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My ex was a girl like Nicole, she was kind of shy, she never drank and she was a virgin when I met her, her girlfriends however were a mess, they would sleep with literally anyone who said "hi" to them. One day she tells me about this girls trip to Acapulco because of one of the girlfriend's birthday, me, as the bluepill beta I was back then, tried to show confidence in myself letting her go even feeling uncomfortable about it. We broke up a couple of years later and one good day one of her girlfriends told me that my ex kissed in the club with another guy and then "dissapeared" for like 20 minutes. Moral of the story. She can be an angel of a girl, but crazy environment with crazy people can turn a good girl into a whore at any moment.
Very true! Women are much more influenced by their environnement than men. Evolutionary that make sense, there ancestors,by being physically weaker than men, have done anything to survive so adapt to a new group was absolutely necessary. Remember that tribs were fighting and the winner would take the women. Loyal women died because they resisted and the one who adapt pass on their genes.
@@elsa_nyc my ex admitted she did kiss the guy. These girls were her classmates in university, she didn´t have many options to choose friends since they were just 5 girls in her class. It was odd indeed.
I worked as a security guard every Fri / Sat night for over a year... Every weekend i had groups of girls trying it on.. Even those with Bfs or husbands.. They are like animals when drink is involved.. I remember a 27 year old women who was gorgeous to say the least coming and chatting to me most of the night... I saw she had a ring and i asked about it... her response " Yeah im getting married in one week so i still have time to play " .. She approached me again ( Kicking out time ) To say she was staying at a hotel if i wanted to join.. I told her to shut up and get home to her fiance.. her response " Boo hoo you are no fun " ... You cant ever full trust a women.. EVER !
are you serious man??? Aint no way. I legit want to be proven wrong on guys suspicions on girls trips. And if what you say is true then i gotta add this to my "evidence" locker
Rich could’ve named this video ‘Girl Code in Action’. Several girls were enthusiastic about GNO at first but Nicole laid down the girl code & they all got in line. They were perfect angels by the end of the video. smh
What You observed was an extension of what they call Girl Power. They pride themselves on their telepathic abilities. What they conveniently forget in an open forum is when a Man is on His A-game He's also hyper visual. That place where He can and is willing to study their involuntary Body responses that don't always agree. What makes women beautiful and/or Ugly as hell is when their body language agrees 100% with their words.
Men are independent, women are group-oriented. Women everywhere will always follow girl code for survival, whereas men innately know it only takes 3.5% of a population to bring about a successful revolution.
Nicole is actually the wildest one of these four women combined, I'd put any money on it. She's the worst kind, she puts up a front of being a reserved woman who's never drank a sip or partied in her life, but her contentious attitude towards male instruction revealed itself as the video went on.
One thing I’ve noticed about woman mate is that they’re chameleons, you think you can pick ‘em you can’t. Take a guess that’s about it. So what I’m saying is I’m agreeing with you. I’ll never forget when I met this slut for a one night stand, she approached me on bumble, asked me to meet at a bar and then proceed to her house. She came across so tacky and slutty, it was borderline repulsive. She was hot though and I wanted to get laid. Anyway after that she got attached to me and wanted to date me. I continued to see her as I wanted the regular sex. But what I found was that the chick I met and approached me was never seen again, she became a whole different person to try and lock me down for good. Had I not seen her slut side I’d probably still be with her. Was a huge red pill moment for me.
Amber is pretty honest though. You know she's gonna go to a party and cheat on you. Nicole seems like the lady that cheats on her man and will just lie her whole life "I don't drink or do anything wrong"
Started to be excited about Nicole then she starts gaslighting and flipping the script there at the end and Rich is just smiling and sitting back. Its amazing how quickly women can read the room and adjust their lie accordingly. Scary but neat to watch in real time.
nothing new here - men worked out female behaviour a very long time ago - hence strong patriarchial societies kept this bullshit in check. The demise of Western society is directly linked to allowing women to play out these behaviours, do whatever they want and become influential in the governance of our societies.
Rich's and Moff's approach is just fine. If a woman approaches you with wanting to go on a girl's night or trip, you just found out that's a woman you don't want in your life anyway.
😱So, maybe I’ve lived under a rock for too many years…since when is a ‘girl’s night out’ or a trip with gal friends, NOT OK?…even if the girl in question, is attached or married. Also… And, what if it’s with a group of gal friends…with 1 friend who is the ‘bride-to-be’ and other girl pals as part of the pre-wedding party. Is that not ok either???
@@Killersushiofficial If your girlfriend/spouse/wife wants to go, she is letting you behind. Even if she comes back to you, she already was OK with letting you behind. It's very easy to understand.
Nicole, we know what happens on Girls Trips. Men take all the risk in a relationship. You can Zero a man out in divorce court. If you cannot accept that his boundary is an automatic no for Girls Trip you do not deserve that man.
Well Amber's parents never told her no so any sort of boundary or restriction sounds like controlling language to her. And she wonders why she ends up with guys that don't treat her as more than recreational use only
Double standards do not exist with me. I think if your bf goes on guys trips, you're granted girls trips. & whether dating, married, engaged, who cares...go if you want to, because you should be with someone who trusts you, and would encourage you to Have a Life! This immature controlling behavior is absolutely Ridiculous!
I had a failure idiot beg me to tell her what I wanted of her…I told her I didn’t want her to do anything but be herself 😉🫣🤣 fastest way for a man to make up HIS mind is to let his girl do HER thing 🫣😂
@@bellakim9404prob why you’re single and never married or with a beta male simp. Lol high value men avoid women like you trust. I pull 6 figures plus and would never pay you any attention!
Types like the last girl are the most dangerous ones, they pretend being good and shy etc. but when they get into proper situation they do it all. The worst is they're gonna lie and gaslight to the end. An absolute headache
I worked 2 jobs, (MD office & retail) volunteered at a museum on the weekend, church on Sunday. I had no time for "girl's trips" I didn't even have time to date, much. Met my husband through the museum - 34 years ago. I didn't need to "go clubbing" to find my match. He found me, rescuing me from my boring life and it's been a literal "world-wide" adventure together.
If your woman even expresses interest in a party girls trip, run. Even if she agrees not to go, she's an infidelity waiting to happen, or has happened.
Or, could be an opportunity to see how she behaves on said trip. Get the details and have her tailed. She may surprise. Of course I’m giving the benefit of a doubt here but that may be better than the nuclear option in some cases.
@@henryhenderson7051 No. I'm sorry to break it to you but no. If she's willing to let you behind for such a trivial reason, you're done. Think she will be there for you if you really need her and stay with, work harder to be able to offer you her support? You should take your time to think things over. She's coming back and tell you she was a model girl and she was thinking about you and was missing you every minute of every hour and you will believe her, of course. A few years later, you get divorced and have your kids taken from you. This happens when "she" is willing to let you behind, no matter the reason.
Even though I truly regard women as equals (equals in the context of both genders having their roles), I have achieved the best results by treating them as if they were grown-up children. Setting boundaries, holding them accountable, asserting healthy authority, and interacting with them as if they aren't completely dependable. Loving them for who they are while expecting them to grow. Not expecting them to fully comprehend how to empathize with me.
yes and no, if you look at women in the past (before feminism happened), you can see that they were way more mature and responsible, because they had to adhere to their gender role. I don‘t envy them though, because being immature makes things harder later in life.
@@oXyureNon Yeah i was talking more about the present state of female nature. In the time of our forefathers, women were far more mentally mature, feminine, and traditional.
Its a dilemma isnt it? I am in that same position and share your beliefs but it hurts me to the core that i have to treat an adult as a child i have to take care of. How do you align those different systems?
