These Style Tips Will get you OUT of a Style Rut Over 40 (No more boring, plain outfits everyday!)

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  • Опубліковано 8 сер 2024
  • Are you in a Style rut? If so, this video is for you. I'll show you 10 easy ways to get out of that rut. If you are not sure if you are in a style rut you will want to watch this video: • 10 Unexpected Signs YO...
    Thank you so much for watching. Your support means the world to me! ~Erin xo
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    Tip #1 | Closet Cleanout | 0:51
    Tip #2 | Get Inspired | 1:50
    Tip #3 | Go Shopping | 3:31
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    Tip #6 | Challenge Yourself | 7:58
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    Tip #8 | Discover New Brands | 10:36
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  • @Nickelbippy
    @Nickelbippy 2 роки тому +70

    80% of the time I'm only 20% Stylish, but you motivate me to keep trying!

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому +2

      You got this! Hope my content helps, Janie! xo

    • @carolynsanner8253
      @carolynsanner8253 2 роки тому +2

      😄 Good one! There's probably more who feel like that than you know!

    • @bobsc138
      @bobsc138 2 роки тому

      I'm another one :D Working on it though.

    • @marilyncoburn4936
      @marilyncoburn4936 2 роки тому

      Women in Vancouver are very unstylish. Very west coast bush. Hard to get motivated when you are older.

  • @vanwirt7
    @vanwirt7 2 роки тому +73

    Thank you Erin!!! I am 56 this year and I wholeheartedly agree!! I don't care what anyone else thinks, I do me. Maybe a video on that effortless style in Spain? ❤❤❤

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому +14

      You're SO welcome! Definitely...I'm working on some Spanish content! xo

    • @Hollyfae
      @Hollyfae 2 роки тому +1

      YES! I'm hoping for that too.

  • @tabilittlefield1326
    @tabilittlefield1326 2 роки тому +12

    I don't want to be pulled out. I know what I love and I am confident in my look! Those "trends" fly in and out. A simple capsule wardrobe makes it easier to chose what to wear and ensures I always look my best.

  • @marciarayne9269
    @marciarayne9269 2 роки тому +5

    When I was 40, a customer told me that at age 40 you stop caring what other people think. I really thought about that and it is true that by then, you know what you like and what you don’t in all aspects of life . So 30 years later and semi retired, I look forward to shopping and staying current . Makes me feel younger to get some jeans and a blazer on with snakeskin booties and maybe a hat. Thanks for taking us with you to Spain! 💙

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому

      I agree, Marcia! Thanks so much...glad you are following along! xo

  • @te4545
    @te4545 2 роки тому +21

    Midlife awakening - thank you for introducing such a freeing and empowering term to describe this stage of life. It is so refreshing to think of it this way rather than a time to dread and be anxious about. Love your channel!

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому +1

      You are so welcome! Glad you are enjoying my content! xo

  • @annainbudapest1261
    @annainbudapest1261 2 роки тому +32

    what I notice here in budapest as opposed to canada is no track pants or yoga pants unless your exercising

    • @echase416
      @echase416 2 роки тому

      🇨🇦

    • @PenelopeRose238
      @PenelopeRose238 2 роки тому

      It seems like America/Canada are very attached to workout clothing, sweatpants, etc and Europeans are more dressy. Or if I see track pants in European street style they will dress them up with a trench coat or something stylish. I'm kind of depressed by American style because if you don't live in a major city, it seems like everyone just wears t-shirts, sweats and skinny jeans.

    • @76482
      @76482 2 роки тому

      Almost a year after OP's comment and I'm SO weary of seeing athleisure clothing on people. Beginning to think there's a certain type of female that is convinced she looks super good in exercise clothing. Hope my neighbor reads this 🥰

  • @LFerrill
    @LFerrill 2 роки тому +12

    “Midlife Awakening!” Love, LOVE that line. (Shamelessly stealing it) 🥰

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому

      I'm so glad! It's all yours! xo

  • @meglet5535
    @meglet5535 2 роки тому +20

    I've been watching old episodes of What Not to Wear, and it's reminded me that I do actually care about how I look and that it can be fun. Gotta take inspiration where you find it.

