I’m on the autism spectrum myself, and I also have complex PTSD. And I’m totally blind. Anxiety and depression are a real thing for me. I don’t think a lot of people care or understand what it’s like. This is one of the many reasons why I isolate myself from the world. Because I know I’m quirky. And the CPTSD and anxiety and depression don’t really help. Music helps me to regulate though. Music and sensory items and equipment. I’ve been afraid, embarrassed and ashamed to share publicly that I was blind. Just because I know how the world works. There are people out there who don’t care, don’t understand, who don’t believe me, or who are just plain ignorant about it.
@Dr Yuching Lee the reason why I ask about blindness is because I have Septo Optic Dysplasia, which is a brain condition that causes blindness, and I’m one of the many people with this condition who is blind.
what i hate the most is sadly out of my control. people not understanding my body language. i feel guilty for not saying anything but hoping people would see me and recognise that im not ok even though i dont say to my friends that i feel miserable.
I was looking for a video like this, I wish it was longer. I have social anxiety and autism and I can't make others understand it's not easy for me to speak.
Oh wow. You were like: "Or get really chatty" And I am like: " Huh thats me anytime I'm in a n intense situation." Like for example when I started dating my current (and new) girlfriend. On the first date we took a nice long walk together and at some point ran out of stuff to talk, but I just kept on blabbering about the situation my feels etc. Cause I was so head over and felt good with her that I just tried over-playing my anxiousness. She stayed quite like thr shy type she is. But it didn't matter we connected in a very deep way and now I am happy to see where the relationship goes. And I've always been this way, cause when I am tense I don't like the quietness, it makes me go wild and my ADHD mind just blows up in thoughts over thoughts. So talking helps me to really get away from that inner hell
Yesterday I was at a Five Below with my dad and my sister looking for a birthday present. The music was too loud and between that, the bright lighting, too many things in the store in general and different conversations, I ended up having a sensory overload so, yeah, just wanted to share. Have a great day:afternoon/night!
I'm trying to not be overly negative, but I think this video FAR downplays what it means to experience anxiety. As a "person with autistic traits" (I have not be diagnosed) but with CPTSD, I have if not absolutely constant anxiety, then at least anxiety that is a major factor in my life. It wasn't until later in life that I even realized I had anxiety, because I probably never knew what it was like to live without it. Sensory stimuli, the struggle to control excruciatingly painful and powerful emotions, (conversely) the nagging that means I have unprocessed "hidden" emotions, anxiety related to the normal stressors of life, my brain's struggle with verbal language, the need to sometimes keep pushing FAR beyond my abilities, and even certain food additives (MSG and possibly some artificial sweeteners) all contribute to anxiety (which can be a mix of nervousness, fear, bottled-up energy, stress, and my brain's confusion and bafflement.)
I can't imagine how my life would be like without the high anxiety, and I also don't think I'd take chemicals to calm it down. I think I love being an autistic. Besides, I've been an autistic for sixty years now. Why would I wanna change who I am. Like everything else in life , it has ups and downs.
And no one understands it. They just label you 'emotional.' No one knows how much you just want to disappear, but you don't go that route, because of that one person whom you know it'd break their heart. So, you just keep suffering every day.
If i know i have to do something out of my normal routine ill start worrying days before. Ive always been this way. Same with driving. If im going somewhere ive never been ill write down my route. I dont use Google maps.
I might have never been diagnosed with autism but I do have destructive anxiety where if I get hurt or have anxiety attacks I start to hurt myself and pull my hair or bang my head. Kinda hard when people don’t understand why you may have a sensitivity to things if you’re not properly diagnosed with it. Like I have sensitivity with flickering lights in a store or restaurant but I don’t have epilepsy and can watch flash lights on a screen. It’s very confusing and wish society didn’t fuck over everyone who’s not the proper “standard”
When she mentioned sound, it hit home for me. Tone, frequency, and certain sounds at certain octaves can affect positively or negatively depending on the circumstances, scenario, surroundings, emotions, etc and it can affect me for several years before I understand how and why I was effected as such.
@@favourjohn312 the more you promote... whatever you are trying to promote, the less credibility you earn, as you have no evidence or proof backing up your claim. In fact you lose credibility by doing this. Those "ads" don't even spell victimization properly! It is spelt "vicitimiziation". A properly published website likely wouldn't have such obvious misspellings on their website.
