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  • Опубліковано 10 лют 2016
  • STORYTIME! Public speaking, overthinking, overall experience and encouragement as an introvert!
    *Stop Overthinking!!!**
    *Set the Goal but Don't Stop!!*
    *You're Good Enough!!*
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    *Introversion is not an Excuse!!*
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  • @theyellowumbrella
    @theyellowumbrella 8 років тому +16

    Heyyyyyy! I'm sooo glad that you are back! Please, do you cause, trust your energy is more than enough! You the most relatable and "real" youtuber on the yt!

    • @borderhammer
      @borderhammer  8 років тому

      +red cup diva Thank you, Beautiful!! (smiling)

  • @juleenforbes
    @juleenforbes 8 років тому +8

    Luv the Fro and earrings. So happy to see you back. I'm so happy that we're starting to get out there, brands, sponsorships, success. I luv to see people grow. It'll come soon enough.

    • @juleenforbes
      @juleenforbes 8 років тому +1

      I do put pressure on myself and set ridiculous standards. After watching this. I'm going to just go with the flow and enjoy what I luv to do. 😊

    • @borderhammer
      @borderhammer  8 років тому

      +Juleen Forbes Yep! Just enjoy the ride! xo

  • @Boyhead1973
    @Boyhead1973 8 років тому +11

    Already liked it! Already liked it!!

  • @rere2410
    @rere2410 8 років тому +4

    Thank you. Exactly what I needed to hear. I lost my job 9 months ago and have been in this house acting like Martha Stewart. Enough...

    • @borderhammer
      @borderhammer  8 років тому +1

      +rere2410 LOL I know, after a while it's like, "There is nothing left to clean!!" Then you start buying baskets trying to "organize" stuff that was just fine where it was. lol I did actually discover things that I liked about it but yeah, let's turn the camera back on.

  • @SpicyChannelShoutOuts
    @SpicyChannelShoutOuts 8 років тому +3

    Congrats for doing something you wouldn't normally do. I always say if you're to comfortable in life then you should challenge yourself more. I changed my career form corporate America behind a desk and suffering from social anxiety and decided to take my business skills and start a career in Real Estate. Nine years later doing it full time from the start I no longer have social anxiety and more open to new people and won a Trulia.com award for one of the best Realtors and other office awards. It was important for me to stop hiding in my comfortable office, being non social, or having anxiety at functions and meetings and improve myself and my life. Now I'm opening up more on platforms like this sharing my experiences and eventually I will build a channel once I know what that is, but it has to be something I'm passionate about. Glad you shared your story as well it will touch someone and help them make steps to get out that box. Blessings.

  • @KRWatkins
    @KRWatkins 8 років тому +3

    pregnany?!! Girl no!!! I for one did not think that. If anything I thought you & hubby were just taking time out for one another. Nothing like good old family time! Glad you're back. Continuous Blessings my Sistah! :)

    • @borderhammer
      @borderhammer  8 років тому

      +KeedysWorld lol right?!! Will do Keedy!

  • @qtbeddecor
    @qtbeddecor 8 років тому +2

    There will be only one BorderHammer!!!!!!!! Don't ever doubt what you have to offer the world. I remember the video, and yes, it is inspiring!!!! LOVE your POSITIVE ENERGY :)

  • @brandijacksonwellness
    @brandijacksonwellness 8 років тому +5

    That is so cool. Your story is so real. Thank you for sharing and being so inspiring.

    • @borderhammer
      @borderhammer  8 років тому

      +Brandi Jackson Thank you so much for listening!

  • @TheObiribea
    @TheObiribea 8 років тому +3

    I just love listening to you speak.

  • @MamaWithAFro
    @MamaWithAFro 8 років тому +2

    Love your hair! So proud of you! I feel like public speaking would come so naturally to you; I love you're personality. You're so warm and encouraging - like family. Girl - let yo' light shine!!!! You have the gift. You have the talent. And we all already love you :)

    • @MamaWithAFro
      @MamaWithAFro 8 років тому

      +HeyEverybodyItsShay Oh! I posted too quick! And the comment at the end "it's good enough". Man!!! Good enough has been my saving grace lately... Sometimes we can't be perfect - sometimes we just have to be good enough!

