Tam, I adore you and each and every one of your videos ✨I love how your videos are so informative and filled with practical tips (but never overwhelming!) Watching your videos makes me feel so empowered and I am just going to make myself a cup of tea and watch with a pen and paper 💖 Thank you for being YOU - so full of passion and light xoxox
@@tamkaur omg r u 20 years old, ? i am 19 and i want to change my life, also learn english language and i see this video,i am study universty 2 cours and i am afride finish uni becaus i dont know what i am doing😬 thàkkk youuuuuuuu, you are amazing, very determinde, an you give very good energy, i wish i am being like you when i am 20 But i cant speak like this, i mean i cant speak very good fastly i ñeed think when i am speak 😬 you are amazinggggg🦭🤩🤩🤩
Tip : ALWAYS have your notebook and pen with you're while watching Tam's videos, so much information to store all that in mind. If needed keep going to back those notes you made, which might act like a Reminder for your next big step.
I LITERALLY FELT THE SAME. I was listening to this today while doing my makeup. Then I was like, no wait, I will listen to it later when i will have my journal with me. I am with my journal now.
A sort of summary : Ch 1: habits - to stay healthy- gym - to make money - - to keep me happy: UA-cam and Instagram, go out in nature - taking the first step - - take yourself seriously- realise my worth,time, resources - diet - podcast - the dairy of a CEO , how to maximize everything with food - beauty rituals - sunscreen, hair rosemary oil, skincare , gua sha, dress up, - get more sleep : 6-8 hrs everynight - self development: invest in learning new things everyday, read self help books, financial literacy Ch:2 Mindset - SWOT Analysis on myself - intentional happiness : buy myself matcha and journal - Solo Date - lucky girl syndrome - invest in therapy : deal with your trauma and heal - get uncomfortable Ch :3 People - get rid of people who’re not worth it - stop putting people on pedestal - assume that everyone likes you - be delusional - stay away from drama - fall in love with heartbreaks - stop comparing and set boundaries Ch 4: wealth - live below you means : put experience over trends - live with parents as long as possible - create passive income sources - set up a business - make 3 bank a/c : travel, investment, - make friends successful and hustling - invest in knowledge - purpose & career - goal, it should be crystal clear Ch 5 homework - do SWOT Do budgeting - set up saving a/c - download habit app - get a gym - take a journal and write down exactly what’s going on in my life - next write down my goals for next one year and five year
When you said "I'm 22" I felt hella sad lol cause I'm 22 too. My 5 years relationship just ended, I'm moving back to my hometown. I have no idea what to do at alll. But I'll do my best that by my 23 I'm living my best life and being the best version of myself. I hope I'll find this comment in 6-8 months again to monitor my progress 💖good luck to me
For anyone going through an existential crisis: if you're unsure of what to do with your life or which university/career to choose, don't worry - it's completely normal! You're not a failure, you're not behind, and you're not stupid. You don't need to have all the answers right now. This is your time to focus on yourself, prioritize your mental health, explore new hobbies, and find joy in even the smallest things. I promise that everything will become clear and fall into place eventually, and you'll experience tremendous growth in the process. Take good care of yourself and treat yourself with kindness
thanks a lot, your comment really help me a lot. I'm a final year university student and still do not know what to do with my life. I don/t know what career will be the best fit for me but I'm glad I watched this video. I will try my best this 2024 to improve and hopefully at the end of the year, I will be proud of myself.
@christianteenwifewithmary1532 That is so young. I’m 22 going on 23 so I’m more than 3 years older than you. Really wish I could slow down time. I’m trying to get a job atm it’s so hard. Wish me luck. I’m still living at home cost of living is literally barely affordable. Im not able to move out at all
@@Dana-cv4kr Nothing has changed. Submitted a dozen of applications, I even handed in resumes in person. They ended up just throwing my resume in the bin. They even discriminated my race. Said I'm asian we wanted to hire people of our country. I couldn't hold back got emotional and said 'F*** YOU' and left. I was angry and upset! I'm almost about to give up. Should I take life seriously? We're all going to die one day. The year is 2123 (we're all gone). Nothing matters at all! Should I just live in the moment? I'm still alive... 22.7 years of age. Don't know how much time I've got.
Yes! So sick of the “just relax and take it easy in your 20s narrative, it’s not that serious” that is a one way ticket to being 50 years old and disappointed in your life. Challenge yourself and build the life you want. Love everything you said.
I’m 27. Numbers can get overwhelming. I remind myself I’m not behind. Infact, I have a whole life ahead of me. When I am working on achieving a goal, I like to count - 27, 28, 29, 30. This helps me look ahead with excitement, instead of looking back and feeling remorseful. Gosh, 20s can be tough but you grow so much! I hope everyone reading this always finds the strength to look ahead and grow 🎉
As I’m approaching 30, I’m still learning how to be a better person and achieve my goals. Life threw me a curveball at the beginning of the year and led to me starting a UA-cam channel! Hope to be as influential as you are one day! ❤
I'm 22, slowly cutting out people from life and getting ready to finish uni next year and run out of the country to dream the dream life i've always wanted. love ur vids always so inspiring and motivating
I love the gym example, I was watching Iman Gadzhi who said if you invest a little more in a coffee ($10 instead of a $4 Starbucks) and go to an expensive hotel lobby, you'll surrounded by the people you're looking to become. Even if you make no connection/networks, you will see your motivation and it will push you further.
I am 30 and videos like this are still valuable for me! I advice everyone to trust their intuition and gut feeling about what they want to do in life and don’t listen to people who are saying that it’s so hard to achieve that because only following your path will make you happy. I always dreamed about being an actress but I wasn’t believing that I can actually do it and earn money from this and was trying to commit to more stable jobs but never felt it’s right for me. Now I am playing in commercials, tv series and films, making good money from it and I feel so lucky that I didn’t give up on my dreams ❤ I invest a lot in changing my mindset to achieve everything I want and I recommend it to everyone
"everyone has their problems their obstacles, their adversities but everyone can also find a way to push past them or use them in their advantage. your pain can be your power you can go out and get whatever you want but the first step to doing that is believing it" this part!!!!!
