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  • @lisastanley5682
    @lisastanley5682 10 місяців тому +373

    You’re beautiful no matter what. But I gotta be honest, you admitting you’ve had a boob job makes you even MORE relatable. Like “hey, I wasn’t born this way, I made some choices to change things I didn’t like”. ❤

    • @neanea1173
      @neanea1173 10 місяців тому +4

      So true!!!!

    • @PetraLilith675
      @PetraLilith675 10 місяців тому

      No confident, good hearted person cares what other women do to their body, only jealous, hateful trolls do who have a habit of tearing down other women. You notice men don’t do this because they don’t have all these insecurities and need to make others feel as 💩 as these types of women do about their own self all the time. Rather than improving themself and their life so they are happy, they sit and wallow in their misery and try to drag other people in their messes.

    • @studyhardplayhard5086
      @studyhardplayhard5086 10 місяців тому

      nose job and brow lift as well

    • @arielbrandon2746
      @arielbrandon2746 10 місяців тому +9

      ​@@studyhardplayhard5086She literally said nothing was done for her eyes or brows 😅

    • @studyhardplayhard5086
      @studyhardplayhard5086 10 місяців тому

      Right. And influencers do nothing but tell the truth. @@arielbrandon2746

  • @jessbailey1
    @jessbailey1 10 місяців тому +1114

    You don't owe anyone an explanation. Even if you live life in the public eye it's no one else's Business. You're beautiful inside and out. There will always be haters and that's their problem.

    • @donnarinehart1216
      @donnarinehart1216 10 місяців тому +21

      Totally agree. People forget that even though some choose to be in the public eye, it doesn’t mean they don’t still have a need for, and are entitled to SOME privacy. Disclosing they’ve had procedures isn’t something they owe anyone, any more than anyone else. They can’t be made to talk about it, nor should they if they don’t want to.

    • @artisticromance
      @artisticromance 10 місяців тому +68

      I kind of disagree. I think more people in the public eye should disclose what they have had done. There are so many celebrities denying it, while simultaneously pushing beauty products, weight loss supplements etc. when the reality is they had surgery and that's what worked for them. Denying it perpetuates negative body images as people strive for unattainable goals. I so admire Tati for doing this and being transparent.

    • @cam19661
      @cam19661 10 місяців тому +11

      Honestly, I do not care what you’ve had done. I’m not here to try and judge you or look like you. I’m here because you’re fun and you give me a reprieve from my busy and most times hectic days. You show me how to use some products that maybe I wouldn’t have used on my own because I’m was intimidated. Thanks for being your authentic self.❤

    • @jessbailey1
      @jessbailey1 10 місяців тому +30

      @@artisticromance I do agree with you that if someone has had cosmetic procedures or plastic surgery they should not promote beauty regimes or other methods that they falsely attribute to their results. When you have had lip fillers no amount of plumping gloss will give you that effect.
      Transparency in advertising is important for celebrities and companies.
      Further than that though I don't think it is an obligation. Tati has never claimed her supplements increased breast size.

    • @jo6731
      @jo6731 10 місяців тому

      Lorry Hill's channel is eye opening and she's very sweet and never shames a celeb. @@artisticromance

  • @Enrico_Fusai_Counselor
    @Enrico_Fusai_Counselor 9 місяців тому +126

    Loving this new era where you speak up your mind and understand that we’re all shades of grey and never just solid black or white ❤

  • @CathyVaughn-ph3lr
    @CathyVaughn-ph3lr 10 місяців тому +91

    At 71 I have to say I am not that troubled about aging, I have earned every wrinkle I have, I hang out with several ladies that I went to junior high and high school with and one of them said something about her wrinkles the other day and to me she looks exactly like that girl I went to school with, I told her she is beautiful we all are, the whole gang!!!!!

    • @faithalba18
      @faithalba18 9 місяців тому +11

      That’s beautiful 😊❤

    • @oumie9718
      @oumie9718 9 місяців тому +4

      You’re amazing ❤

  • @CNoel1984
    @CNoel1984 10 місяців тому +399

    I think a good role model is someone who is UNAPOLOGETICALLY THEMSELF... I appreciate your honesty. Keep it coming, girl. 😁

    • @leilaniz5909
      @leilaniz5909 9 місяців тому +3

      I know you're searching for the word genuine and you think it's refreshing but some people are unapologetically terrible role models so this isn't really a one size fits all statement

    • @CNoel1984
      @CNoel1984 9 місяців тому +1

      ​@@leilaniz5909That's why I said it to ONE PERSON, not the whole world

  • @susanmorris-smith5509
    @susanmorris-smith5509 10 місяців тому +106

    So well said Tati… I’m turning 65 next month and I’m finally getting my lower face and neck lift at the end of January… I’m celebrating my life!!!

