Narcissists are just boring and miserable people. They pump it up at the beginning but they just can’t keep it going. They are very lazy. They KNOW you deserve so much better. The only way to guard yourself against them is to LOVE and BELIEVE in yourself. It’s only the low self esteem people who get stuck with them.
😢WoW! This hit like a ton of bricks, and I left him no contact 3 yrs now...😢😢😢. Respectfully Leon, "Thank you, Sir!"...my intuition already told me, I just chose not to listen and take heed. 🙏🏾 #lessonlearned
It’s very noticeable cause they tell on themselves you just got pay attention cause they try to be slick wit it 😂they talk out loud to themselves and they be nice and loving when they want something then after they get it back to torture treatments is what I call it😊
My husband treated me super highly compared to everyone else from 14years old we were best friends, stuck through everything thick n thin, everything we experienced was the best. We traveled we had "plans".. the moment we had our first baby girl at 25yrs old everything did a 180. He became his father. Cold. Unloving. Irritatable. Lacked interest. I became enemy number 1 and treated like sum of the earth. It ruined me.😢
Very often this is a pivotal event for a narcissist and the victim. Why? It has to do with a power/control shift. He knows there's a high likelihood that you're not going anywhere after the first child. Having said that, after so much abuse and catching on to his pathological pattern of behaviours you get completely sick of it, pack your bags, and take off. You need your peace, clarity, stability, and someone that will be loyal to you. As a healthy and functional individual, you don't need to be around a lying, conniving, treacherous, and worthless scum bag. Leave the relationship before your thought processes become incredibly impaired due to all the gaslighting.
@@leonrwalkerjrwhen you would meet different women have any woman touch your soul did she catch on to you early on because I knew from the beginning the game my ex would pull it felt like checkers an he would do something but I was on it an he would smile and say you smart you smart what do you think of a woman you couldn’t love bomb an play the lil games wit I use to hear my ex whisper at times it’s an illusion I never said anything to him 😮❤
Hey Leon so glad to see your channel still growing you definitely going in deeper so much to unpack it’s like they multiplying like gremlins out here. We need to be aware 🙏🏾
Brotha Leon we made it inside. I got us put out again but we were able to return where we were prior. I like this video; its a great example of why having sex on the first date can be a bad idea, unless you are intentionally looking for a one night stand. No judgment here.........
And Narcs cannot communicate for nothing terrible conversationist you literally have to carry the conversations and they don’t have anything to talk about just the same things over and over. Narcs current supply is back on the dating app ! Exactly 6 months ! Like all the others ! Makes sense why the narc tried to hoover me at the same event that supply was at, I knew it was the end for that supply as it was the serving time the narc did it in front of the supply striking my arm and coming to stand next to me. Basically using me me to hurt the supply ! But I was aware ! Poor supply looked confused . I think the worst part is watching all these supply’s being tossed aside, lucky for me I rejected the narc so I get to watch all this from the side lines and I’m grateful I did reject the narc it’s carnage to watch.
And Narcs cannot communicate for nothing terrible conversationist you literally have to carry the conversations and they don’t have anything to talk about just the same things over and over.
Narcissists are just boring and miserable people. They pump it up at the beginning but they just can’t keep it going. They are very lazy.
They KNOW you deserve so much better.
The only way to guard yourself against them is to LOVE and BELIEVE in yourself.
It’s only the low self esteem people who get stuck with them.
😢WoW! This hit like a ton of bricks, and I left him no contact 3 yrs now...😢😢😢. Respectfully Leon, "Thank you, Sir!"...my intuition already told me, I just chose not to listen and take heed. 🙏🏾
#lessonlearned
99% of what a narcissist does is manipulative. That's just a given.
It’s very noticeable cause they tell on themselves you just got pay attention cause they try to be slick wit it 😂they talk out loud to themselves and they be nice and loving when they want something then after they get it back to torture treatments is what I call it😊
You put the nail in the coffin !!! A living nightmare
My husband treated me super highly compared to everyone else from 14years old we were best friends, stuck through everything thick n thin, everything we experienced was the best. We traveled we had "plans".. the moment we had our first baby girl at 25yrs old everything did a 180. He became his father. Cold. Unloving. Irritatable. Lacked interest. I became enemy number 1 and treated like sum of the earth. It ruined me.😢
Very often this is a pivotal event for a narcissist and the victim. Why? It has to do with a power/control shift. He knows there's a high likelihood that you're not going anywhere after the first child. Having said that, after so much abuse and catching on to his pathological pattern of behaviours you get completely sick of it, pack your bags, and take off. You need your peace, clarity, stability, and someone that will be loyal to you. As a healthy and functional individual, you don't need to be around a lying, conniving, treacherous, and worthless scum bag. Leave the relationship before your thought processes become incredibly impaired due to all the gaslighting.
He was no longer number one the baby required more of you and he was probably jealous of the child too. Very sad
I thought so. I needed clarification. Great Video! Thanks man
You’re welcome, Michael. Thank you as well.
Thank you for sharing. This is all spot on!!
You’re welcome. I woke up from a nap and had this on my mind🙏🏾❤️
@@leonrwalkerjryea but what did you do when the new supply wasn’t good enough as you expected 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂❤😊
@@annalove1737 got sick to my MF stomach!! Seriously
@@leonrwalkerjrwhen you would meet different women have any woman touch your soul did she catch on to you early on because I knew from the beginning the game my ex would pull it felt like checkers an he would do something but I was on it an he would smile and say you smart you smart what do you think of a woman you couldn’t love bomb an play the lil games wit I use to hear my ex whisper at times it’s an illusion I never said anything to him 😮❤
So Glad I learnt this Ive been cut n them off quick now. They are a HUGH Waste of time.
Your videos on point Leon 👍🏾
The only way to win pay attention 😄
Perfectly said 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂❤😊
You deserve 100s of thousands of subscribers. Your honesty and depth is really commendable and incredibly helpful.
Hey Leon so glad to see your channel still growing you definitely going in deeper so much to unpack it’s like they multiplying like gremlins out here. We need to be aware 🙏🏾
Pure Fire Bruh!!! Pure Fire!!!
I’m being hoovered although I rejected this Narc.
Brotha Leon we made it inside. I got us put out again but we were able to return where we were prior. I like this video; its a great example of why having sex on the first date can be a bad idea, unless you are intentionally looking for a one night stand. No judgment here.........
And Narcs cannot communicate for nothing terrible conversationist you literally have to carry the conversations and they don’t have anything to talk about just the same things over and over. Narcs current supply is back on the dating app ! Exactly 6 months ! Like all the others ! Makes sense why the narc tried to hoover me at the same event that supply was at, I knew it was the end for that supply as it was the serving time the narc did it in front of the supply striking my arm and coming to stand next to me. Basically using me me to hurt the supply ! But I was aware ! Poor supply looked confused . I think the worst part is watching all these supply’s being tossed aside, lucky for me I rejected the narc so I get to watch all this from the side lines and I’m grateful I did reject the narc it’s carnage to watch.
Very true
What happens in the case where narc doesn’t have anything and uses all your. Car, place to live, money etc ?
And Narcs cannot communicate for nothing terrible conversationist you literally have to carry the conversations and they don’t have anything to talk about just the same things over and over.
They have a lot to talk about in the beginning and when they wanna talk it will be every now and then ❤an they will sit there and ignore you ❤
What if they say " I dont want you anymore. You don't do it for me anymore."
Make them stand on it 💯 and when that person tries to circle back, tell them the same thing 💯 😮
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