Bride Falls In Love With Purple Steampunk Dress That Is Way Over Budget | Say Yes To The Dress UK

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  • Bride Julia aims to shock with a steampunk look at her wedding! The problem is that the dress she falls in love with is way over her budget.
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  • @sharonshulby2445
    @sharonshulby2445 3 роки тому +5580

    I'm not a fan of their sales tactics. Unless the shop is willing to discount the dress to fit within the bride's budget, they have NO BUSINESS putting her in a dress that is SO over budget!

    • @isabellancali5388
      @isabellancali5388 3 роки тому +87

      Amen. 💯

    • @traciesays9608
      @traciesays9608 2 роки тому +201

      And then say it's the only one like it in the world.........

    • @kaywinder7773
      @kaywinder7773 2 роки тому +251

      They do this on almost every episode. I can't stand it, why ask what their budget is if you're not going to follow it.

    • @marciacarvalho1284
      @marciacarvalho1284 2 роки тому +76

      What she wanted it was difficult to keep under budget.

    • @bethkartman-orgel7435
      @bethkartman-orgel7435 2 роки тому +47

      Quite often, brides INSIST on trying on dresses, knowing they are out of their price range.

  • @victoriavvc
    @victoriavvc 3 роки тому +1957

    The Kleinfeld version of this show has a rule that they never show a bride a dress over their budget. That way they see what's available at their price-range and don't get their hopes up.

    • @chitownangel16
      @chitownangel16 2 роки тому +61

      Same thing with Atlanta

    • @AHunt2024
      @AHunt2024 2 роки тому +72

      so does the lancashire version of the show that Gok Wan does... it's literally just David Emmanuel🙄

    • @srideviraman6662
      @srideviraman6662 2 роки тому +21

      Its called ethics. Something that the Say-Yes-To-The-Dress UK folks lack.

    • @fairyfairiefaerie
      @fairyfairiefaerie 2 роки тому +48

      @@AHunt2024 Gok goes above and beyond! he not only doesn’t show dresses above their budget but tries to lower prices on people’s dream dresses when they ARE very pricey

    • @AHunt2024
      @AHunt2024 2 роки тому +2

      @@fairyfairiefaerie he's amazing!

  • @negarinebrahimi5783
    @negarinebrahimi5783 3 роки тому +6942

    Why would the consultant show her dresses above her budget and let het fall in love with them?
    That’s mean

    • @pilarternera
      @pilarternera 3 роки тому +100

      Sounds like your first rodeo with syttd uk :D

    • @hibamuneeb8928
      @hibamuneeb8928 3 роки тому +35

      The show won't work otherwise

    • @slaydreamer
      @slaydreamer 3 роки тому +76

      Because she is just going to keep asking for more detail with her steampunk request and she needs to understand what she's asking for so they can move forward in the process and actually pick a dress that day

    • @Timbergal
      @Timbergal 3 роки тому +72

      To politely show her that the type of dress she wants cannot be made for such a low cost

    • @ohhowkeni8709
      @ohhowkeni8709 3 роки тому +88

      @@slaydreamer it’s one thing to show, it’s another thing to have them try it on before they know the cost.

  • @meghanpender4661
    @meghanpender4661 3 роки тому +823

    Gok, Randy and Lori would have talked to the store manager to ask about lowering the price of the gown before even showing it to the bride

    • @jydeinden
      @jydeinden 2 роки тому +9

      And if the bride saw it her self in the begining Gok would try his best.. it seems like.

    • @lorettaclifford406
      @lorettaclifford406 Рік тому +9

      Pretty sure Lori owns her store, but she does negotiate with the designers sometimes to lower prices.

    • @mgichndz
      @mgichndz 10 місяців тому +1

      Not necessarily true…they have been known to do the same thing at times lol

  • @susanfraser6371
    @susanfraser6371 3 роки тому +4868

    The dress is the only one in existence, and doesn't fit her, and is nearly twice the budget BEFORE alterations... None of this makes sense.

    • @Dulcess
      @Dulcess 3 роки тому +395

      Also how is she supposed to ride the motorcycle wearing a bustle and train. 🤦

    • @susanfraser6371
      @susanfraser6371 3 роки тому +55

      @@Dulcess Bingo!

    • @shellykevinbaumgartner7612
      @shellykevinbaumgartner7612 3 роки тому +33

      I thought the same thing.

    • @shreejohnson1732
      @shreejohnson1732 3 роки тому +15

      Exactly!

    • @sharondelagarza4802
      @sharondelagarza4802 3 роки тому +142

      Same thought - it doesn’t fit! I can’t imagine how much she will have to spend on alterations! SMH.

  • @kylietrevino7354
    @kylietrevino7354 2 роки тому +937

    When I get married and go wedding dress shopping, I will tell them “DO NOT put me in a dress over my budget. If you do, I will be leaving and I will find a place that will respect my budget.”

    • @ellenlehrman9299
      @ellenlehrman9299 2 роки тому +22

      I bought a beautiful wedding gown in a second hand shop. Someone else had worn it… once.

    • @davisholman8149
      @davisholman8149 2 роки тому +3

      @@ellenlehrman9299 So smart - I believe there is an online store for selling wedding gowns, if I remember correctly.

    • @beckyh2855
      @beckyh2855 2 роки тому +3

      Thankfully there are shops out there that do respect a brides budget. I went dress shopping with my best friend a month ago and the sales woman only got dresses in her budget.

    • @elainekent7026
      @elainekent7026 2 роки тому +7

      @@ellenlehrman9299 It's been many years since I got married, my dress was also second hand, it was beautiful and it cost me £15! It never bothered me either, that it had been worn by someone else.

    • @domdom3938
      @domdom3938 2 роки тому

      Please, if they put you in an over-budget dress and you like it, you won't even care

  • @lorayix960
    @lorayix960 3 роки тому +7639

    I'm so annoyed that they don't tell the brides the price before they can try one the dresses. It feels like they manipulate them. Like, yes, that dress is gorgeous, but still ...

    • @dreamsofturtles1828
      @dreamsofturtles1828 3 роки тому +391

      Randy on SYTD in NYC never picks out a dress thats over the brides budget. He understand the hurt feelings that can arise from falling in love with a dress you cannot have. Or, worse, giving in to the temptation & getting into debt.