  • @Lena2light
    @Lena2light 10 місяців тому +127

    When I turned 30, I felt more confident. Now at 38, I feel even more confident. I can’t wait to be 40, 50, etc. ❤️ By the way, your nose is literally perfect.

    • @Tified967
      @Tified967 10 місяців тому +3

      Me too I'm 38 also!

  • @deedeehogan1783
    @deedeehogan1783 10 місяців тому +112

    I remember meeting Tati in 2018 at the launch of Tati Beauty, I was nervous that she'd be way different in person but I was so relieved to see she was just as kind and patient as she comes across. And her husband James is also very lovely. Wish them the best always.

  • @SuzyKim84
    @SuzyKim84 10 місяців тому +65

    _THANK YOU for sharing! The only way to break down barriers, understand each other & spread awareness is to have uncomfortable convos. Avoiding, silencing & pretending things don’t exist, gets us nowhere!_

  • @KatieKitty2003
    @KatieKitty2003 10 місяців тому +402

    This is a personal power move and I'm so proud of you for it 💖

    • @user-kz7er3lm6z
      @user-kz7er3lm6z 10 місяців тому +5

      Thank you for being honest. Your so beautiful because you are a good person that truly wants to be helpful with all the tricks with makeup. It is truly an Art. Thank you❤️

  • @xxriotgirl289xx
    @xxriotgirl289xx 9 місяців тому +16

    Coming back to your channel after a few years and STILL in love, Tati. Especially obsessed with the "I choose" sentiment. It's so true and I wish more people would get on board 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @kimicope_
    @kimicope_ 10 місяців тому +1

    I love how you own "make me feel" as you deciding to feel that way. Your mindset & emotional wisdom is absolutely beautiful.

  • @nvjohnson88
    @nvjohnson88 10 місяців тому +49

    Thank you for posting this. I just had cosmetic surgery last year and I could t believe how negative some people can be when it’s no one else’s body…money…or decision.

  • @anna8968
    @anna8968 10 місяців тому +169

    Thank you for this. I’m deff struggling with aging. The aging almost happened over night. Things I never noticed and then it hits you like a ton of bricks. Trying to find more peace within myself

    • @laikanbarth
      @laikanbarth 10 місяців тому +34

      I’m right there with you. I’m definitely struggling with aging too. I know we can’t stay young forever but dang I expected the lines to come on gradually. It’s like I looked in the mirror one day and didn’t even recognize myself. I’m trying to deal with it. I can’t afford plastic surgery but I am doing retin a. It’s hard for us women. I think we put so much pressure on ourselves 😢.

    • @Lin6055m
      @Lin6055m 10 місяців тому +4

      For me the wrinkles came on gradually. I got used to it. Every age has its good times

    • @laurahulland
      @laurahulland 10 місяців тому +16

      This is so true. I’ve always had a young face even into my 40s but one day when I turned 48 I noticed I had a bloody turkey neck!! It’s now my biggest insecurity and I live in turtle necks. It’s so hard ageing as a woman. Don’t get me started on menopause 😢

    • @patr70
      @patr70 10 місяців тому +12

      I'm now 53 years old and aging starts to really accelerates fast when you hit between 48-50. My brother is now 54 and he has aged so much the last 3 years. I remember when I was a teenager and anyone who was in their 50s always look "old" to me. Some men still looked "hot" in their 40s but by the time they hit their 50s most looked "old". It's painful getting "old" .. but it's ever more painful seeing loved ones and dear friends get "old". 🏵🌺 I started watching Tati 6 years ago.. when I was 47 🙄

    • @sherrypettit5552
      @sherrypettit5552 10 місяців тому +12

      It happened overnight. I woke up old. Didn't recognize myself either

  • @lostgirlcosplay14
    @lostgirlcosplay14 10 місяців тому +109

    I'm currently getting treatment for body dysmorphic disorder and this needs to be heard. Thank you Tati!

    • @nina2222
      @nina2222 9 місяців тому +3

      Yes this is very needed and interesting topic, I can relate to it. I wish you all the best on your treatment❤

  • @shawneejerome3783
    @shawneejerome3783 10 місяців тому +2

    I love that you shared your story! I’ve been contemplating a breast lift/ reduction. I feel like people should do what makes them feel happy. If you are happy and not hurting anyone, why should it matter to anyone else?

  • @Lunarj
    @Lunarj 10 місяців тому +353

    You look STUNNING in this video Tati. I need a tutorial.

    • @blue2134
      @blue2134 10 місяців тому +9

      I was just thinking the same

    • @katbland9149
      @katbland9149 10 місяців тому +3

      YES!!

    • @bingm8109
      @bingm8109 10 місяців тому +4

      Wish the makeup products used were listed. Stunning and perfectly applied in a natural way.

