You're wrong. I've gone on trips with my guys to Vegas charter fishing trips to North Carolina. My wife has gone to Jazz festivals with her cousins and are now planning a cruise with her cousins and aunts.
@@BulldogMindset married for almost 20 years. My wife travels for work; I travel for work. If something was going to happen, there was plenty of opportunity. Hell, I'm planning a trip to a rib fest with the guys. If you're talking to a bunch of 22-year-olds, I can tell you, the amount of hunting, fishing, and golf tricoupleduple with the wine tours and marathons some of our wives take, it's not even a second thought. I won't have an issue telling people to don't live like you're single when you're dating or married. But trips with friends... I've been traveling with the same group of guys for over 30 years. My being married didn't stop that. The types of trips changed because I grew up.
Pretty sure he’s addressing and talking about those young relationships starting out not old folk relationships that are 20 and 30 yrs old. Great video.
@@macphistorules I get that. But I have a step-daughter and 8 nieces in their twenties. If they brought that to me about their boyfriend, I would laugh and tell them to give him my number and I can explain why I told them tell him to kick rocks. I'm the same way with my nephews.
""Would you be OK with a boys trip to Thailand?" she'll probably say no and if she doesn't she doesn't really care about you. BTW, if she says yes, find the significant others from the group of women that are going and start planning. If it comes down to and she insists try: "If you want to go, I think it's a bad idea but I can't stop you, but we are both going to get full STI/STD panels when you return." She'll protest and you just respond that you are very protective of your health. Don't engage in logic. Just set your rules and start planning your exit.
I been wondering where this guy went. back when I was looking to get into tech he covered some stuff I believe, he was spot on. glad to see he is well, he is still very spot on!
Agreed. Great video John. I think women are quick to discount the things that men set aside to be in a relationship. When men ask women to give up things they previously enjoyed as single people, it is often made to sound like we are violating some inalienable human right. I think it is really just an expression of selfishness on the part of women (or men) who want the benefits of the relationship without also committing to the costs. I, as a man, am sharing my resources, resources that could go to all kinds of other places. I am setting aside my natural proclivity to seek variety between the sheets in order to embrace loyalty. My question to a girlfriend wanting to party it up in Aruba would be, "sure, and which of the things I do for our relationship would you like me to stop doing?" I do have a question... what about trips with family members? Let's say your partner is close with a sibling (or parent) and they want to go off for a few days and share time together, even some place that might normally be off-limits for a "girl's trip". I have mixed feelings on it. Obviously keeping a relationship with family is important, so no concerns there. Go out for an evening, no problem at all. However, for me personally, I didn't commit to all the "costs" and responsibilities of a relationship to be left at home regularly while my partner is off enjoying life elsewhere, even if the chance of them cheating is minimal. I might not see my partner throughout the normal day, but I do value at least finishing the day together. I typically only relax when away on a trip, so being left home while my partner gets that opportunity seems like it should be a very rare event, if it happens at all.
