My Mother Made me Homeless… so I took HER KIDS, HER HOUSE, HER JOB, HER LIFE - Reddit Podcast
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To the guy who made his mother homeless: First of all, you didn't do that to her. She did it to herself. You didn't do anything except make sure she received the correct consequences for the wicked things she's done. And I disagree that "no one wins." The younger siblings definitely win because they are no longer in the custody of that evil woman. NTA
@@stevekane8358 I had the same suspicion.... do you know this for a fact and if so... how???
OP didn't make her homeless... He basically sent her to prison and tossed away the keys to the cell.
The younger siblings could have depression, which takes a while to go and prob will scar in their memory, in the end we do not know if she’s in jail or not.
Now your just acting entitled
As for the point of the custody of OP's younger siblings, what position is the older sister he mentioned in and would she be willing or able to take any of the minors caught up in all this that can't be placed with members of their paternal families? If that sister grew up fairly stable and well off in the care of her bio dad, it seems like she'd be a pretty good pick for a foster parent.
That first story was the most tragic that I have heard on Reddit reads. I can't even comprehend how a mother could abuse her children like that.
When I heard that story I actually stopped doing anything for 3 minutes and just sat there
You know. My mother did a similar thing to me. (By that, i mean, trying to make up for her mistakes with a bunch of electronics. No, she didnt beat me.. most of the time.. but, she was always working, and left me home alone for a long time as a kid.) Imagine not having any food, and then your mom leaves for a week to fly to paris for her job as a model. Without you. All you can do is drink the ketchup in the fridge.
More common than you think. Its just shut behind closed lips and closed doors.
Because society lets it. After she tried to kill her first baby daddy, she should've been locked up.
She is a mentally unstable, violent psychopath who used her children and SO's as punching bags.
For Story #4, they really could have allowed the photographer to have a plate of food and some water, and a chance to sit down. It's just the right thing to do, and a happy photographer likely means better pictures.
Exactly! I mean, is he even a friend at that point?
‘Begone you feckulant hag and take your misarable and selfish behaviour with you’
This one got me laughing SO HARD BAHAHAHAH
15:30 if anyone wondering
Fr 😂😂
SAAAMMMEEE🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀
I actually feel for the OP in story 1. His mother really ruined his life. Given how well he was doing in college, you know he's smart and capable. She put him into situations that just didn't let him reach his full potential (at the time of this post). While some people can push through the abuse, better themselves and escape, not everyone can. It's really sad when people just succumb to all the bad in their life. I hope he does look into therapy or something to help him feel better about himself, to stop drinking and overall turn his life around.
I wonder if he took her money as well, because if she did, she’s gonna be in trouble when she’s gonna pay the thousands of dollars of tax 😂
same man
As a dude I really feel for him, my mother is very much like this thank fuck my dad won custody.
This guy is a genius he got it all together and saved his siblings from their vile parents
@@lyndawebster6840 Right? It was risky getting them thrown into the foster system but I was relieved that he updated to let every1 know that his siblings are still together and doing well. You're right -- even if he mentioned the abuse his siblings received was less than what he experienced at the hands of their mother, any abuse is unacceptable and it's great he got 'em away from her!!
Story 1: I'm sorry OP and his siblings had to go through all that trauma, I wish them the best of luck.
Story 2: If the wife's cooking is really that bad, I think she either has to take some classes, or resort to microwave meals. A good meal is important, you can't compromise on that just to make sure the wife's feelings aren't hurt.
Story 3: Hey, if that old Karen really did stay quiet after OP scared her off, I'd say he did the neighborhood a massive favor.
Story 4: Normally I'd say that you don't mess with someone's wedding, but the groom here was totally unreasonable. How can you ask a FRIEND to work non-stop for hours with no breaks, and not even arrange some FOOD for him? It sounds like this was not a case of 'Oh sorry I forgot about that' but more like 'I don't care about your conditions, you will work for me'. I can't say OP was in the wrong.
3:05 I never heard you stop to chuckle at anything before! XD
The old lady had it coming. He didn't attack her or anything, just used his theater voice to spook her.