    • @lindsayhall481
      @lindsayhall481 3 роки тому +49

      She did mention on the first dress she tried that the type of dress she is wanting comes with a bigger price tag.

    • @maybudd5793
      @maybudd5793 3 роки тому +27

      Agreed!! Why disappoint her so??

    • @annmariechavez7050
      @annmariechavez7050 3 роки тому +14

      Welcome to retail lady. : )

    • @IcesisLover
      @IcesisLover 3 роки тому +31

      @@lindsayhall481 they say that about all the dresses. They can offer inexpensive options same as they can offer more than the same 3 Dando London dresses they just choose not to.

  • @impagain
    @impagain 3 роки тому +318

    That is absolutely my dream Steampunk dress, I absolutely adore everything about it, and I can tell that it fits her style so exactly... but it feels so unprofessional the consultant would place her in that dress nearly double over budget. If you're gonna make someone fall in love with, then you better be willing to help pay for it...

    • @adnel4142
      @adnel4142 2 роки тому +1

      Why must they help pay for it? She can say no!

    • @anarchyknight6990
      @anarchyknight6990 2 роки тому +9

      @@adnel4142 They should've brought it out in the first place! They're consultants, their job is it help a bride find the perfect dress within their budget. The bride told them exactly what she wanted, and what her price range was, and they still went ahead and ignored her wishes. It's like paying for tickets at a concert online and after you get there, the price of admissions has increased and you cant get in. Brides probably pay extra for consultants like this who can help them find the right dress for their big day. Finding the right wedding dress is an important event for brides and this consultant ruined everything by ignoring the bride's wishes for something in her price range. Who wants to start a marriage in dept because of a dress worn for one day?

    • @zoechang3
      @zoechang3 Рік тому +1

      I agree! If you think that they can cough up money so easily, why don't they do it for her... 😒

  • @jennahorner9356
    @jennahorner9356 3 роки тому +5438

    START RESPECTING THE BUDGET. WE ALL DISLIKE YOU FOR IGNORING IT.

    • @chitownangel16
      @chitownangel16 3 роки тому +110

      It drives me nuts. I think they should explain that the dress she wants just isn't in her budget and let her decide.

    • @madaratobi5314
      @madaratobi5314 3 роки тому +13

      Exactly

    • @paulao5834
      @paulao5834 3 роки тому +10

      Yeah, I feel the same...

    • @L.Spencer
      @L.Spencer 3 роки тому +20

      But it generates comments which is good for their channel.

    • @yuenneloke9916
      @yuenneloke9916 3 роки тому +2

      You're still watching it though :p

  • @kathe.o.
    @kathe.o. 3 роки тому +79

    The thing I HATE about this bridal shop is knowing her budget they go overboard in price more often than not. The pirate bride looked her style in both dresses. Both of which were way out of the budget.

  • @sianthesheep
    @sianthesheep 3 роки тому +3414

    As a steampunk fan myself there are WAY less expensive dresses in this style you could buy that can be handmade for you for under £2000.

    • @EnglishTeacher-ez1bo
      @EnglishTeacher-ez1bo 3 роки тому +121

      I was just thinking I could make that dress for less than $1000 when I read your comment.

    • @cggalan3914
      @cggalan3914 3 роки тому +79

      Once she's back at home sharing with her friends and Co workers, someone will tell her of other places more within her budget.

    • @thelunarwolf9060
      @thelunarwolf9060 3 роки тому +47

      And if you get it handmade and design it then it’s also a one of a kind nothing like it in the whole word thing that the consultant was saying to manipulate the bride

    • @mstie3252
      @mstie3252 3 роки тому +48

      I wondered that myself. Having such a particular vision, she might have been happier if she went to a seamstress. A bridal boutique like this is unlikely to have many choices in her particular style, and they will be costly due to both the workmanship and materials involved, and the fact that they are more rare. But I imagine a seamstress could make something she would love for 2000. And maybe make the skirt work better with riding off on a motorcycle as well. But I do think that truly budget-minded brides are not going to such a fancy place in the first place.

    • @GameChanger597
      @GameChanger597 3 роки тому +47

      And if it's the only one in the world, how are they going to get it to be fitted to her size? They had to cover the entire back with a different material so her bra wasn't feeling on camera.

  • @clairevoyant1865
    @clairevoyant1865 3 роки тому +187

    As someone who loves metal culture and the fashion that goes with it, she could easily go to independent designers and shops up and down the UK and find something a bit more in budget. It's gorgeous and she looks amazing. It's just as shown here, it's hard to keep to a budget when you're shown probably the only colourful different dress they have. Not as many options so makes it easier to manipulate the bride into almost doubling her budget. But, ah well it does suit her so well.

    • @sandrabast7080
      @sandrabast7080 2 роки тому +4

      That dress was many sizes too small and will need huge alterations

    • @catladyfromky4142
      @catladyfromky4142 Рік тому

      They would order it in her size. The "only one in the world" is regarding the pattern and the material.

  • @ysbyttybedbug
    @ysbyttybedbug 3 роки тому +6519

    Once again, the consultant is putting the bride in dresses well over her budget without asking her permission. I really, really dislike this shop.

    • @interestedobserver-gk3ih
      @interestedobserver-gk3ih 3 роки тому +283

      They shouldn't put any bride in any gown without first telling them the price and never in one that is over budget without the bride's permission. that includes gowns picked out by the entourage,

    • @katianafanfan3852
      @katianafanfan3852 3 роки тому +60

      I so agree with you both dresses was well over her budget but she still put her in it.

    • @prinxessmalak
      @prinxessmalak 3 роки тому +29

      @Plumeria calm down 💀 they could easily tell her in order to get the dramatics she wants they have to stretch budget

    • @latinaloca1981
      @latinaloca1981 3 роки тому +45

      @Plumeria I agree with you but the consultant could and should have warned her before she put her in the dresses that these types tend to be more pricey and to keep that in mind going forward.