One social meet up group I attended lately, one of the guys there told me he sadly didn't get his very first girlfriend until he was 30, while he is happy about having a girlfriend now, he still gets kind of depressed and bitter and resentful over having been single that long. Feels he didn't grow up having a normal youth because of being single that long. Causes him to envy and feel resentment and feel bitter when he sees couples out there younger than him. He has the mindset that he feels if he had been born a woman at least an average plain-looking woman, then there is a guarantee he would not have been alone or single that long. Since women are always guaranteed attention or dating options because for all time women have always been on the receiving end of sexual attention. A lot of guys hate and resent how nature and reality dictates that men have to make the first move all the time and be the initiators and do the pursuing but unfortunately there's no other way. Yet people think men still have the better end of the stick in the dating world than women do, especially when men are far more likely than women are to be single that long, be alone or single longer, or to have a lonely journey, yes men and women each have different difficulties or different issues to deal with but being alone or single later than normal is normally never an issue or never a problem for women. He says he feels angry and mad whenever people and Society say that he should feel grateful that he has a girlfriend now and that he has no right to feel angry and bitter that he was single and alone that long. Or why get angry and upset about what didn't happen in the past. Well he has a right to feel how he wants to feel. Probably because women are just a guaranteed options and attentions for just existing and breathing or having a pulse but it's not true if you're a guy or a human male. Men have to learn all of these skills or behaviors or know how to talk and behave a certain way or act a certain way to attract women( I got even more pissed off when a guy said that men also have to learn how to talk a certain way and behave a certain way or act a certain way in order to get a job or get certain social ranking in Society), that pissed me off a lot because that's a different issue and that's a different matter and plus the way you talk and behave and act in order to get a job or get social ranking in Society is different than what it takes to attract women, women however since they play a passive role, I just don't understand why or how women have to learn any skills in order to attract men, I just don't get it, that doesn't require any learning or I just don't see how it requires any learning. So yeah I get very mad and annoyed that there is even dating advice for women on how to attract men But yeah I get very angry whenever people think men have it better than women do in dating
I have a doubt bro. Can someone help me with that? I had a crush on a girl, but due to some personal problems, I started to focus on myself. The girl chased me for a year in college. Then we moved out of college. She invited me to her marriage, but I didn't respond because I felt awkward. My question is, does the girl still have feelings after 6 years? Can someone help me with this question? I'm not good with women's feelings. Just wanted to know about woman's
My former wife came home from work one day and told me she was going on a "girls trip" to Hawaii. When I told her "no," she said she had already bought the ticket! We were divorced shortly after that!
run all dating apps with fake bro pics, change location to aruba to see if you spot any of her friends or even her. and check what their bio looks like.
Great video brother!
Thank god you still posting I thought you quit
I moved to a different channel, but it hardly got any views. So, I'm testing here to see if this is still better.
You're wrong. I've gone on trips with my guys to Vegas charter fishing trips to North Carolina. My wife has gone to Jazz festivals with her cousins and are now planning a cruise with her cousins and aunts.
Dumb.
@@BulldogMindset married for almost 20 years. My wife travels for work; I travel for work. If something was going to happen, there was plenty of opportunity. Hell, I'm planning a trip to a rib fest with the guys. If you're talking to a bunch of 22-year-olds, I can tell you, the amount of hunting, fishing, and golf tricoupleduple with the wine tours and marathons some of our wives take, it's not even a second thought.
I won't have an issue telling people to don't live like you're single when you're dating or married.
But trips with friends... I've been traveling with the same group of guys for over 30 years. My being married didn't stop that. The types of trips changed because I grew up.
Pretty sure he’s addressing and talking about those young relationships starting out not old folk relationships that are 20 and 30 yrs old. Great video.
@@macphistorules I get that. But I have a step-daughter and 8 nieces in their twenties. If they brought that to me about their boyfriend, I would laugh and tell them to give him my number and I can explain why I told them tell him to kick rocks. I'm the same way with my nephews.
Id rather my woman go on a trip with family rather than her single girlfriends
are their other friends single? Because single women do single tingz. do they drink? drinking opens women to experience bad tingz they shouldn't do.
""Would you be OK with a boys trip to Thailand?" she'll probably say no and if she doesn't she doesn't really care about you. BTW, if she says yes, find the significant others from the group of women that are going and start planning.
If it comes down to and she insists try: "If you want to go, I think it's a bad idea but I can't stop you, but we are both going to get full STI/STD panels when you return." She'll protest and you just respond that you are very protective of your health. Don't engage in logic. Just set your rules and start planning your exit.
Ha. I’m a widow & dating. If a new guy says he’s doing a boys trip to Vegas, Miami or etc. I’m out. Nice knowing you, enjoy yourself.
I been wondering where this guy went. back when I was looking to get into tech he covered some stuff I believe, he was spot on. glad to see he is well, he is still very spot on!
Agreed. Great video John. I think women are quick to discount the things that men set aside to be in a relationship. When men ask women to give up things they previously enjoyed as single people, it is often made to sound like we are violating some inalienable human right. I think it is really just an expression of selfishness on the part of women (or men) who want the benefits of the relationship without also committing to the costs. I, as a man, am sharing my resources, resources that could go to all kinds of other places. I am setting aside my natural proclivity to seek variety between the sheets in order to embrace loyalty. My question to a girlfriend wanting to party it up in Aruba would be, "sure, and which of the things I do for our relationship would you like me to stop doing?"
