What Made You Say "THANK GOD WE BROKE UP" After SEEING Your EX?
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I never understand why people will blame the other person rather than their partner. Half the time the other woman/man doesn't even know they are dating a taken person.
It allows people to avoid confronting feelings of betrayal and degradation. People don't like hurty feelings and will build a gargantuan wall of denial to avoid it. Children do better than this.
I blamed both!!!
Broke up with an abusive ex who was getting more n more violent. Next girlfriend he dated he attempted to unalive her. Dodged that bullet
My ex wasn't a bad guy. He was actually very sweet and we got along well. We were long distance and whenever I'd get to see him in person I felt like I was getting the friend treatment. He always seemed weirded out to kiss or hold hands or anything and me being an affectionate type of person realized I couldn't stay with someone like that. We had been friends before and are still friends to this day and recently he told me he thinks he may be asexual so I am pretty glad I didn't stay in that relationship.
It could come from discomfort with physical touch cause of family. I at times dont feel comfortable with my own family cause of trust and connection.
@@BlackDiamond2718 It actually comes from an incident in his childhood that I won't disclose but I don't blame him for not wanting to have physical touch because of it but I just couldn't be with him and of course he didn't admit that to me till a while after we had broken up cause he didn't realize it till he spoke with a therapist.
@@jesusxfreak2 i can assume but yeah that is reasonable. For me i just dont feel comfortable around some family cause of proximity or just patterns of disappointment.
Im glad my ex bf is an ex because he asked me to start trying for a baby. I was 19, and he was 23, but we'd only been going out together for 2 weeks at this time. He said he'd want to be a dad by the time he was 25. He kept saying how much he'd rather be with a blond. He'd constantly point out blonds while we were out and about. He told me i needed a boob job just because they were a handful, not massive but big enough. I was glad when we finally broke up.
I'm glad you were wise enough to walk away from that dumpster fire and not give in to his demands! You are definitely worthy of having what you want out of a relationship and no one should ever define that for you. Even though I don't know you, I'm so proud of you!
@@dragonfliesnh4204 Dumpster fire? Sounds to me like he was the whole landfill
@@liquidsleepgames3661 that's absolutely true! The list of different analogies and phrases that could be used to describe this would be huge!
sounds like my ex but i was 17 :/
@@alyssagrace19 oh yeah, that's illegal 😀
I dated a girl once who had two kids from a previous relationship with a guy 20 years older than her. She had a really rough childhood, including a biological father who SA'ed her. I put my all into the relationship, including helping her move into a new apartment, and she gave nothing back. Not even sex. She would promise me things, but always break her promises. Eventually I got fed up and we had a big fight and she went back to another ex. A few months later and she tried to be my friend. She moved on to a new guy and she fought constantly with him. I found a girl who actually treats me well and got me away from the crazy ex. Thank God!
Edit: So her new guy is actually done with her because she's been physically abusing him to the point where he bled. Dodged a bullet!
What a simp lord
Why would you mention she didn’t give you sex… like why.
@@sw00sh9how is he a simp? He broke up with her.
@@Gacha_Got_Arsorned 2 kids from a guy 20 years older than her = daddy issues, little to no self esteem, used goods that comes with baggage. We’re talking two kids here and this weirdo poured everything into a relationship from a woman who never showed him effort back. He was desperately chasing down a woman who had two kids from an old man. How desperate can he be and how stubborn is her to not accept she wasn’t interested but instead see she just wanted what she could get out of him to benefit her single motherhood.
She had no respect for him and it’s not like she was a prize with her two ultra huge liabilities being her kids. Yet what did OP do while getting zero respect? “Pour his all” ultimate simp lord can’t even feel bad for him. Go ahead and look for some self esteem for him and when you find it hand it to him because he needs it.
2 kids and you continued to put up with her
I divorced my husband of 20 years, and it was very amicable, no drama. And he's still my best friend. I'm much happier since the divorce, and have a great life so far.
Girl in the first story was in the right. Why waste someone's time whos looking for something serious and you don't actually want them?.
Yea, I hated the guy in the first story. Don’t waste her time.
Story 2 Op's ex was a walking red flag, but good god the new boyfriend is an even bigger walking red flag. This man was straight up ok with and even encouraged another man to basically r@pe his girlfriend
About a year after I broke up with my ex I found out he had sexually abused and mentally toyed with a mutual friend of ours. I was still in contact with him because of how manipulative and controlling he was, but that was when I realized he was a monster and severed all contact with him. My only regret is not doing it sooner.
Never let someone do something you are not sure and comfortable doing it. They’a re not wrong for having their boundaries and whatnot but you also have the right to have yours. Don’t stay to please them.
Seeing his wife, who he married after trying to repeatedly get me to take him back while they were dating. He was a serial cheater. And still is. I feel so bad for her but I also know she's known all along.
