A Video For Introverts
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Growing up, I had a lot of misconceptions about introverts. Over time, however, I've found myself spending more and more time on my own, and I don't mind it. In fact, I kind of like it.
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It's weird how people assume youtubers must be extroverted when 90% of the job is being alone editing videos
So true
Ye specialy gamers
The cutting part is the part where you are introverted. When you record the videos in front of the camera it's like the part where you can express yourself to the world, the extroverted part.
So it seems like it depends on what you are doing or what you want to do.
^
That was kinda deep tbh
Me looking at the comments: I FOUND MY PEOPLE
Mee too
:))) That made my day Dude.
Me too 🥺
Yeah
ikr :')
Reasons for not talking:
1) I have nothing to say.
2) I'm deep in my thoughts.
3) I'm too mentally drained to talk.
4) I don't want to interrupt you.
5) I'm intimidated.
Same but also I don't want to talk.
Yass!
Belle Sousou 😳😳
That’s me
Same
6)I'm having an existential crysis, leave me be
"You should talk more"
Me: talks
'Gets ignored'
'Talked over'
'Gets interrupted'
'No one listens'
*It be like that sometimes*
this is what happens to me , like everytime!
Or they would just go: omg! She can talk -_-
Yeah bro.
This is what happena to me, and then people wonder why i don't like talking.
You clicked.
So, you're an introvert too? Same
Yup
Same
I clicked too I'm an extrovert
Yo
Same
All introverts getting united sitting separately in their own room.
Neha Singh this a underrated comment
Hehehe😊
Something to think about
U N I T Y
😅😅😍
Extrovert in quarantine : loses cool for staying all day at home 😡
Introvert : its normal for me staying all day at home 😊
Quarantine boosted my mental health
Relatable
Like, my whole life has been a quarantine already🙄😂
@DMDC Ebrole Ebrole i know more about my own identity and i have so much less stress it was kinda like a break for me
Seriously i am finding my self happy these days so much cause
I dont have to interact and i can give so much time to myself😌
reasons I don't talk to people:
- I don't trust them
- I fear that they would hate me
- I think i make a fool out of myself
- I just fear people (they are too difficult to understand and totally unrelatable)
Edit: seeing all this comments of people who feel the same thing i do is very reassuring that i'm not alone..but it's messed up in its own way...I wish this never happened to anyone even if the price to pay would be only me going through this...I hope we all get through this..Sending tons of love to everyone who needs it. You matter. Don't give up!
ikr
Dang I can relate to thisʕ´• ᴥ•̥`ʔ
Yeah...ikr.,same here
Feel u
Same (but I'm not that scared of people, I'm more like intimidated. And I also lost hope in people but I still find good ones sometimes)
"I prefer to be alone than in bad company." I completely agree.
Totally.
The truth!
Im introvert,no friend at all..in my country juz like an alien🥴...bad eastern custom
Agree. I rather be single then be in a dead end terrible relationship lol
Same
me: *minding my own business, literally not saying a single word*
everyone: "she seems arrogant"
Story of my Life
i can relate.it just like,i'm very shy so that's why i'm oftenly quiet .
and they say i'm arrogant :')
extroverts are dick heads.
Emilie Andersen I’m a teenager so people always think I’m mad at them when I’m not I’m just chilling being quite
Emilie Andersen my life in a nutshell
Why I love spending time alone -
- no one judge you for small things.
- no one is there of disturb.
- no one is there to discourage you.
- You can be what you are really.
This is why I love the earliest hours of the morning, no one is up and I can do whatever I want.
You can say
Thats me in a nutshell
Me too.
not true, my mind does all that
@@fernandoroberts3591 And the reason for it being that way is probably because people irl or in the internet have criticized or talked shit about you before and now your mind just subconsciously keeps repeating them. Basically you have been brainwashed yo believe you are not good enough.
*Am I the only introvert who talks to herself so freaking frequently?*
no
You have a friend on this table😊
No you're not. My ex used to think am a psychopath
Nope
No babe...I am also like you...!! I talk to myself all the time...
There's 2 reasons I'm quiet:
-I'm too shy to say anything
-or I don't have anything to say
Me in a nutshell
True
Omg so true, it's amazing how people are actually similar :D
And I have something to say but people doesn't understand it.
@@rohanpatil5629 I can't put my thoughts into words very well too
Everyone: Why dont you talk ?
Me: You didnt ask me anything.
*Destruction 100*
why don’t you bring something to the conversation too? people are selfish in that way; everyone wants to talk about themselves.
That’s bullshit
you don’t need to talk much but talk , be someone that when people sit next to you they are comfortable.
If you think like in life your not thinking straight
Literally bro, my friend asked me “why don’t you talk in class?” (we sit on opposite sides of the room and he’s the only one I know I’m that class) and I said “because nobody’s said anything to me” and he said “you know you can start conversations too right?” I can’t start conversations for the life of me
@@ian-hm6cx yes for me I don't know what to speak about
Everyone: Why are you so quiet?
