It’s ridiculous that the alleged victim isn’t listened to. I can understand in some, serious cases. But minor or no real injury cases that occur one time, the alleged victim’s wishes should count for a lot more. These kind of cases make life harder on families, when many times the circumstances aren’t serious at all.
Interperonal domestic violence to immigrate threat happened against me of verbal abused, intimidated, and unwanted assaulted from my Property Manager Cherrie Feacher on 09/27/23.
Women are considered second-class citizens under the United States Reed v. Reed, was when Women were first recognized as "persons". Until the equal rights amendment is archived, the laws do not apply to women equally as they do to men. The crazy thing is attorneys are not telling their clients this truth and fact and are charging them astronomical amount of money and making false hope of telling these clients that they will protect their rights and protect their children especially in family court when the truth is they're just gonna take your money and throw you under the bus because they are informing these clients very well by not informing them of paying second class citizens.... All attorneys should have major lawsuits against them if they represent women and that is not the first thing that they tell them when they have their first initial meeting. It should be the first thing all attorney is informed women.
I wish an attorney/lawyer from Idaho would make videos likes these. I’m not finding much and watching videos from other states is kinda helpful but the fact that the states have different laws make each and every case so unique. Useful info either way! Thank you!
@@TheLanceLawyers As a state licensed health care provider in CA., for an abused elder that was later murdered by the abuser, the abuser leveled false charges against me as his automatic go to in defense of his own horrific treatment of the victim, which resulted in the ongoing abuse of the victim, and finally his death.
U sound like my ex that was a cop caller and always called me a narcissist when she cheated the whole relationship since the week we got together an then blamed it on me but also slammed my head between the door and door frame and threatened to burn my dad's house down with my daughter in it
Mr. Fryrear What happens if the alleged victim gets subpoenaed to show up to court and testify against the defendant in trial but doesnt show up? Obviously the case gets dismissed but what happens to the alleged victim? Am asking for a friend 😉
@@spamdaniel1383 But if you touched her in an "offensive" manner, even wo the intent to either inflict injury or falsely "imprison" (impede her movement w/o cause), that's ENOUGH to sustain a misdemeanor charge of domestic battery. And if you told the arresting officer that, then you've done the Deputy DA's work for her.
The further my case goes, the more I realize how screwed up our justice system is. The "victim" can say whatever they want and despite having GPS and video evidence, you are deemed guilty unless you go through an expensive trial.
is there a way i can avoid a no contact order with my husband ? (WA state) i have severe BPD and GAD and in that moment i freaked out from an actual abusive relationship in the past, and we have a /kinky/ lifestyle and consensual slapping, choking, etc, but my PTSD kicked in , called the cops from sudden fear of DV, while also intoxicated, which worsened my symptoms, and no hes being charged ASLT 2 / PC , felony. im sure the state may still choose to prosecute against my wishes but i realized it was my PTSD, but atleast avoid the NCO in the meantime, i wrote a statement saying im willing to get help for both of us, alcohol classes, random wellness checks, etc. so i hope that helps, but wishing some intel from you , thank you
You really ought to be telling your attorney pretty much everything that you're doing in relation to the case. In other words, if you have to ask, the answer is probably yes. But, I'm not an attorney, so there's that, but it's generally better for your attorney to have as much information to work with as possible.
I wanted joint custody of our toddler daughter. Out of the blue, she accused me of sexually molesting our daughter and got everything she wanted and I got almost nothing. I laid low. I eventually was able to prove an extensive pattern of lying by my Ex. Both the court appointed psychologist and court counselor totally flipped. I eventually won total custody. I was assaulted annually for about a decade by the Ex-, usually during visitations. She was of equal size, weight, and strength. She often used weapons (pogo stick, baseball bat.) I reported every incident to the police and to the courts. Several times the police took confirming photos of sizable bruises. Despite the evidence, the DA and the court repeatedly did nothing. When our daughter was in the third grade, I asked her where she would like to live if something were to happen to me. Her two choices did not include Mom. I figured the best witness to her choices and reasoning would be the court counselor. The counselor apparent asked about her relations to her mother. She told about a fight she had with her mother on the school grounds several months earlier. At the next court hearing, the judge on his own initiative issued a permanent restraining order. Several months later, the Ex- came by, wanting to borrow some money. She had stopped payment on a prior check, so I refused to loan her any more money and went back to work. She kicked me in the genitals. I landed on the ground in a fetal position and was wiped out for nearly two weeks. The DA finally took action and the court issued an arrest warrant. They made on effort to execute the warrant and dropped the warrant in less than a year. The Ex- was never inconvenienced for any of her antics at any point. The daughter has wanted nothing to do with her mother for over thirty years now, but gets along fine with all her other maternal relatives (and me.)
