The guy in the second story is chatting the majority of the time with his dolled up friend while his girlfriend is in the hallway crying and then says he forgot about her. My man needs some selfreflection and this has nothing to do with "he didnt notice".
In the first story im more interested how you can parent a child that it starts smashing a car. Big red flags that he had major problems in his childhood and locking himself in his room etc. Sometimes the parents are blind to what actually is going on. Since when is she married to the father and what has been going on until now.
Yep, that is either things coming to a head after way more stuff in the past or the son has severe issues that the parents just ignored. One way or the other that story is clearly op trying to validate herself instead of showing the situation as is.
Amputees have a problem called "Devotees", people who are fascinated and sexually attracted to amputees. I don't blame her for not always bringing it up sooner.
Bro is almost an adult and still can't understand his step brother's bio mom owes him NOTHING☠️ Bro accuses his mom of theft as if he didn't vandalise someone's PERSONAL PROPERTY
Story 1. Not sure how old the son is but if he is almost an adult, he should have the ability to understand that the car was not bought by his mom or his step dad and it is the personal property of his step brother. Step brother might want to stay with his mom or move out on his own since he is 19 and his mom's family has money they could probably help with that. Pretty sure he needs to not be around his dad's house anymore.
Vandalized the car he would have been removed to the prison system for the time. If I was the step brother I would have pressed charges against you and your son.
Wait.. OP has a condition that frequently ends friendships and romantic partnerships. So she doesn’t show it off, and maybe sometimes actively hides it. And she didn’t tell HIM at first… you know, because he’s a stranger and she doesn’t know how he’ll react. And before she decides he’s trustworthy, but after the situation calls for him knowing this, she tells him. SHE TOLD HIM. And his complaint was that she didn’t tell him sooner. He is not entitled to her secrets. And if circumstance require it, she’ll tell him. As demonstrated by the fact that circumstances required it, she immediately told him. The fact that he’s getting all butthurt about it just goes to show that she was RIGHT not tell him. It’s pretty common on Reddit not to bring new boyfriends home to meet your kids for six months. LGBT youths, fearing the same of drama that dude is now exhibiting agonize over when is the right time to disclose. OP met a stranger, and she didn’t magically know in that instant whether he’s safe to reveal her secret to. So she played cautious, to figure out if he could be trusted. This all seems pretty legit to me. Like, the dude is asserting that she must not have fully trusted him on day one. Duh. It would be irresponsible to trust everybody she meets.
s1: surprised the dad even let that stepson stay under his roof after wrecking his sons car. The boy is a dangerous ticking time bomb. s2: OP lacks all empathy. Sounds like he's trying to do right but honestly doesn't know how to read the situation or others. s3: Did OP unknowingly hide her missing leg for 2 months? I understand it may not be a big deal to her, but if she can't see how important it would be to her future husband, he might think she is hiding other important things from him as well.
2nd story: It’s the fact that that situation happened in real time for the OP, then they had the nerve to come to Reddit explaining/using Verbiage that was still disrespectful to his fiancé. I can tell by the way he wrote it, that he has no remorse. I hope she left him.✌️ Ngl the entire 24 minutes and 29 seconds of this video pissed me off.😤
@cnvdh3514 the mom was favoring the step son more than her own son (more than what was said in the story). If this is real then Op IS downplaying the favoritism. There are stories out there where the mom favors her step kids more then her own kid and expects her kid to understand and be a doormat.
@@Arricov how do you know? and what does "more than what was said in the story" mean? because i didn't see any favoritism. the car was a present from the step sons bio mom, not from op and her husband. where was the favoritism? when holding him accountable and make him face consequences for the vandalism of his step brothers car?
@@cipher5150i dont think their was but I am curious because if this was the first time he probably wouldn't have freaked out this much but he did something very illegal. I do think some part of this story is getting downscaled. Like she did not even mention why he locked himself in the room the first time.
@@cipher5150 how should I really know for sure, but there is always a pattern in parents posts about favoring another kid. I know that it was the stepsons bio mom that got him the car, but if you listened to what her son said about not getting anything from his own family most likely meant op wouldn't get him one. And right after that op went on a spiel about favoritism and all that. Get the feeling that there is more to HER negligence and favoritism than what op stated. Do I think the son was in the right? No, but I get the feeling she prefers stepson over her own son. A lot of reddit posts about mothers getting remarried are about how their mothers pretty much left them in the dirt for step family.
The next story about the van: some of those commenters need to look online at the prices of converted vans. Even just a simple hoist lift to put just a chair/scooter into a van can run upwards of over $5000. But a full conversion of ramp? Good god, the prices will knock you over. 2023 Traverse - 90K. Some older model vans can be much cheaper, sure. But the conversion is that old too. Lots of things break on those things.
