The fact that he stuck around even with his own doubt says a lot. I know dads that know for a fact it’s their child and still leave. I believe he did the best he knew how with what he had.
But add in the sister-cousin and the grandma?! It's always hilarious when the women men get involved with match their mother's energy. XD Freud would have adored Paternity Court.
I really don’t think they’re giving him the credit he deserves even though he says he “knew” they weren’t his, he was still there. Good or bad father he was there and kept a roof over their heads some of us don’t have that
I'm gonna be honest from what i saw i think this man did the best he knew but sadly didn't know much. That's my take on it i feel like he really love them but didn't know how to show it. And for the money stuff are they really blaming him for being a single dad and struggling with money? He's not perfect and that's not what i'm trying to say. All i'm saying is that he tried with the little tools and knowledge he had.
He was fighting his demons the whole time, especially when the mom died. They said he started drinking. They were acting out, cause their mom gone. The household was probably a mess.
Family could have stepped in to help with 2 young motherless girls. Maybe he moved nearer to his mother. He was overjoyed to hear that result. They should forgive him and embrace the present.
Yep. Doubt is a demon too. That's why the truth sets us free. I hope if something like this happens again that he is more proactive in getting the truth.
Right. Everybody was mourning but they taking it out on him like he invincible.. he dam sure didn’t plan on being a single dad with twin girls while also losing his wife 🤦🏿♀️
That daughter with the shortest hair really grinded my gears! She couldn’t say one positive thing about the man that took her in with doubt & raised her. I think he tried his best as a dad. They seem well raised & that’s because of him. She aggravated me when she told him to be quiet & quit making mistakes. We’re human!! Nobody gets it right all the time.
Yes!! My thoughts exactly!! She's hurting inside & I believe that there is more to her pain than just her relationship with her father. Especially with losing her mother. I hope she gets the support she needs 😊
Hurt does that. But notice after a little time passed and she was able to process everything, she didn't pull away. She willingly accepted his hug and embraced him too. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Yea i think she wants things they cant really afford and i think she likes girls so she needs a little help but for really it is hard buying a pair of jays for one kid amagine 2 at the same time hmmmmm
I'm glad that he knows the truth now, because I can certainly understand how he had doubts all those years. Apparently, the mother was "playing" the other man, making him think they were his as the Cousin said the mother continued to have him send her money.
@@marysmith5003 With all those girls did to run the Dad down they didn't stop to think they were lucky he didn't have some other woman there with her six kids to deal with. They sure were hateful to him.
He didn't do his best. He could have cleared paternity doubt at birth, and raised them without any supposed doubt or wrestling with emotions that weren't even necessary. These men do not get a pass for half-hearted "parenting" based on ficticious doubt.
LQL How is it fictional when the cousin verified that their mother had a white sugar daddy and her mother told a family member that he was not the father. He was also going by what the doctor said. Not everyone can afford the test.
Im confused..... No verbal abuse.... No mistreatment.... Just lack of funds!!!! The judge shoul've checked them. And the words that did hurt them were in his PRIVATE diary!!!
Those are always the ones....I have a fb friend who literally HATES his mother...She never hit him...she didn't degrade him...and even though he's a grown ma ...She bought his car and home.... but any little thing can send him off into a She never loved me rant...
How does it help those kids by telling them that their Dad only wanted them when money was added to the equation? Some folks need to just sthu sometimes. Use some common sense when you are dealing with children.
Right because he could have been like most fathers not sign the birth certificate and walked away even if he knew that they mother had passed away he could have kept walking but he made a choice to be in their life like he said he signed because he wasn't sure if those with his kids and he had a thought came over him saying these kids going to need you one day and that was God speaking to him but I don't think you realize that that was the Holy Spirit that was God thank you Jesus
I thought the same thing! I thought she was really rude to him. Did you see how she pushed him away at the end and wiped his kiss off her cheek like he had “cooties”?! I could see why they didn’t get along at home ... she’s a little on the nasty side. But she should be happy that this man did take her and her sister in after her Mother passed away. He tried his best and apparently his best isn’t good enough for her. Really ungrateful!
I heard the one on the right saying he better be the dad. When he said I cook them dinner every night and make sure they do their homework and that's not enough from their side I shed tears
Yes! She's just big MAD at him but could also be projecting anger from witnessing their mother's death, grandma telling them he only wanted them for money or some other unresolved issues.
No you don’t have to be the biological father to take care of a child but you should be. There may come a time when you have a biological child of your own and that child deserves to have it all and shouldn’t have to share the resources that you as a man have acquired with the child of another man and that was birthed by a woman that’s not your mother. Men should stop taking care of children that are not biologically theirs, it is unfair to your children and teaches irresponsible women that they can continue to have babies by men that do not stick around.
He was there! Even when he doubt so be happy for that much. A lot of kids do not have that. Money do not proof happiness and being a parent. Spoil young generation always think you can buy Love.
@@helenlevy5952 He was only there after the mother died and then kinda half assed it because his doubts then he shows how he really feels at their party by telling people their not his kids
It's sad that this man doesn't get enough credit for what he did... being in their lives and doing the much he could for these girls. Especially the one with the short hair. It could have been worse for them if wasn't there at all. I hope they realize that. Good man (not perfect) but deserve all the respect for doing what he could with the little he had.
@@KingRose339 he had doubts and may be he was going through tough times and started talking nonsense and I think that girl has his character, lol she felt bad after dad's kiss and wipe her kick but I pray God help them repair the relationship
Sometimes they dont deserve forgiveness. If someones not good for me, I kick them out of my life and let them know it. A lot of parents have a lot of growing up to do.
@@Anicia25 . He doubted because of the mother.. if a woman is promiscuous what do you expect. He tried to do the right thing even with doubts which was why the relationship with him and the girls was so strained
@@Divagirl444 from what he said, doctors were partly at fault for the doubts, the twins were born at 7 months pregnancy ( 7 months after "their first time" on the mom's birthday )
@@mia1libra I agree with what you ladies have said here we must get pass complexion as evidence of paternity. When I looked at those girls head and eyes I said why are you all in court. Man those girls are yours! I'm a living witness to the complexion can't be trusted. I'm darker than shoe polish😁 My wife is chocolate. But our son's complexion is light. He looks exactly like me just light and has my mother's/his grand mother's eyes. When he was born I laughed saying God has a sense of humour. I can remember my little niece saying her aunt had a white baby😂 He got a little darker. My sister's oldest son is the same. She is chocolate the father was very dark but my nephew's complexion is light. My son and my nephew favor my mother's father, their great grand father, very tall and light but all the children and grand children have my mother's facial structure (big cat eyes and high cheek bones, her strong genes). I wasn't fond of that part growing up as boy having eyes like woman😶 But you can't mistake us. When I looked at my son and I saw eyes I was like on yeah! That's my mother all day.
@@mia1libra the mix race factor could be true, but not factual because there are dark skin couples in Africa with no European ancestral genes but yet still they give birth to light skin child.
