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Believe me. As a guy who’s half decent with woman stay away from dating apps if you want a woman who hasn’t been passed around like a blunt on a Friday night. Dating apps are full of people just sleeping around together. You ain’t getting no prize on those things.
Dating apps are quite ridiculous, they all require some sort of payment afterwards and they’re not very practical or realistic. You’re much better off investing into yourself from the get go anyways.
100%. They’ve changed a fair bit over the years I’ve noticed. The first time I ever jumped on an app I got laid very easily, multiple options. Years later they’re just keeping on them to make money and drip feeding you likes and matches.
@@burtongrimes2227 Dating apps are a business, just like religion is. Apps need to make money somehow and it’s what drives traffic to sites. They say and claim it’s free but it’s neither.
@@robertdore9592Sometimes child have more accountability. Strict geocentric, only adventage me behavior but this power have temporary time. Then stiil blame men for her poor past choices.
Girl at end: men have no problem with my OF account and find it sexy 15 seconds later: I can't find commitment to date and lost my last boyfriend because of OF
They don't find it arousing because you are a "desirable woman," you are not desirable, you are just easy and these men find it arousing that they are the one servicing you while everyone else is paying and wishing, which again doesn't make you desirable but the idea of being the only one getting that privilege is desirable to those men. Big difference
Nicole is right…….monogamy is more work to maintain. Being non monogamous is easy. It’s taking the easy way out. A quality person is monogamous. Simple
Not simple. Women in the West are incentivized and protected in monogamy, and men are disincentivized and in general are opened up to legal vulnerabilities. It works out well enough for some men; some marry great women, others marry rich women and are not at risk. Those men are in the minority. The majority, maybe not a huge majority but a majority, are either unhappy and legally trapped, or divorced and financially ruined. If the legal playing field were made level, fewer men would be wary of monogamy and marriage.
Monogamy is natural for men because we don't want to spend our efforts raising someone else's child. When she said "monogamy is hard for men" she was really saying "women make monogamy hard for men".
I think anything other than monogamy isn’t a relationship. There’s practically no difference between sleeping around single and sleeping around as polyamory. It’s gross, spreads disease, and paternity is an issue. Sounds like total chaos.
Not just that. They will go and sleep around with multiple men for free and then when they want to lock you down and you can be the payer for their sex after the fact. I got with a chick recently like this, I said straight out that I’d never marry you ever. I’m not the guy that comes along so you can have your cake and eat it too. I’ll be just like them and get the free sex and I’m off, bye.
It's called: "Rules for thee and not for me." Women control access to sex. Men control access to marriages. Any woman that can't keep her legs closed for her man, doesn't deserved to be married. Doesn't matter if he's high value or middle class. This women are in my opinion: to be used and discarded like condoms. I have more respect for escorts, pr0stitutes. At least they don't try to pass as "decent women".
Rich, I love your work. You are on target. Native Americans would have a 15 year old girl walk down a line of corn- with instructions to pick ONLY THE BEST of the corn. And they couldn't turn back, they had to keep going forward. Invariably, the girl would get to the end of the line, with nothing. The older woman would observe that many things, including men, were like this- to get "good enough" when you have the opportunity. There are no soulmates, any more than there are fairies dancing in the fields at twilight. There are imperfect people. I visited Austria, years ago, as part of a honeymoon [she went nuts, I had to divorce her for my own safety] We did the Sound of Music tour, which is nice. We saw the palace in the movie Amadeus. The von Trapp house in the movie had a front from one house, and a back from another house. Nice tour. At one point, the tour guide bemoaned the loss of Jewish merchants- who always had low prices, were great businessmen. There was a concentration camp not far from that area. Over half of SS troops were Austrian. All I could think of, was, well, it's not like your people made Jews feel very welcome, did you... I am so very amused, listening to women ask where all the good men went. Uhh, yeah. The good men go dark, they drop into brush, and vanish from view, as any prey animal would, when a predator is around. Years ago, I went to a martial arts class, in a college town. There were women 30-60 there. All poisonously feminist. And... and... all of them knew that Prince Charming was right around the corner, waiting for the right conjunction of Venus and Mars, to marry them, put them on a $5K/month allowance, buy the big house for them, the vacations in Europe, and to lavish attention on them, despite their constant disrespect for him. They based these on the documentaries they watched- you know, soap operas, Hallmark movies, romance novels, and so on, which are always precisely accurate depictions of real human daily life. And the only reason they didn't have that fairytale life was male oppression. I put on my cloak of invisibility- aka being a beta male- and just listened. I learned much. Of course they later decided that the instructor, a black man, was somehow sexually harassing them during the course. I have spent enough time on VisionQuests and other spiritual stuff that I can lavish love on people, just be turning on the flow. Around those women? Cloak of invisibility. If you need to get rid of a woman fast- just start crying. Works like a charm. Or otherwise act beta- you know, talk about your feelings, just like the feminists tell you. They're gone. I remember a woman about 55 in college- like this- she was desperately dating professors, to find Mr. RIghtWallet. They'd date her, but cut her off after one date. She had a little problem- nuclear waste grade resentment, plus a drinking problem. Oddly enough, Dr. RightWallet was doing his risk assessment. I had no status- just a student assistant- she invited me to dinner, I brought my girlfriend at the time- and Madame Battleaxe got sarcastic, and abusive, to the point we had to leave. THis was like 1981. Women wanted everything men have... now they have it, and they are upset... 1 in 3 women have had an abortion, has an STD... 80% of women consort with 20% of men. 10% of men are 6'1". Women find 80% of men ugly.
