You’re beautiful no matter what. But I gotta be honest, you admitting you’ve had a boob job makes you even MORE relatable. Like “hey, I wasn’t born this way, I made some choices to change things I didn’t like”. ❤
No confident, good hearted person cares what other women do to their body, only jealous, hateful trolls do who have a habit of tearing down other women. You notice men don’t do this because they don’t have all these insecurities and need to make others feel as 💩 as these types of women do about their own self all the time. Rather than improving themself and their life so they are happy, they sit and wallow in their misery and try to drag other people in their messes.
At 71 I have to say I am not that troubled about aging, I have earned every wrinkle I have, I hang out with several ladies that I went to junior high and high school with and one of them said something about her wrinkles the other day and to me she looks exactly like that girl I went to school with, I told her she is beautiful we all are, the whole gang!!!!!
You don't owe anyone an explanation. Even if you live life in the public eye it's no one else's Business. You're beautiful inside and out. There will always be haters and that's their problem.
Totally agree. People forget that even though some choose to be in the public eye, it doesn’t mean they don’t still have a need for, and are entitled to SOME privacy. Disclosing they’ve had procedures isn’t something they owe anyone, any more than anyone else. They can’t be made to talk about it, nor should they if they don’t want to.
I kind of disagree. I think more people in the public eye should disclose what they have had done. There are so many celebrities denying it, while simultaneously pushing beauty products, weight loss supplements etc. when the reality is they had surgery and that's what worked for them. Denying it perpetuates negative body images as people strive for unattainable goals. I so admire Tati for doing this and being transparent.
Honestly, I do not care what you’ve had done. I’m not here to try and judge you or look like you. I’m here because you’re fun and you give me a reprieve from my busy and most times hectic days. You show me how to use some products that maybe I wouldn’t have used on my own because I’m was intimidated. Thanks for being your authentic self.❤
@@artisticromance I do agree with you that if someone has had cosmetic procedures or plastic surgery they should not promote beauty regimes or other methods that they falsely attribute to their results. When you have had lip fillers no amount of plumping gloss will give you that effect. Transparency in advertising is important for celebrities and companies. Further than that though I don't think it is an obligation. Tati has never claimed her supplements increased breast size.
I remember meeting Tati in 2018 at the launch of Tati Beauty, I was nervous that she'd be way different in person but I was so relieved to see she was just as kind and patient as she comes across. And her husband James is also very lovely. Wish them the best always.
_THANK YOU for sharing! The only way to break down barriers, understand each other & spread awareness is to have uncomfortable convos. Avoiding, silencing & pretending things don’t exist, gets us nowhere!_
I know you're searching for the word genuine and you think it's refreshing but some people are unapologetically terrible role models so this isn't really a one size fits all statement
Coming back to your channel after a few years and STILL in love, Tati. Especially obsessed with the "I choose" sentiment. It's so true and I wish more people would get on board 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Thank you for posting this. I just had cosmetic surgery last year and I could t believe how negative some people can be when it’s no one else’s body…money…or decision.
I had a nose job and liposuction of the hips in my early 30's. No regrets here. I'm now 60 and if I could afford a vertical facelift I would do it in a heartbeat, however, I'm not completely bothered by my ageing face. People still tell me they think I'm in my 40's! I'm so harsh on myself. I love you Tati and you are more beautiful today ever. Much love!
I like your comments about James stepping up as your partner/husband and being respectful of you, your body, and your choices. I think the role of carer is quietly understated heroism, and I'm glad you let us know that surgery might require assistance in quite intimate areas!
As someone who also got made fun of for her ears, thank you for being so open and honest about this. I can’t wear my hair straight or up either. I just looked into getting this surgery and I cannot wait until next year when I can. Your honesty somehow makes me feel like I’m not alone so thank you ❤
one of my friends in high school in the 1970s had surgery to pin her ears back, and she was not a vain person, it just made her stand out and feel very self conscious. plastic surgery was uncommon then, and another high school classmate had breast reduction surgery in 1970s high school. I am pretty sure our public medicine system covered both.We were in a small city in Canada and I don’t even think we had access to private cosmetic surgeons in my city then. We were all natural, no extra money, working for minimum wage after school.
I think it’s more common than you think. I’ve noticed Brittany Vaseur (UA-camr) never wears her hair any way but over her ears. Maybe it’s something that bothers her too.
It’s so hard to imagine how we would feel if we made a decision like that. I did get a nose job and in all honesty I have no idea if I would be ok with my natural nose after all these years or if it would still bug me. I don’t regret it at all and love my nose right now but I always think that maybe I would feel like you… and then I think maybe not. Hard to know isn’t it?
also thank you for speaking about aftercare! most people (especially surgeons) conveniently gloss over that, and a lot of people are shocked by how brutal it can be!
Where you’re at rly resonates with me. When I had my… spiritual transformation a lil over 5 years ago from then to now & continuing I’ve transformed, evolved, looked within, cleared things out of my life, added things in, made changes- big & small. I’m the only one in my fam that has a strong faith but it’s guided me in ways I can’t explain unless you understand. It’s been & continues to be a rly beautiful transformation. You prob won’t see this but, I rly felt like sharing this. 💖
There are people who intentionally get their ears surgically altered to be pointy elf ears. I've thought about it myself many times. I'm glad you've come round to liking them now, because you never know who wishes they had ears just like them. :)
Your honesty is refreshing. I've been following for years and learned most of my makeup skills from you. If you want to continue with the openness, I'd love to hear you talk about your mental state throughout the changes you've gone through (if you're comfortable doing that). As a mental healthcare professional, I can tell you that binge-eating disorder is the most common eating disorder even though AN was glamorized. Please don't think I'm insinuating that you have/had an ED, I'm only suggesting this because I think someone with your influence talking about that or maybe filming an interview with a professional in the field would be beneficial for those struggling or at risk.
I’m 51 and I totally resonated with what you said about looking at yourself in the mirror and noticing the aging but still feeling beautiful. I truly feel that as we age we really come into ourselves and become more confident and that in itself is sexy!
Love your honesty, I think everyone can relate to not liking something about themselves, and it doesn’t make you a bad person if you want to change it. You are a beautiful person inside and out!
I have followed you for many years now and I have lways thought you were one of the most beautiful and elegant ladies I have ever seen I have in the past used you as inspiration but I will sat it is refreshing to see someone so beautiful saying they have insecurities also ♡♡♡ Thank you x
Thank you for this. I’m deff struggling with aging. The aging almost happened over night. Things I never noticed and then it hits you like a ton of bricks. Trying to find more peace within myself
I’m right there with you. I’m definitely struggling with aging too. I know we can’t stay young forever but dang I expected the lines to come on gradually. It’s like I looked in the mirror one day and didn’t even recognize myself. I’m trying to deal with it. I can’t afford plastic surgery but I am doing retin a. It’s hard for us women. I think we put so much pressure on ourselves 😢.