    • @nancymccormick7567
      @nancymccormick7567 10 місяців тому +1

      She does ❤

    • @rosanabb7484
      @rosanabb7484 10 місяців тому +1

      Agreed 💯

  • @CindyCockerham
    @CindyCockerham 10 місяців тому +126

    I have pointy elf ears. They used to embarrass me, but when I saw pictures of my ancestors, I realized it is a genetic trait. I like them now.

    • @zoebaggins90
      @zoebaggins90 10 місяців тому +8

      They're beautiful ❤️

    • @FlailTV
      @FlailTV 10 місяців тому +12

      There are people who intentionally get their ears surgically altered to be pointy elf ears. I've thought about it myself many times. I'm glad you've come round to liking them now, because you never know who wishes they had ears just like them. :)

    • @guybrushthreepwood163
      @guybrushthreepwood163 10 місяців тому +1

      Beautiful trait!!!

    • @Learntarott
      @Learntarott 10 місяців тому +1

      I love that ❤

    • @04RockDoll
      @04RockDoll 10 місяців тому

      Me too!

  • @kelseymcculley9587
    @kelseymcculley9587 9 місяців тому +3

    Love your honesty, I think everyone can relate to not liking something about themselves, and it doesn’t make you a bad person if you want to change it. You are a beautiful person inside and out!

  • @jenmichelle523
    @jenmichelle523 10 місяців тому

    I love this new Tati era. I think your words are so true and I agree with everything you said! I’m happy that you are happy with your body! Having surgery does not take away anything and I appreciate your openness and vulnerability .
    PS you were the CUTEST little girl! Oh my goodness. Listening to you talk about how you felt as a little girl is just so heartbreaking. I felt the same. I still have so much inner child work to do. Hugs Tati.

  • @elle_sanchez
    @elle_sanchez 10 місяців тому +49

    I’m 51 and I totally resonated with what you said about looking at yourself in the mirror and noticing the aging but still feeling beautiful. I truly feel that as we age we really come into ourselves and become more confident and that in itself is sexy!

  • @michellem.69
    @michellem.69 10 місяців тому +19

    I had a nose job and liposuction of the hips in my early 30's. No regrets here. I'm now 60 and if I could afford a vertical facelift I would do it in a heartbeat, however, I'm not completely bothered by my ageing face. People still tell me they think I'm in my 40's! I'm so harsh on myself. I love you Tati and you are more beautiful today ever. Much love!

  • @danielleleven7676
    @danielleleven7676 10 місяців тому +1

    Love this video and you being vulnerable. You are such a strong talented woman. Thanks for being here Tati. I appreciate you.

  • @a.p.9381
    @a.p.9381 10 місяців тому +2

    What a beautiful video - I can feel in your energy how excited you are to be free to be real. I truly think honesty is so freeing - once you have nothing to hide there’s nothing anyone can say to you. Good for you lady, keep pushing! X

  • @tiffanywoodrum870
    @tiffanywoodrum870 10 місяців тому +136

    As someone who also got made fun of for her ears, thank you for being so open and honest about this. I can’t wear my hair straight or up either. I just looked into getting this surgery and I cannot wait until next year when I can. Your honesty somehow makes me feel like I’m not alone so thank you ❤

    • @tor2162
      @tor2162 10 місяців тому +5

      one of my friends in high school in the 1970s had surgery to pin her ears back, and she was not a vain person, it just made her stand out and feel very self conscious. plastic surgery was uncommon then, and another high school classmate had breast reduction surgery in 1970s high school. I am pretty sure our public medicine system covered both.We were in a small city in Canada and I don’t even think we had access to private cosmetic surgeons in my city then. We were all natural, no extra money, working for minimum wage after school.

    • @ammygutierrez6712
      @ammygutierrez6712 10 місяців тому +6

      I have big ears.. but I didn't let it bother me.. I think it's because I thought their shape was nice.. I know it sounds weird.. but hey that me.

    • @tmmc5
      @tmmc5 10 місяців тому +1

      You're so pretty! I'm excited for you! 🎉

    • @inspiteofbecauseof4745
      @inspiteofbecauseof4745 10 місяців тому +1

      I think it’s more common than you think. I’ve noticed Brittany Vaseur (UA-camr) never wears her hair any way but over her ears. Maybe it’s something that bothers her too.

  • @JaceFaceLuxe
    @JaceFaceLuxe 10 місяців тому +19

    also thank you for speaking about aftercare! most people (especially surgeons) conveniently gloss over that, and a lot of people are shocked by how brutal it can be!

  • @evapara
    @evapara 10 місяців тому +9

    You truly gave me a good perspective on what to expect if I ever got a plastic surgery for my breasts. I'm turning 27 in two weeks but I always felt insecure about my breasts because they are saggy, not rounded (more like triangles at times) and not big enough for my weight. I do want to fix them but I'm scared, so you put me into more thought of "do I want to do this? Who will help me if I need aftercare?" Never thought of that aspect.

