It's crazy that most workplaces are like this. I can sense negative energy and bad vibes from certain people even before they behave rudely or toxic around me.
Yes, girl! I am so happy for u! ❤ You deserve a job that u will enjoy. I have been in a toxic work environment before too, and it made me feel horrible every day. I felt like i was imprisoned. I also had an hour commute there and an hour back every day. It was so bad. I was able to break free, too, so i know the feeling u were describing about a huge weight being lifted.
You have no idea how much your story resonates with me. I went through the EXACT same experience. You were perfectly competent. You got gaslit and abused at that job. So much power to you for quitting!
Yes, I completely relate to this video. I had a terrible manager in my last job. She would demean me, and infantilize me. She literally said to me, "Is anyone doing any hand-holding for you?" Ya, as if I'm a child who needs his hand held. I dropped that job faster than a sack of hot bricks, lol It is not worth my mental health to stay in a job with a demeaning boss like that. I struggled with self-esteem issues for months and months after dealing with that terrible woman. I am glad that you shared your story here on UA-cam. It makes me feel less alone to know that I am not the only one who has experienced such a demeaning boss. I also related to being put on a performance improvement plan. That happened to me as well. There is no shame in it, I believe. We all have different ability levels and unique talents. As long as we try hard and put in a respectable effort, I think we can hold our heads high and feel proud of ourselves.
I am truly happy for you. A toxic place can really mess with your mental. My son is working in Colorado out in Vail, and he said after 2 months, he knew with the management there, that he was not going to work there under that kind of treatment from the "managers" who disrespect employees. As you stated, some of these jobs do nothing about it , because work places do NOT CARE. That kind of behavior is accepted. My son already had another job when he started VAIL and from hearing all the horrible stories about that place. I told him to always keep your resume active and stay looking just in case things don't work out. I too have run into very unprofessional places. It's a no wonder why the American People are not willing to accept anything , and rather work from home. These work traps are truly exhausting, regardless of your education. You have a new follower. I truly love this, thank you for putting this out here. You are very intelligent with a great attitude. You will make it.
awe you’re so sweet. this genuinely means so much to me! thank you for sharing your story as well as your sons. sending positive vibes to you and him. ✨
Very encouraging and brave! I left my toxic job last week. I'll never work for any company or anyone ever again! So glad I've come across your videos!!🔥🔥👌🏽👌🏽
Omgg i am currently going through this right now. My boss is a jerk, he micromanages everything, keep records of all the stuff I did wrong and building a case against me. I noticed all the red flags and started taking notes. I had complained about him and waiting for a hearing. Right now am so depressed and full of anxiety
gosh i cannot believe that corporate america is full of this bull shit. I mean ive experienced it first hand and am hearing accounts of so many disturbing experiences online...
oh boy- if you have an interview and someone says “ don’t get too excited to work here “ especially from HR, I would run from that company as fast as possible. That means it’s a bad environment and they even know it 😢
Thank you so much for making this video!❤ I’m so glad you’re putting yourself first, and doing what’s necessary for your peace! I’m so inspired by your courage! I hope you achieve your goal of becoming a full time UA-camr! You can do this girl!
I’m happy you did it. I have my notice letter of leaving two weeks ago, and what you tell in the video happened the same to me. In some way I’m glad to know I’m not the only one who had such toxic environment and employees. I’m my job the extra was that the amount of work that I was handling wasn’t matching the time I was required to work, while other employees works less. You did the right thing. There is always should be a line that you should never cross. No matter what - you put yourself close. Again, I’m happy for you. Never doubt your choice to leave!
Some jobs don't even deserve a 2 week notice. They will not give you one when they are ready to get rid of you. There was a place I had to leave without 2 weeks, my mind was truly being affected. Those panic attacks are awful.
I watched this video after seeing your most recent one about being laid off. You are a great storyteller. I was so happy hearing you stand up for yourself multiple times to that “manager.” I’d love to see more stories from you, you’re a natural and your channel will definitely grow as you do!