And his words are now my new favorite ones. 😁
Damn...
You are not the jerk. Your mother was beyond heartless. She easily damaged her relationships with her family beyond repair.
She is beyond help.
The guy giving him $250 for photos is nothing. The groom was the jerk. The LEAST they could do was feed and make sure he had something to drink as it was so hot. Taking a 20 minute break after all he had done for the day was nothing. People just don’t get it. People are so ungrateful.
especially the fact the groom didn't have a seat for him. I don't think people would really want to be photographed while eating. Let him take a couple photos of the food then sit down and eat like everyone else. groom was a total jerk
Exactly let the person who is taking photos of an 8 hour event get some food and water. A photographer doesn’t have to take pictures of every moment if you want every moment to be documented then have someone record it instead. You don’t need a lot of pictures of people eating so it would make since to give OP some food while the food is being served. I can understand wanting a few pics of you and your family in that moment but taking a break especially at that moment is fine
The Last story: all I gotta say is, photographers aren't machines, they're people that need food and water.
Story 1: if op's mother end up in jail she should try to contact someone who is in that jail so that person would pee in her mothers Lipton. Never leave good revenge at halfway through.
did you really pee in your moms tea 🤮💦😳 imagine if she walked in on you that was just nasty 🤢 🟡👱♂️but she probably won’t tell cause you’re already standing and men do there business standing also not the jerk
A wise man once said: Those that have treated me with kindness, I will repay that kindness tenfold - And those that treat me with injustice, I shall repay that injustice a thousand times over.
I remember there being an update to story 1, the aunt was an enabler and helped her stay on her feet, and both the mom and the aunt wound up going and spending time in the slammer if I remember right.
Yes this is true i heard the update as well. Also it took a while but eventually the mother found out and tried to beat him in front of witnesses. The entire thing was very sad and the aunt gaslit him and tried to convince him this is his fault. His mother deserves life in prison and he deserves a life where he never thinks about her again.
@@PunkMartyr I remember that. If I remember correctly, the mom and the aunt were arrested, and served some jail time.
@@PunkMartyr What did yiu search up on reddit to find the post?
Wts mums name so i can gind thst bitvhes grbsve
@@evadedenbach1226arrested for what tho???
Story 3 made me laugh so hard. I would've died if I witnessed that happening,
I would love to see that.
"Begone f*ckinly hag!" Hahahaha
Just Imagine walking down the street and hearing BEGONE YOU BENEVOLENT HAG
Omg I would’ve had an asthma attack from laughter
There's something adorable about the narrator nearly losing it with the line about rubbing forks between the buttcheeks. I did too, dude.
My mother was the same way, and still is to this day, but the day came that she needed my help to get by. When she told me she expected me to do all her cooking, cleaning, errand running, etc, and she expected me to do that with no time for making an income so I can have a place to live, or food to keep me alive, and said she wouldn't allow me to sleep on her sofa or have so much as a cup of her tea, she learned the value of being as respectful to your kids as you expect them to be to you, because I let her know what she expected was unreasonable
Very similar story. I can relate.
3:05 Lol dinner had extra flavour 😂
Man I love your theatre voice
The good thing in story 1 is that he knew that he couldn't take on a parental role. I think that once he is ready he can take his siblings in
Story #3. Dang, I wish I had that type of voice. He woke the house AND the neighborhood. "Feculent hag!" Priceless!
Story 1: the opening on the tea, and the butt cheek spoon part was hilarious, also for the OP when she dies do the same that you did to her tea, but this time do it in her grave
The most true form of disrespect,i like it
I know laughing at people is bad but when the people are karen its justified and I love it
People are karens- but karens aren't people.
