What masculinity really is
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- Опубліковано 19 вер 2023
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Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, "The strong man is not one who is good at wrestling, but the strong man is one who controls himself in a fit of rage."
Exactly brother 💯
Every time Hamza releases a video it begins to slowly agree with islam. This is what true deep self reflection does. Atheism goes nowhere. I wonder what he feels about religion tbh, I think its abit of arrogance holding him back.
Allahu'akbar
@@anasheed1 let me remind you that not every successful man is religious
@@BuffSoldierWithBigGun successful in this world, but not in the afterlife
I truly thank God for you Hamza. Your videos have helped me so much in my path to achieving my pinnacle in terms of masculinity. I'm 17 years old and lately I've been setting out to master my mindset and become a lot more mature amongst my peers. I want to be able to hold my own when I'm older and maintain a loving relationship with a woman one day. Keep spreading your wisdom. Jesus Christ is and will continue to use you in a mighty way.
I'm genuinely happy to see a young man like you thriving. When I was 17 (it was the 2017-2018 era) gurus were popping up from the web and talking about making money, selling courses, getting laid, etc. I bought into their course, lived the life and we didn't have Hamza or whoever that talked about masculine energy.
I hope you, the new generations of young men learn better and avoid the mistakes I made!
"Not everyone who says to me 'Lord, Lord,' will enter the kingdom of heaven, but only the one who does the will of my Father in heaven. On that day many will say to me, 'Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and cast out demons in your name, and do many deeds of power in your name?' Then I will declare to them, 'I never knew you; go away from me, you evildoers’" (Matthew 7:21-23).
Thats Cool bro im 17 as-well we should Chat most ever-body our age seem to be the same sorta mindless games weed thinking about Females 24/7 and from my perspective semi depressed since all elders everybody in our schools keep telling us horrible advice about college and typical i guess matrix stuff since its our last years of high school Lmk Bro
so apparently hod caused you to meet hamza ?
amén, same with you I'm 16
This is the type of short term videos, everybody needs to see. Hamza, your older videos from about a year ago already changed my life, but with these new ones, you are just enlighting me every second I watch. I've not nearly reached the big goals, I've set myself, but i just want to thank you for your guidance. Have a good day.
Your recent videos have been hitting me personally alot more than your others. Feels like the final piece to my puzzle.
Truly enjoying your new style of videos! You can tell you’ve evolved a ton recently 🧠 Keep up the hard work brother, we’re all in this together!
Enjoy the healthy mind ❤
Thank you so much hamza, you made my life meaningful. I told my gf that I watch your videos and now she also became more feminine these days. Thank you for all these years of help, you made me attract the love of my life and made her happy for 2 years already. I still learn from you, I’m truly grateful for that.
proud of you brother ❤
I felt for the first time I had contact with a proper explanation of masculinity when I red the manga Vagabond, how this samurai went through his purpose so spiritually, how deep he went on himself and the world to master his craft, and how haunted he was by the femenine counterpart of the story, Otsu. This is much more relatable than the superficial masculinity I could apreciate on youtube videos. Thank you for talking from real experience.
I also loved reading vagabond, but you see it was showing an extreme life. You now a days cant live like him, plus he should have stayed with otsu. He regrets it later, the same away he regrets killing all those people. A true man is strong, but kind and gentle. A real man is not materialistic and doesnt care about having more money then others. Sure you should and must provide for your family, but you should also spend time with them.
And emoticions is part of being a man to, remeber balance is key dont go to an extreme (unless its a critical time, and if you do, dont do it forever or you will regret it)
I recommend you to read or watch vinland saga, is quite similar but diferent at the same time. Give it a try, also nice brook profile pick.
@@tomasguilherme263 Well said. What hamza and you said all falls under stoicism
@@tomasguilherme263it's been a while since I read Vagabond, but I must say Musashi is a man of purpose. He knows very well what his purpose is, and so he walks this very hard path that no one can walk beside him in. It's all to fulfill his purpose, and that's what being authentic is. He does the extreme because that's how being authentic also is. You must give your purpose everything. Also, he is quite a gentle and loving man (and that's very clear from the time he spent as a farmer) despite being almost the strongest swordsman. That's also authentic.