So many ppl feel alone , alienated, ostracized and suffer in silence. it’s a good thing you put this message out here for others to know it’s okay to be human, feel what you feel, you’re not alone and love yourself enough to go where you add value (when possible). Wishing you much success along your path ❤
I'm sorry to hear you went through that. The worst is behind you. There are better places to work out there than this. I promise. You just haven't found it yet.
You don't belong to that shitty place, that place will destroy themselves altogether with those people in it in the end while you're shining somewhere else, trust me. I have never seen a shitty place gone further after they treated their employees in very bad way.
Omg Yes the micromanagerment. I’ve been yelled at told to “Get over here now!” I can’t talk to coworkers I can’t answer the phone without him snatching it out my hands. Watches me the entire 8 hour shift. I thought I was crazy until someone outside of my department spoke up and asked if I was alright and that he shouldn’t be talking to me that way. I know how you feel 100 💯
I left a toxic job right before the pandemic and ended up not being able to find a new job that I wanted for 2 years. I also was receiving unemployed for almost 2 yrs too.
Red Flag 1. Awkward feelings. 2. Your response determined that they got you.. easy catch to use. The Awkward feelings from the interview was your warning. Don't ever dismiss that "Gut feeling"
Wow really enjoy you. God Bless you and your young family. I have been an RN for over 30 years it has affected me a good life. I am not far from retirement. I am so glad I have lived be low my means. I enjoy your content. I know I am not your target audience but it's refreshing.
With you until the "personal vendetta" part. Impossible to prove and usually an underperformer's belief. Nonetheless, glad you walked away. Corporate jobs arent easy.
Hello Madeline Rodriguez, good evening! Good video 👍, I found it about one hour and I liked it much. I could understand you about 70%, because you speak very relax. I gave to this video of yours, the like number 100. Greetings from Sonora, México 🇲🇽. PD. I'm learning English for the last 5 years, on my own.
How did you get a lick on them when you quit one day before they were going to fire you anyway? You actually did them a huge favor so they did win. What they wanted you to do was quit so they didn’t have to fire you. They actually won.
I called BS on some of what you’re saying. Why would the other people in the company allow her to have a meeting with you where she went over things she did wrong unless she was partly supervise you. Sounds like you couldn’t handle being supervised. He asked me.
I called BS on some of what you’re saying. Why would the other people in the company allow her to have a meeting with you where she went over things she did wrong unless she was partly supervise you. Sounds like you couldn’t handle being supervised. He asked me.
No one cares about being supervised. When you start messing with people's mental health that is on another level. This is how people snaps crackle and pop.
It's crazy that most workplaces are like this. I can sense negative energy and bad vibes from certain people even before they behave rudely or toxic around me.
It really is, and they wonder why people do NOT want to go into a OFFICE.. THiS is why.
Yes, girl! I am so happy for u! ❤ You deserve a job that u will enjoy. I have been in a toxic work environment before too, and it made me feel horrible every day. I felt like i was imprisoned. I also had an hour commute there and an hour back every day. It was so bad. I was able to break free, too, so i know the feeling u were describing about a huge weight being lifted.
you're the best Rose! always appreciate your kindness and support. so glad you got out of that unhealthy situation. we deserve nothing but the best. ✨
@@bbmadeline yes! Amen to that! We do deserve the best! ❤️
You have no idea how much your story resonates with me. I went through the EXACT same experience. You were perfectly competent. You got gaslit and abused at that job. So much power to you for quitting!
thank you for your support! hope you’re doing much better now. ❤️
Me too. I have been there, and I hate to see that people are having to work under these type of work places. That rush was ANXIETY.... Bless her
Yes, I completely relate to this video. I had a terrible manager in my last job. She would demean me, and infantilize me. She literally said to me, "Is anyone doing any hand-holding for you?" Ya, as if I'm a child who needs his hand held. I dropped that job faster than a sack of hot bricks, lol It is not worth my mental health to stay in a job with a demeaning boss like that. I struggled with self-esteem issues for months and months after dealing with that terrible woman.