@@magne7771 true
Story 3 had me laughing so hard that my nose is now running! 😂😂
"And that i peed in her lipton" i shouldn't have laughed but that got me dying😂😂😂
I know how tragic story one is. But i cant stop laughing at story 3
Give her cooking classes as a gift. She's already said she wants to learn and he works a bunch
You missing the fact she refuses to take cooking classes ? That was part of the story
I feel for OP because what example did he have? I’m not excusing his behavior but damn, at least after all he went through, he still has some sympathy and is aware of his problems
I mean he did nothing bad tbh I don’t think the siblings going into care is bad
@@Razzberry_dollzat the very least, it saved one of the siblings from more abuse from the parent/mother
I really feel for OP. My mother was also extremely abusive and made me homeless a couple of times. Also, had the police take me away and lock me up in the looney bin in a bid to take my kids. Thankfully the doctors saw right through it and I was released after a couple of days. I do have bi-polar, OCD, severe anxiety and PTSD but I take my meds and work on myself. Anyway, I have been no contact with her for a decade now bc even tho I forgave her for all she did to me and my brothers, I couldn't forgive her when she started fuking w my kids. That was my line. She treated us so badly that I never wanted kids for fear that I wouldn't know how to love them and treat them properly. My kids are amazing and doing amazing btw. As of my last contact with her she was still in denial about all the horror she put us through. My 3rd stepdad had no clue about any of it. She even threw my middle brother out when he was 3years old!! In the middle of the night. And proceeded to act like he never existed, but I remembered him clearly which caused severe trust issues my whole life bc if I can't trust my mother who in the world could I trust?? She lied to my stepdad and told him my brother was severely retarded and had to be institutionalized. Imagine his surprise when my perfectly normal brother showed up one day!! My aunt was dying and she loved me like no one else and knew where he was, so her parting gift to me was reuniting us. Unfortunately for him our father was also a POS so he didn't get to avoid the abuse. He just had a different abuser. I hope OP can someday put all the pain and misery behind. I'm an adult w 4 kids and I still deal with a lot bc of my childhood.
im so sorry you had to deal with that.
you should submit your own story to spread awareness! his is a huge problem that needs to be adressed. im glad to see your doing better!
@@angiesanticsthank you💕 There is so much more that couldn't fit into a post. Sometimes I don't know how I made it this far.
Very similar story here also. Can highly relate.
That woman does not have a heart, she doesnt drink or do drugs so she was 100% aware of what she was doing and she still did it
Similar situation. I can highly relate.
Bro couldn’t even keep it together when he read the revenge
I feel really bad for OP And no you are not the jerk wishing you a better life
(Story #1) NO WAY! You are not even close to being close to being a jerk.I honestly fell as if you were being generous. She deserved alot worse by how terrible she was treating people.
Bro the I peed in the Lipton 😂😂😂
When you could not hold in the laughter was hilarious
I lived that same kind of life, there are many of us.
Same here.
Story 1: man, you made me cry a little. Relatable. You're not a jerk, she deserves this.
Story 2: nah, you're not a jerk.
Story 3: not a jerk.
Story 4: the groom is the jerk
The mom deserves it, yes. However, with her well-paying job and apparently no abuse for the younger two kids, ruining the mom he did hurt his siblings considerably and for that he'd be a jerk. Not caring about collateral damage is also jerky.
@@CidVeldoril I can understand that, but I have trouble seeing the "idc about my siblings" part, the OP did say that it might ruin his siblings life. Also he couldn't stand it anymore, so that kinda makes it more understandable to me. Ngl
@@urm0m69 Yeah. He knows it can destroy any chance his siblings will have at having a better life than he has. And he did it anyway. I understand wanting to hurt his mother, but to accept hurting his siblings in the process makes him just as bad as she is.
@@CidVeldoril maybe, but he kinda does his best to give his siblings his support. Kind of making amends?
I would say "Yes!!" because I know if I'm in that situation I would plan photos, write the time stamps & file them all at once then send them off to court
Story 1: Just what do you even say to something like that? What can you say that would be of any help? This guy has had it rough, I can't imagine being hated by my own mother to such an extent that she would go out of her way to hurt me at every opportunity.
Story 3: Well... he IS the jerk in that scenario, but then so is the neighbour. And honestly that is just a hilarious way to deal with the situation, so bravo! But no encore, please...
3:06 omg that giggle was so cute !!!
15:32 “BE GONE YOU FECKULANT HAG!!”
"AND TAKE YOUR MISERABLE AND SELFISH BEHAVIOR WITH YOU!!!"