This is so true. I’ve always had a young face even into my 40s but one day when I turned 48 I noticed I had a bloody turkey neck!! It’s now my biggest insecurity and I live in turtle necks. It’s so hard ageing as a woman. Don’t get me started on menopause 😢
I'm now 53 years old and aging starts to really accelerates fast when you hit between 48-50. My brother is now 54 and he has aged so much the last 3 years. I remember when I was a teenager and anyone who was in their 50s always look "old" to me. Some men still looked "hot" in their 40s but by the time they hit their 50s most looked "old". It's painful getting "old" .. but it's ever more painful seeing loved ones and dear friends get "old". 🏵🌺 I started watching Tati 6 years ago.. when I was 47 🙄
I just had reconsruction done for cancer and I hated it, the healing and being forced to do some surgeries and rushed decisions. Now they say I need more and I am so afraid of surgery but watching this makes me feel more confident to go ahead and hopefully it heals well and I feel better about myself. I´ve only recently got more into make up too and follow all tati´s videos. Thank you! Love them!
My mother got her ears pinned back several years ago and didn’t tell me. Once she had it done, she asked what was different about her and I couldn’t figure it out. I was so used to her as she was and never would’ve imagined she wasn’t happy. Although I didn’t think she needed it, I could tell that it really made her feel more confident after 40+ years! ❤
I haven't watched you in a few years and I gotta say, I see huge growth in you! The Tati I remember (or rather the public persona I remember) would have gotten super anxious about any questions regarding this and maybe even be super against them. I've been binge watching your recent videos today and I love it!
Thank you for being honest. Your so beautiful because you are a good person that truly wants to be helpful with all the tricks with makeup. It is truly an Art. Thank you❤️
You don’t have to disclose but I do applaud you for just being open I wish we could all feel comfortable about talking about plastic surgery. I myself had a vertical csection that left me disfigured and I am very open with anyone who asks about me having plastic surgery. I don’t regret it and I’m glad I did it.
I believe those of us that have been here since the beginning might have noticed certain changes we just respect you enough to let you tell your story when/if you wanted to! Your beautiful inside and out Tati! You go girl! Never have guilt for anything you did/do that makes you happy!! ❤❤❤
Hey there - I am a new listener to your channel. I appreciate your honesty regarding plastic surgery. I am about to be 61 and I’ve had three different sets of implants. I agree with you to go with your gut and not to do what Plastic Surgeon thinks is best for you. I am enjoying your content. Best of luck with with the legal issues. You are absolutely beautiful both inside and out. ❤😊
You are beautiful and glow inside and out, Tati. We all change and evolve. Six years ago, I had breast cancer and had to have a double mastectomy and reconstruction. It did not work out very well, so I have to have it redone, but I am so reticent to go back under general anesthesia again, but at the same time, I am so uncomfortable with the way I look both inside and outside my clothes. I was supposed to go from DDD to a full C, but I have ended up as a small, low profile C on one side, and some sort of smushed pancake on the other. It’s really hard to deal with. Thank you for coming forward on this.
We are warriors sweetie, we are strong, even if we feel uncomfortable in these difficult situations. I had a single mastectomy, but I opted out of reconstruction. I just didn't want to put myself under knife again, I did not want to be in pain or discomfort for months and months. I just feel good this way, I am used to it and I have a wonderful, supportive husband. But I understand that your situation is more difficult than mine. Sending you hugs and positive vibes ❤
You truly gave me a good perspective on what to expect if I ever got a plastic surgery for my breasts. I'm turning 27 in two weeks but I always felt insecure about my breasts because they are saggy, not rounded (more like triangles at times) and not big enough for my weight. I do want to fix them but I'm scared, so you put me into more thought of "do I want to do this? Who will help me if I need aftercare?" Never thought of that aspect.
This is my first post. I found your channel about a year ago after looking for a matte eyeshadow tutorial. Being 56 is kind of tough, even after 30 years of marriage. I am just a simple midwest woman trying to keep my skin as beautiful and young as I feel. Thank you for your video about having your ears pinned and having breast augmentation surgery. Please continue to keep it real. Every time that you come on without makeup, my husband comments that you are one of the most beautiful women that he has ever seen. He could care less about makeup. So, he thinks that you are lovely with and without makeup. Keep the faith! :)
What you do with your body is none of my business, but thank you for being so brave and honest. I watch your videos for makeup tutorials and reviews. I'm an older woman who appreciates your content, so thank you for that as well. The Golden Rule is an excellent way to treat others, and I try very hard to follow that. If I didn't like what you do or who you are as a person, then I would just keep scrolling--it's that easy, folks.
Your nose is absolute perfection. I showed your picture to my doctor hoping to get something close…it didn’t happen, but I don’t regret it. It’s an improvement for sure.
Thank you for the transparency, especially about the chest procedure. I really appreciate the presentation of truth, reality, and concerns of the procedure. It's super helpful for just being real about a big medical procedure.
I like that you talk about it. With or without surgery it doesn't justify who you are. I think being able to talk about it shows that you are truly comfortable with yourself. And in my opinion there is nothing to be ashamed of for having plastic surgery. People who should feel ashamed are the ones who have it done but just lie about it.
Tati, thank you so much for sharing this. Aging gracefully doesn’t mean that you can’t tweak things here and there to make you feel like the best version of yourself. I love watching your content and love your openness and honesty. As someone trying to navigate aging, wrinkles, health, etc, it’s inspiring to hear other people’s stories. ❤
My sister got herself a boob job for her 40th birthday and she still loves them. She just turned 50. If it helps you to love yourself more, then I think you should go for it… with a solid understanding of the process and the risks, of course.
I got my first tattoo for my 41st.. always wanted my boobs done.. maybe I'll have to start looking at it again. I kind of felt I was to old to get one done.. thanks for sharing..
I can't blame people I have 30G boobs & always wanted a breast reduction until I hit my 30s when I became proud of them. I know many have it for different reasons; my friend did as she was only a double AA & I can only emphasise with how she was feeling from someone who kinda has the opposite problem (back pain etc). I was sooo self conscious in school as all the boys weren't trying to be mean but they'd come up with all sorts of names for me & another girl who was well endowed like me. It's so difficult to find clothes that fit as I'm only 5ft2 & small; I used to wear baggy clothes to hide them but it did my figure no favours. I wish ladies would wear the correct bra size as well; a good bra can do miracles for your cleavage; I thought I was a 34E until I got measured properly by a company that specialises in bigger boobs in the UK.
i really love how you ask yourself out loud if you WANT to share your current weight.. and then your answer is no. and you're giving yourself that love and respect to accept that answer 💕
I think it is similar to sharing number in your bank account. recently I was watching a video where some woman told her current weight which she is happy about and her previous weight which made her feel very fatty and bla bla bla and how uncomfortable she was in that weight. and we are the same height and her before is my current and I don't think I am fat and according to doctor's charts I am normal and I don't feel that way. I would say it was very unpleasant to hear how she describe her feelings about my weight. yes, she didn't say that everybody with that weight are fatty and ugly, but that was sort of implied, yes? so I like people who don't share weight number.
@@LesiavanderWomanshe was talking about yourself, you shouldnt feel bad about yourself if she felt negative about herself. Who wants to share, should be able to share. No need to get offended or even actualy compare
There’s nothing wrong with plastic surgery. I had a Bleph and feel so much prettier. My eyes were very hooded. Now you can see my eyeshadow and loving makeup!!
Yay for the transparency! I personally loved your ears before as well as now but i totally get wanting something done that improves your overall mental health.