I am glad that you shared your story here on UA-cam. It makes me feel less alone to know that I am not the only one who has experienced such a demeaning boss. I also related to being put on a performance improvement plan. That happened to me as well. There is no shame in it, I believe. We all have different ability levels and unique talents. As long as we try hard and put in a respectable effort, I think we can hold our heads high and feel proud of ourselves.
wow that sounded terrible. glad you dipped out of there. completely agree with everything you said! on to better opportunities. 🙂
They sound like Narcissists or
“Psychopaths in the workplace.”
I am truly happy for you. A toxic place can really mess with your mental. My son is working in Colorado out in Vail, and he said after 2 months, he knew with the management there, that he was not going to work there under that kind of treatment from the "managers" who disrespect employees. As you stated, some of these jobs do nothing about it , because work places do NOT CARE. That kind of behavior is accepted. My son already had another job when he started VAIL and from hearing all the horrible stories about that place. I told him to always keep your resume active and stay looking just in case things don't work out. I too have run into very unprofessional places. It's a no wonder why the American People are not willing to accept anything , and rather work from home. These work traps are truly exhausting, regardless of your education. You have a new follower. I truly love this, thank you for putting this out here. You are very intelligent with a great attitude. You will make it.
awe you’re so sweet. this genuinely means so much to me! thank you for sharing your story as well as your sons. sending positive vibes to you and him. ✨
You're right, how someone treats you has to do with them. If you just want to work and mind your own business you should be allowed to do just that.
People don't understand what it means to leave well enough alone. It's like a tick in the brain I swear.
Nope they never leave you alone is the problem
Very encouraging and brave! I left my toxic job last week. I'll never work for any company or anyone ever again! So glad I've come across your videos!!🔥🔥👌🏽👌🏽
Omgg i am currently going through this right now. My boss is a jerk, he micromanages everything, keep records of all the stuff I did wrong and building a case against me. I noticed all the red flags and started taking notes. I had complained about him and waiting for a hearing. Right now am so depressed and full of anxiety
gosh i cannot believe that corporate america is full of this bull shit. I mean ive experienced it first hand and am hearing accounts of so many disturbing experiences online...
oh boy- if you have an interview and someone says “ don’t get too excited to work here “ especially from HR, I would run from that company as fast as possible. That means it’s a bad environment and they even know it 😢
Thank you so much for making this video!❤ I’m so glad you’re putting yourself first, and doing what’s necessary for your peace! I’m so inspired by your courage! I hope you achieve your goal of becoming a full time UA-camr! You can do this girl!
No job should suck your soul, we need to hold ourselves accountable for treating ourselves with respect.
exactly. setting those boundaries.
Good. Improve yourself. I’m gonna start my own business soon.
excited and happy for you!
I’m happy you did it. I have my notice letter of leaving two weeks ago, and what you tell in the video happened the same to me. In some way I’m glad to know I’m not the only one who had such toxic environment and employees. I’m my job the extra was that the amount of work that I was handling wasn’t matching the time I was required to work, while other employees works less. You did the right thing. There is always should be a line that you should never cross. No matter what - you put yourself close. Again, I’m happy for you. Never doubt your choice to leave!
thank you! congrats on leaving that negative work environment. you made the right decision and you aren't alone.
Some jobs don't even deserve a 2 week notice. They will not give you one when they are ready to get rid of you. There was a place I had to leave without 2 weeks, my mind was truly being affected. Those panic attacks are awful.
I watched this video after seeing your most recent one about being laid off. You are a great storyteller. I was so happy hearing you stand up for yourself multiple times to that “manager.” I’d love to see more stories from you, you’re a natural and your channel will definitely grow as you do!
So many ppl feel alone , alienated, ostracized and suffer in silence. it’s a good thing you put this message out here for others to know it’s okay to be human, feel what you feel, you’re not alone and love yourself enough to go where you add value (when possible). Wishing you much success along your path ❤
I'm sorry to hear you went through that. The worst is behind you. There are better places to work out there than this. I promise. You just haven't found it yet.
appreciate your kind words!
You don't belong to that shitty place, that place will destroy themselves altogether with those people in it in the end while you're shining somewhere else, trust me. I have never seen a shitty place gone further after they treated their employees in very bad way.