I just about pissed myself laughing at that part!! 😂😂😂🤣🤣
I’m in a mens trauma support group. This is one of the worst stories i’ve ever heard and i’ve talked to men that have had things im not comfortable talking about done to them.
i can't tell what story you are replying to
@@hi-wf9qlprobably the first one
I have NEVER been to a wedding where the photographer was not offered food and drink on top of getting paid! The groom definitely was the jerk.
Love the stories and these people are so entitled
Man if I had a mom like that I would do the exact same thing if not more
always excited when you upload, your upload schedule is perfect, keep it up!
I was the "official" photographer (note I'm not a professional photographer, however I do take some great photo's) at my friends wedding a couple of years ago... I did it for free and they loved the photos I took (now I'm wishing I asked for some payment). We're still friends and at least I was fed, but I would have enjoyed it a lot more if I wasn't sick at the time.
It’s honestly for the best that the kids are housed together. It can be hard but the amount of abuse you and the siblings experienced, they need to get out of that house no matter what
bro even the narator gout out of character bc of what the first person was doing
I would say not a jerk for the first story because he has been abused by his mother for years making him what he would be now. Plus that with his little sister being abused as well. I do hope he does get better in the future and I do hope he gets to take care of his siblings in the future as well.
1st story: trying to remember that we're hearing only one side of the story, but OP's mom sounds like my biological mother and I'm inclined to believe them. In that light, I'm going to say not only NTA, but literally anything short of straight-up torture and murder (together, not separately, together. It has to be both) would also be NTA. So, to be _100%_ clear: your revenge=NTA, murder=NTA, torture=NTA, torture AND murder=you took it too far, ESH.
Whats nta?
@@ismaelsonlins5824 not the @$$hole
Oh my god you are a human??? You sound so serious and i love reading ur stories and this is the first time ive heard you laugh
When my friend's help me move I get them food booze whatever and whenever they need a break they can take one. The groom is a jerk. How can you expect someone to work so long without a break? How can you mistreat your friend it even your spouse's friend like that? I would be surprised if they remained friends after the wedding
Not the jerk and in self defense you had to destroy your mother in order to stop her abusive behavior. Yes a stronger person might be able to do better but we all have to work with what we have. Ultimately you did a service for yourself and your siblings despite whatever any of you may have lost or will lose.
i ate so much popcorn while watching this
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To the op of the first story, on the 12th of next month (Sept) I will be sober for 26 years through AA. I can vouch for this program if you are willing to give it your all. May you find sobriety and peace of mind. You can look up local meetings on the internet. Best wishes!
congratulations!!!
I’m a friend of Bob and Bill, too.
@@lookintothelightcarolanne4699 ❤️
Congratulations man that's amazing
You should be so proud of yourself and remember AA helped but you did most of the work
for the op of the first story: i had to deal with this too but it was much worse. now i have a few gunshot wounds and cancer thanks to my mom.
And police ist doing anything?
Sorry, for some stupid reason I can't see replies.
Bro really didn’t let that slide.
Wow that story is a lot like mine
I survived despite my mother's attempts to extinguish my life.
Age 41 in 2010, I had enough of the hands around my throat.
I haven't seen any of the family since.
3:10 I love how he fell out of character, and started laughing as he read the line. 😂😂
Hope it gets better for 1st story. Hope he finds the resources & support that helps to get his life on track. Every one has a breaking point . . . Where the gloves come off. Hope your life improves for you and your siblings.❤️
Glad your siblings are doing well. What a shame they had to lose everything.
Even if the first story is very sad, i loved when you laughed, i laughed at your laugh, idk it was just a funny moment
"and that I peed on her Lipton" this individual is not very sane XD and i love it
Bruh, at that point I wouldn't even call her "mother" I would just call her, "birthgiver"
Dude the second story is so fire dude LOL.
For story 4- wtf?! They couldn’t even give OP any food or water?? That’s appalling. I work as a character actor for kids’ birthday parties and events and the hosts are always kind enough to offer me food and water even when I’m working. I’d do the same for anyonE if I were to host an event. It’s just human decency
This is the first time I heard the narrator break character and chuckle at a story 🤣
The thumbnail woman not only got everything took from her but also her hydration
15:32 BEST. LINE. EVER.