    • @borderhammer
      @borderhammer  8 років тому

      +HeyEverybodyItsShay Thank you Shay! Yes, I still work on it on the daily but at least I know what I SHOULD do! lol

  • @Chillalot
    @Chillalot 8 років тому

    should've known you were a virgo ( the slayage!! the drive)...so drawn to your energy as are many other folk...man you guys are such perfectionist. .while the world is thinking you're amazing

  • @supertoshaful
    @supertoshaful 8 років тому

    Hell, you had me resting on my laurels. Not feeling satiated, just kinda existing. I'll be 48 in a few weeks and I feel old. My profile pic is a year old and I swear I've aged twice that in the span. You're right, sometimes we have to chill and catch our breath. I wish you all the success imaginable. You're my favorite. And we need you, girl.

  • @NancyGooGoo
    @NancyGooGoo 8 років тому

    You're bloomin' and blossomin' right before our very eyes! Girl, I don't have children (just a cat), but I swear, this video made me feel like a mother watchin' her child fly out the nest, spread them wings and FLY! Keep reaching for those stars, Girl. You are DOING IT!

    • @borderhammer
      @borderhammer  8 років тому

      +NancyGooGoo Goo Goo! LOL aww I'll gladly take that! Will do and Thank you!!

  • @drksista81
    @drksista81 8 років тому +2

    So glad you are back, I look for to your videos.

  • @TheEagleslover
    @TheEagleslover 8 років тому +1

    Welcome back beautiful. I totally understand where you are coming from when you say stop overthinking things. Girl, I suffer from it too. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and experience.

  • @PONDU111
    @PONDU111 8 років тому +3

    you are so beautiful, love the natural hair and welcome back!

    • @borderhammer
      @borderhammer  8 років тому

      +Pondu11 Thank you, thank you, and thank you!

  • @emm7958
    @emm7958 8 років тому

    Welcome back Rachelle!!! Glad to hear that you're ok and that you'll keep doing what you've been doing, coz you inspire so many out here, myself included! I'm a little suprised to learn you're introverted and don't enjoy public speaking to a non-virtual audience! Coz you seem so natural in your videos and speak with so much confidence and are thoughtful and FUNNY!! I love watching you, and I'm so glad you're back. You are good enough to so many, better than good enough!

  • @RebelCoachSteph
    @RebelCoachSteph 8 років тому

    Well I'm glad you are BACK girl!!! I been missing the real-ness that is your channel😊 I just wanna throw out some encouragement your way... The reason the panel chose you is because you are different!!! You aren't doing things like those other youtubers (that's a good thing😉)... You keep being YOU and shine like the star you are!!! And thank you for being open and sharing the thoughts that you went through (we all have them whether we want to admit it or not😏)... Welcome back!!💁🏾

  • @naturallydee14
    @naturallydee14 8 років тому +2

    We have certainly missed you and watch you ONLY because you are who you are and not like anyone else! Until next time...😃

    • @borderhammer
      @borderhammer  8 років тому

      +naturallydee14 Thank you Dee!! I've missed you guys equally!! xo

  • @alexiss4225
    @alexiss4225 8 років тому

    Congrats on your speaking engagement - it was meant to be and it was meant to be YOU that was chosen for this. Do you boo! nobody can do better than yourself!!!!

  • @lilmiss20744
    @lilmiss20744 8 років тому

    I swear i just love you soo much. You are by far my favoriteee UA-camR. I'm so glad you're back !

  • @coilyShayPark08
    @coilyShayPark08 8 років тому +1

    I love watching your videos. you really are great when you talk about your experiences in and outside the work force. glad your back

  • @marcimason_
    @marcimason_ 8 років тому

    So happy to see you're back! I love your energy and spirit. I'm new to youtube and you have been such an inspiration. Keep going!!!

  • @donnisha5180
    @donnisha5180 8 років тому +2

    Thank you for coming back love you and your videos! You're an inspiration to many love ya geerrrl!

    • @borderhammer
      @borderhammer  8 років тому

      +Donnisha R (The Donnisha Show) Thank you Donnisha!

  • @thelastdondiva1
    @thelastdondiva1 8 років тому

    I love you and your spirit. Don't change. You are one of the first bloggers I watched and subscribed when I first started exploring. Keep on keeping on.

  • @bridgitis
    @bridgitis 8 років тому

    I love the rocket in the box analogy. Thank you!! Continue to stay true to yourself, it is appreciated!

