaMaranhao-fy7ow 6 місяців тому +5

    love u soo much des! I’m having my birthday party today + a new video from you! You made my day! ❤

  • @kelcieknight1756
    @kelcieknight1756 6 місяців тому

    hi bestie!! I also struggle with my skin and one thing I recently discovered was biotin can trigger breakouts if you’re acne prone and there is biotin in the alani drinks! as soon as I stopped drinking them my skin cleared up

  • @thesandrapages
    @thesandrapages 6 місяців тому +1

    Love what you shared about discipline over motivation though bc this is something I’ve really been working on in my life lately

  • @cchaloupka
    @cchaloupka 6 місяців тому

    Destiny’s content and personality are top tier 😊❤

  • @sarahfridner8648
    @sarahfridner8648 6 місяців тому

    Elta MD is my fav sunscreen ever! Feels like a moisturizer!

  • @Pancake1995Q
    @Pancake1995Q 6 місяців тому

    I love you Des, sorry to hear that you are having a hard time lately. I just hope you know that we all love and support you so much and want you to thrive always

  • @JamieReads_1
    @JamieReads_1 6 місяців тому +1

    I love watching all your videos. Love just putting on vlogs I’ve watched and just vibe out with your videos.

  • @jordantall5030
    @jordantall5030 6 місяців тому

    I really love the Tula Protect & Glow Sunscreen! It’s awesome under my makeup!

  • @maddiereads88
    @maddiereads88 6 місяців тому

    please remember that you have the right to feel the way you do and we'll always be here for you no matter what❤️

  • @Withlovehollyx
    @Withlovehollyx 6 місяців тому +1

    literally love you sm girl!!!

  • @rachell417
    @rachell417 6 місяців тому

    Hey! Fellow hoosier here! I had no idea you also lived in Indiana but I love that! Your videos are so fun to watch and always bring me comfort and laughter

  • @rebekahhamilton2290
    @rebekahhamilton2290 6 місяців тому

    Please never stop making these vlogs I genuinely look forward to them every week! So happy we get another one we love you des

  • @salenabrooke07
    @salenabrooke07 6 місяців тому +2

    i admire and appreciate all that you do des❤❤❤ we love you!

  • @blessing-tq4jr
    @blessing-tq4jr 6 місяців тому

    Hi des, the sunscreen that I use is from avoir and its not sticky not weird and got some long term whitening effect. Highly recommend❤

  • @zoerozar334
    @zoerozar334 6 місяців тому

    pls tell us your weekly workout routine. Your body looks so good, literal goals!

  • @amydwaah
    @amydwaah 6 місяців тому

    Des you videos always brings me joy and it really Saddens me to hear about the comments when you shared something vulnerable. We appreciate you so much and anything you share should be treated with respect and kindness. Keep going girly. You inspire me so much and are one of my comfort UA-camrs for just being you and I feel like you are actually my friend. Always take care of yourself, we love you des ❤️🫶🏾🥹☺️🥰

  • @savannahbillingsley1179
    @savannahbillingsley1179 5 місяців тому

    I like to eat Oikos Triple Zero with natural peanut butter, cut-up strawberries, and granola. Tastes like literal frosting 😋

  • @justgabbb
    @justgabbb 6 місяців тому

    Love your videos!🤗 Nuetragena clear face is the only sunscreen SPF that I use, it doesn't feel gross and it DOESNT give me breakouts 💖💖💖

  • @makaylahardin4351
    @makaylahardin4351 6 місяців тому

    Hero SPF is sooo good. It has a green tint to cancel out redness and it doesn’t clog my pores! Highly recommend

  • @blibeaut
    @blibeaut 6 місяців тому

    Hi! I used these sunscreens and love them:
    - Anti-Aging Moisturiser SPF 50 by Paula's Choice
    - Hyaluronic Acid Watery Sun Gel SPF50+ PA++++ by Isntree

  • @Ayemeee
    @Ayemeee 6 місяців тому

    I use the Neutrogena clear face sunscreen! I love it because it doesn’t feel or smell like sunscreen on your face at all

  • @brittanyhokin
    @brittanyhokin 6 місяців тому

    Literally fitness is the only thing that keeps me sane … legit clicked on your video today cause I know you would be gyming and I needed a little extra motivation LMAO

  • @taylorclegg
    @taylorclegg 6 місяців тому

    just know you owe us nothing & your mental health always comes first. love you Des💜

  • @leoniemorell6748
    @leoniemorell6748 6 місяців тому

    I am so sorry that you had to go through this struggle regarding you opening up about your mental health!! I love and respect you and the decisions you make. I am watching every single one of your videos. :) i hope you have a nice day ❤

  • @lanagray4822
    @lanagray4822 6 місяців тому

    Innisfree spf is AMAZING under makeup or just in skincare rotation!