@@NicholeLT well according to them he had his homeboys over drinking with him almost every day and they had to beg teachers for school supplies. They also said he would just dismiss their feelings and they were never allowed to get over the loss of their mother (which is easy to see). So I do not think it was disrespect, I think it was more uncontrolled emotional bursts because they were finally allowed to let their feelings out.
Very ungrateful period!!! But children see things differently than adults so the angry one may really have these feelings that he was awful to her but i suspect she is dealing with MUCH BIGGER issues than just a daddy who made some bad parenting decisions. I wish them both well and to learn to love and forgive their daddy
@@jenniferkunkel2607 I hope as they mature that they can see this through a different lens. Forgiveness will lead to more peace and happiness. Counseling might help.
Forgive Him Girls...He took care of the 2 of You for 18 years...Not knowing that he was your Father...may Blessings continue to Follow you and your Father....Amen, Amen & Amen
I hope the girls can realize what he did for them, even with him thinking he wasn’t their dad. When their mom passed, they could’ve ended up in foster care or worse, if he hadn’t been there. Some people are better parents than others but some literally are figuring things out as they go. I hope they can understand that and get past the anger. .
They need to realize that all parents make mistakes along the way. Sad that he didn't do dna sooner if he suspected that they were not his. Doesn't mean how he raised them would have been any different, but he wouldn't have lived years with doubt about paternity. I hope that they can learn to forgive and live in the present moving forward.
So true the one that said they don't get along seem to me to be the one that takes after him There's always one that is more strong will and she's bitter with him ,but like you said he still took care of them. So forgiveness is needed and thank God for him at lease now they have one living parent start over and enjoy one another.
I've yet to meet a parent that did it ALL right, myself included.. now that they know, it's time to let go of what can't be fixed/changed, and form a new relationship!
No one is perfect and he actually was a standup guy these two are not his only kids and he raised them alone of course things aren't going to be perfect but the fact that he was there from the beginning with two girls is a beautiful thing. It's hard to raise kids let alone two girls. I believe he did his best regardless of what he thought in his head. I pray they grow together from this.
Maybe she decided to be boyish so that there would be one of them to stand and voice out for the two of them, uhmm you know for independence and support
@@nazarenejohnbacunawa9250 yes, I'm thinking something has changed on her brain due to her trauma now she thinks she's going to show her daddy how to be a better man and father😭😭
I agree 💯 ! I get $700 in cs a month for 5 kids :-( he acts like he does so much for them to .. he only gets them when it's convenient for him and when I say something he always says well I pay support for them , it's sad ..
If he’s not using the money to provide for them, but using it to supply his life habits and entertain guest over then it’s enough for him to be content with
It kinda feels like it doesn't matter how much or how little he does for them they still won't see him as enough. Telling him to be quiet and stop making mistakes?? He's human. We all make mistakes. I don't think that they fully understand that being a single parent is hard. Being a single parent to twins is even harder. Being a single parent to twins who lost their mom and are grieving and probably angry is even harder than that and mistakes are going to happen. Am I saying that Mr. Eggleston is perfect? No, there is no such thing as a perfect parent but it's obvious that he loves them and I don't think the girls gave him a fair and fighting chance
I agree with what you said. Wouldn’t it be something if the twins had twins and become single parents with no help. Then they will realize how hard it is to be a single parent when you have to buy two of everything and that’s not including rent, utilities, car payment, phone bill, car insurance, food and anything else that’s needed.
he does not need to apologize he's been there he was confused because the mom was talking to another man but he's been there from day one he's a good man those kids are very blessed to have him in their lives let the past go and just love your dad and hold him I don't have my daddy he's in heaven 😭😂😥
Samantha Olivas Kids! They have no idea that parents are just born with all the answers or skills to be the “perfect” parent. They forget parents are just people with feelings, fears & mistakes. He is a good man to have that doubt for many years, but never to deny taking care of twins or abandoning them. Me & my little sister were abandoned first by our birth mother then by a stepfather who left us in foster care to rot. Thank God we were adopted after being removed in an emergency situation & saved from being violently abused. The girls need to be thankful their dad never left them even though he was filled with doubts & he loved them & obviously still does. Respect is a two way road. They have much healing to be done. God bless them all.
This episode is sooooo emotional. Brought tears to my eyes. Happy at outcome. The results, the hug, the acceptance, after fight with reality, as well as the apology. Great judge with a heart like a Goddess.
These girls need to seek counseling ASAP. I'm not making excuses for him but sheesh. He could've walked away like so many of them but he didn't. My mom couldnt afford nikes when we were growing up so I became the 1 college grad on both sides of my family so I could afford them for her and I. They are young but so immature and I hope they find healing because he didnt abuse or neglect them
My parents could afford Nikes & a lot of other things. We got $25 of a present(s) for our bday & Christmas when my brother & I were teens growing up in the '80s. We paid for our cars & college (well, I did as my brother was killed before that), etc. We were thankful for what we got; I swear it helped make us better human beings. P.S. My daughter would do ANYTHING have had her father be in her life after our divorce (she was 8 yrs old when he abandoned her) instead of having a new family that eventually that made it seem like he replaced his 'daddy's girl.'. I would have loved to respectfully co-parent without any child support at all (I didn't get any but time would have been more than enough if he had given it to her).
Rodnea needs to chill man. He may not have even been in the BALLPARK of perfect, but he still stepped up through all the doubt. So chill. Stop being an impudent brat. Like, yesterday.
There was no need for doubt when he could have tested them at birth. Why are people so willing to exalt men who do their best to skirt parenting? Bums with excuses!
LQL Not everyone can afford the test. He has said from the beginning that he had doubts. He was going by the mother’s actions and what the doctor said.
"Be quiet and stop making mistakes". The audacity to tell that to a man who raised you despite him truly believing you weren't even his child. They basically told him to stop being human. Entitled spoiled brats they are.
People have been through worse and they still appreciate and respect their parents. It wasn’t like he was missing in their lives, probably his income wasn’t much to meet their expectations. Let’s admonish them to show gratitude. Some fathers run from their responsibilities even when there’s no doubt about the paternity of their children.
Never Knew , So you noticed too? Could that have prompted their difficult relationship and the paternity denials? The dad seemed to have regretted running his mouth to the family.
Most men are lost plus he was a single parent plus probably on top of that trying to heal Plus they're girls and you know how we can be but I applaud him for not running that's where my heart sank mist men run but he stayed he wasn't perfect but he didn't have to stay give props where due and he's due that much
Their pain began at 8 when they lost their Mom. No school supplies or even a better relationship with him would have healed their broken hearts. I'm hurt for them
@@AhmadKhan-jg1mm They lashed out at him, because he was the closest person to do so. I hope that as adults they get counseling to work on their grief.
You can see that he really thought he wasn't the father and when he found he was - he was SO happy! This man for 18 years thought that for sure he wasn't the father and still was there cuz they needed one. Now you need to give him credit for it!
