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Our brains are wired differently. We're like 2 different species trying to co-exist. We have 2 lobes or hemispheres in our skulls plus a few extra primitive vestiges from our ancient times of development. The left lobe is considered predominantly the logical side with a few exceptions. The right lobe has a lot of emotional processing that gives our lives so much richness of enjoyment. There are connections between the 2 lobes: I think they're called synapses. For illustrative purposes, let's say that men have 1,000 synapses between the two lobes. Bio-scientists believe that women's brains have many more synapses between the lobes than men have, something between 6 to 10 times the number found in men's brains. That means that while men only have 1,000 lobe connections in their brains, women have 6,000 to 10,000 lobe connections in their brains. Does that mean that women are 6 to 10 times more intelligent than men? No, what this means is that women are 6 to 10 times more vulnerable to possible confusion from too much interference from their emotions (too many lobe connecting synapses) when attempting to perform tasks requiring logical reasoning, such as choosing a future mate. Yes, pleasant emotions (love) add wonderful depth to a marriage, but logical considerations must also be present and may rule. So, this over-abundance of the emotional lobe's influence on the logical lobe in women's brains is why women have difficulty making more logical choices when looking for a future mate. In other words, their logical reasoning gets overruled by their emotional thinking due to the lobe connecting synapses. Conclusion: Men and women "think" differently, biologically and therefore socially.
1. Women, who "think" more with their emotions, have a mental "list" of their top wants in a mate. Most will not compromise or be willing to "give up" any one of those top wants on their list. Their attitude is: "The heart wants what the heart wants." Women approach the mate selection process as a "make or break" agreement. Either they get what they want of their top wants, or there's no deal. 2. Men, who "think" more with their logic and reasoning, are willing to compromise on their top wants if an alternate quality attribute replaces one of their top wants. If a woman is a super cook and enjoys making great meals but is also a bit disorganized, a man may accept those attributes in trade for his initial want for a woman who can balance a budget. Men are basically bargaining people willing to trade this for that.
I agree bro, look wise I’d say she’s a 6… one thing i do know for certain is there is going to be a big crisis in 10 years of depressed women that haven’t settled down because their standards was to high in the past
Nah homie. They hit 30 marry a desperate guy then are in our DM's saying how it's unfortunant we never got a chance to be together while we uncomfortably give them a soft let down. Because we got hotter and get attention from college girls and shit. It's wild. I'm actually happy it's this way. Long game with not miserable youthful women better than getting with one on the decline. We lucked out brother. I'd hate being a woman. Time goes fast as hell.
They're definitely hypergamous and looking for a reasons to disqualify a man. They also would rather be single than settle or share a guy with dozens of women like Tristan Tate 15:28
@@edwardwallace1633my GF often asks why I'm against marriage. Lol. Well, there is absolutely no benefit to the man. Every divorced guy I know says not to marry and every married guy I know is like "eh, it's not that great". Lol
As the saying goes" you can't negotiate attraction" 99.9% of the modern feminasty will not compromise unless they are taken captive by dire circumstances in life. If you start walking a way now in a matter of time you will establish a safe n sane distance away from the emerging crises n looming disaster in the horizon. 😊
I'm 6'3, good looking, full head of hair, nice teeth, bench 305lbs, have a six-pack, am a homeowner, am a millionaire, and make $200k. Dating apps are a waste of time. Women are literal looking for a thing that does not even exist. They are not dealing in reality. I deal in reality all the time, whether I want to or not. Lease don't buy. They're just crazy.
Just curious, what do you do for a living? Also, I have a good friend who is kind of built like you (not as jacked) but in real good shape. Takes care of himself, dresses nice, a really good guy to talk to and looks like a lot of the movie stars that girls find attractive. He also makes over 6 figures and owns a house. He struggles hard. It makes no sense because he's a good dude. I'm sure he gets attention from ugly girls but none from girls that should be in his league.
Most girls in western society suffer from the save a dirt bag syndrome. So if you have your shit together they will not see you as enough drama and need of saving aka project. Therefore you are boring to them so they think. Hence they like the trouble going nowhere so called bad boys aka loser in real life 🤣
I feel you. What's crazier is, that's about 50% true. Half of the women that say this do Actually believe the crazy notions they take as fact, and run off of. It's very fluid. Which says a lot about the creature we're dealing with. That exact rationale and thinking spills to every other aspect of their lives. Those who know, cease to even really get upset with women, (generally). You just take what you know, 🤔 and Apply it to better achieve the results you're after for Your life, as with anything. As with everything! They tell you EVERYTHING if you 1. Know what you're looking at. And 2. Understand what it means- and all the implications that could/might come with it. And Rich does an excellent job of pointing said things out, (without all the hype and feminine behavior of many of these "male" content creators today.) As a MAN should! Blessings! Love the channel Rich ✌🏾
Nicole states the first thing a guy should do is be in good shape, exercise and work on physical appearance. Meanwhile, women in the US are close to 50% obesity rate.
Spending your time lifting heavy things gets you no closer to financial freedom for practically anyone. It is a lifestyle to have a 6 pack & it means you give less time to all the other things that make a complete adult life. Looks fade with time and if looks are the primary attractor for any potential mate - they're not grown up yet. Probably in massive debt. Probably have no clue how money works and will remain a serf to the rich the rest of their life, hating life sitting in their car in traffic. Enjoy those muscles. I'll enjoy my financial freedom and you'll be working for me.
@@samjon6403 When I saw the economy shut down (lockdowns) but the stock market going all time highs - I knew I must learn how money works. After years of research and sacrificing the whole way, to invest, I'm not long for working for another man. I own my own business and plan to continue chasing my own dreams. I'll share that a single investment I made in January did a 34x by April. $DMTR is the ticker symbol. Company is called Dimitra. Morpheus Network is my second favorite crypto. Fk the system. I keep $1-$2k in my bank for paying bills, the rest of my wealth is outside of the system. We live in a debt based economic system designed to devalue humans. If you trade your time for money you are being made worth less as a function of the moneyprinting. There's a reason a household can't be run on a single income anymore. The dollar is a unit of debt. By design. You have actionable knowledge to free yourself if you do the research. Non sovereign currencies. Decentralization.
@@c1s1125you know a lot of ppl that are in shape aren't in the gym 24/7? Many of them just eat healthy (the key thing) and then work out like an hour a day. Also, it often gives you more energy throughout the day. Working out is also good for your brain. When I worked in corporate, most of the people higher up worked out a little bit each day. Oftentimes, working out helps with discipline which can translate to making more money. There are studies that show working out and making more money have a strong correlation .
As an older beta guy I have some good news for the 80% of young men who women consider substandard. Everything except your energy level gets better as you age as long as you take care of your health and your money. 1. Every year after 18 you lose 1-2% of your sex drive plus the women your age take a steep dive in their desirability as they reach their late 20’s. That means the monkey on your back tormenting you slowly diminishes as you get older letting you enjoy life more and more. 2. You gain money and respect as you get older and the competition and hostility with other men fades away. 3. You become more stable, make wiser decisions and stop making stupid impulsive mistakes which makes life easier. 4. You stop caring what the world thinks of you and learn to pursue things that really make you happy. 5. Unlike many women, you’re not 40 years old with the box wine and cat crying over pictures of yourself when you were young and hot and had the opposite sex clamoring for your attention. Beta guys don’t have a 15 year party that starts at puberty. My teens and much of my 20’s were the worst time of my life things just got better from there. If you don’t get a happy marriage-kids enjoy the time/money/security that comes with being a bachelor. Again: Your health and your money are the keys to happiness as you get older. Edit: I guess I should clarify something as far as beta guys and women. If you have any kind of money and aren’t totally unattractive women will probably start giving you a modest amount of attention around the time you hit 30 and the women your age are hitting the wall. You should understand that it’s very unlikely that attention is because they are sexually/romantically attracted to you. It’s because they are looking for the money/labor/security of a beta male provider. They’ve realized they’re not marrying the alpha Chad and the PUA’s and bad boys don’t want to play with them anymore so she’s “settled” for you. Now, you can marry her but understand you are closer to her 21st choice than her first. AND, she knows once you’ve provided the things she wants from you she can team up with the state and bury you in a divorce. And even if she stays with you she has no incentive to treat you well. Your marriage might work out, but probably not.
@@cheekymonkeygirl3378he’s not directly talking about 70 year olds, he’s referring to how much better life gets at 30 and 40 if you actually take his advice
Sir, your point about "team up with the state and bury you in a divorce" is wonderfully spot on. That is one of the chief reasons I'll never marry. Being a sexless bachelor is better than being a husband who's tormented with a sexless marriage and a blindsided divorce followed by a heap of alimony and asset division. At least there is no desired woman in my life, I can (mostly) live with that. I think that is the nature of being a man, sir - this push-pull towards and away from the feminine archetype. Cheers!
I'm 53 and never married, no kids. Last week a super hot 26 year old girl practically demanded I have sex with her (four times in a row). I actually had a 22 year old who looks like Princess Daphne from Dragon's Lair run over and hug me at a concert and that drove the 26 year old crazy (and remember, women my age want to call the police on me if I so much as order eggs from a 29 year old).