We really are from a domestic violence marriage I seen myself going to the crown to drop charges.I wish they would have recognize my fear as months later I was held hustage ,broken collarbone, fractured cheackbone..his awaiting trail but he was already on house arrest due to gun charges.unreal how my life turned out
Got disorderly and breach of peace and obstruction falsely while on the phone with DV hotline.. when she called 9 qq and recant and had more documentation
My friend was arrested last Friday for texting while driving. He had a previous fourth-degree assault charge, but failed to appear in court in 2020. Despite a prior assault charge from 13 years ago, he has demonstrated good behavior by completing an alcohol program, community service, and anger management classes. The alleged victim has made a statement to have the charges dropped from his record. I am very concerned that my friend may lose his job in customer relations manager at a prominent bank and his new house due to this recent arrest. His Mom and dad have not found out trying to keep it under wraps. He just purchased a house less than one month away.
when are persons going to learn to not drive and text, stupid and dangerous and asking for trouble. use a bloody speaker phone set up if you are driving, soooooo many inconsiderate dangerous morons doing this, i know several people that have been hit by these /////////////
Took me 1.5yrs to gather the evidence and write a 30 page document citing almost 300 pages of evidence proving beyond a reasonable doubt that i was the victim of narcissistic abuse. The same judge, who quashed 4k in fines and vacated a dui for her earlier that year, committed a title 18 section 242 criminal offense against me. I will hold him, and her, accountable.
Why would a prosecutor allow a abusive man that has 5 assault against one person and avading arrest from police officers and off duty cop as a witness out with probation or nothing? A 500 dollar fine? Why would they do that?
What about if you was charged for a felony and you have no record but there was no witness and both have injuries and it was self defense i need help I'm a 30 year woman never been in trouble and getting charged with a felony when it was self defense and he is not a citizen here in Los Angeles
@@eugeneallison7457 sorry to inform you, that's not completely true. Some states are banning people from purchasing firearms from arrest (no convictions) that happened in the 1960s. Even though they have been purchasing weapons over the last 40 years.
@@eugeneallison7457 One particular story there was a guy who got into a fight with his cousin in the early '70s. he was arrested and the charges were dropped. But the state considers this domestic violence and they banned him from purchasing.
Ramsey County district Attorney's office dropped many of the domestic physical and sexual assault and because im a disabled person and they allowed my ex boyfriend who in prison for a crimes that had nothing about me. DA Sue Gertner hates crimes disability conditions as it are faults and thinks im lying 🤥🤥🤥🤥 about the the DV years ago. Pissed 😡😡😠😡😡😠😡😡😡😡😡😠😡 Maplewood police 🚓🚓🚓🚓🚓🚓🚓 officers are mad at me. Due to the abliest discrimination of Sue Gertner hates disabled people. Ramsey sheriff deputy forced DA to pressed them to charge the rapist for the rape case happened when six cops from MPLS police officers. Heard the guy raping me. That why in 2014 mr H assilted a disabled person on the bus. After I got off the same bus he grabbed my breast. And social worker of the other woman found him sent to prison and disorderly conduct on my case. Attorney for city attorney panlin told he was mad 😡 at Sue Gertner on the case.
Can you use in court text messages where your alleged victim ex ask to hang out or be around after claiming you abused them when writing a police statement
DV is going to kill me. I've been through this cycle for over half a decade. I just give up. It's truly horrifying when you are being strangled to the point your nose is bleeding and your partner is screaming he will kill you. I still love him, but I'm terrified I won't be alive in a year.
