Yes, for both moral & logistical reasons. Courts are snowed under with cases as it is without them being polluted with time consuming lies that maliciously attempt to pervert the course of justice that wastes court time & resources
2:43 tip 1 - irrefutable proof be prepared 4:32 tip 2 - know that false accusations are coming. 5:36 tip 3 - take good notes in court. 6:52 tip 4 - be neutral to false allegations 8:03 tip 5 - lawyer will clean up whatever false allegations were said about you.
Thing to remember, the judge can cut off your explanation at mid sentence, so the better approach is to prepare written documentation and file with the court and have documentation that can be handed to the judge while in session. Don’t rely on the possibility of defending yourself verbally you will be upset and disappointed.
Very true!!! I have seen this many times. I agree that documentation is the best approach. I created this video to help this community prepare their documentation (ua-cam.com/video/TiG_U5LpVII/v-deo.html).
You're absolutely right. Narcissists often rely on manipulation and deceit to maintain control over others. They thrive on creating confusion and chaos, making it incredibly challenging for their victims to unravel the truth from their web of lies. Recognizing this pattern is a crucial step towards breaking free from their toxic influence. By taking the time to untangle their web of lies and seeing through their manipulative tactics, individuals can begin to reclaim their power and autonomy. It's essential for survivors of narcissistic abuse to trust their instincts, seek support from trusted friends or professionals, and prioritize their own mental and emotional well-being. Remember, you are not alone, and there are resources and communities available to support you on your journey towards healing and recovery.
That's exactly how social services operates. I didn't take a family court lawyer, I took a civil litigator and he kicked their false allegation a@@ and kids were ordered back same day. We were even prepared for the 2nd shoe drop. FYI, they always hold back at least one allegation to catch you off guard at the court house knowing it's too late to gather your defense.
I went through this exact accusations with my ex,what a painful time in my life especially defending the LIES,after a 2 year fight I got custody of my kids,and have no regrets in divorcing that man
I wanted to let you know that I watched several of your videos but this one was super helpful. I got divorced on Tuesday 1/3/23. I was pro se and did a lot of research and watched a lot of videos, but yours hit home. My ex was a huge liar and being under oath didn’t change that. I wrote down on a sticky your advise. I read it before the judge walked in and the trial started. I kept my composure, stayed dignified and calm. I owned that courtroom and the judge I believe saw right through the lies. Thank you so much for taking the time to make these videos. They truly helped me a lot.
Oh, my goodness! This brought tears to my eyes this morning. This is exactly why I do this. I needed to hear this today so thank you. I am so very proud you of you!!!! The courtroom can be intimidating especially when your face to face with someone that mistreated you but YOU DID IT!!!! I am celebrating you today. You should be so proud. I am always here as a sounding board if you need a listening ear.
The Traumatized Personality of Victims Of Covert Narcissistic Abuse #narcissism abuse the female narcissist and cpo court hearing filing sue court bias female no proof police reports hear say falsified, no consequences, perjury removed me 3 weeks we co own home ,with videos audio s letters delusional iluk. 1 Reply
@@NakedNarcissism thank you... I have recordings going back years of our arguments where she basically denied proven cheating and also to commonly throwing tantrums and breaking and throwing things in her begging and pleading for me to stay. Said I'm the only good person in her life and doesn't want to lose me after I caught her out on a date with a guy who she told me was her brother but was actually a guy who had been trying to get with her since I met her and who she called a creepy stalker. So maybe I could use that to discredit her?
@@patriarchmike Wow! She sounds like a person with tons of issues. Unfortunately, it has been my experience that courts don't care about cheating spouses. They feel that although a person may be a terrible spouse, they may still be a good parent. What they truly care about is whether or not the parent can put their hate and distrust of the other parent aside and put their children's needs first. The best way to discredit her is to show evidence to the court where she puts her needs above her children's needs. For example, does she take them to school regularly? Does she show up to important events for the children? Does she take them to their activities? Does she refrain from screaming and throwing tantrums in front of them? Let me know if you would like to discuss. you can schedule a discovery call with me on my website www.courtroomcompanions.com
@@NakedNarcissism there are no children involved thank God. I knew not to get her pregnant like she wanted. There is actually a recording where I was trying to record music and she kept interrupting me to talk about her hair color (asked me permission to die it as if I cared... I didn't) and also guilt tripping me for not wanted to bring kids into the world yet (this was during covid).. I just know that she would be using kids as leverage for control over me.. because I left her for cheating over 5 months ago and went no contact but every time she would reach out to get me to break it or she would post nasty stories about me on Instagram. For example she posted a picture of a note that she left on her front door for the neighbors in her building asking them not to treat her like a child by going to her bf about the cat box smell. She blamed me for leaving my cats there (she offered to take care of them until I get a place that allows pets) as if it's my fault that she can't clean her litter box..I had just bought her a huge bag of litter too. So I got mad when I saw that and started sending her nasty text messages telling her off. She is now using that to say that I harass and stalk her. Literally every conversation with her was started by her. I left her and just want me stuff back but she finds lame excuses not to let me get my stuff or my cats when I try to get them.. she even admits ina text that she knows once I get my things she will never see me again or the money I owe her. I don't owe her shit but I told I'd help her with money (and have been) just to keep the peace and reciprocate for taking care of my cats. When I went there on the deadline she set she gaslit me by telling me triggering news about how she deleted my Facebook account. I raised my voice asking her how she could do that to me and her neighbor and dad's crazy angry friend with Napoleon complex used that as an excuse to get in my face and back me into a corner and threaten me for five long minutes and would not back off after several warnings. I ended up pushing him away and tried.to leave but he came at me swinging and hit me so I took him to the ground and she called the cops only after I subdued him. He admitted that I fell for the trap and that he likes me but that she told him to do this. I got it all on recording. She didn't actually call the cops after I left like she said but she filed a PO on me the next day and lied and omitted important facts in the report. She claims I threatened her bf and her but admits that she didn't take it seriously until I got into a fight with her neighbor. Like I deserved to be assaulted for raising my voice a little. Can I use this recording in court? Do I just need to show text messages that show her contradictions? What about recording from during the good times in the relationship when she begged me to stay and said I was the best person and wanted my babies and all that stuff? Will they deny that as evidence? I also have pictures of texts in her phone to another guy complaining about me being controlling and abusive but I also have pictures of her posts on Instagram talking about how great I am and in love she is and how she wants to marry me from just days after the messages about me were sent. I'm just trying to figured out what evidence to use to discredit her..she knows I'm no threat but I don't think she will back down and drop it. She wants to put me away and control me and get revenge for the things I said to her and about her (the truth). I have to fight this because she's the one who lies cheats and slanders and I can prove it but don't know if I will get a chance to show it all to the judge..can I send him a letter before trial?. I asked for a continuence but he set it for Thursday
@@patriarchmike Your ex sounds like a nightmare on steroids. Isn't it so twisted that her lack of caring for the litter box gave her so much ammunition to play the victim, with you as the star perpetrator? Typical narcissistic behavior. Their ability and gall to play the victim in the circumstances they create is gut wrenching. My ex refused to give me my personal bible and college and grad school diplomas, which is so crazy because he claims to be such a Christian, yet denying me the ability to actually read the bible. NUTS! They only way I was able to get these items back was to tell him I had some of his stuff, which I didn't know at first that I had. When I found them in my things I used it as leverage to get him to give me my items. Filing false protective orders is also typical narcissistic behavior. CLASSIC! The ability to submit recordings in court is a state by state thing. What I will say that it has been my experience that all text messages and are permissible in court along with everything else that can be gathered on paper like bank and credit card statements, emails, etc. It's all part of the discovery process. So, regardless of what has been "documented" in the past where you are concerned, I would do everything possible to not give her anything in writing that will make you look bad. This will mean that you should not take her "bait" or feel the need to "right the record". There should be no reason to communicate with her at this point since you don't have children. I would not be sending her money or having her watch pets or have any other interaction with her. Every interaction with her will be an opportunity for her to inflict drama and cause you to possibly stumble. Unless the court told you to send her money, I would not. If you need to defend yourself, do it in court. Don't defend yourself to the narcissist. Hopefully, this information is helpful. Let me know how things go.
I've listened to dozens of attorneys and experts on YT. This is, in my opinion, by far the most practical and useful. No waffling, no entitlement, no legalology. Simple, hands-on, advice based on real life experience.
I’m facing lots of false accusations by my son in combination with my ex wife. This is my first experience with cps. I am completely devastated. I spent the weekend before court rationally explaining each and every accusation. I wasn’t able to explain much at our first hearing and have lost custody of both of my boys until cps can do an investigation. It’s truly sickening. My ex is a narcissist and I had to deal with similar behavior during our divorce. I truly can’t believe the lengths she has gone to gain full custody of our boys. I realized quickly that I need an attorney so that’s my plan of action as of yesterday. They will literally add false accusations while in court on top of the original false accusations that you’re fighting which is another thing that happened. It is completely disgusting. I agree though, you have to have your facts ready. If you think you’re just going to walk in to a courtroom and just wing it, you are going to get destroyed. It is really a shame how this can happen to good parents ending up in long costly court battles while your children are left with the false accuser. It is criminal imo.