Dated a guy who had two ex girlfriends and had one kid with each of them. I tried really hard to be sympathetic but I ended the back and forth of the relationship soon after he told me he was going to cheat on me. I knew then that he cheated on me and I didn't have any proof of it but I cut him off and moved 6 hours away. I don't know what he's doing and I don't care.
I'm in the process of divorcing from my wife of 13 years, and I THANK ALL THE GODS WHO CAN HEAR IT that it's amicable. We had our differences, but all in all she's a great person and my best friend, and while it's sad that the relationship had to end it's a real blessing that we'll stick together in a different manner (we still visit mutual friends, go partying, take my niece and nephew on trips together, celebrate our birthdays on the same day because they are so close together etc.)
All those horror stories about current and former partners made me really apprehensive when we made the decision together. 😅
The fact that I’m being more successful, not hung up on her & moved on.
HVAC technician 👨🔧 💪
Hells yeah! Keep it up, that’s a good service you do for us all. A well well deserved paid service.
The first story was so sweet and had a happy ending.
First dude is lowkey the one at fault
Agreed! It was like listening to the villains side of the story.
Didn’t meet him but heard about how he basically dated an ex mutual who hated me and cheated on her… lied about his height too
Absolute train wreck
The first guy doesn't sound very assertive. He must've been super passive in the relationship and his girlfriend was probably so fed up.
Had one of my gf's in my teen years that got into some hard drugs (breaking bad kind) before i broke up with her cause i could tell she wasnt into me as much as her drugs anymore .
10 years later i was driveing home and i saw from a distance what i thought was a homeless 50 year old dude walking down my street .
But as i got close and i saw the face i realised it was her and couldnt believe someone in their mid 20's could look that old that fast till i met more hardcore addicts then it made more sense.
Im just thankful i didnt try to stay and let her drag me down too back then also that she didnt see me and know i lived their.
I hope no one feels this way about anyone.
I think this is one of the reasons why I never risked having a relationship. Also possibly because I never understood love even as a child.
My friend had kinda such a moment when she searched after our old high school class and found the guy she had a major crush on.
She never was brave enough enough her brother outed her to him and he was really mean (publicly humiliated her).
That was before 6 years - On Facebook we found out he has seven kids (with different woman/ some at the same time) and has a weird situationship with babymommy Nr. 5 and her three years older stepmom.
Sfw answer is i was working at a resturant and an ex came in with their new partner. I couldn't remember my ex's name, and my ex smelled heavily of fecies. Like, overwhelming oder that formed a 5' bubble around them. A coworker served them and I rejoyced that I was not on a date with someone who smelled like they sponge bathed out of a clogged toilet.
There were other things that made us super not compatible, and they weren't a bad person. I'm sure they found someone, maybe their date that night, who shares their dreams, and needs. No idea why they stank so badly, or what was going on, they never had any health or hygine problems that would cause that, so your guess is as good as mine
Whats the weird "they" stuff?
what's the game you're playing?
Great video!
I’m wondering too!!
It's called "Townscaper"
She was "supposedly" on BC pills and we used to have wild sex everyday for Months. I found out from her best friend that she was seeing another guy (He was still in High School) on the side. I "hooked up" with that friend of hers who told me and I confronted her. We broke up. A week later she got "knocked up" by that kid, got married, then divorced, remarried, had 2 more kids, got divorced again and was asking about me. After I broke up with her I met the woman who would become my Wife and we've been together for over 30 years with 4 kids, all in college
A guy I dated two years ago is now sitting in jail with 41 counts against him. One is attempted second degree murder.
Damn. It is sad that I caanot post my story here.
Because I did not dodge the bullet. I survived nuclear blast.
with the grooming one, when she got a message form the wife, I'm very surprised she didn't just tell his wife everything and then sit back and let his marriage/life implode under the weight of his human trafficking/pedo BS!
“And next time he reaches out, I swear to god I’m setting up a sting”
Idk why that was so damn funny lol.
My ex is an abusive mother, I likely would have left her if that was my child she was abusing and not her ex boyfriends or husbands.*
For me it was after I realized he was super emotionally and mentally abusive and then I saw him in a mutual friend post and my first thought was “oh my god whose the neckbeard and holy crap it’s my ex…” the guy I’m with now is nothing like him and he’s wonderful.
My ex who had modeled for motorcycle and hot rod magazines now looks like a refridgerator carton with a face.
*ExBF:* "You've heard of puttin' faces on milk cartons? Well--"
*You:* "This isn't something to brag about?!"
*ExBF:* "But it's _all_ I have..."
This guy has no idea how inflection works
What is the game in the background?