Me: *Trys to talk*
Noone listens
Samee to me too
Me too my family
Every time....
Sameee they says why im too quiet but when i talk they wont listen to me
True
When you’re a shy, quiet, anxious introvert
Gtggbbyby Vtggghhnjn this suits me 100% perfect
Same
Yup
same and I kinda find people like that attractive :3
also gay.
I think introverts like me need a separate country. I'm sure that it would be the best country on the planet.
Can we reach 10k likes? 🤓
You realise that is extremely discriminatory
@@jacobdavidson2995 try to walk with the others sheos, this world is all about working in group, been loud, hanging out with friends that's considered to be normal . It's just something really exhausting, and is not to exclud others (extrovertl) but find ourselves, and peace of mind.
Mate I’m an introvert
@@jacobdavidson2995 cool, my point is it not discriminatory, considering the fact that, the whole word pushed us to find our energy outside and labeled us weird if we do not.
@@cyrilletepe5300Exactly bro
*Calling all Introverts*
We have been summoned
@@optimisticallytrying What are we gonna do? 😂
Sup
@@mijahjones3663 lots of things...by ourselves though.. lol
Rolando Robles 😂😂
@@rolandorobles6375 😂 Sounds like a plan. Imma go read my book now in peace.
I always hate the moment when my teacher's giving a group project
True af
Haha SAMEEE.
IT'S PAIN
Especially when you have to pick your own partner.
@@noorain2321 omg, YEESSSS
Oh me too
I love how almost nobody in the comments talks about the video. Every introvert in here is just happy to see that there are people like them, and is commenting personal staff that people like them can relate to :)
(Sorry for my bad english)
I'm in tears Knowing a large number of people are like me. I'm not alone.
True
😂😂😂
Being an introvert has many advantages:
- as you’re okay being alone you don’t jump from relationship to relationship by fear of being single
- you value quality over quantity when it comes to friends
- you can have fun even if you’re alone
- you can appear smarter than you are because you take the time to think before speaking and don’t say all the stupid things that come to your mind
Exactly! Just from those words I already like you 💕
Well said
My favourite thing is being alone because when you are alone you can do anything, dance, sing and etc. also you can lay on the floor stare at the window, listen to your favourite songs which probably will cause sadness to other ppl (that’s why i dont show my music to anyone) and just chill and no one will think that you are psycho 🤷♀️
Leila I’ll just add this one
- get to know yourself
Wow wow. This is so me!
"Wow you're so quiet are you ok?"
"Yeah"
"Are you mad or something"
"No "
"You're mad just admit it"
"Well I wasn't before this conversation"
Avery Chilton “ha you admit it”
That happens 😂
Avery Chilton 😂
I can't tell you how much I get into this conversation
I get mad when people say I'm mad or frustrated when I'm not.
reasons i dont like talking to people:
.they annoy me
.they are usually very loud
.they dont like the same things i do
.they think that their opinion is right all the time
.they put too much time trying to convince me that what i think and do to my life is wrong even tho it doesnt affect on them at any level (i dont do anything to harm me or anyone else, im just not like them in terms of clothes, ideas, art...)
This should start of with why I don’t like talking to dickheads not people.
That's exactly what I'm going through right now ...n i can tell it really annoying. Just hate the fact that they think what they does or say r always right
Definitely true
@@jacobdavidson2995 everybody in my city is a dickhead
blueivy yes. They are annoying bc they always think that they are right. I cant tell my opinion bc it will become awkward.
Me: I don't have much friends :((
Also me: Sorry, I can't come... I'm kinda "busy" these days :'/
100% relatable😓
I can work all day physically and mentally and still not get tired but if I hang out in social event I feel exhausted and tired
Omg same!
Very me! Sometimes it feels so bad people just don’t get it!
Totally can relate
And not to mention the anxiety before the social event. I also had you teach 3 classes straight this week and I was drained from people. But I'm a great teacher. It's just afterwards I need a recharge completely alone.
Same
I believe introverts usually value deeper connection and meaning than most extroverts, whether its with people or themselves or within the world around them.
Both these are true at Certain angles.. perspectives may change .. truth lie in between ..🙌
@@malayali9144 Yes I agree, not all introverts and extroverts are the same and we all have qualities of both.
Big Wavy Dude not many introvert would transition easily to an extrovert...
Anna Mikulin bruhhhh Im a complete extrovert and this is false. I mean cmon, yall dont even talk to people. I have a lot of friends but its the true friends that are important. Its not just exclusive to u guys...
Legit I don’t contact my best friends ever until they decide to contact me which happens to be almost everyday haha since they are extroverted , and in terms of that deeper connection I won’t lie I hadn’t found a gf or a girl I truly liked for 4 years till a month ago and I found out she is so similar in many ways and it makes me happy she understands that I cherish my alone time which during that time I listen to podcasts and draw since my dream is to become a concept artist and so when during the end of our days she calls me it becomes the best talks ever and it feels awesome to have that deep connection whether it be morals , life , family and friends etc. anyway I went on a rant sorry about that reader haha whoever you are reader have an awesome day ! And if you are extroverted , introverted or maybe both just know you are an awesome person , don’t let anyone tell ya different. 🙌
Nathaniel: "The world could use more introversion"
2020: *exists*
Everyone: 0_0
and when you start talking someone cuts your speech and everyone starts interacting with him not you
I really struggle with this and I think it's rude
You're not alone😔💔
Yea.....
