These In depth Analyses of the Dynamics are so Valuable in reaching the full understanding of how the Narcissist reaches his or her aims. The Value of your work cannot be underestimated. Thankyou for this Video HG, it is very much Appreciated.❤️🌻
As a FIPPS, I have moved on. Thanks to the excellent advice of HG and my determination and hard work, I have achieved a total no contact regimen, which in the long run also results in Zero impact. Thank you, HG 🥇
I can only comment on my as past IPPS and I’m in full no contact regime for almost 3 years. But I still find very hard to interact with other people, as my mistrust of others is very much a present. I’m still not able to work and my social isolation is very much a problem but this time of my own choice. I am finding extremely difficult to fit in into society. And also feelings of detachment of others and I have also noticed that I don’t have much empathy for others anymore. However, I do get a heaps of professional support ( I have psychologist once weekly, and access to psychiatrist for medication for depression, nightmares and anxiety), so not everyone is as lucky as I am because of the support I get. But I do struggle with the sense of injustice and anger that nobody from the authorities has intervened to help me, but rather attacked me. This is my biggest struggle, but I’m so grateful that is now all behind me. Thank you HG for necessary tools to my much wanted freedom which I didn’t believe was ever possible, but I was wrong. Thank you 🙏 HG.
Oh, I can hardly breathe. I am that shelf intimate partner secondary source and I’ve been trying to no avail to get over and end things with him for 2.5 years. It doesn’t help that he came into my life at my most vulnerable when I was a few months post separation from my narcissist ex husband of 19 years. I blocked him on everything earlier today and I prayed for something to keep me from reaching out again. I’m hopping this eye opening video is the catalyst for strength and change that I need. Thank you 🙏
My mother and an Ex of only two years are mid-range Narcissists. The abuse from early childhood was horrible, I have developed Cptsd. I've been diagnosed Adhd and, even more severely, am autistic. I've never been co-dependend, but understanding and seeing through the abuse was probably additionally difficult, because I don't understand lies and fake behaviours. My symptoms have been misdiagnosed as BPD, for many decades. To both my (worst) abusers, I've been the scapegoat and the primary source of supply
His secondary became his primary. A coworker at that. I was married to a LIE for 13 years. I suppose I should be grateful & im finally feeling that way.
Looking back I squirm at myself. I would or rather could not let go due to my trauma bonding .I was pathetic.Begging and hounding him to come back to me It went on for a couple of years after being with him for 25 years.I was so damaged OMG!The embarrasment I can feel now for my behaviours He is a cold,empty self important selfish,spiteful rat in reality Ruined my life.If it wasn't for finding HG one day and learning where I was and what was truly going on I would still be at it. I learn't to cut family members off too
Mine was the anchor (a shit one) but he couldn’t ever find a replacement and I left him. Then years later he continued to not find a proper replacement as narcissism became more well known about (girls kept saying he had red flags and he asked me what the hell that means) then he found someone and he tried to find someone to replace her but she dumped him before that. Then loads of single life with the odd week long gf again. Then a very gullible girl and they were together around three weeks until it fell apart but for some reason she kept clinging on in the hopes he’d want her or change or something 🤷♀️ that went on for AGES and then he found someone and paraded her around literally everywhere with expensive gifts, holidays and praise online to make the last girl jealous and got her pregnant within weeks. She’s now a full on ipps and I can’t wait till the next episode when he finds a replacement as he doesn’t seem to be very good at it 😂
Very true, but this is actually what demons inside the narc want you to become...to become like them. Then they have got you. If you're spiritually too strong you are a threat to them. They try to dim your light and purpose by different hosts (narcs). And what is your purpose? It is to cut the generational narcsissistic curse within your family by being the first one by NOT becoming like them....
HG could you do a video on the hospitalized narcissist. You go crazy trying to take care of them and it's never enough and he bad mouths you to the nursing staff. Thank you for all your help.
These In depth Analyses of the Dynamics are so Valuable in reaching the full understanding of how the Narcissist reaches his or her aims. The Value of your work cannot be underestimated. Thankyou for this Video HG, it is very much Appreciated.❤️🌻
Listening to this, I’m having flashbacks to a relationship I had years ago . HG makes it make sense .
As a FIPPS, I have moved on.