I have been here thinking these same thoughts. Sometimes we have to let go of the things we love the most; because if we are going to continue breath on this earth and not just end it ourselves, we at least deserve a chance and with violent, emotional, mental and narcissistic abuse, that isn't giving yourself a chance at all. Get away. Give yourself a chance at something more and better. Anything is better than that shit. You can message me anytime. If you need help I will be here for you.
This women @anovosedlik Post on every channel trying to get sympathy I've watch multiple different channel and she in the comments talking crap when it's about people that are falsely accused not people who have I know now you are the problem
@@Ametsuchi1234 I don't want your sympathy--I just want to shed some light on a subject that's uncomfortable and frankly I feel like the fact that I'm allowed to access internet for an hour a day and even secretly make posts is way more than most women in this position get. I've been able to post when so many women can't because their abuser will go through all their activity and usually even deprive them of a device. I'm sorry you find my posts needy or however they make you feel. That's not my intention. UA-cam is literally my one outlet--it has helped me not break the window and jump. I am grateful for all the support everyone here has given me. If you are doubtful of my situation, you can message me and I'd be happy to provide you with the documents showing just how screwed up and dangerous my captor is. And yes, he's a captor. I'm at my one year anniversary of making it through attempted murder. I don't want your sympathy---I want CHANGE! Let's not treat people with so little love and care. We are born alone, die alone, and yet we need each other to pull through life. Be well. Again, if my use of youtube as therapy for the hell I've been through offends you, I hope you understand that it has helped me positively. (PS: if you look at all my comments, most of them are 'awww so cute' for seal and gorilla videos). (PPS: my abuser was convicted against 6 other girls before me; i'm not crazy...part of why I comment is because the government in my country isn't doing a good enough job tightening our justice system to make sure this stuff is actually punished.) (PPPS: I may be eloquent (sorta kinda) but intelligence doesn't exclude you from susceptibility to abuse). (PPPPS: why are you stalking my comments? that's kinda weird...I don't even know how you'd be able to do that)
@@rachellandauer6884 Yeah--I think abuse just feels like addiction. They say trauma bonding is more powerful than true love. I also recently found out that abusers are also trauma bonded, so that's why they stalk you when you try to escape. They are equally hooked--if not more so.
@M: The prosecutor and victim's advocate are the people in the government who prosecute the crimes. Making your wishes known to them is usually what is advisable. Thank you for watching!
My wife was going to go out on mother's Day by herself to another state, i suggested she take the 18 month old with her. She took him but dropped him off at her friends house, the baby can't talk 😮why would she do that? Upon checking the phone records she was calling a guy, but told me she went to see his sister 😮we argued then she told me his name, quick Google search, i find his orange jumpsuit jail photo, I showed her his pic, she became aggressive then i had my answer upon looking closely he had 5 open cold sores on his mouth, she ran to the pd and said i assaulted her, she had my 20 year old daughter say I had my hand raised ...**i am a recovering stroke survivor on the right side of my body can't put my arm up*** told police i assaulted her how as I'm right hand dominant, she was mad i found out...now she wants to undo what she has done and it's costing me money... The dude called the police to my home, nobody asking how he got our address to do such a thing... but that's what started it, on mother's Day! Go figure
If I claim self defense and I’m found innocent. Will my girlfriend go to jail for being the aggressor? Cause I really don’t wanna get her into trouble cause she did hit me first but I was arrested not here even after telling police I was defending myself
My daughter was raped and beaten by a man he was charged. And inpricement for 3 years warrant of remand commitment with conditions to pay k5000'00 will release bail but dependent Go to national court release him out with out complain knowledge what will I do
Oh and have no contact order so no home cash clothes has a car of mine and has put it up forsale in gront yardbstole keys and title. I bought from him have reciept bill of salr and reciepts for repairs i started
I blocked my mother in law's phone number on our house phone because it rang out loud and she was calling it every day at random times. Boom, my wife files for an order of protection, the police come and tell me to get out, and 2 weeks later my wife filed for divorce. The judge, a female, ejected me from my house for 1 year. Now, my wife and her lawyer are requesting another two years. Moral of the story: Never offend your mother in law.