My grandmother worked. AT HOME. Monday was wash day. No washing machines; it was done by hand. You had to scrub out stains- by hand. Tuesday was ironing day- with flatirons. It took a while. No mixes back then; you bought your flour and sugar in bulk. In 1944, it cost 8c/lb. Only after WW II did prepackaged mixes come out. Wednesday was mending day- clothes were expensive, they had to be repaired. Thursday was baking day, you baked bread for the week. My grandmother taught, before marrying. Her husband told her he made enough money so she didn't have to work. Which delighted her- this was luxury, not having to work at an outside job. I met them, in the 1960's. Yep, still in love... My gramma was a widow about 1940. She had to work. My father was still young; he had to work, got a dime an hour, to clean off old bricks to be reused- and he said he was glad to get it. My mother made 25c/hour, in a grocery store- she would get flour "from the bottom of the barrel", put it in a bag. My father made 25c/hour as a night watchman. He got into college, at the height of WW II... he wanted all the college he could get, before being drafted. He wasn't drafted. He finished high school in 3 years, and a 4 year degree in 2.5 years. Socialists want everything to be free. Great idea. Native americans had that system. But their tribal villages were deeply mutually supportive, and spiritual... Karl Marx and Friedrich Engels originated socialism... based on studies of the Iroquois... and they COMPLETELY MISSED the spiritual side of Native Americans, which is the foundation.. In a Dakota village, a prime cut of buffalo meat was put outside the tipi of a widow. Kind of like what happened in the small towns my parents grew up in- a widow known to not have much, would find groceries outside her door, from time to time, because that's just what you did, then. Women wanted to be equal to men. Cool. It's not so much fun, is it? Where are the female bricklayers, plumbers, roofers, etc? Even today's feminists have a plan, though- marry a top 5 percenter, because they are all 10's, even if they are 50 kilograms/110 lbs overweight. The "wage gap" exists- women are paid more than men, for the same work. In the military, women can do half what the men do, and get promoted timely. In Paul Revere's day, life expectancy was 43. First menstruation qualified a woman for marriage- you had to get moving, to have your kids early. VIsit a colonial house museum- we have some in my area- or even civil war era- people worked 6 days a week, often, at least 12 hrs/day. In the 1820's, they had DVD players- aka Shakespeare's plays. Alexis de Tocqueville noted this. American women in the 1950's had a life better than that of 70% of women worldwide. But they decided that women needed men like a fish needed a bicycle. No problem, get down to it, bicycles don't need the fish, either. I do not know any single men over say 35, who has any interest, at all, in a committed relationship with a woman. Single men over 40 that I know avoid women, as the massive risk they are. All that resentment, and false claims, and so on... Men are forced to assess risk. Relationships with women? "Achtung, minen" [Warning, active mine field]. Too many women seem to have completed their BSC degree. B*t Sh*t Crazy. I have never slept around. My first & second wife did play around... I cut them off. Not time for that BS, or for the MS- degree- More of the Same- or the PhD- Piled Higher and Deeper... Modern women are not making men walk away from dating, no no. They are making men RUN away from dating, at top speed, evading fire, and taking cover. Every now and then I speak w/teenagers, or young men in their 20's. They seem to have the idea that oh yes, prenuptial agreements stand up in court, they aren't the 50 meter target on the firing range- for women- the target nobody misses. When I was young, I got older guys, and even women, talking- to learn. I knew I was totally ignorant, and needed to learn. The veterans often had great wisdom, and were willing to share it, with someone who listened. The wedding stores in my area have all gone out of business... if that's not an indicator of issues, I don't know what is. There ARE no soulmates, any more than there is a Santa Claus, or Easter Bunny. There may be compatible ladies, guys, whose minds and hearts aren't totally toxic, but all relationships are imperfect. It's just the way our world is. We live in a world where: Body count is something to boast about. Milage on a car doesn't matter. Rain does not wet the ground. Fish fly a mile high over the ocean. Fast food is nutritious. Poisoning one's soul with hatred and resentment makes a woman far more attractive to the alpha male she wants. Adorning one's body with toxic cosmetics doesn't poison the liver and kidneys. Pouring out hatred and resentment on men makes them want women. Hallmark movies, Soap operas, romance movies, Disney heroines- are all documentaries of how the world works. Yes, Virginia, there really is a Santa Claus, and 20 years of throwing away your value absolutely gets you Mr. Big, just like it happened in Sex and the City, which is also a documentary. But let's make a comparison. Let's imagine a rabid Wolverine, so violent that it has to be caged in a cage made of logs. Would you risk your life, to be around such a creature? Maybe not. I don't play with poisonous snakes. When I was young, I was allowed to play with tiger kittens, but even then, I had no idea to be in the same space as adult tigers. Yes, lady, there are creepy people out there, and you are among them. The Romans used to line the Appian way with the bodies of crucified men, as an object lesson. Divorce courts perform the same function, in our society.
Well said. You covered an impressive range of topics to make your points. I have to say, it's a pretty grim picture of the reality we live in today. It's sad. I don't understand why women are so angry; American women have a better life than most women on the planet. We have so many opportunities; we can do whatever we want, basically. I was reading the comments on another video about having children and being a stay-at-home mom. There were many comments by stay-at-home mothers describing their partnerships with their husbands, how they both contributed to the family and how happy they were. Those are fortunate people. On the other hand, no relationship is better than a bad relationship.
Actually, some do, and are very appreciative. I get 7x the thank you notes, as I do messages like yours. If you don't like it, please don't read it. I wish you well.@@mattthx50
it’s crazy to hear woman say being monogamous is hard..there basically saying no matter how much a man does for them they’ll still get wet for another guy who does less then u or nothing at all..saddest generation of woman in human history..
That's because of today's social media and the fact they all have body counts higher than the Predator. Their oxytocin receptors are fried beyond repair.
“They find it to be hot” -that’s the line she gets from dudes gonna smash. Can’t tell her the truth & still hit it. Been there, done that. It was over before it began, but because they’re gonna punish the truth, they’re begging to get lied to.
I knew we gonna come to the point where women will learn what to say to attract traditional man and then f... k him over because he is "controlling". Amber told on herself why she isn't datable. She has only fans. Sells nudes. And if a guy tells her she can't do it. Its controling. If a girl does this and ignores your preferences guys. Just walk away. Because she will push more on your boundaries, and when you will be loosing it she'll dump you. Also amber was demonstrating her right tit throughout the video.
@@zarbins that seems to be the stereotype. But I know lots and lots of married guys, and they don’t seem to do that. On the other hand, our wives seem to like to go out with the girls on Friday night, get locked into a special trainer at the gym, spend extra hours where they shouldn’t be.
@@olanderdecastro52 Concerning! Sounds like you are surrounded by some solid men and it's great they respective monogamy. Some questionable behavior by the women tho lol :) Have a great rest of day.
Being loyal and devoted to my partner is easy for me. It doesn't mean I don't have feelings and urges. I just choose to honor the relationship. I can't stand drama.
Amber says “there’s nothing wrong with monogamy.” Very funny especially coming from a lonely fanner. And she says she’s “into” monogamy. Wonder how the relationships go. Oh church going . Guy was “controlling”. Yuck
I have had many non monogomish relationships.......weird thing was as the women aged they expected my level of support to not change. I definitivamente am and was looking for a real love relationship but if a woman gets older and all she offers is transactional sex then why the frik would i spend time effort money on an old prosi when i can have young????