  • @MIMIDSH
    @MIMIDSH 2 роки тому +9

    I gave my hair stylist permission to update my style at any time. Whenever he felt I was due, or knew what was going to be trending, he'd tweak my cut. He only make subtle but perfect changes about once a year, so I always looked like me, only a fresh me. That always inspired me to update/refresh other things.

  • @Slaugenour
    @Slaugenour 2 роки тому +10

    You be you!
    It took my husband several years to teach me not to care what other people think. With most situations I support this idea. I know that I am a lovely person and most agree (of course not all because that's impossible).
    No matter what you do, someone will always have an opinion. Instead of trying to make others happy/approve, put you first.
    You be you!

  • @lydiabouts8572
    @lydiabouts8572 2 роки тому +10

    I'll be 42 next month, and I'm LOVING it!! I feel so much more comfortable in my own skin. "What am I waiting for?!"💗

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому +1

      I agree...what are we waiting for? You got this, Lydia! xo

    • @lydiabouts8572
      @lydiabouts8572 2 роки тому

      @@BusbeeStyle Now, if I could just find the inspiration to clean out my closet...😅💗

  • @lisaluft520
    @lisaluft520 2 роки тому +21

    I think trends need to be approached with an editing eye as we get older. Otherwise it often comes across as trying too hard. I recently did a search for fashion over 40 channels looking to find some new to me influencers. I watched one and thought "she looks like she's trying too hard". I look at the trends and see what sparks my interest and then decide if/ how I want to incorporate it. Sometimes it's just a minor nod. Sometimes it's a full embrace. Sometimes it's ok to just say "oh that's really cute" and let's others wear it. I'm 50 and I'm considered stylish by most acquaintances, friends, even my daughter's friends but I do believe there are things that I am too old to wear. Just like I believe there are styles that aren't right for my body type.

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому +2

      I agree, Lisa...I suggest looking at the trends each season and just picking one or two that really speak to you. If you have all of your wardrobe basics, these pieces are easy to incorporate and can help keep your wardrobe fresh. Just a nod is fine too...whatever you are comfortable with! xo

  • @Catherine3385
    @Catherine3385 2 роки тому +58

    Tip 6! My newer thing is: Every time I take out a new season's clothing and have it all set up in the closet, I have a set amount of time to actually wear it - each and every piece. Then at the end of the day, it's a keeper or it's in the donation bag. Surprising how much it cleans the closet and I find that I actually really like something that I just look past normally.

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому +2

      Great tip, Catherine! Thanks for sharing! xo

    • @kellycook4347
      @kellycook4347 2 роки тому +3

      I do the same thing.

    • @laurieparis2203
      @laurieparis2203 2 роки тому +8

      That's a great idea! I put my "not so happy clothes" back in my closet, like I'm giving them a time out to improve their behavior! Time to stop. 🌸

    • @Catherine3385
      @Catherine3385 2 роки тому +1

      @@laurieparis2203 lol

    • @texasstardust6010
      @texasstardust6010 2 роки тому

      @@laurieparis2203 ....omgosh, that made me laugh. ... 😁.

  • @dangermouse9g365
    @dangermouse9g365 2 роки тому +3

    That hot pink lipstick looks amazing on you! You are so right about the percentage of clothes we actually wear. I'm in the process of going through my closet for fall and taking inventory. It is eye opening

  • @amandak6986
    @amandak6986 2 роки тому +12

    Yes got in a style rut after having kids. I'm a stay at home mom and find myself just going for the easy cozy comfy leggings..every..single..day pretty much 😆 I used to be such a fashionista. I definitely need help and to get my inspiration back now that kids are all full time in school 😆 Thanks for the tips.

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому +2

      You're SO welcome, Amanda! You got this! xo

  • @christinadepaolo8436
    @christinadepaolo8436 2 роки тому +4

    Such great tips, Erin! I will have your voice in my head challenging me every time I get dressed - excited to try wearing my own stuff in new ways!