Who else is crying watching this?🙋🏾♀️ I tried to stay mad like the girls were but my heart wouldn't let me. I hope they forgive and start from where they are.
But they could understand especially if the cousin said the same thing that their mother was messing with a white man and that's what made him think that it was a white man because he knew she was messing with a white man too so they should not be that angry
@@tinabethea7868 he knew she was messing with a white man so he should have done what the girls said and took them as babies to get tested. Instead of letting he doubt sit in the pit of his stomach and grow to make this end result. They had all right to be angry.
I say he should've gotten the credit he deserves for stepping up regardless of his doubts. It's hard taking care of one baby let alone 2 at a time and alone. 👏 Applause to you Dad!! 💯
You will be surprised how men are when it comes to kicking money out or getting money when it comes to children. I have a child's father whom does everything in his power to put 400 bucks back in his pocket. Including trying to take full custody
Whelp it cost 200k to raise one child the year the were born excluding extras like prom, car etc ... Now it's 260k per child without goverment assistance so 900 bucks is nothing
I'm so happy the DNA result was favourable to the man. He really tried his best raising up those girls despite his suspicion they could not be his biological daughters, he didn't defile them either, thank God he has no cause to bite his fingers for any wrong he might have done them, save the fact, that he couldn't do much, it's not easy being a single parent. I pray they will all heal fast & love ones another passionately
After 30 years of counseling families, I must say that the twin with the short hair needs to admit her faults and shortcomings. She is so broken that her only reaction is to tear apart anything that resembles being restored. It’s impossible for one to move forward while dragging someone else in the ground.
My thought was that she cannot heal, move forward and find happiness in her own life until she forgives. He may not have been a perfect father, but they were probably not perfect teens, either. We all know how difficult parenting teens can be and it must be a challenge for a single parent. They needed grief counseling when they lost their mom. Hopefully, they seek counsel and move forward.
Felt sorry for the twins and their father. Even though he had doubts of their partenity..He went the extra mile when their mother died.He never abandon them.He❤ Loved them wholeheartedly.
Being twins doesn't mean they'll have the same personality and this is a clear case. One is easily loving but the other is tougher and that's how they roll. He doubted but he was there and you can see the love in some unspoken words. I hope they can chart a better course together.
That super angry twin got on my last nerve. She is the dominate twin no doubt. She need to SHUT UP and listen sometime. I could be wrong but, she struggling with something else as well.
The other twin stated she was a 'daddy's girl'. I believe that maybe the twin that showed more affection from the very beginning towards the father would get more affection in return, creating a closer bond. The other twin became resentful and her anger only helped push the dad away. When you come in the door and one child turns to you to embrace you and the other stands back and glares at you, as they did when the result was read, it's easy to see which one would get more interaction. That has probably been going on for years but the one twin can't see her part in it.
@@tastx3142 actually that makes a whole sense, I was suprised when d judge read the result how she repelled him but minutes before the results were read she said he better be our dad, like she wants him to be her dad but she is carrying too much hate to let him be her dad... Interesting
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I couldn't believe after court that they told him that HE needed to quit making mistakes 🤔 Neither of the twins is perfect, because none of us are. Why were they reading a private journal?They seem a little self-centered and need to mature before they have children of their own and realize that it isn't an easy job, especially when you have other people making denigrating comments about you like the grandmother did. I worked with a lady whose sister died and the siblings were all fighting because they wanted the children because of the SS benefits and other benefits, even though some of them lived out of state and barely knew the children. The judge awarded her custody because she had always been in the children's lives, but she had to live with the hostility and try to shield the children from their behavior including the lack of interest once they weren't given custody. It wasn't easy.
I never knew my father. He didn’t ever contact us or pay child support even through my parents had been married. He ran off with a 16 year old girl when my Mom was pregnant with me. He died when I was 19 and still didn’t reach out to us as he lay dying in the hospital. My point is - give your father a chance, girls, he wants to make amends.
Same here, my father was not in my life at all. I feel this man loves his daughters and wants them in his life. I feel they all should forgive and move on. Try to make the relationship better.
Yea took care of my oldest son he not my boy his mom was between me and the other man but I the one raise him he don't know he not mine but that's the way I keep it I love him with all I have and his real father pass at a young age we all was 19 wen he was born now I'm 44 and May his real dad rest in peace
She definitely did. She was like dad stop I don't want your hugs and kisses but really she was thinking my daddy!!! That's why she started crying after the results. That's the reason he started talking directly to her. They named her properly right after him because she is him all over again.
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Plain and simple, (broke or not) he was there. And I applaud him for that!!
Well said
How come people don't applaud the mothers for being there?
A father being there is a given.
@@wynetteabc Mothers CAN'T deny maternity.. plus they are favored in most court decisions
Yessss bc not too many will do the same
The fact that he stuck around even with his own doubt says a lot. I know dads that know for a fact it’s their child and still leave. I believe he did the best he knew how with what he had.
The man was there them for over 18 years even after he doubt that he is the father, he is a good man and he deserves a chance.
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The most painful part of he keep going and tell bad about the girl I stead of him sitting down with the girl and discuss the issue
But he should never put his family on this way was bad where the trust
@@Saleh70059 n
True
The grandmother should have never told those children he only wanted them for the money.
Right
url0veang3l , eeeeexactly
Grandmothers are always messy, smh
Right! The grandmother probably was mad cus she thought she was gonna get that money lol
I agree 100%. God bless.
The twin energy is so overwhelming. I would hate to argue with both of them in a room, at the same time.
Yeah I'm a twin and that was a bit much. Lol
But add in the sister-cousin and the grandma?!
It's always hilarious when the women men get involved with match their mother's energy. XD Freud would have adored Paternity Court.
@@Cityweaver I'm dying at Freud and PC. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Because yes, yes he would have
Yesssss!
Wonder Twin Powers ALREADY ACTIVATED
YES!! My sister and I are 13 months apart. We have that twin dynamic and our speaking voices are identical. ❤
I really don’t think they’re giving him the credit he deserves even though he says he “knew” they weren’t his, he was still there. Good or bad father he was there and kept a roof over their heads some of us don’t have that
Nah we don’t need no bad fathers if you gonna chose to father them weather they his or not he needs to be a great father!
Good thing this man is good
Being a good father us better than having a bad father.
They are so u greatful and rude
I'm gonna be honest from what i saw i think this man did the best he knew but sadly didn't know much.
That's my take on it i feel like he really love them but didn't know how to show it. And for the money stuff are they really blaming him for being a single dad and struggling with money?
He's not perfect and that's not what i'm trying to say. All i'm saying is that he tried with the little tools and knowledge he had.
Exactly!
He was fighting his demons the whole time, especially when the mom died. They said he started drinking. They were acting out, cause their mom gone. The household was probably a mess.
He jst thought he ws raising someone else's kids he jst handled it the wrong or the best way he could.