Somebody needs to tell Amber that all the attention she currently gets is due to her looks. 10 years from now 80% of that attention will be gone and 20 years from now she won't be able to buy any of that attention. From my perspective this is a tremendous waste of her most valuable time.
Amber is not even that attractive. I'd say she's a four at the moment. I'm pretty sure she's not as attractive cause she doesn't workout, drinks a lot, does drugs, and has been through several men.
When my parents ask me why I'm jaded and never getting married, I will show them this video. Impregnating any of these women would be a a slap in the face to the human race.
Wasn't that amber the one who said, she should be free to do whatever she wants. Don't need a man's permission to sleep with someone else. Could have swore that's what I heard from her mouth yesterday. I should have been more clear.... she's playing both sides of the fence. On one hand she wants to be free. On the other she wants a traditional man, and she wants to be traditional where a man cares for her.
Today's wife is monogamous until she gets bored (about every 5 years) and opens her legs for other men. Versus women from my mom's era that gladly married and were faithful forever.
He has to be tradinional but he has to accept me as I am. Translation "I can do whatever i want but my ideal man cannot. If he does something I dont like then he is not the man for me. The stars didn't allign and it just wasn't destined". He is controlling but I can show my ass on the internet to whomever I want for 4.99$ a month but my man has to spend thousands of dollars just to be with me. Here in Europe, that stuff doesn't even exist. Everyone know that those kinds of girls are 304s.
I've Never been on a dating app and have no desire to subject my sense of self respect to "Rumored" benefits that are obviously NOT working out for so many. You don't have to live through a Plane Crash to know the probable outcome. This small sampling of the female species should be alarming. It's amazing something as simple as, "Looking for Love in all the wrong places" doesn't make sense to those claiming to be so wise. There's no Dressing known to man that can cover the bad taste of their word salad.
Take my advice mate, don’t ever go on a dating app. The quality just ain’t there and they’re designed to keep you on there paying money. Meet people out in the real world not in this social media sheeple world.
I think western women are for the most part covert narcissists - emotionally immature, you can’t get from point a to point b with them, demanding, argumentative, most of them play games- silent treatment, hot and cold, push pull, intermittent reinforcement, deny accuse justify, then rinse and repeat, word salad etc. all diagnose criteria traits from DSM. Not all of them are narcissists but they are at least using toxic narcissistic techniques on men making it a lose lose.
Female species LOL, you realize both men and women are the same species right? You're likely not wrong about the quality of the vast majority of women the apps but that part of your comment cracked me up.
Genuine attraction is HUGE in terms of monogamy, and most women are to varying degrees just users, so men are going to get cheated on at least as much as women are
This the lost generation of women. I was taught that biologically men are forced to go out into the world and face all the dangers and that women are meant to be the gatekeepers at home. Women are meant to be more careful about who and what experiences they allow onto themselves. Hopefully the next generation of women will learn from the mistakes of this one.
Women are monogamish. If Chad comes along, well that's a different thing all together, but they don't want to be cheated on and/or lose all the benefits of being in a relationship.
So no discipline. Also why be with someone when I can just go find different people to sleep with? It seems more of a drag to be in a non monogamous relationship that in one. It offers me absolutely nothing.
The blonde is seriously confused about men who say to her what she wants to hear in order to get into her pants a few times, and real high value men who would in no way shape or form give her their last name, and be willing long term care takers and providers. Women don’t typically realize this until they expire, typically 30 years old, or 40 if lucky.
@@vg1024 maybe you should do some research and not believe the church. Men had multiple wives in the bible. Elders were the exception. Paul said they can have only one wife. The bible forbids one woman and many dudes. The greaco romans introduced one man one wife in the first century
@@vg1024 For example, Augustus Caesar encouraged marriage and reproduction to force the aristocracy to divide their wealth and power among multiple heirs, but the aristocrats kept their socially monogamous, legitimate children to a minimum to ensure their legacy while having many extra-pair copulations.[64] Similarly-according to Betzig-the Christian Church enforced monogamy because wealth passed to the closest living, legitimate male relative, often resulting in the wealthy oldest brother being without a male heir.[65] Thus, the wealth and power of the family would pass to the "celibate" younger brother of the church.[65] In both of these instances, the rule-making elite used cultural processes to ensure greater reproductive fitness for themselves and their offspring, leading to a larger genetic influence in future generations.[64][65] Wikipedia on Monogamy
@@AndreBentrup Wrong, monogamy means both sexual and emotional exclusivity. The Roman-imposed “monogamy” wasn’t a real monogamy as the Christian’s would introduce later. Wealthy men in the Roman world would still have concubines, slaves and mistresses, same with the wealthier practitioners of Judaism. Throughout history polygamy has been the domain of “high value men”. But Christianity demanded (real) sexual and emotional monogamy. Christian’s and Sikhs are the only major world religions (to my knowledge) that require strict monogamy, and only one of the two religions proselytize.
Non-monogamy is not the natural state of the animal kingdom, so Nicole is wrong. Anyone who hunts will see a particular stag rut to dominate the pack so his seed succeeds, then fight to keep rival males away. Ornithologists tell you that many birds mate for life. Sex is sought in the animal kingdom, but the distinction in the animal kingdom is that sex usually results in pregnancy, so considerable effort and investment by animals has to go into selecting a mate, getting access to sex and then dealing with the results of that sex. What distinguishes humans and facilitates non-monogamy is their inventiveness and two brilliant developments that are quite recent: namely the invention of birth control some 60 years ago and the invention of technology some 30 years ago which enables potential sexual mates to be contacted very easily without an initial physical meeting or the happenstance of two people being in the same place. Before then, non-monogamy was comparatively rare, however much people occasionally cheated or complained about whom they had married. So humans in recent times have secured enormous choice and the luxury of being able to focus on the pleasures of sex rather than its consequences. Moreover the fact the state picks up many of the financial consequences of divorce and of single parenthood further undermines traditional long term bonding for humans. We are still trying to work out how we deal with this and whether it makes us happy. We do know that one of those consequences is a profoundly adverse effect on the children who live with these fractured modern mating patterns, and who themselves grow up normalising the looser mating bonds around modern human relationships. Additionally, the women’s liberation movement has made women more ready to enjoy the pleasures of sex without marriage and without the shaming of the past. The irony, of course, is that most women still tend to view accessing that pleasure as a part of relationship building, and are more careful than men to select whom they mate with, but their being more open to sexual encounters outside of marriage further benefits the large proportion of males who want sexual pleasure without any ties. The invention (again very recent) of easily accessible pornography, which is primarily consumed by men, further encourages the view that sex purely for pleasure is an achievable goal. The comments of the women in this podcast encapsulate that confused debate about how to deal with the way in which such things have changed our human lives and our modern human mating.