My mom is in her mid 50s now and she looks and feels better than she did in her 20s/30s. If anything, she says if she could go back to an age it would be her mid 40s. But she looks incredible and she says the key is to keep your mind young. The second you start telling yourself you’re old, you’ll feel old. ❤❤❤
I've been watching you for year's now and was always in awe of your beauty I genuinely think you are one of the most beautiful people I've ever seen. This shows you how beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
I would have lipo and breast reduction. But I won't. I am working on self-acceptance. However I know if I lost about 10-15 pounds my breasts would shrink and that would be wonderful in my opinion. So no, I do not plan on getting plastic surgery anymore. Everyday I wake up that is something to be thankful for. But you look beautiful Tati! In addition, I think inner peace and happiness shines through and makes people naturally attractive.
I love that you shared your story! I’ve been contemplating a breast lift/ reduction. I feel like people should do what makes them feel happy. If you are happy and not hurting anyone, why should it matter to anyone else?
You go girl! I'm enjoying seeing you like this. I think maturity brings us this desire to express ourselves more freely without worrying so much about what others think. I have followed you for many years and you have always been so polite, correct and reserved, you really have always been the good girl and I think this is very genuine of you. I have always identified with your style and personality. But there comes a time when we get tired of trying so hard to please others and protecting people who do us harm. We need to defend ourselves, make our side of the story clear. I like seeing you so open, you owe it to yourself and no one else. You deserve being where you are. You're a person that I have always admired, respected and trusted in this crazy world of UA-cam ❤
Thank you for sharing your experiences. I am having such a hard time with my new body after having kids and have been contemplating surgery. I haven’t decided whether or not I’m going to do it but it was nice to hear some good feedback that doesn’t make me feel like a horrible person for even considering it ❤
Thank you for this. I think,as women, we are so torn between wanting to be as authentic as possible yet also we are wrapped up in the societal vision of beauty and wanting to measure up, whether it’s for ourselves or for the way people perceive us. As women a lot of us do the best we can to balance that scale and how we do it and what way is different for each of us. To celebrate other women for who they are is the only appreciable way to live as constantly judging is not the the answer. I personally would LOVE to hear about your experiences with fillers, injectables and especially chemical peels. I am at a place where I’m also in my 40’s and researching options to help slow the aging process without going the surgical route if at all possible. Please do share, it can help a lot of us as information is power. I hope the litigation side of things went well for you. All the best ❤️
I've been watching for years and I never even noticed anything. I've always thought you are beautiful inside and out. Putting out positivity into the world wanting all of us to feel confident.
You are amazing. Thank you so much for talking about taking self responsibility for your choices. I've always felt like it was up to the individual what you did to your own body. Don't let society talk you into doing anything life altering. You are so easy to relate to and I appreciate that so much.
If you are happy that’s all that matters. No one has any right to say anything about your choices. I would love to hear about the non surgical procedures; I have started some myself and would love to hear your thoughts.
Plastic surgery saved my life-I had chronic pain from a 3+ inch abdominal separation due to pregnancy-I got a tummy tuck and I got a breast reduction and went from a G to DD. I’ve had facial injections as well. One thing I did decide recently is to let my natural hair color grow-every time I get my hair colored (even using organic color) my scalp burns and flakes and I get a rash every single time I get my roots done. I’m so tired of it. I have chosen to embrace my natural hair and I am really growing to love and appreciate my silver strands of wisdom. They really are beautiful. Do what makes you happy-love and appreciate your body-it does so much for you! ❤
What a beautiful woman. Just your handling of this topic is stunning. Your beauty, femininity and grace just exude from the inside. It's your heart that makes you glow from the inside out.
#1. Your ears have always been perfect, and I look at them a lot…bc you wear amazing earrings. #2. Do whatever makes you feel good! #3. I’m 52, just had lower blepharoplasty. I didn’t even know what it was a month before the surgery but I look sooooo much younger & better rested. Just healthier than I have in decades!!
You don’t have to explain yourself to anyone! It’s YOUR body, YOUR choice. I couldn’t even imagine feeling the need to explain myself to thousands of strangers. Just know that this video has likely helped hundreds, if not thousands, of women contemplating those decisions right now. We love you for YOU, not for your ears or your boobs!
I will say this is very refreshing to hear especially about not ideal situations that are real that can be encountered during plastic surgeries. You should talk about other cosmetic procedures (not surgeries) that you have done and how you feel about them/what was the experience of getting them was like (veneers, more specifics about fillers and Botox)
Thank you for being open and honest about this. :) I second that a lift is a nightmare recovery. I did tummy tuck at the same time, too, which made it even worse. I used to say that “mommy makeover” it too cutesy a word for what it is. These are major surgeries and people don’t really understand the amount of recovery involved. Thanks again. Love you and your channel. ❤
I love how ur being so u with us Tati and since I’ve become a parent I’ve realised that it’s important to do things that work for u and ur lifestyle…it’s no one else’s business as long as ur happy being u who u are as a person that’s what’s important at the end of the day 💕 I think this also comes with age and experiences as after I turned 40 I no longer cared as much about how I thought others or people viewed me coz at the end of the day u gotta be comfortable with u
The one thing I love about this video that any one who gets a procedure can relate to. When Tati mentions if you feel convicted by a plastic surgeon or red flags 🚩 by a guy with procedures …I would suggest to take a step back and get another professional opinion if you still have your mind set on something and don’t let a doctor easily persuade you. I had that happen to me more than once and it definitely can lead to problems. Be confident with your procedure and doctor 100% and Communication is key. Best of luck ❤❤❤
Every time you replay a video of you in the past, I always think how you look so beautiful right now. There is something about women in their 40’s that I think makes them gorgeous!!
Because I believe it's true that as we age we start to accept ourselves more. The quote "youth is wasted on the young" can go with how I have felt as I aged. If I could go back to my early 20's with this feeling, I would be unstoppable in my opinion. I have come to be who I want to be at 50. And I no longer worry about what others think. Of course, I'm not in the public eye so I don't know how that would feel... but for the most part I'm at peace with myself.
I’m a believer for do you! That being said, I get confused by people who say they only want to use clean beauty, no toxic chemicals, eat clean, drink clean, eat organic, etc etc, but then get plastic implants and fillers and chemicals injected in their face. I’m all for plastic surgery but it’s the conflict of the two “ways of living” that confuses me.
i got my boobs done a few months ago and they’ve been such a confidence boost! i totally agree, if it makes you happy, do it!! Besides that, I strongly believe that all of these "youthful" procedures end up aging people drastically. I have tried almost everything to look younger + delay aging as much as possible, Things like Fraxel, expensive creams, Retin A (7 years straight), home devices and what not. However, nothing made any real difference compared to the high-quality derma pen I purchased for about 100 bucks. Within 3 months of use, my skin has improved DRAMATICALLY. I don't look like I'm 18 again, but definitely not 42 either. My fine lines have disappeared completely, and my nasolabial folds are way less are nonexist. People often underestimate the power of wounding and the revolutionary effects it can have on the skin.
Shhhh...don't tell everyone! (Joking) Ive started almost 10 years - most guess I'm @ 15 YEARS younger than my birth certificate says. I DO it myself at home, quote aggressively in places, and lightly in others,,maybe 1x month. I am 63
Tati I truly respect that you try so hard not to blame others (ie society) for the decisions you have made or for the way you felt about yourself as a child. I think everyone needs to take more responsibility for the decisions they make.