As someone who is not a native English speaker I will always be very grateful that you incorporate subtitles in your videos, thank you very much for your videos they always help me to motivate myself and want to grow as a person🥺💕
I’m 25 and already experiencing a mid life crisis 😅 but your video has been highly helpful. I’m hopeful to live the better for the remaining 20s and rest of my happy single life!
i’m just 16 but i still want to level up, feel empowered and live my dream life and thanks to your videos FULL of practical tips, i push myself into doing better everyday, thank you so much Tam 💗
Hi I am hitting 20 this yr and I was feeling overwhelmed by the number of things I should do in my 20s to improve my life, I am glad I found your video and I am so in love with your videos and your positive vibe ❤
Tam is so genuine and uplifting. Like She talks fast and tells me to do things but it doesn't feel uncomfortable. Her energy makes me comfortable. And they tips she gives are very well thought out. As someone who's also been into the self help genre since a young age. This is years worth of knowledge simplified in a way that can help a person.
I literally just bought a book about how to live in your 20s! I've actually been stressing about this for so long, I'm currently 22 and just want to live so freely/daringly. I'm so so relived seeing you upload this. Always have the best advice!!! love you sm Tam xx
Did it help ? The years coming to an end and I'm literally freaking out, like I'm sp stressed about my future and I find myself comparing myself to my peers and wondering if I'm on the right track, i feel like I can't breatheeee
@@palesamphatsoe959 ngl I stopped reading it like after a month 😭 I literally felt every word you said though omds. Tbh, I have thought A LOT and I think the best thing I can say, is literally do whatever you want (if it's possible) but mostly socialise/have fun!!! When it comes to careers, personally, I graduated in makeup for tv/film literally like 2 years ago and now I'm doing a TEFL course... so yeah, VERY different. I think we just need to try almost everything if we can and discover who we are throughout our 20s. They say your life truly starts at 30 anyway Everyone goes at their own pace, it would be boring if we all lived the same life and did everything in the time frame society expects of us!!! Idk if this will help but we're all on this floating rock in the middle of the universe with no idea why (exluding beliefs) and it'll explode one day so nothing really matters. Try your best not to compare bc they probably also are feeling lost even if they seem like they have it together!! I guarantee no matter how we decide to live, we'll have at least one regret no matter what, so just do whatever I guess Idk 😭 Probs the worst advice, I word vomited but I hope it helped in some way! We got this
Your videos are helping so much. I just had a huge depressive epiphany yesterday, but I’m grateful for the fact that it’s the only thing really pushing me to change and actually go after my dream life. I love how real you are and don’t try to sugarcoat things. It does take hard work and an abundance mindset, but it is possible for those who believe it can become their reality.
Even though I’m not in my twenties anymore, your tips are really helpful. I struggled a lot with mental health and making bad decisions in my twenties but I’m dedicated to a change in my life. Thanks so much for your videos, they help more than you know ❤
I have turned 18.......and struggling on how I can improve and level up myself. I thank you from bottom of my heart to guide me. Your videos are truly inspiring .Lots of love ❤❤
Loved this ! I’m in my 30’s but this video is really helpful as I spent my 20’s living life and partying ahaha no regrets though. Thank you I love your content ♥️
I am not putting her on a pedestal or anything but she really is the best, I love how I can totally tune into her vibe as she speaks with high but affectionate energy of hers ❤️
i'm in my teenage as she said she started doing all of these things when she was 16 i'm 17 and i promise myself that as i will turn 23 i will be living my dream life similarly to tam love you sm for motivating us and telling us tips you followed yourself god bless you
Just watching your how to detach video, changed my mindset and my life in unimaginable ways, and this is a masterpiece, everytime I hear you and how emotional you are while telling us your journey, it inspires me and motivates me a lot, thank you so much, you're proof all of this is possible ❤
Sister.... I want to give you a hug 😭😭 how could you talk so much about things that i need most at this time 🫶 I'm praying for your blessing 💞 thank you so much ❤
This is video is so eye-opening. I'm turning 21 in 2 months and I feel stuck. It feels like i haven't achieved anything and that it's too late to do something about it now. But after watching this, I think i'm going to just go for it. That part where you say that if we fail now, it won't matter just resonates so well. I'm lucky enough that i still live with my parents, so no better time than now to work towards my goals.
i turned 20 a few months ago and every single week i found myself on the loop of saying i will do something and then do nothing about it! this is such gold information, i'm a little bit afraid of growing up but you display it in such a wonderful way that it makes me excited to live my life 💖 you're the bigger sister we all need!
The very 'well-done you'...I watched it 10-11 times in a row. She is really a blessing. If i am my highest self rn, TAM is the physical version to ever exist.
Okay, I see plenty of motivational talk videos every day but THIS. In one line, this is everything my Indian mother would tell me every day (and more) but in the tone and language of a fellow young adult going through a similar phase of life. And this is just the combination I didn't know I needed. Damn, girl you're changing lives out here, kudos to you!
I literally prayed the other day to be given a person that could help me put direction in my life coz i have been dealing existential crisis then I found this video. Just wow.
turned 22 and still living with my parents to save up but I’ve been so irresponsible with my spending smfh BUT i immediately downloaded a budgeting app after watching this 😭😭 it’s already made it easier to track what I should buy
Tam you’re honestly such an inspiration! I just got out of a long long relationship after infidelity. It’s heartbreaking & im healing. Trying to learn how to love myself, learn to be alone & to grow alone. We had made plans to open a business together & now I have to do that alone. I’m so excited for it & im also scared. This video was SO inspiring. Gonna look for more ways to have a passive income as well as read about investing. I’ve always been interested but it just sounds so confusing. I have an 8-5 job so it’s a lot to balance. But I know I’ll get there & I know I’ll be self employed really soon!! 🙌🏻 manifesting that my best life is coming. I’m also so lucky to be alone at this prime time in my life! I’ll be 25 soon so my goal is to get everything I want by 30!
