Prosocial (Communal) Malignant Narcissist

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  • @bethmoore7722
    @bethmoore7722 6 місяців тому +54

    Having been in a cult in the 1970s, I appreciate this. You have described the leader of that cult perfectly.

    • @irenegronegger8972
      @irenegronegger8972 6 місяців тому +6

      Do you know Anke Richter? She is a journalist specialized in cults. It is about a wide range from strict religious cults to softer esoteric movements. She publishes mostly in Englisch. She is German, roundabout 60 years old and lives in New Zealand.

  • @chernagast6754
    @chernagast6754 6 місяців тому +89

    Oh look, you described the current American political season. I thoroughly enjoy your research and work, and even though I am a layperson in the world of psychology, I have learned a wealth of information from your lectures. Thank you very much for sharing your observations like this.

  • @desertlilly
    @desertlilly 6 місяців тому +57

    Perfectly describes my hellish workplace.

    • @ivodols9244
      @ivodols9244 6 місяців тому +6

      It perfectly describes my hellish volunteer workplace.

    • @MrTergugah
      @MrTergugah 5 місяців тому

      Haha (nervous laugh)...Sounds like most of the human population in general... Dangerous Bonobo chimps running amok, as- per-usual...Don't think there's much hope left for us 😢

  • @GreyCat827
    @GreyCat827 6 місяців тому +24

    I like your humor. Thank you for this video.

  • @InvisibleWarrior279
    @InvisibleWarrior279 6 місяців тому +28

    I believe they are the biggest threat as well. I believe I have known two of these people. One was a “high school principal” who eventually got fired and kicked out of the teaching profession for using the “school” as his own personal piggy bank. And the other was the head of his professional “alternative medicine” organization for his country. These people are the very high level, socially entrenched, well disguised con artists; the true Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde personalities.

  • @christinec.2579
    @christinec.2579 6 місяців тому +16

    Great video through and through. Very informative and helpful. Thank you for your continued contributions

  • @oneononehundred3912
    @oneononehundred3912 6 місяців тому +33

    I would love to see an in depth video talk on the topic of BPD with HPD ASPD comorbidities, I have been in a long term relationship (now separated) with someone who exhibited these traits in the extreme and you have only one brief video on the topic from 6-years ago. I know it’s asking a lot but another video idea for the odd couples series or a new series on horror stories, with a male covert borderline (I exhibit these traits) would be very much welcomed. I hope you’ll consider this topic for a future video. I have learned a great deal from you Prof. Vaknin and for this I am eternally grateful. Thank You for sharing your incredible insights and knowledge.

    • @samvaknin
      @samvaknin  6 місяців тому +16

      Search the comorbidities playlist.

    • @reflux043
      @reflux043 6 місяців тому +1

      ​@@samvaknin​​ At 2:02, if someone isn't narcissistic, can you feel this exact way (what you describe) after years of physical/domestic violence and emotional/narcissistic abuse?

  • @GreyCat827
    @GreyCat827 6 місяців тому +11

    Yes...the threat is very relevant today; particularly in a political arena such as in the United States. A new season of uncertainty is upon us. Thank you for your video.

  • @mariamelbay6735
    @mariamelbay6735 6 місяців тому +3

    Eindelijk, in de roos, cirkel voor mij compleet. Zeer inzichtelijk én de moeilijkste, de beste in zijn soort 😂 om tegen te strijden in deze maatschappij. Dankjewel en kijk uit naar meer sessies over dit thema

  • @DilfuzaKHaydarova-e1p
    @DilfuzaKHaydarova-e1p 6 місяців тому +8

    Thank you so much Dear Sam Vaknin

  • @macnchessplz
    @macnchessplz 6 місяців тому +12

    Televangelists come to mind while listening to this (politicians as well).

  • @TruthandJustice-hz9nv
    @TruthandJustice-hz9nv 20 годин тому

    Ha ha :-D Absolutely tremendous professor Sam, Thank you so much for this, Says it all, I really needed this for absolute clarity, Keep up your amazing work, Peace, love and respect to you and all, all glory smiles to the most high :-) Smile four miles :-)

  • @deanadutcher5877
    @deanadutcher5877 3 місяці тому +2

    You just described my husband without ever having met him.

  • @andrehanekom5665
    @andrehanekom5665 6 місяців тому +5

    Good video doc

  • @wendymerrillperry9699
    @wendymerrillperry9699 5 місяців тому +2

    Totally agree. Big threat. Thank you!

  • @virginiaceballos144
    @virginiaceballos144 6 місяців тому +7

    You described my ex in Israel …. He stole my money just with lies ….

  • @yolizen9980
    @yolizen9980 6 місяців тому +24

    But then he doesn’t care about his followers

  • @joshuabeldo2656
    @joshuabeldo2656 6 місяців тому +1

    Sam Vaknin was a beast,love your vids my man👁️🙏🏾😎

  • @someguy495
    @someguy495 6 місяців тому +9

    This describes me well

  • @MidsummerDream-y8u
    @MidsummerDream-y8u 2 місяці тому +1

    My husband towards me now. Its like when he turned 40. But he now talks to himself so i don't know what he is. It's scary.