    • @dietotaku
      @dietotaku 3 роки тому +53

      @Plumeria bullshit, i just found nearly the exact same dress on etsy for $775. this shop absolutely scammed the hell out of this bride. and she's clearly upset, she's just been duped into believing there's no alternative, precisely because of language like "if you want drama it's going to be expensive."

  • @blush106
    @blush106 2 роки тому +47

    I really appreciate how the family and the mom was supportive of the bride's unique style. Usually the family's trying to convince the bride to get a traditional white dress, but this family all cried when she came out in what she wanted. What a wonderful, supportive family, I hope she can get the dress she wants!

  • @HannahMileyforever1
    @HannahMileyforever1 3 роки тому +3972

    Bride: I would like a dress that does NOT go over 2,000.
    -Consultants: Ok, so what I’m hearing is that you want a dress OVER 2,000???!

    • @debjanikundu8576
      @debjanikundu8576 3 роки тому +50

      for the other bride they brought in some crap Dando London number...who had some £4K budget...

    • @sandiabha
      @sandiabha 3 роки тому +5

      True so annoying

    • @shaunarovinski4081
      @shaunarovinski4081 3 роки тому +3

      Lol. Exactly!

    • @Sugxrvenom
      @Sugxrvenom 3 роки тому +8

      @@debjanikundu8576 IKR! what the heck. Those dresses were ugly af.. honestly.

    • @GioiaFede
      @GioiaFede 2 роки тому

      i think she heard the bride wanted to go over 3000 like: my budget is 2 but i'm willing to double it.

  • @emmabiron9877
    @emmabiron9877 3 роки тому +52

    Normally on “Say Yes…” the mothers dont want colored dresses but its so lovely to see her mother so supportive!!!

  • @lanarain8543
    @lanarain8543 3 роки тому +5103

    If you have big budget, they show you the dress with low price.. When you have small budget.. Tadaaaa they show you the dress with over budget 😌

    • @angrydonutface7420
      @angrydonutface7420 3 роки тому +154

      EVERY TIME.

    • @techielopez7678
      @techielopez7678 3 роки тому +89

      So true and sad...

    • @gracepame1824
      @gracepame1824 3 роки тому +47

      Can’t agree more

    • @jenniewright3045
      @jenniewright3045 3 роки тому +125

      It also doesn't help when the ones with small budgets, want the dresses that will cost more. They seem to think huge, detailed dresses are gonna be cheap

    • @shintayu101
      @shintayu101 3 роки тому +33

      Maybe one with budget is more simple n one of a kind. The one with no high budget tends to show extravagance. But store with more variety n choices r always the best.

  • @CorrieCadaver
    @CorrieCadaver 3 роки тому +141

    How unbelievably cruel to show brides with a budget something nearly double the price. Just awful to let her fall in love with it before telling her she’ll need to stretch herself so far to get it. Terrible sales technique.

  • @aliciamarroquin3911
    @aliciamarroquin3911 3 роки тому +2316

    I don’t understand how they’re okay with showing a bride an over-budget dress knowing there’s a high chance they’re going to fall in love with it. So unethical.

    • @lamar9331
      @lamar9331 3 роки тому +13

      Because the bride falls for it just about every time. It's the brides decision in the end.

    • @MrsSlocombesPuddyCat
      @MrsSlocombesPuddyCat 3 роки тому +16

      Agreed. Extremely unethical.

    • @michelesherman5660
      @michelesherman5660 2 роки тому +6

      They want the MONEY 💰 🤑 that's why they do it. They could be on commission where they only get paid by the amount of sales they make. Anyway you look at it it's nastiness by the shop people

    • @brontiq
      @brontiq 2 роки тому

      Oh ffs. You act like a bride is a brainless creature who can be pressured to anything

    • @magicianmana4
      @magicianmana4 2 роки тому +6

      That consultant was evil. She knew that was the perfect dress and they would stretch their budget for it.

  • @captaincrunch784
    @captaincrunch784 3 роки тому +36

    My friend's consultant put her in a dress $20 over budget, but asked if that was ok before she tried it on.

  • @suchitabajaj7
    @suchitabajaj7 3 роки тому +2129

    They literally should be ashamed for putting someone through that.
    Its literally like their policy to give low budget people high budget dresses.
    And the ones with high budget have low budget dresses.

    • @sarawithanh1935
      @sarawithanh1935 3 роки тому +13

      What part of steampunk don't you understand that's the only style of dress that she wanted and that's what they had. So they did their job I don't know what you're going on about. It doesn't make sense. How would you know it's their policy anyways

    • @suchitabajaj7
      @suchitabajaj7 3 роки тому +64

      @@sarawithanh1935 girl listen it was fine i understand their point its just that if they didn't had a steampunk dress in their budget then they should have told her before putting her in that dress. And the policy thing was a sarcasm if you get it cuz everyone does aftrr watching thousands of syttd episodes.

    • @凤爱杂
      @凤爱杂 3 роки тому +1

      Exactly

    • @dietotaku
      @dietotaku 3 роки тому +43

      @@sarawithanh1935 what part of a budget don't you understand? if someone says "i'm looking for a steampunk dress under $2000" you just say "we don't have those," tell her to hit up ebay or etsy or something because there are definitely dresses out there within that criteria.

    • @donizettirules
      @donizettirules 3 роки тому +17

      I know right? I mean THAT SMILE on the sale lady’s face when she answered the mum that the first dress out the gate was over budget... AND that would be true of all the dresses she could try... WITH A BIG SMILE THE WHOLE TIME! Like what the hell?! And announcing to the camera but not to the bride or the family that “really there was only designer” they could POSSIBLY work with which automatically placed thei options out of budget... but had she told them her plan up front to only work with this one expensive line, they could have made the call to proceed or not... rather than carry on, and on, and on! Ugh! It was SUCH sleezy set-up! *but done with a SMILE so all’s well! SMH 🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @JaneDoe-tc8to
    @JaneDoe-tc8to 3 роки тому +38

    I love that the sister’s problem with the first dress was “I don’t think it would fit on your bike”

    • @giraffe1219
      @giraffe1219 2 роки тому +1

      To be fair, that was a concern of the bride. Just keeping her best interest in mind lol.