Read your comment on this and other channels. (im from Germany and Not related). Just wanna say sorry for you. Its insane that such things happened because of this.
I used to prosecute domestic violence cases. Here are the real five reasons: 1. The victim is a pain in the ass 2. The victim is a pain in the ass 3. There are problems with the case 4. The victim is a pain in the ass 5. The victim is a pain in the ass.
What would you do if I was defendant in your and I told you I was arguing with a girlfriend about money and she lied to the police and said I pulled a knife out on her? My bank statements shows I had $57,000 rewarded to me on the day of the arrest as well and because I wouldn't give her any of my money she decided to tell the police I was trying to attack her.
Do u live in the city or county jurisdiction if city talk to chief of police or county talk to the sheriff record the meeting and ask why nothing is being done if something still isn't being done take your case to every news media u can also contact the district attorney and find out why nothing is being done Set up hidden cameras in your home
Please help my husband he has a pinay ex girlfriend who can't accept that he doesn't love her anymore so he made a way to take revenge he accused my husband of domestic violence I'm here in the Philippines I feel sorry for my husband I'm not in Washington to defend him against that woman, she told my sister that she makes sure that my husband can't petition me. That lady can't accept the reality that we already married. And she compromise me that if my husband here in the Philippines we are together but she said if my husband is in USA they are together too.. And I don't agree with that settings. He lives also in Seattle Washington.. My husband is a good person I'm praying that someone can help him in his case 🥺🙏 Please help my husband today is trial 🙏
Prosecutor is a real definition of captain save a hoe ! It’s frustrating that a normal family member dispute can escalate to the neighbor call the cop on you and your other person…..
It’s ridiculous that the alleged victim isn’t listened to. I can understand in some, serious cases. But minor or no real injury cases that occur one time, the alleged victim’s wishes should count for a lot more. These kind of cases make life harder on families, when many times the circumstances aren’t serious at all.
Interperonal domestic violence to immigrate threat happened against me of verbal abused, intimidated, and unwanted assaulted from my Property Manager Cherrie Feacher on 09/27/23.
Emotional Abuse and Duress I suffered. Captured on phone video and witnesses.
Tell me bout it I’m going through it now 🤦♂️
Women are considered second-class citizens under the United States Reed v. Reed, was when Women were first recognized as "persons".
Until the equal rights amendment is archived, the laws do not apply to women equally as they do to men.
The crazy thing is attorneys are not telling their clients this truth and fact and are charging them astronomical amount of money and making false hope of telling these clients that they will protect their rights and protect their children especially in family court when the truth is they're just gonna take your money and throw you under the bus because they are informing these clients very well by not informing them of paying second class citizens.... All attorneys should have major lawsuits against them if they represent women and that is not the first thing that they tell them when they have their first initial meeting.
It should be the first thing all attorney is informed women.
same here!!! Im astonished that no one cares what I have to say at all!!! Its like its all a scam to get money!
I wish an attorney/lawyer from Idaho would make videos likes these. I’m not finding much and watching videos from other states is kinda helpful but the fact that the states have different laws make each and every case so unique. Useful info either way! Thank you!
@Angel: The concept videos are probably the same, while the specific crime videos are likely quite different. Thanks for watching either way!
@@TheLanceLawyers As a state licensed health care provider in CA., for an abused elder that was later murdered by the abuser, the abuser leveled false charges against me as his automatic go to in defense of his own horrific treatment of the victim, which resulted in the ongoing abuse of the victim, and finally his death.
Why is narcissistic abuse never mentioned? Or ever evaluated?
U sound like my ex that was a cop caller and always called me a narcissist when she cheated the whole relationship since the week we got together an then blamed it on me but also slammed my head between the door and door frame and threatened to burn my dad's house down with my daughter in it
Mr. Fryrear What happens if the alleged victim gets subpoenaed to show up to court and testify against the defendant in trial but doesnt show up? Obviously the case gets dismissed but what happens to the alleged victim? Am asking for a friend 😉
You can get arrested if you don't show up when subpoenaed
If the victim compromises in court...will this help me before the judge?