@@iamsyourdadi You don't. I'm at a point in my life where I have no desire nor interest in changing people because I've realized that in order for people to truly change, they must do so for themselves, preferably after going through a life experience traumatic enough to cause them to voluntarily update their belief system. I understand how inconvenient it is to have to treat women like grown-up children, but that is how they have chosen to behave on their own free will. They usually realize their mistake when it's too late and way past the wall; I've just learned to live with it and focus on improving myself and protecting my assets.
I live in southern Spain and let me tell you watching woman on "holiday" almost made me lose faith in women. Its some wild things going on. Even dating apps here the majority are "single" women coming on holiday looking for hookups. Same with digital nomad women, just traveling to a new place every week hooking up with men in the hundreds, even women in their 40`s its crazy.
Lemme guess: they visit museums, monuments & landmarks while taking wholesome photos of things *other* than themselves to send to their significant others? No? They... do huge amounts of recreational drugs and sloppily hook up with random dudes while taking selfies of themselves on boats & at resorts? Wow. My worldview is completely shattered.
It was interesting to see Nicole go from the “I don’t do any of those things” to “If he tells me no, I’m not going” she changes her tune and she then wants to go. Aka-Rebellious. Wonder if her father had issues with rebellion with her.
Yeah it's suspicious that unlike all others she was right on the topic and knew "how to play it". The whole idea of "not going by male instruction" reveals her real attitude she wouldn't want "constraining" by man/relationship so she would push those "boundaries"
Now women in the west are losing to the good women abroad they are.trying to pretend they are changing but western women have already lost because of feminism. Most women abroad are brought up to be wives and mothers and understand what men really want and even the ones who are boss babies still cater to their man as they except Gods rule of a man being the head of the household and they are his support even if they earn more money than him. Western women just can't relate to this concept so most of them will die alone. Even those that get married most will die alone because they don't understand how to keep a man so will end up divorced and alone.
If a guy has the right mindset and is not a weak simp he understands all women are replaceable. You can love a woman but you must still be able to walk away if she isn't faithful to you. You can never completely give her your heart. Not in today's society of looking for the next new experience as once they start to get bored with their man they going looking for the next new experience keeping you in the backup position in case the branch they are jumping to breaks. Believe me when I say I would not be there to break their fall. Let them suffer for the choice they made. Their would be No hanging around for excuses or reasons as I already know the reasons, I have studied the Hoes handbook Cover to Cover. No explanation necessary Just leave let they see how once your not their support their cheating partner won't want them either as he knows they cheat on you they will cheat on him also. He just wanted the goods with no responsibility to actually take of her.
Amber is for the streets man! She knows good and damn well no man is inviting her on his yacht just to "drink and have fun" and that's it. Stop capping. You know what it's about and you'd be down for it just to be in the company of a baller. Shania seems alright though, especially for a model.
@@samjon6403It’s in a woman’s nature to go after the tree in the garden. This is what Eve did in the garden of Eden. The tree represented all that was in the world which was the lust of the flesh and the pride of life. The serpent was also able to deceive her because he was subtle and used smooth words which is another weakness for a woman.
@antbrown1976 Amber is actually an open book and less of a hassle,what you see is what you get. The one you'd really have to worry about is 'good quiet girl ' Nicole. She displays all the manipulative and pathological liar/narcissist traits. She'd fuck your life up worse than all the other three combined.
Wow - that was some insane Gaslighting at the end by that Nicole girl. “You aren’t invested in my growth if you don’t stand passively by while I continue to act like I’m single and cheat on you. Also how dare you for having boundaries and saying “no” for my request to cheat. I asked nicely!”
The one on the bottom, that was talking shit at the end, defo gets railed when she goes out. That last comment was ridiculous. A lot of women would just lie, so they could go.
When I first got together with my now wife, I told her "no girls trips, no going out at night without me". When she pushed back, i told her these are my boundaries, and if you are not willing to go along, you can take a hike - in those exact words. She hasnt brought up either since, because she knows I was serious and she intuitively understands the consequences if she was to try to bend these guidelines. Fellas, if you want your woman to be loyal to you, or you dont want to wonder if youre the father, if she gets pregnant - draw the line in the sand, before you commit or otherwise she will walk all over you.
@@RTSBone Im not sure there is anything wrong with having an IG account, as long as she is not using it to pose half naked, to get attention from other men. I have a hard time seeing how a woman would be able to use same IG account to show off her body and use it for a legitimate business purpose simultenously. Unless she is an OF or porn actress, Either way, if that is your boundary, you simply communicate it very directly BEFORE offering commitment. When she comes to you asking "what are we?" or "isnt it time to take the next step" you simply say "I enjoy the time I spend with you, but will never commit to a woman who shows her body online for other mens attention. If you want something more with me, you know what to do"
@@AC95089 Id correct her first, but I would divorce her no problem if it repeated. For now, I have zero indication from her actions that this will be an issue for us.
Nikole's final segment: No, we're NOT having a "conversation" about your proposed girl's trip, because there will be no truth in her responses to our questions, i.e., irrespective of how virtuous her friends are, the venues they are planning to attend, etc., she will never EVER volunteer that she is going for the purpose of getting wild while not under your supervision, she will always minimize and deflect the convo away from her promiscuity opportunities.
Correct. The conversation only serves her. It gives her a chance to swaddle your mind in convincing lies, deceive you, gaslight you into feeling bad for even having standards
I remember going to an adult resort in Mexico, and I met three girls there on a “bachelorette party”. These girl all had very professional jobs, and they all three were a legit 8 minimum. The bride to be had behavior that seemed like fiction. She was literally having all the sex she could have, and she could have a lot. My friend that was with me said, “my fiancé may go on a bachelorette party like this, but we aren’t getting married, when she gets back”.
Wanna ruin your LT relationship? Go for a girl's night out in Vegas or downtown! Used to go out when I was young and quickly realized what type of dudes and women are in the clubs, and it was not for me. Now, When we have a boys night out, we go down to the river, fishing or setup a fire-pit in the backyard. When she goes out with the girls, she'd be hanging out with whores, pimps, dealers and thirsty tribal dudes whom only wanna smash and move on. If you are a guy and you support your woman wanting to go out, You are with the wrong chick! and you need to grow some spine to let her know, if she goes out to a club without you, she'd buy herself a one way ticket out of your life.
My X went to Vegas the first night she got there she told me that the plane trip was exhausting and that she was just going to bed and was turning her phone OFF , I immediately knew she was lying ...... Moral of the story don't allow this shit EVER.
She thought you were an idiot. Good for you for not falling for that bs. But I think you should have ended it for her even asking to go. Especially without you.
Why not allowing it? Allow it to know exactly who you are dealing with. If she wants to go without you, it means she's willing to let you behind so you move on and tell her you're done while she's gone or when she's back. She will ask why, she will cry, she will tell you she was a good girl. Truth is not among the things a woman tells to the man she left behind.
Lmao yep your the same as how my husband sees it like I wouldnt even go there it would 1 make him feel super disrespected and 2 he would like NOT be ok with me far away parting and dancing on guys, getting wasted When he goes on trips with friends they go to a dive bar in Wisconsin and jet ski they don't get all fancy and dress to the nines for attention to get hit on - he knows thats what we like doing i mean im a maeried woman now and know not to to play like im single or I won't have a good marriage duh 😅
So... 10:05 Nicole's point, is that investing in our woman's "growth" is letting them go willie-nillie to yacht trips and parties as if they were going to be offered a business deal, or meet very important people that will change their lives, a spokesperson or what have you; or an epiphany, spiritual enlightenment or whatever. You gotta be kidding, right? So she's coming from the point of view that nothing wrong (a very wide term here) is gonna happen. Are her friends single, with a history of bad choices, hookups and breakups? What's the nature of a girls night out (usually the answer is not Nicole's nor Shania's hangouts style but debauchery) and why the insistence of going if within a healthy relationship? Why expose to the filth of public gaze and opinions instead of respecting her man's boundaries, if of course is her capital "M", Man? Yet, the answer lies in her reaction, she doesn't want to relinquish her "freedom" (which is a false sense once inside of a relationship, because you don't lose it but needs to be previously negotiated). Gentlemen, a woman that gives you a fuzz for not letting her getting what she wants, specially the experience of getting out with the "girlz" at night to parties where alcohol, drugs and hungry wolves are involved, you know very well that the least they're gonna do is to drink tea, pray and chat about fancy matters and such.