I've seen another clip of these girls and IMO Nicole is the worst. She just seems like she's full of sh*t and will tell you whatever you want to hear. Then whenever she speaks more, the truth comes out. People bash Amber, but at least she's honest. You know what you are getting with her. She's a fun party girl. That's it. Nicole would be the girl that would make a good guy wait while she has 3 one night stands and then lies to the good guy.
Rt, Nicole reminds me of those girls who have been ran through in college by Tyronne and Chad and have now gotten with God and become conservative and now want to take things seriously now thinking it will change things for her. If she claims to be Christian like she does then why didn't she marry earlier? And why is she wearing a nose ring? These Western women are scams we now have a lot of women now claiming to be conservative Christians and they think that can lockdown a man for them. Western society is a dead place and anyone who marries in a Western country is foolish men that want to marry either religiously or non-religiously should go to a country with a patriarchal system, not to a female-first primary social order country.
I think Nicole was right about guys should not be swiping right on 4's. Tattoos(pass). Fat(pass) kids(pass). Blue hair(pass). Piercings(pass). Woman holding men to a fitness standard is good for us. Men need to start doing the same.
They're not liking Batman, they like his money. Then eventually leave when done no matter how loyal he's been to her... "You just cant make me happy Bruce"
Imagine, females making dating choices on the basis of hypergamy and narcissism. As far as marrying a Cosmo-girl is concerned, it’s a recipe for a personal disaster unless you have insight enough to see it Rich. Thanks for all you do to help men make better choices. I doubt any of these women are stable enough to pair bond with a man in-order to support their man, act as a mother and wife and not end up resenting their husband because they wanted to build a career instead of a legacy.
It used to be a disaster to marry a beautiful girl but today 5s are just as arrogant as beauties ever were, if not worse because it's a dysfunctional, angry, jaded fury.
So not only do i have to provide for myself but i have to work twice as hard to provide for the society? All so you can have the privilege of dating Amber. What a reward!
I almost choked on that......what the F? I'm already paying child support for kids that aren't mine and alimony to women I never met through outrageous taxation and now you want me to work for non-profits and the environment too? F that and the high horse she is riding on.
I like shows like this because they expose a womans true nature. They are not better than men or better people. In fact id say the opposite. Amber is great example of the new generation of woman being entitled, selfish, and shallow.
Workout like crazy, hire a 1200 photographer to shoot your photos, wear the nicest clothes. Then put down your a 5’7” accountant and watch those three matches a month come in baby!
They have no real advice. Whatever word vomit comes out of their mouth, what they really mean is just “be” Chad Thunderstroke. Connecting with the right woman should be natural and easy, yet they’re turning it into the hardest job interview of your life. Not interested.
Nicole: "men should improve their profile"; me with good bio, 9 photos regularly updated, hesitating hiring a pro photographer, versus 99% of women with 2 blurred photos :😱😱😱
Lately, I often get attention from single women in person.... but on apps, not a single match and not even a handful on likes on several apps combined! I could take pictures of myself because I'm a pro photog but that's only going to attract picky women who are hard to please
The whole issue is men simping for women. If you post a profile anywhere and don't get any hits in the first day, delete it. Men: unless your Rich Rollo Andrew, don't bother with online dating.
@@aurelienlabonde7874 To women, the reason all men aren't in the top 4% is because they just need to improve. But if they all did women would still only like the top 4%. That's why we need to replace the word "beautiful" with "top 4%". That way we can't say Lizzo is beautiful and we CAN say that any men who get dates in 2023 are beautiful. Notice that practically no actual men can declare themselves to be attractive today? Women love it that way. SHE will decide whether you look good. IF you behave.
I was on POF in the late 2000's and it was the same. I'm 6'4", lifetime basketball player, I'm not bad looking and I would get 1-2 matches at most a week. I went on Tinder years later and it was the same. Most women think something better is coming around the bend and it's the prince and that shoe is gonna fit HER, so they waist most of their lives believing that and end up 35-55 on FB complaining they can't find a good man. Don't feel bad for women who end up alone, they had all the options and it's their fault for turning down all the men they did. I do much better in person with females, they will even asked me out. Get off the apps.
It’s the apps bro. They’re designed to keep you on there. Most of the chicks that probably would right swipe you don’t even get to see you and that’s how the apps are designed. They’re there to make money.
Yeah I was on POF then also. I'm over 6' and not jacked, but in shape. I'd have tons and tons of fat ugly girls hit me up. I'd probably get a match once or twice a month and that didn't guarantee we'd meet up and most of the time that would go nowhere. They either wouldn't want to meet up or after the first initial message would just ghost.
they want 666 guy. They basically want to have the devil. Think about it. 6ft guy, 6 pack abs, 6 figure income. The guy all women want. These guys are basically top 10 percent at most. These guys are players cold approaching all women and when they get knocked up these chics end up hating men either turning lesbian or destroying betas taking their money either in relationships or settling and divocing and taking half of everything. FACTS! no BS.
I think that was part of the point of doing this video. Rich just let them talk. The rest was all on them. The fact that they did not offer any "real" advice to the 90% of men meant that there was no answer. "Just be yourself.'" I remember one documentary about the Holocaust where people arriving at the concentration camp asked one of the Jewish workers there "what are they going to do with us?" and his response was "would it change anything if I told you?" To me, that's kind of like the "just be yourself" answer that the women gave here. Nothing is going to change the outcome.
Thank you Rich for being yourself! The vibe I got from all the women is they don’t care about men Rich and Moff really want and care about helping men My opinion is women have been doing this forever and men just started coming onboard since the internet Keep going Rich and Moff!
Exactly! This has been going on for a long long time. People blame the internet for whats happening. But in reality all the internet did - was just expose the reality. Shits been going on for centuries.
That was vibe I instantly picked up. They don’t care about helping or giving constructive feedback to 95%. Also notice how the Rich said about Amber “If Tristan Tate sent her a DM and flew her to Romania, she’d forget about those other two guys.” She was grinning ear to ear because she knows it’s true.
The nerve of Nicole to say that! The delusion runs too deep. Wherever I get in life, I will never spend a second of my time or resources on such women. This is the kind that you avoid like the plague.
She's not wrong. Prioritize how you look and women will pay attention to you more. OR you could just keep wearing your jerseys and Walmart outfits, showing off that ponch belly and whining about women that aren't simply wowed by your income.
The problem is women are so in love with themselves they're blinded to anything other than themselves. They cant love you and they cant see you because all their thought and energy goes into themselves.
Sadly, 25 years ago I would listen to these women give advice and take it seriously. Hell, up to maybe 7 years ago I would have. You will absolutely guarantee yourself no action by taking a woman’s advice. With anything…..
Yeah we've all been there. It seems so logic to hear them out what they want and look for in men and being young you are easily impressed by good looking women telling you their nonsense. But the more experienced and wiser you get as you grow older you start realizing they are full of sh! t, it only works for Chad, because they always skip the part of becoming attractive in the first place. They just assume attraction is there already. They don't think men can actually self-improve in their basics, they think certain features are just there naturally for men. It's either there, or its not.
With dating apps the reality is men are more forgiving when it comes to female looks mainly because of biological drive. Women going for top 1-2% is based on looks primarily which is pure biology really. They are a lot more visual than men think and technically that is their Primary motivation as in on dating apps. The stats the numbers these women on this panel just proved it. We give women too much attention they need to earn it.
I was once given advice from a women that just because she has other bodies on the side you can still take her out to dinner and treat her right, you aren’t dating her. My problem is not that she talked to other guys. My problem is she made it obvious. I did not take her out to dinner and I no longer talk to that advice giver. LOL
The moment you ask a question any question to a woman they think you’re trying to demean them. Their egos are so paper thin. “What would you say to those 90% of men who are invisible?” I’d say “do better in each and every aspect of your life. Make yourself desirable to the women you want to attract.” Women hate self introspection and critical thought because it leads to items they need to improve upon.
I’ve learned that even if they are smarter (I’ve known a few female doctors, etc) that are still hindered by emotions. They will make poor and impulsive and just awful decisions based on whimsical emotions. So, a pretty smart man should hold an advantage over women with intelligence.
@@ckel4605 He's saying even when you find women that are intelligent in certain areas they still have other areas they're extremely lacking in, like simple logistical issues.
Why do you guys keep mentioning cats? Do you realise many women do not see a problem with having them? Is it meant to be an |nsult or something? I don’t get it. Does any woman actually get offended when you bring it up? 😂
You're retahded if you think any of these women are forced to be alone. They swipe on 5% of guys because they get hundreds upon hundreds of matches in a week. They don't need to enjoy cats, they have lots of men hitting them up.
I'm a 5'4" male. I am slowly realizing that I am invisible to so many of these women. None of these women would even talk to me at a bar or in any social situation. Even if I was a philanthropic, selfless, rich, clean guy, there is no way that I would not be visible to any of these women. They wouldn't even let me talk to them.