When I hear what your childhood sounds like, I feel I am hearing my own. As a plump child to being a big woman now, I can understand what you mean when you tell about all of it. And coming to the bit about looking pretty, you are one of the most pretty women I know and not only on the internet. (P.s. it is not flattery)
Tati- whatever procedures you choose and have chosen to have done, do not change who YOU are. I didn't know you had your procedures, and now I do, You are still TATI. Same Beautiful person I have been watching for manyyyyy years.
I’m literally sitting here watching this while recovering from Lipo 360, fat grafting and an abdominalplasty. You decide what you need to do to feel good about yourself. I hated my postpartum body and needed to do this for me.
@@juliaivanitskiy269 Unfortunately, I don’t have any experience with the gastric sleeve but just do your research when doing any type of procedure. There are always some risks. The lipo was pretty easy, just lots of pain.
I love this new Tati era. I think your words are so true and I agree with everything you said! I’m happy that you are happy with your body! Having surgery does not take away anything and I appreciate your openness and vulnerability . PS you were the CUTEST little girl! Oh my goodness. Listening to you talk about how you felt as a little girl is just so heartbreaking. I felt the same. I still have so much inner child work to do. Hugs Tati.
Love the authenticity, it really is essential for healing, growth and feeling safe in our human connections. At the end of the day, that’s why we’re here, as a member of the human species with here on on earth, to live/survive & to help our people live/survive. We survived & evolved for millions of years, because of our brains & emotional/social bonds with our people. When we’re safe w/our ppl we feel love, so the goal is to love & be loved and to do that we need to keep ourselves & our people safe & stay bonded thru the uncertainty of life here. That’s it, that’s the purpose. It’s next to impossible tho bcuz we’re told to ignore/avoid our emotions, when it’s our emotions that bond us & tell us if we/our ppl are safe. We’re supposed to have communities living together to help when we’re stressed, sick, tired from doing our part to keep each other safe & loved. We’re driven by evolutionary instinct to connect with and make the ppl in our community happy,safe, but we’re constantly triggered & afraid of being hurt because it’s our bodies way of saying we’re not safe, and it’s ignored when we’re children ( don’t cry, don’t be sensitive, don’t be crazy), instead of nurtured and taught to regulate and listen to our emotions & bodies. Getting older IS amazing, because we become wiser, so we can nurture & teach our young. I will say, I do think the need/want to be “pretty/attractive” IS social. Bcuz we know it makes other ppl happy. And when our ppl are happy, we’re safe bcuz they’re safe. If we don’t feel safe, and we don’t listen to our emotions, they stay in our bodies and get louder. And our brains attach a story to that to get us to do something to become safe. If we’re told in all our media and stories, that being pretty/attractive is going to make ppl happy, and our brains are creative, & we don’t see “beauty”, then they can us that we’re sad bcuz we’re not. Yes, some ppl bring value by making us feel good bcuz of how they look, obvi, but it does not diminish our value in anyway. I think beauty is supposed to bond us, we all want to be around someone who is beautiful, who’s sings, who does things that make us feel good. And we need that, but we need to be cared for too, and we need food, and protection, and someone who is looking out for us, and someone who knows the plants, and someone who is good in an emergency, etc. Anyway, when we’re told, very incorrectly, that we lose value as we age, it couldn’t be further fr the truth. Brains take decades to learn and grow and recover from trauma. And we need ppl who have been there, and know we can survive pretty much anything, to teach us. And that’s the beauty of aging, its when we have the most knowledge & power to love & be loved & keep our ppl safe.
YOU took so many of my words out of my mourn! In my 40’s and feel the same way. New self reflection and I see the world and my life differently then I did before decades before. I see natural beauty so much more beautiful than ever begins. I’m really enjoying it!! Great post!!!!
Here to support you and enjoy your content. Thank you for sharing. As long as you’re a good person Tati, it doesn’t matter what you do for yourself. You keep your personal life private, happy you share a little here and there and honestly I love it. You’re a role model for your integrity, ability to be transparent (within reason), and heart. Shouldn’t be a role model bc of how you look. You’re beautiful and have been. You come across very relatable and a gals best friend. Love love love the recommendations! Lasers video maybe if you can try the at home hair removal device or why you wouldn’t :). I will probably do laser on my stomach have you done it on your thighs? Thanks Tati!!!!
Tati I just love your openness now. You're more beautiful than ever before. Thank you for sharing your story and thoughts with us. You're amazing. Don't let anyone tell you any different. #Respect ❤
You’re beautiful no matter what. But I gotta be honest, you admitting you’ve had a boob job makes you even MORE relatable. Like “hey, I wasn’t born this way, I made some choices to change things I didn’t like”. ❤
So true!!!!
No confident, good hearted person cares what other women do to their body, only jealous, hateful trolls do who have a habit of tearing down other women. You notice men don’t do this because they don’t have all these insecurities and need to make others feel as 💩 as these types of women do about their own self all the time. Rather than improving themself and their life so they are happy, they sit and wallow in their misery and try to drag other people in their messes.
@studyhardplayhard5086She literally said nothing was done for her eyes or brows 😅
Will you do a whole video on castor oil?
@@arielbrandon2746people lie
At 71 I have to say I am not that troubled about aging, I have earned every wrinkle I have, I hang out with several ladies that I went to junior high and high school with and one of them said something about her wrinkles the other day and to me she looks exactly like that girl I went to school with, I told her she is beautiful we all are, the whole gang!!!!!
That’s beautiful 😊❤
You’re amazing ❤
You don't owe anyone an explanation. Even if you live life in the public eye it's no one else's Business. You're beautiful inside and out. There will always be haters and that's their problem.
Totally agree. People forget that even though some choose to be in the public eye, it doesn’t mean they don’t still have a need for, and are entitled to SOME privacy. Disclosing they’ve had procedures isn’t something they owe anyone, any more than anyone else. They can’t be made to talk about it, nor should they if they don’t want to.
I kind of disagree. I think more people in the public eye should disclose what they have had done. There are so many celebrities denying it, while simultaneously pushing beauty products, weight loss supplements etc. when the reality is they had surgery and that's what worked for them. Denying it perpetuates negative body images as people strive for unattainable goals. I so admire Tati for doing this and being transparent.
Honestly, I do not care what you’ve had done. I’m not here to try and judge you or look like you. I’m here because you’re fun and you give me a reprieve from my busy and most times hectic days. You show me how to use some products that maybe I wouldn’t have used on my own because I’m was intimidated. Thanks for being your authentic self.❤
@@artisticromance I do agree with you that if someone has had cosmetic procedures or plastic surgery they should not promote beauty regimes or other methods that they falsely attribute to their results. When you have had lip fillers no amount of plumping gloss will give you that effect.
Transparency in advertising is important for celebrities and companies.
Further than that though I don't think it is an obligation. Tati has never claimed her supplements increased breast size.
Lorry Hill's channel is eye opening and she's very sweet and never shames a celeb. @@artisticromance
I remember meeting Tati in 2018 at the launch of Tati Beauty, I was nervous that she'd be way different in person but I was so relieved to see she was just as kind and patient as she comes across. And her husband James is also very lovely. Wish them the best always.