I was on vacation in Mykonos with three buddies back when we were in our late 20s. We met a group of 6 women, late 30s to mid 40s or something. They were from Texas. One of my buddies secured a threesome with the two asian american women of the group, both married with a ring on the finger. Kinda hilarious to see how thirsty one of them was for him(even though obviously they had drunk a lot of alcohol as well). They were plain looking so not exactly a brag, but just goes to show what married women are engaging in when they are thousands of miles away from their husbands on a "girls trip". Sad and pathetic.
It's interesting how girls' trips are always dressing sexy and going out to get drink alcohol and meet lots of new guys. Guys hanging out with the fellas usually means something like a BBQ, going fishing, watching sports, or playing card games.
(1) Girlfriends are better than wives. (2) Let your girl do her thing. She ought not to be living in your house anyway. So if she goes you can block. (3) If she wants to go somewhere without you then you really aren't important enough to her. (4) Smart men don't get married.
My sisters a nurse and single mom, I've seen her go on these trips with girls much younger than her that I know are 304s, its a small town, everyone knows they're the town bicycles. Ive tried telling her its not in her best interest but she wont listen, the sisterhood is too strong, my sister is an idiot
I absolutely LOVE the word-salad these women deploy to try to convince their men that something as egregious as a (typical) girls trip is somehow OK. The answer to: "Honey, are you okay if I go on a trip with my girlfriends??" is ALWAYS, "Yes, but you will be single upon your return." Any other answer is simping, and we all KNOW how simps get treated...
She will cheat anyway in other situations, and with more "reasons" now because she feel it like an ego battle. The only way to prevent this is with men of value, those who call their husbands when they know their GF or wives want to cheat with them. Do those men exist? no, they rather to take advantage of it. So, be ready to be cheated. The only women that have more chances of not lying are those conservatives who really wants a home life. The rest are for the streets.
I don't know why you waste your time with creatures that don't even know what they wanna eat in the next second or what they wanna do. There's no point of asking them any questions because they have no idea about anything bro. that's just the way God made them. so don't try to fix them just understand the creature you're dealing with.
If you sit in a barbershop long enough you'll get your haircut. If you are in a committed relationship you shouldn't going places where hooking up is encouraged without your romantic partner.
Was in Mallorca, Spain on the beach - bachelorette party going on. Two girls wanted to get me for the bridge... If your girl has such friends, you don't need any enemies as a man. Party, alcohol, single friends, far away from home, only once... I don’t have to explain myself. I expect her to not go on girlstrips, because if she wanted it basically too late... NO WAY!
Classic woman move at the end by Nicole. Men, don't negotiate with women. Hold frame. If she leaves because of it and actually leaves for good, you saved yourself a whole lot of trouble.
I lived in a resort town that was frequented by hen parties before the days of social media, the groups were either well behaved monogamous types or rampant madheads was no in between.
I've been to Cancun during spring break... I've never seen anything like it. Hell Aruba is chill, and that's wild as hell... Women literally just walk up to you and kiss you, or more. They come to these places for that. See even Nicole is confused, this is why I don't even think relationships are a thing anymore. Even the so called ones who want to act like Angels are feminist! Why would you want to be in a relationship with any of these girls?
Bruh. Shania said she never touched alcohol or weed or anything. That's a LIE, you can look at her and tell that's a lie, she's tatted up and experienced like lady please lol
Fellas... NEVER let your girlfriend or wife travel without you. I recently went on a solo vacation overseas where I met this sweet cute girl at the shopping mall who was also there on vacation (from a nearby city) to visit friends and family. We hung out a couple of times, one thing led to another and she ended up in my hotel room. We spent a week together and had the hottest s3x you can imagine. All the nasty stuff... we did it all. A few days after I left I found out she has a bf back home who she lives with and has been with for a few years. I feel so horrible, especially knowing everything we did together. Poor guy has no idea what his girl really got up to. Strange thing is, she doesn't look like the type to do that sort of thing.
1) How could you find out that she has a boyfriend back home unless she gave you her socials and/or outright told you about her situation. 2)Did you let the boyfriend know of what you did, or at least let him know that she cheated on him with someone. 3)If you did not let him know, then you don't feel so horrible and that's nonsense. Poor guy doesn't have to just worry about his girl, he has to worry about dudes who don't follow the code as well.
@@PGO_Gaming Her texting behavior changed dramatically after I left, so I googled her name and eventually found her social media pages. She told me she was single, but not looking for anything serious or long-term. I don't know who the guy is, he's not connected to her social media, and his name was not mentioned (I already checked thoroughly). And yes I do feel horrible, I would NEVER have fooled around with her had I known.
That's EXACTLY THE PROBLEM and Rich has mentioned this BEFORE: women will NEVER include any men they are in a relationship with on their social media accounts! It's only THEM!
Women tend to lie so that’s why as a guy being straight up when asserting your boundary is a necessity. Have had the “oh I would never do anything like that…” from what I thought to be the sweetest girl in the world. Turns out she would.
Lol Nicole is coping super hard with her last prompt. If you fuck up in your duties as a man, they won't give you the same chance they are asking you in return. A woman who doesn't understand and first needs to argue with me about these topics, is for me an automatic red flag.
When a woman comes off as she doesnt doing anything wrong is definetly red flags to me. Dont drink, no drugs, Go to bed early, Dont really party and is still single? Run fast
I don't know what percentage of Rich's audience is female I'm going to assume it's a tiny amount. Ladies let me put this in a way you might be able to understand. Imagine your in a relationship with a guy you love. Butterflies in your stomach feeling giddy, the feeling of excitement the whole nine yards. One day he walks up to you out of the blue and says "I'm going out of town with Laura for a few days, see you when I get back." You having no idea who laura is proceed to look her up and you see she's a snowbunny with nothing but thirst traps all over a Facebook and Instagram. You get that cold feeling of fear in the pit of your stomach because you know exactly what's about to happen and your powerless to stop it. You object and say honey I really don't want you to go to which he replies by calling you toxic and controlling and just leaves without elaborating further. You hear nothing from your man for 2 weeks. That panic anger and stress your feeling because your not nieve and you know exactly what's happening is exactly how we feel when you pull this girls trip to Vegas nonsense. We weren't born yesterday. We know exactly what's going down and if you insist on putting your boyfriend through that turmoil you shouldn't be in a relationship to begin with it's sadistic and in some cases it seems like you get off on it.
Definitely puts things in perspective when you flip things around. It's been so normalized to humiliate and emasculate guys that it's hardly ever noticed anymore.
@@RevellAndRepend I'm going to assume your a guy because no western woman in 2023 would concede to a mans view point. So alas the paragraph makes no difference in the end. We're just a bunch of guys trying not to get cucked because fuck dat shit.🤣
The moment my girlfriend or my wife wants to go to a girl's trip, I definitely say nothing against. The moment my girlfriend or wife comes back, we're done. I don't care what she say she did or didn't do in that trip, we're done. The moment one of the partners is going, the other partner is left behind. This is the real meaning of it.
Not if you live in Wyoming! The ratio is poor to begin with, the quality of women is even poorer! Winter last for 6 months here and chics don't dig that crap.