Did it help?
It's sad how easy it is for people to claim DV bc they're mad at the ex or current partner & ruin the life of someone who did nothing....
Going through that now... It's not right.
Same, all I did was push her out my face and somehow I get arrested
Knew the woman all of 3 months been fighting a case for 3 years
@Kevin Oliver ohh how about you guys you have also how it takes in jail 🥺
@@spamdaniel1383 But if you touched her in an "offensive" manner, even wo the intent to either inflict injury or falsely "imprison" (impede her movement w/o cause), that's ENOUGH to sustain a misdemeanor charge of domestic battery. And if you told the arresting officer that, then you've done the Deputy DA's work for her.
Do the charges or background ever go away ? Even if dismissed
Yes if dismissal because you were never convicted
The further my case goes, the more I realize how screwed up our justice system is. The "victim" can say whatever they want and despite having GPS and video evidence, you are deemed guilty unless you go through an expensive trial.
It's not a justice system it's a nany police state that enforces womens demands
Hi its some of your advices apply to portland
is there a way i can avoid a no contact order with my husband ? (WA state) i have severe BPD and GAD and in that moment i freaked out from an actual abusive relationship in the past, and we have a /kinky/ lifestyle and consensual slapping, choking, etc, but my PTSD kicked in , called the cops from sudden fear of DV, while also intoxicated, which worsened my symptoms, and no hes being charged ASLT 2 / PC , felony.
im sure the state may still choose to prosecute against my wishes but i realized it was my PTSD, but atleast avoid the NCO in the meantime, i wrote a statement saying im willing to get help for both of us, alcohol classes, random wellness checks, etc. so i hope that helps, but wishing some intel from you , thank you
Mr. Fryrear, how likely do a case go to trial if the victim refuse to work with the DA? Would you recommend the victim seek a lawyer?
@jon: Much less likely if the victim is not available for trial. Yes, I would recommend that person at least get a consultation.
Thanks I learn a lot from your video.i really need your help..am in Washington
Hi , its this subject also applies to portland oregon law ?
Thank you.
Thank you for visiting our channel! :)
Good information. Thank you.
@Tania: Glad it was helpful!
Thank you for sharing this valuable information.
How do I do the classes?
There were no charges pressed but I still was rotten a ticket . They took 3 hrs to come and talk to me and I was not arrested either . What can I do ?
Do police listen to phone calls like tap your phone if you have a dvo order against you
Yes
No they cannot.
The government has been known to surveil people even if they've done nothing wrong.
What state is this
@@LisannyDiaz-z1q Washington State :)
If i decided to take the dvmrt class, do i need to atleast tell my attorney even though he/she didnt asked me to do it? Can i just take it?
You really ought to be telling your attorney pretty much everything that you're doing in relation to the case. In other words, if you have to ask, the answer is probably yes. But, I'm not an attorney, so there's that, but it's generally better for your attorney to have as much information to work with as possible.
I wanted joint custody of our toddler daughter. Out of the blue, she accused me of sexually molesting our daughter and got everything she wanted and I got almost nothing. I laid low. I eventually was able to prove an extensive pattern of lying by my Ex. Both the court appointed psychologist and court counselor totally flipped. I eventually won total custody.
I was assaulted annually for about a decade by the Ex-, usually during visitations. She was of equal size, weight, and strength. She often used weapons (pogo stick, baseball bat.) I reported every incident to the police and to the courts. Several times the police took confirming photos of sizable bruises. Despite the evidence, the DA and the court repeatedly did nothing. When our daughter was in the third grade, I asked her where she would like to live if something were to happen to me. Her two choices did not include Mom. I figured the best witness to her choices and reasoning would be the court counselor. The counselor apparent asked about her relations to her mother. She told about a fight she had with her mother on the school grounds several months earlier. At the next court hearing, the judge on his own initiative issued a permanent restraining order. Several months later, the Ex- came by, wanting to borrow some money. She had stopped payment on a prior check, so I refused to loan her any more money and went back to work. She kicked me in the genitals. I landed on the ground in a fetal position and was wiped out for nearly two weeks. The DA finally took action and the court issued an arrest warrant. They made on effort to execute the warrant and dropped the warrant in less than a year. The Ex- was never inconvenienced for any of her antics at any point. The daughter has wanted nothing to do with her mother for over thirty years now, but gets along fine with all her other maternal relatives (and me.)