  • @gabriellanna91
    @gabriellanna91 8 років тому

    Glad to see you back! You have a beautiful smile and warm personality, and I've definitely missed your videos. Also, congrats on your speaking experience!

  • @mcfaddenclantv3914
    @mcfaddenclantv3914 8 років тому

    Glad your back!! I love all your videos they're very helpful.

  • @ymb6987
    @ymb6987 8 років тому

    Sooo ecstatic to see you and this video! Daring yourself is the best form of caring for yourself and honoring our dreams. You really are an inspiration👏

  • @MsMocaHauntas
    @MsMocaHauntas 8 років тому

    Congrats on conquering your public speaking!!!! You're such an inspiration!!!! Thanks for sharing :)

  • @tiffanywelling
    @tiffanywelling 8 років тому

    love your personality!
    I could watch your videos all day!

  • @leeiilee7614
    @leeiilee7614 8 років тому

    Good to see u again. I love this video and your energy. While you were away I been referring back to you trying to kill that bug for laughs. That makes my day girl.

  • @DjHappyscrappin
    @DjHappyscrappin 8 років тому

    Your energy and outlook on life is refreshing. I am so happy for your success. You have many people who believe in you. Just ride on the confidence we have in you.😊

  • @lazycurl3593
    @lazycurl3593 8 років тому

    Girl, you are such a friend in my head! I LOVE and ADORE YOU!!!!! JUST AS YOU ARE!!!!

  • @NaturallyFierceOne
    @NaturallyFierceOne 8 років тому

    Well I just have to let you know how much I truly appreciate this video. How ironic is it that when I first started watching your channel I decided I wouldn't make anymore videos unless mine looked like yours! Your lightly, editing, ect. And I did stop.... For a LONG time. And none of that happened! Lol... But now I'm back and enjoying it.... Me and my 3 viewers! Lmao... Love you!

  • @SweetGaBrownin
    @SweetGaBrownin 8 років тому

    Thank you Queen for this insight! Much Love

  • @ariesgirl.
    @ariesgirl. 8 років тому

    Missed you SO much and always wondered where you were. I'm glad you're in good health. Please do not stay away so long. Some of us depend on your motivation and real truths! =)

  • @stephaniefuller4333
    @stephaniefuller4333 8 років тому

    I'm glad you're back. I've missed watching your videos.

  • @msyin9
    @msyin9 8 років тому

    Girl! You have been sorely missed. So glad to see you again in this space where there is room for all and your unique story is appreciated. Just be true to you! Hope to see you back on a regular basis.

    • @borderhammer
      @borderhammer  8 років тому

      +msyin9 Thank you so much! Yes that is exactly what this feels like! You will, I promise! xo

  • @NeeCJae
    @NeeCJae 8 років тому

    Great video girl!! so glad to see you back!!

  • @lashonne3
    @lashonne3 8 років тому

    I missed your videos SOOO much! You're so entertaining.

  • @changingdirections
    @changingdirections 8 років тому

    Great video! So glad that you are back!

  • @dominiquewashington2883
    @dominiquewashington2883 8 років тому

    YOUR BACK!!! so happy to see that your are so inspirational i am myself a introvert ( Virgo to the ''T'') and over think every last thing its a pain in the butt... but keep doing ya thing Im gonna be tuned in every Thursday...

  • @babieredd
    @babieredd 8 років тому

    So happy you're back!!!!!! You look beautiful....love the earrings!

  • @msyolandarenee4900
    @msyolandarenee4900 8 років тому

    I'm so glad to hear from you. Its good that you did public speaker, that's one of my fears to speak in front of a bunch of people. But u did it, so proud of you. Stay real and keep doing you!!!

  • @charchar_welcome
    @charchar_welcome 8 років тому

    So glad you're back! 👏🏽

  • @nicadrmar
    @nicadrmar 8 років тому

    so glad you're back!

  • @allannagreen3034
    @allannagreen3034 8 років тому

    So thankful for this video. I am happy to see you and glad you "DID IT SCARED". I too struggle with public speaking but I find if you know your subject it really helps. With your sense of humor and engaging personality, you will do very well speaking publicly. Be blessed and keep pounding!

  • @aprilbaree1
    @aprilbaree1 8 років тому +1

    Please do keep going! I really love your videos, they make me laugh hard! So honest.💕

  • @ediemillet7924
    @ediemillet7924 8 років тому

    I am so happy for you! This is my first time watching your video. Just liked and subscribed. I needed to see this. What a testimony and confirmation! Your energy and honesty and fearlessness are inspiring! Thank you!