As for Vinland, I also recommend it. It's really good and teaches you how to forgive yourself and others. Though I am not the biggest fan of Thorvin's approach to stoicism, I think there should be a limit when you have to step up and be the leader. Sometimes you need to use power to maintain your position and save the tribe, which Thorvin doesn't and disagrees with.
Vagabond and Berserk on top
I'm so glad I found you bro, you pursue the absolute truth instead of the local truth. It's nice to see someone on the same path in life, who's ahead of me.
This might be hamza best video love this message🙏💪
You’re leading a generation of young men bro. You really did it. You are truly inspiring bro you are a leader by example. An authentic purpose driven man. You are very much needed in todays world bro and you deserve your flowers. Keep up the Great work Hamza nothing but love and blessings to you brother💯❤
Taking cold showers and being still is a perfect way to practice this.
I love these videos keep em coming🔥🔥🔥🔥
I have been following hamza for 2 to 3 years now. I have changed my life in so many positive ways. I dont consume anymore self improvement content because i reached the stage that i dont need it anymore, but i am glad that i clicked in his video because this is probably the best definition of masculity we have. I had an epiphany moment because i new up to an extent what masculity is but Hamza was able to articulate my ideas and my worlds collided for a sec.
fantastic break down. appreciate your articulative ability. also I rarely replay a video more than once. 3rd time watching... or listening
So good man, this type of content is needed!
Great video hamza appreciate it 👍
in my opinion:
masculine energy is the dominant, purposeful, and also stoic energy inside of us men; driving us to our purpose, getting closer to god, and our loved ones.
After watching all male influencers since I was 13 I can say that I am glad hamza came last because he wouldnt have made sense to the younger me and the more I watch him the more I realize I dont have the need to feel validated by doing what he said to do but rather feel proud that he set me free from the whole feminine change yourself cycle.
Exactly, first I didnt, but now I see that eveything he says makes sense and comes together
This is top 3 best videos/advice i've watched on youtube, probably even the best. Masterfully articulated. As someone previously mentioned, thank god for you hamza.
Hi Hamza and brothers, I am stepping back from self improvement now as I already found and started focusing on my purpose, I just came back here for a while to thank you for the education and companion that you provided me to be a better person
when I finally found my real purpose, I am now actually doing the right things, I actually became consistent, I stopped being insecure, I stopped chasing non sense pleasures and material things, and I stopped talking about masculinity and started actually doing it. I realized that I do not need andrew tate or any other influencer to tell and yell at me to do great things, when I found my purpose, I started actually doing it
when I found my purpose, I realized that it feels different, I stopped my obsession with success and glory, and instead, just fell in love with the practice, and it is the true fulfillment that I felt
yeah I still planning to get married and make money as it is still necessary, but I am not desperate anymore. And as I will focus now on my purpose, please wish me all the best and I will wish the same for you
THANK YOU BROTHERS! GOD BLESS ALWAYS!
You cracked the code - I'm grateful you made this comment. Go live your life, I wish you the best, be free and enjoy the nectar.
Thanks man, i needed this
Thank you, man. It's so clear in my mind now. I needed someone else to confirm what I was starting to figure out already. You've putted words on my recent realization.
Love is a decision, not some feeling. When my gf was moody, it really used to confuse me, but not anymore. I made the conscious choice of loving and protect her NO MATTER WHAT. As far as I'm concerned, unless she make it crystal clear that she doesn't want me, I'm not going anywhere.
Bro,thank you for every video you posted for us.
One of the best videos i’ve seen after the mental health one truly life changing the way you explain these concepts
Man! Thank you for this, you opened my eyes!
Mashaallah. May Allah bless you hamza. Listening to and following your advice has made me a better man.
You have just made me realise all this time I’ve been fighting my masculine energy to change myself according to the videos I watch about masculinity. I will now be and do exactly what I think and be true to myself. I’ve always been anxious about damn why my girl disrespecting me and shit and I’ve felt like a pussy when I don’t let it affect me and I stay loving. They tell me I’m a sump because of it but nah nothing will change me.
Alhamdulilah! we do indeed have souls mr.adonis.
Where has this been my whole life. Thank you Hamza. Have been looking for some guidance on this topic for a while and didn’t like the advice of others but this makes so much sense to me
well said, the stillness in masculinity is what makes you, you. don’t ever let anyone change who you truly are.