What is this game name
I asked Google, it is called Townscaper. I had the same question while watching 😂
lol, had a girl try to set the ground rules on the first date that the relationship was going to be open, I noped out immediately. Later she called me and said she changed her ways and we should start dating again, only for a friend of mine to call me basically an hour later and tell me that she had started dating and if I was ok with it. This went on for like half a year; she would date someone new, then try to get me into a three way with her and her new boyfriend. Eventually she broke and just tried to get me to move in with her, I apparently said ‘sure’ then got drunk and forgot about it until a couple weeks later when she called me asking me why I haven’t contacted her or started moving stuff into her apartment, I told her I had forgotten and don’t actually care anymore. Later on I found out she got married to a biker from a coworker and that she’s know for getting into gangbangs whenever there’s a biker party. Good for her, she found a guy who accepts her lifestyle.
one test, ignore the comentary.
Why do fools just right into another relationship. Seriously spend some time alone (more than a few months) and even then take things slow. Stop with this “falling in love” so soon bs
What's the name of the first game?
Townscaper
@@monzya thank you 🙏🏻🙏🏻
She dumped me, and dude. Couldn't have been better timed. Whole family fell apart
What's the game?
Story 6 sounds like she dated Barney Stinson, but more violent and less polished
Yo Rufus, can you please provide the name of the gameplay in the back?
Townscaper
@@monzya Thanks.
What is this game?
What's this game?
Hes essentially a 34 year old teenager who is killing himself with alcohol while his parents enable him by letting him live in their basement. He's been forws from every job he had, including two that i got him after the breakup because i felt bad for him. I only heard this recently, and i feel bad for what he did to himself. The dude did some fucked up shit to me and orhers and his fanily will enable him to the end because they actually think he will one day decide not drink anymore.
#3 is really bad at taking responsibility for her actions. Other people in her life might be terrible but she still made bad decisions of her own free will.
She didn't know the guy was married. Not her fault.
How old is the girl who ex “ just wanted some” what else imma do with a GF?
The first one he kinda did lead her on.
I guess thats why i dont commit to ex
It’s is just me or was story three someone blaming others for their own choices? The level of self awareness they’re typing at tells me they’re using their ex as an excuse.
As someone that knows SA victims they don’t make plans and ask their friends for rides or describe their friend as “flaking” with the person that SA’d them
The first dude was stringing her along. Clearly wasn't marriage material. Glad she stood her ground and moved on.
Uh huh…
Okay, i'm probably gonna end up in a video, but lets just say, i have a story like no other... - okay so This was back in 2022... Basically what had happened - my friend introduced me to a chick... entire thing when i was first introduced to her, she declined a chance to meet me, but would later agree on it... Now it wouldn't be a problem, right ? but after we met, everything was fine, until i got sent home, an hour drive away... i was confused, and didnt understand what had happened, i decided to be nice, and figured maybe she felt sick... but later would go on clubbing which was original plan of the double date... me ofc confronted her about it, and she started apologizing... to which i responded : Do this once more, and i'll end things there and then...
shortly after we started dating, now things were good for first 5 months ? up until my birthday... afterwards, she started demanding sex, and shit, i denied it... since we messed around... me being me, and having seen what nymphs look like in first sight had my thought named like this "Chicks turn in to beasts after sex, do not give in, even if it kills you..." well turns out, messing around was enough for it to trigger the beast, which mentally made her look like a blood starved beast from bloodborne :D
so some time passes, and i lose my job, things are not looking good, and she just kept on complaining how i dont have a job, and harrased me for playing video games on a side, as a hobby to unwind, and when she would be busy, i would keep myself busy, and avoid fighting, which later friends introduced me in to streaming, my ex did not like that... raising the ultimatum its streams or me... to which i fired off : "Do this question agian, you are out, Video games are what saved me from whores, you will not stand in between me and them..." Which i later found out, she's seeing other guys, and after my attempt to maybe change things up, and First few dates were her incentive, i decided okay, now i'll do it, and see how things go...
She declined and went off to sleep with another guy... the guy who she targeted, declined her, and i told her this : "You have a month to fix your cheating problem, mess up once, you're out... i had enough" i took her exactly 13 days to screw me over... i broke up with her after 10 months... and sent the gifts back, to erase any and all reminders of her... however i couldnt let her go easily... but over time, things changed, my current fiancee, made me see what type of person i was dating, and eventually my ex tried dating my ex best friend, and by that time ? i was with a new person, look at my ex, and now my ex best friend, and said this : I didn't wake up and choose violence the day i left her... and if you tried dating her, after my warnings about her, you and her both deserve to die, cause you both are dumb as rocks
The moral of the story : pay attention to the first date - it can spare you a headache later, if first date goes wrong, girl is for the streets... She even tried to attack me IRL, not knowing she would not probably come out alive, if she met up with me IRL, cause while i'm calm most of the time, attack me or my fiancee, i will go after the attacker, and the family, all the same...
