Hamza, I honestly didn't expect this video from you. The last time I watched you was when you did the Jeffery and Adonis animations. You're not the red pill Hamza from before. In fact, you have made things click in my head and helped in ways I couldn't have imagined. You have grown and learned a lot throughout this year and your change is drastic and noticeable. Please do not change. Your channel feels safe and instinctive. All the best to my friend. Thank you ❤
A long time ago I saw a video of Hamza video pop up on my recommended he made me feel like shit honestly but I had to think why do I feel that why I’ve changed my life a lot since then and his videos have been super helpful but I agree the more recent stuff he’s been doing has been much more enlightening
This made me realize how amazing my girlfriend is, why she is that way, and why I am so attracted to her. How special the bond we have is and how it makes both of our lives better. It also made me motivated to put more work into myslef to maintain and improve the relationship. It has been a while since watching one of your videos, but did not dissapoint. Keep up the good work!
I don't usually comment on videos, but as a girl who's been watching this channel since almost the beginning, I love seeing how much you have grown in the past year. Much love!
Thank you for this. I needed this. My girl loves me, she’s a REAL WOMAN. And when I say real woman I mean exactly how you describe a high value woman. she never cared about how much money I had, and we’ve been together for almost 2 years, I’ve been broke with no money and I’ve had some money over these years. But regardless of money or what I had she never ever left my side and never stopped showing me love, and always supported me through everything. while all I think of is how to give her more material things or money to provide for her in the future, which is ofcourse important but like you described, I didn’t show her real love, I wasn’t masculine and I didn’t even touch on the spirituality. That was the biggest problem we had in our relationship Cuse I couldn’t be that 10% who knows how to love a woman. Everything you described in the video is exactly what she says is wrong with me too, I don’t show her love and affection and masculinity. And after this video I couldn’t agree more. Thank you for making this video it was really a blessing. I will try my best to implement change for her so I can make my woman happy like a real man.
I'm so glad you're going in this direction. Spiritual love between men and women is so broken at the moment. Casual sex just makes us resentful and psychopathic. We're meant to work together. Men and women are meant to cooperate and love each other. Absolutely nothing compares to sex inside a loving relationship. Casual sex no matter how attractive the girl is it doesn't even come close. When you know each others body's and trust the person completely you literally lose yourself in the moment and become totally present. There's nothing like it. It's not like soft or romantic like it's portrayed in the movies but it's like primal. You can feel the other person's soul if done correctly. And afterwards you don't get that sort of disgusted feeling and you actually want to spend more time with her.
Natural Hypertrophy has a very good analogy for masculine and feminine energy. Masculine energy is the rock and feminine is the water that hits the rock over and over again. The rock has to stand still. Crazy to see you having the same thought, Hamza.
I had an epiphany around 9 minutes into this video. I was on a date with a girl and offered to pay for her food. She declined. At first I was confused because of all the things people say online about how all a girl wants is for you to provide for her, but now I realize she wouldn’t have thought differently of me if I hadn’t offered or not. Because she doesn’t care about my materialistic things. Genuinely thank you Hamza, this is your best content yet
sometimes actually (not always) a girl also doesn't make you pay if she doesn't like you because she doesn't want you to get any impressions or have any reciprocal sexual expectations. Though, sometimes it actually means that they really really like you as well. As always with women its about reading the room. It's like when a chick stares at you. It can mean she's creeped out or it could mean she finds you cute.
5:34 When you said "your mind wandering and thinking of something else" I thought I was effed cause I am the type of person who can't help but think about his hobbies, interests or the projects I have been working on or thinking about working on for a while. I also go on "thinking trips" whenever she(or anyone for that matter) says something that will trigger my thinking and I will start thinking of different possibilities and outcomes of the topic in discussion (it could be something as simple as some short trip we were planning or some deep philosophical topic we might be discussing on or the discussion on some show we were talking about). My heart dropped thinking I won't be able to do all this tinkering and wondering when with her talking and discussing about stuff. But I was relieved when he said it was about "thinking about other women". And hearing this relieved me because even if I ain't perfect in this, I have belief in myself that I can conquer this aspect. It also helps me thinking as I would think to myself "How would I personally feel if I got to know my girlfriend was thinking about someone else in the same way as I am right now" and it makes me realize how much of a crappy rhing this is. So in all this is an aspect I can totally control myself in
@@senka369 I agree. Have come up with a lot of my solutions to mathematical and physics problems for my entrance exams while overthinking(to the point that I even dreamt of solving the questions in my dreams. I even once got a solution to my question in a dream even lol)
When I got in a relationship almost a year back at the height of the Tate hysteria after hopping on self improvement and working on myself I realized there was zero content for what to do AFTER you’ve reached this goal of a relationship. How to care for it, how to balance it with work, how to love properly. 99% of self improvement content acts like a gf is the end goal but it’s simply a step along the way. There is a void on the internet for this kind of content. And due to that many many men will fuck it up when they find that extremely rare wife material woman who they click with. And that pain will stay with them forever once they learn how brainwashed they were by the redpill. Thank you Hamza for this content. It’s essential for healthy masculinity and will make many men, women, couples and marriages happier in the long run. Keep it coming brother you are doing gods work. Matching her emotional intensity with consciousness is a serious fucking struggle that takes a ton of work. It’s when she loves you so tenderly, yet you love her and feel like you are almost lagging behind where she is at. And you feel like shit for it. You need to work to truly explore your love to dig deep into those emotions you’ve never really felt or explored before. To let go, to understand. To love. It’s something you won’t truly understand until you are in a relationship. But at least now it won’t hit you like a truck and confuse the shot out of you like it did for me.