  • @michellemorrison9663
    @michellemorrison9663 3 роки тому +3901

    The way the consultant convinced her was rude, straight up marketing, and playing with feelings: “it’s one of a kind, the only in the world” with a stupid hypocritical smile on the face and it’s sad that she’ll have to go back home and sell stuff around cause she fell in love with a dress she couldn’t afford. Your dress is not about the price tag but when it’s above your budget, the consultant SHOULD let you know BEFORE you put it on. They do it at kleinfield.

    • @angrydonutface7420
      @angrydonutface7420 3 роки тому +202

      It's one of a kind and doesn't come close to fitting, so they'll also have to pay for major alterations!

    • @julesmichael8232
      @julesmichael8232 3 роки тому +78

      Same thought, like why do the hell they would go beyond the budget? I feel bad for the bride

    • @sunflowerbaby1853
      @sunflowerbaby1853 3 роки тому +17

      Do they get a commission?

    • @michellemorrison9663
      @michellemorrison9663 3 роки тому +105

      @@sunflowerbaby1853 most likely but as a consultant you SHOULD warn the price before putting it on the bride and let her decide if she’ll take the risk or not. If she decided herself to put it on and fell in love with it, and couldn’t afford it… That would be different. But she wasn’t even warned. When the bride heard “one of a kind” her face instantly dropped cause she felt the price was gonna be over her budget

    • @julesmichael8232
      @julesmichael8232 3 роки тому +129

      I prefer watching Say yes to the the dress Atlanta. Lori and Monte wouldn’t do that to their brides

  • @one_batch_two_batch
    @one_batch_two_batch 3 роки тому +83

    It's disgusting how much they care for selling more expensive dress than their client can afford

  • @139139mimi
    @139139mimi 3 роки тому +1161

    The video title should be "Consultant manipulates bride to fall for a dress way over her budget"

    • @sxnflxwer9122
      @sxnflxwer9122 3 роки тому +11

      Yes its so ignorant that one of the girls wanted a dress under 2k and they gave her one over. They could have found one that would fit her type for under 2k.

    • @np100
      @np100 2 роки тому

      @@sxnflxwer9122 She was the one who had to be super biker. This is the only purple wedding dress ever.

    • @Brendoofus
      @Brendoofus 2 роки тому

      Usually, smaller sizes will be cheaper and have more options.

    • @EnaLikes
      @EnaLikes 2 роки тому

      @@np100 lol. Do you TRULY believe that?

  • @laurasfoodforthought2419
    @laurasfoodforthought2419 3 роки тому +44

    I remember working as a bridal consultant and always being instructed to not follow the budget too much because they will "pay more if they love the dress." I always felt so guilty and did my best to stay within budget. And the price tag is before alterations, slip, and veil. It's crazy.

    • @Kat-mu8wq
      @Kat-mu8wq 2 роки тому +3

      Unfortunately that doesn't work for everyone, as I am a peasant i don't have thousands of £ to spend on a bloody dress.. If I were to go into a bridle store and they put me in a dress that was twice my budget, I'd simple leave and buy a prom dress for a few hundred £.

    • @monkey_man_lootenant_dan2684
      @monkey_man_lootenant_dan2684 2 роки тому

      When I got married 20 years ago my dress was less than $400. It had a ball gown skirt and to make it stand out like I wanted it to (and because we were having an outdoor wedding in the South in June) I needed a hoop skirt. The shop wanted me to purchase a hoop skirt to wear under and I told them they were crazy. I’d never use it again. I did get my dress there but I found another bridal shop that rented petticoats and hoop skirts. I wish I had gone to the other place to begin with.

    • @jeangoth6497
      @jeangoth6497 2 роки тому

      @@Kat-mu8wq I fully agree, like uh I won’t be paying more because the budget is a budget for a reason and it’s all I got😂 I’d simply be like oh okay I’ll just buy it online for my budget price🙃

  • @carrbri92
    @carrbri92 3 роки тому +575

    “This dress is the only one in the world” Girl
    Please she can go to a seamstress and get something custom and beautiful.

    • @DangerHob
      @DangerHob 3 роки тому +38

      And it obviously is very much the wrong size?! So do they have another made in the correct size... thus ruining the whole "One of a kind!" Sales shtick, or somehow cobble together enough alterations to make this one fit which just makes the cost even higher?! Sooooo many questions.

    • @alicebas377
      @alicebas377 2 роки тому +7

      the dress is way too small for her too! there is another grand in alterations to get it to fit her...did you you see the panel they pinned to the back to get it on her....most emotional times in life...weddings and funerals.....

    • @1m2rich
      @1m2rich 2 роки тому +1

      Buy a prom dress.

  • @kellydesilva6733
    @kellydesilva6733 3 роки тому +25

    Beside the price, I love how her entourage totally supported her vision. Too many brides have pushy entourages that try to force them into something they dont want.

  • @corpsket
    @corpsket 3 роки тому +658

    The consultants at this shop continue to be UNBELEIVABLY cruel. That woman is so unprofessional. You're not there to play dress up using these women like dolls and crush their spirits, you're there to help them find things they love that they can afford. Disgusting.

    • @barbaraburton8914
      @barbaraburton8914 2 роки тому +5

      Nope, they are there to sell clothes just like any other dress shop and probably on commission.

    • @justjaein
      @justjaein 2 роки тому +2

      @@barbaraburton8914 honestly yeah

    • @cat_loves_curry5157
      @cat_loves_curry5157 2 роки тому +5

      Honestly I find this consultant annoying and pushy..

    • @endeeray4295
      @endeeray4295 2 роки тому

      Couldnt a lot of this sales and prices, along with parent and sibling preferences etc. be played up some for entertainment value.

  • @Janexcalibur
    @Janexcalibur 3 роки тому +21

    Wow, I really thought the consultant would be like, "It's almost double your budget but-- surprise!-- we're discounting this dress for you/it's on sale." But no....

  • @snehathomas1820
    @snehathomas1820 3 роки тому +1804

    why would an alternative bride with a steampunk vision show up to CONFETTI AND LACE? im sure there are loads of shops with options that are well within her budget?

