Was Wife Killed By a Violent Shower or Her Cheating Husband? | Robert Feldman Case Analysis
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- Опубліковано 15 жов 2022
- This video answers the question: Can I analyze the case of Robert Feldman?
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Having watched this important documentary, I will never again buy a showerhead that is not expressly labeled as non-lethal. Thank you, Dr. Grande. This is important life advice!
I recently bought a new showerhead. As I am still alive and have suffered no injuries, I assume I bought the non- lethal version.
😂Lethal Shower heads…so far I have been able to dodge them…whew!!
I always appreciate your view and analysis’ thank you
One wonders why Big Showerhead is allowed to operate as they do
@@MoonWomanStudios You win the internet. Big Showerhead. I'm adding this to my everyday lexicon.
I like to live on the edge so I went with “less lethal” 💪🏻
Don't underestimate the shower - It can't be reasoned with. It doesn't feel pity, or remorse, or fear. And it absolutely will not stop... ever, until you are dead.....or clean.
🤭🤭🤭🤣 you're hilarious
Those murderous showers at it again. Gives new meaning to bloodbath
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@Frank Lee 😆
Haaaaaaaa!!!! 👍👍👍😂😂😂
I think the infamous shower scene in the movie Psycho has caused us to unfairly malign innocent showers everywhere. Perhaps that's why the police thought Stacy Feldman's injuries were perfectly reasonable. Excellent analysis, Dr. Grande.
When a translucent shower curtain delineates an advancing armed menace.
Hitchcock was a genius.
Can said unfairly maligned shower Sue for defamation?
You my dear, just won UA-cam comment of the day!😂😂 Thank you for the laugh.
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One of the reasons I have a clear shower curtain! Psycho....
What makes me so mad about this story is that she wanted a divorce, why can’t these men just let them leave. He was cheating anyways. Ugh poor woman
Right? It's very messed up. Like if he wanted to be a "playboy" and be able to go on multiple dates and use dating apps, why demand on keeping the wife? Him being married was obviously causing him atleast some issues on "the dating scene" since women often do Google men they go on dates with, especially if they have met them via the internet.
@@Throatzillaaa perhaps not so much in 2015 as now, but I agree with you.
Women do this too lol. "Why can't these women just let them leave." Bad people do bad things it is irrelevant what gender they are.
@@420noscopesonlylol6 yeah but this discussion was started based on this case in which a wife was being cheat on (and statistically speaking, men do cheat more often in marriage, but only by a small margin). The fact that you felt like you needed to join in here tho just to let us grown ass adults know that "women cheat too!!!!" is weird. what's that about?
@@420noscopesonlylol6 Not the focus on this particular analysis.
sounds like a case of narcissistic rage . He can do what he wants when he wants but don't you dare confront him or else.
Bingo.
Or you think of doing the same! Such hypocrites usually.
Sounds like Tom Cruise
Accident prone? Without her testimony we do not now that Bob had not caused these "accidents" by direct abuse, or emotional abuse turning her into a constant nervous wreck.
My thoughts exactly. Heaven help those children. So sad.
suspicious to m e , might 've been abuse. Ws she accident prone before she got married?
I thought the same, I was very "accident prone" when I was in a certain relationship and suddenly my "accidents" decreased to near zero after leaving
Of course in my case I survived to tell everyone it was actually abuse. I don't buy it.
Exactly. I hate how people tend to believe the stories of murderers. If they’ll kill, lying is nothing. Or they’ll disbelieve certain portions of the killer’s story, but unconsciously believe other parts. NONE of his story should be given ANY merit.
The same occurred to me.
Simply put: this story (& hundreds of other gruesome recounts) explains why I remain single.
Aw! Come on! Lots of true love stories out there too! Just not covered in true crime!
I might just remind you that you are watching a True Crime channel.