The last story reminds me of the time my mom got me an Xbox. My PS3 short-circuited from a lightning storm and my mom wanted to give me an Xbox. I told her that I didn't want an Xbox and that I could just settle for money and save up until I got a PS4. For days, before Christmas, she kept trying to convince me that an Xbox was just as good as a PlayStation and I told her no each time. Christmas comes and guess what my mom got me for Christmas? An Xbox. The disappointment on my face wasn't hard to miss and my sister pulled the "Be grateful you got anything at all" card even when this item that I got was something I didn't want and my mother knew that. A couple of years later, I got a job and bought a PS4, and the Xbox just collected dust.
Yeah, ungrateful....my kids were happy to get an xbox and used it all yhe time, even if their friends had a PS4....I told them if they wanted a PS4, they had to save up and buy their own,and they did. The played both machines, they love halo
talk about entitled parents. just makes me feel less to help any so called struggling gonad donors. and the insurance, if something happens, OP could easily be sued because of some made up problem. ignore them all and stay there.
Last story: Take the gift. However, get him a velvet Elvis painting. A family I knew awhile back had a tradition of each year, Elvis ended up as a gift passed to the next " victim." I wonder if Elvis is still ending up as a Christmas gift each year. Get hubby something like that, with a sense of humor. Maybe add something detachable to the foot massager. Socks. Crocs. Whatever.
Story 1: Give the money back and call the cops. Problem solved. Story 3: I don't know how it is to have a prosthetic anything, but it feels like something you should disclose pretty early on, but maybe that's just me.
How about not buying one kid a car if you can’t get one for another? That seems like common sense to me. It was a bad reaction. But seriously. Treat your kids equally. It’s not hard
@@JCF2050alot of people also miss the part where op says "He once locked himself in a room for so long he had to be hospitalized for low blood pressure" like what the hell happened.
Last story, OP is the asshole. Her husband did think of her when he gave her the gift. He could have just returned it, used the money on something else for his mother, and gave OP nothing. Instead he decided to maintain the expense, an expense that cost somewhere in the hundreds of dollars if it was a nice one, and absorb the additional expense of shopping for his mother's gift. Then there's the 'I didn't like it or want it so we should return it for something I do want." Children get all butthurt when they don't get what they wanted and say things like that. OPs friend was spot on.
The guy in the second story is chatting the majority of the time with his dolled up friend while his girlfriend is in the hallway crying and then says he forgot about her. My man needs some selfreflection and this has nothing to do with "he didnt notice".
In the first story im more interested how you can parent a child that it starts smashing a car. Big red flags that he had major problems in his childhood and locking himself in his room etc. Sometimes the parents are blind to what actually is going on. Since when is she married to the father and what has been going on until now.
Someone finally pointed this out
Yep, that is either things coming to a head after way more stuff in the past or the son has severe issues that the parents just ignored.
One way or the other that story is clearly op trying to validate herself instead of showing the situation as is.
fathers day, give it back and when he throws a fit.. "i put as much thought into this gift as you did for mine"
Amputees have a problem called "Devotees", people who are fascinated and sexually attracted to amputees. I don't blame her for not always bringing it up sooner.
Bro is almost an adult and still can't understand his step brother's bio mom owes him NOTHING☠️
Bro accuses his mom of theft as if he didn't vandalise someone's PERSONAL PROPERTY
#1
Consequences and therapy
Story 5. The friend is TA.
Story 1. Not sure how old the son is but if he is almost an adult, he should have the ability to understand that the car was not bought by his mom or his step dad and it is the personal property of his step brother. Step brother might want to stay with his mom or move out on his own since he is 19 and his mom's family has money they could probably help with that. Pretty sure he needs to not be around his dad's house anymore.
Vandalized the car he would have been removed to the prison system for the time. If I was the step brother I would have pressed charges against you and your son.
Wait.. OP has a condition that frequently ends friendships and romantic partnerships. So she doesn’t show it off, and maybe sometimes actively hides it. And she didn’t tell HIM at first… you know, because he’s a stranger and she doesn’t know how he’ll react. And before she decides he’s trustworthy, but after the situation calls for him knowing this, she tells him. SHE TOLD HIM. And his complaint was that she didn’t tell him sooner. He is not entitled to her secrets. And if circumstance require it, she’ll tell him. As demonstrated by the fact that circumstances required it, she immediately told him.
The fact that he’s getting all butthurt about it just goes to show that she was RIGHT not tell him.
It’s pretty common on Reddit not to bring new boyfriends home to meet your kids for six months.
LGBT youths, fearing the same of drama that dude is now exhibiting agonize over when is the right time to disclose.
OP met a stranger, and she didn’t magically know in that instant whether he’s safe to reveal her secret to. So she played cautious, to figure out if he could be trusted. This all seems pretty legit to me. Like, the dude is asserting that she must not have fully trusted him on day one. Duh. It would be irresponsible to trust everybody she meets.
s1: surprised the dad even let that stepson stay under his roof after wrecking his sons car. The boy is a dangerous ticking time bomb.
s2: OP lacks all empathy. Sounds like he's trying to do right but honestly doesn't know how to read the situation or others.
s3: Did OP unknowingly hide her missing leg for 2 months? I understand it may not be a big deal to her, but if she can't see how important it would be to her future husband, he might think she is hiding other important things from him as well.