That's literally what I am looking for in a relationship. I just wanted to sincerely thank you for reaffirming my belief. I'm single still but I'm on my way up.
For me personally, i honestly feel like my complete lack of any dating experience as a 20 year old virgin is my reason. I don’t know how to exist as a man in a relationship with a woman. I also grew up never once seeing any semblance of love shown between my parents. Because of this I’m just convinced myself that the first relationship I get into ( that as a man of god I’m hoping to be my last) is going to be a massive failure. Even now that I’m getting my finances and income in check I don’t know how I’m going to manage to successfully be in a relationship with a woman. It’s like getting a complex job with zero past experience in that field and also not receiving any training from said job.
Though the thing with your parents is a problem, i dont think that having no dating experience makes you any worse at being in a relationship. Bro just let your instincts come through and do whatever feels natural to you. "I dont know how to exist as a man in a relationship with a woman", yes bro, yes you do, every one of your ancestors knew it before you and you know it aswell, you think fucking cavemen went onto youtube to search a guide on how to be in a relationship (although thinking about it that can definitely improve it)
I'm a 22 year old kissless virgin, dating life is non-existent and abstract for me, and honestly I don't see much shame in that. On one hand, everyone wants attention and affection, but on the other I don't want to get complacent and comfortable, settling for average pay, average life, average girl and couple of nuts a week - thinking about being like that disgusts me. So you can say that not dating has its positives. I need to be stronger and more masculine first, and mind you I'm fit, about to graduate university with a decent degree, and not broke so I guess I could find someone, but I don't want to. As for your post, we need to strive to be masculine, successful with our goals, caring and a perfect relationship will come.
You don't need experience, what you need is knowledge and self sureness, read a couple books that help you understand women and figure out exactly who u are, and just by doing this u are better than 99% of guys, and even tho u don't have any experience, u will be better to her than 99% of men, and also, a lot of women want someone who hasn't had relationship trauma and has all the love in the world to give to them, so see it like that, remove this brainwash of needing experience, work on yourself and u won't need any experience and if u meet a loving woman, she will never wanna leave you because of how sure u are in urself, how u treat her and understanding of women and how well u know urself. The way of the superior man is a perfect book to start off with.
Thank you Hamza, my girlfriend is the definition of what you call a « pure woman », she’s loving me regardless of the situation, always trying to make me happy and I do the same for her. She’s hyper sensitive so she lives her emotions with high intensity, which means she feels a lot the love I give her every time we interact. This is beautiful and I wish everyone could experience such a beautiful relationship. If you keep reading, please give again your full attention to Hamza, he’s so right about this 👆
Thank you Hamza for hopping of from those short highly edited videos and going back to this kind of content, having someone actually think and share his insights is something truly valuable, and I'm greateful for having discovered this channel. A few years ago I lost all my friends, almost dropped off university, had alcohol, porn, social media and videogame addiction, social anxiety and depression. One day one of your videos popped off in my recommended: "How to win a street fight" or something like that. Since I was afraid of leaving my house, I watched it "just in case". After that I dived more into your channel, and started journaling, meditating and doing introspective work. 2 years later I'm here, and I can finally say that I'm on the right path. I don't ever comment on anyones videos and made this account to remain anonymus, and know this doesn't have anything to do with this video's topic, but I just wanted to thank you for being the lighthouse that guided me through these dangerous waters, I hope everything goes well for you and for anyone reading this message, thank you ^^
bro damn. the USP about you is your honesty and authencity. I WAS STRUGGLING BADLI 1 YEAR AGO your videos changed me 360 degree . mahn you deserve to be appreciated for your work. and reason why you impact is your AUTHENTICITY
I think that the worst mistake I've made in relationships is not loving the other person enough. I really want a relationship to just love and be loved and be cuddled tbf
To be fair, it’s not like he’s ever claimed that you can’t succeed without it. He’s stated many times it’s not necessary for you at all to buy his program.
Spot on Hamza. When you stay true to yourself, more people show you their true colors. It's so beautiful what honesty does. Matching her emotional intensity to your consciousness means describing how you both see the word through your experiences and personalities. Share your thoughts on different subjects and provide insight. Ask questions that go deeper into her emotional rationality and get to know her on a deeper level. Ask her questions based on whatever she talks about and sometimes even challenge what she says. Test her just like she tests you. When you give her the same energy and you're not afraid to just be yourself watch how she instantly becomes feminine. That's when she loves you. When you're chill, laid back, work hard, stoic and stay true to yourself because you love yourself then what can she really complain about? She can't.
Basically she'll try to gas light you and as the male you're suppose to be so chill and not give a fuck that you not only own yourself but can control your emotions and be able to withstand extreme pressure and stress. And yes, once she feels comfortable enough around you, she will try to gas light you or "test you" as they say, because females are annoying like that. Why? Because females are just like that.
This resonated a lot with me Hamza, before I entered the self-improvement/redpill space three years ago I was very into spirituality and reaching a higher level of consciousness with meditation, around that time I bought Sadhguru's Inner Engineering program and in my opinion is the only program/course that talks about spirituality and consciousness in a very logical way. I even learned the Surya Kriya practice from a certified yoga teacher in my city and that was when I really understood that spirituality is an important part of life but it isn't being promoted on social media by any masculine influencer. I'am very grateful with you Hamza for talking about this topic and relate it to self-improvement in such a good way.
Thank you for telling this to these guys man, because most of these young kids and even grown men don’t understand the differences between good women and the undesirables. MONEY DOES NOT GET AND KEEP A GOOD WOMAN.
