SKINCARE Q&A ... Botox, Fillers and other Confessions 🤫

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  • The many reasons I stopped doing all beauty injectables, full on Q&A about everything plus my newest skincare secret ... slicking!!!
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  • @estelleandjason
    @estelleandjason Рік тому +566

    I am 65. Hearing all of you worry about your age is making me remember when I felt the same. Girls, you will age, get lines, old lady arms etc. . Take good care of yourself. Eat your veggies! Less alcohol. Don’t smoke. Practice good skin care! Do not forget your neck and chest! Use your sunscreen! Then, sit back, have fun, enjoy your life! A happy life looks good on your face! When you are my age you will lookin the mirror and reap the rewards of your work. Yes, you will look older, but, the more you do now the more it will pay off later! You will not look 20 at 65 but you will look like a darn fine woman who is aging well and looking great!

    • @Geordie_Chloe_
      @Geordie_Chloe_ Рік тому +8

      Thank you for them amazing wise words of advice! Thank you ❤

    • @inmaculadagonzalezgarcia4983
      @inmaculadagonzalezgarcia4983 Рік тому +3

      Thank you so much Estelle. Some people will say your advice is vane and 'looks don't matter" but I agree that it makes a huge difference when you take care of your skin and you see the results...when I was 16 I started using face cream to moisturize and my mom got angry at me bc she said I was too young to use any cream...like what the heck hahahha. Thank god I now take really good care of my skin!

    • @kimhsiang8049
      @kimhsiang8049 Рік тому +11

      Me at 49. I've had no self confidence all my life. I thought it would get easier. But I feel like the whole social media makes it even harder for woman. Especially younger woman. Or if you can't buy products that you are led to believe you "need" to be beautiful. So I'm learning to like my body. At the end of the day it's the vessel that takes you through life. It's no WHO you are. That is your soul inside. So I'm learning to think kindly about my body and appreciate what it does for me. I would NEVER say the things I say about myself to my girlfriends! So maybe I shouldn't say it to myself. Just learn to love you ladies. Beauty on the inside will last forever. The outside will change. You are all powerful, beautiful creatures xxx

    • @Kerkmensnommer1
      @Kerkmensnommer1 Рік тому +2

      Thank you Mama … 🎉❤

    • @monicamaroney7050
      @monicamaroney7050 Рік тому +3

      I love you ma’am

  • @mskazooli
    @mskazooli Рік тому +25

    As a 70 year old who lost my husband of 23 years at age 50, to brain cancer I appreciate getting here. Some of us don’t get the chance to age. All the scars, wrinkles, and gray hairs are EARNED! You do and have always looked amazing. When people “rag” on you it is jealousy, plain and simple. Those people are not worth the effort of responding. And in my opinion, Puka is adorable and sweet. Love on him as long as you can! ❤️❤️🐾❤️

  • @smurfmonster
    @smurfmonster Рік тому +377

    I love this video! Ageing is a privilege that many are denied we all need to REALLY appreciate that we get to experience it! The way we deal with it is all down to personal choice but let’s be grateful we GET to experience it.

    • @CC-iv7uj
      @CC-iv7uj Рік тому +6

      YES, I agree 100% at 57 I'm so grateful to have lived as long as I have. Each day is a 🎁 💝 GIFT!!!

    • @jlynd5526
      @jlynd5526 Рік тому +5

      100% agree. I’m going to be a grandma this April & I thank God every day that I’m here to experience such an amazing gift.💗

    • @glamgal28
      @glamgal28 Рік тому +2

      @@jlynd5526 congratulations

    • @JulieNick28
      @JulieNick28 Рік тому +6

      Yes! Going through breast cancer really made me appreciate it more. I have a new outlook on life! I’m almost 52 and that is NOT old! My Mom is 83 and still going strong.

    • @Hanarchyreigns
      @Hanarchyreigns Рік тому +6

      I literally came here to reference the quote "it is a privilege to age". Not to get too deep but after my mum died it truly took on a new meaning

  • @olga159
    @olga159 Рік тому +25

    I did Botox for years, would spend on average $650 + per visit. Every time, I would need more and more units, despite me being compliant and getting it every 3-4 months. Once I moved out of SoCal I stopped and never been happier. Not only is Botox expensive, but it also plays subconsciously on the maintenance of combating something that is natural (the process of aging), and embracing it as it happens.