YES!!! Your description of your ex is classic narcissistic behavior! They all go to the same emotionally abusive training (not really, but it sure feels that way) to learn how to inflict pain on others. They are truly transparent people, so once you know how to deal with one you can deal with any of them. Yes, all too often the children end up with the narcissist because they have perfected their craft at showing others a false self and they will lie about ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING in spite of the evidence to the contrary. I did a video on how to select the right attorney for your case against a narcissist. Please watch that so you know how to select the best one (ua-cam.com/video/VBV_zCN1SNY/v-deo.html).
Currently, my divorce with my ex has been going on for 3 years. We had no property together and we were together for the total of the 9 months my son came into this world. Then he left. Ever since then and I had my son (taking care of everything for him), he has called DHS 3-4 different times with different accusations, 2 emergency files for different accusations and currently, we have been waiting for DHS to give paperwork to the court (that was due per the court months ago) while my ex is currently illegally holding my son in direct violation of a court order for custody. CPS/DHS is a JOKE. Everyone in the legal system is a joke and are just trying to get paid or re-elected. Praying for you and your family because these are gut wrenching times. God will serve Justice at the right time and will help you bring Him into your household so when your child/children do come home, they will have full support, love, and understanding for everything they have been and will go through with the other parent.
I'm so sorry your going through this. As a mother going through court battle with my narcissist sons father and now false accusations in my 7th cps case to now lost temporary custody of my child.
But to mention me and my ex were never married just had a child together. He was also arrested for domestic violence between me and him and yet he still was able to lie and get temp custody of our child. I'm a damn good mom and give and do everything right as a parent. Had 5 cps cases closed and now 2 open back to back to have my son ripped out..I'm truly devastated and heart broken. I have a written statement for my court hearing tomorrow
Good points! You poor soul - I sure know how it feels to be falsely accused by narcissists. It is a sad irony of life that malicious false accusers, at least in the beginning of a case, have the advantage. They are utterly God-less and without any conscience. Almighty God is on our side - the honest, decent people.
Thank you so much for your thoughts and concerns. They truly are God-less and truly evil!!! They win a bunch of "battles", but truly lose the war in life. They are horrible people!!!
They are true Evil , Godless for sure.Lying is so easy to them. With there lies they are destroying Innocent people.My ex is trying to destroy me , but I am fighting back, with truth.
Thanks for the pep talk. I recently discovered someone close to me may try to "get rid of" me through false allegations some time in the next few months. Trying to be prepared well in advance because I am the only thing standing in the way of this individual getting everything they want.
In my case: Opposing counsel: "hearsay hearsay hearsay, blah blah blah" My counsel: "ya we got exhibits A thru Z proving these allegations are not true." Court reporter: just typing away without a care in the world giving me more documentation to use later.
In my experience it is also crucial to remember that while you're in the pain it is hard to see the light at the end . But in the long run things can change. The children have to know that you love them and fight to be with them. Now 20 yrs later I have a normal relationship with my kids and my daughter talks to my wife more than to her mother.
My ex is a covert malignant narcissist and she accused me of sexual abuse of my daughter, among other things, in order to get sole custody. She has no empathy for our daughter, only see her as her property and an asset. It was one year of hell, police investigations and social authorities investigation. In the end I was cleared and even came out very favourably in the custody evaluation. Finally, now shared custody and 50/50 % time with my 2-year daughter. Even after all her false accusations and lies, she gets shared and 50 % so the system is favouring the woman/mother. But I'm relieved to have my daughter half of the time and hope it will be sufficient to protect her against the narcissist. Beware female covert narcissists, they are very deceptive and pure evil!! Beware of women organizations /feminist organizations, who in my case aided the narcissist. I didn't realise quite how crazy these organizations are. Often populated by narcissists or borderline women. Thankfully the custody evaluator, police, and social authorities were very professional. Narcissism is a very serious personality disorder.
And don't let your guard down. They will not accept losing. If your ex has no empathy for her own daughter, and she knowingly falsely accused you of sexual crimes, IMO she is not fit to even have shared custody. Have you considered petitioning the court to remove her parental rights? Think that's too much? I got news for you ... she's not done. I know personally of a case similar to yours where mom actually created physical evidence of sexual abuse in her own daughter's body, and then re-accused dad of sexually abusing their 2-year old daughter. This time mom had the "proof" she didn't have with her original false accusations. Watch out - protect your daughter. You know by now that your ex would throw your little girl under the bus just to get to you. Be smart - don't let her ruin your daughter, or you.
feminist organisations - yup in my case a malicious social worker destroyed crucial evidence (by sheer stupidity), falsified court reports and lied to the court. Incredible. Police refuse to take a report or investigate. The sad bint from CAFCASS just slammed her hand on a large pile of documents, each proving my ex was lying - and refused to read them. Court records went missing, the lot. These are very sick people.
Thanks for sharing your own experience. It is very sad how this kind of father they do not try to give the mother peace .If anybody loves his child should Support the mother of child finnance also let mother and child life in peace .Through this kind of problems the court get money layers get money.......really to tell how sick are some father to take revenge in this way .......god bless you for sharing hope to hear more Videos from you thanks for sharing your testimony.
You are so welcome!! You are right about not all false accusations go away and it is very painful to endure a narcissist's smear campaign. I think you might find this video helpful that I did a while back on How to Free Yourself from a Narcissist's Smear Campaign: ua-cam.com/video/9Tn6-04zDGw/v-deo.html.
When i was dealing with child protective services there were false allegations as well as CPS' perjury and haphazard lack of organization. Fortunately, defense goes last. CPS perjury can be proven false when you take the stand last. Just bring a paper trail. Great tips by the way. Good job!! :-)
Me too!!!! I was so amazed at how readily he could just make up stuff as we went along. I couldn't believe the willingness to literally just make up something out of thin air. It floored me!! My biggest grief I think was the fact that I could no longer live as innocently as I had before knowing that there were people like this in the world. It saddens me.
Thank you this is very similar to Mom's Physicians intentionally and repeatedly did against me as they targeted and framed me as their Iatrogenic's Scapegoat. MCSCG-PROXY Aspiration Pneumonia. This was malicious Retaliated, harassed, hostile, and False Accusations- Defamation of Character Label Perse and Slander Persa. I suffered for yrs 2012 to preset 07/05/22 and counting Egregious Emotional Duress, Complex PTSD, Chronic Depression, Hypertension, Retinas Detachments, and Vascular Syncope, Nervous Shock Syndrome etc.
Have you been able to figure out what the reason the physicians targeted you? Have you figure out what is going on beneath the radar as to why all this is happening?
The problem is if the court doesn't want to hear facts and see any proofs ... it happened in TX, Harris County Family Court 2017- now... 6 attorneys. My case is now in Supreme Court in the US.
I totally understand My daughter is a leukemia survivor and she ended up in the PICU when the school violated drs orders . They reported me 3 times .. Thank God I kept a paper trail ..
My father died from an 8 year battle with leukaemia & it was terrible to behold. That your daughters school complicated your life & your daughters recovery at such a stressful time is despicable.
I can painfully relate to this mother trying to figure out "How do I combat lies that were designed to attack my Good name and behavior❓" Also the embarrassing and difficult position to stand in my TRUTHS 🆚 subcomb to Fantod Beatdowns, and Iatrogenic's Gaslighted Abused, Ganged Surveillance, and Ganged up against me. The most painful how I was banned to physical touch my own Beloved Mother when she needed and wanted me the most @WSAMCS.
I am so very sorry Helene that you are going through this as it sounds so emotionally painful. Narcissistic abuse is brutal, so the emotions surrounding it will be just as deep to manage. You will get through this, but it will take intentionality and time. We are here for you!!!!!! Sending big hugs your way.
This was helpful. It’s so insane what we are going through. The problem patient died (OD), but it turns out the widowed ex-step mother is worse. Just making up all sorts of lies and has even convinced the child to go along with it. The child is vulnerable and with a much younger emotional development than her age. I feel like it’s guilty until proven innocent. I did everything for this child. Took her to therapy just about her whole life, took on the court stress. Made sure she was in activities. Advocated for her constantly at her schools etc… and now she is lost… permanently. Judge threw out the allegations, law enforcement did and investigation and “disproved” it all. And we still wait for CPS. So far everyone has seen the truth. But the thought that the next investigator may get it all wrong or have some sort of bias is terrifying honestly.
Hello. If a case is mutually dismissed, can I still sue for false arrest ? I was falsely arrested and charged with Simple Assault, they asked for a Mutual Dismissal & expungement. Can I still sue this police department ?
This is reassuring. I had so much trouble believing that my stepdaughter would do this to me. So Accept and Expect. Don’t get involved with the drama. Right. Faith in my attorney, also. (i so empathize with your story.)
Just stumbled on you video. I was in court with many poor attorneys from 2004 to 2014 . Only time I won was pro se as I listened to the lies my hand shot up like a second grader. Narcissistic lier didn’t claim 90k as income but judge sided with me. I will look for you chart on note taking. Im now in EEOC over discrimination medical accommodations were denied. Employer only offered me time off without pay for medical conditions. After 16 weeks I asked again for accommodations but they ignored my request. Listening to them lying is tuff. I also have social anxiety disorder so whole body shakes during the entire time sometimes over two hours. They intentionally blocked my UC and fired me for abandoning my job. Knowing I couldnt wear a face covering and wrote me up while masks were still in place. The year before they placed me in tele-work for mentioning I couldn’t wear a mask.