I realised after pursuing a hedonistic lifestyle that I wasn't truly happy. The girls I got with were all fake and sure in the moment I enjoyed it but it left me empty and soulless. Thank you Hamza for speaking to truth and showing that there is a different path, a non hedonistic one that leads to long term fulfilling happyness
You know it’s so much that schools ACTUALLY need to teach. I’m 20 some, and I learned more after graduating school. My point is that a lot of teenagers are in hedonistic relationships. Which fuck the lifestyle, the teenagers are getting pregnant without a knowing path. Good thing there’s Hamza’s out there that, and overall more men trying to really help men mentally, and physically
Hamza has grown so fucking much. It’s not about making big money and dating tones of girls. Life is short, and true contentment doesn’t comes from materialism. Focus on good relationships and on being the man you want to be at every moment.
This is what I always thought about. I always felt that spiritual side is waaaay more important. But I couldn't get any girl, then I started listening to you, Hamza. You helped me improve myself to be able to attract women, but I couldn't really keep the relationship, because girl I would get in relationships with were real feminine women, who didn't care about alpha male bs. But all the advice I had was from alpha males. Only recently, in may 2023 when I got in a relationship with girls with prefect values for me, I decided to change my way of dating, to make it more spiritual, to give as much love as possible, just like I wanted always, and made a rule for myself to read David Deida before dates and following everything I've read. My hirl is so much in love with me, she literally trusts me everything, she makes me feel like a man every time I am with her, love is awesome with her. What you said in this video was 100000% correct, I am glad you spread this message. Hamza, it's amazing to see you progress and to be on this path of self-improvement with you. Keep it up, brother
About wandering mind. Gladly, I'm not thinking about other women, but sometimes I might think about different topic/matters I or my girl need to do. The other day my girl was talking to me, and suddenly I remembered some business that needed to be done by her, and I just ask her about it straight away. The sadness I saw in her eyes was just terrible, like I wasn't even paying attention to her all that time. After that I understood how critical it is, to be fully mindful and present, and not to wander while having a conversation with your loved ones. Moreover, I'm lucky enough to have feminine girl by my side, but sometimes the amount of love she gives just fascinates me, because I'm not able to "generate" such amounts. Thank you for reminder to work further on love I'm giving to my woman.
holy crap i have been on the path to spirituality recently and i was thinking about "am i gonna be single forever ?" lol and your videos just popped , THANKS
I just had this realization last weekend at a festival! You talk from my soul! Thank you for your work Hamza! You have been a very influential person in my life. Ive changed for the better over the last year or so!
8:44 crazy how I had discourse with hamza regarding this same topic about 2 years ago. In these two years hamza seems to have actually become a genuinely changed man. I feel like our values heavily match now slowly
Hamza, I have been following you for a while and LOVE to see how your content has evolved! Your truth and message is so loud and clear. I was beside myself with hives this evening but started listening to your last video about feminine women (I am also a woman) and then this one and I calmed right down. Keep up the great work, you have a clear voice and unique perspective in this space.
The opposite of extreme is still extreme and I feel you went a bit to the other extreme. Spirituality is of great importance, just as providing is. We should just be able to find that balance between wealth, and good character, with putting more emphasis on character though.
I always tell men that listen to a lot of online content that I can give you info that you can never find online… not anymore… you out here spilling the real beans
I used to always be confused about online people's views on women. Women where I live seemed to be vastly more complex and intelligent than whatever people in male spheres were discussing. As it turned out, those guys were only talking about the kinds of women they knew best, partying gold-diggers that normal people would just avoid. In that kind of environment though, it makes sense that they develop a pessimistic and regressive outlook on relationships, women and gender roles.
I am so happy to see you finally shifting away from materialism, the horizontal line of the cross, the past and future to the spiritual vertical like of the cross of the eternal now.
I wasn't watching your videos for a longer period of time. I was just focused on muscle, money, being able to f girls for the last few month but after seeing this I realized that this isn't the way to go for me. From now on I will focus again on me and not on money I do what's right for me. I'll start meditating and journaling again and decrease stressing myself with hustling. I used self-improvement to get to a better point in life but now I know that the better point in life is self-improvement. (I will get fucking rich anyway)
THANK YOU HAMZA IVE BEEN SAYING THIS ABOUT FRESH AND FIT! I even donated to their chat and said "Ladies good men exist but they are in church not in the club. Truly convert to Christianity and you will find good men who arent like egotistical Myron" I believe Myron responded by saying you canttrust religious women because at any moment they can just switch off their religion. BRO WHAT?! XD That's not how religion works bruv. And he's not even a full Muslim as he admits so he wouldn't be able to tell if a girl is lying when they say theyre muslim. Same thing for Christian men and women. I have this sh*t test and feel free to use it Christian men. Whenever I meet a Christian woman I always appear as an athiest and try to charm her the same but just make it clear I dont believe in God with like some joke about it. Or I say im a buddhist. If the girl isnt immediately turned off from that and keeps going then she is not a real Christian because real Christians know Jesus said to only date within the religion. They're Christian in namesake only.
This is so true, I threw away the chance to date someone due to my shallowness. Don’t let this be you. Realise now and lock in a wonderful wholesome women.
An important distinction to make clear is that these women, from my hypothesised theory (not experience), would be attracted to the type of person who has become masculine enough to achieve the goal of something as difficult as making a lot of money. When pursuing a money goal, you must go through Transformational Agony to become the type of person who can achieve that goal. Transitioning from civilian to business owner. It is that character built from TA that attracts similar-minded people.