This is an amazing video
Most of the things you said I have saw in my grandpa. He was a pure masculine man. It’s bad that our generation had video games and internet that has stolen our presence and attention for years. Glad to be fighting back to fix things and be a strong masculine man for my future family.
It just fills me with so much gratitude and ambition to just think that hamza will still be educating us for so many years in the future as well.
It’s like seeing/living our own future before hand.
After hamza becomes a dad,he’ll surely also teach us how to be an awesome father.
Watching this i realize I'm much more masculine then i thought,i allways changed my emotions mindset body and whatever however ever since i came into this planet my inner self remained unchanged and the goals i had sure new ones were added like building muscle or making money but the goals i truly cared about and i carried since forever stayed the same
Thank you, Hamza. Your wisdom is very valuable.
Best video I have watched this week
This is an interesting approach! Thank you so much Hamza
Great words Hamza ✨ 👍🏻
Thank you so much for this video you don't how impactful it was for me at this point in my journey .
Here in Hinduism this concept of masculine and feminine is also represented as 'Shiv-Shakti', Shiv being the stillness masculine nature and Shakti being the ever changing feminine nature. We perceive these two forces to be pervasive and applicable to all aspects of life
om namah shivay!
Good to see more people know abt Shiv shiva shakti
Brother you know why Hamza have same definition of masculinity. It's because of the book "the way of superior man" and in that book David deida ( the author) mentions "SHIVA" as masculinity
I think Prophet Muhammad is the prime example of Masculinity. Someone who could meet all 4 wives in one night. Awesome stuff!@@StaringAtWall
@@StaringAtWall Wow i didnt knew that! Thanks for sharing!
Facts bro I talked exactly about this in my video about what is a soul
Thank you hamza!. You are right, there is a lot of male influencers that explain masculinity but is just a vague and uncertain concept that they are explain. In here you are explaining very clearly and i agree that masculine is not being a "strong" guy but to have an "inner stillness" in our soul. Thank you once again.
I knew all of these knowedge you're sharing on my own, from years ago. You're saying the truth.
woah hamza awakening is so badass i love you bro
crazy how your entire view on things changed. but for the better and i can agree with u more
So glad I clicked on this video. I learned something I didn't even know I needed to learn.
These are some real true wisdom that he's giving man 🙏❤
Almost there bro
Man this is truly a informative video. It goes against everything I’ve learned from the internet.
Change is temporary, but Improvement is eternal.
great words Hamza
mf this video has been up for 2 minutes and u already know?
yes
Life changing advice 😉
Pretty Great Stuff!
Damn, this is a gem right here. Makes a lot of sense.
most important video on this topic i’ve seen.
God dammm. This answers my question and give clear understanding of being the rock .
thank this man
The book “way of the superior man” talks about this concept you have mentioned here in detail. It really changes your definition of what masculine or feminine energy truly means.
yes thats where he gets this concept from I believe, he mentions the book often.
@@consciouscactus yes I think so too. It’s nice that he’s been spreading this concept. Gonna help a lot of people
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What Chapter ?
I like the addition of subtitles.
Haven't watched Hamza for a while but this is a really interesting perspective and it makes a lot of sense think I'm gonna watch some more of his videos
this is golden
I'm absolutely digging this version of hamza.
Cultural definition of masculinity and absolute masculinity are different things.
I am in to self improvement since 2020 and i was constantly consuming the shit you are explaining (the bugatti the bitches etc.). But i always thought these young men (i am 16 at that point :D) will regret this lifestyle, dont follow that. That is the first video that confirms me. Thank you G. Like you said i had this insecurity because of them but i stood by my brain and now, i am really thankfull about it.
Do the hard work, especially when you don’t feel like it 🔥
Hamzaa make a full guide on neuropasticity and self-hypnosis,it really changed my life and i believe it can change a lot of other lives!
We need a full guide about this, that's really thoughts provoking
Hamza i've always agreed to everything you have said in all of your videos even your past ones, you have been an insane role model in my life and you have changed it tremendously in such good ways and i thank you for all that you've done for us.
Heres the thing this is the first time i feel disagreeable with what your saying, you said that if my woman acts disrespectful towards me i should be loving? isnt that renforcing her bad habits such as disrespect?
