I had a 6 month relationship, she left me for her ex, she wasn't searching for love, just pleasure. Although im still just a teenager it meant a lot to me, i really wanted her to be my future, i wanted to make it work! It is a hard time since she left, just recently started with selfimprovement and opened my eyes that there is more to life! from now on my goals in life will get all the attention, i am sure that the right one will come along eventually! Be disciplined, work hard, enjoy life as it is and everything you'll wish for will eventually be reality❤
thank you for sharing brotha, sorry to hear that, but glad to see you on your self improvement journey after all of that knowing there’s more to life 🎉
Just remember not to let her come back, because there's a good chance she will. If she came back to her ex, your her next ex who she'll come back to. Females monkey branch back and forth to prevent boredom. They love diversifying to keep things entertaining. In addition it's an ego boost because they know guys will take them back no matter what they do.
@@xFlared while I agree that a lot of women can share a bunch of similarities like that, you can’t generalize all them from the ones you experienced. there are 4 billion women and some are really pure, kind and loyal. but also I mentioned you got to branch out of your little town, level up and be able to afford to travel, also have such a stable garden it would stupid for her to give it up. work hard to show them all what they missed out on instead of proving them right that they made a good decision.
this video is something a lot more people in our generation need to see. our minds are being ruined by the things we see around us. discipline is key, we’re constantly holding ourselves back in life and it’s time to take control. this was a great video man keep up the good work!
yeah all the time brodie, that’s why you don’t expect anything and just accept it. Can’t be disappointed if you aren’t anticipating it. plus turn off your notifications, lock in, make a change, and add value to yourself. That or keep distracting yourself and dealing with the consequences, all up to you.
Engineers and Doctors are rare so they're valuable. Only 8,000 Engineering students graduate per year and 75 percent of them don't succeed. Also only 10,000 Medical students graduate from The school of Medicine per year.
I see this is a new channel. Some advice from an avid watcher - women and men have complex feelings and emotions. Women are equally capable of relating to the loneliness and rumination for a fulfilling relationship that you described as only men having. The statistics are biased, aimed only toward people who are chronically online. Both sexes are responsible for their respective consequences of being immature, dishonest and hopeless. Their ideas of the ideal partner are entirely fantastical, resulting in misery and cynicism when their desires aren't fulfilled. Of course it's the other persons fault - you opened with how life is unfair, then you alienate and blame the entire female sex for why any/all single men are without a submissive goth mommy, followed by "just get better, look at bruce lee, see he's fine being alone" then more quotes from other lonely, alcoholic and abusive men. I get if this is a video to yourself, more power to you, but blaming/alienating women right out the gate with this video was so disheartening. I'm personally struggling so bad with being single, fuck not waking up, I was on the verge of suicide. This isn't just a guy problem...
Thank you for your advice, I’m really sorry to hear that. I never said only men have it, just that it’s probably a lot more common with them and that’s who I was going to direct the video towards. I know we are all human beings in the same society often capable of sharing the same emotions. I also was very careful to make sure I never just stated things as fact unless I looked it up, most of it is my perception. I only said 20% of guys get 80% of women because it makes a lot of sense, supports my claim, and I showed where I looked it up to make sure. Thank you for enlightening me about the potential bias, perhaps my perception was a little skewed and I sincerely apologize. However, you perceived this video all wrong, I really didn’t blame women at all. I was just stating what the situation is and using it all as motivation to grow as a person. Encouraging people to stop stressing over loneliness so much, instead just accept it and focus on their interests and hobbies first. While they have more time and energy before they spend it all on the wrong one. Also, where did submissive goth mommy come from lmao, I think you probably build a perception of the identity of people very easily and that was pretty dramatic. It’s not like i’m trying to say it’s so simple of a solution like “just get better”, but discussing my opinion of, why focus so much on attracting a lover when you don’t even have your own life figured out first? Then giving that opinion reasoning and mainly just trying to inspire people to be grateful to be alone and improve themselves. Yeah I know the gratitude might sound crazy, but it’s the only way you’ll be at peace in the present and what good would the negativity and dwelling on despair ever do? To be completely transparent as always, I saw a motivational quote theme on google and downloaded it, every single quote came from there and I just used what I saw when I thought it was applicable. I figured the more well known or successful people I had quoted with their various ideologies, the more of a supportive claim I had for what I was trying to say convincing the audience. So that way it’s not just me saying random stuff. I’m really not that in touch with history or most news at all, I had no idea about those men being so despicable, and I would’ve just left the name out if I knew. The quote would’ve still applied wisdom and you wouldn’t have even batted an eye. It was all just attempts of supporting my claim like, look how cool Bruce is, everyone knows him, he says this wise quote about it. It was honestly aimed at men who’ve experienced what I have and a potential way to go about it from my perspective of chasing growth and your purpose first. Instead of relying on someone hoping they save, fix, and complete you. That is kinda more against the grain and not everyone will always agree with everything. You really took it all the wrong way because I certainly wasn’t blaming or alienating anyone, just explaining why I was going to be directing the message towards guys saying “girlfriend” and “provide as a man” but before it all I said it’s still inversely applicable. Meaning women could get value of it too. I’m genuinely sorry you felt disheartened and that you’re struggling; I promise I’ll try to be a lot more careful with everything I say and never offend anyone again. I wish I directly accounted for everyone so I could have possibly had a positive impact on you too. I know that it’s not only a men problem I’m sorry you thought I said it was, it was more like “most” men “probably” go through this “more” and “most” women “probably” can’t comprehend. That was just my perspective and once again I apologize if it was desenstitive. I’m sincerely grateful you are still here, keeping being strong not just for yourself but for everyone who knows and loves you. Keep fighting and perserving. I hope you find the person of your dreams soon. Have you tried putting yourself out there or diving into hobbies and interests and accepting solitude?