  • @jmcg1029
    @jmcg1029 Рік тому +17

    I’m 41 and find it refreshing that you are embracing your natural beauty and focusing on your skin. I’ve been doing this because I can’t afford Botox and fillers myself . But I feel like there’s this push on social media like I’m supposed to get that done and I feel like we’re doing all women of all ages a real disservice. If you can afford it and it makes you feel good then great, but it’s certainly not necessary and women are still beautiful without it. Focusing on good skincare regimen can really do wonders.

  • @thecavanacollection
    @thecavanacollection Рік тому +113

    At 57 I look back on my life when I modeled and danced and did all the cool things…..I see my knuckles changing and getting crooked, I don’t wear heels anymore, just cool boots, and I see my face and eyes changing and I adapt my makeup. But I clip in hair, glue on lashes, gloss my lips, drape highlighter…dress cool, collect art, travel to my ranch in New Mexico…..youth gives way to retirement and travel. Don’t stress it. Things change and that’s the truth.- suanne nutter

    • @sagebeauty
      @sagebeauty Рік тому +2

      Love it. Love the vibe. Ageing is a privilege and should not be ‘anti’.

  • @jessicacarter890
    @jessicacarter890 Рік тому +154

    I turn 40 next year and I can't wrap my head around it. I'm not sure what 40 is supposed to feel like, but I just don't feel it. Thanks to great skincare and following advice from people like yourself my skin is in a phenomenal place. But I'm noticing my hair is getting lighter, and the baby hairs are slowing down. But aging with grace is my goal, because the goal is to get old.

    • @spoonlessvalkyrie7514
      @spoonlessvalkyrie7514 Рік тому +4

      You just feel a little older 😂. I’m 44 and it really is just a number. Although don’t forget your mammogram!!💗💗

    • @leelee2925
      @leelee2925 Рік тому +2

      I’m 43 and cannot believe I’m almost 44 🤯 what!!?? But I don’t feel it and I don’t look it either. I’m appreciative of good genes and good skin care

    • @butterflygirlbeauty
      @butterflygirlbeauty Рік тому +1

      I felt like that when I turned 40, expected it to be somehow huge and crazy feeling. It was just another year. I'm now about to be 43, I look younger then I did ten years ago. It's really all about how you take care of yourself honestly. I get told I look like I'm in my late twenties all the time lol

    • @kerigirl711
      @kerigirl711 Рік тому +1

      I would love to learn & hear some of your skincare secrets! I am new to the skincare realm with no idea of where to start… wanting to invest now! ❤

    • @lucyi1202
      @lucyi1202 Рік тому

      I’m 42 and I can’t believe it either. Like I was just in my 20s 😂

  • @hannahgonzalez
    @hannahgonzalez Рік тому +9

    Thank you for this Tati! I’m 27 years old and have been thinking about getting Botox and fillers since I was 15! Thankfully I never went through with it. I fell into the pressure of social media and society of thinking I had to obtain perfection. The life path I’m on now feels much more authentic and free.

  • @Kitchentyme
    @Kitchentyme Рік тому +8

    I’m 25 years old and I LOVE watching you open up about growing older! Love your point about loving ourselves no matter where we’re at physically.

  • @alexs8253
    @alexs8253 Рік тому +82

    I find it so funny how I have been doing this revolutionary skincare technique for years without realising I'm being revolutionary 😂 Just put face oil on top of my moisturizer one evening, found it worked really well and have been doing it the same way ever since.

    • @cwozzzz
      @cwozzzz Рік тому +1

      same! 🤣

    • @clairehawkes1112
      @clairehawkes1112 Рік тому

      Me too

    • @Chriannah1
      @Chriannah1 Рік тому

      Yes, same. I use rosehip oil as my last step.

    • @calliew311
      @calliew311 Рік тому +4

      This was a trend like 6 years ago too. It's not new, it's like fashion, it's (re) found again. Lol.

    • @palomareyes1951
      @palomareyes1951 Рік тому +2

      Definitely not new. This is the proper way to apply products. I’ve had numerous dermatologists tell me oils go on last.

  • @jessicapoliti6958
    @jessicapoliti6958 Рік тому +6

    So happy you’re no longer doing Botox! Natural beauty is the way to go. Aging is so precious and a gift. Been strict with skincare since my late teens so when people guess my age, they always give me younger and flip when they find out. Another important product to use whether rain or shine: sunscreen!!! It is the best anti-ager out there and to be used after a skincare regimen.

  • @graciem241
    @graciem241 Рік тому +5

    I always say that the neck will show someone’s age long before their face does. People neglect their neck and chest during their skin car routines but go hard for their face and it shows!

