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I think I normally make pretty good eye contact with others, but when I am crushing on someone I find eye contact more difficult....I think. ENFP here.
I, as an ENFP, feel I like people more often then others. Since forming connection and simply enjoying the way others think is a big part of my life, I could probably fall in love with almost everyone. Keeping a mental checklist of qualities you want in a person is probably best for enfp’s like me because it’s so easy to only see the good in others. Just keep in mind of what you really want in a person so you are getting the same amount of effort you give out back to you. Like I’ve said before, great videos haha :)
Enfps can hide if they have a crush really well like that person would not expect that u like them coming from a guys perspective also guy enfps love cuddles EDIT wow i did not expect this comment to blow up thanks
1) They want to know everything about you. Any detail is a good detail, they want to know you at your deepest level. Bombarding with questions all the time is the norm. 2) They will try to impress you with their emotional maturity and immaturity. They will become more silly or childish than usual. Talk about past relationships or friendships to show off how mature they are 3) They are more mellow than usual when they are with you. Or they might be much more extroverted, it depends. 4) They will find reasons to be around you. It doesn’t matter what the plan is. 5) They will be more vulnerable in order to see how you will react. They want to know whether you can handle it. 6) They share what’s going on in their immediate life, like movies, videos, videogames, etc. 7) They will make more eye contact and/or become good listeners.
When I met my ENFP s/o for the first time, I was presented with one of the most complex emotional and reflective statements I've ever heard: "When you meet someone for the first time, it seems like you are the type to sit back and observe the situation first before engaging with the person" (He had been reading and analysing me) followed by a series of other complex questions, lol. He definitely sensed an "emotional intelligence equal", and therefore decided to keenly examine my emotional maturity by gauging my reaction towards a series of complex emotional questions. Only later on in the relationship did the more childish side surface, but the initial emotional maturity was very intriguing and I realised that he was flaunting his feathers (strongest traits), while also trying to examine my emotional maturity. I felt like he could see through my intentions much deeper than most people. Granted, I wasn't intimidated. It felt a lot like a soul-mate connection expressed through few words, and lots of intuition. ENFPs seem to understand the complex emotional nature of the INFJ, much better than any other type I've encountered. I have this deep suspicion that ENFP and INFJ are essentially the same at the core (or soul). And yes, Fi either hates you or loves you in excess. ENFPs in love = HERE IS EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT ME (AND I KNOW, YOU DIDN'T ASK). FYI: this never ends, lol.
This is the relationship I pray I can have with an INFJ one day, that is kind of how I act as a person tbh I mean I wouldn’t mind marrying someone who ISN’T an INFJ, but I feel like other than fellow ENFPs, INFJs understand my type in a way that blows my mind.
Yeah, as an ENFP, I constantly read people. I can tell their insecurities and strengths almost immediately. Maybe this is my empathic nature, but I try so hard to understand every individual. If I can't figure their deeper part out, than the connection might not truly be there, even though I enjoy jokes and random funny moments.
I feel like this is me (INFJ) with the ENFP I went on two amazing dates with, but he just keeps dissapearing after the dates and I feel like I have to pull him out of whatever hole he is in. Something I would normally never have the guts to do, I prefer to observe and wait untill I show my true feelings. But with him, I don't know, when we were together, everything clicks, but then just nothing.
I have literally asked a person what type of dogs they like out of nowhere! It was the dumbest thing but I just wanted to know everything about what they thought!
Lol this is soo me! And bruh its not the dumbest question ever you know that! We know that as soon as they said whats their favorite in things, we can just connect the dots in that person trying to figure it out what type of person he/she is and their personality HAHAHAHA SO ENFP!!! 😆😂🙌🏼
I thought this was going to be liking in general not as a potential mate. ENFP'S are so good at being nice and polite and engaging that its hard to tell if they are just acting that way or if they genuinely like you. At least its hard for me to tell. I'm no good at reading people. -INTJ
It is about liking someone in general, too. The only difference is whether or not there is sexual attraction as well as friendship, but at first, I treat everyone the same. And yes, it can be confusing to others. Like, I'm a straight woman, and people always think I'm flirting, but they don't notice that I treat other women pretty much the same as men. Still, it's not just an act - we really like people, would smile and banter and try to make you comfortable, but if we REALLY like you and are interested in more, like a real friendship or even romantic relationship, we spend are always around you. There might be 20 other people in the room, but someone, you're the only one I'm focused on. I ask you questions about your love life, favourite food, favourite TV shows, your family, I would touch your hair, hug you spontanously, or might even get angry at you. I mean, I don't bother fighting with someone if I don't care about him.