I love your in depth reply, Robert. I'm 30, I work full time, I have an education, I have many hobbies and past times. I also live in a small retirement community(hometown), my financial situation isn't ideal for moving or affording more education. Lots of people are in my situation. I'm just at the age where, in the past and currently, all of my family was married, had children, careers, homes etc. Being single and lonely(more feeling unlovable and unwanted) are just 2 parts of my life right now. I promise, it's not just or primarily a mans issue. All of the advice can apply to both sexes. I love videos like this, it's why I clicked on it - I was genuinely looking forward to someone empathizing with my situation and giving me hope. I was just a bit hurt and shocked from the opening, that's all. Thank you again for a prompt reply. Keep up the great videos!
@@therobertwagner also, offending people on the internet is *guaranteed*. I would say, aim more for complete honesty, thorough research and for being unbiased. With that said, some topics are impossible at checking all of those boxes, but the effort will save your butt in the future. If you indirectly imply anything, people will misunderstand your message, like I did. Be direct, or overtly sarcastic - that way people truly know what you're trying to say. :) forgot to add, I completely empathize with your own struggles for personal fulfillment while solitary. It can be a hard state to be in...but you're absolutely right. It's far better to learn to love being by yourself for no other reason than the fact that we're worth it. This allows for much more secure relationships, should one happen. That's the approach I'm taking. Best wishes to you
@@Wrenhollow-arts thank you Wren, I’m sure there a lots of people in that situation and I hate to come off as ignorant. You shouldn’t compare to your family, everyone’s story and timing is different, good things are still to come you are very young as well. You really aren’t unlovable and unwanted so don’t ever tell yourself that, you just haven’t had the best of luck and possibly effort. I don’t want to act like I know a solution like it’s a simple fix, but a suggestion would be to maybe be open minded to search for assistance outwards, and be self-aware diving inwards. Once again, apologies for my skewed perception, but obviously I know there are lonely women out there too. It’s just that generally women have more of the power to go out and attract men. Furthermore, I don’t want to generalize, but men are expected to be confident enough to approach women and say almost everything right, without giving them any icks lmao. All a man really wants is to be attracted to them, loyalty, and respect. (I really value kindness and confidence too.) But that’s why I asked you if you’ve really put yourself out there. You’re probably more capable of meeting new eligible relationships and being friendly than you realize. I sincerely do feel bad about your initial dissatisfaction, but I’m glad you enlightened me and I could learn something from this whole experience. I would’ve replied to this more promptly, but I’ve been working on my new video about how to be at peace and happy which should benefit everyone who watches.
@@Wrenhollow-arts Yeah i’m sure it’s a guaranteed, but I never want the hate to be reasonable or justified yk? I’ve always valued honesty and I like supporting evidence, but you alone probably taught me a lot about being very careful to be unbiased, as I most likely really didn’t come off that way. I never would want to indirectly imply that’s why I tried to back up what I was saying while saying words like probably a lot. Being overtly sarcastic is a really clever idea though, thank you. I appreciate your empathizing and I hope you feel my empathy too. I genuinely want to help people grow and feel better after I’ve felt very broken, hopeless, insecure, sad, unwanted, unlovable, and wanting to die as well before. I overcame it with a newfound perception on life and solitude and just would like to inspire others. I’m really glad you say that because we are all worth it and it all be worth it in the end for our secure relationships indeed. It will happen, just be patient and keep knocking, best wishes to you as well friend.