Your videos truly inspire me so much! I'm 25 and have been going through an era of singlehood and healing for the past 4 months after having my heart broken. I feel empowered to take a break from men and dating and spend time becoming the best version of myself. Your videos have helped me to find more confidence within myself! ♥
Girl this was one of the most helpful videos I’ve come across. For so long I’ve been stuck and unsure about what to do with my life and what my passions were but you’ve quite literally given me a new sense of purpose. Everything seems less like a fantasy and now I believe I can turn those things into my reality. Thank you and I’ll see you at the top x
VIDEO IDEA: Would you ever do a video on - what to do when you're the only person going on a self-development journey in your social circle? As I've started this journey I've found it to be a bit isolating at times because no one in my family is healing their attachment style, and a lot of my friends aren't either - I'm finding I have less in common with the people I love now. I used to be a fearful avoidant but am leaning secure now, and I communicate differently, I am not as sensitive to everyone else's needs (I was overly sensitive before) and so it's changing my relationships a bit. I would love to know what your take is on this - how to cope with change in these ways. Do I need to go out and make a whole new group of friends? How to be there for yourself when your relationships will change? How to keep motivation going, not to revert back to old habits because they're comfortable? I also find it hard because I'm trying to have all of these new habits but then I'm hanging around the same people, people I used to have the same attachment as, or same beliefs as but have since changed - and it can be hard not to revert back to people pleasing or worrying because I'm around people who do that still. So how does one be strong in themselves when everything in life is changing? Did you notice this with your friendships as well? Thanks 💗
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Omg that is EXACTLY how I feel !! And then you also have the guilt that comes with all of this, in fact I think it would be really interesting to have a video about it, I hope she will see this comment ♡
I am feeling the same thing. I am sitting here watching this video and take notes while my friend and siblings are on their rooms watching tiktok and not want to improve themselves. It feels so isolation and lonely 😢
I feel sad just because I didn't subscribe to your channel earlier. Why are these videos starting to appear in my field of vision just now? you are amazing, thanks for the video!
I am 20 right now. You know what I think the same about people and habit as u do , and as you said that heart breaks are beautiful . I would say yes they are cos at that point of time when you used to be broken you only think about yourself and eventually you see your worth 😊. Love from India ❤
At the beginning of the video I was only 9 minutes in and already overwhelmed and knew she was coming off strong. She’s making the hustle culture seem approachable and achievable. I always thought the hustle culture was too much coming from a person who loves to sit but work hard. I’m stubborn, but I’m willing to listen. Here I am commenting at the end of a video I thought I was going to change, with a click of a finger and never look back back. It is so important to be aware of your maturity because the knowledge that she is giving you won’t stick unless you’re aware of it. I’m able to now maturely understand the importance of her ideas and I hope who ever watches it will see it through and start moving.
this is the tough love i needed especially coming out of my internship period and going into my last year of uni and preparing for life after which has been giving me sm anxiety. So happy I found ur channel
I thought I was nervous about turning 17-18, but omg now I'm 19. And I'm gonna turn 20 next year, I have absolutely NO good habits and barely any idea on how to "adult". 😭
May god bless you tam and everyone reading this or not reading this❤❤i am currently 17 focusing on self improvement and overcoming my own mind ❤❤lets go😊😊😊😊
“No one is better than you. Everyone is the same”. I’ve heard this tip before. But hearing it from you Tam, it made me feel more bettering about myself. I am in a challenge with myself of lesting off of comparing myself with other people. And this tip, hearing from you, made it irresistibly, gorgeously, love myself more. Thank you so much Tam. Ilysm😭❤️
Thank you so much for putting all this effort for all the youngsters who's going through existential crisis rn!! Myself confused after college about all these things next course, jobs , health full of anxiety and depression,.. This have been a great guide and motivation for mee.. U gonna go more heights because u r soo skillful in changing peoples life especially young girls🎉tysm
girllllll the timing 😭 i have been feeling overwhelmed these few days bc idk what im gonna do with my life and then u posted this vid which is what i need🥹
This is so so motivating❤ I'm halfway there, and I feel so good. Getting uncomfortable is literally so difficult for me, but this motivated me to a different level. Thanks a ton!!!
I'm walking away from someone who wants to live their best life, which is not the same as mine. We both agreed on making the best out of our 20s and making each other proud :)
Thank you so much , I am learning a lot from you . I have stated to make to do list and I am seeing improvement in me . I did not have any confident in me , I prioritized others before me . After seeing your videos I am gaining confidence into me , I have started to prioritize myself . Now I take care of myself . Thank you so much for your motivation. I am grateful to you.
She is sooooo good. She is the older sister we all needed, the mentor we need to follow....Thank you so much mam for this video...Really appreciate the efforts you put in this video to make us feel successful
I feel like your content has helped me so much in growing my confidence and just overall feeling more optimistic about life and I can’t thank you enough for that Tam, keep up the great work🫶🏻
not in my 20's yet, but preparing myself beforehand wouldn't hurt, thank you so much tam for guiding so many of us through these times of life where we all need an elder sister!
