1. Failing fast is a mindset. The faster you fail, the faster you get to where you want to be 2. Don't put yourself in a box. Allow yourself to be a multifaceted human being. 3. Stop trying to fit in. Be the source of your own happiness 4. Learn to set boundaries. 5. Set aside a peace of mind fund. Save up extra cash 6. Invest your money 7. Your life is a reflection of your current beliefs. You are what you attract. 8. Be flexible as you evolve. Be open to change, dont resist it because it wasn't part of your plan 9. Stop trying to save people who don't want to be saved. Not everyone comes with you on your own personal journey. We are all in our own lanes 10. Happiness is not a destination. If you havent healed yourself, there is no accomplishment that will fill that void. Dont overlook the present moment, its important.
I think failure was my worst fear for a long time to a point that I wouldn't finish something to avoid difficult parts I could potentially fail at. Thank you for the advice!
A couple of days ago I saw a TikTok comment saying something like „whenever I‘m stressed out that I don‘t have my life figured out I remember that I am the first woman in my family who doesn‘t have her entire life decided for her“ and I love that. Literally thinking about the generations of women before me and how they never got to decide what they want out of life, here I am free to choose. So I‘m starting to see it as a blessing whenever I‘m stressing about not knowing what I want to do in life instead :)
It never too late to start something new or reinventing yourself. Trust me I’m 55! It’s important to keep evolving and not worry about what other people think. You are way beyond your years. Love this!! ❤
"Money is energy" Let me add to this. In primary school they taught us the difference between wants and needs. I subconsciously thought this way for a long time financially. In secondary school I studied accounting. In a business sense they taught us about assets and liabilities but this is a drastically superior mental shift from wants and needs in your personal life as well. Because of reasons that are not important for this explanation, I was hyperfocused on needs. If all you're doing is meeting your basic needs you will never grow. You need to invest in yourself and acquire fixed assets that will allow you to grow. Instead of asking yourself whether or not you need something you should be asking what door does this open for me.
im 22 and ive been watching these types of videos and really taking time to watch it even on tiktok. i really love your take on stop helping people who doesn’t want to be helped specifically when it comes to family. ive been trying to fix things and feeling like im carrying the weight of the world and this advice really changed the way i see things now.
This video is truly inspiring! I don’t usually share recommendations, but I have to tell you about the book women’s magic truths on borlest. It offers unique perspectives on wealth and self-care that you won’t find elsewhere. Wishing everyone all the best
This is beautiful. Thank you. This is the best line that hit me hard: "Stop trying to help people who don't wanna be helped." It reminds me to stop trying so hard to try to help others, let them be. Let them realize things on their own. And focus on myself.
girl I LOVE the way you explain and talk! omg instant follow cuz there's a lot of "self help" / manifestation gurus out there that really talk down or are condescending and way too aggressive (i'm like girl chillll why are you mad at me LOL) but you are so tapped into your feminine and I love it. Taking notes and I feel aligned with everything you said. I see it reflected in my own life too
What you said about stop trying save people hit me because i was like that months ago but i took decision that i don't wanna save or change anyone anymore and I've never felt this different in my life thank you 🥰
Just want to add: There are also other benefits with failure. For example, you learn to be more humble and understanding, and even become a better problem-solver and more adaptable. Productivity channels seem to focus on planning --- and while planning _is_ good, being adaptable to new information is just as important. And nothing teaches that better than failure.
omg third point is so slept on...its so necessary to be in your solitude alone without friends sometimes so that you can embrace your own individual perceptions ...you're so underrated i wish you more success and i believe you will acheive that
The advice on this video it’s 10/10. Love , love it 👌I’m on my 30’s and I can relate that being perfectionist and afraid to fail kept me behind in life. Boundaries is another big one if you don’t have it in place it can lead to resentment, being used by others, not getting what you want from life, keeping “peace” at your own expense…
I've gotten a HUGE influx of these types of videos the last couple of days, and as someone in my (technically still) early 20s...this is the best one. these are all lessons i'm learning now and have been the past year or so (and earlier for a couple of these tbh). the way you explained each point was so concise and yet so clear, and it very much reaffirmed my current path in life. thank you for making this video 😊
I am 19Y, and i just saw your video. There are things i already experienced and things i didn't notice but you showed me it. However, nice video my dear thank you for your support Allah help us all in our life 😢❤
Your content is so good, most of the time while watching this kind of videos i get bored but yours is very interesting thank you❤❤❤ that's exactly what i needed to hear ❤
I’m okay with failing, but the problem is I think about what others would say- people pleaser problems 😭 thank you for the video though. It gave me a new profound perspective.