@Saleh Shiplu of course not , you have to be a normal person that talk , jokes even complain but staying silent all the time isn't healthy for you .
@@nadinsrour8410 bro I don't know what is the solution but I really hope we can solve these mind bothering issues.
same
Unknown person:u r so quiet,r u alright?
My friend: how can u speak non stop.
I'm both .It depend on the person we r with.
yep better be alone than with toxic ppl
Exactly
That's absolutely me, some people are like us and some will never understand us.
@@hoseokscheeks2620 better stream our BTS boys than doing some shallow talks
@@mahimapanwar4293 my number one rule
Extrovert=why are you so quiet?
Introverts=why are you so loud？
I'm an introvert and my aunt's an extrovert, so anytime there is even a second of silence, she fills it by telling these long ass 30 minute stories and I'm just like _why are you torturing me_
Juicy Pear my auntie is the same she thinks cause I'm quite when she's talking means I enjoy her stories and lectures 😂😂😭
No, introverts would really be like that:.........
Cuz introverts are pussies who are afraid to speak their mind
Official Rivv Damn, did you even watch the video?
Me:"tries to communicate with people"
Person:"ignores me"
Me being ignored for the 2374th time: understandable , have a nice day
This is so relatable. why does everyone ignore me?
Hey..no
so true am just like ok
While going through comments, I am literally relating to every single comment 😂
😂😂
Me too OMG😂
@@dieananas6101 😂
Same
@@melon7514 😂😂
I feel more alone when I'm with a group of people more than when I'm with myself.
If that makes sense
Edit: holy shit did not expect to get so much likes on this
At least youre not alone
purple.people eater same. I never start conversations with people because I feel like they don’t like me and that I’m annoying them by talking to them
purple.people eater same!
purple.people eater so true
This makes sense too me💜
People when I don’t talk:
“Why are you so quiet? Am I talking to myself?”
People when I actually talk:
*silence*
or
“Sorry what did you say?”
“Nevermind”
Does this happen to anyone else?
@@moltenraindrop9056 All the time.
Yep. You talk, and crickets. So you don’t talk.
Yup exactly!
All the time.
I'm just so tired of faking smile, I'm not a person who smiles a lot. Just because I want people to think nice of me, i appear with a fake extroverted personality. Because they don't accept my true self, my robotic self. I just want people to accept me the way I am. But it's okay I will continue acting like a different person because at the end of the day no one accepts me. I only show my true self to people im comfortable with, but sadly they also don't accept me the way i am.
I relate. My younger teen years were like this, but I cut those people off once I changed schools. Although I have no friends now, I'm much happier and satisfied with life in general as I don't feel the need to keep satisfying others
@@onlyhuman5669 im planning to live alone in another country in future, hopefully in 2022.
So true
@Amy Gradess who are you??
@@onlyhuman5669 FACTS my guy
Me : *says something*
My friends : *ignore*
Me : *says it again*
Me friends : we heard you
Me : 👽
This is so relatable
But are they really your friends then? Like wouldn't a real friend answer you when you said something?
man try to find real friends... even if its impossible
Same here bro
Me decided : i don't need such friends who don't respond 🥺😡
It's better to be alone 🙂
( but It hurts 🥺)
Everyone: omg you're so quiet, like you don't talk.
Me: *i talk, just not to you*
long live jahseh
Protip: if someone says that, they're probably hitting on you or are at least giving you signals.
@@ravenecho2410 really? that's new🤔
Ishan '_' Adepwar Jah💙💙💙
Frr
I feel like I have nothing much to say most of the time.. Small talk is not my strong point
Same...
Same, i have literally no idea how to start a conversation cuz i feel like I have nothing to talk about
@@aisling8092 crazy weather we are having
SAME!
So many times I'd be around people that are the stereotypical "OMG did you see / hear this" or overhear conversations around me that communicates literally 0 information, and I will feel like I have nothing to add to the conversation. Seems like it's not just me like this
When a stranger try to talk to you
Introverts be like :
Anxiety attack
Heart starts beating so fast😨
@Juliana Jiménez That is exactly me 🙂✌🏻
You are not introvert by these symptoms ... you are rather a social phobic bc introverts don't have clinical symptoms like these it's just another type of personality
And start to sweat
**Instantly forgets the language**
Disagree majorly. Introvert does not equal and anxiety, awkwardness etc. I'm introverted and I don't feel that way at all. I used to get anxiety heats back but that is a separate issue one has to deal with.