I really didnt understand what you meant and anyone who understood please let me know thank you.
The way of the superior man 10/10 book on this topic has helped me so much in understanding feminine energy I can’t stop reading it.
I fuckin love you Hamza
This is something I thought about for a long time. What redpill is, just a lot of strategies, mindsetswhich can be good to be aware but if you want a loving relationship long term what Hamza says I guess is gold.
Its easier, feels better to yourself than doin small little games that are stressful to keep in mind and is not natural. If then being redpill comes natural to you, so be it.
What Hamza doesnt speak about is "being loving" always, even after disrespect? Not really sure it always works, it passes the message that everything is allowed then. Whats the difference than by being a doormat?
Yoooo, Hamza gives the best advice. Unlike other immature UA-camrs that say give no attention or act a certain way that’s not nice to women. You saved me today mehhnn.
That's why "be yourself" is the best advice
nice house, thank you for the video
Boys, read “The Way of The Superior Man” such a great book! Has massively improved my relationship with my woman ❤
totally not like Hamza is talking about that fucking book in like every single one of his videos???
@@notrius7754 He does reference it a lot and a lot of his mindset comes from the book. It’s a great book, again highly recommended to all men. I think any man can learn from that book especially when it comes to the masculine/feminine dynamics.
@@notrius7754pipsqueaks angry
Everything you’ve been talking about in the last few videos is exactly what the book ‘the way of the superior man’ I’m sure you must have read it Hamza. Love the videos btw ❤
That's something I noticed recently. I'm hitting the gym, I go boxing, try to get rich, get a nice house, a nice car.
But all that just to hide what's beneath the surface.
Cause it's not about cars, it's about who you are and you can be rich, tall, muscular, a fighter. But it doesn't amount to nothing if you still feel insecure inside and use all that just to hide who you really are. No, not hide who you really are, but hide what you feel about yourself.
One of your best works of bringing knowledge to the World
this hits now, even tho i've seen this many many months ago
Thank you
- be an unchanging soul that perceives and acknowledges the changing thoughts and emotions that come pass by you
- more still mind = more masculine
- do not let external environment change YOU
- following trends that change don’t make you masculine
- every second of life is a test to your stillness
- improve consciousness through mdt + jn
Thanks bro, actually, thank you Hamza
What video is this from? This is golden information I would pay top dollar for
Do more videos like this
Good idea to add subtitles
Change is good if it is a good change. Every time you improve your self you are changing. Cience changes to provide better information. We change to become better. Don't be afraid of it.
Hamza could you make your next guide on how to guide your younger brother or family in general or be a good older brother or oldest son, something like that?
Man's kitchen looks like a Zoom background
12:32 Honestly I have to disagree with this.
Yes, when your woman or anyone for that matter disrespects, you shouldn’t act out in rage and go crazy.
However, if anyone disrespects me personally and it bothered me or concerned me, I would address them respectfully (likely privately as to not embarrass them or create further unnecessary conflict). This doesn’t matter if this is someone from a stranger, to a friend, to a family member or significant other.
Also, test are one thing but disrespecting someone, especially in front of others is another thing entirely. And no, from my personally experience, it is not a sign of love, it’s a sign of deep rooted resentment about an aspect of me that has come to the surface and shown itself. Therefore I would respectfully address it with my significant other and do so in a way I understand why it occurred and to tell them respectfully not to do it again and if they have a concern to address with me instead of openly disrespecting me. Disrespecting someone is just “toxic femininity” as you define it in the video.
And you mention, if someone disagrees they are a man who is too much in tune with their feminine side. Yet earlier you said, if what I say affects you, then you failed because your not still and are tapping into your feminine energy. Thee are two contradictory sentences. So before you counter with, “your just feminine bro, trust me” paradoxically me disagreeing with you by showing my stance on the matter is masculine because what you said I should believe didn’t phase me at all, at the slightest bit. So no me believing that others shouldn’t disrespect me even if it’s “your woman trying to see if they still love you” is not a sign of me being weak and feminine.