  • @jahlisanorton3769
    @jahlisanorton3769 8 років тому

    Thanks for the inspirational video! I can totally relate to all that you said! You sharing this lets me know I'm not the only one battling this issue of fear and overthinking. I'm so happy to hear that you faced one of your fears even if you didn't want to! You kept receiving the email so God (The Universe) said, "This is it, girl! Go head on and do it now!" I personally am saying that I missed your presence here on UA-cam. Happy to see you're back! Please keep making your videos, because even if you touched one person, that's enough! You are my big sister in my head!

  • @DonnaB63
    @DonnaB63 8 років тому +1

    Welcome back, was waiting for a new vid. Didn't even matter what it was about! Keep doing you...

  • @deelee7431
    @deelee7431 8 років тому

    soooooo, glad you are back. I love your genuine, true to yourself and fan base videos. Yesss, it ain't broke. Some of the other tubers hop on every new trend just for views. Please be true to you and God will increase wherever there is lack. Anywho, again super glad to see that smile.

  • @eportet9491
    @eportet9491 8 років тому

    Thanks girl for posting. I thought we had lost you. Keep pressing and inspiring people like me☺😘🙌🙏

  • @Martina_E
    @Martina_E 8 років тому

    Glad you're back! I'm a Virgo too.

  • @catthebeautyhunter
    @catthebeautyhunter 8 років тому

    You bring so much needed happiness into my life! Every time I watch you I smile more and walk away thinking more positively. Thank you for being you! We all need you. :)
    ~Meredith

  • @ebonywahine
    @ebonywahine 8 років тому

    thank you for the apt image of the rocket ship confined by a cardboard box! Needed that today. Loved your honesty about how hard it is to hear the voice of the Cosmos when it is calling our name...smdh yep me too!

  • @blessings28
    @blessings28 8 років тому

    Love your transparency!

  • @LoveyouNesha
    @LoveyouNesha 8 років тому

    Good to see u back .. Congrats

  • @ThatChicMaya
    @ThatChicMaya 8 років тому

    So Inspirational!!! I missed you!

  • @tieashasamuels2627
    @tieashasamuels2627 8 років тому +1

    I've surely missed you! Everything you said is so relatable. Proud of you!

  • @cbussie
    @cbussie 8 років тому

    Missed ya, welcome back!

  • @butterflyat40
    @butterflyat40 8 років тому +2

    Miss you. Thank you. I needed this.

    • @borderhammer
      @borderhammer  8 років тому

      +vanessa carver Anytime and you're welcome! xo

  • @LA-tg7lt
    @LA-tg7lt 8 років тому

    I needed that "stop over thinking" 👌🏾🙌🏾

  • @covaniaw7784
    @covaniaw7784 8 років тому

    That was your blessing and you kept trying to block it not even knowing. But i'm happy for you!! Keep chasing those dreams

  • @ClaudieJ
    @ClaudieJ 8 років тому +1

    I'm so happy you're back!

  • @RockCandyBoudoir
    @RockCandyBoudoir 8 років тому

    I haven't even watched the video yet. I'm just so glad you are back

  • @g.edouardrn6579
    @g.edouardrn6579 8 років тому

    So glad you are back...

  • @Crawfordsfive
    @Crawfordsfive 8 років тому +1

    Yesssss!!! Girl where HAVE u been??!?!? I've missed you!

    • @Crawfordsfive
      @Crawfordsfive 8 років тому +1

      Ok, so happy to see you doing you. This vid was refreshing. Your energy always makes my day, and I'm not surprised one bit that Google requested your presence too, lol! ☺️

  • @MzCarolyn64
    @MzCarolyn64 8 років тому

    Glad your back, I'm the same way, afraid to publicly speak. Glad you conquered your fear.

  • @nikisoul2352
    @nikisoul2352 8 років тому

    Love your spirit! You make me smile :)

  • @SaybersCooking
    @SaybersCooking 8 років тому

    I love this video! so inspiring. i hope you continue to do more videos. you encourage me to get out of my comfort zone

    • @borderhammer
      @borderhammer  8 років тому

      +Sayber's Cooking Thank you, yes GET OUT OF THERE!! It's like if you're not living the life you want for yourself, who's life are living then...and do they know? lol ;)

  • @agnettamwangi3145
    @agnettamwangi3145 8 років тому

    I - and I guess I can say WE missed you! Continue to do YOU!