I do have a question... what about trips with family members? Let's say your partner is close with a sibling (or parent) and they want to go off for a few days and share time together, even some place that might normally be off-limits for a "girl's trip". I have mixed feelings on it. Obviously keeping a relationship with family is important, so no concerns there. Go out for an evening, no problem at all. However, for me personally, I didn't commit to all the "costs" and responsibilities of a relationship to be left at home regularly while my partner is off enjoying life elsewhere, even if the chance of them cheating is minimal. I might not see my partner throughout the normal day, but I do value at least finishing the day together. I typically only relax when away on a trip, so being left home while my partner gets that opportunity seems like it should be a very rare event, if it happens at all.
They are about to get ran thru by all the tourist men or locals
One social meet up group I attended lately, one of the guys there told me he sadly didn't get his very first girlfriend until he was 30, while he is happy about having a girlfriend now, he still gets kind of depressed and bitter and resentful over having been single that long. Feels he didn't grow up having a normal youth because of being single that long. Causes him to envy and feel resentment and feel bitter when he sees couples out there younger than him.
He has the mindset that he feels if he had been born a woman at least an average plain-looking woman, then there is a guarantee he would not have been alone or single that long. Since women are always guaranteed attention or dating options because for all time women have always been on the receiving end of sexual attention. A lot of guys hate and resent how nature and reality dictates that men have to make the first move all the time and be the initiators and do the pursuing but unfortunately there's no other way.
Yet people think men still have the better end of the stick in the dating world than women do, especially when men are far more likely than women are to be single that long, be alone or single longer, or to have a lonely journey, yes men and women each have different difficulties or different issues to deal with but being alone or single later than normal is normally never an issue or never a problem for women.
He says he feels angry and mad whenever people and Society say that he should feel grateful that he has a girlfriend now and that he has no right to feel angry and bitter that he was single and alone that long.
Or why get angry and upset about what didn't happen in the past.
Well he has a right to feel how he wants to feel.
Probably because women are just a guaranteed options and attentions for just existing and breathing or having a pulse but it's not true if you're a guy or a human male.
Men have to learn all of these skills or behaviors or know how to talk and behave a certain way or act a certain way to attract women( I got even more pissed off when a guy said that men also have to learn how to talk a certain way and behave a certain way or act a certain way in order to get a job or get certain social ranking in Society), that pissed me off a lot because that's a different issue and that's a different matter and plus the way you talk and behave and act in order to get a job or get social ranking in Society is different than what it takes to attract women, women however since they play a passive role, I just don't understand why or how women have to learn any skills in order to attract men, I just don't get it, that doesn't require any learning or I just don't see how it requires any learning.
So yeah I get very mad and annoyed that there is even dating advice for women on how to attract men
But yeah I get very angry whenever people think men have it better than women do in dating
No
I have a doubt bro. Can someone help me with that?
I had a crush on a girl, but due to some personal problems, I started to focus on myself. The girl chased me for a year in college. Then we moved out of college. She invited me to her marriage, but I didn't respond because I felt awkward.
My question is, does the girl still have feelings after 6 years? Can someone help me with this question? I'm not good with women's feelings.
Just wanted to know about woman's
Can you link the video for the talk at the start of the relationship?
My former wife came home from work one day and told me she was going on a "girls trip" to Hawaii. When I told her "no," she said she had already bought the ticket! We were divorced shortly after that!
Why ?
Good for you man. Set of principles
Smart man
@@echospace7347😂wifey going to hang loose in the literal sense
run all dating apps with fake bro pics, change location to aruba to see if you spot any of her friends or even her. and check what their bio looks like.
Keanu Reeves?
I believe your transwoman that was once a man you was in WWe right a wrestler those videos must be old because i saw that they call you now Gabby
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No. It's a test.
@@BulldogMindsetYeah... Should have watched the video first! 😅
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