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому +1

      Yay...I love that! Have fun with your clothes, Christina! xo

  • @aidastanco2945
    @aidastanco2945 2 роки тому +4

    Thanks for all the inspiration in helping me to enjoy being over 40 (59 this past August)! I literally want to take a few days off from work to focus on cleaning out my closet, editing, and learning to wear new trends, one at a time, and just enjoying shopping my own closet!!

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому

      That is awesome! You got this! Glad my videos are SO helpful! xo

  • @elinjenssen4242
    @elinjenssen4242 Рік тому

    That Photo album is sooo smart! Will start tomorrow!🤩Thank you so much!💗

  • @Bella-tj4ti
    @Bella-tj4ti 2 роки тому +3

    Glad about what you said about not caring what people thin. I love the combo of pink, red and orange. Sometimes I will wear pink and red or pink and orange and always get looks but I don't care. I love the combo. Also, I feel I have basics and them update them with shoes. Right now I feel like the chunky boots makes everything look new.

  • @AyH25
    @AyH25 2 роки тому +10

    Amazing tips. I’ve been forcing myself to wear unworn summer items before the summer ends and I have been loving those pieces all over again :)

  • @annieyahu676
    @annieyahu676 2 роки тому +4

    Love the video!!! Your hair and make-up..lashes and lip stick colors, looked fantastic ❤ thanks for all the ideas.

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому

      You are SO sweet! Thank you, Annie! xo

  • @darlastepp5492
    @darlastepp5492 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you again for the inspiration Erin. I learn something new from every video you publish.

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому

      You are so welcome, Darla! I love hearing that! xo

  • @alexarmendariz5677
    @alexarmendariz5677 2 роки тому

    LOVE THE WAY YOU THINK!!! I too believe wear it and don’t worry what others think. I’m turning 58 this summer and it’s been my best era.

  • @AgeIsJustANumber
    @AgeIsJustANumber 2 роки тому +2

    Yes!! I'm 63 and feel the need to gentle nudge mature women to get up everyday and show up..because we can at any age...that is why I started my channel Age Is Just A Number by Barbara Jean! Thank you for all you do!

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому

      Love that, Barbara! Age is just a number...couldn't agree more! xo

  • @debbien4729
    @debbien4729 2 роки тому

    I'm so glad I found your channel last year! Who knew I needed BASICS! That has helped SO much, and I've been able to update my style. It seemed like it was easier pre-covid when I was going to the office everyday. I had dresses and suits, and great business clothing BUT I've never been good at the sophisticated casual look. You've really helped me get my head around that. Now I see that there is actually a category BETWEEN dressy and sweats. I'm 55 and I have can say that I do care a little bit about what other people think, but mostly I care about how I feel in what I'm wearing.

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому

      Thank you! SO glad you are finding my channel helpful...sophisticated casual is my jam! xo

  • @BethanyVigilante
    @BethanyVigilante 2 роки тому +2

    Love the look of this video! The lighting is gorgeous. Your makeup and hair look beautiful. So so pretty! Great topic today too❤️

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому

      You are SO sweet, Bethany! Thank you! xo

  • @dinamadrid1654
    @dinamadrid1654 2 роки тому +2

    Thanks for making videos like this, it’s so uplifting and motivating.

  • @PeachesSkinCare
    @PeachesSkinCare 2 роки тому +6

    Mid life awakening!!!! Love! We do not have to get worse as we age! We can absolutely get better in every way. I am allowing my grey hair sparkle,I am embracing aging and I love a beautiful outfit and jewelry and I have never felt better! Thank you for this. 🙌🏻🍑🧡Lisa

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому +1

      You're SO welcome, Lisa! xo

    • @PeachesSkinCare
      @PeachesSkinCare 2 роки тому +1

      @@BusbeeStyle
      Have a beautiful day 🙌🏻🧡🍑

  • @almabackstrom5414
    @almabackstrom5414 2 роки тому +2

    Great suggestions. I'm so happy to see you suggested color. How fun. All good information. You are so awesome to watch. Love it girl. ❤❤❤

