"I'm scared to break up with my girlfriend, even though I know she is holding me back"
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Yes hamza please work on a full dating guide, because that’s what most of your content has been for the past videos. You would get a lot of views on your main channel.
i have actually found these videos more helpfull! i like full guides tho
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@@ynnck247 We are the algorithm
Why is literally every question/problem from these guys about girls? And they’re all teenagers. If you’re in your mid 20s and you built yourself up and can’t attract women, fine, that can be a problem. But as a teenager you have no money, no car, no life experience, you live with your parents.. Why would you be so obsessed about girls, I don’t get it. There are so many more important things at that age.
i agree about that, but the thing is that it is important for teens to know how to deal with girls, since the hormones are going crazy
Teenagers be horny as hell. I was too in high school but since no girl liked me because I was short and skinny and had shit social skills,
I developed a porn addiction which was obviously not a good thing at all. It's definitely better for guys to get girlfriends in high school to let out their sexual urges rather than turn to unhealthy things like porn but I didn't have that option.
Because one of the things that are important in growth of a man is his expirience with women. A lot of guys are struggling with their relationships just like me with my recent heartbreak.
It's important to learn how to deal and interact with girls at a young age. Rather do it young than have to figure it out later
“A man’s beauty is his power, a woman’s power is her beauty” and a man squires this with age and experience, not watching some random guy who gets support like a farmer and his sheep
This man is fathering a generation of fatherless young men. God is proud of you. This is your purpose.
These guys' expectations are sky-high.
There's no way you're gonna find someone who's perfect in every way.
I think the main issue with these relationships is the level of ego some of these dudes have.
A good question to ask is "is she helping you or hurting you?"
That's an awesome question which has helped me out in my current situation, thank you bro!
No. Don’t settle until you know she’s right. Delay gratification (bad women) so that you can have good gratification in the future (good women). Remember, you’re gonna spend your whole life with them, so make sure that they’re your most ideal partner.
Added, because of pornography & highly edited photos of girls appearing more attractive online / social media than real life...
it makes men delusional and increases infidelity. If you have a good girl that fits you 95%,
some men leave in search of someone to satisfy their desire, only to realize it was a terrible decision and they want a different girl.
From the superior man, It is normal for a man to want other women from time to time.
most of these dudes have been in relationships for like 6 months.
But yeah, obviously if she's bad you should leave.
I don't think it's as simple as just not accepting anyone unless they meditate and workout though. That doesn't really get to the core underlying character of who she is, which I think is more important to look at.@@PickleFox
@@joe_zupko6 months is not enough? Cap 😂
A lot of guys are complaining about this type of content, but rather than complain that its these types of posts, maybe accept that this is apparently what most guys in Adonis School need help/advice with. Clearly, if these are the only videos hes making, then there must be a reason for it. You could argue it is money, but then he'd make videos that all of you are (not) suggesting. Try thinking of it from his point of view, rather than necessarily and solely what you experience
Hamza you made mistake by Making people know that from now on ur focused on money instead of Them.
U dont make money by focusing on Money, you focus on how u can help people to make money.
Eventually ur channel is gonna go even more downtrend
You onto something here…
Are you telling Hamza to lie to make more money? Is that how you would make money? by being a liar?
It’s not like we didn’t know, that’s the grand scheme behind UA-cam, we just didn’t realise.
I don’t really ever comment, nor read them. However, these videos are genuinely so powerful and filled with knowledge. I really appreciate the videos and how genuine they are.
Much thanks Hamza❤
Don’t save her, she don’t want to be saved
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more girls content… is this what we can expect from now on?
What type of content do you think he should make more of?
Women are the source of most men’s problems
I somewhat agree cause there's more to life than just girls, but it's what people are asking questions about, so that is the content he produces.
@@FaithfullyExvythey're a good motivation, But they're not EVERYTHING. i need more variety in this comtent
@@self-improver anything other than this. business, self-mastery, gym, diet, anything else, this content does nothing for people who are married or in relationships.