CONSTRUCTIVE CRITISISM FOR HAMZA: I love Hamza but he roasted all these guys for linking there course and how they CANT teach people to be more conscious and yet he literally just did that at the end of his video I would like to see better delivery on the reference to your course
I don't how but I was reading the way if the superior man just yesterday and today you upload this video I am getting more motivated to become more masculine. Thanks hamza
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation: 00:00 🧠 Many men focus solely on attracting women but lack knowledge on how to make them feel loved and fulfilled in a relationship. 02:27 💑 Building and maintaining love with a woman involves matching her emotional intensity with your consciousness, a concept often overlooked. 03:09 💪 Superficial methods like flaunting material possessions may attract some women, but for more meaningful, loving relationships, deeper qualities matter. 06:09 💰 The idea that wealth and material success guarantee fidelity and love from a partner is a misconception. Many wealthy men still face relationship challenges. 13:54 🌟 The path to attracting genuine, loving, and feminine women often lies in personal growth, presence, and spiritual development, which is rarely discussed in mainstream advice. Made with HARPA AI
I couldn’t agree more with this, if I know my partner is working towards something that he is passionate about and is present with me then I would devote everything to him. It’s simple, I would rather be alone then be in a relationship that they cannot give me all of their spiritual side.
It's so sad and funny at the same time, seeing the manlet, 5'2 Pajeeth ganeshcels, who think they will get a girlfriend, if they listen to this guy. If Hamza wasn't 6'0 he would be watching tails lol.
Except that cow worshipping H%nd%s have the lowest smv in the west. Everyone on the internet, seems to know this one manlet who has a wife, anecdotal evidence, doesn't disprove the BP. I shower and wash my face, you're probably one of those guys who think having acne, means you're a Jeffery. Can't blame you, you're below 16
Hamza, I honestly am so grateful for what you are saying, it made open my mind. Your impact on our lives cannot be described by words. I hope you continue on your journey and keep helping us that way.
I really like this idea about spirituality. I'll be interested if you nade more videos about spirituality since it's something that's new to me as well and want to learn more about it
The problem with Hamzas message is that he himself doesn't even have a high value woman, I remember him saying she had hookups in the past. So him saying this is ironic
Most based video you've ever posted, the red pill will forever attract the worst kinds of women, this makes me even more appreciative of my girlfriend.
Listen to this man lol! As a woman, there's nothing more repulsive than those "alpha guys" looking down on ppl less fortunate than them and flashing the money they don't have or stole from someone. Every normal woman will see through the bs. I never cared about men's money. Not bc I don't know how to appreciate fancy things in life, I am a taurus and appreciate luxurious stuff. But that never was a factor in dating. I'd rather date men who experienced struggles and understand life than arrogant "alpha guy" who had it easier than others so now he thinks he's smarter than everyone else. Some women chase those "high value" men and they typically stay single mothers bc if he could buy you, he can buy other chick too.
You can have men who struggled and are also alpha males Tate is one example as he grew up in poverty but also became a humble millionaire who actually respects women. I’m guessing that’s what most women want, not just a broke guy with no career.
Hamza, I honestly didn't expect this video from you. The last time I watched you was when you did the Jeffery and Adonis animations. You're not the red pill Hamza from before. In fact, you have made things click in my head and helped in ways I couldn't have imagined. You have grown and learned a lot throughout this year and your change is drastic and noticeable. Please do not change. Your channel feels safe and instinctive. All the best to my friend. Thank you ❤
A long time ago I saw a video of Hamza video pop up on my recommended he made me feel like shit honestly but I had to think why do I feel that why I’ve changed my life a lot since then and his videos have been super helpful but I agree the more recent stuff he’s been doing has been much more enlightening
This made me realize how amazing my girlfriend is, why she is that way, and why I am so attracted to her. How special the bond we have is and how it makes both of our lives better. It also made me motivated to put more work into myslef to maintain and improve the relationship. It has been a while since watching one of your videos, but did not dissapoint. Keep up the good work!
Amen brother. I'm also lucky to have a 10% gal on my hands as well
@@janntyler5950 Grateful for your happiness bro :))
Don't fuck it up!
same bro
@@janntyler5950 be her 10% man frfr
I don't usually comment on videos, but as a girl who's been watching this channel since almost the beginning, I love seeing how much you have grown in the past year. Much love!
u really watched him consistently 😮
So is hamza correct?
Thank you for this. I needed this. My girl loves me, she’s a REAL WOMAN. And when I say real woman I mean exactly how you describe a high value woman. she never cared about how much money I had, and we’ve been together for almost 2 years, I’ve been broke with no money and I’ve had some money over these years. But regardless of money or what I had she never ever left my side and never stopped showing me love, and always supported me through everything. while all I think of is how to give her more material things or money to provide for her in the future, which is ofcourse important but like you described, I didn’t show her real love, I wasn’t masculine and I didn’t even touch on the spirituality. That was the biggest problem we had in our relationship Cuse I couldn’t be that 10% who knows how to love a woman. Everything you described in the video is exactly what she says is wrong with me too, I don’t show her love and affection and masculinity. And after this video I couldn’t agree more. Thank you for making this video it was really a blessing. I will try my best to implement change for her so I can make my woman happy like a real man.
A "day-one" girlfriend/wife is the best gift a man could have.
@lostchicken420short attention span
@lostchicken420 wrong decision
@lostchicken420Low attention span fool.
@lostchicken420Gold-fish attention span.