I don’t understand people ragging on the first guy. The girl was clearly affecting his mental health and life and he CLEARLY states that in his story. But just because she wasn’t evil or cheating that suddenly makes OP the bad guy? Yeah he didn’t marry her but that worked out for him in the end. He didn’t feel like marrying her was right so he didn’t do it but just because he made her wait like an extra month everyone’s mad for some reason. I think most people can agree marrying the wrong person is terrible so why the hell would you be mad at someone for NOT doing that?
It just doesn’t fit with the theme of the video. It’s supposed to be about dodging bullets, not just relationships that didn’t work out
Wat game is this?
Townscaper, available on Steam and Nintendo Switch
Its also on apple App Store
Story 3 person sure loves passing the blame on to everyone but themselves lol. Not saying that she had the best parents, and 200 IQ friends and was born with a silver spoon, but jfc if literally everyone in your life is the issue its time to self reflect and fix yourself.
Did I just hear a r@pe story on this? bruh noone deserves that you could have atleast warned the authorities?
First story - OP is a total loser who DIDN'T love her.
yeah the whole time I was listening to it I was like, when does she turn evil? All she did was state a perfectly reasonable want refused to stay when she didn't get it
idk if it's fair to call him a loser. It just sounds like they weren't compatible. His ex isn't a villain, and neither is he. He tried to make himself into someone who could make the relationship work, when the right thing to do was to just end it. That's an easy mistake to make.
The game play is such a chaotic mess. It's making me mad how much of a fluster cluck it is. It's like the opposite of those satisfying videos.
a test, ignore the comment
o really ?
yes man, have a good day.🙂🦝
Seeing her in the street a year later. She had doubled in size.
My gross coworker says this about his ex wife. She has cancer and he makes fun of how her body looks since she's on chemo and acts like he's a "winner?".
@@JenniJemm so you thought you'd force that grossness on me. thanks
@@boardmike82What they probably mean is: You no longer know her story and her reasons or at least you don't make them transparent. Plus your comment is quite gross and immature. Who knows, maybe she even put on the weight because of the pain of the breakup, given that it's only been a year.
My ex put on a lot of weight too after we broke up, but he's still the man I loved for years, so while I would definitely ridicule him for the things he did to me, his body and human dignity are not up for discussion.
@@Nina-cd6uw she got fat because stopped doing coke. So pipe down
Story 4: Listen people, THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS AN ONLINE RELATIONSHIP!
How so?
@vincentlucario5450 It's a mutually accepted delusion between two people. I'm not speaking about long distance because those two people occasionally actually meet and interact irl. Until you meet someone and see if you guys actually "meld," you are essentially just online acquaintances.
@@YuToobVideos ok, that’s your view ig. But what exactly determines a “real” relationship for you? Do they have to meet in person? How long between meetings must they meet before you can consider their relationship to be fake?
@@YuToobVideosIt can really be a thing. Some people have met their future wife/husband in a relationship that began as an online relationship.
Very rare and unlikely to work but it is a thing.
Story 1: this guy sounds exactly like my ex. But these men take no responsibility for the fact that they decided to change, the girlfriend never asked them to be anyone else but themselves
The first person sucks! Just be upfront, you made her stay by being misleading…
The girlfriend was definitely a liberal, lol
What does being liberal have to do with this? And why the need to make this non-political discussion political
If she hadn’t of given an ultimatum he could have wasted years of her life
I don’t think the person realized their feelings at the time. It was in reflection after the fact that they realized why they couldn’t bring themselves to go through with the marriage. I’m glad the woman left though to find what she was looking for.
@@cathyshepard253 I agree with you! It also depends on how old they were when they first got together and how long they were together. It's common for younger adults to not know what they want out of life or a relationship until later on. That is very normal. Sometimes people will lead someone on unintentionally. But if you know, it's good to walk away so they can find someone that can give them what they are looking for. The gf wasn't wrong to state what she wanted out of their relationship and gave him an ultimatum.
Can you please the put the name of the game being played in the background in the description?
townscaper
I never understand why people will blame the other person rather than their partner. Half the time the other woman/man doesn't even know they are dating a taken person.
I'm in the process of divorcing from my wife of 13 years, and I THANK ALL THE GODS WHO CAN HEAR IT that it's amicable. We had our differences, but all in all she's a great person and my best friend, and while it's sad that the relationship had to end it's a real blessing that we'll stick together in a different manner (we still visit mutual friends, go partying, take my niece and nephew on trips together, celebrate our birthdays on the same day because they are so close together etc.)
All those horror stories about current and former partners made me really apprehensive when we made the decision together. 😅