_THANK YOU for sharing! The only way to break down barriers, understand each other & spread awareness is to have uncomfortable convos. Avoiding, silencing & pretending things don’t exist, gets us nowhere!_
Loving this new era where you speak up your mind and understand that we’re all shades of grey and never just solid black or white ❤
I think a good role model is someone who is UNAPOLOGETICALLY THEMSELF... I appreciate your honesty. Keep it coming, girl. 😁
I know you're searching for the word genuine and you think it's refreshing but some people are unapologetically terrible role models so this isn't really a one size fits all statement
@@leilaniz5909That's why I said it to ONE PERSON, not the whole world
Coming back to your channel after a few years and STILL in love, Tati. Especially obsessed with the "I choose" sentiment. It's so true and I wish more people would get on board 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
So well said Tati… I’m turning 65 next month and I’m finally getting my lower face and neck lift at the end of January… I’m celebrating my life!!!
Nice! Good luck!!!
@@kathleenp3135 Thank you!!
My Mom had her neck done at 70 and it makes such a subtle difference!
@@ohkay2090 … that definitely inspires me!!!
Best wishes!
I'm currently getting treatment for body dysmorphic disorder and this needs to be heard. Thank you Tati!
Yes this is very needed and interesting topic, I can relate to it. I wish you all the best on your treatment❤
Thank you for posting this. I just had cosmetic surgery last year and I could t believe how negative some people can be when it’s no one else’s body…money…or decision.
I love how you own "make me feel" as you deciding to feel that way. Your mindset & emotional wisdom is absolutely beautiful.
I had a nose job and liposuction of the hips in my early 30's. No regrets here. I'm now 60 and if I could afford a vertical facelift I would do it in a heartbeat, however, I'm not completely bothered by my ageing face. People still tell me they think I'm in my 40's! I'm so harsh on myself. I love you Tati and you are more beautiful today ever. Much love!
I like your comments about James stepping up as your partner/husband and being respectful of you, your body, and your choices. I think the role of carer is quietly understated heroism, and I'm glad you let us know that surgery might require assistance in quite intimate areas!
As someone who also got made fun of for her ears, thank you for being so open and honest about this. I can’t wear my hair straight or up either. I just looked into getting this surgery and I cannot wait until next year when I can. Your honesty somehow makes me feel like I’m not alone so thank you ❤
one of my friends in high school in the 1970s had surgery to pin her ears back, and she was not a vain person, it just made her stand out and feel very self conscious. plastic surgery was uncommon then, and another high school classmate had breast reduction surgery in 1970s high school. I am pretty sure our public medicine system covered both.We were in a small city in Canada and I don’t even think we had access to private cosmetic surgeons in my city then. We were all natural, no extra money, working for minimum wage after school.
I have big ears.. but I didn't let it bother me.. I think it's because I thought their shape was nice.. I know it sounds weird.. but hey that me.
You're so pretty! I'm excited for you! 🎉
I think it’s more common than you think. I’ve noticed Brittany Vaseur (UA-camr) never wears her hair any way but over her ears. Maybe it’s something that bothers her too.
i hated my nose for maybe like 8-10 years but the last few years i’ve really grown to love it and i can’t ever imagine getting plastic surgery for it
It’s so hard to imagine how we would feel if we made a decision like that. I did get a nose job and in all honesty I have no idea if I would be ok with my natural nose after all these years or if it would still bug me. I don’t regret it at all and love my nose right now but I always think that maybe I would feel like you… and then I think maybe not. Hard to know isn’t it?
also thank you for speaking about aftercare! most people (especially surgeons) conveniently gloss over that, and a lot of people are shocked by how brutal it can be!
Where you’re at rly resonates with me. When I had my… spiritual transformation a lil over 5 years ago from then to now & continuing I’ve transformed, evolved, looked within, cleared things out of my life, added things in, made changes- big & small. I’m the only one in my fam that has a strong faith but it’s guided me in ways I can’t explain unless you understand. It’s been & continues to be a rly beautiful transformation. You prob won’t see this but, I rly felt like sharing this. 💖
I have pointy elf ears. They used to embarrass me, but when I saw pictures of my ancestors, I realized it is a genetic trait. I like them now.
They're beautiful ❤️
There are people who intentionally get their ears surgically altered to be pointy elf ears. I've thought about it myself many times. I'm glad you've come round to liking them now, because you never know who wishes they had ears just like them. :)
Beautiful trait!!!
I love that ❤
Me too!
Your honesty is refreshing. I've been following for years and learned most of my makeup skills from you. If you want to continue with the openness, I'd love to hear you talk about your mental state throughout the changes you've gone through (if you're comfortable doing that). As a mental healthcare professional, I can tell you that binge-eating disorder is the most common eating disorder even though AN was glamorized. Please don't think I'm insinuating that you have/had an ED, I'm only suggesting this because I think someone with your influence talking about that or maybe filming an interview with a professional in the field would be beneficial for those struggling or at risk.
I’m 51 and I totally resonated with what you said about looking at yourself in the mirror and noticing the aging but still feeling beautiful. I truly feel that as we age we really come into ourselves and become more confident and that in itself is sexy!
Love your honesty, I think everyone can relate to not liking something about themselves, and it doesn’t make you a bad person if you want to change it. You are a beautiful person inside and out!
You look STUNNING in this video Tati. I need a tutorial.
I was just thinking the same
YES!!
Wish the makeup products used were listed. Stunning and perfectly applied in a natural way.
She does ❤
Agreed 💯
I have followed you for many years now and I have lways thought you were one of the most beautiful and elegant ladies I have ever seen
I have in the past used you as inspiration but I will sat it is refreshing to see someone so beautiful saying they have insecurities also ♡♡♡ Thank you x
Thank you for this. I’m deff struggling with aging. The aging almost happened over night. Things I never noticed and then it hits you like a ton of bricks. Trying to find more peace within myself
I’m right there with you. I’m definitely struggling with aging too. I know we can’t stay young forever but dang I expected the lines to come on gradually. It’s like I looked in the mirror one day and didn’t even recognize myself. I’m trying to deal with it. I can’t afford plastic surgery but I am doing retin a. It’s hard for us women. I think we put so much pressure on ourselves 😢.
For me the wrinkles came on gradually. I got used to it. Every age has its good times
This is so true. I’ve always had a young face even into my 40s but one day when I turned 48 I noticed I had a bloody turkey neck!! It’s now my biggest insecurity and I live in turtle necks. It’s so hard ageing as a woman. Don’t get me started on menopause 😢
I'm now 53 years old and aging starts to really accelerates fast when you hit between 48-50. My brother is now 54 and he has aged so much the last 3 years. I remember when I was a teenager and anyone who was in their 50s always look "old" to me. Some men still looked "hot" in their 40s but by the time they hit their 50s most looked "old". It's painful getting "old" .. but it's ever more painful seeing loved ones and dear friends get "old". 🏵🌺 I started watching Tati 6 years ago.. when I was 47 🙄
It happened overnight. I woke up old. Didn't recognize myself either
I just had reconsruction done for cancer and I hated it, the healing and being forced to do some surgeries and rushed decisions. Now they say I need more and I am so afraid of surgery but watching this makes me feel more confident to go ahead and hopefully it heals well and I feel better about myself. I´ve only recently got more into make up too and follow all tati´s videos. Thank you! Love them!