  • @AwhisperNth3wnd
    @AwhisperNth3wnd 6 місяців тому +10

    Isn't this also true of victims of narcissistic abuse. I mean if they were isolated away from friends, family and work. Wouldn't this make it difficult for a victim to reenter society and maintain functionality. At the same time would most likely be going through all the stages of grief.

    • @samvaknin
      @samvaknin  6 місяців тому +7

      Search the comorbidities playlist for CPTSD and watch the NA Healing playlist.

  • @1506magda1
    @1506magda1 6 місяців тому +12

    Profesor Vaknin, I assume that, as with every other type of narcissist, the best way to stay sane is to go no contact, am I right?
    Do prosocial narcissists ever hoover?

    • @samvaknin
      @samvaknin  6 місяців тому +16

      Yes and yes.

    • @1506magda1
      @1506magda1 6 місяців тому +6

      @@samvaknin Thank you

  • @lafatinaillusa
    @lafatinaillusa 4 дні тому

    That’s why everyone in his group thinks I AM the problem. Nobody believes me.

  • @29parallelnorth
    @29parallelnorth 6 місяців тому +5

    Oh, you know my ex that has had me as the respondent of his corrupt circus divorce with his ‘men’s only’ lawyer.

  • @femalemisanthrope
    @femalemisanthrope 6 місяців тому +1

    You described my mother (borderline Narcissist) 1:1

  • @music7433
    @music7433 6 місяців тому +2

    I see I am the communal malignant in/ group . My family , especially children , in forever, friends I. If loyal, others who demonstrate exceptional intellect adventure perspective. I do hold all others in contempt but I do t like that - what is the alternative .
    Anyways - having a meeting with my ex husband to exchange kids tmrw at Disney World. He is clearly a
    Malignant narcissist - ignores everyone (see our kids 10 to 0 days a year) but seems to be good at his job, shocked why kids are “alienated “
    How to deal? How to best not affect the kids ?

  • @caml2004
    @caml2004 6 місяців тому +1

    Is the insignificant other's recovery of the prosocial malignant narcissist abuse more prolonged due to the element of exclusion from the group which would activate a core feeling of being ostracized?

    • @samvaknin
      @samvaknin  6 місяців тому +1

      Yes, among other reasons. Also the feeling of menace is much heightened.

  • @Snorli77
    @Snorli77 6 місяців тому +3

    hey Sam! is it child abuse when a parent forces you to stay in another country but the child wants to go back to their home country? Best regards!

    • @samvaknin
      @samvaknin  6 місяців тому +6

      Children do not have the right to make such decisions.

  • @Lostsoul_111
    @Lostsoul_111 6 місяців тому +1

    😂 Oh no

  • @deadwolf3607
    @deadwolf3607 6 місяців тому +5

    What makes a 20 yo man want to be with a 30-40 yo woman?
    Is it simply a maturity thing or is there something subconscious?

    • @carolmiles7474
      @carolmiles7474 6 місяців тому +1

      Money ,pays no rent .Or next to nothing .Maybe owns a house or her own flat etc check it out.deadwolf3607

    • @carolmiles7474
      @carolmiles7474 6 місяців тому +5

      @@deadwolf3607 probably owns flat car etc ,Better life for him . He will come back on and off.

    • @deadwolf3607
      @deadwolf3607 6 місяців тому +5

      @@tittat9351
      Doesnt make sense, getting an older woman is much harder. Even couple of years older is almost impossible to see

    • @deadwolf3607
      @deadwolf3607 6 місяців тому +1

      @@tittat9351
      So how does your first comment stand now? I dont even get why you wrote the second comment

    • @deadwolf3607
      @deadwolf3607 6 місяців тому +2

      @@tittat9351 i heard of cougars, but the man is far more likely to just go for a younger woman.And again, if he cant get someone his age and someone younger he aint getting an older woman. Maybe since im from the Balkans I never see it, but the stats say its rare even in western countries

  • @xSnowyOwlx
    @xSnowyOwlx 6 місяців тому +11

    Finally ❤bateman style

  • @carolmiles7474
    @carolmiles7474 6 місяців тому +32

    Age 78 always opening buisness going around the world, Nothing works he gets investors . .Then broke again ,leaves woman to do buisness pays no rent ,Illegal immigrant very good a conning people,

  • @apubanerjee5496
    @apubanerjee5496 6 місяців тому +4

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  • @elizabethsesso9356
    @elizabethsesso9356 6 місяців тому +6

    ..could be where the so-called mob mentality comes from..?...that is, mob mentality begins with this type of person...

    • @samvaknin
      @samvaknin  6 місяців тому +6

      Time to watch the video.

  • @yolizen9980
    @yolizen9980 6 місяців тому +15

    So DJT

  • @Mybloomingiris
    @Mybloomingiris 5 місяців тому +2

    Are there somatic narcissists who are prosocial covert malignant narcissists? I look forward to more videos on this topic!

  • @29parallelnorth
    @29parallelnorth 6 місяців тому +4

    I just had a vision 😳the next phase of all these UA-cam narcissist gaslighter sociopath videos will be an emphasis on the victims that fall prey which will have (pronoun here) fall prey again after spending years healing. It’s all tragic. Let’s just stop talking about it to not feed the monster