    • @pragyaparamita5294
      @pragyaparamita5294 3 роки тому +93

      To be on the show🤔

    • @snehathomas1820
      @snehathomas1820 3 роки тому +95

      @@pragyaparamita5294 fair point, but i wonder why! it's not like they're getting a discount on the dresses for being on the show or anything like that. to each their own i guess, but i feel so bad for these brides that come in to the store expecting dresses that they just wont find.

    • @neiya8862
      @neiya8862 3 роки тому +14

      With her sense of style maybe not. It’s going to cost her money.

    • @debbiemarquis3231
      @debbiemarquis3231 3 роки тому +88

      If she found a good dress maker..she could have gotten exactly what she wanted within budget..and even some more..

    • @interestedobserver-gk3ih
      @interestedobserver-gk3ih 3 роки тому +29

      She is a full figure woman and many stores even bridal boutiques do not carry many of the larger sizes. Even here she could barely get into the dresses she was trying on.. What she didn't do and should have done was go online and see what was available and the relative cost so she would have been better prepared and saved up more. She must know since this is her preferred style that these items are pricy because of the additional labor and some times the material involved.

  • @katelynthornburg5704
    @katelynthornburg5704 3 роки тому +26

    They're completely in the wrong for putting her in a dress almost twice her budget then trying to convince her to buy it, but when you're looking for what she was, why go there? Most of their dresses are white and not steampunk, and the few they have that fit her vision are out of budget. Seems like there would be better places to go than here.

  • @leoniek5662
    @leoniek5662 3 роки тому +616

    Even the first dress they give her is over budget, why don't they just be honest and say right away that their store won't work in her price range for what she's looking for.

    • @christineb.655
      @christineb.655 3 роки тому +14

      Because no buissness wants to turn down a client and especially on camera.... Plus think about it David saying in front of camera "well our store doesn't have the kind of dress she wants in her price range, so we had to tell her to go home" doesn't look good for his name does it

    • @dietotaku
      @dietotaku 3 роки тому +44

      @@christineb.655 then don't do an episode with her?? they know damn well what her budget is & what she's looking for before the cameras start rolling, they can easily say "she's not a good candidate to be on the show because we can't provide what she's looking for."

    • @christineb.655
      @christineb.655 3 роки тому +8

      @@dietotaku yeah but because she had such specific style they wanted to show that they can provide for all brides ("they like a challenge" as David said), which in a way they did, they did find the dress even though it did come a "little" higher price.
      Plus it's the bride's choice to go on TV, SHE wanted to go on the show, I don't know why because if I were her with that style request, I wouldn't go to "regular" bridal store cos I know they wouldn't have EXACTLY what I want or much choice.
      Again show won't turn her down because they have few of those dresses and they can persuade her to buy it = make money

    • @MrsSlocombesPuddyCat
      @MrsSlocombesPuddyCat 3 роки тому +5

      @@christineb.655 - Well his name looks even worse when they always push brides over their budget. The trick with this shop, it to tell them 1000 less than your actual budget, then they will put you in something at your exact budget. If you tell them your real budget they instantly add 1000 in their brains.

  • @MissNayNay22
    @MissNayNay22 2 роки тому +8

    She pulled that purple dress off as if it were made just for her!! 💜 love it!!! I really feel like they put the brides in a jam with going wayyyyy over budget!

  • @RiaGreece12
    @RiaGreece12 3 роки тому +883

    If im going to spend around 4k on a gown,i'd rather have it custom made....

    • @johnnabuzby6103
      @johnnabuzby6103 3 роки тому +74

      If I were Ever to get married again [haha, not happening], and I had £4000 [or dollars] for a gown, I'm buying a ticket from my home state of North Carolina to Lancashire for an appointment with Auntie Gok, or go to Curvy Brides Boutique for an appointment with Jo and Al.

    • @Kamread_tv
      @Kamread_tv 3 роки тому +7

      @@johnnabuzby6103 Damn, that's nice!🔥💯

    • @Kamread_tv
      @Kamread_tv 3 роки тому +4

      FR.😲🙌

    • @johnnabuzby6103
      @johnnabuzby6103 3 роки тому +10

      @@Kamread_tv Almost makes me wish I were going to get married again just so I could go meet Auntie Gok and Jo and Al. Those three are the best!

    • @Kamread_tv
      @Kamread_tv 3 роки тому +4

      @@johnnabuzby6103 Def💫

  • @jb6712
    @jb6712 3 роки тому +5

    Second bride in that first gown---that thing was an absolute stunner! What a gorgeous design it was. Likely not to be available now, ten or more years after the show was filmed, but still, WOW!

  • @hollymcrider6178
    @hollymcrider6178 3 роки тому +558

    “THAT” bridal boutique is horrendous! They shouldn’t have a show! Bring on Gok!

    • @ArgyleDinosaur
      @ArgyleDinosaur 3 роки тому +18

      YES! Auntie Gok would've worked in her budget!

    • @kimmiebraunthal4874
      @kimmiebraunthal4874 3 роки тому +19

      @@ArgyleDinosaur Auntie Gok i think is the ONLY syttd consultant who will work within the budget. even on the US versions of the show, they always start with a dress "close" to the budget but on the opposite side of the line

  • @bellememorie
    @bellememorie 2 роки тому +17

    If you are an alternative bride, you can do much better on a budget by having a dress made for you by a seamstress. There are great options on Etsy (I'm a former wedding planner and blogger). I would be pretty annoyed if a dress consultant manipulated one of my brides the way this shop does. Never ever put something out of budget on a bride! You will taint their wedding experience with even more stress by having them scramble and over extend themselves even more than they already are. This was so shady.

  • @coolbreezess1
    @coolbreezess1 3 роки тому +302

    SYTTD UK logic
    Brides with under £2000 budget: put her in dresses way over £2000
    Brides with £4000 budget: here's a £1500 dando london

  • @dmuse869
    @dmuse869 3 роки тому +6

    The dress was perfect for her! It was one of the most stunning gowns I have ever seen. The color, the boning, the way it looked on her! Amazing⭐🥲

  • @ninagurl3988
    @ninagurl3988 3 роки тому +272

    The bride should have been told of the price before she tried it on... There's this thing called RESPECT for your customers especially when they have told the consultant of their budget. Very, very rude and INSENSITIVE, Ms Consultant.