  • @itsjust_deanna
    @itsjust_deanna 10 місяців тому

    I love you and how unapologetically yourself you are. It’s all about balance and what works for you. You can pick and choose different elements of lifestyles that resonate with you. Your honesty is refreshing. I had a deformation in my breast and I was always self conscious about it. I got a boob job in my early 30s and never regretted it. I actually just had them replaced last week and I love them even more! Everyone needs to do what makes Them happy and don’t worry about anyone else.

  • @michelleliucee
    @michelleliucee 10 місяців тому +72

    My mother got her ears pinned back several years ago and didn’t tell me. Once she had it done, she asked what was different about her and I couldn’t figure it out. I was so used to her as she was and never would’ve imagined she wasn’t happy. Although I didn’t think she needed it, I could tell that it really made her feel more confident after 40+ years! ❤

    • @Learntarott
      @Learntarott 10 місяців тому +2

      So interesting how we can carry baggage or beliefs from
      Childhood probably. We don’t realise how someone feels or how insecure someone can be

    • @Ysally13
      @Ysally13 10 місяців тому +5

      I reduced my breasts and the bags under my eyes. My only regret is why I didn't do it sooner. 😉

    • @FlwrCats76
      @FlwrCats76 10 місяців тому

      I had this done but the upper bleph to reduce the sagging on the hood. Took 10 years off! No regrets :) @@Ysally13

  • @nancymccormick7567
    @nancymccormick7567 10 місяців тому +54

    There’s nothing wrong with plastic surgery. I had a Bleph and feel so much prettier. My eyes were very hooded. Now you can see my eyeshadow and loving makeup!!

  • @ashleygodin6379
    @ashleygodin6379 9 місяців тому +3

    I've been watching for years and I never even noticed anything. I've always thought you are beautiful inside and out. Putting out positivity into the world wanting all of us to feel confident.

  • @sheristrykowski4690
    @sheristrykowski4690 9 місяців тому +2

    Love how real you're becoming or showing us now.. Wow. The new content you want to do sounds deep amazing,Tati! You're beautiful inside and out!

  • @asteriadiana
    @asteriadiana 10 місяців тому +5

    Thank you for the transparency, especially about the chest procedure. I really appreciate the presentation of truth, reality, and concerns of the procedure. It's super helpful for just being real about a big medical procedure.

  • @osvalyjimenez
    @osvalyjimenez 10 місяців тому +3

    Thank you Tati for being so open. As much as I love make up, I’m here for you and you doing things for the better and keeping you feeling positive is what’s important. I have several friends who got breast augmentation and reductions.

  • @maryanderson5262
    @maryanderson5262 10 місяців тому +1

    Tati, I just adore you. This video is so honest. So much respect for your journey, individuality and peace with your decisions.

  • @CCBloom1
    @CCBloom1 9 місяців тому

    YOU took so many of my words out of my mourn! In my 40’s and feel the same way. New self reflection and I see the world and my life differently then I did before decades before. I see natural beauty so much more beautiful than ever begins. I’m really enjoying it!! Great post!!!!

  • @LifewithCheyi
    @LifewithCheyi 10 місяців тому +17

    I love that you shared this with us! We should be allowed to do what we want with our body without being attacked.

  • @Mich.ellelopz
    @Mich.ellelopz 10 місяців тому +27

    ❤ love this! Props to you Tati for being open and honest after going through so much 👏🏼

  • @LuvAtFirstCite
    @LuvAtFirstCite 10 місяців тому +11

    I’m a believer for do you! That being said, I get confused by people who say they only want to use clean beauty, no toxic chemicals, eat clean, drink clean, eat organic, etc etc, but then get plastic implants and fillers and chemicals injected in their face. I’m all for plastic surgery but it’s the conflict of the two “ways of living” that confuses me.

    • @prettyacct
      @prettyacct 4 місяці тому

      How clean are they really living?

  • @JCoronado2413
    @JCoronado2413 10 місяців тому

    I’m so proud of you. You’re so brave! I’ve been watching you for a long time and I think this is the most beautiful you have ever been! Keep doing whatever you’re doing because it’s working girl!!

  • @alltherightkeys
    @alltherightkeys 10 місяців тому +49

    My sister got herself a boob job for her 40th birthday and she still loves them. She just turned 50. If it helps you to love yourself more, then I think you should go for it… with a solid understanding of the process and the risks, of course.

    • @ammygutierrez6712
      @ammygutierrez6712 10 місяців тому +1

      I got my first tattoo for my 41st.. always wanted my boobs done.. maybe I'll have to start looking at it again. I kind of felt I was to old to get one done.. thanks for sharing..