  • @jessicalarson3758
    @jessicalarson3758 Рік тому +58

    I am the same age as you and jumping the same hurdles in life. I am so so happy to have you to listen to and pep me up every video. You are truly an icon and a beautiful, fabulous and honest 1 at that. Love you Tati! ty for always keeping it real and being you! xox

    • @Tati
      @Tati  Рік тому +9

      Thank you Jessica 💕💕💕
      xo's Tati

  • @LeGoudy
    @LeGoudy Рік тому +16

    I asked the BBL question and I meant “Broad Band Light” laser treatment and not Brazilian Butt lift 😂😂 Loved this video!

  • @Lee22Marie
    @Lee22Marie Рік тому +3

    growing old is fabulous! many are denied this...embrace it and be your best self!💜

  • @C1nderfire
    @C1nderfire Рік тому +6

    Sunscreen is KEY. I really believe that. I see former classmate that have leather skin and I’m like oh no sunscreen. Been wearing since sun poisoning in my early 20’s.

  • @KarrasSim
    @KarrasSim Рік тому +19

    In one week I’ll be 46 years young, so I’m there with you. I put the work into my skincare routine, and I’m learning to embrace my age and everything that comes along with it. Thank you for talking about this and making aging look so damn good!!! ❤ from Houston!

  • @iwuvwow
    @iwuvwow Рік тому +8

    Regarding the last question you answered about BBL, I believe the person meant BBL as in the broadband light/laser treatment for the skin, and not a butt lift 😅. I've had BBL done to hide capillaries around my nostrils that made the skin look red and irritated. I know it's also used to help with skin damage like sunspots and stuff!

  • @beccaleigh524
    @beccaleigh524 Рік тому +3

    Love that you’re encouraging people to think logically instead of just relying on what we are told - especially since, as you said, we really don’t truly know what the long-term effects of these things could be.

  • @christinestewart5951
    @christinestewart5951 Рік тому +43

    That’s excellent that you’re embracing the aging process naturally while taking good care of your skin. Good plan! Keep it real 👍🏻

  • @jjthejetplane1794
    @jjthejetplane1794 Рік тому +27

    Loving the texture and color of your outfit today! The effect it gives off is very intriguing! Hope your day is fantastic Tati!

  • @hazelbarrett2423
    @hazelbarrett2423 Рік тому +11

    Tati!! Thank you for your amazing dedication and love in your videos! I’m in college now and your videos give me so much comfort in these new experiences for me. You are so beautiful and thank you for all that you do! 🤍

  • @CathyVaughn-ph3lr
    @CathyVaughn-ph3lr Рік тому +2

    I am 70 and just recently started playing with makeup(very sparingly because of a 70 year old canvas), and am having a blast with it. I always wore mascara and a little blush all my life but am enjoying foundation, concealer , eye shadow, etc...I also used only moisturizer every morning, but have started an am/pm skincare routine. I have never had any work done, mainly out of fear. You are beautiful and I am glad you do not let hateful people get you down!!

  • @danabarrett9080
    @danabarrett9080 Рік тому +2

    I am in love with Ole Henriksen products. I cannot wait to try the oil. So I am 50 years old. I get botox every 6 months on my forehead. It averages around 300.00 each visit. My gal is amazing with her knowledge of botox and I trust her. But Tati you are stunning. You don’t need it. Always great to watch your videos! ❤️

  • @natachaw23
    @natachaw23 Рік тому +8

    I'm going to be 40 in August and it's SO true - look in the mirror and appreciate what you see while doing your best to take care of yourself! I love watching your videos because they're so fun and relatable! 💛

  • @juliecasey6559
    @juliecasey6559 Рік тому +6

    I see a lot of people talking more about not getting filler or botox anymore but nobody ever really said why. I was curious and I am glad you answered!

  • @NikkiSix88
    @NikkiSix88 Рік тому +13

    Thank you Tati for this video! I promised this year I would truly focus on self care and skincare is a huge part of that journey! This is perfection 🥰

    • @Tati
      @Tati  Рік тому +3

      You're so welcome Nikki! Thank you for watching, I'm with you on that journey!
      xo's Tati

  • @juttam5215
    @juttam5215 Рік тому +6

    Im am 50 years old. I am not thinking about aging. I love my wrinkels around my eyes, my body, my grey hair. It is a gift to live and getting old. Sending love from Germany 😊💕

  • @Ma_Cherie1
    @Ma_Cherie1 Рік тому +44

    You know I used to fear these things too. Then my best friend of 20 years passed on Xmas Eve at the age of 40. She was in great health & gorgeous. Now, I say: it's a privilege to age. #perspective

    • @Laura-fj2ks
      @Laura-fj2ks Рік тому +3

      Amen …. I lost my baby sister at 51 yrs of age …. Life is too short to be overly concerned abt a few lines around ur eyes .. I do love my makeup and stuff but I have learned after losing my baby sister is who cares …. It’s NOT that important

    • @Sangeetha6785
      @Sangeetha6785 Рік тому +3

      My condolences to you. 40 is so young.