    • @interestedobserver-gk3ih
      @interestedobserver-gk3ih 3 роки тому +1

      If she was concerned about the budget the bride should have asked. also she didn'tgive a firm number. When they do the consultants try to bring them gowns within or nearly within the budget. The consultants are also somewhat handicapped in that the larger the dress size the higher the cost. Yet this is dangerous territory because too much information might be giving the impression that they are body shaming the bride.

    • @camilapalacios2378
      @camilapalacios2378 3 роки тому +17

      @@interestedobserver-gk3ih she did give a firm number (2k)

    • @colourfulparrot
      @colourfulparrot 3 роки тому +5

      @@interestedobserver-gk3ih she told them her budget, and probably assumed that the sales consultant would actually stick to it like they should

  • @Eva-yp9uk
    @Eva-yp9uk 3 роки тому +5

    It's so great that her family was so on board with the dress! most moms on this show would've freaked out about the fact that it wasn't white. Great group of friends and family she has there.

  • @kemi8828
    @kemi8828 3 роки тому +579

    I find it almost rude how she showed dresses above the budget.

    • @mrsdv
      @mrsdv 3 роки тому +39

      Oh it's totally rude. It's disrespectful to her request.

    • @marugmad
      @marugmad 3 роки тому +22

      Agree. Plus it´s not that she had an extremely low budget, 2k is a lot of money for a dress, no matter how you look at it.

  • @janiceleeripley443
    @janiceleeripley443 3 роки тому +6

    I love the steampunk dress!!! It's amazing...I am a wedding stylist and florist......I would absolutely be thrilled and honored to make her wedding bouquet.....she is a one of a kind Bride. xoxoo

  • @itwasthecatsfault5422
    @itwasthecatsfault5422 3 роки тому +680

    Why would you put a bride into that position? She came in with a budget of 2k and the put her in a dress that’s 3,500k nearly twice her budget! Sometimes sticking to a budget can be extremely stressful and now the bride had to find another 1,500k from somewhere! Btw she did look good in it!! 😁

    • @PaddyPawsRescue
      @PaddyPawsRescue 3 роки тому +16

      Agreed. But did she really think she could get the look she wanted for that price?

    • @K000H
      @K000H 3 роки тому +10

      Idk it's probably just some made up drama they came up with like they do with so many other episodes. It would make more sense if she already found this dress online, had the budget for it and then the production team wanted her to come on the show with a lower budget just for the extra suspense.

    • @dexterdy1897
      @dexterdy1897 3 роки тому +4

      totally agree.
      seems consultant insane. d bride said 2k...or d consultant dont know the numbers ....and it s a bad thing ... insane

    • @mariacampos8234
      @mariacampos8234 3 роки тому +5

      @@dexterdy1897 - DRAMA of the magnitude that the steampunk bride wanted comes with a PRICE TAG, she obviously didn't do any research into the price of gowns with TITANIC STYLE DRAMA AND BLING. The consultant did warned her with the dress prior to the purple gown, but she tried the purple gown on anyway. She underestimated the price range for her style of drama and bling because she did no research; so she gave herself sticker shock.

    • @MrsSlocombesPuddyCat
      @MrsSlocombesPuddyCat 3 роки тому +5

      Agreed. Yes the dress is gorgeous and she looks beautiful in it......However nearly double the budget, then add alterations cost on top of that..... and no way she can safely wear that dress on a motorbike. Whilst I understand that her style would be more expensive, they should have explained that BEFORE they started the appointment and told her the price of each individual dress BEFORE she tried it on. The consultant applied pure manipulation and emotional blackmail to make the commission.

  • @georgiadevine7331
    @georgiadevine7331 2 роки тому +2

    I loved the purple dress! She looks amazing in it. BEAUTIFUL! I wish they would do a follow up of this one. If it truly is the only dress like it in existence, it is well worth the pics!

  • @jjfranz2000
    @jjfranz2000 3 роки тому +125

    “We love a good challenge”
    Ok consultants your challenge is to put a bride in dresses that are within her budget.

  • @Soapartisan875
    @Soapartisan875 3 роки тому +3

    Both brides looked stunning in their dresses ..

  • @dandelion_.
    @dandelion_. 3 роки тому +432

    Why would they give her a dress over her budget and make her fall in love with it 😒

  • @donnienottello
    @donnienottello 2 роки тому +1

    i love how supportive her entourage is with her unique taste

  • @kaliwindx7287
    @kaliwindx7287 3 роки тому +237

    A bride should never be shown a dress that is almost twice her budget. The consultant should know better.

  • @amethystspeaker6919
    @amethystspeaker6919 Рік тому

    The second brides mother in law looks absolutely gorgeous, her eyes are just sparkling with love!

  • @gma2one
    @gma2one 3 роки тому +79

    It is unfair when the consultant knows a certain designer’s dresses are all over budget. I mean, show her the dresses before putting them on, but tell her those styles are all over her budget.

  • @goochjuice3250
    @goochjuice3250 3 роки тому +1

    This is why Gok is the only consultant from the UK episodes I like. He actually respects the clients.

    • @hilarytaber6138
      @hilarytaber6138 3 роки тому

      That and more. He listens to what THEY want and will alter the dress in the fitting room to make sure it's what they want. He works with them until they feel beautiful and confident AND the gowns are original and within budget.

  • @lindak8664
    @lindak8664 3 роки тому +71

    Fancy showing her a dress twice her budget without telling her the price before she put it on. That’s unacceptable behaviour. She needs to go to the naughty chair.

  • @toscatattertail9813
    @toscatattertail9813 3 роки тому +2

    my daughter had a renaissance handfasting (closer to steampunk look), she bought a corset, we had a skirt/petticoats/ camisole special made and everything came to under $500 USD.

  • @gopikaagopika
    @gopikaagopika 3 роки тому +77

    The brides with big budgets have been given low cost dress and brides with low budget get a huge budget dress. They should work within the budget.