Thanks to the excellent advice of HG and my determination and hard work, I have achieved a total no contact regimen, which in the long run also results in Zero impact.
Thank you, HG 🥇
I can only comment on my as past IPPS and I’m in full no contact regime for almost 3 years. But I still find very hard to interact with other people, as my mistrust of others is very much a present. I’m still not able to work and my social isolation is very much a problem but this time of my own choice. I am finding extremely difficult to fit in into society. And also feelings of detachment of others and I have also noticed that I don’t have much empathy for others anymore. However, I do get a heaps of professional support ( I have psychologist once weekly, and access to psychiatrist for medication for depression, nightmares and anxiety), so not everyone is as lucky as I am because of the support I get. But I do struggle with the sense of injustice and anger that nobody from the authorities has intervened to help me, but rather attacked me. This is my biggest struggle, but I’m so grateful that is now all behind me. Thank you HG for necessary tools to my much wanted freedom which I didn’t believe was ever possible, but I was wrong. Thank you 🙏 HG.
Oh, I can hardly breathe. I am that shelf intimate partner secondary source and I’ve been trying to no avail to get over and end things with him for 2.5 years. It doesn’t help that he came into my life at my most vulnerable when I was a few months post separation from my narcissist ex husband of 19 years. I blocked him on everything earlier today and I prayed for something to keep me from reaching out again. I’m hopping this eye opening video is the catalyst for strength and change that I need. Thank you 🙏
A superb summation, HG, with excellent insight. Thank you.
My mother and an Ex of only two years are mid-range Narcissists. The abuse from early childhood was horrible, I have developed Cptsd. I've been diagnosed Adhd and, even more severely, am autistic. I've never been co-dependend, but understanding and seeing through the abuse was probably additionally difficult, because I don't understand lies and fake behaviours. My symptoms have been misdiagnosed as BPD, for many decades. To both my (worst) abusers, I've been the scapegoat and the primary source of supply
His secondary became his primary. A coworker at that. I was married to a LIE for 13 years. I suppose I should be grateful & im finally feeling that way.
@@ladyvirgo013 been there. 15 years. I still struggle to this day.
@KellieFromKansas they have a way of inflicting some major damage and ptsd. Hugs xo
Looking back I squirm at myself. I would or rather could not let go due to my trauma bonding .I was pathetic.Begging and hounding him to come back to me It went on for a couple of years after being with him for 25 years.I was so damaged OMG!The embarrasment I can feel now for my behaviours He is a cold,empty self important selfish,spiteful rat in reality Ruined my life.If it wasn't for finding HG one day and learning where I was and what was truly going on I would still be at it. I learn't to cut family members off too
Thank you, HG...an important video for me...
Thank you, HG for explaining this. 💜
Excellent information and analysis.
Spot on HG, thank you.
This is so true!
Amazing breakdown thank you!
Thank you HG for a very enlightening video. You explained these interactions so very well😊
Mine was the anchor (a shit one) but he couldn’t ever find a replacement and I left him. Then years later he continued to not find a proper replacement as narcissism became more well known about (girls kept saying he had red flags and he asked me what the hell that means) then he found someone and he tried to find someone to replace her but she dumped him before that. Then loads of single life with the odd week long gf again. Then a very gullible girl and they were together around three weeks until it fell apart but for some reason she kept clinging on in the hopes he’d want her or change or something 🤷♀️ that went on for AGES and then he found someone and paraded her around literally everywhere with expensive gifts, holidays and praise online to make the last girl jealous and got her pregnant within weeks. She’s now a full on ipps and I can’t wait till the next episode when he finds a replacement as he doesn’t seem to be very good at it 😂
Tasted the goods and you wasted years of your life waiting for a rotten can of tuna
I think another narcissist is the victim that finds it harder to move on. They'll justify their abusers actions.
Very true, but this is actually what demons inside the narc want you to become...to become like them. Then they have got you. If you're spiritually too strong you are a threat to them. They try to dim your light and purpose by different hosts (narcs). And what is your purpose? It is to cut the generational narcsissistic curse within your family by being the first one by NOT becoming like them....
HG could you do a video on the hospitalized narcissist. You go crazy trying to take care of them and it's never enough and he bad mouths you to the nursing staff. Thank you for all your help.
Is the DLS even a empath?? If they know he’s married or she , seems like they are toxic too