The lies that these narcissists tell in court are so hard to listen to. It sounds like you have had a long legal road too. My heart goes out to you. I am so glad you found my channel and I am humbled that you find my content helpful to you. So glad to have you part of the Courtroom Companions Community.
How do I authenticate text message screenshots? And do I need to take a whole years worth of screenshots? Accusations in screenshots calling out my character, should I exclude those?
I’ve been falsely accused of a crime that was racially motivated, I’m lost as what to do. I have a past I’m worried about them bringing up but having been where I was to where I am an knowing I didn’t do what they accused has left me trying to find answers.
Your past shouldn’t be brought into this current case. In this current case, gather all of the evidence possible to prove your innocence. The burden of proof is on the prosecuting attorney and he/she can’t make true what is not true. They will need to prove it with irrefutable evidence and that is not possible if you didn’t do it.
@@tamaraalexander3406 thank you for the information, it eases me a bit. Unfortunately this false accusation has me so unsettled. It was brought up by the arresting officer, an made seem as if because I had been previously arrested that it was a factor an tried to insinuate. Your talking well over 15 years ago with more then difficult times serving a sentence probation, completed with not an issue or so much as a hiccup. It changed my life. There was a statistic I heard an I refused to be that statistic. I’ve stayed on my course because of the negative an embarrassing impact it had,it settled me down. I’ve achieved so much an refuse to do wrong in the event I could go back to a life of rebuilding an hard times. I’m comfortable in life an love life I was a part of a hunting camp,im an out door enthusiast, part of my dream is to share that world of outdoors,it saved my life being one with nature is amazing. My dream is to introduce other ethnic individuals who might not be in tune with that world of out doors. I was part of a hunting camp for a few years as a paying member. A fight ensued with the old mans son. He assaulted me an I walked away cause I didn’t want problems. Well there taking revenge was trying to throw my equipment out of the camp. It got ugly an racial an nasty, there radical people I knew I had to get my stuff sooner then later or else I would loose my stuff. So I went up grabbed my shut and left I honestly forgot A child poper had been placed at the top of the door so I could know if in fact someone had been there. They went to this place over a two day period an claimed I had left the propane stove on! I can count on three fingers how many times he has been there in the last 6 years They must have poped when they opened the door, from the inside insinuated I was trying to blow them up. Nothing burned nothing so much as scorched Arson with a devise. How do I approach that. It’s a novelty item I’m lost as how to approach. Sorry for the rant. I felt I had your ear. Thanks
At my OP hearing, opposing counsel suprised the court with texts I allegedly sent the night before my wife filed for an OP while she was on vacation at her sister's house. 1. Why did the judge allow a surprise exhibit? 2. Why didn't the judge call for a continuation or recess to allow my lawyer and me to exaxmine the exhibit? 3. Why did the judge say to me when I said I did not send those texts "I don't believe you" and eject me for 1 year?
I’m glad to know that you were exonerated of the false claim/s made against you and don’t doubt you or suggest that you shouldn’t be, I’m just not sure that a man would have been exonerated in the same situation.
The Traumatized Personality of Victims Of Covert Narcissistic Abuse #narcissism abuse the female narcissist and cpo court hearing filing sue court bias female no proof police reports hear say falsified, no consequences, perjury removed me 3 weeks we co own home ,with videos audio s letters delusional iluk. 1 Reply
Makes one wonder what you can do when the judge is a part of the city hall cabal, and decidedly dirty. I’ve already managed to find another case where all the same state actors did something very similar for a lot less. Also, it seems that the last lawyer I had was purposely ineffective, and managed to get me fired from an out-of-state job that paid very well.
Blessings, sir. A landlord had his police friends falsely arrested me and physically abused me by choking me with a sit belt, put a bag over my head until I fainted & dragged me. I ended up in the hospital with a blood pressure of 210. They then falsified medical report and said that I was drunk when I was never interviewed, never evaluated & no exam was performed on me. What saved me is the fact that I went to a different hospital right away and they document that I was abused, " TRAUMA." I had an attorney, but he was trying to have me sign Medical Authorization form to get that false report... And he told me to sign a Stipulations of Probable Cause, & he wants me to plea guilty to municipal ordinance because I vomited & urinated when the police abused me. Because I didn't want to sign he relieved as counsel. Can you help me to represent myself, please ? I'm willing to pay for your advice. Oh, did I mention how the police had a complete video DO- OVER to convict me & they ask me to waive all my rights to sue them or file against them ? Yes. Help me, please.
My teenage granddaughter (17 yrs old) lied so she could live with her wealthy friends who let her get away with murder, smoke pot, etc etc. She got on the stand and lied even more, I didn't know if I should laugh or cry!! Even the prosecutor lied and I can absolutely prove it but nothing will ever be done and CPS and the GAL , prosecutor all believe her crazy accusations.Even the prosecutor lied and I can absolutely prove it!!
What type of case was it? Is your case over? Lying on the stand doesn't carry the weight that I thought it would, unfortunately. It has been my experience that the lying is obvious to everyone and seems to speak more to the lack of credibility of the person lying, and doesn't appear to be talked about as perjury. I always assumed that if someone was caught on the stand lying, that they would get in tons of trouble, but that was definitely not my experience. In fact, you can view any of the Depp/Heard trial and hear lies being uncovered, and not once have I heard the word perjury. Lawyers lie all the time in order to win their case too. All of this has been so surprising to me.
@@NakedNarcissism I was charged by CPS for "failure to protect" when my unruly granddaughter got mad at me and her dad for grounding her. She keeps running off and is gone for days to a week so I had her PO to put a leg monitor on her. Within a week her PO cut it off when she passed a drug test by drinking something she got online called detoxify. By the next day she ran off. Her dad was visiting and they got in a argument about it so that day I took her with me to a appt I had to separate the two. Before I could get this she got on my nerves so bad cussing at me I ended up leaving her at my parents in stead of taking her. She told me something she was going to tell her PO about me that wasn't true but then she knew she it would work better if she lied about her dad because he's a recovering addict and it would be more believable so while she was at my parents she called her PO and told her that her dad is using meth in front of the kids. When I got home the PO and police was there wanting to search my house so I let them the only drugs that were found were her THC cartridges and related items (no one asked who they belong to but I told her po they were hers) her dad was arrested and drug tested negative for all drugs. Before her dad got out of jail she called her PO she was afraid because her dad was getting out so CPS took her. She did this because she knew she'd never have to go to foster care. There's a cpl who's quite wealth who she'd visit every weekend and idk what all lies she has fed them but for 3 yrs they have told her she could stay with them and she's aggravated me to death about living with them and of course that's where CPS has placed her. That was 3/10 and I found out the reason we haven't got visitation yet is because she telling CPS she can't be around us until I have counceling and she doesn't want to see her dad at all because he uses drugs and is crazy and afraid of him. Unbeknownst to CPS she has been at my house every weekend since the 3rd week they took her I finally got sick of them believing everything out of her mouth so I just told cps a cpl days ago. I'm so afraid she will accuse a male family member of molesting her. Now CPS is wanting to drug test me and I'm wondering what she has told them I'm doing. I so far have refused because I've had past false negative test but I don't even have a history of drug use smh . The story is much longer tho
I have a similar situation false alagation by my boyfriend and his dad. I accidentally caught them doing lots of illegal activities. So they lied to lock me up than brought me back to the property. They tried to bribe me and threatening to kill me. They are narcissists.19 attorney won't listen. Nearly 4 years. I gave up on attorney I have facts, picture document and witness text. My last attorney didn't listen told me I didn't live at my boyfriend house for 13 years. My attorney didn't use my evidence, text picture he closed his office. This is Domestic violence,fraud with a Real Estate
How if supervisor visit give false bad reports about 1 of parent? The parent can’t give evidence because not allowed record when video during spend time with the kids under supervisor visits
I wasn't even heard. The most evident error from court was the total absence of allowing me to express my opinion. However, I am somewhat okay with it, because it's a documented flaw (proof) I can put forward any other case which eventually would be filed against me. By not allowing me to speak up, the court has failed to permit the most essential reason a court exist in the first place.
Nobody has ever made a video that explains this before. Or, at least, I did not find any video about this topic. Thank you, for making this video. I am falsly accused by my ex. So, I lost everything because of that. I lost the kids, the house, the money. Everything is lost by being falsly accused. What is worse, I can not even pay a lawyer anymore, and therefore, I can not defend myself, without a lawyer.
I am so very sorry that you are going through this ordeal. I created this channel to help people in your situation. Many of my videos are made to help you represent yourself. I hope that you can watch them so that you find hope in your situation.
No, I'm currently going through false accusations of DV simply because my narcissist Wife got caught cheating and now I'm the bad guy. I'll never get married again once I clear my name and get my divorce.