V. Hansen I am an enfp and my hubby is an intj... been together 20 years, married 17... were so much alike it’s great and bad! Lol learning about each other’s personality has helped me to not be so offended with his harsh tones! Lol He is learning to deal with my emotional stuff! Lol it’s interesting! God help our kids 😂😂😂😂😂😂 We are crazy about each other but he’s also a turd. It’s honestly a good relationship in general. I recall when I met him, I sat down right by him and felt like I knew him all my life. He’s taught me to be tougher and I have taught him to be softer. In my opinion, it’s a good match. Oh and as an enfp.. I CANT be fake with anyone ever ever... so how we act is what it is!
MAKING EYE CONTACT IS HARD FOR ME TOO BUT MY INFJ GIRLFRIEND SAID I ALWAYS STARE AT HER SO YEAH, WE ENFPS LOVE TO STARE AT THE ONES WE LOVE!! THAT IS A VERY GOOD POINT!
i love enfps. as an infp, i feel like you guys are my favorite extroverted type. yall are so weird just like us so we end up making the best inside jokes together. especially once we figure out the other wont judge you for it
Eclectic INFJ here. Loved your video. I desire nothing more than to share myself and my passions with an ENFP. There is one who was singing a silly song when I happened to be sitting within earshot of him. The biggest smile came across my face and I started quietly to laugh, I couldn’t help it. Both you and your energy were attractive to me. An ENFP must be the personality type for me. Thank you for sharing.🦋
I have an enfp friend and it's like you think you KNOW them but..dun dun dun...you don't. I'm an infp and my friend's presence still overwhelms me. My Fi is shook.
I love this!! Lol I like slowly reveling my personality to people...plus it shows I like them if that is the case, I know I can trust them with more of my weird self. Lol
Eye contact !! That’s totally me!! It’s so hard for me to make eye contact with others and thought it’s just me but now I know it’s because of ENFP? Thanks so much! The rest of the points are all spotted on !! Well done
Violet Lee thank God! I always thought something was wrong with me! Same! I can with those I’m super close with (husband and kids) but it’s hard to with most others.
I love to watch this video with no sound. The thoughts and emotions expressed by your face (your eyes in particular) are heaven on earth for me, there’s not a single split second or micro expression that isn’t perfection and that my soul doesn’t thirst to receive. Never mind that I understand you (that’s elementary) - it’s that I need you. Everything your face expresses is so completely right - has the perfection of a sphere, no beginning, no ending. I’m hardcore INFJ, so I guess that’s why. Sigh.
YES! You described me to a T! I always get "Are you writing a book?" lol. I really hyperfocus when interested so it's not as difficult to keep eye contact but day to day conversations my eyes drift and the response is them looking to see what I'm looking at. I have to try and pull myself back to the eye contact.
Enfp- this is so brilliantly spot on and insightful. I wouldn’t have even been able to identify this stuff on my own. Are you just massively self aware?! You’re great at this, thanks for the video :)
Enfp here, definitely hard for me to maintain long term eye contact but if I'm attracted to someone, my eye contact totally changes and I feel like my eyeballs turn into literal googly eyes. Everything you touched on was spot on! Thanks for sharing! ♡♡
INTJ here! I agree with your ideas. I do think we have to at least have common interest to be compatible. What’s important is the action. Sometimes, people think LOVE is just an emotion. Idealistically, ENFP do things that make them-self improve to become more alike with their counterpart. As an INFJ I always love to give ideas for people to improve, most of them think I’m weird because I’m extra AF but this is just me, gotta find an ENFP who listen to me haha:)
I'm a enfp cancer with adhd. I wear the crown of emotions and feelings. It very exhausting. I cant keep up with me. How can someone feel 10 emotions at once then feel a whole other 10 differnt in the next 5 minutes. My soul is a constant tug a war. So th biggest attraction for me is someone who can understand and/or absorb all my feeling and emotions and know how to handle them. And person that does will get the treasure that is a enfp heart of gold and undying love. It's taken me 20 mins to write this Sigh
Im an enfp too & I understand. The person you are looking for is yourself lol. Yes, we feel a lot of things. Yes, it can be overwhelming but learn to master your own emotions because it’s not the job of someone else to do that for you. It’s your own. It took me a long, LONG time to realize that. Mediation was monumental in my life. Because I was so scattered I actually hired a teacher & took classes. This will change your life. Please, please consider learning yourself through something like meditation. I promise it’ll change your life
Yeah. We are actually really mature but we love acting childish lol. I Mean, that's how I am Everything you said is so true man. The fact that we act a certain way to see how the other reacts is so spot on. I can't.believe there are people so much like me around the world.