If I felt modern women were capable of being loyal, I might consider it. But the current society lends itself to instant gratification where relationships are conditional. It is easy for these women to tell me they are monogamous until a better opportunity comes along. Since the man is expected take most of the risks to keep her, why should he put in the effort when it is not rewarded?
Most guys I've talked to see this whole poly thing the same way: Why would I make my life more complicated than necessary? I think the natural mode of most guys is serial monogamy (IMO the most ethical way of experiencing variety) until they find a woman worth settling with and banging out some kids. The trouble these days is that worthy women are few and far between, in no small part because many are playing a top 3% alpha chasing polyamorous game.
Asking the wrong quesitons, using the wrong language. Need to ask more concise questions. Asking: What do you think about monogamy? The responses are all in theory. I can tell you what I think about alcohol. It's bad. Do I drink it still? Yes. How many of you are currently sexually active is a more precise question, and you will get the proper answer. I guarantee they are all sexually active with different partners every couple months.
Re monogamy: I and many others think that non-monogamy, "ethical" or otherwise, is more difficult than monogamy. Polyamory was NOT the norm in human history, despite what the brunette in the lower right corner said. If it was, men would not have evolved the mate-guarding instinct. Infidelity and mate switching may have been prevalent to varying degrees, but that does not equate to being the norm. It may be easier to cheat or be polyamorous in terms of discipline, but the psychological toll makes it more difficult for MOST people. Its like not going to the gym and keeping fit may be easier, but the toll it takes on the psych for most psychologically healthy people who care about health and standards is worse.
I get it. This is the direction a lot of the manosphere is going but IMO it is a complete waste of time. Maybe have an occasional session with the women but no more than once a month MAX.
What women say, and what women actually want and do are completely different. Society enables their behavior, and technology provides the means to carry it out.
Listen at 12:40 to 12:50 😂😂😂😂😂😂 Code for: He didnt allow me to go f*** other men on girls night, so i left to do that on my wellness retreat and discovered 90" of pipe.
The last girl isn’t wrong… A lot of men even conservative men… Not like hyper religious, but like regular conservative guys would be perfectly fine with lingerie and like doing regular modeling… Just not adult work
None of them are classy and none of them are intelligent. All you have to do is put a Chad in front of them and you'll see how unclassy and stupid they become.
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Believe me. As a guy who’s half decent with woman stay away from dating apps if you want a woman who hasn’t been passed around like a blunt on a Friday night. Dating apps are full of people just sleeping around together. You ain’t getting no prize on those things.
I just want the blunt.
Hahaha
Mate we are much better off
Dating apps are quite ridiculous, they all require some sort of payment afterwards and they’re not very practical or realistic. You’re much better off investing into yourself from the get go anyways.
100%. They’ve changed a fair bit over the years I’ve noticed. The first time I ever jumped on an app I got laid very easily, multiple options. Years later they’re just keeping on them to make money and drip feeding you likes and matches.
@@burtongrimes2227 Dating apps are a business, just like religion is. Apps need to make money somehow and it’s what drives traffic to sites. They say and claim it’s free but it’s neither.
Hmm. These ladies are a solid solid representation of the fall of western society.
Yet women still blame men; even for their own infidelities.
@@robertdore9592the Bitch Combo Plate, with a side of BPD.
The ruined modern western women is cheating on their future husbands at historic rates. Champion plowees.
@@robertdore9592Sometimes child have more accountability. Strict geocentric, only adventage me behavior but this power have temporary time. Then stiil blame men for her poor past choices.
I wonder (((who))) is responsible
12:41 ‘very controlling relationship’ equals ‘l don’t respect boundaries’
Girl at end: men have no problem with my OF account and find it sexy
15 seconds later: I can't find commitment to date and lost my last boyfriend because of OF
Sometimes you just gotta let them talk because the answers are usually right in front of them. Smh
no wonder why so many Western Women are Converting to Islam
They don't find it arousing because you are a "desirable woman," you are not desirable, you are just easy and these men find it arousing that they are the one servicing you while everyone else is paying and wishing, which again doesn't make you desirable but the idea of being the only one getting that privilege is desirable to those men. Big difference
Quite right.
‘Controlling’, ‘controlling’ = the relationship had standards
"He was controlling and emotionally abusive!!" - every woman ever about her ex
Nicole is right…….monogamy is more work to maintain. Being non monogamous is easy. It’s taking the easy way out. A quality person is monogamous. Simple
Not simple. Women in the West are incentivized and protected in monogamy, and men are disincentivized and in general are opened up to legal vulnerabilities. It works out well enough for some men; some marry great women, others marry rich women and are not at risk. Those men are in the minority. The majority, maybe not a huge majority but a majority, are either unhappy and legally trapped, or divorced and financially ruined. If the legal playing field were made level, fewer men would be wary of monogamy and marriage.
Monogamy arguably takes a bigger toll on women; due to the way they tend to bond as result of intercourse.
If you're not actually in a relationship it's easy, but in a relationship it's just as if not more stressful.
ah so I'm not a quality person then, because you say?
She's not right. Monogamy comes naturally to men because the last thing we want is to spend years of our life raising another man's child.
Amber is completely delusional. Nothing you can do with a woman like this but sit back and watch her burnout. Just a matter of time
Right
The look on Rich face when she started to talk about why the relationship did not work and what she did afterwards 😂 20🚩
Ha! You could see the wry smile forming.
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Crazy😂😂😂I saw that too and I could read his though
Monogamy is like breathing for me. It’s me who can’t understand people that can easily betray or be carefree.
I have personally FCUKED up more than one relationship by weakening.
90%of people like that.. And they'll make sure they rip apart your heart before you say no to bullshit
Monogamy is natural for men because we don't want to spend our efforts raising someone else's child. When she said "monogamy is hard for men" she was really saying "women make monogamy hard for men".
I think anything other than monogamy isn’t a relationship. There’s practically no difference between sleeping around single and sleeping around as polyamory. It’s gross, spreads disease, and paternity is an issue. Sounds like total chaos.
Polyamory is like breathing for me. Be who you truly are.
They want the man to be monogamous but they want to be able to sleep around. What self respecting man would agree to such a thing
💯right
Not just that. They will go and sleep around with multiple men for free and then when they want to lock you down and you can be the payer for their sex after the fact. I got with a chick recently like this, I said straight out that I’d never marry you ever. I’m not the guy that comes along so you can have your cake and eat it too. I’ll be just like them and get the free sex and I’m off, bye.