Family could have stepped in to help with 2 young motherless girls. Maybe he moved nearer to his mother.
He was overjoyed to hear that result. They should forgive him and embrace the present.
Yep. Doubt is a demon too.
That's why the truth sets us free. I hope if something like this happens again that he is more proactive in getting the truth.
@@alishashadows9599 i like that "doubt is a demon". That's so true
Right. Everybody was mourning but they taking it out on him like he invincible.. he dam sure didn’t plan on being a single dad with twin girls while also losing his wife 🤦🏿♀️
The cousin: *“I was there, I was there... not when you conceived but I was there.”* Thanks for the precision. 🤣
She was there
Next level co-signing 🤣
🤣🤣🤣
I watched it happen
😂
That daughter with the shortest hair really grinded my gears! She couldn’t say one positive thing about the man that took her in with doubt & raised her. I think he tried his best as a dad. They seem well raised & that’s because of him. She aggravated me when she told him to be quiet & quit making mistakes. We’re human!! Nobody gets it right all the time.
She is hurting too. They need healing.
@@kellharris2491 that doesn't give her an excuse to be untoward
Yes!!!!!
Yep & she his twin basically got his whole name lol
She was very disrespectful but I think she has been through a lot. Their mama bought a man to live in her basement.
Mr.Eggleston still was there although he had doubts
Likely for the money...
$900 couldnt raise two girls, people need to stop.
That part!! I'm a little disturbed with that one twin.
TheKing's Daughter People do more for less
@@thekingsdaughter6525 it's better than nothing at all
Unfortunately the young lady who is mad has some personal issues outside her dad that she has to address with professional help.
Will Jones
Yes, you took the words right out of my mouth.
She really need to address that issue ASAP...
absolutely!
Yes!! My thoughts exactly!! She's hurting inside & I believe that there is more to her pain than just her relationship with her father. Especially with losing her mother. I hope she gets the support she needs 😊
Hurt does that. But notice after a little time passed and she was able to process everything, she didn't pull away. She willingly accepted his hug and embraced him too. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Yea i think she wants things they cant really afford and i think she likes girls so she needs a little help but for really it is hard buying a pair of jays for one kid amagine 2 at the same time hmmmmm
They look just like his mother but in a lighter complexion. I’m glad they found the truth and can actually heal.
Dig yo make up......but yes they do look like his moma right on that part
But she was the one most emotional when the results were announced
I'm glad that he knows the truth now, because I can certainly understand how he had doubts all those years. Apparently, the mother was "playing" the other man, making him think they were his as the Cousin said the mother continued to have him send her money.
$900 a month in child support, even 10 years ago, is nothing for supporting a couple of kids.
@@marysmith5003 With all those girls did to run the Dad down they didn't stop to think they were lucky he didn't have some other woman there with her six kids to deal with. They sure were hateful to him.
The dad seems to be a decent guy. I pray that they find peace.
Thats a good man. He did his best!! It must have been hard for him too. Girls show gratitude!
Tamara Holt preach!
That little boy half of this set of twins got on my last nerve!
Agreed
He didn't do his best. He could have cleared paternity doubt at birth, and raised them without any supposed doubt or wrestling with emotions that weren't even necessary. These men do not get a pass for half-hearted "parenting" based on ficticious doubt.
LQL How is it fictional when the cousin verified that their mother had a white sugar daddy and her mother told a family member that he was not the father. He was also going by what the doctor said. Not everyone can afford the test.
Im confused..... No verbal abuse.... No mistreatment.... Just lack of funds!!!!
The judge shoul've checked them. And the words that did hurt them were in his PRIVATE diary!!!
Yep i see why he's frustrated there's no respect. My parents are horrible but i always respected them
They also overheard him telling relatives they were not his kids. I would be upset too.
Those are always the ones....I have a fb friend who literally HATES his mother...She never hit him...she didn't degrade him...and even though he's a grown ma ...She bought his car and home.... but any little thing can send him off into a She never loved me rant...
It wasn't just in his private diary he decided to announce to the family that he wasn't the father while they were there.
Listen to the testimony he had reason to think, what he thought
I knew he was their father because the girls are just as mouthy as he is 😂
Renee H thanks for ruining it
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YUP!!!😁😁😁
And the one with the shorter hair as stubborn as he is too. Lol
@@michaelinemanqindi1205 yeah she's to busy trying to be a man, when she's a lady
Sometimes people just don't realise that the most important thing of having a father is "having him around as a father"
Know
So true
So true!!!!
To be honest the love of a father towards his daughters is the coolest kind of love
Wow 👏I really don't have 🥲🥲🥲🥲
How does it help those kids by telling them that their Dad only wanted them when money was added to the equation? Some folks need to just sthu sometimes. Use some common sense when you are dealing with children.
She was the one who wanted them for the money🤔
@@ayinkemartins1423 EXACTLY! I know too many granny's who keep babies to get a check.
Len Halz Exactly. I'm sure she said it to hurt him, however she was definitely hurting the kids more than him!
Jazzybelle A lot of my in general.
Exactly
I think the judge was eager to read the result, she forgot the line this DNA was prepared by the DNA Diagonistic.
Only a PC Addict would catch that 😂
@@bossladiee 😂😂😂😂
for REAL!!
I didn't even notice I was so wanting the result!!! Lol
Yes🤣🤣🤣
The judge lied and tampered with results. The judge didn’t want to be sued lying about the DNA diagnostics.
That one twin aggravating. Girl nobody is perfect either forgive or don’t be bothered with him, but all that you’re doing is too much.
Right because he could have been like most fathers not sign the birth certificate and walked away even if he knew that they mother had passed away he could have kept walking but he made a choice to be in their life like he said he signed because he wasn't sure if those with his kids and he had a thought came over him saying these kids going to need you one day and that was God speaking to him but I don't think you realize that that was the Holy Spirit that was God thank you Jesus
I thought the exact same!!! Noone is perfect not even your dad!!
I thought the same thing! I thought she was really rude to him. Did you see how she pushed him away at the end and wiped his kiss off her cheek like he had “cooties”?! I could see why they didn’t get along at home ... she’s a little on the nasty side. But she should be happy that this man did take her and her sister in after her Mother passed away. He tried his best and apparently his best isn’t good enough for her. Really ungrateful!
Def has personal identity issues...why pick Rodnea as a name tho. set up
Yes they are
I heard the one on the right saying he better be the dad. When he said I cook them dinner every night and make sure they do their homework and that's not enough from their side I shed tears
Yes! She's just big MAD at him but could also be projecting anger from witnessing their mother's death, grandma telling them he only wanted them for money or some other unresolved issues.
U don't have to be the biological father, a father is the one who brings them up.
The real father is supposed to bring em up, unless some natural occurrences, u wrong for that(+_+)(*_*)
So true
But anyone can be a dad..