My mother got her ears pinned back several years ago and didn’t tell me. Once she had it done, she asked what was different about her and I couldn’t figure it out. I was so used to her as she was and never would’ve imagined she wasn’t happy. Although I didn’t think she needed it, I could tell that it really made her feel more confident after 40+ years! ❤
So interesting how we can carry baggage or beliefs from
Childhood probably. We don’t realise how someone feels or how insecure someone can be
I reduced my breasts and the bags under my eyes. My only regret is why I didn't do it sooner. 😉
I had this done but the upper bleph to reduce the sagging on the hood. Took 10 years off! No regrets :) @@Ysally13
I haven't watched you in a few years and I gotta say, I see huge growth in you! The Tati I remember (or rather the public persona I remember) would have gotten super anxious about any questions regarding this and maybe even be super against them. I've been binge watching your recent videos today and I love it!
This is a personal power move and I'm so proud of you for it 💖
Thank you for being honest. Your so beautiful because you are a good person that truly wants to be helpful with all the tricks with makeup. It is truly an Art. Thank you❤️
You don’t have to disclose but I do applaud you for just being open I wish we could all feel comfortable about talking about plastic surgery. I myself had a vertical csection that left me disfigured and I am very open with anyone who asks about me having plastic surgery. I don’t regret it and I’m glad I did it.
I believe those of us that have been here since the beginning might have noticed certain changes we just respect you enough to let you tell your story when/if you wanted to! Your beautiful inside and out Tati! You go girl! Never have guilt for anything you did/do that makes you happy!! ❤❤❤
Hey there - I am a new listener to your channel. I appreciate your honesty regarding plastic surgery. I am about to be 61 and I’ve had three different sets of implants. I agree with you to go with your gut and not to do what Plastic Surgeon thinks is best for you. I am enjoying your content. Best of luck with with the legal issues. You are absolutely beautiful both inside and out. ❤😊
You are beautiful and glow inside and out, Tati. We all change and evolve. Six years ago, I had breast cancer and had to have a double mastectomy and reconstruction. It did not work out very well, so I have to have it redone, but I am so reticent to go back under general anesthesia again, but at the same time, I am so uncomfortable with the way I look both inside and outside my clothes. I was supposed to go from DDD to a full C, but I have ended up as a small, low profile C on one side, and some sort of smushed pancake on the other. It’s really hard to deal with. Thank you for coming forward on this.
We are warriors sweetie, we are strong, even if we feel uncomfortable in these difficult situations. I had a single mastectomy, but I opted out of reconstruction. I just didn't want to put myself under knife again, I did not want to be in pain or discomfort for months and months. I just feel good this way, I am used to it and I have a wonderful, supportive husband. But I understand that your situation is more difficult than mine. Sending you hugs and positive vibes ❤
You truly gave me a good perspective on what to expect if I ever got a plastic surgery for my breasts. I'm turning 27 in two weeks but I always felt insecure about my breasts because they are saggy, not rounded (more like triangles at times) and not big enough for my weight. I do want to fix them but I'm scared, so you put me into more thought of "do I want to do this? Who will help me if I need aftercare?" Never thought of that aspect.
This is my first post. I found your channel about a year ago after looking for a matte eyeshadow tutorial. Being 56 is kind of tough, even after 30 years of marriage. I am just a simple midwest woman trying to keep my skin as beautiful and young as I feel. Thank you for your video about having your ears pinned and having breast augmentation surgery. Please continue to keep it real. Every time that you come on without makeup, my husband comments that you are one of the most beautiful women that he has ever seen. He could care less about makeup. So, he thinks that you are lovely with and without makeup. Keep the faith! :)
Your tan is seriously on point!!
What you do with your body is none of my business, but thank you for being so brave and honest. I watch your videos for makeup tutorials and reviews. I'm an older woman who appreciates your content, so thank you for that as well. The Golden Rule is an excellent way to treat others, and I try very hard to follow that.
If I didn't like what you do or who you are as a person, then I would just keep scrolling--it's that easy, folks.
Your nose is absolute perfection. I showed your picture to my doctor hoping to get something close…it didn’t happen, but I don’t regret it. It’s an improvement for sure.
Thank you for the transparency, especially about the chest procedure. I really appreciate the presentation of truth, reality, and concerns of the procedure. It's super helpful for just being real about a big medical procedure.
I like that you talk about it. With or without surgery it doesn't justify who you are. I think being able to talk about it shows that you are truly comfortable with yourself. And in my opinion there is nothing to be ashamed of for having plastic surgery. People who should feel ashamed are the ones who have it done but just lie about it.
I love that you shared this with us! We should be allowed to do what we want with our body without being attacked.
Tati, thank you so much for sharing this. Aging gracefully doesn’t mean that you can’t tweak things here and there to make you feel like the best version of yourself. I love watching your content and love your openness and honesty. As someone trying to navigate aging, wrinkles, health, etc, it’s inspiring to hear other people’s stories. ❤
My sister got herself a boob job for her 40th birthday and she still loves them. She just turned 50. If it helps you to love yourself more, then I think you should go for it… with a solid understanding of the process and the risks, of course.
I got my first tattoo for my 41st.. always wanted my boobs done.. maybe I'll have to start looking at it again. I kind of felt I was to old to get one done.. thanks for sharing..
I can't blame people I have 30G boobs & always wanted a breast reduction until I hit my 30s when I became proud of them. I know many have it for different reasons; my friend did as she was only a double AA & I can only emphasise with how she was feeling from someone who kinda has the opposite problem (back pain etc). I was sooo self conscious in school as all the boys weren't trying to be mean but they'd come up with all sorts of names for me & another girl who was well endowed like me. It's so difficult to find clothes that fit as I'm only 5ft2 & small; I used to wear baggy clothes to hide them but it did my figure no favours. I wish ladies would wear the correct bra size as well; a good bra can do miracles for your cleavage; I thought I was a 34E until I got measured properly by a company that specialises in bigger boobs in the UK.
i really love how you ask yourself out loud if you WANT to share your current weight.. and then your answer is no. and you're giving yourself that love and respect to accept that answer 💕
I think it is similar to sharing number in your bank account. recently I was watching a video where some woman told her current weight which she is happy about and her previous weight which made her feel very fatty and bla bla bla and how uncomfortable she was in that weight. and we are the same height and her before is my current and I don't think I am fat and according to doctor's charts I am normal and I don't feel that way. I would say it was very unpleasant to hear how she describe her feelings about my weight. yes, she didn't say that everybody with that weight are fatty and ugly, but that was sort of implied, yes? so I like people who don't share weight number.
@@LesiavanderWomanshe was talking about yourself, you shouldnt feel bad about yourself if she felt negative about herself. Who wants to share, should be able to share. No need to get offended or even actualy compare
There’s nothing wrong with plastic surgery. I had a Bleph and feel so much prettier. My eyes were very hooded. Now you can see my eyeshadow and loving makeup!!
Tati, I just adore you. This video is so honest. So much respect for your journey, individuality and peace with your decisions.
Yay for the transparency! I personally loved your ears before as well as now but i totally get wanting something done that improves your overall mental health.
My mom is in her mid 50s now and she looks and feels better than she did in her 20s/30s.