🫐🍻🥜🍿🌪️ *2:10** GYM for all the reason but being skinny for me also.. since 2023* *13:40* *21:51** same toxic family & heartbreaks* *25:10** Passive income, I myself am the biggest proponent*
You're an absolute gem! I am truly blessed to have watched this video. Like the last part alone about purpose and career has pretty much removed all my doubt about what path I should take. It all makes so much sense and I can't believe it took this long for me to realize. Thank you so much! 💗💗💗
girl I love you, thank you for being my hype woman, there's no one yet in my life who can hype me up like you do. About to up level my life this year to a whole new dimension thanks to you! love you
I LOVE YOU SO MUCH TAM!!! Like omg you're literally out here creating my dream life and im so delusional like i believe that I'll be the IT girl and im working on being that version of myself but also loving myself right this very moment of my life. Only you can do this and thank you so much for these advices
I’m in my 30s and wish I had the chance to see this ten years ago. I lived at home for quite a while and wish I had used the opportunity to save more instead of live paycheck to paycheck. This video is chock full of amazing advice! I’m feeling inspired after watching even though I’m not the target demographic. 😉
I love this video, tho I live in Greece and I barely make 500 euros per month, I pay my college and I'm 24 soo It's really hard for young adults here to make enough money to invest and make more if that make sense. It's so sad... someday I'll move abroad. I really do save money every month but it's really hard due to low income.
I watched this video in the morning 🌞 and Tam I love you soo much ❣️ you made my day you made me think about myself and how I should appreciate everything about myself 💗 I always wanted a elder sister to explain me everything about life and my choices and I guess I got one now ! Thank you so much for this lovely information and boosting up my confidence and changing the way I think!
Tonight I was asking the universe to show me a UA-cam video that I needed to watch, and your video popped up on my feed, I wasn’t sure if I would find it helpful or not, but I’m only halfway through and I’m finding it inspiring, so thank you. I’m 24 and I feel so lost in life and have no close friends, I know what I want my dream life to be like, but I’m scared as I don’t know if it’s the right decision or not. I have so many conflicting thoughts constantly and it’s so draining. But your video is making me feel a bit better, also I appreciate that you wrote subtitles for your entire video as I always watch everything with the subtitles on, but they’re not always correct, so I appreciate you made your own captions🙌
hey Tam! This is my first time watching any of your video and let me tell you it is so inspiring! I'll be turning twenty in five days and was feeling overwhelming but your video really helped me. I am going through a serious period of self doubt, procrastination and what not but now I feel like I can get through this and get my dream life. Thanks.
A little add on about living bellow your means and cars - always consider how expensive it is to get new parts for the particular brand in your country, for example where i live german cars are a lot cheaper to maintain and repair than most american or japanese ones 🚘
I know you’ve already done a bunch of how to make friends and how to solo date, but could you possibly consider making a video about “overcoming the anxiety of suddenly not having plans” like over a weekend if something falls through, and what your Saturdays can end up looking like considering Sundays are like reset, chill and a bit of an easier routine than a saturday!
I really don’t know if u‘ll read this comment, but I just wanna say thank u. Especially for ur subtitles, they could help me to understand the whole video much better. Ur advices waked me up from the mess in my head and this is really valuable to me. I will start my dream life today, and I’m really thankful to u
I know its not connected but i think other teenagers need this type of vid bc there are so manyy like soooo many insecure and also "mean" teenagers. They arent mature and like do some rude thing. They need this type of vids fr
Tam, I adore you and each and every one of your videos ✨I love how your videos are so informative and filled with practical tips (but never overwhelming!) Watching your videos makes me feel so empowered and I am just going to make myself a cup of tea and watch with a pen and paper 💖 Thank you for being YOU - so full of passion and light xoxox
This means EVERYTHING to me 🥹🫶🏽
@@tamkaur omg r u 20 years old, ?
i am 19 and i want to change my life, also learn english language and i see this video,i am study universty 2 cours and i am afride finish uni becaus i dont know what i am doing😬 thàkkk youuuuuuuu, you are amazing, very determinde, an you give very good energy, i wish i am being like you when i am 20
But i cant speak like this, i mean i cant speak very good fastly i ñeed think when i am speak 😬 you are amazinggggg🦭🤩🤩🤩
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Tip : ALWAYS have your notebook and pen with you're while watching Tam's videos, so much information to store all that in mind. If needed keep going to back those notes you made, which might act like a Reminder for your next big step.
Love 💕
@@tamkaur 🥺💘
Absolutely
I LITERALLY FELT THE SAME. I was listening to this today while doing my makeup. Then I was like, no wait, I will listen to it later when i will have my journal with me.
I am with my journal now.
@@medusa29897 yess girl, exactly how it should be done. Script down your next big move
A sort of summary :
Ch 1: habits
- to stay healthy- gym
- to make money -
- to keep me happy: UA-cam and Instagram, go out in nature
- taking the first step -
- take yourself seriously- realise my worth,time, resources
- diet - podcast - the dairy of a CEO , how to maximize everything with food
- beauty rituals - sunscreen, hair rosemary oil, skincare , gua sha, dress up,
- get more sleep : 6-8 hrs everynight
- self development: invest in learning new things everyday, read self help books, financial literacy
Ch:2 Mindset
- SWOT Analysis on myself
- intentional happiness : buy myself matcha and journal
- Solo Date
- lucky girl syndrome
- invest in therapy : deal with your trauma and heal
- get uncomfortable
Ch :3 People
- get rid of people who’re not worth it
- stop putting people on pedestal
- assume that everyone likes you - be delusional
- stay away from drama
- fall in love with heartbreaks
- stop comparing and set boundaries
Ch 4: wealth
- live below you means : put experience over trends
- live with parents as long as possible
- create passive income sources
- set up a business
- make 3 bank a/c : travel, investment,
- make friends successful and hustling
- invest in knowledge
- purpose & career - goal, it should be crystal clear
Ch 5 homework
- do SWOT
Do budgeting
- set up saving a/c
- download habit app
- get a gym
- take a journal and write down exactly what’s going on in my life
- next write down my goals for next one year and five year
Omw thank you sm❤
Tysm 🫶
Thank you for doing this.. Thats soo nice of uu❤
Thank you❤
Thaaaaank u 😘
When you said "I'm 22" I felt hella sad lol cause I'm 22 too. My 5 years relationship just ended, I'm moving back to my hometown. I have no idea what to do at alll. But I'll do my best that by my 23 I'm living my best life and being the best version of myself. I hope I'll find this comment in 6-8 months again to monitor my progress 💖good luck to me
For anyone going through an existential crisis: if you're unsure of what to do with your life or which university/career to choose, don't worry - it's completely normal! You're not a failure, you're not behind, and you're not stupid. You don't need to have all the answers right now. This is your time to focus on yourself, prioritize your mental health, explore new hobbies, and find joy in even the smallest things. I promise that everything will become clear and fall into place eventually, and you'll experience tremendous growth in the process. Take good care of yourself and treat yourself with kindness
Thank you ! Take care of you too :)
thanks a lot, your comment really help me a lot. I'm a final year university student and still do not know what to do with my life. I don/t know what career will be the best fit for me but I'm glad I watched this video. I will try my best this 2024 to improve and hopefully at the end of the year, I will be proud of myself.