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому

      Thank you! So glad you enjoyed this one, Alma! xo

  • @bethanysvintagefairytale6342
    @bethanysvintagefairytale6342 2 роки тому +3

    Love this video Erin, your always so inspiring and a great role model!! ❤️

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому

      You are SO sweet! Thank you, Bethany! xo

  • @tanjamomo7265
    @tanjamomo7265 2 роки тому +17

    I am 45 and just got a huge tattoo on my arm and I love it!!! I don't care what anybody thinks and it makes me feel so good and free😁

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому +1

      Yay! Love that! Do what makes you happy, Tanja! xo

    • @sandrahickey3593
      @sandrahickey3593 2 роки тому +1

      Good for you

    • @kathiejaine
      @kathiejaine 2 роки тому +1

      I’m 52 and have a sleeve and 16 others! I get compliments ALL the time! Age is just a number. Go girl! 😁

  • @susanbrechbiel7033
    @susanbrechbiel7033 2 роки тому

    Thank u soooo much Erin, yes I have been in a total rut n exhausted, behind on stuff, so this is a PERFECT video n great timing! Love your humor n u keeping it real, enjoy! 😊❤️⭐️

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому

      You are so welcome, Susan! Glad it was helpful! xo

  • @christinemack2153
    @christinemack2153 2 роки тому +5

    Erin, This was so fantastic, thank you, thank you! I've been way too serious about fashion and will try to have more fun with it! A closet edit is coming! Love ya! xo

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому

      You are so welcome! Clothes are supposed to be fun! Go play in your closet! xo

  • @kathdelaney9625
    @kathdelaney9625 2 роки тому +2

    Great advice!
    Looking really good Erin - happiness is showing on your face!

  • @mparis1184
    @mparis1184 2 роки тому

    Such great tips!!! Loved the challenge idea and the photo library idea. We all the inspiration. Thanks for sharing such helpful tips Erin!

  • @janicerice8810
    @janicerice8810 2 роки тому

    Your videos are always so thoughtfully put together! Your advice is so sound! New ideas, ways to stretch yourself. You really do know your stuff!

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому

      Thank you so much!! We love hearing that, Janice! ~Team Busbee

  • @jachinoy1565
    @jachinoy1565 2 роки тому

    Yes I'm in a style rut now coz been working from home for quite sometime but u inspire me everytime to level up.
    Good job!

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому

      Thank you SO much! You got this! xo

  • @miriamalvarenga1667
    @miriamalvarenga1667 2 роки тому

    I'm so glad I found you ! I so needed this !

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому

      Yay! I'm so glad this was helpful, Miriam! xo

  • @SC-qy6if
    @SC-qy6if 2 роки тому

    Love your channel! I always am learning something new

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому

      Yay! I’m so glad you find my content helpful! xo

  • @maureenrose9166
    @maureenrose9166 2 роки тому

    Another wonderful and inspiring video! Always so positive and upbeat.... You glow and encourage all of us to be our best through confidence and style. You possess the "wow" factor!

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому

      You are SO sweet, Maureen! Thank you! xo

  • @CatsInHats-S.CrouchingTiger
    @CatsInHats-S.CrouchingTiger 2 роки тому

    Yay, Busbee! I’m excited about this one! 💕 Awesome suggestions! Taking notes! 📝

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому

      Yay! SO glad you found this helpful! xo

  • @annanuzzomusic
    @annanuzzomusic 2 роки тому

    ❤❤❤love this video! You’re so inspiring! Thank YOU!

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому

      You are SO sweet! Thank you, Anna! xo

  • @iconestry1163
    @iconestry1163 2 роки тому +2

    It's a step by step process. I tried an online service for styling with pieces delivered to my home every month and it helped getting outside of my go to brands ❤️

  • @sandysmith8377
    @sandysmith8377 2 роки тому +1

    Long time lurker, first time commenting 😜. This is an excellent video! I am in a rut and want to change, but now I feel INSPIRED and that change is ACHIEVABLE, even at 55. Very doable tips presented in an exciting way. Thank you 🥰🇨🇦.