never get married
We really are from a domestic violence marriage I seen myself going to the crown to drop charges.I wish they would have recognize my fear as months later I was held hustage ,broken collarbone, fractured cheackbone..his awaiting trail but he was already on house arrest due to gun charges.unreal how my life turned out
After you dropped charges they let him out ??
Got disorderly and breach of peace and obstruction falsely while on the phone with DV hotline.. when she called 9 qq and recant and had more documentation
I need a help from my case I have been arrested for dv in the 4 th degree and need a defense attorney I was arrested in mason county
@Raymi: You can call us at 425-670-9090, if we cannot help, we may be able to refer.
update?
My friend was arrested last Friday for texting while driving. He had a previous fourth-degree assault charge, but failed to appear in court in 2020. Despite a prior assault charge from 13 years ago, he has demonstrated good behavior by completing an alcohol program, community service, and anger management classes. The alleged victim has made a statement to have the charges dropped from his record. I am very concerned that my friend may lose his job in customer relations manager at a prominent bank and his new house due to this recent arrest. His Mom and dad have not found out trying to keep it under wraps. He just purchased a house less than one month away.
when are persons going to learn to not drive and text, stupid and dangerous and asking for trouble. use a bloody speaker phone set up if you are driving, soooooo many inconsiderate dangerous morons doing this, i know several people that have been hit by these /////////////
Took me 1.5yrs to gather the evidence and write a 30 page document citing almost 300 pages of evidence proving beyond a reasonable doubt that i was the victim of narcissistic abuse.
The same judge, who quashed 4k in fines and vacated a dui for her earlier that year, committed a title 18 section 242 criminal offense against me.
I will hold him, and her, accountable.
Why would a prosecutor allow a abusive man that has 5 assault against one person and avading arrest from police officers and off duty cop as a witness out with probation or nothing? A 500 dollar fine? Why would they do that?
Idk if that’s possible. Is that something that they told you or is that something that you heard?
Oh it’s possible. It happens too often.
Thank you very much for all of the knowledge. Is there any chance we could talk for a few minutes?? I sure would appreciate it .
Thank you
Is a bench trial better than a jury trial
What if you weren't arrested?
Lack of Injury, can that work for First Degree Threatening? For creditability of the elegies victim, get dirt on them?!?
What about if you was charged for a felony and you have no record but there was no witness and both have injuries and it was self defense i need help I'm a 30 year woman never been in trouble and getting charged with a felony when it was self defense and he is not a citizen here in Los Angeles
Months or year
False accusations DV Arrest even with no charges filed will restrict your 2A rights for life. This Should be unconstitutional
Only if convicted
@@eugeneallison7457 sorry to inform you, that's not completely true. Some states are banning people from purchasing firearms from arrest (no convictions) that happened in the 1960s. Even though they have been purchasing weapons over the last 40 years.
@@eugeneallison7457 One particular story there was a guy who got into a fight with his cousin in the early '70s. he was arrested and the charges were dropped. But the state considers this domestic violence and they banned him from purchasing.
@@LADETROIT o ok I guess some states are different
@@eugeneallison7457 f,*"kin California of course. Nevada also.. But it's starting to spread to other states ..Warn the young guys
Ramsey County district Attorney's office dropped many of the domestic physical and sexual assault and because im a disabled person and they allowed my ex boyfriend who in prison for a crimes that had nothing about me. DA Sue Gertner hates crimes disability conditions as it are faults and thinks im lying 🤥🤥🤥🤥 about the the DV years ago. Pissed 😡😡😠😡😡😠😡😡😡😡😡😠😡 Maplewood police 🚓🚓🚓🚓🚓🚓🚓 officers are mad at me. Due to the abliest discrimination of Sue Gertner hates disabled people. Ramsey sheriff deputy forced DA to pressed them to charge the rapist for the rape case happened when six cops from MPLS police officers. Heard the guy raping me. That why in 2014 mr H assilted a disabled person on the bus. After I got off the same bus he grabbed my breast. And social worker of the other woman found him sent to prison and disorderly conduct on my case. Attorney for city attorney panlin told he was mad 😡 at Sue Gertner on the case.