No you don’t have to be the biological father to take care of a child but you should be. There may come a time when you have a biological child of your own and that child deserves to have it all and shouldn’t have to share the resources that you as a man have acquired with the child of another man and that was birthed by a woman that’s not your mother. Men should stop taking care of children that are not biologically theirs, it is unfair to your children and teaches irresponsible women that they can continue to have babies by men that do not stick around.
but the father who brings them up should actually be their biologicol father
He was there! Even when he doubt so be happy for that much. A lot of kids do not have that. Money do not proof happiness and being a parent. Spoil young generation always think you can buy Love.
helen levy they sound kinda ungrateful to me
They are.
Agreed
So true!
@@helenlevy5952 He was only there after the mother died and then kinda half assed it because his doubts then he shows how he really feels at their party by telling people their not his kids
When the judge smiled I already new he was their father...
She's just the sweetest my fav
Me too
I was so happy.
She rarely gives it away like that.
Yeah for the first time , she killed the suspense 😅😅
This made me cry !
I'm so happy for them all....he's their daddy..
And now they can make up for lost times...I'm so happy for them..makes me cry !
They’re also still traumatized by losing their mom at such a young age. Paternity court counselors should help them too
Yes she died in front of them
I'm wondering how she dead
Judy Cohall I understand dat I lost mines
Tricia Wilson Mottley She had a heart attack
Sadly their mom is gone, they should enjoy the dad they have today. Especially now that the truth is out.
I was happy when this case was over. It was exhausting.
It was
Kea B right! I’m fast forwarding 🙄
I do not vkame him for his doubts! I use to tell my kids, when they were younger, silence is key! They no nothing about that
Made me tired!
It was exhausting emotionally to get to the end.
It's sad that this man doesn't get enough credit for what he did... being in their lives and doing the much he could for these girls. Especially the one with the short hair. It could have been worse for them if wasn't there at all. I hope they realize that. Good man (not perfect) but deserve all the respect for doing what he could with the little he had.
One of the twin has a problem girl you already lost your mom love your dad and be happy
Adiya Alfonso Yh the dad that’s denying them 🤣😂😂
@@KingRose339 he had doubts and may be he was going through tough times and started talking nonsense and I think that girl has his character, lol she felt bad after dad's kiss and wipe her kick but I pray God help them repair the relationship
A lot of times young people and children turn grief into anger.
Adiya Alfonso
Yeeeeeeeeeees girl, you couldn't have said it any better.
Sometimes they dont deserve forgiveness. If someones not good for me, I kick them out of my life and let them know it. A lot of parents have a lot of growing up to do.
They overspeak so much I can barely understand the story
I said, “Stop it!!!!” a few times to the TV! 😂
Gurl EYee what?
The story was patchy. The daughters had no evidence of neglect.
It was clear that there was plenty of room for improvement on the dad’s part. His mother told him.
Twins. I have a set...it's what they do. :-)
Bruh, he is a real man, he took in these kids in raised them while doubting if he is their father
Bloods thicker...his genes..attracted him to them...
And the whole time he resented them for it.
He doubted his own children and you call him a real man?
@@Anicia25 . He doubted because of the mother.. if a woman is promiscuous what do you expect. He tried to do the right thing even with doubts which was why the relationship with him and the girls was so strained
@@Divagirl444 from what he said, doctors were partly at fault for the doubts, the twins were born at 7 months pregnancy ( 7 months after "their first time" on the mom's birthday )
The short-haired twin is dealing with more than “this” issue.
Boyfriend issues I guess
uh oh
Yes, her mother died in front of her, her father is denying her, so she’s dealing with trauma, abandonment, rejection and pain.
@@annac6701 exactly
You are absolutely right Miss Tee.
On another note they used to call my grandmother Miss Tee.💜
This proves a black woman can have any complexion baby! That's why we need to get over the skin color!
IKR Them girls look just like him except for the color.
PERIOD
Amen to that one
@@mia1libra
I agree with what you ladies have said here we must get pass complexion as evidence of paternity. When I looked at those girls head and eyes I said why are you all in court. Man those girls are yours!
I'm a living witness to the complexion can't be trusted. I'm darker than shoe polish😁
My wife is chocolate. But our son's complexion is light. He looks exactly like me just light and has my mother's/his grand mother's eyes. When he was born I laughed saying God has a sense of humour. I can remember my little niece saying her aunt had a white baby😂 He got a little darker.
My sister's oldest son is the same. She is chocolate the father was very dark but my nephew's complexion is light. My son and my nephew favor my mother's father, their great grand father, very tall and light but all the children and grand children have my mother's facial structure (big cat eyes and high cheek bones, her strong genes). I wasn't fond of that part growing up as boy having eyes like woman😶
But you can't mistake us. When I looked at my son and I saw eyes I was like on yeah! That's my mother all day.
@@mia1libra the mix race factor could be true, but not factual because there are dark skin couples in Africa with no European ancestral genes but yet still they give birth to light skin child.
I should’ve e waited to watch this till later. Those two have given me a headache this morning.
Stephanie Parish , yeeeeeees. Just disrespectful to the fullest.
Stephanie Parish 😂🤣😂💀
Lol
It's evening where I am.will take a painkiller and go to bed
@@NicholeLT well according to them he had his homeboys over drinking with him almost every day and they had to beg teachers for school supplies. They also said he would just dismiss their feelings and they were never allowed to get over the loss of their mother (which is easy to see). So I do not think it was disrespect, I think it was more uncontrolled emotional bursts because they were finally allowed to let their feelings out.
I figured when he said 7 months that he was it cuz twins very rarely go full term
Yep cause they took mine at 8 months
Ikr, I was screaming at my phone
Was thinking the same thing.
You're right! I didn't even catch that until I read your comment.
Me too!
I am YOUR DADDY for REAL now took me out....LMBO! Blessings to this family!
😂😂😂
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@@kira3560 j
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He said it like he wasn't for the past 18 years, lol... Who waits that long to find out if they have doubts? Smh
From looking at the girls nose and cheeks, they look exactly like that dude.
At first I doubt it. Then I looked at the nose and said bingo their his children.
Exactly on the first sight i saw it tooo😊
The girls look like the man 100%
That's what I said, they look just like him.
That's what I thought. They look so much like him.
He's more of a dad than my deadbeat dad who lived less than a mile away from me🤷🏾♀️
Latonya's Bonnet they are ungrateful, he stays home n cooks n all that n that's not enough, the man has issues but it's as if they want to punish him.
@@tenten530 I agree!! They need to forgive him and move on! I'm not saying what he did was right but life is too short.
This is rubbish none sense, how can a father do such
@@tenten530 I agree as well 💯💯
Guuurl, he does not deserve you
Jesus take the wheel!!! This man did the best he could.
Right, they so ungrateful especially raising twins.
Very ungrateful period!!! But children see things differently than adults so the angry one may really have these feelings that he was awful to her but i suspect she is dealing with MUCH BIGGER issues than just a daddy who made some bad parenting decisions. I wish them both well and to learn to love and forgive their daddy
Yea exactly 💯
Ungrateful
@@jenniferkunkel2607 I hope as they mature that they can see this through a different lens. Forgiveness will lead to more peace and happiness. Counseling might help.