  • @christinebutler7630
    @christinebutler7630 3 роки тому +10

    Why not make a dress on the same lines as the one she likes? Or have one made- there are lots of folks in goth/steampunk fandoms who are costumers

  • @passionfruitfruit
    @passionfruitfruit 3 роки тому +51

    'What's your budget?'
    '2000.'
    'Perfect, I'll just put you in this 3500 gown!'
    🙄

  • @innerlight4601
    @innerlight4601 3 роки тому +2

    If she wants the extremely unique dress and willing to pay for it why all the negative comments,they showed her what they had in her very specific style and hence the price tag which she happily accepted, wish her all the best ❤️❤️❤️

  • @sundayspecial2722
    @sundayspecial2722 3 роки тому +69

    I think "the only one in the world" is only a marketing pitch.

    • @MrsBrit1
      @MrsBrit1 3 роки тому +10

      Right? If this is the only one, how are they going to make it for her? It's like 10 sizes too small. Oh, right....it's not the only one. They'll make a new one that's actually in her size. Sure, this designer might make completely unique giwns, but they don't only make one of them.
      Also, rude to give her a dress nearly twice her budget.

    • @BasicYTHandle
      @BasicYTHandle 3 роки тому +3

      And, if it were truly "the only one in the world" and couldn't be ordered in a different size, it should already be on the sale/markdown rack!

  • @sritamagupta2267
    @sritamagupta2267 Рік тому

    The best part, is the emotions!! We have different culture, but for all brides to be, the emotions after finding "the outfit" is so similar!! It always brings back the happy memories 😊

  • @AFAskygoddess
    @AFAskygoddess 3 роки тому +134

    WTF ? Why ask what her budget is when you ignore it?

  • @elinat2414
    @elinat2414 2 роки тому +1

    For an alternative style wedding dress, she’s better off going to a seamstress or purchase from an online store/Etsy.
    That way, she’s likely to find something that suits her taste without the wedding mark up (since a lot of alternative wedding dresses aren’t really marketed as wedding dresses).
    I went with an alternative dress also (red Renaissance gown) and got my dress custom made for $600 online. That may not be to everyone’s taste, but you’re unlikely to find that type of service at a bridal boutique. The boutique WILL charge a premium if you want something totally different, even though ‘different’ doesn’t necessarily translate to ‘more work/hours’ put into the gown.

  • @Dulcess
    @Dulcess 3 роки тому +207

    The first bride purple dress isn't going to be any easier to ride a bike. I'm surprised nobody mentioned that. 🤷

    • @Devin3Anthologie
      @Devin3Anthologie 3 роки тому +17

      For real! Everything else aside, you cannot ride in that unless you can tie it up from the inside of the skirt. It's a lovely dress but my goodness.

    • @sandiabha
      @sandiabha 3 роки тому +4

      She just looked so beautiful they probably forgot lol

    • @Dulcess
      @Dulcess 3 роки тому +7

      @@sandiabha I liked the first dress better but that's just my opinion. 🤷

  • @Kelly-hh7jz
    @Kelly-hh7jz 3 роки тому +6

    She could commission an independent dressmaker to do a dress to her liking within her budget. This store is the worst

  • @suranihewage2701
    @suranihewage2701 3 роки тому +70

    4000 budget shows a 1500 dress. 2000 budget shows a 2900 dress.

    • @Sunshine4
      @Sunshine4 3 роки тому +2

      My thoughts...very confusing.

    • @regiana8079
      @regiana8079 3 роки тому +1

      Yeah i just realized it

    • @Dalsemien
      @Dalsemien 2 роки тому +1

      Well, it depends on what they are asking for. Many brides with small budgets have champagne taste.

  • @jazziered142
    @jazziered142 3 роки тому

    I loved it when the mother said when your children are happy, you're happy. So true!

  • @mileimelle
    @mileimelle 3 роки тому +51

    I see that SYTTD UK is still ongoing. I hope they're receiving their viewers' feedback and start changing the way they do things. It's just ridiculous to see consultants and David Emanuel put the bride-to-be in dresses that are above their budget without telling them first, then find these women say they'd go back home to see what they could sell to afford the dress they said yes to. And as much as I enjoy watching most of the episodes, I am tired of seeing the exact same dresses in every episode by Dando London. It makes me wonder if the guests don't realize that many brides have gone for the same cookie cutter dresses they're trying on urgh.

  • @babydolphin2423
    @babydolphin2423 3 роки тому +26

    Lady: my budgets 2000, Id like to stay within that range
    The shop people: so this first gown is 2900
    Me:😒😂

  • @dr.braxygilkeycruises1460
    @dr.braxygilkeycruises1460 3 роки тому +22

    I have ZERO respect for the consultant. Her budget was 2,000 yet she refused to show dresses in budget.

  • @stephanyflamenco
    @stephanyflamenco 3 роки тому +6

    Mad me so mad they weren’t communicating prices to the bride before trying on the dress. Very inconsiderate and I felt like she kept putting her in dresses that were more and more out of the budget.

  • @dianethompson2458
    @dianethompson2458 3 роки тому +30

    The steam punk dress looked beautiful on this lovely bride. I am sorry the consultant went so far over budget. This was an unkind thing to do. Young people deserve a wedding that will not force them into debt. Still I hope they have a good day and a happy life together ❤

  • @reggie2685
    @reggie2685 Рік тому +1

    Glad to see we're all in agreement on steampunk dress. I wasn't so much offput by the fact the consultant showed her a dress out of budget but more a combination of: she waited until everyone saw the dress and loved it to even bother mentioning the price AND she had no shame or timidness at stating the price. Just did so with an obnoxious grin that felt a little too smug. And the wording "only dress in the world" almost feels like it's implying there aren't even alternate sizes to be made. Sorry folks, that showroom gown is the only one they've made. Unlikely considering she sold it and the one tried on couldn't even do up in the back. ALSO, they always mention the price of the dress itself, but it's not specified whether alterations are included or an additional cost (I assume additional cost). So not only was the dress INSANELY over budget, she could be looking at an additional alterations cost of 200-600 pounds!

  • @sapphireto3944
    @sapphireto3944 3 роки тому +63

    As usual with UK version, not giving a damn about the bridge’s budget

  • @Dadzgrl5529
    @Dadzgrl5529 2 роки тому +1

    And that is why when I went shopping for wedding dresses, I looked at the prices of each one that they brought in. I refused to try it on if it was over budget!