Can your lawyer force you into a continuous?
Yeah a James city county prosecutor in Virginia will still keep fighting for some reason even if there is no evidence of anything!!!
@The Bomb: We hate those types. Thank you for watching!
Can you use in court text messages where your alleged victim ex ask to hang out or be around after claiming you abused them when writing a police statement
Question is why haven't you blocked them and changed your number????
DV is going to kill me. I've been through this cycle for over half a decade. I just give up. It's truly horrifying when you are being strangled to the point your nose is bleeding and your partner is screaming he will kill you. I still love him, but I'm terrified I won't be alive in a year.
I have been here thinking these same thoughts. Sometimes we have to let go of the things we love the most; because if we are going to continue breath on this earth and not just end it ourselves, we at least deserve a chance and with violent, emotional, mental and narcissistic abuse, that isn't giving yourself a chance at all. Get away. Give yourself a chance at something more and better. Anything is better than that shit. You can message me anytime. If you need help I will be here for you.
Then why stay? You have greater problems.
This women @anovosedlik
Post on every channel trying to get sympathy I've watch multiple different channel and she in the comments talking crap when it's about people that are falsely accused not people who have I know now you are the problem
@@Ametsuchi1234 I don't want your sympathy--I just want to shed some light on a subject that's uncomfortable and frankly I feel like the fact that I'm allowed to access internet for an hour a day and even secretly make posts is way more than most women in this position get. I've been able to post when so many women can't because their abuser will go through all their activity and usually even deprive them of a device. I'm sorry you find my posts needy or however they make you feel. That's not my intention. UA-cam is literally my one outlet--it has helped me not break the window and jump. I am grateful for all the support everyone here has given me. If you are doubtful of my situation, you can message me and I'd be happy to provide you with the documents showing just how screwed up and dangerous my captor is. And yes, he's a captor. I'm at my one year anniversary of making it through attempted murder. I don't want your sympathy---I want CHANGE! Let's not treat people with so little love and care. We are born alone, die alone, and yet we need each other to pull through life. Be well. Again, if my use of youtube as therapy for the hell I've been through offends you, I hope you understand that it has helped me positively. (PS: if you look at all my comments, most of them are 'awww so cute' for seal and gorilla videos). (PPS: my abuser was convicted against 6 other girls before me; i'm not crazy...part of why I comment is because the government in my country isn't doing a good enough job tightening our justice system to make sure this stuff is actually punished.) (PPPS: I may be eloquent (sorta kinda) but intelligence doesn't exclude you from susceptibility to abuse). (PPPPS: why are you stalking my comments? that's kinda weird...I don't even know how you'd be able to do that)
@@rachellandauer6884 Yeah--I think abuse just feels like addiction. They say trauma bonding is more powerful than true love. I also recently found out that abusers are also trauma bonded, so that's why they stalk you when you try to escape. They are equally hooked--if not more so.
My ex jus beat me a week ago and he's still out & about
how about a immigration status, would they care about if charging a case would affect on that person's immigration status?
Seconding this
yes
What if they never charge the case? Would that affect as well?@@mariajohnson9692
Can you please explain better more on this?
yes
What about the victim? What should they do to make sure their abuser is punished and justice to be served?
@M: The prosecutor and victim's advocate are the people in the government who prosecute the crimes. Making your wishes known to them is usually what is advisable. Thank you for watching!