    • @Ma_Cherie1
      @Ma_Cherie1 Рік тому +1

      @@Sangeetha6785 thank you. ♥️

  • @jessicabalderas8627
    @jessicabalderas8627 Рік тому +5

    There is nothing wrong with 40! Or any age... you look absolutely gorgeous. Love your videos 💗

  • @rosemarydewar1707
    @rosemarydewar1707 Рік тому +2

    I just wanna say I love how expressive your facial expressions are now. It is absolutely beautiful. I am so appreciative of the steps you are taking.

  • @kalondiacasey
    @kalondiacasey Рік тому +2

    I love, love, love this video. I am a 62 year old beauty influencer and the oldest member of the Sephora Squad and I feel the exact same way. I felt so inferior about my aging that I went and had botox in May - oh Lord have mercy. I was so disappointed and hated the process. No more for me!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thank you Tati!

  • @effierivera9551
    @effierivera9551 Рік тому +2

    I’m 28 years old. I’ve done skin care since my late teens. Abd thanks to you, I’ve gotten tools and skincare to PREVENT and I’m so happy I did. I’m still doing skincare everyday and night and my skin really has thanked me. I get complimented and told how much younger I look than I am

  • @christinamoller4342
    @christinamoller4342 Рік тому +23

    We're the same age and it's comforting to listen to someone going through the same things. I feel like we all go through the feeling of "oh my god, I'm aging! I didn't think it could ever happen, oh what do I do??!!" Now that I'm here, it's not so bad. And you're right, there's so much more to life than aesthetics. The trolls can go back under the bridge.

  • @kelliblankinship5240
    @kelliblankinship5240 Рік тому

    I'm gonna be 41 in march and its so nice to relate to you going through this stage in life. Your beautiful and on the inside as well which is something time and gravity can't diminish! Thank you for sharing your realness with us and making it okay to be whatever age and be confident to have own style and creativity with the outer self!

  • @robertascholten8173
    @robertascholten8173 Рік тому +12

    Tati - that top, oh my gosh - the MOST FLATTERING color you have EVER WORN! You look completely stunning!

  • @k8isgr821
    @k8isgr821 Рік тому +4

    I stg I turned 40 in November and my knee started hurting the very next day...hasn't stopped since. I'm here aging right along with you Tati! ❤❤

  • @dawna.x
    @dawna.x Рік тому +8

    I'm 38 and I totally agree about the culturally ingrained ageism we have to deal with. This was a great video!! 💗💗💗

  • @jillianheatley3922
    @jillianheatley3922 Рік тому +1

    I started using the Ole Henriksen strength trainer moisturizer a few weeks ago after seeing you recommended it and it’s already changed my life. I live in New England and my combo skin gets soooo dry this time of year. And it doesn’t give me acne in the oily sections of my face. Thank you so much for the rec!

  • @AuryIris
    @AuryIris Рік тому

    I love your positive and honest attitude! Your skin and hair are glowing. You look gorgeous! I also love that you are posting your videos more often. That makes me so happy.

  • @amymarshall9800
    @amymarshall9800 Рік тому +2

    I love the how honest you are. You say the things we all think about but don't wanna talk about

  • @Icygirl34
    @Icygirl34 Рік тому +1

    I love my dog SO much, too! Your dog is adorable ❤ I like how much positivity, and kindness you bring. I am also glad you have separated yourself from the toxicity of becoming too involved in the beauty community. You are the only beauty channel I watch. Happy 2023.

  • @debsiegert
    @debsiegert Рік тому +1

    I think this video is one of you’re most authentic videos yet. Keeping it real is something I appreciate. So, Thank You!!