The reasons I dont talk to people:
1-I think I have BAD dyslexia so I dont remember what to say
2- I fear of making you hate me
3- I fear of that question ( why are you so quiet) it just makes everything cringy
4-I always think im annoying you
5- I think that I am making a fool out of myself
6- I I dont wanna disturb you
7- I dont know what to say or I dont have anything to tell
8- I am really bad at talking, vocabulary and stuff
9- I have bad experience with people (making rumors about me bc im so fkn shy etc)
10- I fear of being rejected if I wanna talk to you
11- I fear of disappointing you
Hello I'm also very tired with these things!!!! Can we be friends (Please don't reject) 😩
Do ya mean dementia making you forget what to say
Prem Nath yeah! I would love to!
Ben Dawson no its dyslexia, I just forget my words ( you can search it if you want!!)
@@blueangel2288 yea ik I'm just messing. Hope things work out for you
Them: why don’t you talk more.
Me: I don’t know sometimes I- *gets cut off*
Edit:
Woah I never expected to get so much attention. But to everyone commenting the key I found is to step of your comfort zone and always be the first to break awkward silence. And sometimes you need to sound excited just because the average introvert sounds very monotone. It helps getting people to pay attention. Idk just things I found.
TheGeeksTurn
Right. I feel your pain...
Happily enough, there are people more aware that listen when the other talk.
You just have to speak louder
Yes. SO on point.
I know what that feels like
It's the same with me. When I talk people will interrupt me and I won't talk at all again. Sometimes it's kinda make me feels like I'm not important and no one is going to listen to me.
People think I'm an introvert because I don't talk much, really I'm just absorbing the conversations around me and don't feel like talking. Not because I'm shy or reserved. Because I don't want to talk, and listening to other conversations is much more interesting than engaging in one myself.
Relatable
robin I completely agree
Exactly what i think.
Yes! Sometimes, you just don’t have anything to contribute to the conversation and that’s okay
I honestly relate to your statement 110%.
"It's better to feel lonely in your own isolation than around a lot of people."
-Faye Valentine (Cowboy Bebop)
My early years:
"She's so quiet"
"I'll talk to her"
"do you want to be friends?"
Primary school:
"Talk more"
people showing up unannounced
Secondary:
"Does she have a mental disorder"
"We can prevent your suicide!"
"Here, more friends"
(P.S: I was NEVER that suicidal. They just assumed)
Idk if you meant it literally or you're joking, but when you say 'that suicidal' it means you have suicidal tendency, which could be a sign of mental depression, and if that's what you meant then i hope you are fine and doing well, and i am assuming that you are trying to say that you were never suicidal.anyways wanted to point that out have a great day 😃
@@mohammadzaid8653 must've been a mistake. Thanks for worrying/pointing it out though
Who else feels like being in a group of people feels more lonely and emotionally draining than being alone?
I feel that way too
Exactly the way I feel. 🙏
That's the true definition of an introvert
So true. I always feel that.
This is so relatable😌 and also I rather be with group of people that I’m close with🙃
It’s so weird how we can all connect on our similarities on here but can’t connect in real life
Holy shit
Thats true... :(
Leah Grant that makes it sound so tragic
It's the beauty and tragedy of technology.
Well said, though I think the reason is that outside in real life there is everything, and lots of it. On the internet we're basically mostly on topics (posts, forums, videos...) that we enjoy or relate to.
Introverts today: I'm so lonely, no one is calling or asking how i am.
Yesterday: Well, i will cancel that meeting with my friend's and stay in my room for Netflix and chill. Nice.
I am an Introvert as well and one of my favorite quotes is "Being alone doesn't mean you are lonely". It sums up pretty much everything about the state of mind of introverts.
That's why I liked living in Japan; they're very respectful of introverts. In America, you're perceived as a psychopath if you don't talk with people all the time.
Edit: Fixed the wording of the last sentence. I didn't mean to say that introverted Americans *are* psychopaths, but rather the *perception* of introverts in America is that there's something wrong with them, aka they're psychopaths.
@-- - Absolutely! I did make a lot of videos when I was stationed out there from 2013-2015. Right now, I'm working on getting accepted into a university out in Tokyo so I can study abroad next year. In the meantime, I'm also doing a series called Andy Talks Japandy that I'll be making more episodes of after this semester wraps up this week!
Because tHIS iS aMeRiCA
TheAndySan I live in Morocco and it’s basically the same lmao
My teacher said that I was "picking friends" because I don't feel comfortable talking to other peeps :/
Good thing you're not in India lmao
I'm introverted and I struggle a lot with making small talk. Meaningful conversations are more my forte but because I can't do small talk that well it just never really gets to that point
Connor Morgan I feel this on a really deep level
I couldn't have said it better myself.
I can relate. I fell like not being authentic when doing smalltalk because it doesn't really interest me so a lot of times I don't even make the effort of smalltalk and that can probably seem rude or not interested in the person at all.
I thought I was the only one! Whenever I tell that to someone I know they give me a weird face and don't understand. :p
I have come to realize that the people who make small talk all the time aren't worth getting to know on a deeper level. Most people I know who make small talk do so because it keeps the focus of conversation on them, and it's exhausting hearing someone talk about themselves all the time. You will find people worth connecting with, it just takes time and a willingness to spend time with others.