I'm so glad you're going in this direction. Spiritual love between men and women is so broken at the moment. Casual sex just makes us resentful and psychopathic. We're meant to work together. Men and women are meant to cooperate and love each other. Absolutely nothing compares to sex inside a loving relationship. Casual sex no matter how attractive the girl is it doesn't even come close. When you know each others body's and trust the person completely you literally lose yourself in the moment and become totally present. There's nothing like it. It's not like soft or romantic like it's portrayed in the movies but it's like primal. You can feel the other person's soul if done correctly. And afterwards you don't get that sort of disgusted feeling and you actually want to spend more time with her.
Hamza is literally the person that I listen more in the last 3 years wtf ❤
Natural Hypertrophy has a very good analogy for masculine and feminine energy. Masculine energy is the rock and feminine is the water that hits the rock over and over again. The rock has to stand still.
Crazy to see you having the same thought, Hamza.
NH is underrated.
@@morgziliuz1972 facts bro
@@morgziliuz1972NH is the best seld improvement youtuber even tho hes actually none
Its in the book " the way of the superior man" by david deida.
Thats why its so popular in the masculinity space.
Can u please explain it for me??
love to see his progress from "materialistic approach" to "spirituality"
I had an epiphany around 9 minutes into this video. I was on a date with a girl and offered to pay for her food. She declined. At first I was confused because of all the things people say online about how all a girl wants is for you to provide for her, but now I realize she wouldn’t have thought differently of me if I hadn’t offered or not. Because she doesn’t care about my materialistic things. Genuinely thank you Hamza, this is your best content yet
And that's some proof right there
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sometimes actually (not always) a girl also doesn't make you pay if she doesn't like you because she doesn't want you to get any impressions or have any reciprocal sexual expectations. Though, sometimes it actually means that they really really like you as well. As always with women its about reading the room. It's like when a chick stares at you. It can mean she's creeped out or it could mean she finds you cute.
STAY HARD BROTHERS . . .
Huh?
I already have an erec- never mind...
send me a pic then
HOORA
Staying hard or hardly staying
5:34 When you said "your mind wandering and thinking of something else" I thought I was effed cause I am the type of person who can't help but think about his hobbies, interests or the projects I have been working on or thinking about working on for a while. I also go on "thinking trips" whenever she(or anyone for that matter) says something that will trigger my thinking and I will start thinking of different possibilities and outcomes of the topic in discussion (it could be something as simple as some short trip we were planning or some deep philosophical topic we might be discussing on or the discussion on some show we were talking about). My heart dropped thinking I won't be able to do all this tinkering and wondering when with her talking and discussing about stuff. But I was relieved when he said it was about "thinking about other women". And hearing this relieved me because even if I ain't perfect in this, I have belief in myself that I can conquer this aspect. It also helps me thinking as I would think to myself "How would I personally feel if I got to know my girlfriend was thinking about someone else in the same way as I am right now" and it makes me realize how much of a crappy rhing this is. So in all this is an aspect I can totally control myself in
Overthinking is a blessing and a curse.
@@senka369 I agree. Have come up with a lot of my solutions to mathematical and physics problems for my entrance exams while overthinking(to the point that I even dreamt of solving the questions in my dreams. I even once got a solution to my question in a dream even lol)
lol those math questions in your dreams make so much sense, you’re not alone
When I got in a relationship almost a year back at the height of the Tate hysteria after hopping on self improvement and working on myself I realized there was zero content for what to do AFTER you’ve reached this goal of a relationship. How to care for it, how to balance it with work, how to love properly. 99% of self improvement content acts like a gf is the end goal but it’s simply a step along the way. There is a void on the internet for this kind of content. And due to that many many men will fuck it up when they find that extremely rare wife material woman who they click with. And that pain will stay with them forever once they learn how brainwashed they were by the redpill. Thank you Hamza for this content. It’s essential for healthy masculinity and will make many men, women, couples and marriages happier in the long run. Keep it coming brother you are doing gods work.
Matching her emotional intensity with consciousness is a serious fucking struggle that takes a ton of work. It’s when she loves you so tenderly, yet you love her and feel like you are almost lagging behind where she is at. And you feel like shit for it. You need to work to truly explore your love to dig deep into those emotions you’ve never really felt or explored before. To let go, to understand. To love. It’s something you won’t truly understand until you are in a relationship. But at least now it won’t hit you like a truck and confuse the shot out of you like it did for me.
couldn't agree more
Every entrepreneur reading this: “Hmm… a gap in the market, you say?”
@@Simplified_Improvement_😂
brainwashed they were by the redpill ? in what way ?
well said
That's literally what I am looking for in a relationship. I just wanted to sincerely thank you for reaffirming my belief. I'm single still but I'm on my way up.
For me personally, i honestly feel like my complete lack of any dating experience as a 20 year old virgin is my reason. I don’t know how to exist as a man in a relationship with a woman. I also grew up never once seeing any semblance of love shown between my parents. Because of this I’m just convinced myself that the first relationship I get into ( that as a man of god I’m hoping to be my last) is going to be a massive failure. Even now that I’m getting my finances and income in check I don’t know how I’m going to manage to successfully be in a relationship with a woman. It’s like getting a complex job with zero past experience in that field and also not receiving any training from said job.
You will have to try your best, probably fail, learn from your mistakes than repeat
I have also never seen any love between my parents. I guess it fu*ks up your dating life.