Think of it this way: you don't want to hold peoples opinions of you above your own in any circumstance. They have not lived your life, they don't have your experiences, and they are not YOU. So the opinion they may have is based only on what they know about you if even that. Only you know everything about yourself and how your life has gone so far so why would you hold the opinion of someone who doesn't know you like you know you, above your own? You shouldn't:)
Girl.. You popped up on my start page, and I binge-watched a few of your self-help videos (I loved them x). I went to go subscribe, and when I tell you I was SHOOK at how "little" recognition your channel and videos have. Ten thousand people is a large number, don't get me wrong, but I was just expecting so much more by the quality of your videos, my jaw literally dropped when I saw your 'ask your intuition'-video has under 1k views. People are missing out BIG TIME. I can't wait for more people to discover you and your channel, I know you're going to get way farther in this industry and I'm so excited to follow along 🩷🩷
Thank you so much for this video. I’m approaching my mid 20’s, so a few of these I’ve had to “learn the hard way” but even being reminded and coming from someone other than myself was so helpful. I relate to you on so much, as an eldest daughter I feel the need to be there for everyone, fix everyone, and have no boundaries and constantly feel bad. I really needed to hear some of these tips and will come back again and again to constantly remind myself.
So true. Thank you for reminding me to let go of expectations and just live life as I improve. I am 34 now, but your advice is still good for me in this process of evolving. I think this advice is for all people who need it. Thank you! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
New here, the tip at the end was the BEST one!! It’s so easy to think “Once I get this high paying job or find the love of my life everything will work out & be easy from there” it’s a mystery if that’s true because it’s hard to see AFTER that
Amazing content in this video! I rarely suggest anything in comments, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is a game-changer. It provides deep knowledge on wealth and self-care that can really make a difference. Take care, everyone
I love this type of videos and I remember watching similar ones in y early twenties but it just didn't register until now (in my late 20s). I think we really get to understand things once that frontal lobe fully develops. But for me setting boundaries has been a game changerrr! thank you for this video 🧡
This is all so true, about the last point I was thinking about that too, i believe celebrities heart posture towards money is why they aren’t content because internally they have a desire you want to be filled but money will not satisfy you. They receive more and as time flies the expensive material feels like nothing. When i was thinking about this I read this part “Whoever loves money never has enough; whoever loves wealth is never satisfied with their income. This too is meaningless.” Ecclesiastes 5:10. As i’m growing as an entrepreneur I hope to find purpose in God and not what I make. Cuz number literally change all the time, if someone has $10,000 then goes to 0, and they aren’t content within they will be depressed. This was just on my mind i love how deep your content is.
I always show up for people no matter what and nobody ever shows up for me. I recently turned 26 and had to learn the hard way. Now I’m focusing on myself for self improvement and not caring about nobody but myself. Always put yourself first. People are shit. They will use you if they get the chance.
I never consciously thought about that groupe mindset thing and adapting to play it safe but the more I think about it right now I see that you are spot on!
Thank you ❤️🫂 you are amazing. I came to a sudden realization that I need THIS kind of talk to guide my life Carry on you are doing well it is so helpful
Hey guys I'm here to practice my listing skill and also on the other hand to grow up in Life so thanks I learned a new words today also got a lot of advice it's really effected ❤️
Wow!!!! I usually never comment, but honestly this video was highly required in my life. I'm really grateful that i came across this video before moving to a new city and starting a new job. Love your aura🎀✨
I like your point of view but this the first two points are still from the perspective of a big Hustle and FOMO while all you need in 20’s is comfort that you can do anything and you are not going to miss out the opportunities.