Not all marriages or romantic situations end up like this But you should educate yourself and understand the signs of a Narcissists /psychopath etc The problem is women do not educate themselves(men too)
@@lisamac8503 no the problem is narcissism and violent men
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Honestly... I had no clue. (Dumb me!) Thanks for the education. Frankly... He's dead-pan hillarious AND - I'm fond of plaids. His rarely seen outakes crack me up! I'm also quite fascinated by Dr. G.'s extraordinary objectivism. Lastly: The cactus moves are very interesting "tells").
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I’m actually about to buy a new shower head & I’m so happy I caught this! I’d not been checking for the ‘death free’ designation. Whew! That was a close one!😅
You just can't be too careful these days! 😂💧
This is so ridiculous. How could those police ever believe that a shower caused 80 injuries? Like what did they think happened? That the water pressure caused the shower head to shoot around, beating her up and maybe strangling her a bit? 🙄🙄
as cops, they should know. he probably had a friend in the force
Unbelievable the level of incompetence that was shown, and it's disgusting he was able to be rewarded with 750K when it was painfully obvious he murdered her.
It’s heartbreaking what happened to Stacy and their children, who ended up without a mother and in a way, a father.
Unfortunately, I think many women end up settling for an inadequate partner. It’s a very expensive price to pay for fear of loneliness.🙁
Outstanding review, as usual. Thank you, Dr. Grande!❤
Men also settle for inadequate partners. That is not a one-way street.
@@arinerm1331 That’s true.
And his oldest daughter still believes her mother committed suicide.
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@@arinerm1331 Women don't routinely kill their partners as often as men do though. The stats are not even comparable in that department
Well, people ought to check the shower head settings before turning the shower on and avoid using the "lethal" setting. As for the marriage, people research horses they bet on more than the spouses they choose. Thank you for another interesting and amusing analysis, Doctor Grande!
"lethal" is the highest setting on the vibrating shower head
There should be a person that handicaps and puts odds on potential spouses
Amen
I agree! Sometimes I hear of people getting married and think, 'who thought that was a good idea?' I had a friend years ago who started dating a man in prison. I lost touch with her for about a year and the next time we talked I was shocked when she told me after serving his 12yrs, he had got out and 2months later they got married. The next words out of her mouth were, "we've had alot of problems..." Really?! Shocking! They were both old enough to know better lol. I do hope they worked things out though, but odds are not in their favor. Lethal setting!🤣😆🤣😆
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Just a reminder, I'm not diagnosing anybody in this video; only speculating about could be happening during an unusual drizzle event that includes blunt force trauma and strangling like this.
A violent shower?! This, I gotta see! Thanks for your analysis, Dr. Grande.
That’s the EXACT reason I’ve watched this particular episode.. and actually scrolled past, watched something else and returned lol
“Bob did not have any empathy, therefore he didn’t know how he was being perceived by others” I never put those two things together so succinctly. Would you say that’s usually the case?
Sounds like a typical narcissist. They lie so easily & frequently its scary. He put the patches on her. Great points again. Thanks Dr G😊💛❤
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Yep. I've known a narcissist for years and he does like so much and so often its fucking nuts.
As of he claims to never lie.
I was going to say the same thing.
Well, no. Most narcissists do not commit homicide. No murderer is a typical member of a group.
🤣🤣🤣...I love Dr. Grande's face in the thumbnail of these types of videos he's like "here we go on this bullsh*t..I'm gonna roast this dirt bag" 😐
So tragic. I’m glad that you do these videos. They serve as a warning. Women have to be discerning and protect themselves. I love that you educate the public on narcissism. Keep up the fabulous work
Frank, narcissists are especially talented at hiding portions of themselves, and when their partner starts figuring out things later, gaslighting them. Narcissists can be women, too, with male victims.
Really Frank?
@Frank Lee I see what u mean I wish she could’ve left before this but how was she to know he was a murderer
My shower also has a "pulse" and "no pulse" setting.