Thanks a lot for that... Also.... Wish u good luck aswell 🤞♥️
I turn 20 in a month, and have spent my late teens stressing about my 20s. I can't wait to start implementing these tips into my life.
TOTALLY SAME
I turn 20 in 3 months. You don't need to stress about it, it's in God's hands
@christianteenwifewithmary1532
That is so young. I’m 22 going on 23 so I’m more than 3 years older than you. Really wish I could slow down time. I’m trying to get a job atm it’s so hard. Wish me luck. I’m still living at home cost of living is literally barely affordable. Im not able to move out at all
Updates?
@@Dana-cv4kr Nothing has changed. Submitted a dozen of applications, I even handed in resumes in person. They ended up just throwing my resume in the bin. They even discriminated my race. Said I'm asian we wanted to hire people of our country. I couldn't hold back got emotional and said 'F*** YOU' and left. I was angry and upset! I'm almost about to give up. Should I take life seriously? We're all going to die one day. The year is 2123 (we're all gone). Nothing matters at all! Should I just live in the moment? I'm still alive... 22.7 years of age. Don't know how much time I've got.
Yes! So sick of the “just relax and take it easy in your 20s narrative, it’s not that serious” that is a one way ticket to being 50 years old and disappointed in your life. Challenge yourself and build the life you want. Love everything you said.
Of topic, but you're so pretty
I agree with you..
Ps:- u're so majestic and beautiful ✨❤️
I’m 27. Numbers can get overwhelming. I remind myself I’m not behind. Infact, I have a whole life ahead of me. When I am working on achieving a goal, I like to count - 27, 28, 29, 30. This helps me look ahead with excitement, instead of looking back and feeling remorseful. Gosh, 20s can be tough but you grow so much! I hope everyone reading this always finds the strength to look ahead and grow 🎉
As I’m approaching 30, I’m still learning how to be a better person and achieve my goals. Life threw me a curveball at the beginning of the year and led to me starting a UA-cam channel! Hope to be as influential as you are one day! ❤
I am 31 and I still learn something new from every video of yours. You motivate me & am so grateful that I found your channel. Love you ❤
Turning 36 soon and still love all of her videos including this one! 🥰
@@babiixlenahehe yes 🙌
I am 33 and even I was impressed 😅🙂
I'm not 30 until October next year and I just feel like my life has just started 😍
Me also. 😂
I'm 22, slowly cutting out people from life and getting ready to finish uni next year and run out of the country to dream the dream life i've always wanted. love ur vids always so inspiring and motivating
Same here. We are in this together ✨
Same here ❤
I love the gym example, I was watching Iman Gadzhi who said if you invest a little more in a coffee ($10 instead of a $4 Starbucks) and go to an expensive hotel lobby, you'll surrounded by the people you're looking to become. Even if you make no connection/networks, you will see your motivation and it will push you further.
you’re a queeeen 💋💋💋 you’re killing it
I am 30 and videos like this are still valuable for me! I advice everyone to trust their intuition and gut feeling about what they want to do in life and don’t listen to people who are saying that it’s so hard to achieve that because only following your path will make you happy. I always dreamed about being an actress but I wasn’t believing that I can actually do it and earn money from this and was trying to commit to more stable jobs but never felt it’s right for me. Now I am playing in commercials, tv series and films, making good money from it and I feel so lucky that I didn’t give up on my dreams ❤ I invest a lot in changing my mindset to achieve everything I want and I recommend it to everyone
I’m 19 turning 20 on June 29th, I always wanted to grow older but now that I’m getting older and wiser, I’m actually not ready mentally 😅
same, I'm turning 20 on June 9th. I waited so long to get here and now I wanna go back.😭
We’re turning 21 soon!🤭
"everyone has their problems their obstacles, their adversities but everyone can also find a way to push past them or use them in their advantage. your pain can be your power you can go out and get whatever you want but the first step to doing that is believing it" this part!!!!!
going to be 18 this year bt will be starting early for better 20s
As someone who is not a native English speaker I will always be very grateful that you incorporate subtitles in your videos, thank you very much for your videos they always help me to motivate myself and want to grow as a person🥺💕
I’m 25 and already experiencing a mid life crisis 😅 but your video has been highly helpful. I’m hopeful to live the better for the remaining 20s and rest of my happy single life!