The 1% who are reading this, May you and your parents live more than 87 years.
May over 100 ...thanks you too♡
Thanks🥰
Why that's 87??
@Saleh Shiplu if you're obeying your parents dont afraid ♡
What about my inheritance???
The worst is when you're an introvert who is good at social interaction as a defence mechanism against awkward questions. Then people don't realise you're an introvert and think it's okay to keep constantly interacting with you and you're too scared to say you need to recharge.
That's a good problem to have, don't you think?
@@unoriginalyoutubename8761 Haha, yes, in a way it is. But many a time after the pleasantries are over and I'm waiting for them to move on they seem to like telling me their entire life stories too. Which is more than I bargained for. Comes with being an INFJ maybe? I agree with you though. It is a good thing but I need to see it that way.
As a scropio, I intimidate people with my looks so they don't try yo talk to me, I hate it when people try to interact with me. I faced bullying so many times in my life and not once did I tell my family.Am 20 years now, and have learnt how to ignore people very well.I tried to have friends but they all ended up being fake and for the past few years I have learned how to enjoy only my own company. I hate noise and going out. I always pray for my course mate to cancel the plans too. I only talk when am with my family. I hate it when we have guests at home too
@@olajidesalami7218I'm so sorry you had to deal with such terrible people. But if you were to dream would you like the future to be different?
Yup😊
You know what introvert means:
You can't start speaking with someone that you're not close to..
You can't stop talking with someone that you are close with..
Am I right ?
Can we hit 5k likes my fellaaaas
Spot on 👌🏾
Exactly
yup
Yes 🙂
Damn that's the truth
The first thing I'll say after quarantine ends is "ah shit i have to interact with humans again"
I have been so happy working from home that now I am having anxiety attacks thinking about the quarantine ending and having to deal with people again.
Too bad I still have to go to school 😭
Yeh...
thats me rn-
That might be illness. Introversion does not mean flee from others.
I am an Introvert 🙂
Sometimes, I am HaPpY & sometimes I am sad,
NOTE: Only Introverts can understand this type of feeling 😎
Yah . 🥺🥺
Absolutely 🤗
Extroverts can be too
@@watermel0n210 Yes
Yup..
" The most important relationship that you have in life Is with yourself "
- Nathaniel Drew
Stranger: why are u so quiet?
Me: I’m talking in my mind more than real life🤣
YES!
NIKOROSU CHANNEL That’s definitely me.
literally me
Oh its me !!
when i was a little girl i talked so much. id frequently get in trouble at school for talking so much and sometimes i wonder what happened. your comment made me realize that i talk just as much, only in my head.
It’s not like I don’t like people, I love when I can have a good conversation with someone. It’s just that I hate meeting new people. I’m horrible at starting conversations and keeping them going. I’m so awkward and I also despise small talk.
I can understand this because I feel the same way
I relate to your last sentence hardcore. Sometimes I feel like I come off as rude or dismissive because I don't like engaging in small talk.
Same here
Omg u just described my life
Same here
It breaks me everytime i hear an introvert say they dont wanna BE an introvert. Usually because they feel alone or misunderstood. But you should be proud to be an Introvert! We got so much to offer and so much give.
You know you're an introvert when you're nervous everytime you go to a social gatherings.
Yeah but not at all
Exactly 😔
more like anxious
Omg faxxxxxxxx
Lol that's social anxiety not introversion, get help
Person- You’re so quiet, why?
Me- I don’t even know you.
I know that, it's annoying...
Why is this literally everyone
Just tell them they talk a lot ;)
"You're so quiet"
So? Would you like me to call you out as loud?
Every time...
The most frustrating thing about being introverted is the perception that you're rude, boring or stuck up. This is not so. I could sit with the right person for hours. My husband isn't someone who speaks a lot but he's an extrovert, and I don't speak to people much because I get bored, but when I met my husband, we spoke until the very next day, woke up three hours later, met at 5a.m. And continued speaking. Then met later again that night for coffee and went on a road trip together the week after.
The right people allow a beautiful blossoming, and one should never feel obligated to share that with everyone just because it's the social norm or expectation.
Thank you for making this video. I hope it helps others understand.
Tell me about it, that's why i like being with people that have known me and i don't always like meeting new people because it takes people a while to understand me the way i really am. That's also why i instantly love people who get me and trust that i'm not rude or think i'm better than others because im quiet.
I’m sure my classmates think I’m the most stuck up person in the world rip
Tamlyn Adolph what kind of coffee
@@basketballenlightenment2863 I actually had a bottle of water, lol.
@@Emeand33 What they think of you is their problem.