Though the thing with your parents is a problem, i dont think that having no dating experience makes you any worse at being in a relationship. Bro just let your instincts come through and do whatever feels natural to you. "I dont know how to exist as a man in a relationship with a woman", yes bro, yes you do, every one of your ancestors knew it before you and you know it aswell, you think fucking cavemen went onto youtube to search a guide on how to be in a relationship (although thinking about it that can definitely improve it)
I'm a 22 year old kissless virgin, dating life is non-existent and abstract for me, and honestly I don't see much shame in that. On one hand, everyone wants attention and affection, but on the other I don't want to get complacent and comfortable, settling for average pay, average life, average girl and couple of nuts a week - thinking about being like that disgusts me. So you can say that not dating has its positives. I need to be stronger and more masculine first, and mind you I'm fit, about to graduate university with a decent degree, and not broke so I guess I could find someone, but I don't want to. As for your post, we need to strive to be masculine, successful with our goals, caring and a perfect relationship will come.
You don't need experience, what you need is knowledge and self sureness, read a couple books that help you understand women and figure out exactly who u are, and just by doing this u are better than 99% of guys, and even tho u don't have any experience, u will be better to her than 99% of men, and also, a lot of women want someone who hasn't had relationship trauma and has all the love in the world to give to them, so see it like that, remove this brainwash of needing experience, work on yourself and u won't need any experience and if u meet a loving woman, she will never wanna leave you because of how sure u are in urself, how u treat her and understanding of women and how well u know urself. The way of the superior man is a perfect book to start off with.
Thank you Hamza, my girlfriend is the definition of what you call a « pure woman »,
she’s loving me regardless of the situation, always trying to make me happy and I do the same for her.
She’s hyper sensitive so she lives her emotions with high intensity, which means she feels a lot the love I give her every time we interact.
This is beautiful and I wish everyone could experience such a beautiful relationship.
If you keep reading, please give again your full attention to Hamza, he’s so right about this 👆
How do y’all even find this woman?? On school?
@@thanos5229tf you mean school. You find these girls randomly of in places like social gatherings work places ect.
How have you even found her, man?
Could you please tell us more about your relationship bro. We want to learn
Thank you Hamza for hopping of from those short highly edited videos and going back to this kind of content, having someone actually think and share his insights is something truly valuable, and I'm greateful for having discovered this channel.
A few years ago I lost all my friends, almost dropped off university, had alcohol, porn, social media and videogame addiction, social anxiety and depression. One day one of your videos popped off in my recommended: "How to win a street fight" or something like that. Since I was afraid of leaving my house, I watched it "just in case". After that I dived more into your channel, and started journaling, meditating and doing introspective work.
2 years later I'm here, and I can finally say that I'm on the right path.
I don't ever comment on anyones videos and made this account to remain anonymus, and know this doesn't have anything to do with this video's topic, but I just wanted to thank you for being the lighthouse that guided me through these dangerous waters, I hope everything goes well for you and for anyone reading this message, thank you ^^
As a woman, thank you ❤
bro damn. the USP about you is your honesty and authencity. I WAS STRUGGLING BADLI 1 YEAR AGO your videos changed me 360 degree . mahn you deserve to be appreciated for your work. and reason why you impact is your AUTHENTICITY
Tbh the amount of value you gave your people is unmeasurable you've change so many lifes, indeed you deserve all good
I think that the worst mistake I've made in relationships is not loving the other person enough. I really want a relationship to just love and be loved and be cuddled tbf
True
He’s literally telling you not to listen to influencers because they’re trying to sell you a program while he’s simultaneously selling you a program
You missed the whole message gang 💀
lets get that ratio @@ItzzzDre
To be fair, it’s not like he’s ever claimed that you can’t succeed without it. He’s stated many times it’s not necessary for you at all to buy his program.
Have you noticed that he’s uploaded hundreds of videos with real useful advice for free?
Hamza ain't greedy. His videos have changed my life and I haven't needed to spend a penny.
Thank you, Hamza. You’ve been such a mentor to me over the years. I’ve improved because of you, and this was the next step for me.
Spot on Hamza. When you stay true to yourself, more people show you their true colors. It's so beautiful what honesty does. Matching her emotional intensity to your consciousness means describing how you both see the word through your experiences and personalities. Share your thoughts on different subjects and provide insight. Ask questions that go deeper into her emotional rationality and get to know her on a deeper level. Ask her questions based on whatever she talks about and sometimes even challenge what she says. Test her just like she tests you. When you give her the same energy and you're not afraid to just be yourself watch how she instantly becomes feminine. That's when she loves you. When you're chill, laid back, work hard, stoic and stay true to yourself because you love yourself then what can she really complain about? She can't.
Basically she'll try to gas light you and as the male you're suppose to be so chill and not give a fuck that you not only own yourself but can control your emotions and be able to withstand extreme pressure and stress. And yes, once she feels comfortable enough around you, she will try to gas light you or "test you" as they say, because females are annoying like that. Why? Because females are just like that.
This resonated a lot with me Hamza, before I entered the self-improvement/redpill space three years ago I was very into spirituality and reaching a higher level of consciousness with meditation, around that time I bought Sadhguru's Inner Engineering program and in my opinion is the only program/course that talks about spirituality and consciousness in a very logical way. I even learned the Surya Kriya practice from a certified yoga teacher in my city and that was when I really understood that spirituality is an important part of life but it isn't being promoted on social media by any masculine influencer. I'am very grateful with you Hamza for talking about this topic and relate it to self-improvement in such a good way.
Thank you for telling this to these guys man, because most of these young kids and even grown men don’t understand the differences between good women and the undesirables.
MONEY DOES NOT GET AND KEEP A GOOD WOMAN.