If anything, she says if she could go back to an age it would be her mid 40s. But she looks incredible and she says the key is to keep your mind young. The second you start telling yourself you’re old, you’ll feel old. ❤❤❤
I've been watching you for year's now and was always in awe of your beauty I genuinely think you are one of the most beautiful people I've ever seen. This shows you how beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
I would have lipo and breast reduction. But I won't. I am working on self-acceptance. However I know if I lost about 10-15 pounds my breasts would shrink and that would be wonderful in my opinion. So no, I do not plan on getting plastic surgery anymore. Everyday I wake up that is something to be thankful for. But you look beautiful Tati! In addition, I think inner peace and happiness shines through and makes people naturally attractive.
Thank you for being so transparent on this topic. It's very refreshing. You're beautiful and I wish you all the best!
I love that you shared your story! I’ve been contemplating a breast lift/ reduction. I feel like people should do what makes them feel happy. If you are happy and not hurting anyone, why should it matter to anyone else?
Thank you for being so open and honest! ❤
You go girl! I'm enjoying seeing you like this. I think maturity brings us this desire to express ourselves more freely without worrying so much about what others think. I have followed you for many years and you have always been so polite, correct and reserved, you really have always been the good girl and I think this is very genuine of you. I have always identified with your style and personality. But there comes a time when we get tired of trying so hard to please others and protecting people who do us harm. We need to defend ourselves, make our side of the story clear. I like seeing you so open, you owe it to yourself and no one else. You deserve being where you are. You're a person that I have always admired, respected and trusted in this crazy world of UA-cam ❤
❤ love this! Props to you Tati for being open and honest after going through so much 👏🏼
Obviously you don't owe anyone explanations for your choices, nut hearing you being so honest and open is really wonderful.
Thank you for sharing your experiences. I am having such a hard time with my new body after having kids and have been contemplating surgery. I haven’t decided whether or not I’m going to do it but it was nice to hear some good feedback that doesn’t make me feel like a horrible person for even considering it ❤
Thank you for this. I think,as women, we are so torn between wanting to be as authentic as possible yet also we are wrapped up in the societal vision of beauty and wanting to measure up, whether it’s for ourselves or for the way people perceive us. As women a lot of us do the best we can to balance that scale and how we do it and what way is different for each of us. To celebrate other women for who they are is the only appreciable way to live as constantly judging is not the the answer.
I personally would LOVE to hear about your experiences with fillers, injectables and especially chemical peels. I am at a place where I’m also in my 40’s and researching options to help slow the aging process without going the surgical route if at all possible. Please do share, it can help a lot of us as information is power.
I hope the litigation side of things went well for you. All the best ❤️
love you tati 🖤 i’m 26, starting watching you when i was 18. i’ve loved seeing every season of your channel! ✨
I've been watching for years and I never even noticed anything. I've always thought you are beautiful inside and out. Putting out positivity into the world wanting all of us to feel confident.
You are amazing. Thank you so much for talking about taking self responsibility for your choices. I've always felt like it was up to the individual what you did to your own body. Don't let society talk you into doing anything life altering. You are so easy to relate to and I appreciate that so much.
If you are happy that’s all that matters. No one has any right to say anything about your choices. I would love to hear about the non surgical procedures; I have started some myself and would love to hear your thoughts.
Plastic surgery saved my life-I had chronic pain from a 3+ inch abdominal separation due to pregnancy-I got a tummy tuck and I got a breast reduction and went from a G to DD. I’ve had facial injections as well. One thing I did decide recently is to let my natural hair color grow-every time I get my hair colored (even using organic color) my scalp burns and flakes and I get a rash every single time I get my roots done. I’m so tired of it. I have chosen to embrace my natural hair and I am really growing to love and appreciate my silver strands of wisdom. They really are beautiful. Do what makes you happy-love and appreciate your body-it does so much for you! ❤
Doing any procedure is a PERSONAL choice. I appreciate your transparency. That’s what I admire from those I follow…
What a beautiful woman. Just your handling of this topic is stunning. Your beauty, femininity and grace just exude from the inside. It's your heart that makes you glow from the inside out.
I've been a long-time fan. I've loved every version of you, but this one is by far my favorite!
#1. Your ears have always been perfect, and I look at them a lot…bc you wear amazing earrings.
#2. Do whatever makes you feel good!
#3. I’m 52, just had lower blepharoplasty. I didn’t even know what it was a month before the surgery but I look sooooo much younger & better rested. Just healthier than I have in decades!!
Much love Tati! Please bring back beauty tutorials, I trust you ❤️❤️❤️
You don’t have to explain yourself to anyone! It’s YOUR body, YOUR choice. I couldn’t even imagine feeling the need to explain myself to thousands of strangers. Just know that this video has likely helped hundreds, if not thousands, of women contemplating those decisions right now. We love you for YOU, not for your ears or your boobs!
I feel like this video also helped Tati heal her inner child, and I love it!
I will say this is very refreshing to hear especially about not ideal situations that are real that can be encountered during plastic surgeries. You should talk about other cosmetic procedures (not surgeries) that you have done and how you feel about them/what was the experience of getting them was like (veneers, more specifics about fillers and Botox)
YES DO A VIDEO ON ALL THE PROCEDURES! WE NEED THIS SERIES FROM YOU!
Thank you for being open and honest about this. :) I second that a lift is a nightmare recovery. I did tummy tuck at the same time, too, which made it even worse. I used to say that “mommy makeover” it too cutesy a word for what it is. These are major surgeries and people don’t really understand the amount of recovery involved. Thanks again. Love you and your channel. ❤
You are such a cool and authentic woman, thank you that you are on this planet! ❤😻💕💓💟🤍👩❤👩
I love how ur being so u with us Tati and since I’ve become a parent I’ve realised that it’s important to do things that work for u and ur lifestyle…it’s no one else’s business as long as ur happy being u who u are as a person that’s what’s important at the end of the day 💕 I think this also comes with age and experiences as after I turned 40 I no longer cared as much about how I thought others or people viewed me coz at the end of the day u gotta be comfortable with u
You are absolutely stunning. every time you upload a video I'm like how the hell does she just keep aging in the opposite direction!!! 🖤
The one thing I love about this video that any one who gets a procedure can relate to. When Tati mentions if you feel convicted by a plastic surgeon or red flags 🚩 by a guy with procedures …I would suggest to take a step back and get another professional opinion if you still have your mind set on something and don’t let a doctor easily persuade you. I had that happen to me more than once and it definitely can lead to problems. Be confident with your procedure and doctor 100% and Communication is key. Best of luck ❤❤❤
Every time you replay a video of you in the past, I always think how you look so beautiful right now. There is something about women in their 40’s that I think makes them gorgeous!!
Refinement, from age. Like a rock sculpted from the sea and the wind.
Because I believe it's true that as we age we start to accept ourselves more. The quote "youth is wasted on the young" can go with how I have felt as I aged. If I could go back to my early 20's with this feeling, I would be unstoppable in my opinion. I have come to be who I want to be at 50. And I no longer worry about what others think. Of course, I'm not in the public eye so I don't know how that would feel... but for the most part I'm at peace with myself.