Some people thrive on giving other people hell. So sad good people get bullied and harassed.
Omg
Yes the micromanagerment. I’ve been yelled at told to “Get over here now!” I can’t talk to coworkers I can’t answer the phone without him snatching it out my hands. Watches me the entire 8 hour shift. I thought I was crazy until someone outside of my department spoke up and asked if I was alright and that he shouldn’t be talking to me that way. I know how you feel 100 💯
I left a toxic job right before the pandemic and ended up not being able to find a new job that I wanted for 2 years. I also was receiving unemployed for almost 2 yrs too.
I hated my job for 10 years
The person sounds sadistic. Thanx for sharing ur story❤
appreciate you for watching.
I feel you, I just left a toxic job an I immediately felt better, never again would I put myself through that.
so glad that you left. thanks for watching!
Red Flag
1. Awkward feelings.
2. Your response determined that they got you.. easy catch to use. The Awkward feelings from the interview was your warning. Don't ever dismiss that "Gut feeling"
Wow really enjoy you. God Bless you and your young family. I have been an RN for over 30 years it has affected me a good life. I am not far from retirement. I am so glad I have lived be low my means. I enjoy your content. I know I am not your target audience but it's refreshing.
Congratulations 🎉🎉 I did the same couple months ago
congrats to you as well. ☺️
I also want to quit
Dont feel guilty about doing what you had to do to survive.
f those people. They don't like themselves. Good 4 u
With you until the "personal vendetta" part.
Impossible to prove and usually an underperformer's belief.
Nonetheless, glad you walked away. Corporate jobs arent easy.
Damn the trauma.
Working 14 years at the post office was a nightmare.
hope you’re in a healthy workplace now. ❤️
*I can't wait for the day when you can pursue your passions in life and not have to worry about money or some ridiculous job* 🙏💜
@@ThousandairesClub very grateful for your support. ❤️
Hello Madeline Rodriguez, good evening! Good video 👍, I found it about one hour and I liked it much. I could understand you about 70%, because you speak very relax. I gave to this video of yours, the like number 100. Greetings from Sonora, México 🇲🇽. PD. I'm learning English for the last 5 years, on my own.
thank you for watching! that is awesome. keep going, you’re doing great. ✨
You are very beautiful, Madeline.
Keep doing what your doing. You will get there. 💕
You should have never taken that job. They told you everything you needed to know about that company during the interview 🤷🏽♀️
you live and you learn.
@@bbmadeline very true you become wiser as well 🎉🎉😊
I got laid off for befitting my side hustle put all my severance and ui into my business
I hope you succeed :)
Great video!
Ty for posting! Jobs are depressing you work so hard only for little pay! Pennies
You are beautiful. I luv your facial features.
🌷🌹 Pretty‼ 🌺💐
I wish you success madam❗🙂
thank you! ❤️
Four years for me!
four years since you quit?
4 years at a toxic job and I went to an interview today and got a different job. I feel happy again! @@bbmadeline
4 years at a toxic job! Got a new one today! @@bbmadeline
this happened to me =[
You go girl😉. Subscribed.
You decided to take the pay knowing the downside ! It was your decision !
❤
How did you get a lick on them when you quit one day before they were going to fire you anyway? You actually did them a huge favor so they did win. What they wanted you to do was quit so they didn’t have to fire you. They actually won.
Cost benefit ! You got paid and there was a cost get over it !
I called BS on some of what you’re saying. Why would the other people in the company allow her to have a meeting with you where she went over things she did wrong unless she was partly supervise you. Sounds like you couldn’t handle being supervised. He asked me.
Of course you need to work cause I’m not gonna keep supporting people like that
Four months in 330 subscribers, yeah not gonna happen girl you don’t have good content
Damn… way to spread negativity. Be better. Btw look at her recent vid it’s doing well.
I called BS on some of what you’re saying. Why would the other people in the company allow her to have a meeting with you where she went over things she did wrong unless she was partly supervise you. Sounds like you couldn’t handle being supervised. He asked me.
No one cares about being supervised. When you start messing with people's mental health that is on another level. This is how people snaps crackle and pop.