  • @stephaniedelmonico2341
    @stephaniedelmonico2341 Рік тому +1

    Tati the reason I started watching you is because of your age! I’m a 35 year old woman living in a Gen Z world and I need guidance and advice about skincare and makeup for the aging skin. It’s so refreshing to see someone who not only resembles my age but who is trying to age naturally and that gives me hope for myself ❤

  • @lizweckmann9491
    @lizweckmann9491 Рік тому +2

    I’m turning 40 this year and needed to hear this! Ageism is so sad and we should see aging differently. It’s definitely a privilege. 💕

  • @ErinBthankful
    @ErinBthankful Рік тому

    Thank you Tati!! SO down to earth and relatable. We appreciate your candidness. ❤

  • @silverlining1379
    @silverlining1379 Рік тому +4

    You look gorgeous Tati! LOVE this color on you and this makeup look! I was JUST thinking to myself, I feel like relaxing and watching a Tati video, and pouf, there was a brand new video that showed up :) xoxo

  • @janis7964
    @janis7964 Рік тому +1

    At 63, I my skin has never looked better and I feel great. I feel truly blessed and I love it when people think my 16 year old Granddaughter is my daughter! A lot of it is pure gratitude!!

  • @abeer_belle
    @abeer_belle Рік тому +1

    I've been watching you since I was 17 years old. I am now 27. Honestly, I feel we have reclaimed the real, happy & comfortable Tati we've always knew 💕🌸

  • @Caillou-fd8ts
    @Caillou-fd8ts Рік тому +1

    Love that you are discovering new techniques if slugging doesn't work for you. Didn't know this was called slicking but as someone with verryyyyy dry skin I have been doing this for years especially in winter as well as a drop of oil in my foundations. Slugging just is even better for me. Good drugstore options are the Burt's Bees glow booster for this or their rosehip facial oil!

  • @angelaglasscock8721
    @angelaglasscock8721 Рік тому +1

    Today I turned 43 and I 100% understand where you are. Gratefulness for the gift of a healthy body and mind is definitely where it's at!

  • @rheaborders7727
    @rheaborders7727 Рік тому

    I just turned 41 in December, Tati. I can tell you that I look at myself all the time, and wonder what is happening! You absolutely DO have to find your spirituality and love your new wisdom and lines. They are from having life, and smiling, crying, celebrating, and growing.
    Sending you my love! I’ve watched you for YEARS!! Love you!

  • @Tactical_Poptart
    @Tactical_Poptart Рік тому +29

    I am the same age as you and you are just such a refreshing breath of air. You look stunning and your happiness shines through. Would you possibly do an affordable drugstore skin routine in the future? I have bought products you have recommended in the past, but skincare has been put on the back burner at the moment. My husband and I are financially taking care of my aging parents and I need a more affordable skincare routine! Thank you for bringing a little ray of hope into my everyday life.

    • @juleszimmer1210
      @juleszimmer1210 Рік тому +1

      look at products called The Ordinary- no fillers, no perfumes excellent ingredients and a really great price point

  • @abigailporter2933
    @abigailporter2933 Рік тому +2

    Great video Tati, thank you! I turned 41 last october and I feel no different to when I was 39!! I'm still rough around the edges with plenty of health issues, the only difference is that I'm just not going to panic about it. Would I like better skin, sure, should I try to, yep why not eh! But I also have been honest with myself and said, my skin is not the best, because I haven't invested the time or effort into getting it sorted ( trial & error) but I have to say, I'm comfortable with understanding that we age, it's a blessing to be able to, ( Thank you God)
    I will say, I'm really enjoying seeing your expressions on your face, I warm to people that aren't straight faced all the time, it helps me to feel more connected outside of our four walls, plus also, you seem far more beautifully comfortable with how you present yourself. Anyways, I'm waffling now, sorry!! Have a blessed day 🕊

  • @L_San87
    @L_San87 Рік тому +2

    Let me just say this: thank God for Tati. Such a beautiful human being, ever growing, evolving amd sharing it with us. Thank you for creating this content, I hope to grow old together ❤️

  • @geblankensmith
    @geblankensmith Рік тому

    46 year old with oily skin here. I've been doing the "slicking" as the last step in my skincare routine for several years now. I use the tamanu oil from Erin's Faces. It's perfect for breakout oily skin, but also works for other skin types. I've never had any procedures (I'm a teacher... no money for that) and people always think I'm younger than I am. I credit that to taking care of my skin for the past 12-15 years as well as wearing sunscreen everyday. You look beautiful! And don't let anyone tear you down for your age. It is indeed a blessing to grow old.

  • @whitneymartinez3342
    @whitneymartinez3342 Рік тому

    I can't like this video enough! Spot on about the aging gracefully stuff. Thank you for being so open. 💓

  • @melissarobichaud8574
    @melissarobichaud8574 Рік тому +2

    As a 38 year old woman, I love this. I do the drop of oil in my foundation as well. I love skincare and you have given me so many tips over the years. Your wellness journey in general is so inspiring and you look amazing…not just for your age either. I love your content and never miss a video! Keep being your authentic you, we love it!