  • @Veralidainai
    @Veralidainai 3 роки тому +57

    Consultants should stop putting brides in dresses that cost more than their budget. It's disrespectful to the bride and it feels manipulative.

    • @rudyhann1549
      @rudyhann1549 3 роки тому

      maybe they are having sales target 😅

  • @moviemommy9039
    @moviemommy9039 2 роки тому

    What a beautiful consultant. She is so good in her job.

  • @lauraduncan8666
    @lauraduncan8666 3 роки тому +47

    How can it be a one-of-a-kind when she is going to have to order one in her size. There is no way that dress could have been altered to fit her.

    • @dietotaku
      @dietotaku 3 роки тому +1

      right like are they gonna take it off the rack once they sell it to her? of course not.

    • @funkyfiss
      @funkyfiss 3 роки тому +1

      It was way too small for her. She would need a whole new corset.

    • @raffaellavitiello1762
      @raffaellavitiello1762 3 роки тому

      It look so horrible on her dont understand that woman and yes impossible to be unique so silly to believe the lie, just common sense it was an impossibility! Hahah

  • @flowerpower3618
    @flowerpower3618 Рік тому

    The second bride would look perfect in anything. So nice and slim.

  • @shaimael-elaimy590
    @shaimael-elaimy590 3 роки тому +26

    I don't understand why the consultant did that. Why show a bride a dress above her budget?! That's so wrong and so cruel.

  • @samanthajoslyn7051
    @samanthajoslyn7051 3 роки тому

    So happy everyone is on the same page for not even warning her about the price before she saw it

  • @kayabritton1470
    @kayabritton1470 3 роки тому +168

    I swear I'm addicted to this show

  • @abgtingz
    @abgtingz 2 роки тому +2

    What’s the point asking for a budget when you’re not gonna put her in a dress within that?

  • @evie1498
    @evie1498 3 роки тому +59

    If someone put me in a dress they knew was thousands over budget I would leave there and then. I think it’s so rude that this store in particular do this so often.

  • @kennashan
    @kennashan 2 роки тому +2

    Just my opinion, granted I work retail, I know how they want you to do things, but if the consultant lead with "I've got a dress that sounds like it fits your description, but the price is X. Do you want to see it, or shall we just move on?" Let your customer know, hey I may have something, BUT. I get upselling, I get making the deal regardless, but I also make sure I keep my customer informed of what kind of $$ we are talking about before we head to the register.

  • @Opinionakadatruth
    @Opinionakadatruth 3 роки тому +17

    Why do they even ask what the bride’s budget is if it’s irrelevant to them

  • @jeanamedina5107
    @jeanamedina5107 3 роки тому +1

    Normally I wouldn’t go over my budget but the steampunk being an original, I’d make the exception too

  • @dasweetspot_her_me
    @dasweetspot_her_me 3 роки тому +27

    I think it's totally unprofessional to put a bride in a dress that's so much over her budget. Yet they do it all the time, I'm so disappointed and unsatisfied with this episode.🙄🙄😒🤦🏿‍♀️

  • @SamB92
    @SamB92 Рік тому +1

    This dress is absolutely stunning, she looks GORGEOUS in it, and honestly something I would pick for myself as well. But if I ever walked into a bridal shop with a 2000 budget and they didn't have the decency to respect that? I'd walk out. Absolutely absurd and completely disrespectful

  • @dyI723
    @dyI723 3 роки тому +46

    she looks stunning in everything, it bothers me so much how they dont tell the prices before letting the brides try the dresses on... whats the point of asking the brides about a budget when you end up putting them in dresses that are way over their budget?

  • @Squ33zemly
    @Squ33zemly 3 роки тому +1

    I love the fact that the consultant is holding her feet like Audrey Hepburn❤️❤️❤️

  • @catherinetiernan5888
    @catherinetiernan5888 3 роки тому +73

    The first dress is nearly 1000 over her budget. Why would they bring it to her.

    • @interestedobserver-gk3ih
      @interestedobserver-gk3ih 3 роки тому +3

      They sort of clued her in at the beginning that steampunk style dresses were very pricy. It is a very attractive look but this bride does not rock it. This style looks best on tall narrow waisted and narrow hipped women since the cut and material are designed to enhance what nature skimped on. She can forget about riding her bike to the wedding because of the fulness of the skirt and the off shoulder sleeves. Over all though the dress looked very good on her.

  • @samanthamatuszak1201
    @samanthamatuszak1201 3 роки тому +2

    If she was my friend or sister, I would so help her afford the steam punk dress. She absolutely deserves it!

  • @rbdb8953
    @rbdb8953 3 роки тому +18

    I hate when they bring out a dress that is over budget, have the bride fall in love with it, and get her to overextend herself. I think that's unkind

  • @silencerza9108
    @silencerza9108 3 роки тому +4

    Uhm..... you should never give a client a dress OUT their budget, especially if you don't tell them before they try it on!!!!! I'm stunned

  • @michellestella7477
    @michellestella7477 3 роки тому +19

    Tell them it's not within budget before letting the bride put it on!!
    This is so manipulative.

  • @Nunyabzinss
    @Nunyabzinss 3 роки тому +3

    They know full well that once a bride to be finds (The One) she will get it !
    The markup on these dresses is insane too as they are made in China mostly and purchased for a fraction of the sales price

  • @tashaneville3326
    @tashaneville3326 3 роки тому +31

    1,500$ over budget! That’s just wrong 😑

    • @Dorvita
      @Dorvita 3 роки тому +1

      its actually £1,500 which in dollars relates to around $2100 just mad isnt it x

    • @tashaneville3326
      @tashaneville3326 3 роки тому +2

      @@Dorvita omg I didn’t even think about that, that’s crazy.

  • @Lizard4678
    @Lizard4678 3 роки тому +1

    I don’t understand why people with such particular styles don’t actually care enough to save up for that style. It’s like they’re shocked that something special and unique is expensive

    • @Lizard4678
      @Lizard4678 3 роки тому +1

      People’s time and effort is valuable and people need to start understanding that. You’re not going to get a craft worthy anything if you do not pay the price.