Hey! No problem with strong independent women. Just leave them to their strong independence and when they need help let them see how men have to handle life.
Letting your woman loose in a drunken partying type position target rich social position, is tempting fate. It's an even bigger problem if your woman has never been told "no" in life, or respects your boundaries. If she goes, have her bags packed, on the front porch, and new dooor locks installed, before she gets back.
at 10:40 It describes EXACTLY how I reacted to my EX GF (curious no ?) I said, you really going to a girl night ? I'm uncomfortable, who is with you ? I'd like to understand. She simply gaslighted me and lied to my face. Rich approach "you'll be single when you come home" is in fact realistic in some cases.
Men must change. Men must change. We cannot remain protectors if we and relationships are taken for granted like this. A lot of men are stupid and Amber will most likely get married to a stupid man but if you’re a man that values yourself you must be in control of your household. Always remember you can get someone else. Dont put up with any women like the ones on this video
"If i was with a high value man and was invited by another man to party on his yacht I would call him and ask him if it's ok..." Yah, okey dokey. First - for her to even entertain the thought is enough to get a new girl Second - what high value guy is going to be ok with that??? Lack of logic there. She's a chick you put in the rotation for a good time, nothing more. She's incapable of being a good choice.
Any man that lets a woman disrespect him by taking a girl’s trip deserves what he gets. Obviously, only a 304 would have the desire for this destructive behavior!
Amber is a walking red flag. Girls trips are notoriously likely to involve either hooking up OR using men to pay for drinks, the boat etc etc. men’s trips are not like that at all. Btw ever notice any movie about guys getting drunk and doing dumb stuff is about them realizing they did dumb stuff and trying to correct course. Where is the girls movies are them doing dumb stuff and then trying to do even more dumb stuff.
Nicole deserves a man with a low self-esteem. Most women especially healthy ones, want a confident man who says what he means and means what he says. Nicole's child "mommy can I please eat dinner already" "oh sweety, you asked so nice but no fcn way."
The approach versus the message 😆 thats how the game starts kings. U cant say no flat out. What nicole said is a good example of how women ropes u in into a 'conversation' about your boundaries. Once ure roped in, that conversation becomes a negotiation. Next thing u know shes pushing the boundaries. Ive learned from the red pill and experience that the answer to this is not to be a good negotiator but to have options. Not just with women but in life as a whole. Their responses to a flat out no is usually shaming u. "If ure a real man and invested in her growth blah blah blah.' Stay sharp kings. 👑
Her growth involves traveling to far places without you to go on strange men's Yatchs for drinks and conversations, or going to dimly lit venues full of sexy singles, alcohol, loud sexy music, lowered inhibitions, and blind eyes looking the other way. Her growth couldn't be at home with a musical instrument or a paint brush. Her growth couldn't be a day trip accompanied by you to the museum of her choice to learn about culture and art.
Those were my thoughts as well. The 'conversation' is her trying to find your weak points, your emotional blind spots, how can she manipulate you, etc. She wants to find your emotional string of attachment to that "insecurity" or "discomfort" with the situation and attempt to tell you "it'll be ok, nothing will happen".
If you are a good and mature Man, and if your intention is the growth of your woman, and make her come out stronger and mature then why would you stop her from taking all the girl trips😅 she must be really crazy to believe that men are so naive. Amongst the 4 Ladies, the only fans girl was at least straight up telling what kind of a girl she is, but it was Nicole who I would say Is the wolf in sheep's clothing. Basically all 4 are 304 types.
View it through the lens of: Even if a woman is single and has no kids, none will fight to make the family courts more fair for fathers. They protect the collective, (The sisterhood). So even if they don't drink alcohol, they will not criticize the majority who would definately go "live thier best life". The mask of "You can trust me" is true until it isn't since they follow thier emotions.
The is it’s never about wether or not you would cheat, it’s about putting yourself in situations that could cause that. You can’t actually promise someone you will never cheat, you can only promise that you won’t put yourself in that situation.
Any man who 's girl asks him about a "Girl's Trip " it's his fault be cause he chose this thot. No responsible woman I know would even waste the time to think about that nonsense.
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My ex was a girl like Nicole, she was kind of shy, she never drank and she was a virgin when I met her, her girlfriends however were a mess, they would sleep with literally anyone who said "hi" to them.
One day she tells me about this girls trip to Acapulco because of one of the girlfriend's birthday, me, as the bluepill beta I was back then, tried to show confidence in myself letting her go even feeling uncomfortable about it.
We broke up a couple of years later and one good day one of her girlfriends told me that my ex kissed in the club with another guy and then "dissapeared" for like 20 minutes.
Moral of the story. She can be an angel of a girl, but crazy environment with crazy people can turn a good girl into a whore at any moment.
Very true! Women are much more influenced by their environnement than men. Evolutionary that make sense, there ancestors,by being physically weaker than men, have done anything to survive so adapt to a new group was absolutely necessary. Remember that tribs were fighting and the winner would take the women. Loyal women died because they resisted and the one who adapt pass on their genes.
She's no way a 'good girl' but a vicious 2 faced manipulator
Bingo!! Being anonymous allows very different behaviors to emerge!!!!
Or the crazy friend of the ex-lied about it....I was never a partner or drinker and my close friends weren't either. It seems like an odd pairing.
@@elsa_nyc my ex admitted she did kiss the guy. These girls were her classmates in university, she didn´t have many options to choose friends since they were just 5 girls in her class. It was odd indeed.
I worked as a security guard every Fri / Sat night for over a year... Every weekend i had groups of girls trying it on.. Even those with Bfs or husbands.. They are like animals when drink is involved..
I remember a 27 year old women who was gorgeous to say the least coming and chatting to me most of the night... I saw she had a ring and i asked about it... her response " Yeah im getting married in one week so i still have time to play " .. She approached me again ( Kicking out time ) To say she was staying at a hotel if i wanted to join.. I told her to shut up and get home to her fiance.. her response " Boo hoo you are no fun " ...
You cant ever full trust a women.. EVER !
Disgusting woman.
are you serious man??? Aint no way. I legit want to be proven wrong on guys suspicions on girls trips. And if what you say is true then i gotta add this to my "evidence" locker
That never happened....
Rich could’ve named this video ‘Girl Code in Action’. Several girls were enthusiastic about GNO at first but Nicole laid down the girl code & they all got in line. They were perfect angels by the end of the video. smh
What You observed was an extension of what they call Girl Power. They pride themselves on their telepathic abilities. What they conveniently forget in an open forum is when a Man is on His A-game He's also hyper visual. That place where He can and is willing to study their involuntary Body responses that don't always agree. What makes women beautiful and/or Ugly as hell is when their body language agrees 100% with their words.
Men are independent, women are group-oriented. Women everywhere will always follow girl code for survival, whereas men innately know it only takes 3.5% of a population to bring about a successful revolution.
@@d.l4055nailed it. When guys get dialed in, I'd argue they're even better nonverbal comms than women.
These ladies forget that we all have met and had fun with girls on "girls trip" ...not to mention "bachelorette parties"
@@d.l4055 Rollo wrote an interesting essay about what you say titled "The Feminine Mystique"
Nicole is actually the wildest one of these four women combined, I'd put any money on it. She's the worst kind, she puts up a front of being a reserved woman who's never drank a sip or partied in her life, but her contentious attitude towards male instruction revealed itself as the video went on.
One thing I’ve noticed about woman mate is that they’re chameleons, you think you can pick ‘em you can’t. Take a guess that’s about it. So what I’m saying is I’m agreeing with you.