Facts ima about to ruin someone's Christmas
My wife was going to go out on mother's Day by herself to another state, i suggested she take the 18 month old with her. She took him but dropped him off at her friends house, the baby can't talk 😮why would she do that? Upon checking the phone records she was calling a guy, but told me she went to see his sister 😮we argued then she told me his name, quick Google search, i find his orange jumpsuit jail photo, I showed her his pic, she became aggressive then i had my answer upon looking closely he had 5 open cold sores on his mouth, she ran to the pd and said i assaulted her, she had my 20 year old daughter say I had my hand raised ...**i am a recovering stroke survivor on the right side of my body can't put my arm up*** told police i assaulted her how as I'm right hand dominant, she was mad i found out...now she wants to undo what she has done and it's costing me money... The dude called the police to my home, nobody asking how he got our address to do such a thing... but that's what started it, on mother's Day! Go figure
Can a person falsey accuse another person over the phone. Not in person.for domestic violence
If I claim self defense and I’m found innocent. Will my girlfriend go to jail for being the aggressor? Cause I really don’t wanna get her into trouble cause she did hit me first but I was arrested not here even after telling police I was defending myself
most dv cases are there for lawyers to make more money
My daughter was raped and beaten by a man he was charged. And inpricement for 3 years warrant of remand commitment with conditions to pay k5000'00 will release bail but dependent Go to national court release him out with out complain knowledge what will I do
Even in sham marriage
Oh and have no contact order so no home cash clothes has a car of mine and has put it up forsale in gront yardbstole keys and title. I bought from him have reciept bill of salr and reciepts for repairs i started
How is it different in the case where a husband shot (and killed) his wife. He claims it's self-defense.
It's for a story I promise 😛
I blocked my mother in law's phone number on our house phone because it rang out loud and she was calling it every day at random times.
Boom, my wife files for an order of protection, the police come and tell me to get out, and 2 weeks later my wife filed for divorce.
The judge, a female, ejected me from my house for 1 year.
Now, my wife and her lawyer are requesting another two years.
Moral of the story:
Never offend your mother in law.
Why marry someone who would leave you over something this insufficient? I feel like you are leaving a lot out.
Read your comment on this and other channels. (im from Germany and Not related). Just wanna say sorry for you. Its insane that such things happened because of this.
This is about other women not my girlfriend 24 women in my life some violent some nit.
I used to prosecute domestic violence cases. Here are the real five reasons:
1. The victim is a pain in the ass
2. The victim is a pain in the ass
3. There are problems with the case
4. The victim is a pain in the ass
5. The victim is a pain in the ass.
@mike: Thank you for your perspective!
What would you do if I was defendant in your and I told you I was arguing with a girlfriend about money and she lied to the police and said I pulled a knife out on her? My bank statements shows I had $57,000 rewarded to me on the day of the arrest as well and because I wouldn't give her any of my money she decided to tell the police I was trying to attack her.
So dang right what is your law office
@@pound4pound380 ohh I don't want to hear this make my heart break 🥺
Really?
You are even scared to say a woman is attacking a man as an example . WoW
The victim is 65 n has bruises n is the grandma and the aggressor was on shrooms n booze
My husband gets away with it everytime. They let him go .
Do u live in the city or county jurisdiction if city talk to chief of police or county talk to the sheriff record the meeting and ask why nothing is being done if something still isn't being done take your case to every news media u can also contact the district attorney and find out why nothing is being done
Set up hidden cameras in your home
Lack of injuries? What about emotional and psychological cases where the situation is documented? That's utterly ridiculous.
Crappy legal advice video. Said nothing about assaults caught on video.
This is a same sex legal marriage property money cars other things.
Please help my husband he has a pinay ex girlfriend who can't accept that he doesn't love her anymore so he made a way to take revenge he accused my husband of domestic violence I'm here in the Philippines I feel sorry for my husband I'm not in Washington to defend him against that woman, she told my sister that she makes sure that my husband can't petition me. That lady can't accept the reality that we already married. And she compromise me that if my husband here in the Philippines we are together but she said if my husband is in USA they are together too.. And I don't agree with that settings. He lives also in Seattle Washington.. My husband is a good person I'm praying that someone can help him in his case 🥺🙏 Please help my husband today is trial 🙏
Prosecutor is a real definition of captain save a hoe ! It’s frustrating that a normal family member dispute can escalate to the neighbor call the cop on you and your other person…..
The system is VERY frustrating. Hang in there and good luck.