I’m a believer for do you! That being said, I get confused by people who say they only want to use clean beauty, no toxic chemicals, eat clean, drink clean, eat organic, etc etc, but then get plastic implants and fillers and chemicals injected in their face. I’m all for plastic surgery but it’s the conflict of the two “ways of living” that confuses me.
How clean are they really living?
i got my boobs done a few months ago and they’ve been such a confidence boost! i totally agree, if it makes you happy, do it!! Besides that, I strongly believe that all of these "youthful" procedures end up aging people drastically. I have tried almost everything to look younger + delay aging as much as possible, Things like Fraxel, expensive creams, Retin A (7 years straight), home devices and what not. However, nothing made any real difference compared to the high-quality derma pen I purchased for about 100 bucks. Within 3 months of use, my skin has improved DRAMATICALLY. I don't look like I'm 18 again, but definitely not 42 either. My fine lines have disappeared completely, and my nasolabial folds are way less are nonexist. People often underestimate the power of wounding and the revolutionary effects it can have on the skin.
Do you mind to share the pen brand your using? Thanks for the comment by the way!
Korabeauticals V2
Shhhh...don't tell everyone! (Joking)
Ive started almost 10 years - most guess I'm @ 15 YEARS younger than my birth certificate says.
I DO it myself at home, quote aggressively in places, and lightly in others,,maybe 1x month. I am 63
How often do you do it exactly?
Is it something worth starting in my late 20s? No drastic signs of aging yet but might be worth preventing
Tati I truly respect that you try so hard not to blame others (ie society) for the decisions you have made or for the way you felt about yourself as a child. I think everyone needs to take more responsibility for the decisions they make.
You’ve only become more beautiful through the years and it’s been such a pleasure to be on the journey with you
Oh my, I didn't know there was something like pinning the ears back?? Wow. Tati, you're beautiful in every single way and thanks for the video ❤️
Love how real you're becoming or showing us now.. Wow. The new content you want to do sounds deep amazing,Tati! You're beautiful inside and out!
Beautiful with or without alterations
The 2 little strips of highlights in your hair completely elevate everything! So so stunning.
When I hear what your childhood sounds like, I feel I am hearing my own. As a plump child to being a big woman now, I can understand what you mean when you tell about all of it.
And coming to the bit about looking pretty, you are one of the most pretty women I know and not only on the internet. (P.s. it is not flattery)
Tati- whatever procedures you choose and have chosen to have done, do not change who YOU are. I didn't know you had your procedures, and now I do, You are still TATI. Same Beautiful person I have been watching for manyyyyy years.
It makes me happy that you've reached a place where you want to talk about these things. Thank you Tati for sharing with us. 💕💕
I love how you explained all this. Have never really watched your channel but I like how you appear.
I’m literally sitting here watching this while recovering from Lipo 360, fat grafting and an abdominalplasty. You decide what you need to do to feel good about yourself. I hated my postpartum body and needed to do this for me.
Bahahahah I was literally just about to comment that I’m sitting here recovering from my boob job 😂😂😂😂😂😂 #WILD
How is that working for you? Genuinely interested, I'm thinking of getting the gastric sleeve.
😂😂😂😂
I wish you a speedy recovery.
@@juliaivanitskiy269 Unfortunately, I don’t have any experience with the gastric sleeve but just do your research when doing any type of procedure. There are always some risks. The lipo was pretty easy, just lots of pain.
Your video has hit my heart at its core
It is not about procedures
It is about loving yourself
And how much i needed it
What I personally regret is sitting here and comparing myself to someone who I knew nothing about, a lesson for me definitely!
I love this new Tati era. I think your words are so true and I agree with everything you said! I’m happy that you are happy with your body! Having surgery does not take away anything and I appreciate your openness and vulnerability .
PS you were the CUTEST little girl! Oh my goodness. Listening to you talk about how you felt as a little girl is just so heartbreaking. I felt the same. I still have so much inner child work to do. Hugs Tati.
I don't know why Tati, but this video made me tear up and gave me lots of hope that it is never too late to fulfill one's dreams.
Love the authenticity, it really is essential for healing, growth and feeling safe in our human connections. At the end of the day, that’s why we’re here, as a member of the human species with here on on earth, to live/survive & to help our people live/survive.
We survived & evolved for millions of years, because of our brains & emotional/social bonds with our people. When we’re safe w/our ppl we feel love, so the goal is to love & be loved and to do that we need to keep ourselves & our people safe & stay bonded thru the uncertainty of life here. That’s it, that’s the purpose.
It’s next to impossible tho bcuz we’re told to ignore/avoid our emotions, when it’s our emotions that bond us & tell us if we/our ppl are safe. We’re supposed to have communities living together to help when we’re stressed, sick, tired from doing our part to keep each other safe & loved. We’re driven by evolutionary instinct to connect with and make the ppl in our community happy,safe, but we’re constantly triggered & afraid of being hurt because it’s our bodies way of saying we’re not safe, and it’s ignored when we’re children ( don’t cry, don’t be sensitive, don’t be crazy), instead of nurtured and taught to regulate and listen to our emotions & bodies.
Getting older IS amazing, because we become wiser, so we can nurture & teach our young. I will say, I do think the need/want to be “pretty/attractive” IS social. Bcuz we know it makes other ppl happy. And when our ppl are happy, we’re safe bcuz they’re safe.
If we don’t feel safe, and we don’t listen to our emotions, they stay in our bodies and get louder. And our brains attach a story to that to get us to do something to become safe. If we’re told in all our media and stories, that being pretty/attractive is going to make ppl happy, and our brains are creative, & we don’t see “beauty”, then they can us that we’re sad bcuz we’re not.
Yes, some ppl bring value by making us feel good bcuz of how they look, obvi, but it does not diminish our value in anyway. I think beauty is supposed to bond us, we all want to be around someone who is beautiful, who’s sings, who does things that make us feel good. And we need that, but we need to be cared for too, and we need food, and protection, and someone who is looking out for us, and someone who knows the plants, and someone who is good in an emergency, etc.
Anyway, when we’re told, very incorrectly, that we lose value as we age, it couldn’t be further fr the truth. Brains take decades to learn and grow and recover from trauma. And we need ppl who have been there, and know we can survive pretty much anything, to teach us. And that’s the beauty of aging, its when we have the most knowledge & power to love & be loved & keep our ppl safe.
This is the Tati I have missed! Thank you for sharing ❤
YOU took so many of my words out of my mourn! In my 40’s and feel the same way. New self reflection and I see the world and my life differently then I did before decades before. I see natural beauty so much more beautiful than ever begins. I’m really enjoying it!! Great post!!!!
Here to support you and enjoy your content. Thank you for sharing. As long as you’re a good person Tati, it doesn’t matter what you do for yourself. You keep your personal life private, happy you share a little here and there and honestly I love it. You’re a role model for your integrity, ability to be transparent (within reason), and heart. Shouldn’t be a role model bc of how you look. You’re beautiful and have been. You come across very relatable and a gals best friend. Love love love the recommendations! Lasers video maybe if you can try the at home hair removal device or why you wouldn’t :). I will probably do laser on my stomach have you done it on your thighs? Thanks Tati!!!!
Tati I just love your openness now. You're more beautiful than ever before. Thank you for sharing your story and thoughts with us. You're amazing. Don't let anyone tell you any different. #Respect ❤