Im married and separated i don't regret giving my self fully to someone I'm saddend it didn't work but I don't recommend marriage unless you are both completely self sufficient and have your own homes moving into someone else's life normally the wife's creates a balance issue most marriage can't survive if both parties have means to feel no need to stay together all there is left is wanting to be together
Thank you for these advices. I am in a divorce proceedings and have trouble in holding back my emotions when lied about. I will certainly take your advice.
I have a trial coming up and I have been fighting a malignant narcissist for 14years. False accusations on top of false accusations and as a dad fighting THAT plus she has gotten her mother and sisters to lie for her.... I need all the help I can get. In your case you are lucky if you consistently get the same judge/commissioner long enough to expose the BS. Best to just get a lawyer but make sure they don't waste time and stick to the issues. I've been bled dry by lawyers and simply speaking family lawyers see dads as ATM machines and moms as the pin number...
Regarding taking good notes: Your lawyer is required to provide you with a CD of the hearing if you ask. If they're really good, they will provide the transcript as well.
Some courts video and audio record the proceedings. After the proceedings (a day or 2) go to the clerk and request a CD. I usually request 2 copies. 1 for me....1 to send with my appeal. 😉
Yes. You can file a Writ of Mandamus which Commands the Court to compel CPS to disclose the documents. Or, file a Subpoena Duces Tectum. This type of Subpoena is a request for production and/or grants access to the property and examine the documents in person.
If you are Pro Se in a defamation civil case and the Defense counsel has managed to get witness statements from the only two sources that would have them, but when I try to subpoena the same statements, Company lawyers tell me, you are not entitled to get them, is this fair? I am now looking for the Jv525 court document for Md. but cannot find it. Has anyone been through this before?
Are you in the formal discovery process? If these are the witnesses for the defense, I don't think you are entitled to get written statements from them ahead of time. The only way you can do this is through deposing them. You can depose them and ask them pretty much any question that you want to.
Yes I have been trow that I have been trying to get devose over 20 years solicitors no one helps me thay say I have a lowq and thay say my gran died 😢 when my son was born and my gran naver died not die thay all lied about me I lost my rag social services in Stoke on trent never had a problem with me
Do you have proof in the form of documentation (emails, documents, etc.)? If so, most HR departments have folks on staff that you can go to complain about unfair treatment.
@@NakedNarcissism how else can someone make false allegations if not in motions (with or without memoranda) or pleadings? Besides verbally in court? Edit: and testilying (oops 😆) I'm still learning and always willing to listen. Thank you.
How do I do that? I could have even went on the stand but my attorney didn't want me to so she didn't tell me so I don't believe there's anything that can even be done about it now
Even when you are an owner of the property and your brothers boyfriend refuses to simple leave, he admits to the police he choked me I pepper sprayed him, he and my brother hired not one but 2 lawyers to lie, the lawyer were also talking to the police gaslighting, also called the police day 2, to add a lie I physically assulted him the police during co vid sided with him! then the idiot.... thru one of his lawyers additionally asked for medical bills, time off work, lawyer fees. Had to have a trail not to pay him. It was dismissed $32,000 dollars later. took them all into court for malicious prosecution, judge said got to ask for slander, so here I am with not a lot of respect for the police or court system lawyers... they just want the money.
It is sick when top level authorities dont respect fairness and what is right but twists those concepts to do more harm, and sometimes politicians are in on it too by making bad laws
The way I always handled it was I just kept telling my truth. The judge will be judging your credibility all along and will be comparing it to the other party. Even if I didn't say things exactly the way an attorney would have preferred me to say it, the judge was able to view the situation for what it was and could clearly see who was lying. Just keep telling the truth regardless of how the other party tries to twist your answers. Hopefully this helps!
@@NakedNarcissism they will eventually trip up on their own web of lies and get caught in their own trap. They will contradict themselves when you stick to the truth.
Thanks for this article: I was just falsely accused on Sept 24, 2024 of misdemeanor battery by a women who hit my clipboard with her phone when she was asked to stop videoing a political meeting and refused four requests to desist. She called the city police, they took mine and four witness statements saying I did not do anything wrong and she caused the situation. The city police did not take any action, but the woman demanded they forward her request to prosecute to the County Florida State Attorney, who DID file the misdemeanor battery charge. I am now calling other meeting attendees to get more witness statements. Not one said I was at fault, but she pushed her phone into my clipboard when I was trying to block her videoing. The Florida State Attorney's office for Lake County clearly is trying to intimidate me in a lawfare situation because I write a local fiscal watchdog blog.
Thank you for letting us know! We just rebranded our company from courtroom companions to naked narcissism, but you can access the program by going to www.nakednarcissism.com and click on Narc Abuse Recovery Program from the homepage. We are now in the process of updating the links here in UA-cam for all of our products and services so thank you so much for bringing this to our attention and for your support.
When you hire an attorney you generally are not sure of their legal limits of authority to protect you in the legal mine field, especially in divorce court. If you had a book that described how to sue your attorney it would help you understand just what actions they could take on your behalf and more certainty what you could demand from them. You don’t intend to sue them but you do need to understand the attorney client relationship. Thus if this read points to an inadequate representation by your attorney, go back to the attorney people market and get another. That simple. Don’t be in the dark with their hocus pocus legal language. Get multiple tape recorders and make use of court transcripts. Good luck
Thank you for this information. The attorney/client relationship is key to your success in court. I posted a video a couple years ago about selecting the right attorney (ua-cam.com/video/VBV_zCN1SNY/v-deo.html) hoping to help this community know that they don't have to accept inadequate representation. Thank you for watching!!
@@MrProfessional777 agree that attorneys must follow the rules of the court, however they are not immune from litigation from operating against the interests of their client, you. Yes they can be sued! Therefore I recommended the client become aware of the attorneys legal responsibility and remind them if necessary.
They can accuse you of anything, but they have to be able to prove it in court. A judge doesn't care what a person says, the judge cares what the person can prove.
My deplorable lying ex put in a fam order with her attached lies. Stating i didnt spent time with my son, i prefer work over time with him. My life for last 4 years have been my son. Period. Now i have to fight alone, because i cabt afford a lwyer.
You look like you cleaned up very nicely with the house you are in. My opinion is if she wants the half sh needs to put down her half to everything we made, owe, or borrowed.
False accusations really should be illegal.
Yes, for both moral & logistical reasons. Courts are snowed under with cases as it is without them being polluted with time consuming lies that maliciously attempt to pervert the course of justice that wastes court time & resources
They should beyond a reasonable doubt prove it.
It is but it's up to prosecutor to file the charges, not the victim of abusive litigation.
You should be able to defend yourself verbally. Totally cuts off the defense of the individual who’s not a trained professional
They are, it's called perjury, and you can file a civil suit for damages
2:43 tip 1 - irrefutable proof be prepared
4:32 tip 2 - know that false accusations are coming.
5:36 tip 3 - take good notes in court.
6:52 tip 4 - be neutral to false allegations
8:03 tip 5 - lawyer will clean up whatever false allegations were said about you.
@@Maiden_America Medias on the room, bring people, fallow the DSM anti soc personnality, look for all the manipulative tech. They used it.
Thing to remember, the judge can cut off your explanation at mid sentence, so the better approach is to prepare written documentation and file with the court and have documentation that can be handed to the judge while in session. Don’t rely on the possibility of defending yourself verbally you will be upset and disappointed.
Very true!!! I have seen this many times. I agree that documentation is the best approach. I created this video to help this community prepare their documentation (ua-cam.com/video/TiG_U5LpVII/v-deo.html).
@@NakedNarcissism alot of times in actual trial they don't accept documentation and they need you to actually testify about it aswell
That’s right! Then misunderstanding hurt you! It happened to me.
@@alexbekkala1718 I disagree from personal experience
You look
“Narcissists count on people not spending the time to detangle their web of lies.” 🎯💯💯💯💯💯🔥🔥🔥
You're absolutely right. Narcissists often rely on manipulation and deceit to maintain control over others. They thrive on creating confusion and chaos, making it incredibly challenging for their victims to unravel the truth from their web of lies.
Recognizing this pattern is a crucial step towards breaking free from their toxic influence. By taking the time to untangle their web of lies and seeing through their manipulative tactics, individuals can begin to reclaim their power and autonomy.
It's essential for survivors of narcissistic abuse to trust their instincts, seek support from trusted friends or professionals, and prioritize their own mental and emotional well-being. Remember, you are not alone, and there are resources and communities available to support you on your journey towards healing and recovery.
That's exactly how social services operates. I didn't take a family court lawyer, I took a civil litigator and he kicked their false allegation a@@ and kids were ordered back same day. We were even prepared for the 2nd shoe drop. FYI, they always hold back at least one allegation to catch you off guard at the court house knowing it's too late to gather your defense.
💯
💯
I went through this exact accusations with my ex,what a painful time in my life especially defending the LIES,after a 2 year fight I got custody of my kids,and have no regrets in divorcing that man
I wanted to let you know that I watched several of your videos but this one was super helpful. I got divorced on Tuesday 1/3/23. I was pro se and did a lot of research and watched a lot of videos, but yours hit home. My ex was a huge liar and being under oath didn’t change that. I wrote down on a sticky your advise. I read it before the judge walked in and the trial started. I kept my composure, stayed dignified and calm. I owned that courtroom and the judge I believe saw right through the lies. Thank you so much for taking the time to make these videos. They truly helped me a lot.