So what if that isn't your girlfriend's lifestyle so long as she's not doing the bad habits? Not everyone is going to want to do the same things you like doing and you for sure won't find someone that likes all the exact same things you like.
There's a pretty big difference between wanting someone who has similar beliefs and interests as you and someone who does all the exact same things as you do.
You have to see which of those interests are non negotiable for a partner to have and which ones are not as important as you'd think, because like I said, everyone is going to have different little things they like doing with their time.
Say you workout and you have that as your non negotiable habit your partner needs to have cause you don't want them to let themselves go, that is fine, just don't expect them to do every other thing you also do, like journaling, praying, meditating, etc, if they like those things good, or if they want to get into them great, but don't go out expecting to find someone with all of those things in common is what I'm saying, it's unrealistic.
You don't feel comfortable with your girlfriend, that's fine, the decision is yours, just know you'll never find someone who is a copy of all your habits and beliefs, there's stuff we got to separate from being non negotiable to not as important. And also know that these days it's HARD to find a girl who is actually marriage or serious relationship material, so think long and hard before doing something you can't take back, don't jump the gun, take time to meditate on a decision as important as this one. I have a friend who was in a similar spot of thinking of breaking things off with his gf, he took the time to actually look around and think about it, today he is very happy with her and loves her even more, so what I'm saying is, don't be too quick to decide something like that, you could regret it so much down the line...
8th video back to back on girls. you're becoming like those cringe red pill podcasts now man.
Hamza, Start making some vids on other topics too.
Every other video in this channel is getting about girls/breakup.
I dont mind your videos recently focusing on girls and relationship advice but i really think you should diversify your content. It's way better when you share knowledge spreading across all areas of life rather than focusing on one topic.
This channel is supposed to be self-improvement, not just relationships after all.
He covers a bunch of stuff in these videos wdym?
@@vgirreland9138 It all revolves around girls though. I want to see more videos dedicated to other stuff
@@A146A There’s plenty of things covering other topics, these videos are really high quality and insightful so if you don’t have any interest learn from different places making social and loving connections is improvement to your life.
@@vgirreland9138 Fair enough, I recently started watching more firstman cause I think his content focuses more on actually improving yourself and is way more mature honestly, you can clearly see that Hamzas target audience has been mainly young teens
23:52 - 24:41 reset my brain
Hamza, let's ask less questions about girls, more about self-development, earnings, I think most men are initially focused on this
You fell off bro. You don't really provide value anymore.
Yea. He’s just manufacturing videos for money. And it’s not like we should be following advice from some immature youngster
@@artisdead if anything, he should do some UA-cam milestone special video, where he gives a final advice, being that we are fucking brainless for watching him. Lol
Go to his other channel it’s still valuable
I know you will not be reading this, but still thank you so so much for this video. It helped me tremendously in my situation right now and made verything much easier
2:55 Baby dont hurt me
The new content is becoming kind of shallow
Your critique is shallow. If you feel that the content is bad, then explain why.
@@YorktownClassprobably because it’s just dating advice, which is good but he should atleast read other delimas that aren’t about dating like a bigger problem going on right now like male suicide and this self improvement rut, finding self love, “Yeah getting a girl is nice but I don’t even like my self”- some random AG member post.
I agree.
All is vanity, self improvement included
the new type of content is valuable, the topics are getting repetitive though. Hope hamza variates the content more.
Hamza, does this advice apply to guys in their 30s?
I've followed your advice for the last 1+ year and have lost over 10 stone and look and feel like a mean machine. I was a Jeffrey for 35 years. But I still haven't been able to attract a beautiful woman. Is it just too early on the path? What am I doing wrong?
I just feel like I'm too old for your audience and don't know if this is relevant to me. Or am I ten years too late. Help?
It's never to late to start self improvement keep it up bro you'll see the your progress turn into rewards sooner than you think
You should probably avoid watching self improvement videos. It’s like how they say that doctors want you to be sick, hamza wants you to be lost, and he is keeping you that way so you are always giving him views.