People: Taking about introverts
Me: *Holy shit this guy looks like Carry Minati*
At first sight I thought he's CARRY...😂
Army !!!!💜💜
Yeah man that's why I scroll the comments bcoz I want to known that anyone notice that or not
@4th4rv alt n ppl like u.. *sighs*
Holy Crap, I finally feel like there's someone out there that truly understand me. This made my day! :)
I am introvert with strangers, ambivert with acquaintance and extrovert with selected few,
dudeeee thats so true with myself also
You are a Social Introvert
mcullin2 😂😂😂 yup
Yep, that sounds about right.
That’s true
it's all about where you get your energy. Introverts need space and quiet in order to feel ready for the busy, social world. Simple as that.
Glen Veitch couldn’t have described it better!
I wonder though. Because for me it can fluctuate per week / per day even. And also per hour... Would that mean I'm a secret introvert?
@@hhjj7 I think there is also another type called ambivert - which is a combination of being an extrovert and introvert depending on the situation you are in. I identify myself as an ambivert. I love being alone and doing my things, but at the same time I get so energized by connecting deeply with others. You might also be an ambivert :)
@snn Omg... I thought I was just making sh*t up, but I've thought of myself as an ambivert as well, and experience the same
@@s2e2o1l8v8 dude you just fixed my life thanks 🙏🙌
I resonate with the feeling of being trapped with superficial relationships! I understand it's because we are eager to get deeper connections.
Reasons why I don't talk: I'm not paying attention, I'm immersed in my thoughts, I see no point in talking in a certain scenario, it's draining to express something complex to a bunch of superficial people, because I don't trust people enough and just because I'm not interested... :( Sorry, I'm just so self centered.
you don't need tobe sorry..as long as your not hurting anyone
I'm not socially awkward, I don't feel nervous if I have to speak in public, I just don't like to be with people in general, sometimes not even with my family. It's like being with people drains my energy and make me feel tired.
Bro your english is just fine and there is no need to apologize for that 😄
I feel the same
Me too, people think that I'm pretty shy but... I just don't want to talk with them, and I have no problem speaking in public, I like it. People should begin to differentiate shyness from being introverted.
Same here 😅
But most of people find this awkward (even family). It's affect me that I cannot respond to other peers expectation. I got better and often say that I don't want to go out. But still It's not easy
@Edunizer i can realte to you. It happens most of the times. Sometimes all i want is to be left alone.
I feel like when I'm with other people, the more people there are the quieter I get.
Yesss I feel like there's not enough room. Like so many people are talking and I have to balance it out some way, so I'm quiet. The more people there are, the higher the expectations are for me. I feel like I have to have something REALLY important to say to butt into something so many people are paying attention to, and trying to get THEIR two cents in
@@ajesusencounter8261 exactly!
Damn ! or for example iam with my friend that i know a long time and then 2 of his friends join us, and rom that moment i dont speak much even if i was totally extrovertive few minutes ago.
@@MrMajsterixx 100% relate to that 😅
Yeah I’m heaps more talkative in a one on one convo but as soon as another person joins..I automatically shut down and stop talking 😅😅
it's so difficult to explain to my friends that me refusing to socialize in favor of being alone isn't a bad habit that needs to be overcome. I really appreciate aligning alone time with food, water, air, etc., because that's exactly how it feels for me too. when i don't have enough time to simply exist without all that outside noise, i stop being able to function. doesn't matter if all my physical needs have been met, alone time is another necessity.
i've spent a lot of time trying to somehow stop being an introvert because i feel so much pressure to be more extraverted but it's not that simple and the truth of the matter is that i don't actually want to spend loads more time socializing, because then when would i have time to get introspective and explore my emotions and try out new hobbies? what i want is to stop feeling that pressure to change this fundamental part of myself. idk about anyone else, but for me, this is fundamentally me. i've been undeniably an introvert since i was a toddler, and while everything else about me has changed countless times, this part has been a constant.
i'm kind of rambling i know but this is just so validating and that validation is unfortunately really rare for me these days
I am never bored when I'm alone, I am often bored in empty social gatherings (especially when all interaction are centered around drinking).
parents :- meet your relatives. Go visit your relatives.
me :- I don't want to meet them because they only talk about stuffs that are meaningless.
💯
Me too
I hate when my parents force me to interact with my family members ... Like I'll clearly or directly say that I'm uncomfortable and my mom is like shush it's all in your head ..
park Kweenie relatable
my parents seem to think that i hate people idk how to make them understand
I'm an introvert, until I'm around my close friends or other introverted people who I can really talk to openly, then I become an extrovert
Same
Because introversion and extraversion are two ends of a spectrum so you probably fall in the middle of the spectrum
While talking to other introvert i can easily connect with them as they understand me better
Yes! 👍🏼
Best of both worlds
I am an introvert because no one understands me when i talk to some they laugh on me cause my thoughts and words are deep but i ignore those fools and enjoying being alone❣
I would consider myself a ‘social introvert’. I don’t have a desire to be out amongst people all the time, don’t really enjoy large, noisy social gatherings, I’m not always needing to have other people around; but, when I do end up in a group of people, I have no problem getting involved in a conversation and thoroughly enjoying it. I, too, have very few close friends; I don’t think I could handle the demands of maintaining too many friendships. As I’ve gotten older, though, I’ve started becoming a little too isolated in my avoidance of social gatherings. So there is a social balancing act, even for introverts, my solution has been to enroll in classes, not on line but in person. I can engage when I want and even if I don’t, I have put myself around other people in a more intimate setting at least once a week. Thanks for this video.