Oh, my goodness! This brought tears to my eyes this morning. This is exactly why I do this. I needed to hear this today so thank you. I am so very proud you of you!!!! The courtroom can be intimidating especially when your face to face with someone that mistreated you but YOU DID IT!!!! I am celebrating you today. You should be so proud. I am always here as a sounding board if you need a listening ear.
what happened in your case
The Traumatized Personality of Victims Of Covert Narcissistic Abuse #narcissism abuse the female narcissist and cpo court hearing filing sue court bias female no proof police reports hear say falsified, no consequences, perjury removed me 3 weeks we co own home ,with videos audio s letters delusional iluk.
1
Reply
It's not the lie that hurts. It's the who the lie is coming from that hurts..
Yes! People who supposedly love us who lie about us creates a deep wound. I am so sorry that this has happened to you.
@@NakedNarcissism thank you... I have recordings going back years of our arguments where she basically denied proven cheating and also to commonly throwing tantrums and breaking and throwing things in her begging and pleading for me to stay. Said I'm the only good person in her life and doesn't want to lose me after I caught her out on a date with a guy who she told me was her brother but was actually a guy who had been trying to get with her since I met her and who she called a creepy stalker. So maybe I could use that to discredit her?
@@patriarchmike Wow! She sounds like a person with tons of issues. Unfortunately, it has been my experience that courts don't care about cheating spouses. They feel that although a person may be a terrible spouse, they may still be a good parent. What they truly care about is whether or not the parent can put their hate and distrust of the other parent aside and put their children's needs first. The best way to discredit her is to show evidence to the court where she puts her needs above her children's needs. For example, does she take them to school regularly? Does she show up to important events for the children? Does she take them to their activities? Does she refrain from screaming and throwing tantrums in front of them? Let me know if you would like to discuss. you can schedule a discovery call with me on my website www.courtroomcompanions.com
@@NakedNarcissism there are no children involved thank God. I knew not to get her pregnant like she wanted. There is actually a recording where I was trying to record music and she kept interrupting me to talk about her hair color (asked me permission to die it as if I cared... I didn't) and also guilt tripping me for not wanted to bring kids into the world yet (this was during covid).. I just know that she would be using kids as leverage for control over me.. because I left her for cheating over 5 months ago and went no contact but every time she would reach out to get me to break it or she would post nasty stories about me on Instagram. For example she posted a picture of a note that she left on her front door for the neighbors in her building asking them not to treat her like a child by going to her bf about the cat box smell. She blamed me for leaving my cats there (she offered to take care of them until I get a place that allows pets) as if it's my fault that she can't clean her litter box..I had just bought her a huge bag of litter too. So I got mad when I saw that and started sending her nasty text messages telling her off. She is now using that to say that I harass and stalk her. Literally every conversation with her was started by her. I left her and just want me stuff back but she finds lame excuses not to let me get my stuff or my cats when I try to get them.. she even admits ina text that she knows once I get my things she will never see me again or the money I owe her. I don't owe her shit but I told I'd help her with money (and have been) just to keep the peace and reciprocate for taking care of my cats. When I went there on the deadline she set she gaslit me by telling me triggering news about how she deleted my Facebook account. I raised my voice asking her how she could do that to me and her neighbor and dad's crazy angry friend with Napoleon complex used that as an excuse to get in my face and back me into a corner and threaten me for five long minutes and would not back off after several warnings. I ended up pushing him away and tried.to leave but he came at me swinging and hit me so I took him to the ground and she called the cops only after I subdued him. He admitted that I fell for the trap and that he likes me but that she told him to do this. I got it all on recording. She didn't actually call the cops after I left like she said but she filed a PO on me the next day and lied and omitted important facts in the report. She claims I threatened her bf and her but admits that she didn't take it seriously until I got into a fight with her neighbor. Like I deserved to be assaulted for raising my voice a little. Can I use this recording in court? Do I just need to show text messages that show her contradictions? What about recording from during the good times in the relationship when she begged me to stay and said I was the best person and wanted my babies and all that stuff? Will they deny that as evidence? I also have pictures of texts in her phone to another guy complaining about me being controlling and abusive but I also have pictures of her posts on Instagram talking about how great I am and in love she is and how she wants to marry me from just days after the messages about me were sent. I'm just trying to figured out what evidence to use to discredit her..she knows I'm no threat but I don't think she will back down and drop it. She wants to put me away and control me and get revenge for the things I said to her and about her (the truth). I have to fight this because she's the one who lies cheats and slanders and I can prove it but don't know if I will get a chance to show it all to the judge..can I send him a letter before trial?. I asked for a continuence but he set it for Thursday
@@patriarchmike Your ex sounds like a nightmare on steroids. Isn't it so twisted that her lack of caring for the litter box gave her so much ammunition to play the victim, with you as the star perpetrator? Typical narcissistic behavior. Their ability and gall to play the victim in the circumstances they create is gut wrenching. My ex refused to give me my personal bible and college and grad school diplomas, which is so crazy because he claims to be such a Christian, yet denying me the ability to actually read the bible. NUTS! They only way I was able to get these items back was to tell him I had some of his stuff, which I didn't know at first that I had. When I found them in my things I used it as leverage to get him to give me my items. Filing false protective orders is also typical narcissistic behavior. CLASSIC! The ability to submit recordings in court is a state by state thing. What I will say that it has been my experience that all text messages and are permissible in court along with everything else that can be gathered on paper like bank and credit card statements, emails, etc. It's all part of the discovery process. So, regardless of what has been "documented" in the past where you are concerned, I would do everything possible to not give her anything in writing that will make you look bad. This will mean that you should not take her "bait" or feel the need to "right the record". There should be no reason to communicate with her at this point since you don't have children. I would not be sending her money or having her watch pets or have any other interaction with her. Every interaction with her will be an opportunity for her to inflict drama and cause you to possibly stumble. Unless the court told you to send her money, I would not. If you need to defend yourself, do it in court. Don't defend yourself to the narcissist. Hopefully, this information is helpful. Let me know how things go.
I've listened to dozens of attorneys and experts on YT. This is, in my opinion, by far the most practical and useful. No waffling, no entitlement, no legalology. Simple, hands-on, advice based on real life experience.
Divorcing a narcissistic sociopath is a challenge, it's hard. You give good advice!
I’m facing lots of false accusations by my son in combination with my ex wife. This is my first experience with cps. I am completely devastated.
I spent the weekend before court rationally explaining each and every accusation.
I wasn’t able to explain much at our first hearing and have lost custody of both of my boys until cps can do an investigation.
It’s truly sickening.
My ex is a narcissist and I had to deal with similar behavior during our divorce.
I truly can’t believe the lengths she has gone to gain full custody of our boys.
I realized quickly that I need an attorney so that’s my plan of action as of yesterday.
They will literally add false accusations while in court on top of the original false accusations that you’re fighting which is another thing that happened.
It is completely disgusting.
I agree though, you have to have your facts ready.
If you think you’re just going to walk in to a courtroom and just wing it, you are going to get destroyed.
It is really a shame how this can happen to good parents ending up in long costly court battles while your children are left with the false accuser.
It is criminal imo.
YES!!! Your description of your ex is classic narcissistic behavior! They all go to the same emotionally abusive training (not really, but it sure feels that way) to learn how to inflict pain on others. They are truly transparent people, so once you know how to deal with one you can deal with any of them. Yes, all too often the children end up with the narcissist because they have perfected their craft at showing others a false self and they will lie about ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING in spite of the evidence to the contrary. I did a video on how to select the right attorney for your case against a narcissist. Please watch that so you know how to select the best one (ua-cam.com/video/VBV_zCN1SNY/v-deo.html).
Currently, my divorce with my ex has been going on for 3 years. We had no property together and we were together for the total of the 9 months my son came into this world. Then he left. Ever since then and I had my son (taking care of everything for him), he has called DHS 3-4 different times with different accusations, 2 emergency files for different accusations and currently, we have been waiting for DHS to give paperwork to the court (that was due per the court months ago) while my ex is currently illegally holding my son in direct violation of a court order for custody. CPS/DHS is a JOKE. Everyone in the legal system is a joke and are just trying to get paid or re-elected. Praying for you and your family because these are gut wrenching times. God will serve Justice at the right time and will help you bring Him into your household so when your child/children do come home, they will have full support, love, and understanding for everything they have been and will go through with the other parent.
Same here ... S A M E
I'm so sorry your going through this. As a mother going through court battle with my narcissist sons father and now false accusations in my 7th cps case to now lost temporary custody of my child.
But to mention me and my ex were never married just had a child together. He was also arrested for domestic violence between me and him and yet he still was able to lie and get temp custody of our child. I'm a damn good mom and give and do everything right as a parent. Had 5 cps cases closed and now 2 open back to back to have my son ripped out..I'm truly devastated and heart broken. I have a written statement for my court hearing tomorrow
Love your kindness. Thank you for your generosity.
Good points! You poor soul - I sure know how it feels to be falsely accused by narcissists. It is a sad irony of life that malicious false accusers, at least in the beginning of a case, have the advantage. They are utterly God-less and without any conscience. Almighty God is on our side - the honest, decent people.