Don’t use the no pulse!!! That’s a warning.. 😜😜
Dang, Dr. BIG hit us with consecutive shower zingers...we don't deserve this, Dr. G. Great subject and analysis as usual!
The thing about the truth is that the story never changes.
I'm so glad this creep got caught. The sad thing is the children, one day they have parents soon after they have none.
Great synopsis Dr. G. Rock on!!!!!💜
I had no idea the shower would try to kill people, maybe I should take baths from now on 😂.
Damn, don't mess with Susan. She will track down your HS yearbook if she needs to.
A class analysis Dr Grande. Nearly cracked up when you included Kramer struggling with the Commando 450 shower head - a great comdedic scene from Seinfeld. Loved this one. You were really on top of the game. Thank you for a great breakdown and some genius comedy!
Yup, they are what they use for elephants!
He looks like he aged incredibly since the murder, as well as having an appearance suggestive of possible alcohol abuse. I always find it interesting, the amount of dating some of these men and women do. He doesn't have the ambition to further his career, but has the motivation for his indiscretions. How did he live with himself, BEFORE the murder? I hope the children are in a safe and nurturing environment, and I'm so glad he didn't hurt them! TY for the upload, Dr.
EDIT: What happened with the fentanyl? She would have been experiencing withdrawal, had to have been, unless SHE didn't use her patches...
I think I have been told that fentanyl patches can take quite some time to actually begin relieving pain for the individual, like up to 12+ hours. Because fentanyl is so dangerous and dosed in micrograms, I think the patches work in that manner to very slowly release an adequate but safe amount of the drug to ease pain. But because she had no fentanyl in her bloodwork, I don't think she was using the patches regularly (maybe because of her fear of dependency? We can't know for sure). But I think since her husband stuck the two patches on her just a couple hours before she was removed from the home, no longer alive, explains why she didn't have it in her system. There is definitely no way she was wearing fentanyl patches daily without having it show up in a drug test.
I wanted to ask what the signs you see in an adult that suggest possible overuse of alcohol. I don't mean to call into question your statement, I'm just genuinely curious. Is a bloated face part of that appearance? That is something I have noticed in older men who I believe are binge drinkers.
@@Throatzillaaa I've used fentanyl patches, yes, they are slow release but within 15 min. I was higher than a kite. It would show up in her blood stream. Marijuana edibles work slowly, about an hour, but still would show up in her blood also.
Dr Grande?
Doesn't heat (water or air) on the patches increase their effect?
Wondering about the shower temperature, if the patches were put on before she was killed.
That is the key to me. Bob was stupid enough not to realize that a dead body would not absorb any thing from a patch.
My husband and I saw this story on TV but nobody has put the same twist on a story like you do Dr. Grande🐞💮🏵️🌹🥀🌺🌷
I just listened to the Dateline episode of this case. The saddest thing is their daughters. The oldest still believes it was suicide.
How old is she, and why does she think this? That seems strange to me. Did an adult tell her this? Or she just doesn't want to believe that Daddy could murder Mommy?
@@jennifermeegan148 - I believe she was 15 when her mom died and is now in her early 20s.
Great video, Dr. Grande!
Had to laugh when you were talking about the Lethal shower heads.... "Sometimes they are just simply labeled Death Free, that's just as good." 😅
Oh how I wish she would have left earlier, after all, he was useless! Thank you for sharing.
Kramer and the shower head, I remember that scene! Too funny!🤣🤣🤣
Your spousal assessment at the end was spot on!
More people NEED to understand the wisdom of this. Perhaps if they did, they would realize that THEY TOO aren't the "perfect spouse" for their mates EITHER;)
Case in point the " incel" problem!
I've had some aggressive showers in my day ... but never a lethal one thankfully. Seems his stories are as fluid as their bathtub
So they missed she was strangled? So he was hiring out his pool, but he got 700k in life insurance? The timeline of his movements, no evidence of a break in etc? This was a slam dunk for the prosecution.