So many times i have seen it and i cry all over. How are they now
We should learn to appreciate even the little things in life,this man is a good man,
Alar kumbe even kenyans watch the show.... Maajabu,... I thought was the only one
@@eddeddie493 even ugandans cheii
Forgive Him Girls...He took care of the 2 of You for 18 years...Not knowing that he was your Father...may Blessings continue to Follow you and your Father....Amen, Amen & Amen
Amen
Amen.
Great Amen to that.
Well not only that it wasn't his fault what he heard the mom say.I wish him well.
Tony bubonic EXACTLY
I know he's glad that even though he had his doubts, he was still there. He didn't miss out on eighteen years of his kids life.
I’m so glad that the results were a positive outcome. Go and be a family❤️
Their mother left a massive whole in their hearts...
They really miss her and the father with so many unanswered question..
I don’t care what nobody say this man loves his children ... period annnnd they look just like him
Love isn't enough. Love doesn't matter when there isn't food on the table or clothes on your back.
Same head shape and facial features. Them his chirren!
Looks like it's not His fault he has dought 👁️👁️ Mama was a rolling stone.facts.what a mess.🙄
Those girls look nothing like Rodney.
Check out how she wiped his kiss from her face 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Early on a Sunday? Y’all tryna make me miss church...the devil is a lie
😂
Tell me about it, I was in the middle of singing I AM HEALED by Donald Lawrence when the notification popped up 😂
😁
You bet not
@@evolved93 Get to church... Im at work i wish i can be there
They look just like him
Forgive and move forward! Amen
The twin whose not the daddy's guirl is going to ger a good shock when sge finds how tough being a parent is. No parent is perfect
She is a lesbian...most likely won't be a parent
@Cathy You are so right!!
steve mayala 😂💀 ouch
That's strange that one is and one isn't.
A study has to be done on twins like that.
🔬🔬🔬🔬🔬🔬
Maybe she was closer to her momma & was relatively more devastated when she had to leave all she knew before and move and never bonded that well
I hope the girls can realize what he did for them, even with him thinking he wasn’t their dad. When their mom passed, they could’ve ended up in foster care or worse, if he hadn’t been there. Some people are better parents than others but some literally are figuring things out as they go. I hope they can understand that and get past the anger.
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WOW Luv ur all
They implied he didn’t do much other than provide a home. One said their coach bought them things
They need to realize that all parents make mistakes along the way. Sad that he didn't do dna sooner if he suspected that they were not his. Doesn't mean how he raised them would have been any different, but he wouldn't have lived years with doubt about paternity. I hope that they can learn to forgive and live in the present moving forward.
They ungrateful
So true the one that said they don't get along seem to me to be the one that takes after him
There's always one that is more strong will and she's bitter with him ,but like you said he still took care of them.
So forgiveness is needed and thank God for him at lease now they have one living parent start over and enjoy one another.
That angel on his shoulder was trying to tell him a little more than he thought. Bless them
The angel on his shoulder was from DNA Diagnostics.
@@284mbp 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 i aint know angels work in DNA labs LOL
These twins are so overwhelming and speak at the same time !
I've yet to meet a parent that did it ALL right, myself included.. now that they know, it's time to let go of what can't be fixed/changed, and form a new relationship!
Amen Sis!!!🙌🙌
Exactly!
I Agee
mzdeeva Very humble of you to admit but as far as I’m concerned..my Mum DID..My Dad on the other hand didn’t.
No one is perfect and he actually was a standup guy these two are not his only kids and he raised them alone of course things aren't going to be perfect but the fact that he was there from the beginning with two girls is a beautiful thing. It's hard to raise kids let alone two girls. I believe he did his best regardless of what he thought in his head. I pray they grow together from this.
Whether the mad daughter knows it or not she has an attitude just like her Daddy 😁🤷♀️😂
Maybe she decided to be boyish so that there would be one of them to stand and voice out for the two of them, uhmm you know for independence and support
@@nazarenejohnbacunawa9250 yes, I'm thinking something has changed on her brain due to her trauma now she thinks she's going to show her daddy how to be a better man and father😭😭
True
And she looks the most like him
In fact she made me know he was the father because they behave the same way
The granny was wrong for telling them that acting like $900 is alot of money for twins. That ain't even rent money lady!!!
Exactly! That planted a bug against their daddy from day one
I agree 💯 ! I get $700 in cs a month for 5 kids :-( he acts like he does so much for them to .. he only gets them when it's convenient for him and when I say something he always says well I pay support for them , it's sad ..
Wait do yall know how old they are 900 was alot when they were young
@@lindseyspeicher4246 sad
If he’s not using the money to provide for them, but using it to supply his life habits and entertain guest over then it’s enough for him to be content with
I don't care for all of the drama but the wisdom the judge imparts is really beautiful. The were beautiful too!
I wish that the judge would've spoken up for the Father when the twins wasn't allowing him to speak.
She doesn't speak up for men
I feel Happy for My fellow Twins and Happy the man is there father may God Almighty Bless Them all Tears of Joy
Odion Or Eghosa Twins 👯 oh my goodness! Gang up kids
It kinda feels like it doesn't matter how much or how little he does for them they still won't see him as enough. Telling him to be quiet and stop making mistakes?? He's human. We all make mistakes. I don't think that they fully understand that being a single parent is hard. Being a single parent to twins is even harder. Being a single parent to twins who lost their mom and are grieving and probably angry is even harder than that and mistakes are going to happen. Am I saying that Mr. Eggleston is perfect? No, there is no such thing as a perfect parent but it's obvious that he loves them and I don't think the girls gave him a fair and fighting chance
I agree with what you said. Wouldn’t it be something if the twins had twins and become single parents with no help. Then they will realize how hard it is to be a single parent when you have to buy two of everything and that’s not including rent, utilities, car payment, phone bill, car insurance, food and anything else that’s needed.
he does not need to apologize he's been there he was confused because the mom was talking to another man but he's been there from day one he's a good man those kids are very blessed to have him in their lives let the past go and just love your dad and hold him I don't have my daddy he's in heaven 😭😂😥
Well said!
Samantha Olivas Kids! They have no idea that parents are just born with all the answers or skills to be the “perfect” parent. They forget parents are just people with feelings, fears & mistakes. He is a good man to have that doubt for many years, but never to deny taking care of twins or abandoning them.
Me & my little sister were abandoned first by our birth mother then by a stepfather who left us in foster care to rot. Thank God we were adopted after being removed in an emergency situation & saved from being violently abused. The girls need to be thankful their dad never left them even though he was filled with doubts & he loved them & obviously still does. Respect is a two way road. They have much healing to be done. God bless them all.
This episode is sooooo emotional. Brought tears to my eyes. Happy at outcome. The results, the hug, the acceptance, after fight with reality, as well as the apology. Great judge with a heart like a Goddess.