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому

      Yay! Welcome, Sandy! So glad you are enjoying my content and that you found this one helpful! xo

  • @mariannehettinger
    @mariannehettinger 2 роки тому

    great video! Thank you!

  • @sonyahall5080
    @sonyahall5080 2 роки тому

    You said a lot of things that I’ ve been thinking as well. I will be 55 in a few months. I’ve loved clothes since I was a teen. Your ideas makes so much sense. I definitely have to go thru my closet. I will also start to take more risks & most of all not give a damn about what others may say about why I wear...

  • @constancedorian6070
    @constancedorian6070 2 роки тому

    I haven’t watched your channel in a while. I checked in and wow, I feel like I have a fresh new channel to watch for great inspiration! Nice update.

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому

      Welcome back, Constance! So glad you enjoyed this one! ~Team Busbee

  • @MereMarc
    @MereMarc 2 роки тому

    Video I’ve been waiting for🥰🥰🥰
    THANK YOU ERIN!!!🤩🤩🤩

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому +1

      You are so welcome, Meredith! xo

  • @lizkearsing325
    @lizkearsing325 2 роки тому

    Great tips!!🤗🤗🤗

  • @godisgood5038
    @godisgood5038 2 роки тому +4

    So glad God delivered me from "people pleasing". Great video! Keep SHINING!!!

  • @jennifergordon678
    @jennifergordon678 2 роки тому

    Great tips Erin (as always)!! I will be 45 in a few months and I too am finding with every year that goes by I care less and less about what other people think. I recently replaced some basics and shoes that were worn out but I think a closet edit is in order ASAP!

  • @LisaDunahoe
    @LisaDunahoe 2 роки тому +1

    I immediately bought a Free People dress in a tangerine color. I got curtain bangs. I do have that shiny blazer because of that picture! I waiting for the temperature to go down in Charleston, South Caroline. (58yrs)

  • @sandrastewart1350
    @sandrastewart1350 2 роки тому

    Hi Erin. Thank you for being so inspiring! I now feel good about trying new things because you motivated me to get out of my rut! The last 2 years I have not been pleased with my weight and it seems like I can’t fit anything in my closet! I need to regroup and you have inspired me to do that. Thanks so much❤️

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому

      You can do it, Sandra! Glad this was helpful! xo

  • @estrellasanz7863
    @estrellasanz7863 2 роки тому +12

    I loved this video!
    Here goes little suggestion for a next video: why don't you show us the street style in Madrid, in Barrio de Salamanca, Chamberí, Retiro... I'm a Madrid native living in a small town in Utah and I miss the city vibe and my old life so so so much 😞 💔

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому +3

      Great suggestion, Estrella! I am planning on doing some Spanish fashion content once I have been here a little longer and feel a bit more settled. xo

    • @echase416
      @echase416 2 роки тому

      I hope you get to explore more of North America. Montreal, Canada in particular. Very fashionable.

    • @PenelopeRose238
      @PenelopeRose238 2 роки тому

      I love European fashion and would also love seeing some segments on Spanish fashion. I think Spain gets overlooked in favor of France and Italy.

  • @marysia_ml3744
    @marysia_ml3744 2 роки тому

    Yes, I definitely need to try some of these things 🙂

  • @elkedenny
    @elkedenny 2 роки тому

    an empowering and motivating video. I'm 57 and I'm trying to reinvent myself style wise with your help. purchased a bunch of "basics" ,changed hair,changed makeup...I feel like a million bucks, good in my skin for once. Thanks for always motivating us and giving us those awesome style ideas🥰🥰xoxo

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому

      You're SO welcome! Glad this was helpful, Elke! xo

  • @michellezeller2025
    @michellezeller2025 2 роки тому +4

    Midlife Awakening…I LOVE that! ❤️ And you’re right, as women we spend way too much of our life worried about what other people think. I’ve found one of the biggest perks to aging (I’m 54) is to not give a rat’s poop (or at least less of it)! 😁👍

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому +1

      Exactly! It's SO freeing, Michelle! xo

  • @DGsa1661
    @DGsa1661 2 роки тому

    Midlife AWAKENING!! Love it Erin!! You are sooooo awesome🥳🌼🎊

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому

      You are SO sweet, Diana! Thank you! xo

  • @cindywiemers9149
    @cindywiemers9149 2 роки тому

    Great advice and tips. Thanks Erin! Cindy 🌻💗

  • @laurlauri1917
    @laurlauri1917 2 роки тому +1

    So inspiring-- you said out loud what I think to myself all the time. You are looking fabulous btw!! Your face is glowing- beautiful!