I want to be an actor, content creator, architect and interior designer for houses, apartments and yachts so I’m focusing on architecture as it is probably the easiest to achieve and acting and content creation is just a hobby and maybe it will become bigger
I went to look for you on Spotify because I thought you would have a podcast - I think your insight is really valuable and that you should consider the possibility of also putting these audios onto a podcast :)
Great video, but your money example is not correct; a year has 52 weeks. So, if I save 38.46$ per week for a year, I will have 1,999.92$ (=38.46$ * 52) after a year, so nearly 2,000$. If I do this for 5 years, I will have 10,000$ and not 20,000$ (which is still a lot, but only half of the 20,000).
I think I'm too lazy, bcs feel I always wanna comment in every video which is helpful for me but I don't....but for the first time I am commenting on a video and this is how I'm putting out myself from my comfort zone.... And yeah___ your video is very helpful ❤✨ Peace ✌️
hey girl i absolutely loved this video!!! will defo use the advice and hopefully you'll see a new and improved me in one of my videos one day!! just subscribed cause you deserve way more recognition
The lack of buzz around Women’s Magic Truths on Borlest is baffling. This book holds the key to amazing secrets, but no one seems to care. Don’t stay in the dark - find out what everyone’s missing!
Such a valuable video! I don’t often promote books, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is an exception. It’s packed with insights on wealth and self-care that are not widely known. All the best to everyone
It’s shocking how Women’s Magic Truths on Borlest isn’t being discussed. The book is full of life-changing insights, yet no one seems to notice. Time to break the trance and read it yourself!
1. Failing fast is a mindset. The faster you fail, the faster you get to where you want to be
2. Don't put yourself in a box. Allow yourself to be a multifaceted human being.
3. Stop trying to fit in. Be the source of your own happiness
4. Learn to set boundaries.
5. Set aside a peace of mind fund. Save up extra cash
6. Invest your money
7. Your life is a reflection of your current beliefs. You are what you attract.
8. Be flexible as you evolve. Be open to change, dont resist it because it wasn't part of your plan
9. Stop trying to save people who don't want to be saved. Not everyone comes with you on your own personal journey. We are all in our own lanes
10. Happiness is not a destination. If you havent healed yourself, there is no accomplishment that will fill that void. Dont overlook the present moment, its important.
THANKSS 💓✨
life saver!!!
❤❤❤
Thanks
Thank you
I think failure was my worst fear for a long time to a point that I wouldn't finish something to avoid difficult parts I could potentially fail at. Thank you for the advice!
same this fear is why i'm currently failing my degree🥲
this!!!! i wish i knew how to stop fr 😭
You’re not the only one 😢
Me too
Omg i totally relate to that , and the issue is i still fear failure and idk how to not
A couple of days ago I saw a TikTok comment saying something like „whenever I‘m stressed out that I don‘t have my life figured out I remember that I am the first woman in my family who doesn‘t have her entire life decided for her“ and I love that. Literally thinking about the generations of women before me and how they never got to decide what they want out of life, here I am free to choose. So I‘m starting to see it as a blessing whenever I‘m stressing about not knowing what I want to do in life instead :)
It never too late to start something new or reinventing yourself. Trust me I’m 55! It’s important to keep evolving and not worry about what other people think. You are way beyond your years. Love this!! ❤
So true! You’re an inspiration!
"Money is energy"
Let me add to this.
In primary school they taught us the difference between wants and needs. I subconsciously thought this way for a long time financially.
In secondary school I studied accounting. In a business sense they taught us about assets and liabilities but this is a drastically superior mental shift from wants and needs in your personal life as well.
Because of reasons that are not important for this explanation, I was hyperfocused on needs. If all you're doing is meeting your basic needs you will never grow. You need to invest in yourself and acquire fixed assets that will allow you to grow. Instead of asking yourself whether or not you need something you should be asking what door does this open for me.
wow i love how this advice is very unique. Its a really great way to change my perspective about my purchases
"Failure is not your enemy, failure actually is your friend"
You are the only person who has brought up that money is energy. It is so true. Money is energy. Very valuable information.
im 22 and ive been watching these types of videos and really taking time to watch it even on tiktok. i really love your take on stop helping people who
doesn’t want to be helped specifically when it comes to family. ive been trying to fix things and feeling like im carrying the weight of the world and this advice really changed the way i see things now.