When you’re so introverted that even talking to people online is exhausting. 🙄
Phoebe Browning
I wish i could talk to people in real life as easy as I do online
Sometimes I just feel the people around me lack a certain depth to make me interested in having a good convo
Mohamed Jaward EXACTLY! I get disgusted listening to people roasting others and judging them like ugh how could u be so silly I can't handle it
@@asmaa8610 Yeah me too! finally!
So truue! I don't even visit my account for like a week. xD
An introvert can be the most social guy in the room
Sima Ștefan really! Get me started on a topic and I won’t shut up. Being quiet doesn’t mean being shy.
Brian Abisdid It kinda is, Introversion tends to lead to exhaustion from social events, but during these events they can be the loudest, and seemingly most extroverted person.
You are contradicting yourself
I understand u. I am loud in social groups. But I am not comfortable there. I am not comfortable when I am not loud. So I think introverts being loud use this technique for self protection.
I think introverts tend to do good on social situations because they work a lot on themselves.
I was actually pretty much isolated by everyone I knew from a very young age. I had no one to talk to at home or in school. Growing up in a conservative family, I was told (by my mom), "Don't talk to boys or to girls." I had started preschool so even though I could understand English, I couldn't speak it very well. (I'm not from America but was born and raised here) Now, my parents say to me, "Why don't you talk to anyone?" "Why don't you go anywhere." Which I find really funny since I have no phone, no way of communication, and am only allowed to go to my relatives's house with my parents. But it doesn't really matter because I don't really have any friends either way. I feel like no one wants to talk to me and when I do talk everyone asks me to repeat myself like 5 times or say nevermind because I have a low volume voice and a little accent. Also, I love my family members but I prefer not to talk to them because they are sexist. My parents and my older brothers. When I do talk to someone I want to talk to, I talk alot. So I guess I'm kind of an extroverted introvert. #RandomStoryOfMyLife
I pretty much could relate on the parenting part. Growing up, my parents didn't really encourage me to be more socialize with others and when I'm in high school, there's this one time, my mom complained "why are you so quiet and introvert. Be like other kids..(starts comparing me to other extrovert kids at school that she knows)". It hurts me to this day and I remember the words she said to me. Sometimes I want to blame them bcs how I grew up influenced my personality and there's nothing I can do to change it (I tried). Now I'm still struggling to accept and embrace my personality.
I hope you could deal with the introversion thingy and found a great friend. Let's love our unique self.
When someone forces me to dance before few people.....
Me: I'd rather DIE..Damn it..!
I didn't even dance with my husband on our wedding day.
@@ofelianelmida2322 l don't think l'll have a wedding day
extroverts: look, that’s my teacher!
introverts: oh no, that’s my teacher!
@Michael Davis
Oh no, a human!
Its so true whenever I see my teacher I try to go away just to avoid him/her but other friends I have whenever they see a teacher they start being lousy and like HEY HIII TEACHER
Its the most easy way to spot a introvert or extrovert lol
That's Social Anxiety
Chicken Biryani I do have social anxiety.
Tf is social anxiety
I will either hang out and be super loud and energetic with my best friends
But with anyone else I will be pretty quite
that's literally me
Same
ambivert life
100th like
well yes that's obviously when it's the easiest. But as higher minds we are required to bring different emotions to all situations, even the ones where we are uncomfortable, and if we are able to raise the level of perception among others then .. oh shoot this is getting too deep for this page lolol... but trust me
same tho, at school I'm really confident, talking to everyone, and a lil loud with my friends and having fun and stuff, and if I ever go out in public like at a restaurant, store, mall, etc. with my parents or older brother I'm like completely on mute, and I kinda shy away from anyone and everyone and talk in like a quiet and soft voice lmao. Oh, and family reunions, really quiet there too lel.
“Extroverts regenerate their strength around people.
Introverts regenerate by themselves.”
Unfortunately, I don’t know who the quote is from, but it’s fitting and has still room for individual interpretation.
Sometimes being alone cures my sadness and sometimes it is the reason for my sadness.
“I prefer being alone over being in bad company” 🙌🏼🙌🏼 I relate to that soooo much
Also being alone doesn’t always mean that you’re lonely!
Very true :D
Half the time I prefer being alone over being in good company as well. I love being alone. I rarely catch up with people, and I never feel lonely.
Truth. You're only lonely if you feel insecure about being alone. My best ideas came from being alone TBH.