Thank you so much for your thoughts and concerns. They truly are God-less and truly evil!!! They win a bunch of "battles", but truly lose the war in life. They are horrible people!!!
They are true Evil , Godless for sure.Lying is so easy to them. With there lies they are destroying Innocent people.My ex is trying to destroy me , but I am fighting back, with truth.
You wrote nothing but the truth without Jesus I would've lost my children and mind he's the best and I'm unbeatable with him.
Money thats the only thing that will save you from narcissistic judges
3 attorneys and no one helped... now I'm on my own and doing better
Thanks for the pep talk. I recently discovered someone close to me may try to "get rid of" me through false allegations some time in the next few months. Trying to be prepared well in advance because I am the only thing standing in the way of this individual getting everything they want.
In my case:
Opposing counsel: "hearsay hearsay hearsay, blah blah blah"
My counsel: "ya we got exhibits A thru Z proving these allegations are not true."
Court reporter: just typing away without a care in the world giving me more documentation to use later.
That’s why documentation so important! Every thing!
In my experience it is also crucial to remember that while you're in the pain it is hard to see the light at the end . But in the long run things can change. The children have to know that you love them and fight to be with them. Now 20 yrs later I have a normal relationship with my kids and my daughter talks to my wife more than to her mother.
My ex is a covert malignant narcissist and she accused me of sexual abuse of my daughter, among other things, in order to get sole custody. She has no empathy for our daughter, only see her as her property and an asset. It was one year of hell, police investigations and social authorities investigation. In the end I was cleared and even came out very favourably in the custody evaluation. Finally, now shared custody and 50/50 % time with my 2-year daughter. Even after all her false accusations and lies, she gets shared and 50 % so the system is favouring the woman/mother. But I'm relieved to have my daughter half of the time and hope it will be sufficient to protect her against the narcissist. Beware female covert narcissists, they are very deceptive and pure evil!! Beware of women organizations /feminist organizations, who in my case aided the narcissist. I didn't realise quite how crazy these organizations are. Often populated by narcissists or borderline women. Thankfully the custody evaluator, police, and social authorities were very professional. Narcissism is a very serious personality disorder.
And don't let your guard down. They will not accept losing. If your ex has no empathy for her own daughter, and she knowingly falsely accused you of sexual crimes, IMO she is not fit to even have shared custody. Have you considered petitioning the court to remove her parental rights? Think that's too much? I got news for you ... she's not done. I know personally of a case similar to yours where mom actually created physical evidence of sexual abuse in her own daughter's body, and then re-accused dad of sexually abusing their 2-year old daughter. This time mom had the "proof" she didn't have with her original false accusations. Watch out - protect your daughter. You know by now that your ex would throw your little girl under the bus just to get to you. Be smart - don't let her ruin your daughter, or you.
feminist organisations - yup in my case a malicious social worker destroyed crucial evidence (by sheer stupidity), falsified court reports and lied to the court. Incredible. Police refuse to take a report or investigate. The sad bint from CAFCASS just slammed her hand on a large pile of documents, each proving my ex was lying - and refused to read them. Court records went missing, the lot. These are very sick people.
I get it.. a normal person with on the job training. Dealing with a narc and getting past it makes you a warrior! I love your content.
Thanks for sharing your own experience. It is very sad how this kind of father they do not try to give the mother peace .If anybody loves his child should Support the mother of child finnance also let mother and child life in peace .Through this kind of problems the court get money layers get money.......really to tell how sick are some father to take revenge in this way .......god bless you for sharing hope to hear more Videos from you thanks for sharing your testimony.
Your strength is awesome, I felt emotional watching this and I’ll be finding your template. Thanks queen
Thank you so much!! I appreciate you watching my channel and for your encouragement!
Not all false accusations go away
And I really appreciate this video and what u went through....
Thank u so much.....
thank you
You are so welcome!! You are right about not all false accusations go away and it is very painful to endure a narcissist's smear campaign. I think you might find this video helpful that I did a while back on How to Free Yourself from a Narcissist's Smear Campaign: ua-cam.com/video/9Tn6-04zDGw/v-deo.html.
Thank you for this testimony I am learning a lot.
Mine accused me of being a pristitude and a drug addict said I'm violent and beat up my kids. The are cruel and ruthles!
Stay calm, clear, concise and confidant.
When i was dealing with child protective services there were false allegations as well as CPS' perjury and haphazard lack of organization. Fortunately, defense goes last. CPS perjury can be proven false when you take the stand last. Just bring a paper trail. Great tips by the way. Good job!! :-)
Whatever you do keep emotions neutral.
Yes very much so I appreciate all your advice .. thank you for taking the time to make these videos ..
Excellent content! I was so unprepared for the lies.
Me too!!!! I was so amazed at how readily he could just make up stuff as we went along. I couldn't believe the willingness to literally just make up something out of thin air. It floored me!! My biggest grief I think was the fact that I could no longer live as innocently as I had before knowing that there were people like this in the world. It saddens me.
Are not punished the false accusations in the juridical system? In case of missing lawyer how can I defend the case?
Thank you this is very similar to Mom's Physicians intentionally and repeatedly did against me as they targeted and framed me as their Iatrogenic's Scapegoat. MCSCG-PROXY Aspiration Pneumonia. This was malicious Retaliated, harassed, hostile, and False Accusations- Defamation of Character Label Perse and Slander Persa. I suffered for yrs 2012 to preset 07/05/22 and counting Egregious Emotional Duress, Complex PTSD, Chronic Depression, Hypertension, Retinas Detachments, and Vascular Syncope, Nervous Shock Syndrome etc.
Have you been able to figure out what the reason the physicians targeted you? Have you figure out what is going on beneath the radar as to why all this is happening?
The problem is if the court doesn't want to hear facts and see any proofs ... it happened in TX, Harris County Family Court 2017- now... 6 attorneys. My case is now in Supreme Court in the US.
jesus christ man fuck harris county
I totally understand
My daughter is a leukemia survivor and she ended up in the PICU when the school violated drs orders . They reported me 3 times ..
Thank God I kept a paper trail ..
My father died from an 8 year battle with leukaemia & it was terrible to behold. That your daughters school complicated your life & your daughters recovery at such a stressful time is despicable.
I can painfully relate to this mother trying to figure out "How do I combat lies that were designed to attack my Good name and behavior❓" Also the embarrassing and difficult position to stand in my TRUTHS 🆚 subcomb to Fantod Beatdowns, and Iatrogenic's Gaslighted Abused, Ganged Surveillance, and Ganged up against me. The most painful how I was banned to physical touch my own Beloved Mother when she needed and wanted me the most @WSAMCS.
I am so very sorry Helene that you are going through this as it sounds so emotionally painful. Narcissistic abuse is brutal, so the emotions surrounding it will be just as deep to manage. You will get through this, but it will take intentionality and time. We are here for you!!!!!! Sending big hugs your way.
This was helpful. It’s so insane what we are going through. The problem patient died (OD), but it turns out the widowed ex-step mother is worse. Just making up all sorts of lies and has even convinced the child to go along with it. The child is vulnerable and with a much younger emotional development than her age. I feel like it’s guilty until proven innocent. I did everything for this child. Took her to therapy just about her whole life, took on the court stress. Made sure she was in activities. Advocated for her constantly at her schools etc… and now she is lost… permanently. Judge threw out the allegations, law enforcement did and investigation and “disproved” it all. And we still wait for CPS. So far everyone has seen the truth. But the thought that the next investigator may get it all wrong or have some sort of bias is terrifying honestly.
Hello. If a case is mutually dismissed, can I still sue for false arrest ? I was falsely arrested and charged with Simple Assault, they asked for a Mutual Dismissal & expungement. Can I still sue this police department ?
If my case gets dismissed can I sew them in SCC?
This is reassuring. I had so much trouble believing that my stepdaughter would do this to me. So Accept and Expect. Don’t get involved with the drama. Right. Faith in my attorney, also. (i so empathize with your story.)
Huh? Your step daughter was faking your husband? Her father? Yuck. And they let you watch them in bed? 😮
Just stumbled on you video. I was in court with many poor attorneys from 2004 to 2014 . Only time I won was pro se as I listened to the lies my hand shot up like a second grader. Narcissistic lier didn’t claim 90k as income but judge sided with me. I will look for you chart on note taking. Im now in EEOC over discrimination medical accommodations were denied. Employer only offered me time off without pay for medical conditions. After 16 weeks I asked again for accommodations but they ignored my request. Listening to them lying is tuff. I also have social anxiety disorder so whole body shakes during the entire time sometimes over two hours. They intentionally blocked my UC and fired me for abandoning my job. Knowing I couldnt wear a face covering and wrote me up while masks were still in place. The year before they placed me in tele-work for mentioning I couldn’t wear a mask.
The lies that these narcissists tell in court are so hard to listen to. It sounds like you have had a long legal road too. My heart goes out to you. I am so glad you found my channel and I am humbled that you find my content helpful to you. So glad to have you part of the Courtroom Companions Community.
@@NakedNarcissism
Yes in deed they have no shame but I believe in truth so will keep perusing toll the final final
How do I authenticate text message screenshots? And do I need to take a whole years worth of screenshots? Accusations in screenshots calling out my character, should I exclude those?