These girls need to seek counseling ASAP. I'm not making excuses for him but sheesh. He could've walked away like so many of them but he didn't. My mom couldnt afford nikes when we were growing up so I became the 1 college grad on both sides of my family so I could afford them for her and I. They are young but so immature and I hope they find healing because he didnt abuse or neglect them
2intriguing1 He wasn’t all in because of his doubt. They only had him. I understand their anger & so does he. I hope they heal. People aren’t perfect.
Totally agree!! 💯
Amen to that
My parents could afford Nikes & a lot of other things. We got $25 of a present(s) for our bday & Christmas when my brother & I were teens growing up in the '80s. We paid for our cars & college (well, I did as my brother was killed before that), etc. We were thankful for what we got; I swear it helped make us better human beings.
P.S. My daughter would do ANYTHING have had her father be in her life after our divorce (she was 8 yrs old when he abandoned her) instead of having a new family that eventually that made it seem like he replaced his 'daddy's girl.'. I would have loved to respectfully co-parent without any child support at all (I didn't get any but time would have been more than enough if he had given it to her).
2intriguing1 Yes indeed. They are way too harsh on him!
Rodnea needs to chill man. He may not have even been in the BALLPARK of perfect, but he still stepped up through all the doubt. So chill. Stop being an impudent brat. Like, yesterday.
Emily Boeshart I AGREE!!!
There was no need for doubt when he could have tested them at birth. Why are people so willing to exalt men who do their best to skirt parenting?
Bums with excuses!
LQL Not everyone can afford the test. He has said from the beginning that he had doubts. He was going by the mother’s actions and what the doctor said.
I think they look just like him, he's just darker
True, they do resemble him.
True! But still to this day white folks don't want to believe they came from the Africans!!! Some know, the rest still scared and ignorant! Lol
True they resemble. I am happy they are given a chance for a new beginning. All the best and may the love of Jesus bind them together forever.
Their upper lid resemble his
Agree with you God bless him and all family on this world only one point he should not put he is kids on this way hurt them am not the father 😠
"Be quiet and stop making mistakes". The audacity to tell that to a man who raised you despite him truly believing you weren't even his child. They basically told him to stop being human. Entitled spoiled brats they are.
If you went through what they've been through you would feel the same way
@@SNOWQueen87-v1g . No I wouldn't
People have been through worse and they still appreciate and respect their parents. It wasn’t like he was missing in their lives, probably his income wasn’t much to meet their expectations. Let’s admonish them to show gratitude. Some fathers run from their responsibilities even when there’s no doubt about the paternity of their children.
I totally agree. They feed each othes bad attitude.
AGREED!
The one twin is very ANGRY. I pray things work out for their family🙏🏿
Yes the one with the red hair
The one without earing.. please calm down
Because she's fighting another battle that has nothing to do with her dad
Never Knew 👀
Never Knew , So you noticed too? Could that have prompted their difficult relationship and the paternity denials? The dad seemed to have regretted running his mouth to the family.
How could he do better if he tried his best? I understand where he is coming from. It seems like these girls are looking for more tangible things.
Most men are lost plus he was a single parent plus probably on top of that trying to heal
Plus they're girls and you know how we can be but I applaud him for not running that's where my heart sank mist men run but he stayed he wasn't perfect but he didn't have to stay give props where due and he's due that much
How do you know he tried his best were you there 🤦🏾♀️
Rochey C Him being there is better than a lot of men seen on PC. Additionally, how do you know he didn’t? Were you there darling?! 🧐
Meohmy89 Agreed
Miss Carter I didn’t say he didn’t try his best though read better 🤣😂😂
Their pain began at 8 when they lost their Mom. No school supplies or even a better relationship with him would have healed their broken hearts. I'm hurt for them
Shadia Powell you said perfectly
@@AhmadKhan-jg1mm They lashed out at him, because he was the closest person to do so. I hope that as adults they get counseling to work on their grief.
They arent the only people on earth who lost their parent..... they need to grow up and learn to be grateful
You can see that he really thought he wasn't the father and when he found he was - he was SO happy! This man for 18 years thought that for sure he wasn't the father and still was there cuz they needed one. Now you need to give him credit for it!
All I see is he's a good man! Period
Jnr Haille Sellasie
Amen
Jnr Haille Sellasie all he wanted was that $900. He was living in their mothers mothers basement
Most men would run off
Who else is crying watching this?🙋🏾♀️ I tried to stay mad like the girls were but my heart wouldn't let me. I hope they forgive and start from where they are.
I was crying too!!!
I cried after watching it.
I admit i cried
It's heart touching
@@adewaleabubakar1620 you sef reach here😂
The twins are obviously hurt not only by the fact that they've lost their mom but by the fact that their dad doubted that they were his
Agreed! So many are saying that they are ungrateful, but you hit the point precisely!
Every action sparked a reaction, the doubt was the caused that makes a bad situation worse. All is not lost, they have the chance of starting over.
Angela Graham Both of you hit the nail on the head.
But they could understand especially if the cousin said the same thing that their mother was messing with a white man and that's what made him think that it was a white man because he knew she was messing with a white man too so they should not be that angry
@@tinabethea7868 he knew she was messing with a white man so he should have done what the girls said and took them as babies to get tested. Instead of letting he doubt sit in the pit of his stomach and grow to make this end result. They had all right to be angry.
For me this was the most beautiful episode, the most emotional, they are beautiful people.
Does anyone else hate when you scrolling deep in the comments section then a ad pop up the it take you back to the top
Johnny Q that’s why you pause the video at the end and read lol that’s what I do then it won’t do that.
FE4R _. That just happened to me 😭
Hate it
That’s frustrating
Lol just happened
I'm praying for healing and forgiveness for this family.
The ending made me cry. I wish my dad cared.
Sorry love.. Sorry about your dad
Hugs and love to you❤️
I say he should've gotten the credit he deserves for stepping up regardless of his doubts. It's hard taking care of one baby let alone 2 at a time and alone. 👏 Applause to you Dad!! 💯
The fact that he stepped up to be their dad even though he doubted paternity says a lot....he may not have done everything right but he tried!
Yes he did try!
It's sad that they didn't see it that way
@@sylviaruth5008 jsksjwuzbbbbTaA
@@dexterayres9093 ?? Oh well.
loving the natural me hi gal
I love the dad. Whatever it is, thank you for raising them.
Please... 900 dollar aint worth 2 kids that you dont want!
Yeah it is all they hear is money. Spend 300 on them n the rest in his pocket. 600 bucks for free
You will be surprised how men are when it comes to kicking money out or getting money when it comes to children. I have a child's father whom does everything in his power to put 400 bucks back in his pocket. Including trying to take full custody
900 dollars ain't but a drop in the bucket to care for 2 kids.. Especially if you aren't getting government help
southern miss back then it was cheaper, and different states are cheaper to live in
Whelp it cost 200k to raise one child the year the were born excluding extras like prom, car etc ... Now it's 260k per child without goverment assistance so 900 bucks is nothing
He should get credit for living with the doubt and still being there anyway! He was always their.