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому

      Thank you! You are SO sweet! xo

  • @karireyes6710
    @karireyes6710 2 роки тому

    I rally appreciate all of these tips! I will give them a try. Thank you for this video!

  • @Hollyfae
    @Hollyfae 2 роки тому +1

    This is SO well timed. I have been in such a rut, even with my hair. My wardrobe consists of black, white, denim/chambray, and a few tan pieces ( to spice it up, obviously!!) you even mentioned Farm Rio - which I have been obsessing over for over a year, I just go and DROOL over so much (along with this colorful striped top and skirt that I keep stalking) but always tell myself " I love that but it's NOT me!". But it's seriously the only time I feel excited about clothes anymore. Unfortunately, budget is a massive consideration for me too, so I can't update much currently but this has given me so much to think about moving toward. Thanks for the push! (Also, LOVING the curtain bangs and might have some myself before morning. And the lashes. and everything. You look amazing, so funny how hard we can be on ourselves)

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому

      So glad this was helpful! You got this, Holly! xo

  • @Lady_Liberty1977
    @Lady_Liberty1977 2 роки тому

    I'm 44 years old and I found your channel...I love you!! I don't feel old - I wear what I want and it feels amazing! New subscriber 🙏 amazing tips

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому

      Welcome! Thank you so much for your comment. Truly means SO much to me...So glad you are here! xo

  • @janicefield9671
    @janicefield9671 2 роки тому

    Great video!

  • @laeahglez5538
    @laeahglez5538 2 роки тому

    These last two videos are exactly what I needed to hear! I’ve definitely been in a style rut, caused by working from home and also having gained some weight. Im trying to get out of it, but it is difficult to find flattering and practical (read comfortable) clothing. Since the video you did about the trends I’ve been inspired by your gorgeous red cut out dress, and even though I don’t generally like to show much skin, I think I’d be comfortable with showing the sides of my waist. I’ve just ordered a similar dress. Hope it fits and looks good on me ☺️👍

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому +1

      I'm SO glad! Love that you are trying cutouts! Way to try something out of your comfort zone! xo

  • @lisabraybrook5694
    @lisabraybrook5694 2 роки тому

    I love the look featured in who what wear! I didn't even think it was a "risk taking" outfit for you, so glad you went with your own instinct and wore it. Thanks for your fashion influence

  • @sherilynalexnder897
    @sherilynalexnder897 2 роки тому

    i LOVE the tip to try wearing a go-to piece a different way every week.

  • @melaniemulhall2277
    @melaniemulhall2277 2 роки тому +2

    Great advice, Erin. I particularly love #6. I tink I'm going to challenge myself to style things I haven't worn in some time. Thanks.

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому

      You can do it, Melanie! Have fun playing with your clothes! xo

  • @sarahmontana4106
    @sarahmontana4106 2 роки тому

    Wonderful video!! I so wish you could be on my shoulder as I clean out my closet…lol. Also that jacket with all of the pleating was just divine!! I would love to know the newer brands that you are loving now and drawing inspiration from. Thanks for this video

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому

      Thank you SO much, Sarah! They are all listed in the description box of this video under Tip#8! I'm sure I will discover and rediscover many more now that I'm based in Europe. I'll be sure to share! xo

  • @jh115
    @jh115 2 роки тому +3

    Happy Belated Birthday! I'm enjoying shopping my dress closet from 6 to 15 years ago, wearing my size 4 to 6 shift dresses that i couldn't fit into for 6 years (until i dropped 90% of bread and potatoes) They work with sneakers, sandals, booties and knee-length boots with or without tights! Erin, i love your inspirational videos even more than shopping at T.J! x