It's called: "Rules for thee and not for me."
Women control access to sex.
Men control access to marriages.
Any woman that can't keep her legs closed for her man, doesn't deserved to be married. Doesn't matter if he's high value or middle class.
This women are in my opinion: to be used and discarded like condoms.
I have more respect for escorts, pr0stitutes. At least they don't try to pass as "decent women".
Where did they say that?
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They didn't. I'm saying women in general
Don't listen to what they say. Watch what they DO.
They love monogamy… until they don’t.
Exactly
There is a reason one of the vows the man and woman make at their wedding is “forsake all others.”
If you have moral standards and ethics monogamy is not hard at all
Rich, I love your work. You are on target.
Native Americans would have a 15 year old girl walk down a line of corn- with instructions to pick ONLY THE BEST of the corn. And they couldn't turn back, they had to keep going forward. Invariably, the girl would get to the end of the line, with nothing. The older woman would observe that many things, including men, were like this- to get "good enough" when you have the opportunity. There are no soulmates, any more than there are fairies dancing in the fields at twilight. There are imperfect people.
I visited Austria, years ago, as part of a honeymoon [she went nuts, I had to divorce her for my own safety] We did the Sound of Music tour, which is nice. We saw the palace in the movie Amadeus. The von Trapp house in the movie had a front from one house, and a back from another house. Nice tour. At one point, the tour guide bemoaned the loss of Jewish merchants- who always had low prices, were great businessmen. There was a concentration camp not far from that area. Over half of SS troops were Austrian. All I could think of, was, well, it's not like your people made Jews feel very welcome, did you... I am so very amused, listening to women ask where all the good men went. Uhh, yeah. The good men go dark, they drop into brush, and vanish from view, as any prey animal would, when a predator is around.
Years ago, I went to a martial arts class, in a college town. There were women 30-60 there. All poisonously feminist. And... and... all of them knew that Prince Charming was right around the corner, waiting for the right conjunction of Venus and Mars, to marry them, put them on a $5K/month allowance, buy the big house for them, the vacations in Europe, and to lavish attention on them, despite their constant disrespect for him. They based these on the documentaries they watched- you know, soap operas, Hallmark movies, romance novels, and so on, which are always precisely accurate depictions of real human daily life. And the only reason they didn't have that fairytale life was male oppression. I put on my cloak of invisibility- aka being a beta male- and just listened. I learned much. Of course they later decided that the instructor, a black man, was somehow sexually harassing them during the course. I have spent enough time on VisionQuests and other spiritual stuff that I can lavish love on people, just be turning on the flow. Around those women? Cloak of invisibility. If you need to get rid of a woman fast- just start crying. Works like a charm. Or otherwise act beta- you know, talk about your feelings, just like the feminists tell you. They're gone. I remember a woman about 55 in college- like this- she was desperately dating professors, to find Mr. RIghtWallet. They'd date her, but cut her off after one date. She had a little problem- nuclear waste grade resentment, plus a drinking problem. Oddly enough, Dr. RightWallet was doing his risk assessment. I had no status- just a student assistant- she invited me to dinner, I brought my girlfriend at the time- and Madame Battleaxe got sarcastic, and abusive, to the point we had to leave. THis was like 1981.
Women wanted everything men have... now they have it, and they are upset... 1 in 3 women have had an abortion, has an STD... 80% of women consort with 20% of men. 10% of men are 6'1". Women find 80% of men ugly.
My grandmother worked. AT HOME. Monday was wash day. No washing machines; it was done by hand. You had to scrub out stains- by hand. Tuesday was ironing day- with flatirons. It took a while. No mixes back then; you bought your flour and sugar in bulk. In 1944, it cost 8c/lb. Only after WW II did prepackaged mixes come out. Wednesday was mending day- clothes were expensive, they had to be repaired. Thursday was baking day, you baked bread for the week. My grandmother taught, before marrying. Her husband told her he made enough money so she didn't have to work. Which delighted her- this was luxury, not having to work at an outside job. I met them, in the 1960's. Yep, still in love... My gramma was a widow about 1940. She had to work. My father was still young; he had to work, got a dime an hour, to clean off old bricks to be reused- and he said he was glad to get it. My mother made 25c/hour, in a grocery store- she would get flour "from the bottom of the barrel", put it in a bag. My father made 25c/hour as a night watchman. He got into college, at the height of WW II... he wanted all the college he could get, before being drafted. He wasn't drafted. He finished high school in 3 years, and a 4 year degree in 2.5 years.
Socialists want everything to be free. Great idea. Native americans had that system. But their tribal villages were deeply mutually supportive, and spiritual... Karl Marx and Friedrich Engels originated socialism... based on studies of the Iroquois... and they COMPLETELY MISSED the spiritual side of Native Americans, which is the foundation.. In a Dakota village, a prime cut of buffalo meat was put outside the tipi of a widow. Kind of like what happened in the small towns my parents grew up in- a widow known to not have much, would find groceries outside her door, from time to time, because that's just what you did, then. Women wanted to be equal to men. Cool. It's not so much fun, is it? Where are the female bricklayers, plumbers, roofers, etc? Even today's feminists have a plan, though- marry a top 5 percenter, because they are all 10's, even if they are 50 kilograms/110 lbs overweight. The "wage gap" exists- women are paid more than men, for the same work. In the military, women can do half what the men do, and get promoted timely.
In Paul Revere's day, life expectancy was 43. First menstruation qualified a woman for marriage- you had to get moving, to have your kids early. VIsit a colonial house museum- we have some in my area- or even civil war era- people worked 6 days a week, often, at least 12 hrs/day. In the 1820's, they had DVD players- aka Shakespeare's plays. Alexis de Tocqueville noted this. American women in the 1950's had a life better than that of 70% of women worldwide. But they decided that women needed men like a fish needed a bicycle. No problem, get down to it, bicycles don't need the fish, either. I do not know any single men over say 35, who has any interest, at all, in a committed relationship with a woman. Single men over 40 that I know avoid women, as the massive risk they are. All that resentment, and false claims, and so on... Men are forced to assess risk. Relationships with women? "Achtung, minen" [Warning, active mine field].
Too many women seem to have completed their BSC degree. B*t Sh*t Crazy. I have never slept around. My first & second wife did play around... I cut them off. Not time for that BS, or for the MS- degree- More of the Same- or the PhD- Piled Higher and Deeper...