I realised after pursuing a hedonistic lifestyle that I wasn't truly happy. The girls I got with were all fake and sure in the moment I enjoyed it but it left me empty and soulless. Thank you Hamza for speaking to truth and showing that there is a different path, a non hedonistic one that leads to long term fulfilling happyness
You know it’s so much that schools ACTUALLY need to teach. I’m 20 some, and I learned more after graduating school. My point is that a lot of teenagers are in hedonistic relationships. Which fuck the lifestyle, the teenagers are getting pregnant without a knowing path. Good thing there’s Hamza’s out there that, and overall more men trying to really help men mentally, and physically
everytime hamza goes off on his fellow creators in this space, he selling something
Hamza has grown so fucking much. It’s not about making big money and dating tones of girls.
Life is short, and true contentment doesn’t comes from materialism.
Focus on good relationships and on being the man you want to be at every moment.
This is what I always thought about. I always felt that spiritual side is waaaay more important. But I couldn't get any girl, then I started listening to you, Hamza. You helped me improve myself to be able to attract women, but I couldn't really keep the relationship, because girl I would get in relationships with were real feminine women, who didn't care about alpha male bs. But all the advice I had was from alpha males. Only recently, in may 2023 when I got in a relationship with girls with prefect values for me, I decided to change my way of dating, to make it more spiritual, to give as much love as possible, just like I wanted always, and made a rule for myself to read David Deida before dates and following everything I've read. My hirl is so much in love with me, she literally trusts me everything, she makes me feel like a man every time I am with her, love is awesome with her. What you said in this video was 100000% correct, I am glad you spread this message. Hamza, it's amazing to see you progress and to be on this path of self-improvement with you. Keep it up, brother
If I find someone I can really relate and bond with, then love would never be a problem
About wandering mind. Gladly, I'm not thinking about other women, but sometimes I might think about different topic/matters I or my girl need to do. The other day my girl was talking to me, and suddenly I remembered some business that needed to be done by her, and I just ask her about it straight away. The sadness I saw in her eyes was just terrible, like I wasn't even paying attention to her all that time. After that I understood how critical it is, to be fully mindful and present, and not to wander while having a conversation with your loved ones. Moreover, I'm lucky enough to have feminine girl by my side, but sometimes the amount of love she gives just fascinates me, because I'm not able to "generate" such amounts. Thank you for reminder to work further on love I'm giving to my woman.
The way he says "So yeaaahh I got a money program....Hehehaa heehahaah" always cracks me up. 🤣
holy crap i have been on the path to spirituality recently and i was thinking about "am i gonna be single forever ?" lol and your videos just popped , THANKS
I just had this realization last weekend at a festival! You talk from my soul! Thank you for your work Hamza! You have been a very influential person in my life. Ive changed for the better over the last year or so!
I can listen to this guy all day.
8:44 crazy how I had discourse with hamza regarding this same topic about 2 years ago. In these two years hamza seems to have actually become a genuinely changed man. I feel like our values heavily match now slowly
This is so deep and very important thank you Hamza🪬
This video had perfect timing. Really needed this.
Hamza, I have been following you for a while and LOVE to see how your content has evolved! Your truth and message is so loud and clear.
I was beside myself with hives this evening but started listening to your last video about feminine women (I am also a woman) and then this one and I calmed right down.
Keep up the great work, you have a clear voice and unique perspective in this space.
Well done brother, this is exactly the thought I had ever since day 1 of my jeffery to adonis journey.
Thank you hamza for finally explaining this in a way I can understand. Much love ❤❤
The opposite of extreme is still extreme and I feel you went a bit to the other extreme. Spirituality is of great importance, just as providing is. We should just be able to find that balance between wealth, and good character, with putting more emphasis on character though.
I always tell men that listen to a lot of online content that I can give you info that you can never find online… not anymore… you out here spilling the real beans
Last two videos were golden. You've grown a lot. They should be uploaded onto the main channel.
I used to always be confused about online people's views on women. Women where I live seemed to be vastly more complex and intelligent than whatever people in male spheres were discussing. As it turned out, those guys were only talking about the kinds of women they knew best, partying gold-diggers that normal people would just avoid. In that kind of environment though, it makes sense that they develop a pessimistic and regressive outlook on relationships, women and gender roles.
Hamza please make a full guide on this spiritual love , You're family my brother, I'm proud of you ❤
Daily videos like that will be very appreciated, Hamza
Femininity is change, chaos like the ocean, masculinity is stillness, groundedness.
1:25 100% agree. This happened to me and it really sucks
Needed this, especially after my breakup
You are evolving brother
Stay consistent
I love the old format video, keep it up HAMZA
I am so happy to see you finally shifting away from materialism, the horizontal line of the cross, the past and future to the spiritual vertical like of the cross of the eternal now.
bro every time I watch you I lose hope
I wasn't watching your videos for a longer period of time. I was just focused on muscle, money, being able to f girls for the last few month but after seeing this I realized that this isn't the way to go for me. From now on I will focus again on me and not on money I do what's right for me. I'll start meditating and journaling again and decrease stressing myself with hustling. I used self-improvement to get to a better point in life but now I know that the better point in life is self-improvement. (I will get fucking rich anyway)
Beard is looking good 💯
Thank you for the message 🙏
Been another long ahh time since I watch a Hammy vid, bro looks different and staring to my soul GYAT!
3:22 I burst out laughing 😂😂
THANK YOU HAMZA
IVE BEEN SAYING THIS ABOUT FRESH AND FIT!
I even donated to their chat and said "Ladies good men exist but they are in church not in the club. Truly convert to Christianity and you will find good men who arent like egotistical Myron"
I believe Myron responded by saying you canttrust religious women because at any moment they can just switch off their religion. BRO WHAT?! XD That's not how religion works bruv.