    • @Tified967
      @Tified967 10 місяців тому

      I can't blame people I have 30G boobs & always wanted a breast reduction until I hit my 30s when I became proud of them. I know many have it for different reasons; my friend did as she was only a double AA & I can only emphasise with how she was feeling from someone who kinda has the opposite problem (back pain etc). I was sooo self conscious in school as all the boys weren't trying to be mean but they'd come up with all sorts of names for me & another girl who was well endowed like me. It's so difficult to find clothes that fit as I'm only 5ft2 & small; I used to wear baggy clothes to hide them but it did my figure no favours. I wish ladies would wear the correct bra size as well; a good bra can do miracles for your cleavage; I thought I was a 34E until I got measured properly by a company that specialises in bigger boobs in the UK.

  • @rebeccasammon7423
    @rebeccasammon7423 10 місяців тому +17

    You are beautiful and glow inside and out, Tati. We all change and evolve. Six years ago, I had breast cancer and had to have a double mastectomy and reconstruction. It did not work out very well, so I have to have it redone, but I am so reticent to go back under general anesthesia again, but at the same time, I am so uncomfortable with the way I look both inside and outside my clothes. I was supposed to go from DDD to a full C, but I have ended up as a small, low profile C on one side, and some sort of smushed pancake on the other. It’s really hard to deal with. Thank you for coming forward on this.

    • @Marty22408
      @Marty22408 10 місяців тому +2

      We are warriors sweetie, we are strong, even if we feel uncomfortable in these difficult situations. I had a single mastectomy, but I opted out of reconstruction. I just didn't want to put myself under knife again, I did not want to be in pain or discomfort for months and months. I just feel good this way, I am used to it and I have a wonderful, supportive husband. But I understand that your situation is more difficult than mine. Sending you hugs and positive vibes ❤

  • @oumie9718
    @oumie9718 9 місяців тому +1

    I stop by a few time a year, just to see how you’re doing and love to see your ongoing growth and self improvements. Love you Tati ❤

  • @Lisa-0906
    @Lisa-0906 10 місяців тому

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️ Love this video. You are a good role model because you are real and honest. I watch you with my 11 year old daughter, I never have concerns on your content and delivery.
    The person inside is what counts the most, you are quality inside and out. Good luck with your trial xxx

  • @adelah4170
    @adelah4170 10 місяців тому +4

    Thank you for being so transparent on this topic. It's very refreshing. You're beautiful and I wish you all the best!

  • @Aalkam
    @Aalkam 10 місяців тому +4

    I've been watching you for year's now and was always in awe of your beauty I genuinely think you are one of the most beautiful people I've ever seen. This shows you how beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

  • @lennyball3885
    @lennyball3885 9 місяців тому +1

    I loving seeing this side of you Tati! ❤ You seem so much more confident and at peace with yourself!

  • @missmeliarenee
    @missmeliarenee 10 місяців тому +14

    i hated my nose for maybe like 8-10 years but the last few years i’ve really grown to love it and i can’t ever imagine getting plastic surgery for it

    • @vanemo778
      @vanemo778 9 місяців тому

      It’s so hard to imagine how we would feel if we made a decision like that. I did get a nose job and in all honesty I have no idea if I would be ok with my natural nose after all these years or if it would still bug me. I don’t regret it at all and love my nose right now but I always think that maybe I would feel like you… and then I think maybe not. Hard to know isn’t it?

  • @susanebailey
    @susanebailey 10 місяців тому +10

    I believe those of us that have been here since the beginning might have noticed certain changes we just respect you enough to let you tell your story when/if you wanted to! Your beautiful inside and out Tati! You go girl! Never have guilt for anything you did/do that makes you happy!! ❤❤❤

  • @annikasterner9251
    @annikasterner9251 10 місяців тому +5

    Yay for the transparency! I personally loved your ears before as well as now but i totally get wanting something done that improves your overall mental health.

  • @elisa-beary
    @elisa-beary 10 місяців тому

    Where you’re at rly resonates with me. When I had my… spiritual transformation a lil over 5 years ago from then to now & continuing I’ve transformed, evolved, looked within, cleared things out of my life, added things in, made changes- big & small. I’m the only one in my fam that has a strong faith but it’s guided me in ways I can’t explain unless you understand. It’s been & continues to be a rly beautiful transformation. You prob won’t see this but, I rly felt like sharing this. 💖

  • @parkerlynne
    @parkerlynne 10 місяців тому

    I appreciate the honesty! It's ok for anyone to want to change themselves and I am glad that these were things you put a lot of thought into instead of going trendy (like BBL or buccal).