  • @katelyndunn5328
    @katelyndunn5328 Рік тому +1

    Honesty is the best medicine besides laughter. I love your videos Tati, I wish I could find the products you recommend. Stay beautiful ❤

  • @brandiparis5411
    @brandiparis5411 Рік тому +1

    I’m 43 and never had any cosmetic stuff…one I can’t afford that as single mom with 3 kids and two what’s wrong with aging??? It’s a good thing. If you’re not aging you’re dead, right. I try to age gracefully by using good skincare and being very consistent with it. Morning and night…I never skip. I also rotate products so my skin doesn’t get too used to something. I don’t know…I just get sick of people shaming WOMEN for aging. I’d rather get old and watch my kids have kids than the opposite. Love you Tati!!! Thank you for being so open. I Definitely need to try OH oil.

  • @Danielle-dw5gh
    @Danielle-dw5gh Рік тому +1

    Tati you are amazing! You look better than ever. I think that happiness can't be hidden and it's obvious that your life changes make you glow.
    I'm 38 and I am very commited on skincare. And yes I am a little scared about the changes that will happen more noticeably when I reach 40.
    But like one of your followers said: the goal is to get old.
    Love you!😊

  • @sarabird7922
    @sarabird7922 Рік тому +1

    I'm 37, and honestly, as I age, my make up needs change and that is needed for all those that age (which is everyone). I love you. Keep it up!

  • @marymack3276
    @marymack3276 Рік тому +8

    You are literally more beautiful by the day- literally! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @jordynperez786
    @jordynperez786 Рік тому +12

    This video couldn’t have came at a better time. Was just thinking about getting Botox for the first time and nobody could change my mind like Tati can!

  • @donnadallas1213
    @donnadallas1213 Рік тому +4

    I’m going to RUN to Sephora and buy the 2 OH products you’re using!! Thank you, Tati!! I’m SO happy to have you here in Texas!!
    Donna

  • @arieleasterling9229
    @arieleasterling9229 Рік тому +1

    Tati you'll leave this world beautiful ❤️ cause your soul is beautiful and you take care of yourself

  • @10222lucy
    @10222lucy Рік тому +1

    I was getting nervous seeing my neck lines but I'm also getting older so I feel like I just need to be kinder to myself regarding appearances. As long as im eating healthy and feeling good internally i think i just need to learn to accept that every part of my skin will not be forever firm. Thanks for the video Tati 😁💕

  • @eatmyoctopus
    @eatmyoctopus Рік тому +3

    I still get botox every 3 months but I stopped getting filler when I heard about it migrating behind the eye and blinding people. I won’t get it again. I’ve turned to getting treatments with my aesthetician. The sun ages you more than anything. When I was in my 20s I stopped going in the sun because it triggers my migraines. That’s the number 1 thing that’s helped me look younger than I am. The best lip plumper I’ve ever used is the Kylie cosmetics Plumping Gloss. So good!! I love the colors Rose and Chill and On Neutral

  • @rachelkl7799
    @rachelkl7799 Рік тому

    When you talk about something you ALWAYS make so much sense!! Love, love, love what you believe in!!

  • @Soupy_jr
    @Soupy_jr Рік тому +10

    Warmed my lil heart to hear you preach about the privledge and wonder of aging. I’m so excited to age and love hearing about others who are too. :)

  • @Murrh
    @Murrh Рік тому

    I’m 42 and this video helped my mental state SO much. I feel like I hit 40 and aged a decade in a few months!
    In my mind I’m still in my late 20s….Then I see my reflection 😣. Being single at this age sucks too.
    I’m learning to accept myself (there is not really any other option) but it’s tough….all the same being negative and stressed about it is only going to age me faster! The more effort I put into my skin and attention to what I put in my body is really helping.
    Thank you again for sharing. You are (always have been) stunning! I started using the Biossance squalane vit C rose oil and Omega cream about a year ago. Absolutely love them and no question it’s made a difference.
    Going to give the oil you use a try also❤️

  • @SS-jd7tg
    @SS-jd7tg Рік тому +1

    I admire you so much Tati!!! Sending you so much love 💕

  • @kimberlykertis8755
    @kimberlykertis8755 Рік тому +2

    Tati I ordered the ole henriksen moisturizer and face oil today. I can't wait to try them out. The cool thing was I got 15%off my order and 5 free samples! AND FREE shipping. Thank you for the recommendation. Merry Christmas to ME 😁