Yes, I can relate either
@@geefambam same with me.. I feel like to
I am alone a lot but never lonely. I enjoy my own company.
i am alone a lot and always lonely. i can’t enjoy my own company that much if i don’t like myself.🤷🏼♀️
Cloe Relene reach out with friends then
i’m never alone but always lonely. lmao
Spilled Milk can’t do that when my best friend and i fight 24/7 and my other best friend lives 1 hour away :(
@@cloerelene well since you got to live with yourself why not love yourself. You matter, and everyone makes mistakes
*The world could use more introversion*
2020: allow me to introduce myself
I’m so glad I found you channel. You have done a few videos that really have helped me through confusion and understanding myself more
I am an introvert
I have never searched for any video related to introverts
Still UA-cam recommended this video. Interesting!
Edit: Omg! Thanks for the likes you lovely introverts out there.
Google knows everything you do and predicts what may be interesting to you
Same here!
Yea
It might be your watch time haha
Wish the video came sooner
everyone:omg she's sitting alone she must be lonely I feel so bad for her
me:iTs gOnNa bE tHe bEsT dAy oF mY lIfEeee
I feel worse when people tend to think like that. Why can't just everyone mind their own business. I sit alone because I feel more comfortable
Akane Sasu exactly right. I would sit alone in class and it’s totally fine.... I was never really close with anyone in my class to the point where I could just sit next to them and not overthink about how they’re probably bored or that I’m probably annoying to sit next to because I’m a ‘snob’. But I was still very much interactive so when I sat alone, people would feel sad and sit next to me but that actually makes me feel bad for them. I find comfort in solitude but I’m still very much grateful that they tried to do something nice
@RandomGuy I changed school last year and one really extroverted guy realized after 5 month I even existed
Meee
This is true for me when I am lost in my thoughts or daydreaming, for example I am sometimes thinking or imagining some interesting scenario in a public place when I am bored and people might say something like: "I know you are bored do you want to go talk about the weather or do a boring job or go outside a bit".
Dude, stop interupting my thoughts, they are more important than you.
edit: Aka basically Intutives vs Sensors in mbti
WOW. I'm so so so moved by your words. EVERYTHING you spoke into existence during this video just spoke directly into my soul. I am new to your channel, this is the 4th video I've watched (in a row) and I am truly in love and awe with your spirit. There is something absolutely beautiful in witnessing such vulnerability and self-awareness in another human being. Thank you SO much ❤️ love from Portugal.
I am so glad that I discovered your channel. They help me to understand myself better. Also, I recognize the places in CDMX that you show in this video. I used to live in la Roma for a few months and went to the Foro Lindbergh quite often to sit in the sun and watch people. I carry good memories that are connected to this place and just to see this video makes me nostalgic. But that is a feeling which I like. Thank you!
"all of humanity's problems stem from man's inability to sit quietly in a room alone" - blaise pascal
Very very true. Quiet. Brings wisdom, comfort, peace, enlightenment
I am a introvert to, and i can say that also a lot of bad Things are coming from introverts.
But yes what you said is 90 procent true.
This is factually true. I wish you would respond to this comment so I know I saw your comment and agree wholeheartedly. Meditation is the biggest thing missing from humanity and it totally changed my life.
@@MrShaiya96 hard to take you seriously with that profile picture
@@1am636 oh yeah yeah join the litty committee
i feel like i’m more of an observer which is why i remember so many minor details that others don’t usually pick up on
Kylie Reed omg I’ve told my mom this so many times. I’ll notice the body language and facial expressions that my friends have that no one else notices. I literally called myself an observer
Hunter Krueger people are sometimes shocked at all the little things i remember, i might also just have a really good memory
Kylie Reed Yess and because I observe way too much I usually can tell when someone is lieing because of their facial expressions or body language
@@kyliemreed YES OMG I'm like the only person I've ever met that remembers all the little things
haha i laughed, cuz i think i am the same. i see things other people's brain usually black out because it thinks it's not worth remembering
This video and the second introvert video Nathaniel mad have become my comfort videos. When things get overwhelming, I find my self coming to the channel and letting the auto play feature play through all his content so I can listen to his stories and advice in the background as I try to ground myself and do something to comfort my distress instead of wallowing.
man i feel you so much!!! i am having the exact same feeling! great work, keep it up!
The thing that sucks is that people often think that you need “fixing” when really I’m happy being introverted and there is nothing wrong with that, or me.
EXACTLY
So true, damn
Indeed.
It says more about the other person - I'm OK thanks
I relate
introversion is definitely not a bad thing, it is when it is combined with depression, that messes up everything.
True. Especially when your family doesn't except you being an introvert and think it's just depression. Or, confuse depression and being an introvert.
True
@@kebblot9085That's very true
Depression is like a huge punch in the face. I got used to few people I was with in school and now I feel super lonely and sad when I have to be alone..
Noman Ahmed and then anxiety on top of that
Your videos are absolutely amazing! So grateful for having discovered you:) whenever you are talking i get the feeling that you are talking directly to my inner self and mostly i refind myself in your talks
I really resonate with your words. It’s like listening to my own thoughts and experiences!
It’s lovely to see how fast you Chanel has grown and the visual, content and audio quality Of your videos are really amazing and so valuable for the world. Thank you for your work!