Let's wander to The Feelings Forest as one (but not spend too much time there). Thanks for the cool videos it's good to hear from a fellow male ENFP and feel sweet validation
Enfp were created just to befriend, adopt or marry an infj. You guys are just great human beings overall. Without enfps the world would be so depressing. -an infj
I am an enfp and i have a "lets get to know each other" list of questions i go down to figure people (that I like or want to be friends with) out its got over 500 questons on it at this point but hey im getting deep with my people and I love knowing more about them so i can love them better!
Some enfp videos only describe 80% of my personality but yours seem to describe me perfectly. Makes me feel good knowing I'm not the only one that acts like this.
Omg that’s meeeeee. That’s if I can get the other person to notice me. If I can get them to notice me I will act the exact way you described. We test them out to see how they react to us when we act certain ways. Thank you for the video
I'm an INTJ with repeated unhealthy friendships with ENFPs. One after another, they come in and go out of my life. Usually they invite themselves in to my life and then eventually I kick them out. I'm sick of this pattern. When I meet my next ENFP, I will look out for these signs of interest and nip the thing in the bud. Thanks for the vid.
i just watched some videos which made by people who also are enfp and how cute and cozy you are!!!! its kind very warm emotions which i get, thanks dude
As an ENFP, when I like someone I tend to become overly interested in the little details about the person, often overthinking my own body language and either blabbering or closing off speech completely. If in a group setting I’ll start to leave little hints and clues about the types of people I like, specifically mentioning things the person in question possesses. Usually people don’t really pick up on the hints though because I veil them for fear that someone will notice what I’m trying to say, despite the fact that I desperately want someone to realize what I’m trying to say... #overcomplicatedMuch 😅😰😂
if i like a person...i become childish.. actually feel like a child.. i ask ques not to disturb them.. for keeping the convo going.. but i dont liked to b questioned much.. may b because i generally tell evrything i need to. nyc video
God damnit! THANK YOU! I get self conscious about my eye wandering whilest speaking as well. I automatically fear that it looks like I'm disengaged or insecure about what I'm sharing. Couldn't be further from the truth. I'm actually deeply focusing on the topic as well as being selective with how I'll respond. Great video sir. 😊
I love it.......our emotionaly maturity and emotional immaturity......Yes. People always tell me they would never guess I'm 45 years old. I tell them it's because I act so immature, it's hard to tell. They always say that's not it but I don't know......
Lol, and then there’s me giving people mixed messages because I’m naturally interested in people and I ask literally EVERYONE questions about the most random things
I recognize myself as way too many things ENFP (particularly the flaws) to doubt that I am one. But this isn't the first time I read about ENFPs' inability/discomfort with making eye contact and that is the one thing I can't relate to. I like to stand my grounds as well as show vulnerability, gentleness, etc. (and since I despise fighting) I find this is the only way. But even more so, I feel like it can strengthen connections if you pay attention to cues (if you sense any discomfort, diffuse it, and stuff). But I think it's easy to 'seem' like you're listening or paying attention to what someone says, but sometimes it doesn't really translate. When you do make a point of 'showing' cues that you 'see' the person who is speaking, that in that moment not only do they matter but also that they are heard, that regardless if they have rambled on, or are too soft spoken, have a stutter/a lisp/spoke very very very fast, etc. you are right there along with them... It's nice. :) Of course, maybe it's the saying "eyes are windows to the soul" that I took wayyyyyyyyy too litterally! Or also the fact that I read it helped in one of those body language books. Ha!