  • @ginaconnors3106
    @ginaconnors3106 Рік тому +1

    Loved this! This was such a great video, I can’t wait to try the oil. ❤

  • @NatalyaSerg
    @NatalyaSerg Рік тому +1

    Tati! This video is absolutely amazing! Thank you so much 🤩 and you look so beautiful 😍 I honestly love how you looked with Botox, fillers and I absolutely love how you look now… I think it’s all about what do you feel like doing right now, what you’re enjoying more now… and now you are on the path of not doing Botox etc and that’s awesome that you know and feel what you need RIGHT NOW, that’s why you ALWAYS look beautiful 🤩
    P.S. I also wanted to tell you that you are an absolutely amazing person, it’s very obvious from knowing you from your videos.. Lot’s of God’s blessings to you Tati 🙏🏼❤️🙌

  • @kristimiller6492
    @kristimiller6492 Рік тому

    You look so beautiful Tati with or without makeup! I completely agree with you about the botox over time wearing out the muscles in your face! Thanks for sharing. I'm so glad I'm not the only one who has these different thoughts and opinions.

  • @kateypeterson9663
    @kateypeterson9663 Рік тому +3

    Omg this video 🔥
    1. I love mixing an oil with my foundation! It looks sooo gorgeous!
    2. I'm 35 and my forehead wrinkles are HERE! I'm super expressive with my eyebrows and it shoooows. But, I'm happy with them. They are a road map of my life.
    3. How DARE someone hate on Puka!!!! He's sooo handsome!!!!

  • @parksbpknit
    @parksbpknit Рік тому +1

    So not interested in shooting anything into my face, glad my 30+ years of retina a use has paid off along with great sunscreen. Glad to hear your perspective and always love to listen to you.

  • @KarrasSim
    @KarrasSim Рік тому

    This video is giving me ASMR vibes with all those sound effects! Cannot wait to see the rest of the video. ❤ Happy Thursday!

  • @humayrahpatel2855
    @humayrahpatel2855 Рік тому +3

    I turn 20 this year and my mum always taught me to invest in my skin early, as I will see the benefits when I get older❤

  • @MaplesyrupCA
    @MaplesyrupCA Рік тому +1

    Tati you hit the nail on the head. My mom, who has been studying medicine and dermatology has said the same thing. When you inject a neurotoxin into the skin over an extended amount of time, eventually those muscles will atrophy, and we are going to see adverse affects in the future. It’s not preventative like they advertise. It can create dimpling in the forehead as well. Same with fillers- young women getting these lip injections are stretching and stretching their lips to the max, in which two things are happening- the filler migrates outside the line of the lips, and also when you stop or get the filler dissolved, the lips are then left wrinkly and thin. This isn’t to say if anyones gotten fillers or botox that your destined to have these things happen- this would happen over a long period of time. But it isn’t something that’s talked about enough and it needs to be. I applaud you for being honest and also being an advocate for aging, and doing it in a way that is based on research. We still have so much more information now than we did 30 years ago that we can do things differently to help the process of aging

  • @heckman28
    @heckman28 Рік тому

    I really enjoyed this video and found it so relatable. I am 41 years old and have been struggling with aging. Very difficult for me to accept my changing body. This video made me not feel so alone in this!❤

  • @kaylasayre9723
    @kaylasayre9723 Рік тому +3

    I just purchased the oil and moisturizer duo and got it in the mail yesterday! So excited to know you loved it! #slicking

  • @jackieturner4144
    @jackieturner4144 Рік тому

    I love ole henrikson I have practically every thing he makes and have been a firm belive in his brand from the first product I bought and nobody else talkes about it so glad you do people need to know how good the brand is and it works xx

  • @jenniferduh6842
    @jenniferduh6842 Рік тому

    You are GORGEOUS without or with botox and honestly I can’t tell a difference without it. You’re Gorgeous

  • @longs4
    @longs4 Рік тому

    I'm so refreshed by this video, beautiful Tati! I became a follower when you first got engaged to James, and I watched you for years but then I just sort of stopped watching youtube. I clicked on your page today to check in, and I noticed immediately how gorgeous and natural you look! Continue to age gracefully, as you are stunning! Way to inspire!! You honestly look younger than before! It's unreal!! The world needs more beacons of beauty aging naturally. And I love how you said 'Praise God!' Yes yes yes! He is truly shining in and through you. May our Lord continue to light your path and prosper you always. xo

  • @karenbrogan2586
    @karenbrogan2586 Рік тому

    Thank you, honesty is always so appreciated. Loved this chat!