  • @MizzDreLuv
    @MizzDreLuv 8 років тому

    Congratulations! I missed you!

  • @Subtlesiren
    @Subtlesiren 8 років тому

    Love this video and you!

  • @The_Advice_Corner
    @The_Advice_Corner 8 років тому

    Missed you and glad you are back. We dont you to do what they do, we want you to do what you do because only you can fo you. i know its corny but it's true.
    Any way welcome back, looking forward to your awesome vids.
    much love, Foophi

  • @melwill16
    @melwill16 8 років тому

    Glad to have you back, no explanation needed you had to go see.

  • @SouAFulana
    @SouAFulana 8 років тому

    OK then! Look at you breaking out of boxes and stuff! This is awesome and I'm so glad you're back. :)

  • @JustNeshTV
    @JustNeshTV 8 років тому

    I love the videos! Be blessed.

  • @ChadelMathurin
    @ChadelMathurin 8 років тому +1

    story of my life... just what I needed to hear.. I've been stuck recently..

  • @mpenny226
    @mpenny226 8 років тому +1

    Heyy!!!! Good to see you and thank you thank you thank you for sharing such an inspiration.

    • @borderhammer
      @borderhammer  8 років тому

      +mpenny226 Hey there and you are welcome!! xo

  • @ashleya6997
    @ashleya6997 8 років тому

    Can't wait to blast out my cardboard square box. I definitely love the video. please keep learning and trying things. love to hear ppl stepping out on faith!

  • @eneodu3755
    @eneodu3755 8 років тому

    you are back! I'm soo glad you're back that I started blessing Jesus and I haven't even watched the video! Thank you!

  • @BlueprintDIY
    @BlueprintDIY 8 років тому

    Well, I'm sooo glad you're back and very much looking forward to more grown woman fashion! (Pleasssse!!!)

  • @HarajukuPrincesa
    @HarajukuPrincesa 8 років тому

    Soooo happy you're back! 😍

  • @londak9352
    @londak9352 8 років тому

    so glad your back, missed your videos can you do a review on the oven you spoke of ? Can't wait to see what's next. love your energy & personality keep em coming. 👍💖

  • @NellzBK_
    @NellzBK_ 8 років тому

    Just keep it going Rachelle. You're amazing! EVOLVE AND DON'T FIGHT IT GIRL 😂

  • @1960genius
    @1960genius 8 років тому

    I LOVED THIS VIDEO! Thank you for sharing

  • @dsenglish
    @dsenglish 8 років тому

    I have missed these videos!!! I might be a lurker and never comment,but I watch every video I can get my hands on!!

  • @mybeloved4ever186
    @mybeloved4ever186 8 років тому

    Welcome back! What's life without some adventures.

  • @sharebare28
    @sharebare28 8 років тому

    I missed you. Good to see you Still looking good.

  • @denitamoss5614
    @denitamoss5614 8 років тому

    I'm so glad to see you back! Keep growing out of that box! So, now we all know to email you 10 times to get you to say YES! ;-)

  • @maureensmith3897
    @maureensmith3897 8 років тому

    Great message. We all have vulnerabilities we have to overcome to grow.

  • @braidswigqueen
    @braidswigqueen 8 років тому +4

    proud of you dear..😘

    • @borderhammer
      @borderhammer  8 років тому

      +Braids Wig Queen (DIY Braided Wigs) awww why thank you! xo

  • @bridgetteknox8319
    @bridgetteknox8319 8 років тому

    so happy to see you.

  • @shae1005
    @shae1005 8 років тому

    You're awesome!!!

  • @biancagoodman6991
    @biancagoodman6991 8 років тому

    your videos are so great and you're funny as hell! gon n get out that box!

  • @TammieHenry
    @TammieHenry 8 років тому

    Glad you're back and everything is okay.

  • @SimplyNaturabelle
    @SimplyNaturabelle 8 років тому

    I'm glad you at least gave it a try.... :) You look beautiful, Thanks for sharing and encouraging.

  • @dawnashley8691
    @dawnashley8691 8 років тому

    I just love to watch you and your bubbling personality keep doing what you're doing your awesome God bless you