I’ll never forget when I met this slut for a one night stand, she approached me on bumble, asked me to meet at a bar and then proceed to her house. She came across so tacky and slutty, it was borderline repulsive. She was hot though and I wanted to get laid. Anyway after that she got attached to me and wanted to date me. I continued to see her as I wanted the regular sex. But what I found was that the chick I met and approached me was never seen again, she became a whole different person to try and lock me down for good. Had I not seen her slut side I’d probably still be with her. Was a huge red pill moment for me.
Its like people have multiple dimensions in their personality, glad you found out! Joker...
Exactly, to the hundredth power.
The boys are getting it.
Absolutely!
@@zigazdovc6175 those are called character flaws, not dimensions. Plus clearly, you believe their online persona is real.
Amber is pretty honest though. You know she's gonna go to a party and cheat on you.
Nicole seems like the lady that cheats on her man and will just lie her whole life "I don't drink or do anything wrong"
You are absolutely correct my friend. She's narcissist.
@@LetsGoforDabashyep Nicole is trash
This is the way of an adulterous woman: She eats, she wipes her mouth, and says, "I have done no wrong." - Proverbs 20:30
@@williamclayton9566proverbs 30
or gaslight the man and blame him
Started to be excited about Nicole then she starts gaslighting and flipping the script there at the end and Rich is just smiling and sitting back. Its amazing how quickly women can read the room and adjust their lie accordingly. Scary but neat to watch in real time.
It's a social contagion. Major group think in play here...
scary but neat is the exact description
Women are group thinkers and will fit into the mold presented
Wait when they do this in a professional setting, it's terrifying
nothing new here - men worked out female behaviour a very long time ago - hence strong patriarchial societies kept this bullshit in check. The demise of Western society is directly linked to allowing women to play out these behaviours, do whatever they want and become influential in the governance of our societies.
I'm in the bar/club business and also a musician. Don't EVER trust girls nights, girls trips and *ESPECIALLY* bachelorette parties.
Look at all of them smirk. Enough said.
Exactly smh
Rich's and Moff's approach is just fine. If a woman approaches you with wanting to go on a girl's night or trip, you just found out that's a woman you don't want in your life anyway.
😱So, maybe I’ve lived under a rock for too many years…since when is a ‘girl’s night out’ or a trip with gal friends, NOT OK?…even if the girl in question, is attached or married.
Also…
And, what if it’s with a group of gal friends…with 1 friend who is the ‘bride-to-be’ and other girl pals as part of the pre-wedding party.
Is that not ok either???
@@Killersushiofficial If your girlfriend/spouse/wife wants to go, she is letting you behind. Even if she comes back to you, she already was OK with letting you behind. It's very easy to understand.
Nicole, we know what happens on Girls Trips. Men take all the risk in a relationship. You can Zero a man out in divorce court. If you cannot accept that his boundary is an automatic no for Girls Trip you do not deserve that man.
It's not just about the divorce court. It also about lacking respect and emasculating him.
As women we have to take the phrase “it’s not what you said it’s how you said it” out of our brain….your man doesn’t like girls trips, u don’t go
Well Amber's parents never told her no so any sort of boundary or restriction sounds like controlling language to her. And she wonders why she ends up with guys that don't treat her as more than recreational use only
Double standards do not exist with me. I think if your bf goes on guys trips, you're granted girls trips. & whether dating, married, engaged, who cares...go if you want to, because you should be with someone who trusts you, and would encourage you to Have a Life! This immature controlling behavior is absolutely Ridiculous!
@@bellakim9404 Said every dirtbag ever.
I had a failure idiot beg me to tell her what I wanted of her…I told her I didn’t want her to do anything but be herself 😉🫣🤣 fastest way for a man to make up HIS mind is to let his girl do HER thing 🫣😂
@@bellakim9404prob why you’re single and never married or with a beta male simp. Lol high value men avoid women like you trust. I pull 6 figures plus and would never pay you any attention!
Types like the last girl are the most dangerous ones, they pretend being good and shy etc. but when they get into proper situation they do it all. The worst is they're gonna lie and gaslight to the end. An absolute headache
Total depravity these whores are the bane of society
I worked 2 jobs, (MD office & retail) volunteered at a museum on the weekend, church on Sunday. I had no time for "girl's trips" I didn't even have time to date, much. Met my husband through the museum - 34 years ago. I didn't need to "go clubbing" to find my match. He found me, rescuing me from my boring life and it's been a literal "world-wide" adventure together.
Those who actively "search" for "their man" going clubbing are definitely not looking for their husband, mark my words.
If she suggests going on a girls trip without you think to yourself "great perfect opportunity to break up and find someone better"
Facts
It 100% gonna come up at one point though
Anyone who believes otherwise is a fool.
If your woman even expresses interest in a party girls trip, run. Even if she agrees not to go, she's an infidelity waiting to happen, or has happened.
Yep. As soon as she gets the ring, she'll do whatever the fuck she wants.
@@cryptojihadi265 yup
Or, could be an opportunity to see how she behaves on said trip. Get the details and have her tailed. She may surprise. Of course I’m giving the benefit of a doubt here but that may be better than the nuclear option in some cases.
@@henryhenderson7051get that spineless beta nonsense out of here 🤣 you shouldn't be allowed to give men advice.
@@henryhenderson7051 No. I'm sorry to break it to you but no. If she's willing to let you behind for such a trivial reason, you're done. Think she will be there for you if you really need her and stay with, work harder to be able to offer you her support? You should take your time to think things over. She's coming back and tell you she was a model girl and she was thinking about you and was missing you every minute of every hour and you will believe her, of course. A few years later, you get divorced and have your kids taken from you. This happens when "she" is willing to let you behind, no matter the reason.
Even though I truly regard women as equals (equals in the context of both genders having their roles), I have achieved the best results by treating them as if they were grown-up children. Setting boundaries, holding them accountable, asserting healthy authority, and interacting with them as if they aren't completely dependable. Loving them for who they are while expecting them to grow. Not expecting them to fully comprehend how to empathize with me.
They are very dependent
on men. It’s in their nature
yes and no, if you look at women in the past (before feminism happened), you can see that they were way more mature and responsible, because they had to adhere to their gender role. I don‘t envy them though, because being immature makes things harder later in life.
@@oXyureNon Yeah i was talking more about the present state of female nature. In the time of our forefathers, women were far more mentally mature, feminine, and traditional.
Its a dilemma isnt it? I am in that same position and share your beliefs but it hurts me to the core that i have to treat an adult as a child i have to take care of. How do you align those different systems?
@@iamsyourdadi You don't.
I'm at a point in my life where I have no desire nor interest in changing people because I've realized that in order for people to truly change, they must do so for themselves, preferably after going through a life experience traumatic enough to cause them to voluntarily update their belief system.
I understand how inconvenient it is to have to treat women like grown-up children, but that is how they have chosen to behave on their own free will. They usually realize their mistake when it's too late and way past the wall; I've just learned to live with it and focus on improving myself and protecting my assets.
I live in southern Spain and let me tell you watching woman on "holiday" almost made me lose faith in women. Its some wild things going on. Even dating apps here the majority are "single" women coming on holiday looking for hookups. Same with digital nomad women, just traveling to a new place every week hooking up with men in the hundreds, even women in their 40`s its crazy.
Disgusting!
Digital nomad girls and backpacker girls are the biggest 304´s. They also forget their counts too but it´s often pushing 50+
50 thats just one year, so imagine some women in their 40's they are in the hundreds 😆@@MrSilverfish12
Lemme guess: they visit museums, monuments & landmarks while taking wholesome photos of things *other* than themselves to send to their significant others?
No? They... do huge amounts of recreational drugs and sloppily hook up with random dudes while taking selfies of themselves on boats & at resorts?
Wow. My worldview is completely shattered.