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому

      Thank you! Yay...Love that! Shopping your own closet can be so much fun, especially if you lost weight and fit into an old size! Congratulations! xo

    • @jh115
      @jh115 2 роки тому

      Bless you; i was determined not to give away all my fave frocks x

  • @meganryan9945
    @meganryan9945 2 роки тому +1

    Great tips Erin! BTW, I love the puffy sleeve dress! Exquisite❤️

  • @sylviepelletier9953
    @sylviepelletier9953 2 роки тому

    I like the idea of creating an album of clothing we love. I've been saving some pictures lately of different fashion shows and I find that it's very helpful to creat my wardrobe. Erin, you are THE BEST ! Hugs & Kisses XO

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому +1

      You are SO sweet, Sylvie! Thank you! xo

  • @AVega-rx4px
    @AVega-rx4px 2 роки тому

    I love the midlife awakening! I recently splurged on a Natalie Martin midi dress for a wedding. It had a deep plunge in back and front with tassels tied across the top line of the shoulders. I used your style hacks products to get all secured 🤣 I felt so “grown up” and got a lot of compliments. It was definitely out of my comfort zone (which is very modest usually) but I am so glad I wore it. I’ve also recently been using DIME beauty eyelash serum for my lashes and brows to “update” my eye area. Between microcurrent and wearing cream based makeup I feel that I’m staying current but still aging gracefully. Thanks for all the inspiration over the past few years Erin!

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому

      Yay! Thank you for sharing! I love hearing all about your successes! You got this! xo

  • @vanessap8138
    @vanessap8138 2 роки тому

    "Mid-life Awakening". - LOVE it!

  • @maidakorte550
    @maidakorte550 2 роки тому

    I adore you in the long black knit dress with the jean jacket. I would adore seeing a video on all the different ways to wear a classic jean jacket. With big big scarves? With trousers? Dresses? Cute feminine dresses? Knit dresses? with Shorts? With other jeans? You are SO good at this.

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому

      Great idea, Maida! Thanks for the suggestion! xo

  • @JamieReviewsStuff
    @JamieReviewsStuff 2 роки тому +1

    That Sandro pleated trench 😍 Get in my closet! Also, hit 40 this year and it’s amazing how much less I care about what others think of me. It’s fantastic!! Recently found your channel, love it!

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому +1

      While there are undoubtedly lots of changes in our 40s...it is also AMAZING! SO glad you found my channel and you are enjoying the content so far! xo

  • @lisaseverino5114
    @lisaseverino5114 2 роки тому

    Love this, learned from this, Thank you 😊🌹

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому +1

      You are so welcome, Lisa! xo

  • @mikki3961
    @mikki3961 2 роки тому +2

    I'm doing the curtain bangs too. Sick of my hair style, but don't want to cut my hair. Thank you Erin, you are a beautiful Soul💙

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому +1

      You're SO welcome, Michele! You can do it...not as scary as cutting traditional bangs! xo

  • @BassPlayerSusan
    @BassPlayerSusan 2 роки тому +2

    That tip about just simply watching people go by is a good one. Particularly if that area is coming back to life post-Pandemic. 12:32-13::08 you rock that croptop. This is so similar to the ways I've been wearing crops.

  • @GabrielaPug
    @GabrielaPug 2 роки тому

    These tips are great. You look amazing and Spain definitely brings out a beautiful energy that shines through. ❤

  • @sarahborders2348
    @sarahborders2348 2 роки тому

    Ever since discovering you and Fashion Jackson, I’ve been inspired to update my wardrobe. I love my skinny jeans, but last week I decided to wear high-wasted straight leg mom jeans and golden goose sneakers. I am 40 and it felt weird, like I was trying to dress like my babysitter, but it was fun to try it! I got complements too! Thanks Erin!

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому

      So glad you are enjoying our content and finding it helpful! We are all fans of dresses with our GG Sneakers and most of the team is 40+. You will love it once you get use to the look. Casual and effortless! ~Team Busbee

  • @jesscvideo
    @jesscvideo 2 роки тому

    Great tips, love the layered look 👍 and the way you have your hair now looks great too!