We need the Dr. Grande skin care regiment video because he's positively glowing today 😍
He should advertise "Native".
I love that very soothing, calming tone and voice, because I feel immediately more able to focus and think clearly. Dr. Grande has an amazing brain, and has a talent for very consise synthesis. Listening to his speech is like reading every main sections of an essai. Keep flexing it (your brain), Dr. Grande!
Back to your heavy hitter analyses Dr. Grande. Love it.
In Defense of Shower Heads! .....And tunnel-vision
I think the reason he almost got away with it is because the autopsy showed an enlarged heart (along with hardening of the arteries). This caused tunnel vision on part of the examiner. An enlarged heart is often the cause of sudden death (sometimes on the field) in 'healthy' athletes or those that abuse steroids. So when you find this along with hardening of the arteries is a 'regular' or unhealthy person it means their heart is working too hard and if there are no drugs in the person's system it's easy to go with 'unknown' or 'undetermined' causes of death (while assuming the enlarged/overworked heart went into arrhythmia causing death). She had a current history of falling that could explain some of the bruising. She had a lot of bruises... BUT there are 2 injuries that stood out and caused the doctor to determine that she had been strangled after reading the autopsy, but these are two very specific injuries and should have IMMEDIATELY raised a red flag (strangulation) when seen together! ...but may have gotten overlooked (or purposely ignored) during the autopsy because there were so many bruises, injuries. These 2 injuries (that show strangulation) should have been the very first thing the medical examiner looked for, when there is a death of a woman at home especially with bruising or evidence of a struggle, but the enlarged heart lead him/her down that pathway as the cause of death. Thank goodness for the doctor taking another look at the autopsy.
Cheers to your dry cleaner. Your shirts always look perfect, and you have such an interesting range of colors and patterns that work for you. Off topic sure, but it's one of the first things we all notice, I'd guess. Have a lovely day, Dr. G.;)
Yes! An added bonus to every video is shirt approval!👕
I have been subscribed for a while now and I’m enjoying the additional snarkiness you’ve recently included
Love his snark!
A cerebral and refreshing angle on murder cases. Consistently compelling posts Dr Grande .
Cheating should never be tolerated. It’s a form of brutal violation in any context. We’re all guilty of cheating on tests, but this has taken to a whole new level.
Speak for yourself, I never cheated on a test. So what keeps you from cheating in other areas of your life, if cheating on tests seems morally exceptable to you?
"Acceptable" 🕵
@@paul9156c You never cheated on a spelling test?
Silly me.Never thought of cheating on test.😘
No cheating on tests here either! Not everyone does. How were you raised?
Thank you again for your analysis of a murder of his wife and his unapologetic demeanor.
How flippantly you say "She was prone to accidents" is pretty disheartening as it's more likely she's prone to cover up the DV she was experiencing. Straight up, if he beat her that much and strangled her to death, it was NOT the first time he physically abused her. No, we don't know that for a fact but that's def an aspect of this case you should bring up esp if you think it's probable he did it. If nothing else, you should bring it up because October is DV Awareness Month and people need to reminded that DV doesn't just affect celebrity couples.
If that - "It doesn't just happen to celebrities" - is the message of DV Awareness Month, then the whole exercise is redundant rubbish.
@@eadweard. no, it's a call back to the fact that he's done several videos on the Dep Heard trial.
This is likely the story that Bob told police about a "clumsy" wife, therefore Dr G is merely repeating what has been reported.
Dr. Grande, I love your humor, delivered in such a flat way makes you extremely funny! I really appreciate your case breakdowns and could listen to you talk all day. Ty!
So I do actually know someone who fell and died in the shower. But I don't think it can really be that common for those who are not limited by age-related disability. I only know of one person, a friend of mine from highschool, who fell in the shower and immediately snapped his neck and died . It was really awful but it's called a "freak accident" for a reason. And it was obvious what had happened, he didn't have 80-something bruises and abrasions and a chipped tooth. How awful.