Aspergers labeled & treated at time as bipolar knew the symtoms I had did not match but similar as I knew and felt different in how I socially acted . A long who Im I luckly one the consultants were so off the charts confontation and labeling anyone as and still is as alien as I felt. resilted in a legal request to be listened to. it resulted in me getting 42yr 43old test 1 time I suggested I think aspergers the written reponse a grandious eposide bipolal
I have a serious problem with getting anxiety from random, overly-specific things that logically should not bother other people yet somehow bother me. Must be my autism or something.
I think its me when it comes to someone shouting and insulting at me even family not at all and its makes me neglective is it called autism right? And i wasnt diagnosed since i was a kid and im trying to be cool and normal person it didnt work because of my anxiety attacks and so many fail and masturbate until thinking a suicide when i have feeling neglect and negativeb and im not, because ill keep always pray and pray
Sorry, but what was that popping sound at the beginning if your video? It was very loud and disturbing. Could you please remove it from the video? I think a lot of people sensitive to sounds would be grateful for that.
I can't really focus on the content because you're speaking in a scottish accent XD Sorry that's how I'm easily getting distracted :( Don't hate me please x(
I’m on the autism spectrum myself, and I also have complex PTSD. And I’m totally blind. Anxiety and depression are a real thing for me. I don’t think a lot of people care or understand what it’s like. This is one of the many reasons why I isolate myself from the world. Because I know I’m quirky. And the CPTSD and anxiety and depression don’t really help. Music helps me to regulate though. Music and sensory items and equipment. I’ve been afraid, embarrassed and ashamed to share publicly that I was blind. Just because I know how the world works. There are people out there who don’t care, don’t understand, who don’t believe me, or who are just plain ignorant about it.
I can relate. I am autistic mother with 2 autistic sons & also have CPTSD. So good to hear from you! 😉😇🤗🤳
@Dr Yuching Lee lol does it help you get over PTSD or anxiety? I don’t fall for spammers.
@Dr Yuching Lee will they help with CPTSD? That’s the main issue I deal with.
@Dr Yuching Lee does it help cure blindness?
@Dr Yuching Lee the reason why I ask about blindness is because I have Septo Optic Dysplasia, which is a brain condition that causes blindness, and I’m one of the many people with this condition who is blind.
what i hate the most is sadly out of my control. people not understanding my body language. i feel guilty for not saying anything but hoping people would see me and recognise that im not ok even though i dont say to my friends that i feel miserable.
@WhiteMan-ku9gc I'm too young for this... also I'm not looking for some drug/herb to 'fix' me.
@@jellylemonade1655 its a bot trying to scam you
@@ownmicelio yeah ik, seen the same comment on plenty of videos on autism.
I was looking for a video like this, I wish it was longer. I have social anxiety and autism and I can't make others understand it's not easy for me to speak.
I feel similarly. And when I do speak it's usually a long ramble.
Ah, mine's the opposite because my social anxiety keeps it short@@mattfleming86
I was so excited to hear Fern Brady voice! I’m learning to manage my anxiety and autism
she's so great!
Oh wow.
You were like: "Or get really chatty"
And I am like: " Huh thats me anytime I'm in a n intense situation."
Like for example when I started dating my current (and new) girlfriend. On the first date we took a nice long walk together and at some point ran out of stuff to talk, but I just kept on blabbering about the situation my feels etc. Cause I was so head over and felt good with her that I just tried over-playing my anxiousness.
She stayed quite like thr shy type she is.
But it didn't matter we connected in a very deep way and now I am happy to see where the relationship goes.
And I've always been this way, cause when I am tense I don't like the quietness, it makes me go wild and my ADHD mind just blows up in thoughts over thoughts.
So talking helps me to really get away from that inner hell
Talking gives me this effect too
Yesterday I was at a Five Below with my dad and my sister looking for a birthday present.
The music was too loud and between that, the bright lighting, too many things in the store in general and different conversations, I ended up having a sensory overload so, yeah, just wanted to share.
Have a great day:afternoon/night!