Their advice if honest is: make at least 6 figures, lose weight and hit the gym 2 hours a day until you're 5% body fat with a six pack and jacked, pay $100 for a professional haircut, have a perfect tan, then maybe we'll talk if you're at least 6ft tall
It has gotten to the point where guys are literally having leg lengthening surgery to gain a few inches just to have a woman "look" at them let alone swipe on them SMH
Honestly guys just need to fib more, if you’re 5’10 put 6’0 or 6’1 on your profile, women won’t notice the difference when meeting anyway and if they do you’re dodging a bullet anyway if she drops you over it.
@@joeplem5329 hah well if you’re 5’5 I don’t know why you’d go for surgery for that extra 2-3 inches either I don’t really think it will make a difference except to your wallet and health. Use that money to focus on a better wardrobe, take some night classes for a better job or something more productive.
Amber is interesting. She says that you have to be a provider to society and that every guy she ever dated was a provider to society yet she is single, how come?
Yes! That was my exact thought when she finished that sentence! She's dated multiple men who were eager to contribute to society, so good guys I presume. Why couldn't she lock them down? These non-married women need to stop giving dating advice.
They have a very different definition of provider, they’ll go for a high paid ambulance chasing attorney who contributes nothing to the world over a garbage man who keeps the streets sanitary.
Not sure if she said it here or on the other clip. She's on onlyfans. When she says "dates" she means they took her out and they had sex. That isn't real commitment from the guy though. She's just a fk toy for these rich dudes. They will never commit. That's the confusion with women like her since she slept with a man of status, she thinks she will get the relationship with a man like that.
They would all say: Become a top shelf man or die trying because either way we don't give a shit. Life is all about us and what we want and need. GIRL POWER!!!!! YYYAAAYYY :D
An average woman should only be entitled to an average man. I see these women as average women when they finally get to their mid 30's. I wish them the best of luck, but I can see a few of these ladies making the usual man shaming tic tocs , if they don't get the man, they think they're entitled too. The O.F girl is in for a big awakening when her looks go.
What they say out loud: "just be honest and be yourself". What they aren't saying but really mean: "be tall, be really wealthy, be hot, be ripped, be everything I want, I am the table". I'm 61 now, I tried dating in my 50's, eight dating sites, I had professional photos on my profiles. I'm 5'8", a fit 5, no debt, own my home, $1 million net worth, own a small software company. Every woman that I went on a date with either catfished me or used me for a foodie call, because they were looking for a "taller wealthier" man. And this was average and below average women, most women 50+ are overweight to obese.
We're really not that interested what they say tbh. Why would a guy want to take time away from himself to jump through hoops for ungrateful gold diggers? Personally I'd rather do without the anxiety. I enjoy my own time too much
Chick on the bottom right absolutely LOATHES men. You can tell by the tone of her voice. I can actually hear the air compress between her and the bricks as she hurtles towards the wall at Mach speed.
I've been the "nice guy" my whole life. Now I'm 75, and more than ever, I am convinced I was correct not to change. I was an English-Literature teacher in some rough schools and I was damned good at pushing back, and supporting my wife and kids. I taught the heritage the left wants to bring down and for 33 years I didn't back down. Administration was no help and often I had to stand up to parents. I was bookish and I never apologized for it. And I'll tell you now, and those women, a woman cannot appreciate a nice guy if she is not nice. She wants to exert her masculine energy I'm not her guy, and damned glad she doesn't want me. My Chinese wife and I soon will celebrate our 50th wedding anniversary. I'm Caucasian male. And I wouldn't trade my wife for a mile-long line of beautiful white women. Too many of the American women today can go party all they want and treat me as invisible. I really don't care. They are losers. Especially if they aren't having kids, inside marriage! Get real! Get married! And get with God! Stop the promiscuity, or live with big regrets when you get elderly.
Two years on Tinder, one date. Two years on Match, no dates, no hits. Two years on Bumble, no dates, got matches but got ghosted. I stopped wasting my money
The only thing a man can do to get more women is get in shape, dress better, look better and get better personality. Make more money get a better house and a better car. A go to places where there's women. That's about it. The competition is tough. There's just not enough decent women to go around. We need a good war where 30% of the men die in order to balance out the dating market. Like in the old days.
I can’t imagine what it would have been like to be a surviving young German or Japanese man after WW2, even with foreign GIs snagging up war brides you probably had your pick of the litter.
In reality, people have it too good, so they become really picky. When you view things from a necessity perspective, like I need food and water, the perspective dramatically changes.
@@melenico4512 1st world problems, you can guarantee if shtf all these suburban housewives will be ditching their soft husbands for the duck dynasty guys with guns and beards
Having good pictures works in theory but what they’re not saying is be hotter than every other guy and have money. I’ve been ignored and stood up by women that told other ppl they’re very attracted. The truth is they’re distracted by what else they can find or hung up on an old fling. Then there’s the extremely damaged ones that are single but only get on there to feel better about themselves and have no intention of actually dating.
IMO it’s not even the hot guys they go for, they instinctively look for the guys with photos of themselves driving boats, hiking in a foreign country, whatever, it signals to them you have money & are fit even if subconsciously.
100% mate and this is why men shouldn’t get on apps. I’ve seen first hand a 5 muck around on dating apps, laughing with her friends of all the guys swiping right on her, why because she really had no interest; she wanted her ex back who cheated on her. They’re all playing games and using it for attention. Get off and stop the attention, it’s the only way.
It's just another form of virtue signaling and blaming men. How hypocritical of her to say that when literally 80% of female profiles are just ugly selfies with obvious snap chat filter. But as always men are held to the extreme standard. The only solution is the revert back to biblical style relationships where men were afforded more power
@@mikeg2491 Exactly they are judging the background and context of each photo to an extremely hypocritical and superficial standard. The pics have to display disposable income via fancy vacations or expensive hobbies. social status, career status, and additionally a good physique pic that has to be done perfectly in such a way that you don't look try hard. When guys don't have all of these they are just getting the scraps of online dating
The actual answer to the question "what would you say to those guys, the ones that are invisible to you?" It was the pause. After that it was all just lying.
66 here and I haven't dated in 10 years. My sex drive has pretty much dropped off a cliff (I used to be controlled by it!) and I'm fine on my own. At this point sex is not worth the hassle (not even phone sex!). Though I might start dating to find a women to split costs with .
My takeaway - men take realistic photos of themselves and the RARE time he gets a date the women are impressed he looks like his photos. Whereas when the man sees the woman in person she’s ALWAYS 2-3 points lower in looks. Makeup, filters, photoshop, FaceTune, smoothing, airbrushing - and worst of all they THIN themselves. They are always 20-30lbs heavier. And men are the shallow ones???
Love this. Men like me who earn in the top 2% of earners, are fit and take care of all life issues see more evidence of the validity of the pump and dump culture.
JESUS, H Chrisht onna drippin' shtick! They ask them for SEVEN minutes straight (and about 3 times): What do guys who are usually invisible to you, have to do, to become more visible? And then the answers are HORRIBLE! Jeska: Be more honest, so we can better sniff out you guys (the invisible ones). Amber (with Valley Girl Vocal Fry tone): What have you done for me lately? We don't want to tell men how to treat a woman. We keep looking until we find a man who already does know. Shania: Know yer place. If you are among the invisible crowd; BACK OFF! Take a step back. Stay there, ja! Nicole: I'm not even talking about the invisible ones. I wanna address the Chads and Tyronnes: WHY DO YOUR PROFILES NOT REFLECT BETTER THAT YOU'RE CHADS ann TYRONNES? HM? Also: TRUE masculinity means to know how to become less invisible. Because we know that was actually the initial question, but we don't care, and if you don't even already know the answer to that question, we're NOT interested in you eitherwho. Also: If you're struggling with women, you're NOT a man, and therefore invisible. I can't say I'm surprised 🤣🤣🤣🤣 This has been uplifting, Rich. Thank you for that! 🙂♥🍸
@@SunriseFestival To be fair i don't want anything to do with a woman who can't be honest. Why can't they be honest? because they know that would reveal their true nature?
I'd say I swipe on about 50% of women. And out of those I'll actually be interested in 5% for a relationship. You gotta filter out all the single mothers, the far away people, the people you're not compatible with. Then you go on a bunch of dates with what's left and you're left with nothing. So then I go try meeting women at the gym and the majority of them are married, don't want to be approached, etc etc. I hate bars and clubs, too loud and annoying of an environment for me. So then I have to mass spam approaching women and hire professional photographers. And repeat, over and over.
Men should only swipe on the top 10% of women, even if the man is a 3/10. If you reverse the hypergamy the women will freak out at the lack of attention, and the 'dating' company would go bankrupt. Why would you pay to date a beached whale anyway? Better to be alone.
Not sure whether I've watched too many of these types of videos, I'm a misogynist, or it's just something within me as I've aged..........or perhaps all 3, however, for the last 5 years or so, with very rare exceptions, I can't stand to hear adult female voices. Like a word here or there, "Hello", "Good morning", etc. is fine, but beyond that, I feel myself getting irritated. Even listening to females talking amongst themselves, with no male involved in the conversation, I find to be annoying.........similar to listening to a little, constantly yapping dog. About 15 years ago, POF used to have a "forum" section, where various questions were posed. One of the more popular forum questions (which had tens of thousands of responses), was, "Have all the really older men given up on dating?" Overwhelmingly, the answers were some version of, "Hell yeah." I remember thinking to myself, "How can a male 'give up' on dating?" I just could not comprehend it. Fast forward 15 years........now I overstand why a man would, "give up" on dating.