  • @reginarico7
    @reginarico7 Рік тому

    Girl! That top! And thank you for being so candid about injectables. “You do you”. “Love yourself”. Listen to Tati!

  • @annienorris939
    @annienorris939 Рік тому

    Preach, Tati!
    I love the energy of this video.
    As an almost 40 year old, I'm here for this❤️

  • @mlynn1316
    @mlynn1316 Рік тому +5

    I'm only 22 but I have been watching your videos since I was 14. Hearing you talk about your journey so candidly with aging, beauty, self-acceptance, and just being a woman in general has really resonated with me and it has helped me to have a healthier outlook on myself. I know you are helping your older audience tremendously, but just know you are really helping shape your younger audience's outlook too!

  • @pearlladee4307
    @pearlladee4307 Рік тому +3

    Always a good day when we get to see you. ❤️

  • @mahreen6698
    @mahreen6698 Рік тому +1

    I’ve been unable to keep up with all your videos since Covid with the decline of my husbands health. I try my best to make time to watch you just to see how you are. How are you Tati? I hope you and your family are feeling better than ever.
    I believe that we age for the better and good. When we act our age mentally we become become more responsible and honest with ourselves and others. That inner peace and wanting good for others then shines on the outside which makes us look younger. Tati you’re beautiful inside and out, with and without any aesthetics. It’s a lot of pressure in the industry to keep up, wish we could just keep up doing without.

  • @liznelson7344
    @liznelson7344 Рік тому +2

    Love the Hairatage products! Thanks for the recommendation Tati xo 💙

  • @amandakadir2020
    @amandakadir2020 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for being such an amazing inspiration. You're so beautiful inside and out. ❤️

  • @elenibatas6569
    @elenibatas6569 Рік тому +9

    Tati, pls NEVER, NEVER EVER end a video so abruptly!!! When i am listeing to you, i'm like in the zone. Your voice is soo soothing and your content is much appriciated. love from germany

  • @louiem5778
    @louiem5778 Рік тому

    I’m also 41 this year and I’m LOVING the Strength Trainer moisturiser on your recommendation. It’s the first time I’ve repurchased a product several times in years. I’ve literally just purchased the Ole Henrikson oil (I paused this to add to cart!)to try as well as it sounds like a great addition.
    I’m fairly new to Botox- I’ve had it done every 6 months for the last two years as that’s plenty for me. I don’t have any real lines yet so it’s more of a preventative measure. Some of my closest friends hadn’t realised I’d had it done until I told them, it seems to give me that ‘I’ve just come off a relaxing holiday’ look and has the added benefit of completely eradicating the tension headaches I suffered from nearly daily. I had to take painkillers to function so the Botox is probably better for me in the long run 🤷🏼‍♀️. I’ve never had fillers and don’t think I ever will, I just don’t love how it looks. I’ve noticed that people generally look fantastic when they first get it done and then it gets overdone or migrates.
    I’m eternally grateful to my mother who bought me my first facial SPF to wear everyday when I was 12. This really has helped my skin! My younger sister was given the same and completely ignored the advice- she was the rebellious one- she now gets mistaken for the older sister which she absolutely hates 😂😂😂🙈.
    It’s a privilege to age but I will always lust after beautiful, juicy looking skin!
    Loving the content. You are glowing!

  • @alicerighi
    @alicerighi Рік тому

    Yes Tati!!! Looove this new version of you! ❤ It is true, I noticed your eyes are way more sparkly and your smile is more beautiful, since you can now "move" the muscles better!!

  • @alicianelson7068
    @alicianelson7068 Рік тому

    I love the new ole Henriksen oil! Thank you for sharing. The moisturizer is great too! I’m on my 2nd jar. Always look forward to watching you! Thank you for all of the time you spend with us and all the knowledge you share!

  • @alyssacastro448
    @alyssacastro448 Рік тому

    I love how you mention God & have shared your faith, even in videos such as this & your honesty ❤

  • @heathercordova2888
    @heathercordova2888 Рік тому +1

    Tati , I’m 41 and I get Botox only for migraines, it does help the forehead but I want to stop per the reasons you said about the muscles getting weak and not being the same. I’m absolutely terrified of that! Iv gotten it done going on 4 -5 years 😢 I want to stop so bad. You are right about the age thing! It’s finally hitting me where I notice my age in photos. I feel bad that I shame myself when I should love that God had given me my life and the time to age. You are 💯 right when you say this is life’s process and we need to let go of the Barr we need to look young forever. Thanks for this video. It really hit home and is helping me come to terms and be more confident in my age. 🥰😘 I appreciate you and your honesty.