They look exactly like their grandmother who is his mother.
That was natural dna...first hand.Not forgetting their dads..head n Eyes...
Exactly
They look like him soon as I seem them
Sav Atl Yes, and grandmother is not at his behavior!
Also my grandmother 😂
She was so mad at him she wiped off his kisses. 😂😂😂
Lol😂
terrible
My 2 year old cousin does that too 😂
I noticed at the end she was more accepting of his hugs. Hopefully, they will resolve matters.
and pushed his hand off of her shoulder she is hella mad but he dis some not so nice things she will not be so forgiving like the daddy's girl one.
That twin connection has every thing doubled. They do everything in sync. They are both talking at the same time. I had to turn my volume down
Ooh so true..😅
😂😂😂😂
Triplets, their dad too 😂😂
😆
@@Skylaralfred 😃😃😃😃😃😃
That was great I was pulling for this man the whole show you can see the love and connection clear as day
Thumbs up to the jugde if you believe what she said : "sometimes people can only do better when they know better"
That's so true
But it's also an excuse to excuse inexcusable behavior. It is used as a cop-out to not apologize; and to ignore the past abuse.
He was immediately happy to find out that he is the father. Made me happy too. It will take some time for the girls to forgive
I'm so happy the DNA result was favourable to the man. He really tried his best raising up those girls despite his suspicion they could not be his biological daughters, he didn't defile them either, thank God he has no cause to bite his fingers for any wrong he might have done them, save the fact, that he couldn't do much, it's not easy being a single parent. I pray they will all heal fast & love ones another passionately
After 30 years of counseling families, I must say that the twin with the short hair needs to admit her faults and shortcomings. She is so broken that her only reaction is to tear apart anything that resembles being restored. It’s impossible for one to move forward while dragging someone else in the ground.
My thought was that she cannot heal, move forward and find happiness in her own life until she forgives. He may not have been a perfect father, but they were probably not perfect teens, either. We all know how difficult parenting teens can be and it must be a challenge for a single parent. They needed grief counseling when they lost their mom. Hopefully, they seek counsel and move forward.
Facts
Felt sorry for the twins and their father. Even though he had doubts of their partenity..He went the extra mile when their mother died.He never abandon them.He❤ Loved them wholeheartedly.
@@lahawk2931 yes they just need some family counsling.
I agree. That’s Rodnea, she’s a very angry young lady but I think it’s mostly because she’s so hurt.
i legit just cried, happy tears for their outcome....their mother and i share a birthday8/4
i wish them the best
She wiped his kiss off🥺
Im glad he WAS the father..twins are born early..
Yes, but he did not know that. He did the best he could.
Being twins doesn't mean they'll have the same personality and this is a clear case. One is easily loving but the other is tougher and that's how they roll.
He doubted but he was there and you can see the love in some unspoken words.
I hope they can chart a better course together.
That super angry twin got on my last nerve. She is the dominate twin no doubt. She need to SHUT UP and listen sometime. I could be wrong but, she struggling with something else as well.
What u mean struggling with something else? I saw some other ppl make same presumption, what does that mean??
The other twin stated she was a 'daddy's girl'. I believe that maybe the twin that showed more affection from the very beginning towards the father would get more affection in return, creating a closer bond. The other twin became resentful and her anger only helped push the dad away. When you come in the door and one child turns to you to embrace you and the other stands back and glares at you, as they did when the result was read, it's easy to see which one would get more interaction. That has probably been going on for years but the one twin can't see her part in it.
@@tastx3142 actually that makes a whole sense, I was suprised when d judge read the result how she repelled him but minutes before the results were read she said he better be our dad, like she wants him to be her dad but she is carrying too much hate to let him be her dad... Interesting
@@fluxybaby337 she's obviously struggling with her sexuality , and I think you knew exactly what Arizona Phoenix was saying.
Homosexuality, it seems
I just love Judge Lauren Lake ! She is my favorite and most inspirational Judge who displays such a real and passionate love -
for her work and those who are in need of her help and wisdom... TO MY FAVORITE JUDGE ; always stay real and continue to be blessed... This world needs more Lauren Lake's to help keep things balanced...
This really had me in tears. He honestly loves his girls
By looking at the faces you know directly he's their father a biological father no doubt..
They look just like him.
Ooh yes they look alike
so true! The facial structure's just the same as his!
Exactly.
Yeess they look alike
I couldn't believe after court that they told him that HE needed to quit making mistakes 🤔
Neither of the twins is perfect, because none of us are. Why were they reading a private journal?They seem a little self-centered and need to mature before they have children of their own and realize that it isn't an easy job, especially when you have other people making denigrating comments about you like the grandmother did. I worked with a lady whose sister died and the siblings were all fighting because they wanted the children because of the SS benefits and other benefits, even though some of them lived out of state and barely knew the children. The judge awarded her custody because she had always been in the children's lives, but she had to live with the hostility and try to shield the children from their behavior including the lack of interest once they weren't given custody. It wasn't easy.
You touch peoples money, you touch their heart. Of course, I'm being sarcastic.
He could have just walked away...several times but didn’t. Even if he couldn’t or didn’t provide much he was still there for them.
And Deserves an Applause for Simply Being there
I never knew my father. He didn’t ever contact us or pay child support even through my parents had been married. He ran off with a 16 year old girl when my Mom was pregnant with me. He died when I was 19 and still didn’t reach out to us as he lay dying in the hospital. My point is - give your father a chance, girls, he wants to make amends.
Same here, my father was not in my life at all. I feel this man loves his daughters and wants them in his life. I feel they all should forgive and move on. Try to make the relationship better.
E B : So sorry 🤗🤗🤗
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That's f*cking sad :(
They looked like him, to me - long faces....BUT we have seen how that goes sometimes....
He the daddy i bet them 👀 both have
@@bel8774 yezzz!
I still believe the Pappy is the white man!
Yea took care of my oldest son he not my boy his mom was between me and the other man but I the one raise him he don't know he not mine but that's the way I keep it I love him with all I have and his real father pass at a young age we all was 19 wen he was born now I'm 44 and May his real dad rest in peace
@@johnnyhughes5534 God bless you!
U can C one of the twins is very angry, she needs alot of therapy, to get that hate out of her heart..
Yes her heart is more hardened towards him, hopefully she’ll ease up
Understandably....
Yesss
She may have issues with men in general
Was she sexually abused? And that's why she kept saying, you wasn't there 🔊🤔🎧
She keep on pushing him away like she don't want to be hugged but she desperately does
She definitely did. She was like dad stop I don't want your hugs and kisses but really she was thinking my daddy!!! That's why she started crying after the results. That's the reason he started talking directly to her. They named her properly right after him because she is him all over again.