  • @laurelle1372
    @laurelle1372 10 місяців тому +21

    Thank you for being so open and honest! ❤

  • @caramccaffrey4779
    @caramccaffrey4779 10 місяців тому +7

    Thank you for sharing your experiences. I am having such a hard time with my new body after having kids and have been contemplating surgery. I haven’t decided whether or not I’m going to do it but it was nice to hear some good feedback that doesn’t make me feel like a horrible person for even considering it ❤

  • @meganmalicki9857
    @meganmalicki9857 9 місяців тому

    I really appreciate you being so open about this. You don't owe anyone an explanation, but you sharing this will certainly help people who feel "guilty" over having a procedure.

  • @GracieBumblebee
    @GracieBumblebee 9 місяців тому +1

    Been following you since about 2015. Every version of you has been amazing to see because it’s always your authentic self and your personality that shines through 💖

  • @debedout34
    @debedout34 10 місяців тому +9

    Much love Tati! Please bring back beauty tutorials, I trust you ❤️❤️❤️

  • @denisedicks9342
    @denisedicks9342 10 місяців тому +7

    This is my first post. I found your channel about a year ago after looking for a matte eyeshadow tutorial. Being 56 is kind of tough, even after 30 years of marriage. I am just a simple midwest woman trying to keep my skin as beautiful and young as I feel. Thank you for your video about having your ears pinned and having breast augmentation surgery. Please continue to keep it real. Every time that you come on without makeup, my husband comments that you are one of the most beautiful women that he has ever seen. He could care less about makeup. So, he thinks that you are lovely with and without makeup. Keep the faith! :)

  • @flwrchldbeck
    @flwrchldbeck 9 місяців тому +1

    I truly appreciate your honesty and your willingness to share. That is the mark of a true role model! And I, too, am in my 40s.

  • @iamkateo
    @iamkateo 10 місяців тому

    This must be my favorite video of yours and I have been watching you for years. Thank you for being so transparent and real and reinforcing the fact that you should never doing it for anyone other than yourself 👏

  • @leannsmith6516
    @leannsmith6516 10 місяців тому +6

    You are amazing. Thank you so much for talking about taking self responsibility for your choices. I've always felt like it was up to the individual what you did to your own body. Don't let society talk you into doing anything life altering. You are so easy to relate to and I appreciate that so much.

  • @ChristineMaz
    @ChristineMaz 10 місяців тому +3

    I had a reduction in my 20s (I’m 45) and it was after I had 2 kids and was very unhappy with how my breasts looked and moved. My self esteem was really hurting from it. I have never regretted it. You do you and you owe no one else anything. ❤

  • @patmorez
    @patmorez 10 місяців тому +1

    You go girl! I'm enjoying seeing you like this. I think maturity brings us this desire to express ourselves more freely without worrying so much about what others think. I have followed you for many years and you have always been so polite, correct and reserved, you really have always been the good girl and I think this is very genuine of you. I have always identified with your style and personality. But there comes a time when we get tired of trying so hard to please others and protecting people who do us harm. We need to defend ourselves, make our side of the story clear. I like seeing you so open, you owe it to yourself and no one else. You deserve being where you are. You're a person that I have always admired, respected and trusted in this crazy world of UA-cam ❤

  • @Angel-rv6sb
    @Angel-rv6sb 10 місяців тому +1

    Love you being true to you! Speaking authentically and understanding that you are not responsible for anyone else's choices. All the love ❤️

  • @jordansimpson7387
    @jordansimpson7387 10 місяців тому +5

    love you tati 🖤 i’m 26, starting watching you when i was 18. i’ve loved seeing every season of your channel! ✨

  • @RaynahDennehy
    @RaynahDennehy 10 місяців тому +3

    I appreciate you being open about this. Been here for years and I just adore your videos.

  • @tiffanyshelburn
    @tiffanyshelburn 10 місяців тому +2

    I love this. Ty for being so open and vulnerable. I think you’re the most gorgeous woman I’ve seen. I hope to bump into you out in the wild of DFW. ❤😂

  • @scrumps101
    @scrumps101 9 місяців тому +11

    Thank you for this. I think,as women, we are so torn between wanting to be as authentic as possible yet also we are wrapped up in the societal vision of beauty and wanting to measure up, whether it’s for ourselves or for the way people perceive us. As women a lot of us do the best we can to balance that scale and how we do it and what way is different for each of us. To celebrate other women for who they are is the only appreciable way to live as constantly judging is not the the answer.
    I personally would LOVE to hear about your experiences with fillers, injectables and especially chemical peels. I am at a place where I’m also in my 40’s and researching options to help slow the aging process without going the surgical route if at all possible. Please do share, it can help a lot of us as information is power.
    I hope the litigation side of things went well for you. All the best ❤️

  • @jeanettebelle2224
    @jeanettebelle2224 10 місяців тому +17

    What you do with your body is none of my business, but thank you for being so brave and honest. I watch your videos for makeup tutorials and reviews. I'm an older woman who appreciates your content, so thank you for that as well. The Golden Rule is an excellent way to treat others, and I try very hard to follow that.
    If I didn't like what you do or who you are as a person, then I would just keep scrolling--it's that easy, folks.