34 years here.. it works. just that i started 4 years ago with all this (with other "mentor").. and im juuust now seeing results. but let me tell you something.. the results are amazing. i feel i overworked majority of other men (physicially, financially, etc).. and im suddenly attracting beautiful women. they are approaching me first. and i was a jeffrey too. i would say its not too late, but its too soon to see results. use the frustration as fuel to work harder, and get results even sooner. its worth it. and the time is going to pass anyway. i dont regret even one pushup, not even one missed party.. now i could finally turn the tables with life. and its awesome.
good luck bro
You pressed stop recording too early, we didn't get to hear the mwah.
Nope, I heard it clearly
She don’t want to be saved don’t save her
Alright man I’m sick and tired of the girls content.
Focus on the video
Whatis love? Baby dont hurt me
Tren hard and clen your room
Don't hurt me
No more
these videos are so good, a few days ago when I got over my ex from 2 years ago, I started to think about her again and how she was perfect for me, but this video made me regain the right direction and remind me that she actually wasn’t that compatible with me back then, thanks hamza❤
I hope you cover other self improvement topics on this channel as a long form content as I see your last like 8 vids are on dating and usually the advice after the first 15 mins are repeating in every video...pls cover other topics like the ones before the best hamza era....muah💋
As a happy, goal driven, in a great relationship guy who’s 24 and been through some of my young adult life already, studied maths, travelled the world (modestly) from my own work, plays sports, social etc- what on earth is going on here😭 I’m leaving this comment as i think for guys trying to figure out their life who are younger..masculine men aren’t as obsessed with themselves and can think further ahead than satisfying their ego compared to the advice given by channels like this. Be young, work hard, keep healthy and don’t get weird like an older guy like Hamza gamifying/objectifying your life and relationships, and not developing your interests like a well balanced person living in the present. Internet giving young men toooo many ideas from people they don’t know
Well put
Thank you very much for this.
I know i didnt comment this on the adonis gang/school, but can u cover the topic of why only unattractive women find me attractive and attractive women find me unattractive ? Thanks hamza, appreciate these videos 🤎
Probs cause you aren't hot enough for attractive women, but you are hot enough for unattractive women, and you are probably a decent bloke with decent morals so you will draw in these less attractive girls who are looking for relationships because they don't get that much attraction from guys to warrant them to indulge in too much degeneracy.
Great topic man
Yes, im making great progress physically and have abs now on a healthy lean bulk, but still the women i want who i think are attractive dont give me the time of day. I havent tried cold approaches of women ive never met but my point is still here
Simple reasons. The “unattractive people” find you attractive because they think you are on their level. The attractive people aren’t attracted to you as they believe you are below them.
Another reason could be the way you interact with the attractive ones because you might be putting them in a pedestal whilst not being sincere with your intentions whereas with the unattractive ones you are sincere and don’t care which makes you seem more mysterious and interesting and that creates attraction for the unattractive person. Now mix these two reasons up and this is most likely the reason why unattractive people find you attractive and attractive don’t. Either way you are going to have to experiment and see if anything changes if you change your approach such as your facial expression. Tone of voice and desire for the other person.
What the guy above said. Also consider the fact that the less attractive girls are gonna be more into relationships because they get less attraction and attention from guys, hence they get more relatively from staying with one guy. And probably you are viewed as relationship material by these girls because you probably have a decent personality and morals. To them you are a 'catch' whereas to people who are more attractive, you are not at their level (or at least they think don't think you are at their level, women in general have inflated egos).
Just watching this now. I was struggling to explain to this beautiful girl (literally the most beautiful girl I have ever seen) that I didn’t think that we were compatible and this video really helped to gain the courage to tell her I didn’t think we could make our relationship work. Thanks hamza
hi i love you hamza
Fun thing how I had the exact same problem with my ex two years ago
Keep self improving while she’s gonna leave u for chad
always the same, change topics maybe
Hi Hamza im 4 years old and u changed my life, now i stop degeneracy and i will retire before 7 years old with my business
😂😂😂
12:40 Most accurate and important point
First brah
Good
great vid
if the next video is about dating i will unsubcribe. the channel used to be good but the value is waning