Same! Sometimes it feels like it’s too late, but I don’t want to waste the five years left
video chapters ✨
1:23 habits
9:48 mindset
16:25 people
22:58 wealth
32:02 homework
thank you~🥰
i’m just 16 but i still want to level up, feel empowered and live my dream life and thanks to your videos FULL of practical tips, i push myself into doing better everyday, thank you so much Tam 💗
Exactly... Me being a 14year old but I'm here as I just can't handle the anxiety and unsurity anymore.... It helped... xoxo ❤️✨
the way you think and create all these incredible videos at only 22?! I admire you a lot, keep killing it girl! We're learning SO much from you ❤❤
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Hi I am hitting 20 this yr and I was feeling overwhelmed by the number of things I should do in my 20s to improve my life, I am glad I found your video and I am so in love with your videos and your positive vibe ❤
Tam is so genuine and uplifting. Like She talks fast and tells me to do things but it doesn't feel uncomfortable. Her energy makes me comfortable. And they tips she gives are very well thought out. As someone who's also been into the self help genre since a young age. This is years worth of knowledge simplified in a way that can help a person.
I literally just bought a book about how to live in your 20s! I've actually been stressing about this for so long, I'm currently 22 and just want to live so freely/daringly. I'm so so relived seeing you upload this. Always have the best advice!!! love you sm Tam xx
Did it help ? The years coming to an end and I'm literally freaking out, like I'm sp stressed about my future and I find myself comparing myself to my peers and wondering if I'm on the right track, i feel like I can't breatheeee
@@palesamphatsoe959 ngl I stopped reading it like after a month 😭 I literally felt every word you said though omds. Tbh, I have thought A LOT and I think the best thing I can say, is literally do whatever you want (if it's possible) but mostly socialise/have fun!!!
When it comes to careers, personally, I graduated in makeup for tv/film literally like 2 years ago and now I'm doing a TEFL course... so yeah, VERY different. I think we just need to try almost everything if we can and discover who we are throughout our 20s. They say your life truly starts at 30 anyway
Everyone goes at their own pace, it would be boring if we all lived the same life and did everything in the time frame society expects of us!!! Idk if this will help but we're all on this floating rock in the middle of the universe with no idea why (exluding beliefs) and it'll explode one day so nothing really matters. Try your best not to compare bc they probably also are feeling lost even if they seem like they have it together!!
I guarantee no matter how we decide to live, we'll have at least one regret no matter what, so just do whatever I guess Idk 😭
Probs the worst advice, I word vomited but I hope it helped in some way! We got this
Your videos are helping so much. I just had a huge depressive epiphany yesterday, but I’m grateful for the fact that it’s the only thing really pushing me to change and actually go after my dream life. I love how real you are and don’t try to sugarcoat things. It does take hard work and an abundance mindset, but it is possible for those who believe it can become their reality.
I am 17 and I have watched all of your videos and they have helped me so much with becoming the best version of myself, thank you so much.
I'm 28 and I feel like I needed to hear this today!
Even though I’m not in my twenties anymore, your tips are really helpful. I struggled a lot with mental health and making bad decisions in my twenties but I’m dedicated to a change in my life. Thanks so much for your videos, they help more than you know ❤
0:10 me living with my strict parents😭 UGH YOU ARE SO REAL ABOUT THIS TAM, LOVE YOU
That was my exact same reaction
Me too girl me too
I’m 22 and I am
In a deep dark ditch. Binge watching your videos and trying to figure things out 😊
You go girl 🎉
I have turned 18.......and struggling on how I can improve and level up myself. I thank you from bottom of my heart to guide me. Your videos are truly inspiring .Lots of love ❤❤
Can tell how excited you were about this video. The energy, sass, spitting facts, calling people out :'). This becomes my fav video of yours.
Yayyyy thank u!!!
@@tamkaur Love you Tam! 💞
Loved this ! I’m in my 30’s but this video is really helpful as I spent my 20’s living life and partying ahaha no regrets though. Thank you I love your content ♥️
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I am not putting her on a pedestal or anything but she really is the best, I love how I can totally tune into her vibe as she speaks with high but affectionate energy of hers ❤️
You’re so sweet 💕
i'm in my teenage as she said she started doing all of these things when she was 16 i'm 17 and i promise myself that as i will turn 23 i will be living my dream life similarly to tam love you sm for motivating us and telling us tips you followed yourself god bless you
Just watching your how to detach video, changed my mindset and my life in unimaginable ways, and this is a masterpiece, everytime I hear you and how emotional you are while telling us your journey, it inspires me and motivates me a lot, thank you so much, you're proof all of this is possible ❤
Sister.... I want to give you a hug 😭😭 how could you talk so much about things that i need most at this time 🫶 I'm praying for your blessing 💞 thank you so much ❤
This is video is so eye-opening. I'm turning 21 in 2 months and I feel stuck. It feels like i haven't achieved anything and that it's too late to do something about it now. But after watching this, I think i'm going to just go for it. That part where you say that if we fail now, it won't matter just resonates so well. I'm lucky enough that i still live with my parents, so no better time than now to work towards my goals.
That’s why I started uploading my voice notes to self on this platform, it’s like active journaling and very wholesome
i turned 20 a few months ago and every single week i found myself on the loop of saying i will do something and then do nothing about it! this is such gold information, i'm a little bit afraid of growing up but you display it in such a wonderful way that it makes me excited to live my life 💖 you're the bigger sister we all need!
The very 'well-done you'...I watched it 10-11 times in a row. She is really a blessing. If i am my highest self rn, TAM is the physical version to ever exist.
Okay, I see plenty of motivational talk videos every day but THIS. In one line, this is everything my Indian mother would tell me every day (and more) but in the tone and language of a fellow young adult going through a similar phase of life. And this is just the combination I didn't know I needed.
Damn, girl you're changing lives out here, kudos to you!
I literally prayed the other day to be given a person that could help me put direction in my life coz i have been dealing existential crisis then I found this video. Just wow.