  • @teresaperriman3685
    @teresaperriman3685 10 місяців тому +6

    I've been a long-time fan. I've loved every version of you, but this one is by far my favorite!

  • @vanessamartin6011
    @vanessamartin6011 10 місяців тому +1

    Loved how open and true to yourself you are in this video! It seemed like you let all of your walls down and you just didn’t give a 🦆 in the best way possible!! LOVED this video and love you!!!!! Keep being true to yourself, you really shined in this video ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @HyddenDark
    @HyddenDark 10 місяців тому +48

    I like your comments about James stepping up as your partner/husband and being respectful of you, your body, and your choices. I think the role of carer is quietly understated heroism, and I'm glad you let us know that surgery might require assistance in quite intimate areas!

  • @trillajenn
    @trillajenn 10 місяців тому +15

    You are such a cool and authentic woman, thank you that you are on this planet! ❤😻💕💓💟🤍👩‍❤‍👩

  • @rebekahgomez9515
    @rebekahgomez9515 10 місяців тому +47

    I got here faster than lightning

  • @anthonyb755
    @anthonyb755 10 місяців тому

    So enjoyed your candidness and the insight of your experiences. Thanks so much for sharing and ALWAYS being a beacon of goodness 🤍🙏🫶

  • @user-hw2lo2oh6r
    @user-hw2lo2oh6r 10 місяців тому

    I think you are an amazing role model. I enjoy watching you so much, and think you have really even eased my mind on my self image ❤ glad things are starting to settle for you, and I wish you so much luck during this final lap in court 🙏❤️

  • @janataylor5520
    @janataylor5520 10 місяців тому +22

    Doing any procedure is a PERSONAL choice. I appreciate your transparency. That’s what I admire from those I follow…

  • @alejandralatour8774
    @alejandralatour8774 10 місяців тому

    I loved this video, thank you for opening up and sharing something so personal. You look amazing and keep what you are doing. Love ya !

  • @kwong9363
    @kwong9363 10 місяців тому +1

    I love how ur being so u with us Tati and since I’ve become a parent I’ve realised that it’s important to do things that work for u and ur lifestyle…it’s no one else’s business as long as ur happy being u who u are as a person that’s what’s important at the end of the day 💕 I think this also comes with age and experiences as after I turned 40 I no longer cared as much about how I thought others or people viewed me coz at the end of the day u gotta be comfortable with u

  • @hunn1580
    @hunn1580 10 місяців тому +3

    Thank you for being so honest. Ive had 2 c sections and become self conscious about my body and started to wonder is it me or is it because of how people may see me. Definitely gave me something to think about.

  • @nicolaoffert4006
    @nicolaoffert4006 10 місяців тому +23

    It makes me happy that you've reached a place where you want to talk about these things. Thank you Tati for sharing with us. 💕💕

  • @MsJoesBaby
    @MsJoesBaby 8 місяців тому

    WOW! This is brave woman! Thank you for sharing! Thank you for being honest and vulnerable with us and yourself! You seem so grounded and on peace, amazing! Great video!

  • @daniellemcdx
    @daniellemcdx 9 місяців тому +124

    i got my boobs done a few months ago and they’ve been such a confidence boost! i totally agree, if it makes you happy, do it!! Besides that, I strongly believe that all of these "youthful" procedures end up aging people drastically. I have tried almost everything to look younger + delay aging as much as possible, Things like Fraxel, expensive creams, Retin A (7 years straight), home devices and what not. However, nothing made any real difference compared to the high-quality derma pen I purchased for about 100 bucks. Within 3 months of use, my skin has improved DRAMATICALLY. I don't look like I'm 18 again, but definitely not 42 either. My fine lines have disappeared completely, and my nasolabial folds are way less are nonexist. People often underestimate the power of wounding and the revolutionary effects it can have on the skin.

    • @bobobeautys
      @bobobeautys 9 місяців тому +1

      Do you mind to share the pen brand your using? Thanks for the comment by the way!

    • @daniellemcdx
      @daniellemcdx 9 місяців тому +10

      Korabeauticals V2

    • @amanda52x2
      @amanda52x2 9 місяців тому +3

      Shhhh...don't tell everyone! (Joking)
      Ive started almost 10 years - most guess I'm @ 15 YEARS younger than my birth certificate says.
      I DO it myself at home, quote aggressively in places, and lightly in others,,maybe 1x month. I am 63

    • @danielrony4169
      @danielrony4169 9 місяців тому

      How often do you do it exactly?