This video is truly inspiring! I don’t usually share recommendations, but I have to tell you about the book women’s magic truths on borlest. It offers unique perspectives on wealth and self-care that you won’t find elsewhere. Wishing everyone all the best
This is beautiful. Thank you.
This is the best line that hit me hard: "Stop trying to help people who don't wanna be helped."
It reminds me to stop trying so hard to try to help others, let them be. Let them realize things on their own. And focus on myself.
I am 20, and I blamed myself for making mistakes, I needed to hear this. thank you ❤
girl I LOVE the way you explain and talk! omg instant follow cuz there's a lot of "self help" / manifestation gurus out there that really talk down or are condescending and way too aggressive (i'm like girl chillll why are you mad at me LOL) but you are so tapped into your feminine and I love it. Taking notes and I feel aligned with everything you said. I see it reflected in my own life too
What you said about stop trying save people hit me because i was like that months ago but i took decision that i don't wanna save or change anyone anymore and I've never felt this different in my life thank you 🥰
Being the savior of your family is so true … you can’t help ppl who don’t want to be helped
Just want to add: There are also other benefits with failure. For example, you learn to be more humble and understanding, and even become a better problem-solver and more adaptable.
Productivity channels seem to focus on planning --- and while planning _is_ good, being adaptable to new information is just as important. And nothing teaches that better than failure.
omg third point is so slept on...its so necessary to be in your solitude alone without friends sometimes so that you can embrace your own individual perceptions ...you're so underrated i wish you more success and i believe you will acheive that
Just turned 30! I’m like surely I can still watch hehe
Yes definitely 😊
The advice on this video it’s 10/10. Love , love it 👌I’m on my 30’s and I can relate that being perfectionist and afraid to fail kept me behind in life. Boundaries is another big one if you don’t have it in place it can lead to resentment, being used by others, not getting what you want from life, keeping “peace” at your own expense…
You're the best for clearing all these points. Thank you so much pretty 🥺♥️
I've gotten a HUGE influx of these types of videos the last couple of days, and as someone in my (technically still) early 20s...this is the best one. these are all lessons i'm learning now and have been the past year or so (and earlier for a couple of these tbh). the way you explained each point was so concise and yet so clear, and it very much reaffirmed my current path in life. thank you for making this video 😊
@@thefilipinonerd thank you so much 🤍
this was so refreshing to watch, the present is a present…… and i think you’ve made us all realize that
@@izzyybellyy 🤍🤍
I'm 23. This is the video I've been needing to watch for a long time 🥺
I‘m 21 and I just saw your video. Thank you so much!!! 😊
I am 19Y, and i just saw your video.
There are things i already experienced and things i didn't notice but you showed me it. However, nice video my dear thank you for your support
Allah help us all in our life 😢❤
Your content is so good, most of the time while watching this kind of videos i get bored but yours is very interesting thank you❤❤❤ that's exactly what i needed to hear ❤
@@bookaddict-x6k thank you 🤍
I’m okay with failing, but the problem is I think about what others would say- people pleaser problems 😭 thank you for the video though. It gave me a new profound perspective.
Think of it this way: you don't want to hold peoples opinions of you above your own in any circumstance. They have not lived your life, they don't have your experiences, and they are not YOU. So the opinion they may have is based only on what they know about you if even that. Only you know everything about yourself and how your life has gone so far so why would you hold the opinion of someone who doesn't know you like you know you, above your own? You shouldn't:)
@@pixelninja1452 aww, thank you so much for giving me your insight. That is so true 🥹. Truly, gave me a new perspective right there
A little advice, never tell your projects to anybody until is done.
Girl.. You popped up on my start page, and I binge-watched a few of your self-help videos (I loved them x). I went to go subscribe, and when I tell you I was SHOOK at how "little" recognition your channel and videos have. Ten thousand people is a large number, don't get me wrong, but I was just expecting so much more by the quality of your videos, my jaw literally dropped when I saw your 'ask your intuition'-video has under 1k views. People are missing out BIG TIME. I can't wait for more people to discover you and your channel, I know you're going to get way farther in this industry and I'm so excited to follow along 🩷🩷
@@carolinejuncker5799 thank you so much! I am grateful for you, and anyone else who find my messages helpful 🤍
Cause literally same!