Modern women are not making men walk away from dating, no no. They are making men RUN away from dating, at top speed, evading fire, and taking cover. Every now and then I speak w/teenagers, or young men in their 20's. They seem to have the idea that oh yes, prenuptial agreements stand up in court, they aren't the 50 meter target on the firing range- for women- the target nobody misses. When I was young, I got older guys, and even women, talking- to learn. I knew I was totally ignorant, and needed to learn. The veterans often had great wisdom, and were willing to share it, with someone who listened. The wedding stores in my area have all gone out of business... if that's not an indicator of issues, I don't know what is.
There ARE no soulmates, any more than there is a Santa Claus, or Easter Bunny. There may be compatible ladies, guys, whose minds and hearts aren't totally toxic, but all relationships are imperfect. It's just the way our world is. We live in a world where:
Body count is something to boast about. Milage on a car doesn't matter. Rain does not wet the ground. Fish fly a mile high over the ocean. Fast food is nutritious. Poisoning one's soul with hatred and resentment makes a woman far more attractive to the alpha male she wants. Adorning one's body with toxic cosmetics doesn't poison the liver and kidneys. Pouring out hatred and resentment on men makes them want women. Hallmark movies, Soap operas, romance movies, Disney heroines- are all documentaries of how the world works. Yes, Virginia, there really is a Santa Claus, and 20 years of throwing away your value absolutely gets you Mr. Big, just like it happened in Sex and the City, which is also a documentary.
But let's make a comparison. Let's imagine a rabid Wolverine, so violent that it has to be caged in a cage made of logs. Would you risk your life, to be around such a creature? Maybe not. I don't play with poisonous snakes. When I was young, I was allowed to play with tiger kittens, but even then, I had no idea to be in the same space as adult tigers. Yes, lady, there are creepy people out there, and you are among them.
The Romans used to line the Appian way with the bodies of crucified men, as an object lesson. Divorce courts perform the same function, in our society.
Well said. You covered an impressive range of topics to make your points. I have to say, it's a pretty grim picture of the reality we live in today. It's sad. I don't understand why women are so angry; American women have a better life than most women on the planet. We have so many opportunities; we can do whatever we want, basically. I was reading the comments on another video about having children and being a stay-at-home mom. There were many comments by stay-at-home mothers describing their partnerships with their husbands, how they both contributed to the family and how happy they were. Those are fortunate people.
On the other hand, no relationship is better than a bad relationship.
Actually, some do, and are very appreciative. I get 7x the thank you notes, as I do messages like yours. If you don't like it, please don't read it. I wish you well.@@mattthx50
@@mattthx50have 13 minutes to watch the video, but can't find 10 to read a well put comment?
Hilariously sad
TLDR
Great write up, thank you.
These women are for the streets
Definitely Amber but can’t say for all of them 🙄
@@Son-of-Kryptonguarantee 3 out of the 4 take some sort of pharmaceutical for the central nervous system
🤣 guy had boundaries aka “controlling”
it’s crazy to hear woman say being monogamous is hard..there basically saying no matter how much a man does for them they’ll still get wet for another guy who does less then u or nothing at all..saddest generation of woman in human history..
Women have ALWAYS been like that. They didn't always DO that, but they're LIKE that.
That's because of today's social media and the fact they all have body counts higher than the Predator. Their oxytocin receptors are fried beyond repair.
Would u rather hear lies than truth? Women are fickle, they cannot stay faithful to only one man, they need constant attention from everyone.
12:55 - how are Rich and Moff keeping a straight face here? 😂😂😂😂😂
Incredible skill
They want monogamy but aren’t willing to change or sacrifice anything to enter into it.
12:44 - RICH! I see you... 🤣🤣
They had guys that checked off most of the boxes but they're still looking. Classy...
wellness retreat lol
Amber's a train wreck. So many cats in her future
Livin it. It ain’t bad.
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They all are
Age neutralizes all, they will be fine
“They find it to be hot”
-that’s the line she gets from dudes gonna smash.
Can’t tell her the truth & still hit it.
Been there, done that. It was over before it began, but because they’re gonna punish the truth, they’re begging to get lied to.
I knew we gonna come to the point where women will learn what to say to attract traditional man and then f... k him over because he is "controlling". Amber told on herself why she isn't datable. She has only fans. Sells nudes. And if a guy tells her she can't do it. Its controling. If a girl does this and ignores your preferences guys. Just walk away. Because she will push more on your boundaries, and when you will be loosing it she'll dump you. Also amber was demonstrating her right tit throughout the video.
I know; I couldn't believe how she was exposing herself like that. Then it made sense when she said what he did. She's advertising...
Ojhhhhhhh noice rich back at it again w another banger
“Monogamy isn’t easy for men”. Uh…yes it is. In fact, we prefer it.
Yes we prefer Monogamy.
Then why do so many men cheat and speak of their marriages as oppressive and/or confining?
@@zarbins that seems to be the stereotype. But I know lots and lots of married guys, and they don’t seem to do that. On the other hand, our wives seem to like to go out with the girls on Friday night, get locked into a special trainer at the gym, spend extra hours where they shouldn’t be.
@@olanderdecastro52 Concerning! Sounds like you are surrounded by some solid men and it's great they respective monogamy. Some questionable behavior by the women tho lol :) Have a great rest of day.
@@zarbinsMaybe if she wasn't making his life miserable all the time by challenging him every minute men would be happier in relationships
Being loyal and devoted to my partner is easy for me. It doesn't mean I don't have feelings and urges. I just choose to honor the relationship. I can't stand drama.
Amber says “there’s nothing wrong with monogamy.” Very funny especially coming from a lonely fanner. And she says she’s “into” monogamy. Wonder how the relationships go. Oh church going . Guy was “controlling”. Yuck
I’m even less motivated to leave my house now.
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It has never been hard for me to stay loyal.
Me neither; as a woman, I have never cheated on a man. If the relationship isn't working, break up, don't cheat!
I have had many non monogomish relationships.......weird thing was as the women aged they expected my level of support to not change. I definitivamente am and was looking for a real love relationship but if a woman gets older and all she offers is transactional sex then why the frik would i spend time effort money on an old prosi when i can have young????
Somebody needs to tell Amber that all the attention she currently gets is due to her looks. 10 years from now 80% of that attention will be gone and 20 years from now she won't be able to buy any of that attention. From my perspective this is a tremendous waste of her most valuable time.