And he's not even a full Muslim as he admits so he wouldn't be able to tell if a girl is lying when they say theyre muslim. Same thing for Christian men and women.
I have this sh*t test and feel free to use it Christian men. Whenever I meet a Christian woman I always appear as an athiest and try to charm her the same but just make it clear I dont believe in God with like some joke about it. Or I say im a buddhist. If the girl isnt immediately turned off from that and keeps going then she is not a real Christian because real Christians know Jesus said to only date within the religion. They're Christian in namesake only.
This is so true, I threw away the chance to date someone due to my shallowness. Don’t let this be you. Realise now and lock in a wonderful wholesome women.
Hamza i missed you, thank you for uploading.
An important distinction to make clear is that these women, from my hypothesised theory (not experience), would be attracted to the type of person who has become masculine enough to achieve the goal of something as difficult as making a lot of money. When pursuing a money goal, you must go through Transformational Agony to become the type of person who can achieve that goal. Transitioning from civilian to business owner. It is that character built from TA that attracts similar-minded people.
thank you hazma i've realized this months ago when started reading the the way of the superior mAN
CONSTRUCTIVE CRITISISM FOR HAMZA: I love Hamza but he roasted all these guys for linking there course and how they CANT teach people to be more conscious and yet he literally just did that at the end of his video I would like to see better delivery on the reference to your course
Exactly. No problem with people selling their courses as long as they bring value, but what he just said was hypocritical.
I think Hamza is exploring and going extreme on spirituality and then he will adjust and make another vid that might not be as extreme
I don't how but I was reading the way if the superior man just yesterday and today you upload this video I am getting more motivated to become more masculine. Thanks hamza
Hamza u have level up so much bro, keep going man!
Hamza the hero we do not deserve but absolutely need!
i wish this was posted a month earlier before i got heartbroken
More spiritual stuff please. I've been sesrching for this
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation:
00:00 🧠 Many men focus solely on attracting women but lack knowledge on how to make them feel loved and fulfilled in a relationship.
02:27 💑 Building and maintaining love with a woman involves matching her emotional intensity with your consciousness, a concept often overlooked.
03:09 💪 Superficial methods like flaunting material possessions may attract some women, but for more meaningful, loving relationships, deeper qualities matter.
06:09 💰 The idea that wealth and material success guarantee fidelity and love from a partner is a misconception. Many wealthy men still face relationship challenges.
13:54 🌟 The path to attracting genuine, loving, and feminine women often lies in personal growth, presence, and spiritual development, which is rarely discussed in mainstream advice.
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I finally figured it out. Love seeing u change into this instead kf that red pill bs
We need more if these
You are evolving to a good point Hamza.. Congratz.
Thank you very much for this video! I'll keep it in mind and make the right steps in the right direction!
bruv you proved you CAN sell a program on this lmfoaoooooo
Just went through it, thanks Hamza.
Good one hamz, hope to see more in the future
Hamza please make a video on spiritual masculine energy
A day one girlfriend is the best gift a man could get
I couldn’t agree more with this, if I know my partner is working towards something that he is passionate about and is present with me then I would devote everything to him. It’s simple, I would rather be alone then be in a relationship that they cannot give me all of their spiritual side.
now i know why i am hearing Hamza saying thins about consciousness in this dating related video.
Thank you for that, I appreciate it a lot🤙
Hamza. I got SO much respect for you brother! I can't wait for the day I meet you.
wow top tier vid man
It's so sad and funny at the same time, seeing the manlet, 5'2 Pajeeth ganeshcels, who think they will get a girlfriend, if they listen to this guy. If
Hamza wasn't 6'0 he would be watching tails lol.
Except that cow worshipping H%nd%s have the lowest smv in the west. Everyone on the internet, seems to know this one manlet who has a wife, anecdotal evidence, doesn't disprove the BP.
I shower and wash my face, you're probably one of those guys who think having acne, means you're a Jeffery. Can't blame you, you're below 16
Cold showers, meditation, journaling, reading, and studying. Do All of these to keep that masculine stillness.
I just started watching the 8 ways to love a women before you posted this.
Spiritual wisdom over here!
the first time i heard hamza mention artists
Hamza, I honestly am so grateful for what you are saying, it made open my mind. Your impact on our lives cannot be described by words. I hope you continue on your journey and keep helping us that way.
youre dominating youtube lately bro
I really like this idea about spirituality. I'll be interested if you nade more videos about spirituality since it's something that's new to me as well and want to learn more about it
hamzas going crazy
The problem with Hamzas message is that he himself doesn't even have a high value woman, I remember him saying she had hookups in the past. So him saying this is ironic
fr? Can you pls link the video where he said that?
Most based video you've ever posted, the red pill will forever attract the worst kinds of women, this makes me even more appreciative of my girlfriend.
Listen to this man lol! As a woman, there's nothing more repulsive than those "alpha guys" looking down on ppl less fortunate than them and flashing the money they don't have or stole from someone. Every normal woman will see through the bs.
I never cared about men's money. Not bc I don't know how to appreciate fancy things in life, I am a taurus and appreciate luxurious stuff. But that never was a factor in dating.
I'd rather date men who experienced struggles and understand life than arrogant "alpha guy" who had it easier than others so now he thinks he's smarter than everyone else.
Some women chase those "high value" men and they typically stay single mothers bc if he could buy you, he can buy other chick too.
You can have men who struggled and are also alpha males Tate is one example as he grew up in poverty but also became a humble millionaire who actually respects women. I’m guessing that’s what most women want, not just a broke guy with no career.
you have saved my life
the timing of this video is unreal