I just found her over the start page as well!! I also found her to be very likable. Glad I'm not the only one🤭
Thank you so much for this video. I’m approaching my mid 20’s, so a few of these I’ve had to “learn the hard way” but even being reminded and coming from someone other than myself was so helpful. I relate to you on so much, as an eldest daughter I feel the need to be there for everyone, fix everyone, and have no boundaries and constantly feel bad. I really needed to hear some of these tips and will come back again and again to constantly remind myself.
I loved and needed every single one. As a 21 year old, I’m so glad I came across this video. You’re so beautifully well spoken 🤍
So true. Thank you for reminding me to let go of expectations and just live life as I improve. I am 34 now, but your advice is still good for me in this process of evolving. I think this advice is for all people who need it. Thank you! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
New here, the tip at the end was the BEST one!! It’s so easy to think “Once I get this high paying job or find the love of my life everything will work out & be easy from there” it’s a mystery if that’s true because it’s hard to see AFTER that
Thank you Krizia. It’s the first of you I watch and I adore it. ❤🎉
Thanks for making this video. It's really helpful since I'm about to turn 20. Hope you have a good day. ❤
I have and love the LYXBAGS in the same colour and have the marmont in the small in the velvet. Judith is on my list.
oh my gosh.. you're like therapy to me
thank you for your words
Thank you so much Ford your Video. I could listen to you for hours. Thanks for your advice, it gave me a lot to think about. greetings from Germany😊
Amazing content in this video! I rarely suggest anything in comments, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is a game-changer. It provides deep knowledge on wealth and self-care that can really make a difference. Take care, everyone
I love this type of videos and I remember watching similar ones in y early twenties but it just didn't register until now (in my late 20s). I think we really get to understand things once that frontal lobe fully develops. But for me setting boundaries has been a game changerrr! thank you for this video 🧡
This is all so true, about the last point I was thinking about that too, i believe celebrities heart posture towards money is why they aren’t content because internally they have a desire you want to be filled but money will not satisfy you. They receive more and as time flies the expensive material feels like nothing. When i was thinking about this I read this part “Whoever loves money never has enough; whoever loves wealth is never satisfied with their income. This too is meaningless.” Ecclesiastes 5:10. As i’m growing as an entrepreneur I hope to find purpose in God and not what I make. Cuz number literally change all the time, if someone has $10,000 then goes to 0, and they aren’t content within they will be depressed. This was just on my mind i love how deep your content is.
this was so good and beautiful and soft and wise i love
@@osnapitzevelin thank you 🥹🤍
You have no idea girl but this is all I needed someone to tell me ❤
aww!i really need this advice ,I'm always finding a group of friends to be fit in but i always failed and when i trying, I got sucked.
Thank you for these inspiring pieces of advice. It was really helpful, and I feel like there is a lot of authenticity in your voice.
I always show up for people no matter what and nobody ever shows up for me. I recently turned 26 and had to learn the hard way.
Now I’m focusing on myself for self improvement and not caring about nobody but myself.
Always put yourself first. People are shit. They will use you if they get the chance.
I never consciously thought about that groupe mindset thing and adapting to play it safe but the more I think about it right now I see that you are spot on!
❤️
Trying to save people made my life a mess
Thanks for the advice sis
Thank you ❤️🫂 you are amazing. I came to a sudden realization that I need THIS kind of talk to guide my life
Carry on you are doing well it is so helpful
@@kathrinejr.walter8411 I’m so happy to hear that the message was received! So excited for your journey 🤍
Everything you mentioned in this video is so relatable ❤ thank you so so much for the amazing advice
You’re like an elder sister I never had 😢
Hey guys I'm here to practice my listing skill and also on the other hand to grow up in Life so thanks I learned a new words today also got a lot of advice it's really effected ❤️
thank you sooo much for this,i need to hear this right now🫂
27 in one month and YES to all of these ^^
Wow!!!! I usually never comment, but honestly this video was highly required in my life. I'm really grateful that i came across this video before moving to a new city and starting a new job. Love your aura🎀✨
I’m so grateful the message resonated! Wishing you the best ❤️
Could you please make a longer video about the harsh truth in this video explaining it a lil bit more clearly with examples would be really interested
I like your point of view but this the first two points are still from the perspective of a big Hustle and FOMO while all you need in 20’s is comfort that you can do anything and you are not going to miss out the opportunities.