I’ve been falsely accused of a crime that was racially motivated, I’m lost as what to do. I have a past I’m worried about them bringing up but having been where I was to where I am an knowing I didn’t do what they accused has left me trying to find answers.
Your past shouldn’t be brought into this current case. In this current case, gather all of the evidence possible to prove your innocence. The burden of proof is on the prosecuting attorney and he/she can’t make true what is not true. They will need to prove it with irrefutable evidence and that is not possible if you didn’t do it.
@@tamaraalexander3406 thank you for the information, it eases me a bit. Unfortunately this false accusation has me so unsettled. It was brought up by the arresting officer, an made seem as if because I had been previously arrested that it was a factor an tried to insinuate.
Your talking well over 15 years ago with more then difficult times serving a sentence probation, completed with not an issue or so much as a hiccup. It changed my life. There was a statistic I heard an I refused to be that statistic. I’ve stayed on my course because of the negative an embarrassing impact it had,it settled me down.
I’ve achieved so much an refuse to do wrong in the event I could go back to a life of rebuilding an hard times.
I’m comfortable in life an love life
I was a part of a hunting camp,im an out door enthusiast, part of my dream is to share that world of outdoors,it saved my life being one with nature is amazing. My dream is to introduce other ethnic individuals who might not be in tune with that world of out doors. I was part of a hunting camp for a few years as a paying member.
A fight ensued with the old mans son. He assaulted me an I walked away cause I didn’t want problems.
Well there taking revenge was trying to throw my equipment out of the camp.
It got ugly an racial an nasty, there radical people I knew I had to get my stuff sooner then later or else I would loose my stuff. So I went up grabbed my shut and left I honestly forgot A child poper had been placed at the top of the door so I could know if in fact someone had been there.
They went to this place over a two day period an claimed I had left the propane stove on!
I can count on three fingers how many times he has been there in the last 6 years
They must have poped when they opened the door, from the inside insinuated I was trying to blow them up. Nothing burned nothing so much as scorched
Arson with a devise. How do I approach that. It’s a novelty item
I’m lost as how to approach. Sorry for the rant. I felt I had your ear. Thanks
So proud of you for being strong enough to get through this difficult patch in your life. You have a community of supporters here to assist as well.
At my OP hearing, opposing counsel suprised the court with texts I allegedly sent the night before my wife filed for an OP while she was on vacation at her sister's house.
1. Why did the judge allow a surprise exhibit?
2. Why didn't the judge call for a continuation or recess to allow my lawyer and me to exaxmine the exhibit?
3. Why did the judge say to me when I said I did not send those texts "I don't believe you" and eject me for 1 year?
I’m glad to know that you were exonerated of the false claim/s made against you and don’t doubt you or suggest that you shouldn’t be, I’m just not sure that a man would have been exonerated in the same situation.
The Traumatized Personality of Victims Of Covert Narcissistic Abuse #narcissism abuse the female narcissist and cpo court hearing filing sue court bias female no proof police reports hear say falsified, no consequences, perjury removed me 3 weeks we co own home ,with videos audio s letters delusional iluk.
1
Reply
What if its faulse allegations from a fostor care agency ?
Thank you for sharing this.
Makes one wonder what you can do when the judge is a part of the city hall cabal, and decidedly dirty.
I’ve already managed to find another case where all the same state actors did something very similar for a lot less.
Also, it seems that the last lawyer I had was purposely ineffective, and managed to get me fired from an out-of-state job that paid very well.
Blessings, sir. A landlord had his police friends falsely arrested me and physically abused me by choking me with a sit belt, put a bag over my head until I fainted & dragged me. I ended up in the hospital with a blood pressure of 210. They then falsified medical report and said that I was drunk when I was never interviewed, never evaluated & no exam was performed on me. What saved me is the fact that I went to a different hospital right away and they document that I was abused, " TRAUMA." I had an attorney, but he was trying to have me sign Medical Authorization form to get that false report... And he told me to sign a Stipulations of Probable Cause, & he wants me to plea guilty to municipal ordinance because I vomited & urinated when the police abused me. Because I didn't want to sign he relieved as counsel. Can you help me to represent myself, please ? I'm willing to pay for your advice. Oh, did I mention how the police had a complete video DO- OVER to convict me & they ask me to waive all my rights to sue them or file against them ? Yes. Help me, please.
good luck
Take good notes in court with what is said about you. Having a portable recorder on should handle this.
How long did it take to get confirmation that the car was wrong? To clear your name
My teenage granddaughter (17 yrs old) lied so she could live with her wealthy friends who let her get away with murder, smoke pot, etc etc. She got on the stand and lied even more, I didn't know if I should laugh or cry!! Even the prosecutor lied and I can absolutely prove it but nothing will ever be done and CPS and the GAL , prosecutor all believe her crazy accusations.Even the prosecutor lied and I can absolutely prove it!!
What type of case was it? Is your case over? Lying on the stand doesn't carry the weight that I thought it would, unfortunately. It has been my experience that the lying is obvious to everyone and seems to speak more to the lack of credibility of the person lying, and doesn't appear to be talked about as perjury. I always assumed that if someone was caught on the stand lying, that they would get in tons of trouble, but that was definitely not my experience. In fact, you can view any of the Depp/Heard trial and hear lies being uncovered, and not once have I heard the word perjury. Lawyers lie all the time in order to win their case too. All of this has been so surprising to me.
@@NakedNarcissism I was charged by CPS for "failure to protect" when my unruly granddaughter got mad at me and her dad for grounding her. She keeps running off and is gone for days to a week so I had her PO to put a leg monitor on her. Within a week her PO cut it off when she passed a drug test by drinking something she got online called detoxify. By the next day she ran off. Her dad was visiting and they got in a argument about it so that day I took her with me to a appt I had to separate the two. Before I could get this she got on my nerves so bad cussing at me I ended up leaving her at my parents in stead of taking her. She told me something she was going to tell her PO about me that wasn't true but then she knew she it would work better if she lied about her dad because he's a recovering addict and it would be more believable so while she was at my parents she called her PO and told her that her dad is using meth in front of the kids. When I got home the PO and police was there wanting to search my house so I let them the only drugs that were found were her THC cartridges and related items (no one asked who they belong to but I told her po they were hers) her dad was arrested and drug tested negative for all drugs. Before her dad got out of jail she called her PO she was afraid because her dad was getting out so CPS took her. She did this because she knew she'd never have to go to foster care. There's a cpl who's quite wealth who she'd visit every weekend and idk what all lies she has fed them but for 3 yrs they have told her she could stay with them and she's aggravated me to death about living with them and of course that's where CPS has placed her. That was 3/10 and I found out the reason we haven't got visitation yet is because she telling CPS she can't be around us until I have counceling and she doesn't want to see her dad at all because he uses drugs and is crazy and afraid of him. Unbeknownst to CPS she has been at my house every weekend since the 3rd week they took her I finally got sick of them believing everything out of her mouth so I just told cps a cpl days ago. I'm so afraid she will accuse a male family member of molesting her. Now CPS is wanting to drug test me and I'm wondering what she has told them I'm doing. I so far have refused because I've had past false negative test but I don't even have a history of drug use smh . The story is much longer tho
I can recommend you to a man who can help you with court case dismissed like he helped me
@@estheragbo6153 please do ty
@@vickicarnes6860 just Wh'atsap him now for heIp🙏
I have a similar situation false alagation by my boyfriend and his dad. I accidentally caught them doing lots of illegal activities. So they lied to lock me up than brought me back to the property. They tried to bribe me and threatening to kill me. They are narcissists.19 attorney won't listen. Nearly 4 years. I gave up on attorney I have facts, picture document and witness text. My last attorney didn't listen told me I didn't live at my boyfriend house for 13 years. My attorney didn't use my evidence, text picture he closed his office. This is Domestic violence,fraud with a Real Estate
I don’t see the link for taking the notes. Like the template
Thank you for your videos.
Do not bear false witness
How if supervisor visit give false bad reports about 1 of parent? The parent can’t give evidence because not allowed record when video during spend time with the kids under supervisor visits
I wasn't even heard. The most evident error from court was the total absence of allowing me to express my opinion.
However, I am somewhat okay with it, because it's a documented flaw (proof) I can put forward any other case which eventually would be filed against me. By not allowing me to speak up, the court has failed to permit the most essential reason a court exist in the first place.
UK family I just literally got gagged through out so good luck you all
Nobody has ever made a video that explains this before.
Or, at least, I did not find any video about this topic. Thank you, for making this video.
I am falsly accused by my ex.
So, I lost everything because of that.
I lost the kids, the house, the money. Everything is lost by being falsly accused.
What is worse, I can not even pay a lawyer anymore, and therefore, I can not defend myself, without a lawyer.
I am so very sorry that you are going through this ordeal. I created this channel to help people in your situation. Many of my videos are made to help you represent yourself. I hope that you can watch them so that you find hope in your situation.
Yes character assination for sure!!
What if u can’t get a lawyer cuz it was lawyer who put out the word not to work with me based on false accusations?
All advice helps, thanks
This whole situation is depressing. Is marriage even worth it in this day and age?
No might be the answer.