Fun game when 2 women are talking, look at your watch and see how many times you hear the word "like." ...you can even spice it up and add "oh my gawwd" "seriously??" "Literally"
I've experienced pretty much the same thing. For a long time I thought the problem was with me. Then one day I put on my Spock hat and realized that vast majority of women who are or were in my life actually were behaving in the ways described by some misogynistic rants I've encountered.
even if you get matches, 95% of the people on there are horrible in conversation and it drives the motivation down to take someone on a date. just let things happen naturally, forcing conversations or a connection is the worst way to go about dating.
No. What she means is that she harbors no resentment towards the male species and just because she doesn't want to date shlubby dudes doesn't make her entitled and shallow or a man-hater.
I genuinely thought they might have some something good to share. Disappointed it was the same unaware garbage I’ve heard every girl say since 1st grade. The answer is too embarrassing for them to actually say. “Be a man that could easily tear apart her entire life with a single look, but who chooses to be kind to her and let her tag along, then she will be attracted to you.” They hate the truth but that’s what they actually run towards.
The Gal on the Right below Moff on the screen; what she really Means is; She Likes a Genetically Hot-Looking Men that she finds Physically and Sexually Attractive. Not just “She Likes Men!” This social Media and Dating App phenomena is the reason why dating and relationships are being destroyed! Why; unlimited Choice by Women that will truly never be Happy in Relationships.
I have to agree with Nicole on one thing. Men will swipe right on, and they will match with women, that they would not have a relationship with, and they wouldn’t bring around their friends. A good percentage of women they match with is a smash and dash. If men only swiped on women, that they would consider for a relationship, men would swipe on far less women.
LOL, that Jeska is invisible to men and I should be taking advice from her? That's hilarious! None of them is above 5. Shania, Nicole might have been 7's on a good day like 10, 15 years ago. Amber's a mess and still doesn't try to hid it, but her insta will be a blank page in a few years like the others. Y'all don't fool red pill guys. #theybelongtothestreets #Out
I'll correct my score on Shania, looking at her insta she's like a 7 seeing that she is tall and attractive. But her tattoos and vulgarity on social media drop that piece of ass to a pump and dump at best. It's a shame, because she does have good genetics. But the wall is near for her as well. It's all fun and games until it isn't anymore.
99% of men HAVE NOT EVEN REALLY TRIED. How do I know? Where is your six pack? Where is your 6 figure income? Those two things alone would elevate you into the top 15% and they are purely a matter of taking action. Instead you are going the low effort route and then moan about it. I am not saying life is easy. I am saying that when you have tried EVERYTHING and STILL don't get results, THEN is the time for soul searching. But pretending the world is against you when YOU have not even done 1% of the OBVIOUS things your could do, is COPE!
Sometimes on Facebook dating sites I’ll see pictures of middle age women who have let their bodies go, reaching 75, 100 or more pounds overweight. Then they post pictures holding their phone on their large belly pointed up at their face, looking up at their nostrils. They can’t even lift their arms up to take a picture from the same level as their face. I occasionally get these women responding to my profile and I have to reply with sorry not interested or sorry we are not a match. Then once in a while I get a follow up question of why and they want me to critique them. I made the mistake of doing that once and the woman got really mad at the way I critiqued her and I wasn’t trying to be mean. It’s like walking through a mine field.
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Our brains are wired differently. We're like 2 different species trying to co-exist.
We have 2 lobes or hemispheres in our skulls plus a few extra primitive vestiges from our ancient times of development. The left lobe is considered predominantly the logical side with a few exceptions. The right lobe has a lot of emotional processing that gives our lives so much richness of enjoyment.
There are connections between the 2 lobes: I think they're called synapses.
For illustrative purposes, let's say that men have 1,000 synapses between the two lobes.
Bio-scientists believe that women's brains have many more synapses between the lobes than men have, something between 6 to 10 times the number found in men's brains.
That means that while men only have 1,000 lobe connections in their brains, women have 6,000 to 10,000 lobe connections in their brains.
Does that mean that women are 6 to 10 times more intelligent than men?
No, what this means is that women are 6 to 10 times more vulnerable to possible confusion from too much interference from their emotions (too many lobe connecting synapses) when attempting to perform tasks requiring logical reasoning, such as choosing a future mate.
Yes, pleasant emotions (love) add wonderful depth to a marriage, but logical considerations must also be present and may rule.
So, this over-abundance of the emotional lobe's influence on the logical lobe in women's brains is why women have difficulty making more logical choices when looking for a future mate.
In other words, their logical reasoning gets overruled by their emotional thinking due to the lobe connecting synapses.
Conclusion: Men and women "think" differently, biologically and therefore socially.
1. Women, who "think" more with their emotions, have a mental "list" of their top wants in a mate. Most will not compromise or be willing to "give up" any one of those top wants on their list.
Their attitude is: "The heart wants what the heart wants."
Women approach the mate selection process as a "make or break" agreement.
Either they get what they want of their top wants, or there's no deal.
2. Men, who "think" more with their logic and reasoning, are willing to compromise on their top wants if an alternate quality attribute replaces one of their top wants.
If a woman is a super cook and enjoys making great meals but is also a bit disorganized, a man may accept those attributes in trade for his initial want for a woman who can balance a budget.
Men are basically bargaining people willing to trade this for that.
Smartphones need to be banned
Single with hookups never single.
If these women can't meet men in real like is a one big huge red flag. Stay single.
The fact Jeska can afford to swipe on only 1-2% of men on dating apps demonstrates just how messed up things have become.
I agree bro, look wise I’d say she’s a 6… one thing i do know for certain is there is going to be a big crisis in 10 years of depressed women that haven’t settled down because their standards was to high in the past
No shit. She is not a 6, she appears to be overweight to boot.
Nah homie. They hit 30 marry a desperate guy then are in our DM's saying how it's unfortunant we never got a chance to be together while we uncomfortably give them a soft let down. Because we got hotter and get attention from college girls and shit. It's wild. I'm actually happy it's this way. Long game with not miserable youthful women better than getting with one on the decline. We lucked out brother. I'd hate being a woman. Time goes fast as hell.
Women- Be yourself. Also women- Not like that
I would never dare a woman like Amber… She’s a train wreck
I laughed so hard at their advice. "Be yourself" so hilarious.
There is generalized truth to that- She wasn't being unkind-
I rolled my eyes when she said that.
Lol 😂
That makes it easier to filter out the beta simps. They don't want to waste their time.
@@cordfortina9073 You’re thinking too logically. Western women never think about logic, reality, laws of physics, etc
The more I listen to modern women; the more I'm happy to be single!!!!
Nailed it
I’m divorced and won’t get married again
They're definitely hypergamous and looking for a reasons to disqualify a man. They also would rather be single than settle or share a guy with dozens of women like Tristan Tate 15:28
@@edwardwallace1633my GF often asks why I'm against marriage. Lol.
Well, there is absolutely no benefit to the man. Every divorced guy I know says not to marry and every married guy I know is like "eh, it's not that great". Lol
As the saying goes" you can't negotiate attraction" 99.9% of the modern feminasty will not compromise unless they are taken captive by dire circumstances in life. If you start walking a way now in a matter of time you will establish a safe n sane distance away from the emerging crises n looming disaster in the horizon. 😊
this is why he shouldn't bring women on the panel
I'm 6'3, good looking, full head of hair, nice teeth, bench 305lbs, have a six-pack, am a homeowner, am a millionaire, and make $200k. Dating apps are a waste of time. Women are literal looking for a thing that does not even exist. They are not dealing in reality. I deal in reality all the time, whether I want to or not. Lease don't buy. They're just crazy.
Facts
Just curious, what do you do for a living?
Also, I have a good friend who is kind of built like you (not as jacked) but in real good shape. Takes care of himself, dresses nice, a really good guy to talk to and looks like a lot of the movie stars that girls find attractive. He also makes over 6 figures and owns a house. He struggles hard. It makes no sense because he's a good dude.
I'm sure he gets attention from ugly girls but none from girls that should be in his league.
Most girls in western society suffer from the save a dirt bag syndrome. So if you have your shit together they will not see you as enough drama and need of saving aka project. Therefore you are boring to them so they think. Hence they like the trouble going nowhere so called bad boys aka loser in real life 🤣
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How do you make 200k?
The way you calmly sit back while they talk themselves into greater levels of stupid.... It's impressive
I couldn't really find the right words to say "it"... and then I read your statement... and that's it! Thanks LowValueStud !
Lmfao
I know. I don't think there was any real honesty here. Just virtue signaling.
@@stevensenator4804 Indeed, senator sir😃.
A friend and i make this comment all the time. Rich has an uncanny ability to stare into the depths of hell and say 'so can you elaborate on that?'