It was interesting to see Nicole go from the “I don’t do any of those things” to “If he tells me no, I’m not going” she changes her tune and she then wants to go. Aka-Rebellious. Wonder if her father had issues with rebellion with her.
Yeah, she's the worst of them all imo. She puts on the nice girl act, but really she's just as bad if not worse than amber
Exactly what I thought, glad to see your comment
She have a nose piercing, what do you expect? lol
Yeah it's suspicious that unlike all others she was right on the topic and knew "how to play it". The whole idea of "not going by male instruction" reveals her real attitude she wouldn't want "constraining" by man/relationship so she would push those "boundaries"
Now women in the west are losing to the good women abroad they are.trying to pretend they are changing but western women have already lost because of feminism. Most women abroad are brought up to be wives and mothers and understand what men really want and even the ones who are boss babies still cater to their man as they except Gods rule of a man being the head of the household and they are his support even if they earn more money than him. Western women just can't relate to this concept so most of them will die alone. Even those that get married most will die alone because they don't understand how to keep a man so will end up divorced and alone.
These ladies need to remember that if they're dating a high value guy, she's replaceable.
If a guy has the right mindset and is not a weak simp he understands all women are replaceable. You can love a woman but you must still be able to walk away if she isn't faithful to you. You can never completely give her your heart. Not in today's society of looking for the next new experience as once they start to get bored with their man they going looking for the next new experience keeping you in the backup position in case the branch they are jumping to breaks. Believe me when I say I would not be there to break their fall. Let them suffer for the choice they made. Their would be No hanging around for excuses or reasons as I already know the reasons, I have studied the Hoes handbook Cover to Cover. No explanation necessary Just leave let they see how once your not their support their cheating partner won't want them either as he knows they cheat on you they will cheat on him also. He just wanted the goods with no responsibility to actually take of her.
They are replaceable regardless.
Amber is for the streets man! She knows good and damn well no man is inviting her on his yacht just to "drink and have fun" and that's it. Stop capping. You know what it's about and you'd be down for it just to be in the company of a baller. Shania seems alright though, especially for a model.
Legit because she's on camera
@@samjon6403It’s in a woman’s nature to go after the tree in the garden. This is what Eve did in the garden of Eden. The tree represented all that was in the world which was the lust of the flesh and the pride of life. The serpent was also able to deceive her because he was subtle and used smooth words which is another weakness for a woman.
@antbrown1976 Amber is actually an open book and less of a hassle,what you see is what you get.
The one you'd really have to worry about is 'good quiet girl ' Nicole.
She displays all the manipulative and pathological liar/narcissist traits.
She'd fuck your life up worse than all the other three combined.
Wow - that was some insane Gaslighting at the end by that Nicole girl. “You aren’t invested in my growth if you don’t stand passively by while I continue to act like I’m single and cheat on you. Also how dare you for having boundaries and saying “no” for my request to cheat. I asked nicely!”
The one on the bottom, that was talking shit at the end, defo gets railed when she goes out. That last comment was ridiculous. A lot of women would just lie, so they could go.
Amber: "If I'm with a high value guy...blah blah blah"
Yes, that's right; "if". But probably not. Ever.
Yeah high value guys get cheated on too. Probably more often than lower value guys.
There's always bigger fish, there guys with the boat, then the yacht, the super yacht + private jet etc@@Chevelle602
When I first got together with my now wife, I told her "no girls trips, no going out at night without me". When she pushed back, i told her these are my boundaries, and if you are not willing to go along, you can take a hike - in those exact words. She hasnt brought up either since, because she knows I was serious and she intuitively understands the consequences if she was to try to bend these guidelines. Fellas, if you want your woman to be loyal to you, or you dont want to wonder if youre the father, if she gets pregnant - draw the line in the sand, before you commit or otherwise she will walk all over you.
Can you suggest how one could impose boundaries with a woman having an instagram account, if she's also using it to promote herself for business?
@@RTSBone Im not sure there is anything wrong with having an IG account, as long as she is not using it to pose half naked, to get attention from other men. I have a hard time seeing how a woman would be able to use same IG account to show off her body and use it for a legitimate business purpose simultenously. Unless she is an OF or porn actress, Either way, if that is your boundary, you simply communicate it very directly BEFORE offering commitment. When she comes to you asking "what are we?" or "isnt it time to take the next step" you simply say "I enjoy the time I spend with you, but will never commit to a woman who shows her body online for other mens attention. If you want something more with me, you know what to do"
Not sure what boundaries you can actually enforce if you're married. Are you willing to divorce her if she messes up, yes or no?
@AC95089 hold on buddy, these boundaries must be enforced in the beginning of the relationship.
@@AC95089 Id correct her first, but I would divorce her no problem if it repeated. For now, I have zero indication from her actions that this will be an issue for us.
Nikole's final segment: No, we're NOT having a "conversation" about your proposed girl's trip, because there will be no truth in her responses to our questions, i.e., irrespective of how virtuous her friends are, the venues they are planning to attend, etc., she will never EVER volunteer that she is going for the purpose of getting wild while not under your supervision, she will always minimize and deflect the convo away from her promiscuity opportunities.
Correct. The conversation only serves her. It gives her a chance to swaddle your mind in convincing lies, deceive you, gaslight you into feeling bad for even having standards
I remember going to an adult resort in Mexico, and I met three girls there on a “bachelorette party”. These girl all had very professional jobs, and they all three were a legit 8 minimum. The bride to be had behavior that seemed like fiction. She was literally having all the sex she could have, and she could have a lot. My friend that was with me said, “my fiancé may go on a bachelorette party like this, but we aren’t getting married, when she gets back”.
Killing it rich! Love this panel style show. Would love to see you doing some in person shows like this!
Girls Trips = Hot Girl Summer 💯💊
Every man needs to pay attention and see this because if you seriously think your woman is "loyal" on a "girls trip" you are in for a rude awakening
Wanna ruin your LT relationship? Go for a girl's night out in Vegas or downtown!
Used to go out when I was young and quickly realized what type of dudes and women are in the clubs, and it was not for me.
Now, When we have a boys night out, we go down to the river, fishing or setup a fire-pit in the backyard.
When she goes out with the girls, she'd be hanging out with whores, pimps, dealers and thirsty tribal dudes whom only wanna smash and move on.
If you are a guy and you support your woman wanting to go out, You are with the wrong chick! and you need to grow some spine to let her know, if she goes out to a club without you, she'd buy herself a one way ticket out of your life.
My X went to Vegas the first night she got there she told me that the plane trip was exhausting and that she was just going to bed and was turning her phone OFF , I immediately knew she was lying ...... Moral of the story don't allow this shit EVER.
She thought you were an idiot. Good for you for not falling for that bs. But I think you should have ended it for her even asking to go. Especially without you.
Why not allowing it? Allow it to know exactly who you are dealing with. If she wants to go without you, it means she's willing to let you behind so you move on and tell her you're done while she's gone or when she's back. She will ask why, she will cry, she will tell you she was a good girl. Truth is not among the things a woman tells to the man she left behind.
My friends wife went on a girls trip and it ended their marriage. You expect the friends to be better but they enabled the bad behavior
If my girl doesn't know me enough to know to not even ask about a girl's trip.... She will be out the door just for asking.
Facts
Lmao yep your the same as how my husband sees it like I wouldnt even go there it would 1 make him feel super disrespected and 2 he would like NOT be ok with me far away parting and dancing on guys, getting wasted When he goes on trips with friends they go to a dive bar in Wisconsin and jet ski they don't get all fancy and dress to the nines for attention to get hit on - he knows thats what we like doing i mean im a maeried woman now and know not to to play like im single or I won't have a good marriage duh 😅
Amber is a train wreck; however, Nicole is the worst- Sells pure & virtuous and is lying the entire time.