Amber is not even that attractive. I'd say she's a four at the moment. I'm pretty sure she's not as attractive cause she doesn't workout, drinks a lot, does drugs, and has been through several men.
Every woman has one and every woman thinks hers is the best in her solipsistic universe. 😂
LOL OF 304s giving relationship advice. You cannot make this shit up.
Yeah, all 5s at best.
They’re all for monogamy as long as it suits them
When my parents ask me why I'm jaded and never getting married, I will show them this video. Impregnating any of these women would be a a slap in the face to the human race.
Take away, and make not available all forms of contraception, and watch how easy monogamy becomes for women.
Dating over 50 I noticed women having up to 4&5 different dates per day, I don’t think they paid for a single drink or meal and the men were 70 plus.
“Ethical non-monogamy “ is not a relationship , it’s a back up plan , for failures
Nah, it’s the future.
@@vg1024It's probably not because everyone is going to be miserable women more then men. We will just go off and enjoy our solitude.
but I don't want a relationship, it only benefits the woman
Wasn't that amber the one who said, she should be free to do whatever she wants. Don't need a man's permission to sleep with someone else. Could have swore that's what I heard from her mouth yesterday. I should have been more clear.... she's playing both sides of the fence. On one hand she wants to be free. On the other she wants a traditional man, and she wants to be traditional where a man cares for her.
Amber 🤦🏽♂️ typical modern woman
Today's wife is monogamous until she gets bored (about every 5 years) and opens her legs for other men. Versus women from my mom's era that gladly married and were faithful forever.
He has to be tradinional but he has to accept me as I am. Translation "I can do whatever i want but my ideal man cannot. If he does something I dont like then he is not the man for me. The stars didn't allign and it just wasn't destined". He is controlling but I can show my ass on the internet to whomever I want for 4.99$ a month but my man has to spend thousands of dollars just to be with me. Here in Europe, that stuff doesn't even exist. Everyone know that those kinds of girls are 304s.
I've Never been on a dating app and have no desire to subject my sense of self respect to "Rumored" benefits that are obviously NOT working out for so many. You don't have to live through a Plane Crash to know the probable outcome. This small sampling of the female species should be alarming. It's amazing something as simple as, "Looking for Love in all the wrong places" doesn't make sense to those claiming to be so wise. There's no Dressing known to man that can cover the bad taste of their word salad.
Take my advice mate, don’t ever go on a dating app. The quality just ain’t there and they’re designed to keep you on there paying money. Meet people out in the real world not in this social media sheeple world.
I think western women are for the most part covert narcissists - emotionally immature, you can’t get from point a to point b with them, demanding, argumentative, most of them play games- silent treatment, hot and cold, push pull, intermittent reinforcement, deny accuse justify, then rinse and repeat, word salad etc. all diagnose criteria traits from DSM. Not all of them are narcissists but they are at least using toxic narcissistic techniques on men making it a lose lose.
Female species LOL, you realize both men and women are the same species right? You're likely not wrong about the quality of the vast majority of women the apps but that part of your comment cracked me up.
@@scottverge938 Species just sounds so alien when You say it.... Cheers
One hundred percent on point. Well stated. Thanks.
Who would pay 5.99 a month to look at blonde one 😂😂😂😂
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Beta males have ruined the sexual marketplace.
"What's your expense" hahahahahah that Freudian slip was hilarious.
Shania seemed the most sane of them all
Genuine attraction is HUGE in terms of monogamy, and most women are to varying degrees just users, so men are going to get cheated on at least as much as women are
Thank you Lord for my faithful sane woman. No desire to go after one of these and end up with a STD
No thanks
Think? Prolly not that much, honestly.
Feel? That's a 2.5 hour conversation once you get them going on personal anecdotes.
This the lost generation of women. I was taught that biologically men are forced to go out into the world and face all the dangers and that women are meant to be the gatekeepers at home. Women are meant to be more careful about who and what experiences they allow onto themselves. Hopefully the next generation of women will learn from the mistakes of this one.
Non-monogamy isn't any easier if you actually want to be in a relationship.
Financially affluent cis female here. I have been polygamous by heritage for 300 years with zero divorces. ZERO DIVORCES
2:33 people are not looking for relationships ???? She means the Chads
It’s not about what women say it’s about the courts.
13:00 it turned out gracefully. Her idea of grace and mine are completely different
Women are monogamish. If Chad comes along, well that's a different thing all together, but they don't want to be cheated on and/or lose all the benefits of being in a relationship.
Wowser. 😳😳😳
Sooo...Amber WAS a Bible-thumper till she discovered she couldn't do what she wanted. 🤔🤔🤔
Got it...🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
These women are not builders! They will end up with a cat or dog alone! Rich thanks for the intel! Im almost 50 and things are not the same!
So no discipline. Also why be with someone when I can just go find different people to sleep with? It seems more of a drag to be in a non monogamous relationship that in one. It offers me absolutely nothing.
The blonde is seriously confused about men who say to her what she wants to hear in order to get into her pants a few times, and real high value men who would in no way shape or form give her their last name, and be willing long term care takers and providers. Women don’t typically realize this until they expire, typically 30 years old, or 40 if lucky.
There are women, and then there are females.
Huge difference.
If it s difficult to get a man to be monogamous, by default u know they re going for the 3 percenters 😂
No wonder why the Muslims stay together and raise successful children, these girls are lost
1:53 judeo christian would be polygynie. Monogynie is graeco roman and emerged in the first century.
You’re joking.
@@vg1024 maybe you should do some research and not believe the church. Men had multiple wives in the bible. Elders were the exception. Paul said they can have only one wife. The bible forbids one woman and many dudes. The greaco romans introduced one man one wife in the first century
@@vg1024 For example, Augustus Caesar encouraged marriage and reproduction to force the aristocracy to divide their wealth and power among multiple heirs, but the aristocrats kept their socially monogamous, legitimate children to a minimum to ensure their legacy while having many extra-pair copulations.[64] Similarly-according to Betzig-the Christian Church enforced monogamy because wealth passed to the closest living, legitimate male relative, often resulting in the wealthy oldest brother being without a male heir.[65] Thus, the wealth and power of the family would pass to the "celibate" younger brother of the church.[65] In both of these instances, the rule-making elite used cultural processes to ensure greater reproductive fitness for themselves and their offspring, leading to a larger genetic influence in future generations.[64][65]
Wikipedia on Monogamy
@@AndreBentrup “Men had multiple wives in the Bible” - under the new covenant or old?