Be attractive, Don't be unattractive, Be good looking that is about the depth of advice women can give
@cordfortina9073 you must have a 12 inch pole too!
If you are below 5'7 it is over.
Also please be tall lol
5'7? More like 6ft. Women are insane
Have money 🚩
This is why I avoid listening to women talking about such issues. The level of gaslighting and manipulation they apply to arguments is insidious.
Raised to be awful women with the lack of self awareness and accountability
@@zachslump5844 ALL women are like that.
It isn't insidious. They aren't even conscious of their doing it.
This is why women shouldn't be given the vote.
I feel you. What's crazier is, that's about 50% true. Half of the women that say this do Actually believe the crazy notions they take as fact, and run off of. It's very fluid. Which says a lot about the creature we're dealing with. That exact rationale and thinking spills to every other aspect of their lives. Those who know, cease to even really get upset with women, (generally). You just take what you know, 🤔 and Apply it to better achieve the results you're after for Your life, as with anything. As with everything! They tell you EVERYTHING if you 1. Know what you're looking at. And 2. Understand what it means- and all the implications that could/might come with it. And Rich does an excellent job of pointing said things out, (without all the hype and feminine behavior of many of these "male" content creators today.) As a MAN should! Blessings! Love the channel Rich ✌🏾
@@Tinted_Ego_Teedo It's why treating them as Adult Children is the answer.
“never ask a fish how to fish” - R.I.P. Patrice O’neal
For real, do the opposite of everything they said.
Black Phillip was the realest to ever live.
@@youvegotmysong Imagine if Patrice and George Carlin were both still alive and had their say on how things are today. Oh boy.
Nicole states the first thing a guy should do is be in good shape, exercise and work on physical appearance.
Meanwhile, women in the US are close to 50% obesity rate.
The average American woman weighs 17 lbs (7.7 kg) more than I do
Spending your time lifting heavy things gets you no closer to financial freedom for practically anyone. It is a lifestyle to have a 6 pack & it means you give less time to all the other things that make a complete adult life. Looks fade with time and if looks are the primary attractor for any potential mate - they're not grown up yet. Probably in massive debt. Probably have no clue how money works and will remain a serf to the rich the rest of their life, hating life sitting in their car in traffic. Enjoy those muscles. I'll enjoy my financial freedom and you'll be working for me.
@@samjon6403 sounds like some painfully acquired wisdom brother, I hope it didn't happen like that for you
@@samjon6403 When I saw the economy shut down (lockdowns) but the stock market going all time highs - I knew I must learn how money works. After years of research and sacrificing the whole way, to invest, I'm not long for working for another man. I own my own business and plan to continue chasing my own dreams. I'll share that a single investment I made in January did a 34x by April. $DMTR is the ticker symbol. Company is called Dimitra. Morpheus Network is my second favorite crypto. Fk the system. I keep $1-$2k in my bank for paying bills, the rest of my wealth is outside of the system. We live in a debt based economic system designed to devalue humans. If you trade your time for money you are being made worth less as a function of the moneyprinting. There's a reason a household can't be run on a single income anymore. The dollar is a unit of debt. By design. You have actionable knowledge to free yourself if you do the research. Non sovereign currencies. Decentralization.
@@c1s1125you know a lot of ppl that are in shape aren't in the gym 24/7? Many of them just eat healthy (the key thing) and then work out like an hour a day.
Also, it often gives you more energy throughout the day. Working out is also good for your brain.
When I worked in corporate, most of the people higher up worked out a little bit each day.
Oftentimes, working out helps with discipline which can translate to making more money.
There are studies that show working out and making more money have a strong correlation .
As an older beta guy I have some good news for the 80% of young men who women consider substandard. Everything except your energy level gets better as you age as long as you take care of your health and your money.
1. Every year after 18 you lose 1-2% of your sex drive plus the women your age take a steep dive in their desirability as they reach their late 20’s. That means the monkey on your back tormenting you slowly diminishes as you get older letting you enjoy life more and more.
2. You gain money and respect as you get older and the competition and hostility with other men fades away.
3. You become more stable, make wiser decisions and stop making stupid impulsive mistakes which makes life easier.
4. You stop caring what the world thinks of you and learn to pursue things that really make you happy.
5. Unlike many women, you’re not 40 years old with the box wine and cat crying over pictures of yourself when you were young and hot and had the opposite sex clamoring for your attention. Beta guys don’t have a 15 year party that starts at puberty. My teens and much of my 20’s were the worst time of my life things just got better from there.
If you don’t get a happy marriage-kids enjoy the time/money/security that comes with being a bachelor. Again: Your health and your money are the keys to happiness as you get older.
Edit: I guess I should clarify something as far as beta guys and women. If you have any kind of money and aren’t totally unattractive women will probably start giving you a modest amount of attention around the time you hit 30 and the women your age are hitting the wall. You should understand that it’s very unlikely that attention is because they are sexually/romantically attracted to you. It’s because they are looking for the money/labor/security of a beta male provider. They’ve realized they’re not marrying the alpha Chad and the PUA’s and bad boys don’t want to play with them anymore so she’s “settled” for you. Now, you can marry her but understand you are closer to her 21st choice than her first. AND, she knows once you’ve provided the things she wants from you she can team up with the state and bury you in a divorce. And even if she stays with you she has no incentive to treat you well. Your marriage might work out, but probably not.
You must be kidding me. Women detest old farts. 😆
@@cheekymonkeygirl3378he’s not directly talking about 70 year olds, he’s referring to how much better life gets at 30 and 40 if you actually take his advice
Sir, your point about "team up with the state and bury you in a divorce" is wonderfully spot on. That is one of the chief reasons I'll never marry. Being a sexless bachelor is better than being a husband who's tormented with a sexless marriage and a blindsided divorce followed by a heap of alimony and asset division. At least there is no desired woman in my life, I can (mostly) live with that. I think that is the nature of being a man, sir - this push-pull towards and away from the feminine archetype. Cheers!
God bless you
I'm 53 and never married, no kids. Last week a super hot 26 year old girl practically demanded I have sex with her (four times in a row). I actually had a 22 year old who looks like Princess Daphne from Dragon's Lair run over and hug me at a concert and that drove the 26 year old crazy (and remember, women my age want to call the police on me if I so much as order eggs from a 29 year old).
Nicole just has the attitude of a mid chick who has been ran through and discarded over and over and over and yet STILL is doing the exact same thing.
I've seen another clip of these girls and IMO Nicole is the worst. She just seems like she's full of sh*t and will tell you whatever you want to hear. Then whenever she speaks more, the truth comes out. People bash Amber, but at least she's honest. You know what you are getting with her. She's a fun party girl. That's it. Nicole would be the girl that would make a good guy wait while she has 3 one night stands and then lies to the good guy.
Rt, Nicole reminds me of those girls who have been ran through in college by Tyronne and Chad and have now gotten with God and become conservative and now want to take things seriously now thinking it will change things for her. If she claims to be Christian like she does then why didn't she marry earlier? And why is she wearing a nose ring? These Western women are scams we now have a lot of women now claiming to be conservative Christians and they think that can lockdown a man for them. Western society is a dead place and anyone who marries in a Western country is foolish men that want to marry either religiously or non-religiously should go to a country with a patriarchal system, not to a female-first primary social order country.
She’s a §1V+ lmao
Uptight little tart she is
she's got an inflated sense of her self worth due to onlyfans. Guys have to stop simping for women on onlyfans. JUST STOP.
Women: "I've done a lot of research" = "I'm just bullshitting whatever to win an argument"
They will lie just to not seem like a bad person.
😂😂😂
Same chick. Doesn't know the difference between misogyny and misandry 😵💫
I think Nicole was right about guys should not be swiping right on 4's. Tattoos(pass). Fat(pass) kids(pass). Blue hair(pass). Piercings(pass). Woman holding men to a fitness standard is good for us. Men need to start doing the same.
Word. I actually thought their expectations were pretty reasonable.
If these women dated Superman, they'd complain about the size of his cape.
They would like Batman though. He's very rich.
Re: Cape: LOL.
They're not liking Batman, they like his money. Then eventually leave when done no matter how loyal he's been to her... "You just cant make me happy Bruce"
😮 !!! You don't think that the size of his cape is important 😂 ??? 🤔 Maybe you should give it a thought ??
Imagine, females making dating choices on the basis of hypergamy and narcissism. As far as marrying a Cosmo-girl is concerned, it’s a recipe for a personal disaster unless you have insight enough to see it Rich. Thanks for all you do to help men make better choices. I doubt any of these women are stable enough to pair bond with a man in-order to support their man, act as a mother and wife and not end up resenting their husband because they wanted to build a career instead of a legacy.
what do you mean cosmo-girl? And why is it a disaster?
@@Nick-fb9nt The cosmo-girl cannot be explained she has to be experienced.
@fordshaw5833 she comes in different shades I agree. It's pretty much pick your poison experience.
It used to be a disaster to marry a beautiful girl but today 5s are just as arrogant as beauties ever were, if not worse because it's a dysfunctional, angry, jaded fury.