For s1 we still need more info like why did he lock himself in his room the very first time
Give hubby the foot massager for Father’s Day.
2nd story: It’s the fact that that situation happened in real time for the OP, then they had the nerve to come to Reddit explaining/using Verbiage that was still disrespectful to his fiancé. I can tell by the way he wrote it, that he has no remorse. I hope she left him.✌️
Ngl the entire 24 minutes and 29 seconds of this video pissed me off.😤
S1. Something isn’t adding up and parts are missing.
Was thinking the same. Feels like OP is downplaying the favouritism they've been showing the stepson
@cnvdh3514 the mom was favoring the step son more than her own son (more than what was said in the story). If this is real then Op IS downplaying the favoritism. There are stories out there where the mom favors her step kids more then her own kid and expects her kid to understand and be a doormat.
@@Arricov
how do you know?
and what does "more than what was said in the story" mean? because i didn't see any favoritism. the car was a present from the step sons bio mom, not from op and her husband.
where was the favoritism? when holding him accountable and make him face consequences for the vandalism of his step brothers car?
@@cipher5150i dont think their was but I am curious because if this was the first time he probably wouldn't have freaked out this much but he did something very illegal. I do think some part of this story is getting downscaled. Like she did not even mention why he locked himself in the room the first time.
@@cipher5150 how should I really know for sure, but there is always a pattern in parents posts about favoring another kid. I know that it was the stepsons bio mom that got him the car, but if you listened to what her son said about not getting anything from his own family most likely meant op wouldn't get him one. And right after that op went on a spiel about favoritism and all that. Get the feeling that there is more to HER negligence and favoritism than what op stated. Do I think the son was in the right? No, but I get the feeling she prefers stepson over her own son. A lot of reddit posts about mothers getting remarried are about how their mothers pretty much left them in the dirt for step family.
The next story about the van: some of those commenters need to look online at the prices of converted vans. Even just a simple hoist lift to put just a chair/scooter into a van can run upwards of over $5000. But a full conversion of ramp? Good god, the prices will knock you over. 2023 Traverse - 90K. Some older model vans can be much cheaper, sure. But the conversion is that old too. Lots of things break on those things.
The last story reminds me of the time my mom got me an Xbox.
My PS3 short-circuited from a lightning storm and my mom wanted to give me an Xbox. I told her that I didn't want an Xbox and that I could just settle for money and save up until I got a PS4. For days, before Christmas, she kept trying to convince me that an Xbox was just as good as a PlayStation and I told her no each time.
Christmas comes and guess what my mom got me for Christmas? An Xbox. The disappointment on my face wasn't hard to miss and my sister pulled the "Be grateful you got anything at all" card even when this item that I got was something I didn't want and my mother knew that.
A couple of years later, I got a job and bought a PS4, and the Xbox just collected dust.
Yeah, ungrateful....my kids were happy to get an xbox and used it all yhe time, even if their friends had a PS4....I told them if they wanted a PS4, they had to save up and buy their own,and they did. The played both machines, they love halo
Ill take your Xbox if you dont want it 😂
talk about entitled parents. just makes me feel less to help any so called struggling gonad donors. and the insurance, if something happens, OP could easily be sued because of some made up problem. ignore them all and stay there.
Yes and no ☺ 👋
and reason #30045 why not to have kids
Last story: Take the gift. However, get him a velvet Elvis painting. A family I knew awhile back had a tradition of each year, Elvis ended up as a gift passed to the next " victim." I wonder if Elvis is still ending up as a Christmas gift each year. Get hubby something like that, with a sense of humor. Maybe add something detachable to the foot massager. Socks. Crocs. Whatever.
Come on bots finish these stories
Story 1: Give the money back and call the cops. Problem solved.
Story 3: I don't know how it is to have a prosthetic anything, but it feels like something you should disclose pretty early on, but maybe that's just me.
How about not buying one kid a car if you can’t get one for another? That seems like common sense to me. It was a bad reaction. But seriously. Treat your kids equally. It’s not hard
the bio mom of the stepson bought the car, not the parents.
@@FrauaslYeah not much they can do on that.
@@Frauasl Alot of people seemed to miss that
@@JCF2050alot of people also miss the part where op says "He once locked himself in a room for so long he had to be hospitalized for low blood pressure" like what the hell happened.
First
Nope
No one cares
Last story, OP is the asshole. Her husband did think of her when he gave her the gift. He could have just returned it, used the money on something else for his mother, and gave OP nothing. Instead he decided to maintain the expense, an expense that cost somewhere in the hundreds of dollars if it was a nice one, and absorb the additional expense of shopping for his mother's gift. Then there's the 'I didn't like it or want it so we should return it for something I do want." Children get all butthurt when they don't get what they wanted and say things like that. OPs friend was spot on.
S2: op yta big time