I'm trying to not be overly negative, but I think this video FAR downplays what it means to experience anxiety. As a "person with autistic traits" (I have not be diagnosed) but with CPTSD, I have if not absolutely constant anxiety, then at least anxiety that is a major factor in my life. It wasn't until later in life that I even realized I had anxiety, because I probably never knew what it was like to live without it. Sensory stimuli, the struggle to control excruciatingly painful and powerful emotions, (conversely) the nagging that means I have unprocessed "hidden" emotions, anxiety related to the normal stressors of life, my brain's struggle with verbal language, the need to sometimes keep pushing FAR beyond my abilities, and even certain food additives (MSG and possibly some artificial sweeteners) all contribute to anxiety (which can be a mix of nervousness, fear, bottled-up energy, stress, and my brain's confusion and bafflement.)
Like x100000
Agree. I find that my mind is rarely if ever calm . There’s a few mini fires going on in it at all times
Bro are we sharing the same brain or what
1.2k like. Very nice video I don't have autism but I struggle with social anxiety and its nice to hear it being explained properly.
I can't imagine how my life would be like without the high anxiety, and I also don't think I'd take chemicals to calm it down. I think I love being an autistic. Besides, I've been an autistic for sixty years now. Why would I wanna change who I am. Like everything else in life , it has ups and downs.
I hate it, it affects me everyday in different ways
And no one understands it. They just label you 'emotional.' No one knows how much you just want to disappear, but you don't go that route, because of that one person whom you know it'd break their heart. So, you just keep suffering every day.
I jumped at the first knock :( so weird that sensory issues is mentioned, yet you've chosen to put a crazy pop sound at the start of this video..
this is the video that i wanted, thanks!
If i know i have to do something out of my normal routine ill start worrying days before. Ive always been this way.
Same with driving. If im going somewhere ive never been ill write down my route. I dont use Google maps.
I have this too!!!!
The music in this makes me anxious lol
I might have never been diagnosed with autism but I do have destructive anxiety where if I get hurt or have anxiety attacks I start to hurt myself and pull my hair or bang my head. Kinda hard when people don’t understand why you may have a sensitivity to things if you’re not properly diagnosed with it. Like I have sensitivity with flickering lights in a store or restaurant but I don’t have epilepsy and can watch flash lights on a screen. It’s very confusing and wish society didn’t fuck over everyone who’s not the proper “standard”
When she mentioned Light it hit home I tell people and they think I'm crazy
When she mentioned sound, it hit home for me. Tone, frequency, and certain sounds at certain octaves can affect positively or negatively depending on the circumstances, scenario, surroundings, emotions, etc and it can affect me for several years before I understand how and why I was effected as such.
@@favourjohn312 the more you promote... whatever you are trying to promote, the less credibility you earn, as you have no evidence or proof backing up your claim. In fact you lose credibility by doing this. Those "ads" don't even spell victimization properly! It is spelt "vicitimiziation". A properly published website likely wouldn't have such obvious misspellings on their website.
@@favourjohn312 You obviously liked your own comment. Reporting as spam.
informative video for people around who dont understand
Aspergers labeled & treated at time as bipolar knew the symtoms I had did not match but similar as I knew and felt different in how I socially acted . A long who Im I luckly one the consultants were so off the charts confontation and labeling anyone as and still is as alien as I felt. resilted in a legal request to be listened to. it resulted in me getting 42yr 43old test 1 time I suggested I think aspergers the written reponse a grandious eposide bipolal
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I never really understood what anxiety is. but now I think I got it.
I feel sad : ( I have PTSD, autism, and Schizoaffective as a mixed black boy this is lonely
I have a serious problem with getting anxiety from random, overly-specific things that logically should not bother other people yet somehow bother me. Must be my autism or something.
*_You need to stop with these fucking unproven fake cures._*
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Great video
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I think its me when it comes to someone shouting and insulting at me even family not at all and its makes me neglective is it called autism right? And i wasnt diagnosed since i was a kid and im trying to be cool and normal person it didnt work because of my anxiety attacks and so many fail and masturbate until thinking a suicide when i have feeling neglect and negativeb and im not, because ill keep always pray and pray
Sorry, but what was that popping sound at the beginning if your video? It was very loud and disturbing. Could you please remove it from the video? I think a lot of people sensitive to sounds would be grateful for that.
I can't really focus on the content because you're speaking in a scottish accent XD
Sorry that's how I'm easily getting distracted :(
Don't hate me please x(