Amen
So not only do i have to provide for myself but i have to work twice as hard to provide for the society? All so you can have the privilege of dating Amber. What a reward!
Loll seriously. These women are so stupid
I almost choked on that......what the F? I'm already paying child support for kids that aren't mine and alimony to women I never met through outrageous taxation and now you want me to work for non-profits and the environment too? F that and the high horse she is riding on.
And you need to hire an entire film crew and marketing department. 🙂
Amber is a 4 at best
An adjustable 4 lol
I like shows like this because they expose a womans true nature. They are not better than men or better people. In fact id say the opposite. Amber is great example of the new generation of woman being entitled, selfish, and shallow.
Workout like crazy, hire a 1200 photographer to shoot your photos, wear the nicest clothes. Then put down your a 5’7” accountant and watch those three matches a month come in baby!
They have no real advice. Whatever word vomit comes out of their mouth, what they really mean is just “be” Chad Thunderstroke. Connecting with the right woman should be natural and easy, yet they’re turning it into the hardest job interview of your life. Not interested.
@@gwall1789 that's why none are in a LTR big red flag
I’m a 6’ accountant and I do ok
I really like how rich framed his question. What would you say to the 90 percent of men who are completely un-takable in your eyes. Lmao
@@Luca_Brasi1971 lol exactly.
nicole: men and women swipe right equally
WHAT? that's 100% bullshitttttt lol
@@muskokamike127 I heard that and immediately knew that wasn't true at all.
@@Josh-fp2qn I saw the data from tinder. I think it's less than 5%. (number of times women swipe right)
Nicole: "men should improve their profile"; me with good bio, 9 photos regularly updated, hesitating hiring a pro photographer, versus 99% of women with 2 blurred photos :😱😱😱
Lately, I often get attention from single women in person.... but on apps, not a single match and not even a handful on likes on several apps combined! I could take pictures of myself because I'm a pro photog but that's only going to attract picky women who are hard to please
She's basically saying "men, if you're not in the top 4% then you need to improve your look".
@@bigneiltoo yes but why lying? Just say get the 6 packs and the 6 figures, don't just say take better pictures
The whole issue is men simping for women. If you post a profile anywhere and don't get any hits in the first day, delete it. Men: unless your Rich Rollo Andrew, don't bother with online dating.
@@aurelienlabonde7874 To women, the reason all men aren't in the top 4% is because they just need to improve. But if they all did women would still only like the top 4%. That's why we need to replace the word "beautiful" with "top 4%". That way we can't say Lizzo is beautiful and we CAN say that any men who get dates in 2023 are beautiful. Notice that practically no actual men can declare themselves to be attractive today? Women love it that way. SHE will decide whether you look good. IF you behave.
I was on POF in the late 2000's and it was the same. I'm 6'4", lifetime basketball player, I'm not bad looking and I would get 1-2 matches at most a week. I went on Tinder years later and it was the same. Most women think something better is coming around the bend and it's the prince and that shoe is gonna fit HER, so they waist most of their lives believing that and end up 35-55 on FB complaining they can't find a good man. Don't feel bad for women who end up alone, they had all the options and it's their fault for turning down all the men they did. I do much better in person with females, they will even asked me out. Get off the apps.
Yeah only something like 10% of women who are single and looking are on dating apps so just don't bother with them.
It’s the apps bro. They’re designed to keep you on there. Most of the chicks that probably would right swipe you don’t even get to see you and that’s how the apps are designed. They’re there to make money.
Yeah I was on POF then also. I'm over 6' and not jacked, but in shape. I'd have tons and tons of fat ugly girls hit me up. I'd probably get a match once or twice a month and that didn't guarantee we'd meet up and most of the time that would go nowhere. They either wouldn't want to meet up or after the first initial message would just ghost.
Facts 💯
I get surprised how they stay on them for so long as in women. Like the same ones are on their from 5 years ago
I love how the out of shape chicks advice to dudes is to workout and look good. Why aren’t they taking their own advice?
Because Lizzo told them all women are beautiful.
they want 666 guy. They basically want to have the devil. Think about it. 6ft guy, 6 pack abs, 6 figure income. The guy all women want. These guys are basically top 10 percent at most. These guys are players cold approaching all women and when they get knocked up these chics end up hating men either turning lesbian or destroying betas taking their money either in relationships or settling and divocing and taking half of everything. FACTS! no BS.
You'll never have the real truth with women, only if they are sure no men can hear them...this was a waste of time.
Yep, exactly
I think that was part of the point of doing this video. Rich just let them talk. The rest was all on them. The fact that they did not offer any "real" advice to the 90% of men meant that there was no answer. "Just be yourself.'"
I remember one documentary about the Holocaust where people arriving at the concentration camp asked one of the Jewish workers there "what are they going to do with us?" and his response was "would it change anything if I told you?" To me, that's kind of like the "just be yourself" answer that the women gave here. Nothing is going to change the outcome.
100%
when they are themselves confused about what they want and never satisfied by what they get or have, what suggestion can they give🤔
Thank you Rich for being yourself!
The vibe I got from all the women is they don’t care about men
Rich and Moff really want and care about helping men
My opinion is women have been doing this forever and men just started coming onboard since the internet
Keep going Rich and Moff!
Exactly! This has been going on for a long long time. People blame the internet for whats happening. But in reality all the internet did - was just expose the reality.
Shits been going on for centuries.
lets be honest they just there for the clout - attention is a drug to them
Obviously. Women are biologically incapable of caring about men outside of what they provide for women.
That was vibe I instantly picked up. They don’t care about helping or giving constructive feedback to 95%.
Also notice how the Rich said about Amber “If Tristan Tate sent her a DM and flew her to Romania, she’d forget about those other two guys.” She was grinning ear to ear because she knows it’s true.
We've learned more about women in 10 years of social media than 150 years of psychology.
...OF girl is a headache. Hard pass
Nicole is the exact girl who I wouldn’t bother with who seems angry, bitter, unhappy and lacks fun
She's blaming men for having bad photos. Meanwhile 99% of female profiles would get immediately rejected by her own standards
Sorry Nicole but guys don’t spend 30 minutes on one picture using 20 filters. Woman are just ridiculous!
@@dragorn3212 but they don't get rejected so the standards are different so the advice shouldn't be the same.
@@hustle3011 so men put in little effort on a visual-first dating platform and then complain that they don't get any attention on it. Lol ok
Advice from a woman. That’s rich.
Yeah Rich Cooper
Blah, blah, blah....
@ryangrissom1948 shouldn't you be on Grindr?
Unless they're telling you to self improve, do the opposite.
Especially the younger blonde Amber. Could you imagine listening to someone who talks like she does.
The nerve of Nicole to say that! The delusion runs too deep. Wherever I get in life, I will never spend a second of my time or resources on such women. This is the kind that you avoid like the plague.
Oh, how thoughtful for Nicole to tell the men who are not in the top 4% of looks to present themselves as more attractive.
While she is past her prime & avarage at best💀
@@oooooooooooo2332 The girl's a beauty.
She gave specifics maybe you didn’t agree but she explained herself
Nicole is a future cat lady....
She's not wrong. Prioritize how you look and women will pay attention to you more. OR you could just keep wearing your jerseys and Walmart outfits, showing off that ponch belly and whining about women that aren't simply wowed by your income.
You heard it guys……just be honest……dating advice from Mom😂😂😂
The problem is women are so in love with themselves they're blinded to anything other than themselves. They cant love you and they cant see you because all their thought and energy goes into themselves.
Nailed it lol
I love it when only fan girls give dating advice. It’s undatable / recreational use only, talking about how to long term.
Sadly, 25 years ago I would listen to these women give advice and take it seriously. Hell, up to maybe 7 years ago I would have. You will absolutely guarantee yourself no action by taking a woman’s advice. With anything…..
Yeah we've all been there. It seems so logic to hear them out what they want and look for in men and being young you are easily impressed by good looking women telling you their nonsense. But the more experienced and wiser you get as you grow older you start realizing they are full of sh! t, it only works for Chad, because they always skip the part of becoming attractive in the first place. They just assume attraction is there already. They don't think men can actually self-improve in their basics, they think certain features are just there naturally for men. It's either there, or its not.
With dating apps the reality is men are more forgiving when it comes to female looks mainly because of biological drive. Women going for top 1-2% is based on looks primarily which is pure biology really. They are a lot more visual than men think and technically that is their Primary motivation as in on dating apps. The stats the numbers these women on this panel just proved it. We give women too much attention they need to earn it.
I was once given advice from a women that just because she has other bodies on the side you can still take her out to dinner and treat her right, you aren’t dating her.
My problem is not that she talked to other guys. My problem is she made it obvious. I did not take her out to dinner and I no longer talk to that advice giver. LOL
Nicole has the attitude that eliminates her from the men she wants!
The moment you ask a question any question to a woman they think you’re trying to demean them. Their egos are so paper thin. “What would you say to those 90% of men who are invisible?” I’d say “do better in each and every aspect of your life. Make yourself desirable to the women you want to attract.” Women hate self introspection and critical thought because it leads to items they need to improve upon.
I've still never witnessed a woman smarter than me, or the vast majority of men.