No, I'm currently going through false accusations of DV simply because my narcissist Wife got caught cheating and now I'm the bad guy. I'll never get married again once I clear my name and get my divorce.
Im married and separated i don't regret giving my self fully to someone I'm saddend it didn't work but I don't recommend marriage unless you are both completely self sufficient and have your own homes moving into someone else's life normally the wife's creates a balance issue most marriage can't survive if both parties have means to feel no need to stay together all there is left is wanting to be together
@@fernandomccrea sorry to hear that.
Not at all
Appreciate your info Im completely broke so the info about an attorney is absolutely not available for me
Great advice. Thank you!!!
You are so welcome!
Thank you so much❤
Thank you for these advices. I am in a divorce proceedings and have trouble in holding back my emotions when lied about. I will certainly take your advice.
Thank you for watching my content I am so glad it was helpful. All of this takes practice.
Thank you so much so appreciated on this video
I’m currently accused of a dv. I lost my car and my place that I was renting and living on a friends car.
You may skip to 2:45 and start there. 🤩
God bless u . It will get better ❤
Thank you so very much!!!!
Thank you 😊😊
Thanks for you info
Well i cant afford a attorney so wish me luck
Same here
Same here, give me tip on how to pay for an Attorney
@@sheliametcalfe Are you stupid?
Same here
How did yours go?
I'm so sorry good thing you alright!
I have a trial coming up and I have been fighting a malignant narcissist for 14years. False accusations on top of false accusations and as a dad fighting THAT plus she has gotten her mother and sisters to lie for her.... I need all the help I can get. In your case you are lucky if you consistently get the same judge/commissioner long enough to expose the BS. Best to just get a lawyer but make sure they don't waste time and stick to the issues. I've been bled dry by lawyers and simply speaking family lawyers see dads as ATM machines and moms as the pin number...
Thank you.
Liked and subscribed. Great advice
Thank you so much for watching and for subscribing!! I appreciate it so much.
at what point can you use sanctions to stop them from taking you to court?
Im pretty sure you can get a copy of the dictation that is taken by court stenographer. Still take notes but get that to.
Regarding taking good notes: Your lawyer is required to provide you with a CD of the hearing if you ask.
If they're really good, they will provide the transcript as well.
Can we not record on our phone in court?
No. Courts typically do not allow cell phones in the court room. You can request a transcript of the proceeding after it is over.
No you can't
Some courts video and audio record the proceedings. After the proceedings (a day or 2) go to the clerk and request a CD. I usually request 2 copies. 1 for me....1 to send with my appeal. 😉
What if a family never gets a CPS report? Are all CPS agencies to give both parties a report?
Yes.
You can file a Writ of Mandamus which Commands the Court to compel CPS to disclose the documents. Or, file a Subpoena Duces Tectum. This type of Subpoena is a request for production and/or grants access to the property and examine the documents in person.
But i cant afford ANY attorney. I work 2 jobs. Im starting to give up.
If you are Pro Se in a defamation civil case and the Defense counsel has managed to get witness statements from the only two sources that would have them, but when I try to subpoena the same statements, Company lawyers tell me, you are not entitled to get them, is this fair? I am now looking for the Jv525 court document for Md. but cannot find it. Has anyone been through this before?
Are you in the formal discovery process? If these are the witnesses for the defense, I don't think you are entitled to get written statements from them ahead of time. The only way you can do this is through deposing them. You can depose them and ask them pretty much any question that you want to.
thank you
@@fettigoya6709
File a Subpoena Duces Tectum and have it served by the Sheriff.
Yes I have been trow that I have been trying to get devose over 20 years solicitors no one helps me thay say I have a lowq and thay say my gran died 😢 when my son was born and my gran naver died not die thay all lied about me I lost my rag social services in Stoke on trent never had a problem with me
Hi Maddy. I am not sure I understand your comment. Can you explain a bit more?
So sorry for you.
Hopefully he finds a new supply
Super advice, ty. Also ty for the gender correction. So many use masculine nouns and pronouns when referring to a person with unacceptable behaviour.
Thank u for ur help
my new manager put lies in my end of year rewiew. what can i do
Do you have proof in the form of documentation (emails, documents, etc.)? If so, most HR departments have folks on staff that you can go to complain about unfair treatment.
Motion to strike and demand the party making the claim to provide evidence.
True if you are trying to ask the court to remove the pleading/motion from the opposing party. Thanks for bringing this up!!
@@NakedNarcissism how else can someone make false allegations if not in motions (with or without memoranda) or pleadings? Besides verbally in court?
Edit: and testilying (oops 😆)
I'm still learning and always willing to listen. Thank you.
How do I do that? I could have even went on the stand but my attorney didn't want me to so she didn't tell me so I don't believe there's anything that can even be done about it now
@@vickicarnes6860 you study to learn, then apply what you learned.
Even when you are an owner of the property and your brothers boyfriend refuses to simple leave, he admits to the police he choked me I pepper sprayed him, he and my brother hired not one but 2 lawyers to lie, the lawyer were also talking to the police gaslighting, also called the police day 2, to add a lie I physically assulted him the police during co vid sided with him!
then the idiot.... thru one of his lawyers additionally asked for medical bills, time off work, lawyer fees. Had to have a trail not to pay him. It was dismissed $32,000 dollars later. took them all into court for malicious prosecution, judge said got to ask for slander, so here I am with not a lot of respect for the police or court system lawyers... they just want the money.
It is sick when top level authorities dont respect fairness and what is right but twists those concepts to do more harm, and sometimes politicians are in on it too by making bad laws
If you're pro se, how do you "clean" up your answers to questions?
The way I always handled it was I just kept telling my truth. The judge will be judging your credibility all along and will be comparing it to the other party. Even if I didn't say things exactly the way an attorney would have preferred me to say it, the judge was able to view the situation for what it was and could clearly see who was lying. Just keep telling the truth regardless of how the other party tries to twist your answers. Hopefully this helps!
@@NakedNarcissism they will eventually trip up on their own web of lies and get caught in their own trap. They will contradict themselves when you stick to the truth.
@@patriarchmike Amen 🙏
She was very good.
Thanks for this article: I was just falsely accused on Sept 24, 2024 of misdemeanor battery by a women who hit my clipboard with her phone when she was asked to stop videoing a political meeting and refused four requests to desist. She called the city police, they took mine and four witness statements saying I did not do anything wrong and she caused the situation. The city police did not take any action, but the woman demanded they forward her request to prosecute to the County Florida State Attorney, who DID file the misdemeanor battery charge. I am now calling other meeting attendees to get more witness statements. Not one said I was at fault, but she pushed her phone into my clipboard when I was trying to block her videoing. The Florida State Attorney's office for Lake County clearly is trying to intimidate me in a lawfare situation because I write a local fiscal watchdog blog.
Thank you,
This is a great video. FYI, the link to your course isn't working. (Feel free to delete this comment! I just thought I'd let you know.)
Thank you for letting us know! We just rebranded our company from courtroom companions to naked narcissism, but you can access the program by going to www.nakednarcissism.com and click on Narc Abuse Recovery Program from the homepage. We are now in the process of updating the links here in UA-cam for all of our products and services so thank you so much for bringing this to our attention and for your support.
When you hire an attorney you generally are not sure of their legal limits of authority to protect you in the legal mine field, especially in divorce court. If you had a book that described how to sue your attorney it would help you understand just what actions they could take on your behalf and more certainty what you could demand from them. You don’t intend to sue them but you do need to understand the attorney client relationship. Thus if this read points to an inadequate representation by your attorney, go back to the attorney people market and get another. That simple. Don’t be in the dark with their hocus pocus legal language. Get multiple tape recorders and make use of court transcripts. Good luck
Thank you for this information. The attorney/client relationship is key to your success in court. I posted a video a couple years ago about selecting the right attorney (ua-cam.com/video/VBV_zCN1SNY/v-deo.html) hoping to help this community know that they don't have to accept inadequate representation. Thank you for watching!!
Attorneys are "officers of the Court". Their allegiance lays with the Court. Not you.
@@MrProfessional777 agree that attorneys must follow the rules of the court, however they are not immune from litigation from operating against the interests of their client, you. Yes they can be sued! Therefore I recommended the client become aware of the attorneys legal responsibility and remind them if necessary.
Can a person accuse you of distributing thier pictures without no prove they sent you the pics ?
They can accuse you of anything, but they have to be able to prove it in court. A judge doesn't care what a person says, the judge cares what the person can prove.
@@NakedNarcissism thank you so much for your prompt response . You made my day
@@leesmith3917 I am so glad I could make your day brighter. Have a wonderful weekend.
innocent until PROVEN guilty is still a thing right?
Not really, and not especially in family court.
My deplorable lying ex put in a fam order with her attached lies. Stating i didnt spent time with my son, i prefer work over time with him. My life for last 4 years have been my son. Period. Now i have to fight alone, because i cabt afford a lwyer.
Good luck. Do research, quote the law, know the rules in your state and stay on your square.
You look like you cleaned up very nicely with the house you are in. My opinion is if she wants the half sh needs to put down her half to everything we made, owe, or borrowed.
Hi. Can you explain a little more as I am not sure I understand your comment? Thanks so much for watching.