    • @jejox1092
      @jejox1092 9 місяців тому

      Is it something worth starting in my late 20s? No drastic signs of aging yet but might be worth preventing

  • @lmiller7134
    @lmiller7134 10 місяців тому +9

    Here to support you and enjoy your content. Thank you for sharing. As long as you’re a good person Tati, it doesn’t matter what you do for yourself. You keep your personal life private, happy you share a little here and there and honestly I love it. You’re a role model for your integrity, ability to be transparent (within reason), and heart. Shouldn’t be a role model bc of how you look. You’re beautiful and have been. You come across very relatable and a gals best friend. Love love love the recommendations! Lasers video maybe if you can try the at home hair removal device or why you wouldn’t :). I will probably do laser on my stomach have you done it on your thighs? Thanks Tati!!!!

  • @diversebeauty370
    @diversebeauty370 10 місяців тому +8

    Your tan is seriously on point!!

  • @beckyb1576
    @beckyb1576 10 місяців тому

    You are so beautiful!! I think you look better than ever. 40 looks great on you!!! So great of you to share and be so open and honest about it all.

  • @kassiuh6119
    @kassiuh6119 10 місяців тому

    Tati I love your honesty. It’s so refreshing! 💞Love hearing about your earlier years and upbringing it’s always interesting hearing how people grew up and how much self image really plays such a huge role I all our lives .. ❤❤❤❤peace love & happiness always to you and your family 😊

  • @localoca1313
    @localoca1313 10 місяців тому +77

    I’m literally sitting here watching this while recovering from Lipo 360, fat grafting and an abdominalplasty. You decide what you need to do to feel good about yourself. I hated my postpartum body and needed to do this for me.

    • @artistjuliadocherty
      @artistjuliadocherty 10 місяців тому +8

      Bahahahah I was literally just about to comment that I’m sitting here recovering from my boob job 😂😂😂😂😂😂 #WILD

    • @juliaivanitskiy269
      @juliaivanitskiy269 10 місяців тому +4

      How is that working for you? Genuinely interested, I'm thinking of getting the gastric sleeve.

    • @christinar8652
      @christinar8652 9 місяців тому +1

      😂😂😂😂

    • @LesiavanderWoman
      @LesiavanderWoman 9 місяців тому

      I wish you a speedy recovery.

    • @localoca1313
      @localoca1313 9 місяців тому

      @@juliaivanitskiy269 Unfortunately, I don’t have any experience with the gastric sleeve but just do your research when doing any type of procedure. There are always some risks. The lipo was pretty easy, just lots of pain.

  • @darlenegowan8774
    @darlenegowan8774 10 місяців тому +3

    Your nose is absolute perfection. I showed your picture to my doctor hoping to get something close…it didn’t happen, but I don’t regret it. It’s an improvement for sure.

  • @christinaperez7369
    @christinaperez7369 10 місяців тому

    LOVED the vibes and mood in this video. I’ve always enjoyed your content Tati! ❤ God speed with your legal situation

  • @JennLloyd
    @JennLloyd 9 місяців тому

    Amen! Love the vulnerable, true, honest super real woman you are speaking from… thank you for sharing some very personal feelings that are not easy for most people to share..
    Beautiful girl! Beautiful video! ❤

  • @monalisa8504
    @monalisa8504 10 місяців тому +6

    I don't know why Tati, but this video made me tear up and gave me lots of hope that it is never too late to fulfill one's dreams.

  • @penny4279
    @penny4279 10 місяців тому +69

    What I personally regret is sitting here and comparing myself to someone who I knew nothing about, a lesson for me definitely!

  • @jynxlinks
    @jynxlinks 10 місяців тому +2

    Thank you for sharing your bravery! I appreciate your attitude of speaking your truth and being yourself. ❤ I'd love to hear about the non invasive cosmetic procedures! :)

  • @shimaass32
    @shimaass32 10 місяців тому +1

    Your video has hit my heart at its core
    It is not about procedures
    It is about loving yourself
    And how much i needed it

  • @celesteunderwood1094
    @celesteunderwood1094 10 місяців тому +30

    You don’t have to explain yourself to anyone! It’s YOUR body, YOUR choice. I couldn’t even imagine feeling the need to explain myself to thousands of strangers. Just know that this video has likely helped hundreds, if not thousands, of women contemplating those decisions right now. We love you for YOU, not for your ears or your boobs!

  • @ElleKBee
    @ElleKBee 10 місяців тому +5

    This is the Tati I have missed! Thank you for sharing ❤

  • @louisebystrup1635
    @louisebystrup1635 10 місяців тому +1

    My 40`s have been the best so far. Love everything about it. Thanks for the video, Tati. Love you❤

  • @dayvaricci4677
    @dayvaricci4677 9 місяців тому +1

    This video is so relatable! Thank you for opening up and sharing 💖.

  • @kikileaf9737
    @kikileaf9737 10 місяців тому +3

    Love your honesty, hope your day is going well! ❤