So sorry for your loss
In high school a friend of ours died hitting his head on bathtub (back in high school, no health or neurological issues to explain it). I fell within cms of doing the same in my late 20s.
Sorry for your loss.
Those poor kids! I wonder what happened to them after the murder?
Goodness, if it wasn't for the woman who contacted his wife, he might have done this again? The world certainly has some scary people!
Always appreciate your wonderful videos Dr Grande 👏👏👏🇭🇲
Yeah but think about it, if it wasn’t for that same woman calling Stacy. More than likely Stacy would still be alive. Just something to think about. It doesn’t take the fact that he wasn’t an ideal spouse.
I almost drowned myself in my sisters shower in the guest room at her new house. I turned the head round and got the shock of my life 😅. It was like a fire hose! 😂🤣
As someone who has consumed a lot of cannabis, I doubt even edibles would make someone pass out in the shower.
The sleep induced by cannabis is very manageable. ie its more a I feel like sleeping vs say with alcohol where u just pass out.
Not sure how useful a single, personal anecdote is.
@@eadweard. not sure how something referring to a lifetime of experience amounts to a single personal anecdote.
The only thing you got right was the personal.
But feel free to research cannabis yourself. None dies in the shower from it which was my fucking point.
Isnt it amazing how these murderers of their wives never want an autopsy done? Red flag!!
I'll definitely look for the "death free" shower head next time I'm in the market 😆 I don't mean to make light. Their poor kids now have neither parent. That's the worst part 😢
Dr. Grande, you should analyze the case of Dee Ann Warner out of Michigan. Very intriguing case. Her brother and kids are her champions. Her husband obviously killed her and they still haven't found her remains.
I ALWAYS choose the death free shower head !!! But that's just me!
His wife did die from a cancer, bob.
Hold up now Dr Grande! I gotta go check my shower head to make sure it is violent proof! 😂😂. Okay, I’m back, I’m safe. Thank you Dr Grande! 😂
I often wonder about the qualifications of the original medical examiner in cases like this.
Oh, these narcissists are so damaging to so many people.
Can you offer your opinion on the murder of Debbie Collier in Athens GA. The case seems to be at a stand still. Look forward to your post. Thank you
Had a guy in our town who thought that he could not only get away with murder ( murders ? ) but that he was an entertainer. He was wrong about both. His name is Drew P…….
Thanks Dr.Grande !!!
drew peterson the cop? yasss!! 🙌 was so happy to see that narcissistic arrogant heartless killer arrested!
Nothing like choosing a psychopath as a life partner.
Accidental deaths probably are more common in the shower than in most other rooms in a house. A slippery floor combined with many hard surfaces and metal protrusions make a fall both more likely and more dangerous.
I would like to see a researched statistic on how many tub / shower body discoveries turn out to be the result of murder. I suppose it would be very high.
"What kind of shower experiences have these people had?" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Never settle for a terrible person just so you can have kids. Science is so cool, you can have kids alone these days!!
That's far too expensive for the vast majority of people, but thankfully screwing random strangers for their precious sperm is 100% free.
@@derkeheath5172 LOL I do agree, I was just saying, there are ways other than settling for an abusive relationship. And a one night stand is another way LOL
Love the studle humor, a violent shower head, and the one in psycho it took 21 clips to get that scene.
did you mean subtle?
Wow, really great initial investigation by the police, along with whoever the inept Medical Examiner was, bravo..🤨
Rull - Yeah! So often the crime scene work and autopsy seem to miss important clues! Are they rushed?
We cannot know which examiner was the inept one, can we? If we assume he's guilty then it looks like the first one got it wrong. But then again the (second) autopsy is (in part) what the argument that he's guilty is founded on, so that would be circular reasoning.
Hi, Dr. Grande. Love your content. Can you please analyze the case of Brodie Panlock?