So... 10:05 Nicole's point, is that investing in our woman's "growth" is letting them go willie-nillie to yacht trips and parties as if they were going to be offered a business deal, or meet very important people that will change their lives, a spokesperson or what have you; or an epiphany, spiritual enlightenment or whatever. You gotta be kidding, right?
So she's coming from the point of view that nothing wrong (a very wide term here) is gonna happen. Are her friends single, with a history of bad choices, hookups and breakups? What's the nature of a girls night out (usually the answer is not Nicole's nor Shania's hangouts style but debauchery) and why the insistence of going if within a healthy relationship? Why expose to the filth of public gaze and opinions instead of respecting her man's boundaries, if of course is her capital "M", Man?
Yet, the answer lies in her reaction, she doesn't want to relinquish her "freedom" (which is a false sense once inside of a relationship, because you don't lose it but needs to be previously negotiated).
Gentlemen, a woman that gives you a fuzz for not letting her getting what she wants, specially the experience of getting out with the "girlz" at night to parties where alcohol, drugs and hungry wolves are involved, you know very well that the least they're gonna do is to drink tea, pray and chat about fancy matters and such.
I was on vacation in Mykonos with three buddies back when we were in our late 20s. We met a group of 6 women, late 30s to mid 40s or something. They were from Texas. One of my buddies secured a threesome with the two asian american women of the group, both married with a ring on the finger. Kinda hilarious to see how thirsty one of them was for him(even though obviously they had drunk a lot of alcohol as well). They were plain looking so not exactly a brag, but just goes to show what married women are engaging in when they are thousands of miles away from their husbands on a "girls trip". Sad and pathetic.
It's interesting how girls' trips are always dressing sexy and going out to get drink alcohol and meet lots of new guys. Guys hanging out with the fellas usually means something like a BBQ, going fishing, watching sports, or playing card games.
My take is that if a woman wants to do a "girls" trip, she is not ready for a committed relationship.
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(1) Girlfriends are better than wives.
(2) Let your girl do her thing. She ought not to be living in your house anyway. So if she goes you can block.
(3) If she wants to go somewhere without you then you really aren't important enough to her.
(4) Smart men don't get married.
My sisters a nurse and single mom, I've seen her go on these trips with girls much younger than her that I know are 304s, its a small town, everyone knows they're the town bicycles. Ive tried telling her its not in her best interest but she wont listen, the sisterhood is too strong, my sister is an idiot
I'm sorry. Usually it is painful to see someone going down, especially family members.
They're all so flustered! Like when you ask a woman her body count
I absolutely LOVE the word-salad these women deploy to try to convince their men that something as egregious as a (typical) girls trip is somehow OK.
The answer to: "Honey, are you okay if I go on a trip with my girlfriends??" is ALWAYS, "Yes, but you will be single upon your return."
Any other answer is simping, and we all KNOW how simps get treated...
Lol
@juanocampo2262 you can tell... 9 times out of 10 she will respect it
She will cheat anyway in other situations, and with more "reasons" now because she feel it like an ego battle. The only way to prevent this is with men of value, those who call their husbands when they know their GF or wives want to cheat with them. Do those men exist? no, they rather to take advantage of it. So, be ready to be cheated.
The only women that have more chances of not lying are those conservatives who really wants a home life. The rest are for the streets.
I wouldn't enjoy any trip without my husband. I'd much rather go on a trip with just him than with a bunch of girl friends
I don't know why you waste your time with creatures that don't even know what they wanna eat in the next second or what they wanna do. There's no point of asking them any questions because they have no idea about anything bro. that's just the way God made them. so don't try to fix them just understand the creature you're dealing with.
Pretty much
Lol if you think they don't know. They are cold and calculating creatures.
If you sit in a barbershop long enough you'll get your haircut. If you are in a committed relationship you shouldn't going places where hooking up is encouraged without your romantic partner.
😂 I like that saying
LOL @ Nicole on the 10 minute mark
Was in Mallorca, Spain on the beach - bachelorette party going on. Two girls wanted to get me for the bridge... If your girl has such friends, you don't need any enemies as a man. Party, alcohol, single friends, far away from home, only once... I don’t have to explain myself. I expect her to not go on girlstrips, because if she wanted it basically too late... NO WAY!
Classic woman move at the end by Nicole. Men, don't negotiate with women. Hold frame. If she leaves because of it and actually leaves for good, you saved yourself a whole lot of trouble.
Not partying but getting cocktails. What wrong with these people.
I lived in a resort town that was frequented by hen parties before the days of social media, the groups were either well behaved monogamous types or rampant madheads was no in between.
Let me guess every guy there had there way with all of them
@@adeneo.g6456 the rampant ones yes.
Of course the pro girls trip girl is named Amber
I've been to Cancun during spring break... I've never seen anything like it. Hell Aruba is chill, and that's wild as hell... Women literally just walk up to you and kiss you, or more. They come to these places for that. See even Nicole is confused, this is why I don't even think relationships are a thing anymore. Even the so called ones who want to act like Angels are feminist! Why would you want to be in a relationship with any of these girls?
Just look up any old broadcast of Lykis on girls trips. That’s all you need to hear.
Nicole is a perfect example of why men are not attracted to strong independent career women
nicole better get used to scooping kitty litter for the rest of her life because she's going to be doing a whole lot of that
Bruh. Shania said she never touched alcohol or weed or anything. That's a LIE, you can look at her and tell that's a lie, she's tatted up and experienced like lady please lol
She lied ofc
I have much more respect for Amber than Nicole, especially at the end, she exposed her vicious manipulative behavior
I don’t think guys communicate the way Nicole thinks
She’s talking about a feminist man
Fellas... NEVER let your girlfriend or wife travel without you. I recently went on a solo vacation overseas where I met this sweet cute girl at the shopping mall who was also there on vacation (from a nearby city) to visit friends and family.
We hung out a couple of times, one thing led to another and she ended up in my hotel room. We spent a week together and had the hottest s3x you can imagine. All the nasty stuff... we did it all.
A few days after I left I found out she has a bf back home who she lives with and has been with for a few years. I feel so horrible, especially knowing everything we did together. Poor guy has no idea what his girl really got up to. Strange thing is, she doesn't look like the type to do that sort of thing.
1) How could you find out that she has a boyfriend back home unless she gave you her socials and/or outright told you about her situation. 2)Did you let the boyfriend know of what you did, or at least let him know that she cheated on him with someone. 3)If you did not let him know, then you don't feel so horrible and that's nonsense. Poor guy doesn't have to just worry about his girl, he has to worry about dudes who don't follow the code as well.
@@PGO_Gaming Her texting behavior changed dramatically after I left, so I googled her name and eventually found her social media pages. She told me she was single, but not looking for anything serious or long-term. I don't know who the guy is, he's not connected to her social media, and his name was not mentioned (I already checked thoroughly). And yes I do feel horrible, I would NEVER have fooled around with her had I known.
That's EXACTLY THE PROBLEM and Rich has mentioned this BEFORE: women will NEVER include any men they are in a relationship with on their social media accounts! It's only THEM!
@@TheFox808 Let that guy know. We have to battle this shit.
In bed by 9pm to clock in for an onlyfans shift lol
I respect all of the these fine ladies. On that note I don’t believe a single word coming out of their mouths.
Women tend to lie so that’s why as a guy being straight up when asserting your boundary is a necessity.
Have had the “oh I would never do anything like that…” from what I thought to be the sweetest girl in the world.
Turns out she would.
Lol Nicole is coping super hard with her last prompt. If you fuck up in your duties as a man, they won't give you the same chance they are asking you in return. A woman who doesn't understand and first needs to argue with me about these topics, is for me an automatic red flag.