Ever?
I’ve learned that even if they are smarter (I’ve known a few female doctors, etc) that are still hindered by emotions. They will make poor and impulsive and just awful decisions based on whimsical emotions. So, a pretty smart man should hold an advantage over women with intelligence.
@@SeanP7195asking them how to problem-solve is indicative of intelligence or the lack thereof when it comes to women.
Lol, right …
@@ckel4605 He's saying even when you find women that are intelligent in certain areas they still have other areas they're extremely lacking in, like simple logistical issues.
It takes forever to get 1 meaningful answer out of them.
That's a female communication trait
I still remember the moment that I as a divorced schoolteacher, was in the Philippines and I realized in amazement, "Women here can actually see me!"
Enjoy your cats
😂
Why do you guys keep mentioning cats? Do you realise many women do not see a problem with having them? Is it meant to be an |nsult or something? I don’t get it. Does any woman actually get offended when you bring it up? 😂
Simpsons tv show reference,
And a box of wine
You're retahded if you think any of these women are forced to be alone. They swipe on 5% of guys because they get hundreds upon hundreds of matches in a week. They don't need to enjoy cats, they have lots of men hitting them up.
I'm a 5'4" male. I am slowly realizing that I am invisible to so many of these women. None of these women would even talk to me at a bar or in any social situation. Even if I was a philanthropic, selfless, rich, clean guy, there is no way that I would not be visible to any of these women. They wouldn't even let me talk to them.
"Do you not like men?" Priceless.
Amber:
What's mine is mine, and what's yours is mine.
Their advice if honest is: make at least 6 figures, lose weight and hit the gym 2 hours a day until you're 5% body fat with a six pack and jacked, pay $100 for a professional haircut, have a perfect tan, then maybe we'll talk if you're at least 6ft tall
Nicole: I love men = HighBodyCount
Gentlemen. Focus on yourself.
all trash out there
It has gotten to the point where guys are literally having leg lengthening surgery to gain a few inches just to have a woman "look" at them let alone swipe on them SMH
Honestly guys just need to fib more, if you’re 5’10 put 6’0 or 6’1 on your profile, women won’t notice the difference when meeting anyway and if they do you’re dodging a bullet anyway if she drops you over it.
@mikeg2491 yeah that's not going to work for us 5'5-5'8 guys lol. Guess I didn't eat enough wheates growing up 🤷
@@joeplem5329 hah well if you’re 5’5 I don’t know why you’d go for surgery for that extra 2-3 inches either I don’t really think it will make a difference except to your wallet and health. Use that money to focus on a better wardrobe, take some night classes for a better job or something more productive.
Women have gotten way more plastic surgery. Time for men to amp it up
@@joeplem5329 damn straight. we are in the dreaded desert tumbleweed zone. Lying cant save us!
"Nicole: on the internet, everything on the internet is true, Rich"... hilarious 😂
Was was being sarcastic
Amber is interesting. She says that you have to be a provider to society and that every guy she ever dated was a provider to society yet she is single, how come?
Yes! That was my exact thought when she finished that sentence! She's dated multiple men who were eager to contribute to society, so good guys I presume. Why couldn't she lock them down? These non-married women need to stop giving dating advice.
They have a very different definition of provider, they’ll go for a high paid ambulance chasing attorney who contributes nothing to the world over a garbage man who keeps the streets sanitary.
Not sure if she said it here or on the other clip. She's on onlyfans.
When she says "dates" she means they took her out and they had sex. That isn't real commitment from the guy though. She's just a fk toy for these rich dudes. They will never commit.
That's the confusion with women like her since she slept with a man of status, she thinks she will get the relationship with a man like that.
Because she’s shallow
Any dude whom works, pays taxes, thus providing for society. 😂
They would all say: Become a top shelf man or die trying because either way we don't give a shit. Life is all about us and what we want and need. GIRL POWER!!!!! YYYAAAYYY :D
“Just be yourself” Translation: Just be something else.
Just be yourself... "so we can know immediately who is the alpha chad and who is the beta."
nope
Can’t wait to take the newfound wisdom of being more honest so I I get more swipes from women seeing my first pic on the apps
I got a laugh out of that too.
Lol
They have such a difficult time hiding their bitterness.
100% 80% are trash
An average woman should only be entitled to an average man. I see these women as average women when they finally get to their mid 30's. I wish them the best of luck, but I can see a few of these ladies making the usual man shaming tic tocs , if they don't get the man, they think they're entitled too. The O.F girl is in for a big awakening when her looks go.
What they say out loud: "just be honest and be yourself". What they aren't saying but really mean: "be tall, be really wealthy, be hot, be ripped, be everything I want, I am the table".
I'm 61 now, I tried dating in my 50's, eight dating sites, I had professional photos on my profiles. I'm 5'8", a fit 5, no debt, own my home, $1 million net worth, own a small software company. Every woman that I went on a date with either catfished me or used me for a foodie call, because they were looking for a "taller wealthier" man. And this was average and below average women, most women 50+ are overweight to obese.
We're really not that interested what they say tbh. Why would a guy want to take time away from himself to jump through hoops for ungrateful gold diggers? Personally I'd rather do without the anxiety. I enjoy my own time too much
Chick on the bottom right absolutely LOATHES men. You can tell by the tone of her voice. I can actually hear the air compress between her and the bricks as she hurtles towards the wall at Mach speed.
Clever, may that compressed air become a sonic boom - as far as the kinetic impact to her life 😊
Ambers voice is nails on a chalk board.
I've been the "nice guy" my whole life. Now I'm 75, and more than ever, I am convinced I was correct not to change. I was an English-Literature teacher in some rough schools and I was damned good at pushing back, and supporting my wife and kids. I taught the heritage the left wants to bring down and for 33 years I didn't back down. Administration was no help and often I had to stand up to parents. I was bookish and I never apologized for it. And I'll tell you now, and those women, a woman cannot appreciate a nice guy if she is not nice. She wants to exert her masculine energy I'm not her guy, and damned glad she doesn't want me. My Chinese wife and I soon will celebrate our 50th wedding anniversary. I'm Caucasian male. And I wouldn't trade my wife for a mile-long line of beautiful white women. Too many of the American women today can go party all they want and treat me as invisible. I really don't care. They are losers. Especially if they aren't having kids, inside marriage! Get real! Get married! And get with God! Stop the promiscuity, or live with big regrets when you get elderly.
They say be yourself but be someone else on your dating app photos.
Instead of playing video games, women like to play human games. It all makes so much sense when I think of it this way. Life is just a game for them.
None of these women are in relationships. And we're supposed to listen to their advice. 😂
a mix of thrash with different flavors. None of them deserve a one night stand let alone to be the mother of a man's children.
all trash
But you'll listen to guys that aren't in relationships either...
Shania had a good answer... If what you're doing isn't working, change!
"Be yourself"
Translation: be 6 foot, 6 figures, 6 inches...
Statistically, that a single digit percentage of the population.
Two years on Tinder, one date. Two years on Match, no dates, no hits. Two years on Bumble, no dates, got matches but got ghosted. I stopped wasting my money
The only thing a man can do to get more women is get in shape, dress better, look better and get better personality. Make more money get a better house and a better car. A go to places where there's women. That's about it. The competition is tough. There's just not enough decent women to go around. We need a good war where 30% of the men die in order to balance out the dating market. Like in the old days.
Most guys are losers and refuse to put in the work. 😆
Agreed. Send Gen Z and half of Millenial men and women who havent served already 😂
I can’t imagine what it would have been like to be a surviving young German or Japanese man after WW2, even with foreign GIs snagging up war brides you probably had your pick of the litter.
In reality, people have it too good, so they become really picky. When you view things from a necessity perspective, like I need food and water, the perspective dramatically changes.
@@melenico4512 1st world problems, you can guarantee if shtf all these suburban housewives will be ditching their soft husbands for the duck dynasty guys with guns and beards
Having good pictures works in theory but what they’re not saying is be hotter than every other guy and have money. I’ve been ignored and stood up by women that told other ppl they’re very attracted. The truth is they’re distracted by what else they can find or hung up on an old fling. Then there’s the extremely damaged ones that are single but only get on there to feel better about themselves and have no intention of actually dating.
IMO it’s not even the hot guys they go for, they instinctively look for the guys with photos of themselves driving boats, hiking in a foreign country, whatever, it signals to them you have money & are fit even if subconsciously.
100% mate and this is why men shouldn’t get on apps. I’ve seen first hand a 5 muck around on dating apps, laughing with her friends of all the guys swiping right on her, why because she really had no interest; she wanted her ex back who cheated on her. They’re all playing games and using it for attention. Get off and stop the attention, it’s the only way.
Stop complaining bro
It's just another form of virtue signaling and blaming men. How hypocritical of her to say that when literally 80% of female profiles are just ugly selfies with obvious snap chat filter. But as always men are held to the extreme standard. The only solution is the revert back to biblical style relationships where men were afforded more power
@@mikeg2491 Exactly they are judging the background and context of each photo to an extremely hypocritical and superficial standard. The pics have to display disposable income via fancy vacations or expensive hobbies. social status, career status, and additionally a good physique pic that has to be done perfectly in such a way that you don't look try hard. When guys don't have all of these they are just getting the scraps of online dating
The actual answer to the question "what would you say to those guys, the ones that are invisible to you?" It was the pause. After that it was all just lying.