  • @Jordan_elaine
    @Jordan_elaine 6 місяців тому +1

    I love your vlogs! Thanks for taking us along your life with you!

  • @angelicasoliz10
    @angelicasoliz10 6 місяців тому

    The way the merch made your eyes pop so much 😍😍 I can’t wait for my order to come in 🫶🏼

  • @Breanna3206
    @Breanna3206 6 місяців тому

    I love when you said "Discipline over Motivation".... I feel like I had a epiphany! :) Thank you for saying that!

  • @hayleireads
    @hayleireads 6 місяців тому +2

    WAKE UP THE QUEEN POSTED!!!

  • @aye83
    @aye83 6 місяців тому +1

    the merch looks so gorgina. u and sara did so well 🫶🏽

  • @grace_nadine
    @grace_nadine 6 місяців тому

    i’m not a derm but i have seen one for 7 years and if you have oily skin (or sometimes dry skin depending on the cause) the oil could make acne worse! i would look into a niacinamide serum, good molecules and the ordinary have great affordable ones!

  • @TheChannelFede
    @TheChannelFede 6 місяців тому

    you are such a safe place for me, you are my comfort youtuber when feeling down. So thank you for everything bestie❤❤

  • @GenevieveMason
    @GenevieveMason 6 місяців тому

    sunscreen rec! the la roshe posay ultra fluid SPF 50 is AMAZING. first one I've found that layers perfectly under makeup.

  • @frshdumbledore2825
    @frshdumbledore2825 6 місяців тому +1

    Love the curly hair. Soo pretty❤❤

  • @sabrinaselby8360
    @sabrinaselby8360 6 місяців тому

    I really admire your explanation for keeping certain things private. It's completely fair and reasonable for you to not share everything. ❤

  • @lydiavernon530
    @lydiavernon530 6 місяців тому

    The Elta-MD sunscreen is everything

  • @leahmbutler
    @leahmbutler 6 місяців тому

    Your makeup looked FLAWLESS

  • @maddiereads88
    @maddiereads88 6 місяців тому

    the skin79 waterproof spf 50 is really good!☀️❤️

  • @delaneycuccaro8485
    @delaneycuccaro8485 6 місяців тому

    Your natural hair is so beautiful!!! What products do you use when wearing your natural hair?

  • @lilyschwartz.
    @lilyschwartz. 6 місяців тому

    I get so excited to see you’ve posted a weekly vlog and sometimes I even go back and rewatch them lol. Love seeing you take us along to the gym and errands :) I’m sorry the internet has made you feel like you need to stop sharing as much but protect your peace, you’re doing great 😌 ❣️

  • @abbyaitken2749
    @abbyaitken2749 6 місяців тому

    I’ve tried lots of sunscreens and my favorite is Kinship! I love it because I prefer a mineral sunscreen, but my sister prefers a chemical sunscreen so she loves supergoop! Those are two good options :)

  • @abigailricherson7812
    @abigailricherson7812 6 місяців тому

    I love the Hero Cosmetics Superlight sunscreen! It has ingredients that help with redness. They also have a tinted version but I’ve never tried it

  • @shaymaalattas9476
    @shaymaalattas9476 6 місяців тому

    my favorite sunscreen is the murad essential c day moisture broad spectrum spf 30. it soooo good, and very moisturizing.

  • @katgreer6113
    @katgreer6113 6 місяців тому +1

    I think staying with your parents is completely fine. It's mostly in America is see people my age move out at like 18...Like...just cus you're 18 does not mean you're ready to "be on your own" and navigate life like that. I think that's why so many young adults fall prey to irresponsible choices, bad decisions, and overall unpreparedness in life. Even at 21 its still fine. Again, I see this in mostly america and maybe Canada. In the UK, Mexico, India etc. its WAYYY more socially acceptable for people to keep staying with their parents. I lowkey think its ridiculous that people think they are so grown at only 18 and can do everything by themselves. Plus, it's a choice. You're making your own money and everything. Some people stay with their parents till their married! Like!!! There's no problem. Some people are so quick to get away from their family. Stay with your parents as long as they allow you and as long as you want.
    Also 18:31 the way Sara flipped Just for The Summer onto the blanket like that ☠️😂

  • @samanthajones2530
    @samanthajones2530 6 місяців тому

    Hi!! I use the Supergoop Unseen Sunscreen if you need a recommendation. It’s completely clear and it’s really smoothing so doubles as a primer! 🥰

  • @shyqyrienezha7918
    @shyqyrienezha7918 6 місяців тому +2

    Loving this weekly vlog des ❤❤❤

  • @Sof_rha
    @Sof_rha 6 місяців тому

    Your vlogs are the best❤ I’m glad you’re setting boundaries, sorry to hear that people were invasive in the comments:( also sunscreen rec : la roche posay anthelios invisible fluid. It’s light,absorbs quickly and protects your skin well :)