@@AndreBentrup Wrong, monogamy means both sexual and emotional exclusivity. The Roman-imposed “monogamy” wasn’t a real monogamy as the Christian’s would introduce later.
Wealthy men in the Roman world would still have concubines, slaves and mistresses, same with the wealthier practitioners of Judaism. Throughout history polygamy has been the domain of “high value men”. But Christianity demanded (real) sexual and emotional monogamy.
Christian’s and Sikhs are the only major world religions (to my knowledge) that require strict monogamy, and only one of the two religions proselytize.
Except me for who I am but she won’t except a guy for who he is.. tacky bunch of 304’s
Shout out to bay area!
No wonder alcoholism is rising
00:30 - "Most of you are single, right?" girls "Yes". BAHAHAHAH. Women are never single. Lied right off the bat.
What it is the men are not seeing quality to commit so they basically view it as sexual relationship only.
Non-monogamy is not the natural state of the animal kingdom, so Nicole is wrong. Anyone who hunts will see a particular stag rut to dominate the pack so his seed succeeds, then fight to keep rival males away. Ornithologists tell you that many birds mate for life. Sex is sought in the animal kingdom, but the distinction in the animal kingdom is that sex usually results in pregnancy, so considerable effort and investment by animals has to go into selecting a mate, getting access to sex and then dealing with the results of that sex.
What distinguishes humans and facilitates non-monogamy is their inventiveness and two brilliant developments that are quite recent: namely the invention of birth control some 60 years ago and the invention of technology some 30 years ago which enables potential sexual mates to be contacted very easily without an initial physical meeting or the happenstance of two people being in the same place. Before then, non-monogamy was comparatively rare, however much people occasionally cheated or complained about whom they had married.
So humans in recent times have secured enormous choice and the luxury of being able to focus on the pleasures of sex rather than its consequences. Moreover the fact the state picks up many of the financial consequences of divorce and of single parenthood further undermines traditional long term bonding for humans. We are still trying to work out how we deal with this and whether it makes us happy. We do know that one of those consequences is a profoundly adverse effect on the children who live with these fractured modern mating patterns, and who themselves grow up normalising the looser mating bonds around modern human relationships.
Additionally, the women’s liberation movement has made women more ready to enjoy the pleasures of sex without marriage and without the shaming of the past. The irony, of course, is that most women still tend to view accessing that pleasure as a part of relationship building, and are more careful than men to select whom they mate with, but their being more open to sexual encounters outside of marriage further benefits the large proportion of males who want sexual pleasure without any ties. The invention (again very recent) of easily accessible pornography, which is primarily consumed by men, further encourages the view that sex purely for pleasure is an achievable goal.
The comments of the women in this podcast encapsulate that confused debate about how to deal with the way in which such things have changed our human lives and our modern human mating.
Whaaaaa??!!!!! How’d you get Kevin James on the show?!!!
So at a glance they look like an attractive group of women but they’re all single - think about that
10:10 wow....
If I felt modern women were capable of being loyal, I might consider it. But the current society lends itself to instant gratification where relationships are conditional. It is easy for these women to tell me they are monogamous until a better opportunity comes along. Since the man is expected take most of the risks to keep her, why should he put in the effort when it is not rewarded?
Most guys I've talked to see this whole poly thing the same way: Why would I make my life more complicated than necessary? I think the natural mode of most guys is serial monogamy (IMO the most ethical way of experiencing variety) until they find a woman worth settling with and banging out some kids. The trouble these days is that worthy women are few and far between, in no small part because many are playing a top 3% alpha chasing polyamorous game.
If you put yourself in temptation, you want to be tempted. 1st grade math.
Using temptation for anything but finding/keeping a mate, is wasting your time. The guy is just getting a free ride and is probably not truly capable.
Well, all these girls are just talking about "teenager" relationships, not serious commitments to family and children.
Asking the wrong quesitons, using the wrong language. Need to ask more concise questions.
Asking: What do you think about monogamy?
The responses are all in theory. I can tell you what I think about alcohol. It's bad. Do I drink it still? Yes.
How many of you are currently sexually active is a more precise question, and you will get the proper answer.
I guarantee they are all sexually active with different partners every couple months.
Re monogamy: I and many others think that non-monogamy, "ethical" or otherwise, is more difficult than monogamy. Polyamory was NOT the norm in human history, despite what the brunette in the lower right corner said. If it was, men would not have evolved the mate-guarding instinct. Infidelity and mate switching may have been prevalent to varying degrees, but that does not equate to being the norm. It may be easier to cheat or be polyamorous in terms of discipline, but the psychological toll makes it more difficult for MOST people. Its like not going to the gym and keeping fit may be easier, but the toll it takes on the psych for most psychologically healthy people who care about health and standards is worse.
I get it. This is the direction a lot of the manosphere is going but IMO it is a complete waste of time. Maybe have an occasional session with the women but no more than once a month MAX.
Going off of story's from people to build your view point of LTR is like making a determination off of a star rating.
What women say, and what women actually want and do are completely different. Society enables their behavior, and technology provides the means to carry it out.
Listen at 12:40 to 12:50
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Code for: He didnt allow me to go f*** other men on girls night, so i left to do that on my wellness retreat and discovered 90" of pipe.
The last girl isn’t wrong… A lot of men even conservative men… Not like hyper religious, but like regular conservative guys would be perfectly fine with lingerie and like doing regular modeling… Just not adult work
Basically they want monogamy but they wont put in the work to live monogamous !
Dating apps are a garbage dump.
Be quite rewarding when two hearts better than one .... kind regards
Rich cooper becomes new Kevin Samuels. However he is just observing rather than ridiculing. People judge.
Modern woman usually have one foot out the door. Nexting
The guys who compliment amber are the guys who just want to hit and not take her seriously.
There’s no temptation = no discipline
We don't really care cuz they lie big time especially on camera..🙄
Shania seems classy, Nicole seems intelligent but tricky
None of them are classy and none of them are intelligent. All you have to do is put a Chad in front of them and you'll see how unclassy and stupid they become.
Not sure I can put tattoos and classy in the same sentence, but to each his own. Less competition for you. Best of luck.
@@ndub4014 tattoos on a woman are like permanent reminders of their past shame.
@@ndub4014 just like their dating profiles are checklists of their past shame.
@@ndub4014 oh damn didn’t spot the tats. Good eye
Women like men that sleep around and that seams to be their nature...
Most women have the hard ass "bad B" attitude and vibe
Jeska seemed obese but feminine. Nicole seemed utterly shallow. Shania seemed alright...tattoos? And, need I say anything about miss Amber?