Outstanding. Thank you
wow man made this so long crazy to see people are still finding it, i’m happy you got something out of it bro
God is working. Love you bro
I had a 6 month relationship, she left me for her ex, she wasn't searching for love, just pleasure. Although im still just a teenager it meant a lot to me, i really wanted her to be my future, i wanted to make it work! It is a hard time since she left, just recently started with selfimprovement and opened my eyes that there is more to life! from now on my goals in life will get all the attention, i am sure that the right one will come along eventually! Be disciplined, work hard, enjoy life as it is and everything you'll wish for will eventually be reality❤
thank you for sharing brotha, sorry to hear that, but glad to see you on your self improvement journey after all of that knowing there’s more to life 🎉
Just remember not to let her come back, because there's a good chance she will. If she came back to her ex, your her next ex who she'll come back to. Females monkey branch back and forth to prevent boredom. They love diversifying to keep things entertaining. In addition it's an ego boost because they know guys will take them back no matter what they do.
@@xFlared while I agree that a lot of women can share a bunch of similarities like that, you can’t generalize all them from the ones you experienced. there are 4 billion women and some are really pure, kind and loyal. but also I mentioned you got to branch out of your little town, level up and be able to afford to travel, also have such a stable garden it would stupid for her to give it up. work hard to show them all what they missed out on instead of proving them right that they made a good decision.
@@xFlared trust me, i don't wan't her back, she hurt me too much to forgive :(
this video is something a lot more people in our generation need to see. our minds are being ruined by the things we see around us. discipline is key, we’re constantly holding ourselves back in life and it’s time to take control. this was a great video man keep up the good work!
thanks bro 💯
You know that feeling when the phone rings or vibrates but it's just messages from ads or billing cycles. Now imagine this going for years.
yeah all the time brodie, that’s why you don’t expect anything and just accept it. Can’t be disappointed if you aren’t anticipating it. plus turn off your notifications, lock in, make a change, and add value to yourself. That or keep distracting yourself and dealing with the consequences, all up to you.
Great video 👍👏 Keep the hard work 💪
thank you so much !!
Engineers and Doctors are rare so they're valuable. Only 8,000 Engineering students graduate per year and 75 percent of them don't succeed. Also only 10,000 Medical students graduate from The school of Medicine per year.
what are you trying to say?
I see this is a new channel. Some advice from an avid watcher - women and men have complex feelings and emotions. Women are equally capable of relating to the loneliness and rumination for a fulfilling relationship that you described as only men having. The statistics are biased, aimed only toward people who are chronically online. Both sexes are responsible for their respective consequences of being immature, dishonest and hopeless. Their ideas of the ideal partner are entirely fantastical, resulting in misery and cynicism when their desires aren't fulfilled. Of course it's the other persons fault - you opened with how life is unfair, then you alienate and blame the entire female sex for why any/all single men are without a submissive goth mommy, followed by "just get better, look at bruce lee, see he's fine being alone" then more quotes from other lonely, alcoholic and abusive men. I get if this is a video to yourself, more power to you, but blaming/alienating women right out the gate with this video was so disheartening. I'm personally struggling so bad with being single, fuck not waking up, I was on the verge of suicide. This isn't just a guy problem...
Thank you for your advice, I’m really sorry to hear that. I never said only men have it, just that it’s probably a lot more common with them and that’s who I was going to direct the video towards. I know we are all human beings in the same society often capable of sharing the same emotions. I also was very careful to make sure I never just stated things as fact unless I looked it up, most of it is my perception. I only said 20% of guys get 80% of women because it makes a lot of sense, supports my claim, and I showed where I looked it up to make sure. Thank you for enlightening me about the potential bias, perhaps my perception was a little skewed and I sincerely apologize. However, you perceived this video all wrong, I really didn’t blame women at all. I was just stating what the situation is and using it all as motivation to grow as a person. Encouraging people to stop stressing over loneliness so much, instead just accept it and focus on their interests and hobbies first. While they have more time and energy before they spend it all on the wrong one. Also, where did submissive goth mommy come from lmao, I think you probably build a perception of the identity of people very easily and that was pretty dramatic. It’s not like i’m trying to say it’s so simple of a solution like “just get better”, but discussing my opinion of, why focus so much on attracting a lover when you don’t even have your own life figured out first? Then giving that opinion reasoning and mainly just trying to inspire people to be grateful to be alone and improve themselves. Yeah I know the gratitude might sound crazy, but it’s the only way you’ll be at peace in the present and what good would the negativity and dwelling on despair ever do? To be completely transparent as always, I saw a motivational quote theme on google and downloaded it, every single quote came from there and I just used what I saw when I thought it was applicable. I figured the more well known or successful people I had quoted with their various ideologies, the more of a supportive claim I had for what I was trying to say convincing the audience. So that way it’s not just me saying random stuff. I’m really not that in touch with history or most news at all, I had no idea about those men being so despicable, and I would’ve just left the name out if I knew. The quote would’ve still applied wisdom and you wouldn’t have even batted an eye. It was all just attempts of supporting my claim like, look how cool Bruce is, everyone knows him, he says this wise quote about it. It was honestly aimed at men who’ve experienced what I have and a potential way to go about it from my perspective of chasing growth and your purpose first. Instead of relying on someone hoping they save, fix, and complete you. That is kinda more against the grain and not everyone will always agree with everything. You really took it all the wrong way because I certainly wasn’t blaming or alienating anyone, just explaining why I was going to be directing the message towards guys saying “girlfriend” and “provide as a man” but before it all I said it’s still inversely applicable. Meaning women could get value of it too. I’m genuinely sorry you felt disheartened and that you’re struggling; I promise I’ll try to be a lot more careful with everything I say and never offend anyone again. I wish I directly accounted for everyone so I could have possibly had a positive impact on you too. I know that it’s not only a men problem I’m sorry you thought I said it was, it was more like “most” men “probably” go through this “more” and “most” women “probably” can’t comprehend. That was just my perspective and once again I apologize if it was desenstitive. I’m sincerely grateful you are still here, keeping being strong not just for yourself but for everyone who knows and loves you. Keep fighting and perserving. I hope you find the person of your dreams soon. Have you tried putting yourself out there or diving into hobbies and interests and accepting solitude?