All I know is, as you get older you start to realize getting laid isn't worth having to deal with a modern women.
Amen, brother.
66 here and I haven't dated in 10 years. My sex drive has pretty much dropped off a cliff (I used to be controlled by it!) and I'm fine on my own. At this point sex is not worth the hassle (not even phone sex!). Though I might start dating to find a women to split costs with .
By the age of 34 I knew, I. 41 now
All women: "I'm a 10" Reality: 90 percent are 6 and below.
My takeaway - men take realistic photos of themselves and the RARE time he gets a date the women are impressed he looks like his photos.
Whereas when the man sees the woman in person she’s ALWAYS 2-3 points lower in looks. Makeup, filters, photoshop, FaceTune, smoothing, airbrushing - and worst of all they THIN themselves. They are always 20-30lbs heavier.
And men are the shallow ones???
Love this. Men like me who earn in the top 2% of earners, are fit and take care of all life issues see more evidence of the validity of the pump and dump culture.
This was pure gold
11:52 not all gym bros have a healthy body. Train with a purpose fellas.
Most of them don't. 80 per cent ball park are reflection athletes .
JESUS, H Chrisht onna drippin' shtick! They ask them for SEVEN minutes straight (and about 3 times): What do guys who are usually invisible to you, have to do, to become more visible? And then the answers are HORRIBLE!
Jeska: Be more honest, so we can better sniff out you guys (the invisible ones).
Amber (with Valley Girl Vocal Fry tone): What have you done for me lately? We don't want to tell men how to treat a woman. We keep looking until we find a man who already does know.
Shania: Know yer place. If you are among the invisible crowd; BACK OFF! Take a step back. Stay there, ja!
Nicole: I'm not even talking about the invisible ones. I wanna address the Chads and Tyronnes: WHY DO YOUR PROFILES NOT REFLECT BETTER THAT YOU'RE CHADS ann TYRONNES? HM? Also: TRUE masculinity means to know how to become less invisible. Because we know that was actually the initial question, but we don't care, and if you don't even already know the answer to that question, we're NOT interested in you eitherwho. Also: If you're struggling with women, you're NOT a man, and therefore invisible.
I can't say I'm surprised 🤣🤣🤣🤣 This has been uplifting, Rich. Thank you for that! 🙂♥🍸
These kind of answers is what to expect from women most of the times. You are always better of asking the top 5% of guys how to improve your chances
@@SunriseFestival To be fair i don't want anything to do with a woman who can't be honest. Why can't they be honest? because they know that would reveal their true nature?
@@spacelogic101whatif All women look down on 80% of men. Even within relationships. What a time to be alive huh
Stop taking the Lord’s glorious name in vain!
Lol, as a man to attract a woman…you just have to be exactly what she imagines in her head of what she wants…that’s all
I'd say I swipe on about 50% of women. And out of those I'll actually be interested in 5% for a relationship. You gotta filter out all the single mothers, the far away people, the people you're not compatible with. Then you go on a bunch of dates with what's left and you're left with nothing.
So then I go try meeting women at the gym and the majority of them are married, don't want to be approached, etc etc. I hate bars and clubs, too loud and annoying of an environment for me.
So then I have to mass spam approaching women and hire professional photographers.
And repeat, over and over.
Men should only swipe on the top 10% of women, even if the man is a 3/10. If you reverse the hypergamy the women will freak out at the lack of attention, and the 'dating' company would go bankrupt. Why would you pay to date a beached whale anyway? Better to be alone.
These are 4 - 9 'ers As Coach Greg Adams would say
Ladies, if you set the hurdles too high, men stop jumping.
Hope you do more of these types of interviews Rich
7:42 that's why you NEVER hear dating advice from women. Be yourself its the WORST advice EVER
A bunch of average, entitled, future cat ladies. Nothing to see here guys
Not sure whether I've watched too many of these types of videos, I'm a misogynist, or it's just something within me as I've aged..........or perhaps all 3, however, for the last 5 years or so, with very rare exceptions, I can't stand to hear adult female voices. Like a word here or there, "Hello", "Good morning", etc. is fine, but beyond that, I feel myself getting irritated. Even listening to females talking amongst themselves, with no male involved in the conversation, I find to be annoying.........similar to listening to a little, constantly yapping dog.
About 15 years ago, POF used to have a "forum" section, where various questions were posed. One of the more popular forum questions (which had tens of thousands of responses), was, "Have all the really older men given up on dating?" Overwhelmingly, the answers were some version of, "Hell yeah." I remember thinking to myself, "How can a male 'give up' on dating?" I just could not comprehend it. Fast forward 15 years........now I overstand why a man would, "give up" on dating.
That's just modern western women for you. It's much better in the east but its also changing fast for the worse due to western cultural influence.
Fun game when 2 women are talking, look at your watch and see how many times you hear the word "like." ...you can even spice it up and add "oh my gawwd" "seriously??" "Literally"
I've experienced pretty much the same thing. For a long time I thought the problem was with me. Then one day I put on my Spock hat and realized that vast majority of women who are or were in my life actually were behaving in the ways described by some misogynistic rants I've encountered.
even if you get matches, 95% of the people on there are horrible in conversation and it drives the motivation down to take someone on a date.
just let things happen naturally, forcing conversations or a connection is the worst way to go about dating.
I personally don't find any of those women attractive. But I appreciate the honesty and entitled attitude...
When she says "I love men" what she actually means is "I love the 1% of men that I actually see".
She love free dinner dates by simps on dating app
No. What she means is that she harbors no resentment towards the male species and just because she doesn't want to date shlubby dudes doesn't make her entitled and shallow or a man-hater.
I genuinely thought they might have some something good to share. Disappointed it was the same unaware garbage I’ve heard every girl say since 1st grade. The answer is too embarrassing for them to actually say. “Be a man that could easily tear apart her entire life with a single look, but who chooses to be kind to her and let her tag along, then she will be attracted to you.” They hate the truth but that’s what they actually run towards.
The Gal on the Right below Moff on the screen; what she really Means is; She Likes a Genetically Hot-Looking Men that she finds Physically and Sexually Attractive. Not just “She Likes Men!”
This social Media and Dating App phenomena is the reason why dating and relationships are being destroyed! Why; unlimited Choice by Women that will truly never be Happy in Relationships.
I have to agree with Nicole on one thing. Men will swipe right on, and they will match with women, that they would not have a relationship with, and they wouldn’t bring around their friends. A good percentage of women they match with is a smash and dash. If men only swiped on women, that they would consider for a relationship, men would swipe on far less women.
You wouldn’t give them a job with their general tonality answering a question.
They Virtue Signal, but will not say they want: "TALL CHAD."
LOL, that Jeska is invisible to men and I should be taking advice from her? That's hilarious! None of them is above 5. Shania, Nicole might have been 7's on a good day like 10, 15 years ago. Amber's a mess and still doesn't try to hid it, but her insta will be a blank page in a few years like the others. Y'all don't fool red pill guys. #theybelongtothestreets #Out
Brilliant and spot on .
I'll correct my score on Shania, looking at her insta she's like a 7 seeing that she is tall and attractive. But her tattoos and vulgarity on social media drop that piece of ass to a pump and dump at best. It's a shame, because she does have good genetics. But the wall is near for her as well. It's all fun and games until it isn't anymore.
99% of men HAVE NOT EVEN REALLY TRIED. How do I know? Where is your six pack? Where is your 6 figure income? Those two things alone would elevate you into the top 15% and they are purely a matter of taking action. Instead you are going the low effort route and then moan about it. I am not saying life is easy. I am saying that when you have tried EVERYTHING and STILL don't get results, THEN is the time for soul searching. But pretending the world is against you when YOU have not even done 1% of the OBVIOUS things your could do, is COPE!
Sometimes on Facebook dating sites I’ll see pictures of middle age women who have let their bodies go, reaching 75, 100 or more pounds overweight. Then they post pictures holding their phone on their large belly pointed up at their face, looking up at their nostrils. They can’t even lift their arms up to take a picture from the same level as their face. I occasionally get these women responding to my profile and I have to reply with sorry not interested or sorry we are not a match. Then once in a while I get a follow up question of why and they want me to critique them. I made the mistake of doing that once and the woman got really mad at the way I critiqued her and I wasn’t trying to be mean. It’s like walking through a mine field.
The most important factor is that all of them are a solid 4,5 on a sunny day with no make-up on.
Just be yourself is the biggest crock of shit I have ever heard from women. Period.
Will never tell you the truth
Repealing the 19th Amendment would solve so many problems.
Giving women freedom and rights was a huge mistake.
Remember guys you don't have to hire women.
Don't help women
Don't give women money
Don't buy an Onlyfans subscription
Don't use "game" or "pick up"
Don't hire women
You don't need a degree to be clever or smart
"Just take better pictures bro" personified in one video