  • @aidahimawan
    @aidahimawan 2 роки тому

    Love when u mentioned ‘awakening’ on the last part. You were on point there Erin! As always….love all your videos, love all your tips and love to see you happy in Spain😘 Stay safe. Warmest regards from Singapore🇸🇬

  • @mulliganstew72
    @mulliganstew72 2 роки тому

    Love your curtain bangs girlie!!!!

  • @tuxedoneko9837
    @tuxedoneko9837 2 роки тому

    Great tips about color and challenging oneself. Love your crop top/jean/blazer look. Kudos

  • @bobbie3359
    @bobbie3359 2 роки тому +2

    Yes to Pinterest, it’s my go to for outfit ideas!! I always do tip #6, pull out that dress/top from the back of the closet and wear it again, most of the time I fall in love all over the dress/top again! 😂

  • @mistys.7603
    @mistys.7603 2 роки тому

    At 58, it’s so refreshing to hear ‘mid-life’ awakening! I care about how I look for me, my family /friends. No one else. It’s very freeing! Love your channel. 💜 Keep up the excellent work. You always make me smile.

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you SO much, Misty! xo

  • @elizabethwood2719
    @elizabethwood2719 2 роки тому

    Love "Mid-Life Awakening"!!!

  • @heidipelkola623
    @heidipelkola623 2 роки тому +8

    “Erins voice is in my head, but your basics” hilarious! This video just helped me a lot, I love Blake Lively’s fashion style, but I just discovered she is 5’9”. I am 5’6”. Kate Winslet is 5’6” so that would be a better fashion model for me. I’ll have to look up to see what styles she wears and if they will work for me. I also like Kate Hudson’s style and she is similar to my height and body type. Thanks for the inspiration!

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому +2

      You're SO welcome! Love that you hear me in your head (LOL)...hopefully that means that you DO have your basics! xo

  • @mirianmateo6136
    @mirianmateo6136 2 роки тому

    No words
    I’m so happy and excited
    You said it
    It’s my time
    Thank you so much,and keep enjoying España 💃💃💃

  • @normaramirez38
    @normaramirez38 2 роки тому

    I love the challenge. Great idea!

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому

      I'm SO glad, Norma! Give it a try! xo

  • @michellemohammed195
    @michellemohammed195 2 роки тому

    Erinnnn Thank You So Much!!!

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому

      You are SO welcome, Michelle! xo

  • @racheljones3697
    @racheljones3697 2 роки тому +1

    Great tips ! Thanks 🙏

  • @litzaztil7932
    @litzaztil7932 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for the tips. Really helped. And I’m loving your eyes lately. Whatever you are doing, make up or lashes , is working. You look great.
    Are you planning to visit Barcelona during your stay in Spain?!?!? I recommend. Amazing city !

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому

      You are SO sweet! I am wearing corner clump lashes. Here is the link: rstyle.me/+d66tGdQZegCD9i4V4DM5TA

  • @ritacymbalista6643
    @ritacymbalista6643 2 роки тому

    Completely loved this video. Hope you and you're family are enjoying Spain.

  • @bbh7550
    @bbh7550 2 роки тому +1

    I just turned 50, and I find your videos so inspiring!! I refuse to become invisible!

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому

      Thank you SO much! Thrilled that you are finding my videos helpful! xo

  • @carmenpreissl2157
    @carmenpreissl2157 2 роки тому

    You are always a super good Inspiration for me.Thank you

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому

      You are so welcome, Carmen! xo

  • @jenn8179
    @jenn8179 2 роки тому +1

    I love the crop top and baggy jeans! You look like you're 25! And that pleated jacket!?! I only saw it for a few seconds but it was AMAZING!!! So glad to see your family enjoying Spain! THAT is inspiration! ❤

    • @BusbeeStyle
      @BusbeeStyle  2 роки тому

      Thank you SO much, Jennifer! xo

  • @joliz1234
    @joliz1234 2 роки тому

    Love this video, great tips.

  • @christineanderson92
    @christineanderson92 2 роки тому

    Great! Thanks