I love the "break of character" at 3:05
If I was reading I probably couldn't get it the first try either lol
I’ve only read the first 2 stories but I believe the op’s in both of these stories aren’t the jerks
Honestly, I’ve been listening to the jerk Podcasts and they’re really good. I think I enjoy them a lot more than other things.
You are not the jerk the mom is it isn’t right to take out anger on a child
The story when the guy yells at the Karen in his theater voice. Hell I would have walked over laughing my ass off and asked for his number and see if I could get him to tell off anyone that pisses me off lmao
The mom in the first story got what was coming to her.
OP legit saved his siblings from an abusive mother, and I’m proud of him. This isn’t r/AITA material, this is r/ProRevenge material!
On story one, I really hope he gets help. He keeps sliding down. A support group may help but he has to let go and realize you can't change what others did to you. Only what you do for you. I was in foster care and it was a nightmare. I got adopted and life got better but I almost blew it. Stop beating yourself up for what others have done it was out of your control. You now have control and need help getting a grip of it. A good friend to help if nothing else or volunteer for a shelter and share with others. Find what will help you. There are many paths and drop the load of guilt. It was not your fault.
Honestly Opie the first story this is a case that's more common than you realize whether it's a mother it's a father I understand everything you're going through. I just want you to know that there is hope no matter what don't ever forget hope there is a way you can survive this and you can overcome just don't forget that your brother and sisters believe in you and I love you and that's sometimes stronger than death love is stronger than death and Hate and and for what it's worth your mother got exactly what she wanted she wanted to consequences and she got consequences. Sometimes people make their own Karma right her people realize it or not
This is a great vid men good job
Giving him a place to rest would be the LEAST you could do
3:06 😂😂 even the narrator laughed at that part which he never does
I’m grinding r6 so I’m listening to your reading of story’s Ty for keeping me entertained
I had a roommate who used to thrash the kitchen and leave it. He thought since he cooked he didn't have to wash any dishes, despite the fact I cooked for myself. I didn't move away from my parents so I could have chores and a dinner time etc.
"Rubbed her forks and spoons between- *tries not to laugh* between my butt cheeks" *laughs like hell* man, that's the most funniest shit I'd ever seen, I bet he (the first OP) has the ability to twerk cause he would be mistaken for a girl
"BE GONE YOU FECULENT HAG!!" 😂🤣
Lmao the 3rd story I can't stop laughing
15:32 dude, that. Is. LEGENDARY, lol
holy shit 19 years with this criminal and this guy is able to dont talk and always remain calm during that aberrant situations? wow i think not most of the people are able to resist like that for so long
the sibling being taken away and put in foster care is the best thing for them I wish them the best and that woman does not deserve to have any of her kids
gotta love the world class quality mobile games used in these clips
story 1: what about you also press charges for multiple counts of attempted murder and assault (basically what she did to you all those years): in addition to all you did, she could also get life in prison (yes, the sentence for ONE count of attempted murder is life in prison, so you can imagine what could happen to her...)
King Lear: you.,narrator, have NEVER dealt with such a creature. Photo guy. Good for him
No one can truly judge you for your actions because it’s near impossible to know exactly the full experience the lead to certain actions you made your choice and whether people agree or disagree is beside the point since it doesn’t really matter since you’re the only one who was affected aside from your siblings and your horrible mother. My point as you are the one who had to live through the suffering and nobody can fully appreciate the position you were in. The only thing I’ll be curious about is know everything has been done how do you feel about it
Anyone who treats people serving them, working for them, or doing favors for them badly is the jerk!! Treat people how you want to he treated.
3:05 - 3:08 I don't blame you for not keeping a straight face.
15:32 😂😂😂
Your theatre voice is excellent
For story 3
It’s seven in the morning and he has yet to have his coffee and an old annoying neighbor comes knocking at the door
even the reader cant contain himself lol
Why would anyone think that OP was the jerk? Who would defend that monster of a mom? I’m glad things worked out for OP. And what OP did was more than justified.