When a woman comes off as she doesnt doing anything wrong is definetly red flags to me. Dont drink, no drugs, Go to bed early, Dont really party and is still single? Run fast
Garden tools
Brad exposed Nicole by being nonchalant. He let her show the world who she is.
I don't know what percentage of Rich's audience is female I'm going to assume it's a tiny amount. Ladies let me put this in a way you might be able to understand. Imagine your in a relationship with a guy you love. Butterflies in your stomach feeling giddy, the feeling of excitement the whole nine yards. One day he walks up to you out of the blue and says "I'm going out of town with Laura for a few days, see you when I get back." You having no idea who laura is proceed to look her up and you see she's a snowbunny with nothing but thirst traps all over a Facebook and Instagram. You get that cold feeling of fear in the pit of your stomach because you know exactly what's about to happen and your powerless to stop it. You object and say honey I really don't want you to go to which he replies by calling you toxic and controlling and just leaves without elaborating further. You hear nothing from your man for 2 weeks. That panic anger and stress your feeling because your not nieve and you know exactly what's happening is exactly how we feel when you pull this girls trip to Vegas nonsense. We weren't born yesterday. We know exactly what's going down and if you insist on putting your boyfriend through that turmoil you shouldn't be in a relationship to begin with it's sadistic and in some cases it seems like you get off on it.
Definitely puts things in perspective when you flip things around. It's been so normalized to humiliate and emasculate guys that it's hardly ever noticed anymore.
@@RevellAndRepend I'm going to assume your a guy because no western woman in 2023 would concede to a mans view point. So alas the paragraph makes no difference in the end. We're just a bunch of guys trying not to get cucked because fuck dat shit.🤣
Perfectly said
The moment my girlfriend or my wife wants to go to a girl's trip, I definitely say nothing against. The moment my girlfriend or wife comes back, we're done. I don't care what she say she did or didn't do in that trip, we're done. The moment one of the partners is going, the other partner is left behind. This is the real meaning of it.
A high value man doesnt compromise. He can get a new girl by next week.
👌👌👌
Not if you live in Wyoming! The ratio is poor to begin with, the quality of women is even poorer! Winter last for 6 months here and chics don't dig that crap.
Oh big surprise, Amber likes girl trips 🤣
Nicole started out strong, but her defiance disorder landed her in last place.
Indeed
Nicole sounds like a strong 💪🏿 independent woman 👩 with a lot of cats 🐈
Hey! No problem with strong independent women. Just leave them to their strong independence and when they need help let them see how men have to handle life.
They all missed the point, if they have a high level of desire for a man they wouldn't consider going on a girl's trips. They wouldn't ask to.
These reserved and respectful women are the absolute most deceptive
Letting your woman loose in a drunken partying type position target rich social position, is tempting fate. It's an even bigger problem if your woman has never been told "no" in life, or respects your boundaries. If she goes, have her bags packed, on the front porch, and new dooor locks installed, before she gets back.
at 10:40 It describes EXACTLY how I reacted to my EX GF (curious no ?)
I said, you really going to a girl night ? I'm uncomfortable, who is with you ? I'd like to understand.
She simply gaslighted me and lied to my face.
Rich approach "you'll be single when you come home" is in fact realistic in some cases.
Men must change. Men must change. We cannot remain protectors if we and relationships are taken for granted like this. A lot of men are stupid and Amber will most likely get married to a stupid man but if you’re a man that values yourself you must be in control of your household. Always remember you can get someone else. Dont put up with any women like the ones on this video
"If i was with a high value man and was invited by another man to party on his yacht I would call him and ask him if it's ok..." Yah, okey dokey.
First - for her to even entertain the thought is enough to get a new girl
Second - what high value guy is going to be ok with that??? Lack of logic there.
She's a chick you put in the rotation for a good time, nothing more. She's incapable of being a good choice.
I can tell moff is on the sauce every year his face gets puffier hahahaha
Any man that lets a woman disrespect him by taking a girl’s trip deserves what he gets.
Obviously, only a 304 would have the desire for this destructive behavior!
Man their lying is truly unique yea im totally content on no respecting women
24/7 liars are to be treated as such
I would leave the girl if they even asked…
Pretty little liars...lol!
Amber is a walking red flag. Girls trips are notoriously likely to involve either hooking up OR using men to pay for drinks, the boat etc etc. men’s trips are not like that at all. Btw ever notice any movie about guys getting drunk and doing dumb stuff is about them realizing they did dumb stuff and trying to correct course. Where is the girls movies are them doing dumb stuff and then trying to do even more dumb stuff.
Yeah, but at least she's honest about it. Nicole is a red flag that is spray painted green. The paint is quickly fading after a few days in the sun.
Amber is disgusting, I can't stand women like that. In fact I can't stand most women under 30 these days.
holy shit, facts lol
Look at nicoles smirk at the beginning. She knows where this is going. Every word after that was a lie.
it doesn't matter, if you're not in a committed relationship with a woman.
if you are, don't let her go.
That's what a conversion between adults look like. Please more of it!
Its fine babe…have fun on your girls trip. Just know im dickin something down if you decide to leave. We wont make a fuss about it.😂😂
Rich's expression starting 9:49 😂😭
bingo
Shania is daughter of that chad ratt guitarist Robbin crosby
Nicole deserves a man with a low self-esteem. Most women especially healthy ones, want a confident man who says what he means and means what he says.
Nicole's child "mommy can I please eat dinner already" "oh sweety, you asked so nice but no fcn way."
The approach versus the message 😆 thats how the game starts kings. U cant say no flat out. What nicole said is a good example of how women ropes u in into a 'conversation' about your boundaries. Once ure roped in, that conversation becomes a negotiation. Next thing u know shes pushing the boundaries. Ive learned from the red pill and experience that the answer to this is not to be a good negotiator but to have options. Not just with women but in life as a whole. Their responses to a flat out no is usually shaming u. "If ure a real man and invested in her growth blah blah blah.' Stay sharp kings. 👑
Her growth involves traveling to far places without you to go on strange men's Yatchs for drinks and conversations, or going to dimly lit venues full of sexy singles, alcohol, loud sexy music, lowered inhibitions, and blind eyes looking the other way.
Her growth couldn't be at home with a musical instrument or a paint brush. Her growth couldn't be a day trip accompanied by you to the museum of her choice to learn about culture and art.
Nah, that's how they act on the show. I think in real life they will respond positively to a flat out "no", don't you think?
Those were my thoughts as well. The 'conversation' is her trying to find your weak points, your emotional blind spots, how can she manipulate you, etc. She wants to find your emotional string of attachment to that "insecurity" or "discomfort" with the situation and attempt to tell you "it'll be ok, nothing will happen".
If you are a good and mature Man, and if your intention is the growth of your woman, and make her come out stronger and mature then why would you stop her from taking all the girl trips😅 she must be really crazy to believe that men are so naive. Amongst the 4 Ladies, the only fans girl was at least straight up telling what kind of a girl she is, but it was Nicole who I would say Is the wolf in sheep's clothing.
Basically all 4 are 304 types.
View it through the lens of: Even if a woman is single and has no kids, none will fight to make the family courts more fair for fathers. They protect the collective, (The sisterhood). So even if they don't drink alcohol, they will not criticize the majority who would definately go "live thier best life". The mask of "You can trust me" is true until it isn't since they follow thier emotions.
When they cough before they speak, that means they’re about to lie. 😆😆😆
the more i listen to these 304 women, the more i see their worth go down and down. used goods guys.
The is it’s never about wether or not you would cheat, it’s about putting yourself in situations that could cause that. You can’t actually promise someone you will never cheat, you can only promise that you won’t put yourself in that situation.
Any man who 's girl asks him about a "Girl's Trip " it's his fault be cause he chose this thot. No responsible woman I know would even waste the time to think about that nonsense.