I love your in depth reply, Robert. I'm 30, I work full time, I have an education, I have many hobbies and past times. I also live in a small retirement community(hometown), my financial situation isn't ideal for moving or affording more education. Lots of people are in my situation. I'm just at the age where, in the past and currently, all of my family was married, had children, careers, homes etc. Being single and lonely(more feeling unlovable and unwanted) are just 2 parts of my life right now. I promise, it's not just or primarily a mans issue. All of the advice can apply to both sexes. I love videos like this, it's why I clicked on it - I was genuinely looking forward to someone empathizing with my situation and giving me hope. I was just a bit hurt and shocked from the opening, that's all. Thank you again for a prompt reply. Keep up the great videos!
@@therobertwagner also, offending people on the internet is *guaranteed*. I would say, aim more for complete honesty, thorough research and for being unbiased. With that said, some topics are impossible at checking all of those boxes, but the effort will save your butt in the future. If you indirectly imply anything, people will misunderstand your message, like I did. Be direct, or overtly sarcastic - that way people truly know what you're trying to say. :) forgot to add, I completely empathize with your own struggles for personal fulfillment while solitary. It can be a hard state to be in...but you're absolutely right. It's far better to learn to love being by yourself for no other reason than the fact that we're worth it. This allows for much more secure relationships, should one happen. That's the approach I'm taking. Best wishes to you
@@Wrenhollow-arts thank you Wren, I’m sure there a lots of people in that situation and I hate to come off as ignorant. You shouldn’t compare to your family, everyone’s story and timing is different, good things are still to come you are very young as well. You really aren’t unlovable and unwanted so don’t ever tell yourself that, you just haven’t had the best of luck and possibly effort. I don’t want to act like I know a solution like it’s a simple fix, but a suggestion would be to maybe be open minded to search for assistance outwards, and be self-aware diving inwards. Once again, apologies for my skewed perception, but obviously I know there are lonely women out there too. It’s just that generally women have more of the power to go out and attract men. Furthermore, I don’t want to generalize, but men are expected to be confident enough to approach women and say almost everything right, without giving them any icks lmao. All a man really wants is to be attracted to them, loyalty, and respect. (I really value kindness and confidence too.) But that’s why I asked you if you’ve really put yourself out there. You’re probably more capable of meeting new eligible relationships and being friendly than you realize. I sincerely do feel bad about your initial dissatisfaction, but I’m glad you enlightened me and I could learn something from this whole experience. I would’ve replied to this more promptly, but I’ve been working on my new video about how to be at peace and happy which should benefit everyone who watches.
@@Wrenhollow-arts Yeah i’m sure it’s a guaranteed, but I never want the hate to be reasonable or justified yk? I’ve always valued honesty and I like supporting evidence, but you alone probably taught me a lot about being very careful to be unbiased, as I most likely really didn’t come off that way. I never would want to indirectly imply that’s why I tried to back up what I was saying while saying words like probably a lot. Being overtly sarcastic is a really clever idea though, thank you. I appreciate your empathizing and I hope you feel my empathy too. I genuinely want to help people grow and feel better after I’ve felt very broken, hopeless, insecure, sad, unwanted, unlovable, and wanting to die as well before. I overcame it with a newfound perception on life and solitude and just would like to inspire others. I’m really glad you say that because we are all worth it and it all be worth it in the end for our secure relationships indeed. It will happen, just be patient and keep knocking, best wishes to you as well friend.
bro sadaam hussein in the thumbnail
aye shoutout bro
bro has the erotic barber set as his pfp LMAO
Omg.. women deal with loniness too.
@@louisehoward7264 read the other complaining comment and my responses