26 and so happy to be learning more. Stay open everyone. Let's get it.
turned 22 and still living with my parents to save up but I’ve been so irresponsible with my spending smfh BUT i immediately downloaded a budgeting app after watching this 😭😭 it’s already made it easier to track what I should buy
Tam you’re honestly such an inspiration! I just got out of a long long relationship after infidelity. It’s heartbreaking & im healing. Trying to learn how to love myself, learn to be alone & to grow alone. We had made plans to open a business together & now I have to do that alone. I’m so excited for it & im also scared. This video was SO inspiring. Gonna look for more ways to have a passive income as well as read about investing. I’ve always been interested but it just sounds so confusing. I have an 8-5 job so it’s a lot to balance. But I know I’ll get there & I know I’ll be self employed really soon!! 🙌🏻 manifesting that my best life is coming. I’m also so lucky to be alone at this prime time in my life! I’ll be 25 soon so my goal is to get everything I want by 30!
Your videos truly inspire me so much! I'm 25 and have been going through an era of singlehood and healing for the past 4 months after having my heart broken. I feel empowered to take a break from men and dating and spend time becoming the best version of myself. Your videos have helped me to find more confidence within myself! ♥
Girl this was one of the most helpful videos I’ve come across. For so long I’ve been stuck and unsure about what to do with my life and what my passions were but you’ve quite literally given me a new sense of purpose. Everything seems less like a fantasy and now I believe I can turn those things into my reality. Thank you and I’ll see you at the top x
I'm 20 and while watching this video I realised I'm already doing half of what she's saying made me more confident now ✨
VIDEO IDEA: Would you ever do a video on - what to do when you're the only person going on a self-development journey in your social circle? As I've started this journey I've found it to be a bit isolating at times because no one in my family is healing their attachment style, and a lot of my friends aren't either - I'm finding I have less in common with the people I love now. I used to be a fearful avoidant but am leaning secure now, and I communicate differently, I am not as sensitive to everyone else's needs (I was overly sensitive before) and so it's changing my relationships a bit. I would love to know what your take is on this - how to cope with change in these ways. Do I need to go out and make a whole new group of friends? How to be there for yourself when your relationships will change? How to keep motivation going, not to revert back to old habits because they're comfortable? I also find it hard because I'm trying to have all of these new habits but then I'm hanging around the same people, people I used to have the same attachment as, or same beliefs as but have since changed - and it can be hard not to revert back to people pleasing or worrying because I'm around people who do that still. So how does one be strong in themselves when everything in life is changing? Did you notice this with your friendships as well? Thanks 💗
Omg that is EXACTLY how I feel !! And then you also have the guilt that comes with all of this, in fact I think it would be really interesting to have a video about it, I hope she will see this comment ♡
I am feeling the same thing. I am sitting here watching this video and take notes while my friend and siblings are on their rooms watching tiktok and not want to improve themselves. It feels so isolation and lonely 😢
Yess samee. I would love a video on this
I'm going through the same thing too 😭
I feel sad just because I didn't subscribe to your channel earlier. Why are these videos starting to appear in my field of vision just now? you are amazing, thanks for the video!
I am 20 right now.
You know what I think the same about people and habit as u do , and as you said that heart breaks are beautiful . I would say yes they are cos at that point of time when you used to be broken you only think about yourself and eventually you see your worth 😊.
Love from India ❤
At the beginning of the video I was only 9 minutes in and already overwhelmed and knew she was coming off strong. She’s making the hustle culture seem approachable and achievable. I always thought the hustle culture was too much coming from a person who loves to sit but work hard. I’m stubborn, but I’m willing to listen. Here I am commenting at the end of a video I thought I was going to change, with a click of a finger and never look back back. It is so important to be aware of your maturity because the knowledge that she is giving you won’t stick unless you’re aware of it. I’m able to now maturely understand the importance of her ideas and I hope who ever watches it will see it through and start moving.
Idc what' you gonna say BUT AT 22???OMG!! QUEEN CONGRATULATIONS 😭💟💟💟💞✨
this is the tough love i needed especially coming out of my internship period and going into my last year of uni and preparing for life after which has been giving me sm anxiety. So happy I found ur channel
I thought I was nervous about turning 17-18, but omg now I'm 19. And I'm gonna turn 20 next year, I have absolutely NO good habits and barely any idea on how to "adult". 😭
take it easy friend!! Rome was not built in a day, good things take time, start with just one habit you can implement. The rest will follow ❤
May god bless you tam and everyone reading this or not reading this❤❤i am currently 17 focusing on self improvement and overcoming my own mind ❤❤lets go😊😊😊😊
You literally have saved my life!! You deserve the world gurl!!!! I love you so much ❤️
“No one is better than you. Everyone is the same”. I’ve heard this tip before. But hearing it from you Tam, it made me feel more bettering about myself. I am in a challenge with myself of lesting off of comparing myself with other people. And this tip, hearing from you, made it irresistibly, gorgeously, love myself more. Thank you so much Tam. Ilysm😭❤️
Thank you so much for putting all this effort for all the youngsters who's going through existential crisis rn!! Myself confused after college about all these things next course, jobs , health full of anxiety and depression,.. This have been a great guide and motivation for mee.. U gonna go more heights because u r soo skillful in changing peoples life especially young girls🎉tysm
Watching you is like a therapy in itself, your kind aura is Unmatched and the value you provide in the video is top notch. God always keep u blessed🎉❤
I'm not 20 but this video is very beneficial even tho I'm 15 . Knowledge is key
Yessss start early!!!
girllllll the timing 😭 i have been feeling overwhelmed these few days bc idk what im gonna do with my life and then u posted this vid which is what i need🥹
This is so so motivating❤ I'm halfway there, and I feel so good. Getting uncomfortable is literally so difficult for me, but this motivated me to a different level. Thanks a ton!!!