If you are okay with people disrespecting you, specifically your significant other, that’s okay. But that doesn’t mean other men should agree, to which you mock these men in the video claiming they are “feminine” but simply they have a different view point (opinion). Therefore, to truly test if they were masculine and feminine by the definitions you have in the video, you would have to see if their stance on the matter changes because you a influencer who has the power to influence has told them they were feminine for thinking a certain way. So you may like it, but I do not want to be disrespected, not by my woman or anyone. That’s not much to ask for, if I don’t disrespect you, you shouldn’t disrespect me. And if I accidentally do so either on purpose or mistakenly (because I’m human and make mistakes) then I expect someone to address it with me if they feel I wronged them because in my opinion that would be the right thing to do.
Addressing someone who disrespected you does not mean your love for that person changed. It’s actually in a way you telling them, “I care about you a lot, however what you said or did made me feel a certain way, I don’t not want to ruin this relationship because I love you that deeply, please don’t do it again.”
Honestly allowing anyone to disrespect you and you not do anything about it (not yelling or disrespecting back but addressing the disrespect respectfully) will cause that person to lose respect for you because it shows them “Hmmm, Hamza (used your name as an example, is okay with me doing x or saying y around him, I’m going to do it again in the future because he doesn’t have boundaries.”
Again you can argue back that “paradoxically” me leaving this comment is “feminine energy” because “what I said evoked and emotion and you went on a rant” but this is taking the matter too far and extremely. How are we to engage in civil discussion if you believe every reaction to an external force just means your feminine and “femininity equals bad.” You call others “simpletons” yet are blind to your own contradictions. There’s no such thing as a man who is 100% masculine. There never was and there never could be. But what there was, is a man that can create the perfect balance of femininity and masculinity so that they remain competent.
I say this to you respectfully.
Edit: also in this discussion it is important to classify what you consider disrespect. For everyone it can be quite different. Perhaps a specific example would be needed.
This! All of this! A friend sent me this to describe his mindset and there are definitely elements of this video that concern me. But maybe im just too “feminine” to understand ;)
I like how you stay Real, even if i disagree on a lot of things you Say, you think, and you change tout point of view based on your expériences, its wisdom, stay like that.
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation:
00:00 🤔 Masculinity and femininity are often misunderstood, with cultural definitions varying widely.
02:54 🌊 True masculinity is about inner stillness and being unchanged by external factors, not conforming to cultural stereotypes.
05:17 🧐 Following societal trends of masculinity can actually make you more feminine; authenticity is key.
09:13 🧘♂️ Being masculine means staying unchanged by external influences, passing life's tests, and experiencing moments of enlightenment.
16:40 🚺 Feminine energy should be honored, and women should not feel pressured to conform to masculine standards set by society.
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Bro why did it show me 🚫 It looks as if the video has no text transcript, or I could not fetch it from the page. I am using this extension on Android in kiwi browser. Help please
Fuck AI
To ascend spiritually you need to understand that the only way is to combine masculinity(unchangingness) with the EMOTION love. For when this happens you wil come closer to god. You'll love without changing. A beautiful experience. Make love the dominant emotion and you shall experience the expansion of your consciousness and soul. Thank you
Thnk you sir 🙏🦾🦾
I think what you’re talking about is mindfulness Hamza. You’re basically spreading the message that in order to achieve spiritual enlightenment we must quiet the thinking mind. I agree with this, but I think in your earlier videos you had described the concept of masculinity more correctly. That masculine thinking was more goal-oriented and feminine thinking was more in tune with our own emotions and feelings.
Can you do a full guide on presence and consciousness, witch I found is a topic that compares in every new video you make?
bro you saved me
Don’t let anything change you.
I’ve always wondered why I found the guys in my college following modern trends (dressing like shit, white shoes, silly modern haircuts, logos on everything) so odd and boyish. It’s because trends change from year to year. You need to change your entire wardrobe after a few years, look back on photos of you with a fucking mullet in your early 20s and realized how influenced you were by your surroundings. I just wear what’s been proven to work over decades. Leather jackets I’ll give to my kids, some boots I maintain and take care of. I listen to music of a past era because this era is always changing. You just put what I’ve felt for years of my life into a 16 minute video. Bravo Hamza
We are all gonna make it 💪💪💪
All gonna make what?
Only 1% will make it
Where
No
We are all gonna make it brahs! #zyzz
Was wondering when one of the male influencers would get into spirituality & true teachings of it. Good to see
Hamza I can't understand I will watch it twice now