At 29, I definitely needed this video. Thank you, queen ❤
Glad it was helpful! Thank you!
I want to be an actor, content creator, architect and interior designer for houses, apartments and yachts so I’m focusing on architecture as it is probably the easiest to achieve and acting and content creation is just a hobby and maybe it will become bigger
Thanks for your video, now I’m in my 20’s and your advices was need to me. By the way, I’m from Kyrgyzstan and watch this video. ❤
Im proud of you ; thank you for existing
What got me to sub is the “money is energy concept” ✨😌
This is exactly what I needed and somehow I avoided it but listening to u. I should do it 😊 thank u ❤
yes rooting for you 🤍
@@KriziaofficialI'm also rooting for you 💪 from the bottom of the heart 💗
I went to look for you on Spotify because I thought you would have a podcast - I think your insight is really valuable and that you should consider the possibility of also putting these audios onto a podcast :)
Thank you it may be in the works 😊
i really needed to hear this! thank you so much for this video :)
oh my gosh, i felt this so personal like is what i needed to hear at this point in my life, thank you so much, new sub❤
Welcome!!
This is fire. So glad you put this art piece together 🫶🏼
This video changed me. Thank you Krizia ❤️
this is def a vid i would recommend to anyone
Appreciate that!
Great video, but your money example is not correct; a year has 52 weeks. So, if I save 38.46$ per week for a year, I will have 1,999.92$ (=38.46$ * 52) after a year, so nearly 2,000$. If I do this for 5 years, I will have 10,000$ and not 20,000$ (which is still a lot, but only half of the 20,000).
exactly, that's what i was about to say!
I think she meant investing it (compound interest)
Thank you so much for this video ❤️ I love you u are amazing ❤️❤️❤️
I think I'm too lazy, bcs feel I always wanna comment in every video which is helpful for me but I don't....but for the first time I am commenting on a video and this is how I'm putting out myself from my comfort zone....
And yeah___ your video is very helpful ❤✨
Peace ✌️
❤ love this for you
Truly the best video you answerd many of my questiones in this video
Чудова подача інформації і справді корисні поради, дякую!!
I’ll be 21 next month glad I watched now
You’re doing an amazing job girl! Listened it all, shared to a friend and also gonna subscribe and listen to other videos, keep doing!
Thank you!
Thanks for this lesson, I think he can help me in my situation
I love this. Thank you
21:31 happiness is not a destination
Just finding this page but I'm about to be 20 in 2 weeks thanks.
hey girl i absolutely loved this video!!! will defo use the advice and hopefully you'll see a new and improved me in one of my videos one day!! just subscribed cause you deserve way more recognition
Thankyou ❤Amazing tips!
I love your words, thank you!
Thank you!
The lack of buzz around Women’s Magic Truths on Borlest is baffling. This book holds the key to amazing secrets, but no one seems to care. Don’t stay in the dark - find out what everyone’s missing!
I wish I knew this when in was in my 20s❤❤😂😂❤❤
this was so helpful thank u so much !!!!!!!!!!!!!
So educating .thanku❤
Awesome advices. I love them all.
Such a valuable video! I don’t often promote books, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is an exception. It’s packed with insights on wealth and self-care that are not widely known. All the best to everyone
Listening to learn English ❤
Thank you ♥️♥️
Thank you that was helpful!❤
You're so welcome!
It’s shocking how Women’s Magic Truths on Borlest isn’t being discussed. The book is full of life-changing insights, yet no one seems to notice. Time to break the trance and read it yourself!
Incredible videos😍. You won one more subscriber 💓💓
thank uu this is so real
This was such good advice ❤❤
this was really helpful
I love this video ❤❤❤!
Uff how i love to learn❤
yes ❤
thriving ✨
Nice wing 🔥
this was such a great video wow
Thank you