Oh my god! I can’t believe the amount of self-awareness you have at such a young age. Truly inspired by you 💗
I'm walking away from someone who wants to live their best life, which is not the same as mine. We both agreed on making the best out of our 20s and making each other proud :)
Thank you so much , I am learning a lot from you . I have stated to make to do list and I am seeing improvement in me . I did not have any confident in me , I prioritized others before me . After seeing your videos I am gaining confidence into me , I have started to prioritize myself . Now I take care of myself . Thank you so much for your motivation. I am grateful to you.
She is sooooo good. She is the older sister we all needed, the mentor we need to follow....Thank you so much mam for this video...Really appreciate the efforts you put in this video to make us feel successful
I feel like your content has helped me so much in growing my confidence and just overall feeling more optimistic about life and I can’t thank you enough for that Tam, keep up the great work🫶🏻
not in my 20's yet, but preparing myself beforehand wouldn't hurt, thank you so much tam for guiding so many of us through these times of life where we all need an elder sister!
When we have Tamanna why do we even need expensive therapy?❤️😭 She heals us for free😭❤️✨
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*2:10** GYM for all the reason but being skinny for me also.. since 2023*
*13:40*
*21:51** same toxic family & heartbreaks*
*25:10** Passive income, I myself am the biggest proponent*
You're an absolute gem! I am truly blessed to have watched this video. Like the last part alone about purpose and career has pretty much removed all my doubt about what path I should take. It all makes so much sense and I can't believe it took this long for me to realize. Thank you so much! 💗💗💗
i’m not even in my twenties, or close atm, but i’ve had so much more determination for my future with these videos
I'm in my late teen right now and this video is a perfect 👏mindset 👏shift👏 for me
Tam..love you girl❤
I am 17....but u are seriously like an elder sister to me.....i feel burnt out lately but thanks to you, after watching you i feel so relaxed
Tam you actually change my life and I really like the persone who I become because of you girl ❤
Thank you, Tam! ❤ I loved everything I heard in this video!
I am so grateful I met you! Your videos are helping me to become the person I wanna be ❤
Love that!
Just saw your video and I'm speechless sweetie what i did with my life from this moment? May you'll reward for this ❤❤
Tam, you`re so wise for your young years. This video is super motivating. Thank you🥰
girl I love you, thank you for being my hype woman, there's no one yet in my life who can hype me up like you do. About to up level my life this year to a whole new dimension thanks to you! love you
I LOVE YOU SO MUCH TAM!!!
Like omg you're literally out here creating my dream life and im so delusional like i believe that I'll be the IT girl and im working on being that version of myself but also loving myself right this very moment of my life. Only you can do this and thank you so much for these advices
I’m in my 30s and wish I had the chance to see this ten years ago. I lived at home for quite a while and wish I had used the opportunity to save more instead of live paycheck to paycheck. This video is chock full of amazing advice! I’m feeling inspired after watching even though I’m not the target demographic. 😉
This is speaking to me so much! Thank you for speaking up and telling people how much they’re worth and how anything is possible. Much love sis.
I love this video, tho I live in Greece and I barely make 500 euros per month, I pay my college and I'm 24 soo It's really hard for young adults here to make enough money to invest and make more if that make sense. It's so sad... someday I'll move abroad. I really do save money every month but it's really hard due to low income.
I feel blessed that I have the opportunity to watch you,thank you 🌺
I watched this video in the morning 🌞 and Tam I love you soo much ❣️ you made my day you made me think about myself and how I should appreciate everything about myself 💗 I always wanted a elder sister to explain me everything about life and my choices and I guess I got one now ! Thank you so much for this lovely information and boosting up my confidence and changing the way I think!
Tonight I was asking the universe to show me a UA-cam video that I needed to watch, and your video popped up on my feed, I wasn’t sure if I would find it helpful or not, but I’m only halfway through and I’m finding it inspiring, so thank you. I’m 24 and I feel so lost in life and have no close friends, I know what I want my dream life to be like, but I’m scared as I don’t know if it’s the right decision or not. I have so many conflicting thoughts constantly and it’s so draining. But your video is making me feel a bit better, also I appreciate that you wrote subtitles for your entire video as I always watch everything with the subtitles on, but they’re not always correct, so I appreciate you made your own captions🙌
hey Tam! This is my first time watching any of your video and let me tell you it is so inspiring! I'll be turning twenty in five days and was feeling overwhelming but your video really helped me. I am going through a serious period of self doubt, procrastination and what not but now I feel like I can get through this and get my dream life. Thanks.
A little add on about living bellow your means and cars - always consider how expensive it is to get new parts for the particular brand in your country, for example where i live german cars are a lot cheaper to maintain and repair than most american or japanese ones 🚘
Legit, I was thinking about this literally thanks ❤
I'll meet you with a new version next year 2024
I know you’ve already done a bunch of how to make friends and how to solo date, but could you possibly consider making a video about “overcoming the anxiety of suddenly not having plans” like over a weekend if something falls through, and what your Saturdays can end up looking like considering Sundays are like reset, chill and a bit of an easier routine than a saturday!
That is such a cool idea. I will do!!
I think this has been one of my favourite videos from you 🥰 so informative!! I'd love to hear more about financial literacy in the future🙏
I really don’t know if u‘ll read this comment, but I just wanna say thank u. Especially for ur subtitles, they could help me to understand the whole video much better. Ur advices waked me up from the mess in my head and this is really valuable to me. I will start my dream life today, and I’m really thankful to u
watching this at 15 😭💀🤷🏻♀️💙
Me too bae 😅😊
Enjoy it!!
Me at 16 although we are doing our future self favour 😭✨
It's is eye opening for me
I am 20 and I thought my whole life has nothing
But now I know from my soul
I know I can have a lot
I know its not connected but i think other teenagers need this type of vid bc there are so manyy like soooo many insecure and also "mean" teenagers. They arent mature and like do some rude thing. They need this type of vids fr
I’m 25 years i just see your video, saddly i found this to late, but i’m trying to follow what you say to find my happiness