Hi Dr G. On point analysis again. This is, I agree, another psychonarc domestic violence case. That is one chapter in my life I'll never return to. See you on your next video, peace to you & your family as well, love, Janine Smiley🙂😀🤩😎😍⌚🛋💯❕❗🏡🚗🚘⌚🛋
@@janinemccartha1811 Uh. thanks. I hope you do well. Also, I'm not Dr. Grande.
I just watched this Dateline and was really hoping you would cover this!
Yeah. Me too.
Once again your humor is outstanding.
Always interesting.
Thank you,
Peace 💕🇺🇲
MF - Howdy what with what is happening in Ukraine, I like that you always end with "Peace!" That country is now destroyed (and many dead!!!) And for what!
Can you do a video on if it’s safer to stay single or be married as a woman? Seems like your more likely to be killed as a married woman.
Also weird he wouldn't remember if she was face up or down.
I could maybe see forgetting but IDK feels like that would be the first thing you see.
The shower story of spontaneous death is actually plausible if they are wearing fentanyl patches. You are NOT supposed to wear them in the shower, it messes up the time release mechanism and quite a few people have been killed this way. However in this case it seems the patches were placed onto her after she died since there was no fentanyl in her blood
Entertaining as always Dr G - so sad for the family-
Love you, Dr. Grande! As always, excellent analysis! ❤️
Excellent analysis‼️
Dr. Grande can you please analyze the crazy case of Jan Broberg and her family
I think he might have when the documentary came out but not sure?
Good morning Dr.Grande Happy Sunday ty Soooomuch
Thanks for the video DR.GRANDE, great job as always.
Hey Dr. Grande I appreciate your continued quality videos. Take care
Thanks dr grande. Love that your channel is doing so well! Love the talent behind the videos. I also wanna add, humor on point.
👏👏 Tysvm Dr. Grande! 👏👏
Excellent as always
So how is it possible that the medical concluded that her cause of death was undetermined? If she was drowned/ strangled, surely there must have been plenty of evidence of that?
A forensic show I was watching few months back, noted that in most "undermined " deaths, it is a homicide. 😮
Great analysis Dr
My deepest condolences to the family & loved ones 😧😔💔. Great analysis 🧐.
Great commentary/analysis
I wonder how many murders have gone unsolved because a police officer and medical examiner think almost 100 wounds were the result of falling in the shower? It's incredible that they would think that. Smh
Naptime whilst listening to the good Doctor. Thank you. 🙏🏾
Attack of the shower stall! Run! Fourth time listening to this one. Thanks for providing us with so many interesting stories and analyses, Grande. I find them all calming and informative. What a horrible character this man is. No accountability.
She died on the day she confronted him. There is no coincidence. Taking a shower with a metal watch on the wrist is a clue. He is a typical narcissist with superficial charm and plenty of bad character.
I'm curious as to how Bob found any partner to have an affair with. To date this guy in general is scraping pretty close to the bottom of the barrel.
Because a lot of women don’t believe they deserve better than bottom of the barrel . You often date what you think you deserve
There's a bit of a market for that.
Thank you Dr. Grande! 😊
I think we believe showers are more dangerous then other areas of the house because nearly everyone who's used one has slipped in one at some point...
I still prefer them over baths
Jodi Arias also murdered Travis in the shower.
She is the finest piece of a$$ in the prison system. Such a waste.
Just gonna take a shower but now….
This is sad, but oh my gosh, you are hysterical!!!!
Dr. Grande, I have always been suspicious of soap. Why? Because soap in the shower or bathtub can make you slip. Slip and so sneaky as a means to attack you when you least suspect it. This goes deeper than a shower head. I say it is about getting clean and attack soap. Lol thank you 🤔❤🇺🇸
Who’d want to have an affair with him?? Gross!
Good Evening, Dr. Grande.
Oh you are so witty BRAVO