True! As an ENFP, I can't make eye contact with the person that I really like. It feels like that person will read everything from my eyes. -being introvert good listener infront of the liked one. -Being mature and immature at the same time, maybe because of our excitements and emotions work together 😂. Strange! Weird! But, we should be loved deeply 🥰
Sweeneytv Well the difference is extrovert to introvert, so I guess depression makes me pull back into myself. Makes sense. Have you tried taking the test when you were in a noticeably altered mood? I would really like to go beyond Myers-Brigg with you though and look at natal chart info. That would be interesting. It's funny, I watched your first video, the Ireland one, because somehow I found myself sucked into all of these videos about Ireland when I started watching one channel in particular. Then your video popped up. I had no idea that you did so much on Myers- Brigg and personality traits until... well just today actually, LOL. I think you're pretty spot-on with a lot of what I've heard you say, I haven't watched all your videos yet of course, LOL, but I definitely agree with what I've heard so far. However I do feel like there's a lot more to it than that as well. Personality and the way people perceive things and how everyone has their own perception of the same thing, has always absolutely fascinated me. That doesn't even begin to cover it or scratch the surface, but I'm just typing this fast because I really actually should be asleep right now, the sun is up and I have yet to go to bed. (Again...oy) As an ENFP or INFP on occasion, you can probably imagine that I have a lot of very in-depth theories and things that I would love to delve into about all of this. This isn't the best platform for it. I'd like to pick your brain sometime though. ;)
The biggest difference of INFP and ENFP is whether you lead with your Ne or with your Fi. Heide Priebe does an excellent job of explaining the differences in her guides; she wrote one for INFP, one for ENFP, and one for the personalities in general. Her writing style to me feels as comfortable as my own; 12/10 would recommend checking her out. Even if you can’t buy the books, she has some excerpts posted online somewhere
BAHAHAHA... “feelings forest”!!! Yes! That’s exactly it AND the stalker questions lol, but eventually after trying so hard to show them you care, when the feeling isn’t reciprocated, the ENFP bitchslap occurs... oh love/life... I find myself rushing in and professing my love and in time I think, did I do this too fast? Is he the right one!? Help, I’m lost in my feeling forest! Good job on the video!
As an INTJ, I love ENFPs because they are chill and don't plan like crazy as we INTJ do, they chillness sometimes let me crazy! But that's what I love about it. The thing is that INTJs see potential in people, and ENFPs like that people say that potential to them. So both wanna be recognized and we give it to each other.
I often have to tell people I meet not to get freaked out by all of the questions I ask about them because I do love feeling new people out when I meet them and if they like a movie I like or love cats or, Hell, like anything I do I will bombard them even moreso.
FEELINGS FOREST! Can we make that happen? I want to live in a place where there's a bunch of people, like a house in a forest, and I can't explain, but I'm writing a book about it! Dream place to live in a forest with people (especially ones who know about Myers Briggs)
haha i like the anime charachter photos at the end of the video. there's even Saitama on it. Anyways, as an enfp i usually will device ways on how this guy will get to notice or like me. I dont also usually take no for an answer. It frustrates me. If the first date didn't worked out well, i would definitely try to make a 2nd try work.
Sometimes I am soo in to a person, but after some time when I know him better, "analyzed" more and I actually know he is not my type, I kinda ignore him, till he just gives up on me... I literally hate telling someone "I don't like you anymore or I think we shouldn't date anymore". And I know this person already fell in love with me or have strong feelings towards me and sometimes I just feel guiltily, because at the beginning of the relationship I kinda see that my interest in him will fade, but I always try to convince myself that I should give him a chance. It's not because the person is not good, it just I'm searching for the perfect partner, for THE partner, so I can' t waste time on someone else, when I already know for sure it's not him. A really important things is freedom! Just give me passive signs that you kinda want to control me and I'm out and you will never understand why! Because I will not mind to explain it to you, just because I think you wouldn't understand it, no, I know you can't understand me/it!
Lollllll to the last part! I had to do a prerecorded video interview the other day and I could not just stare at the camera! Someone said if peoples eyes wonder while speaking it’s because they’re lying. 🤣 Thats so not what was wrong with me. 1. I couldn’t stand staring at myself and pretend I was talking to someone else I was trying to impress and 2. I kept floating off to lalaland and putting myself in the actual places I was speaking about. I couldn’t help it.
Im an INFP hes an Aquarius ENFP we met at work. First he was starring at me then acting flirty then shy. He was litetally vomiting his entire life troubles to me and he magically showed up in the breakroom to have tea every morning exactly when i was there. He works in the kitchen jes a chef you cant tell me theres no tea there. He was always starring alot it would freak me our then he accidentally 😂touched my arm. Acting very strange after all this he didnt ask me out. Bizarre
when I look at you, do don't look so ENFP-ish, but when you started talking, the facial expression, the eye movement, oh, gosh, you look like me when I talk.
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"if you don't have an opinion i wanna know your opinion on why you don't have an opinion" IF IT AINT ME
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HAHA that's so me and so funny to hear it phrased out loud
"We will try to impress you with our emotional maturity...and our emotional immaturity." lmao. Yep.
Hahahahaha so funny but true
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ermmm interesting lol
I feel called out. 💀
guilty
i feel like enfps dont get equal value of what they give out...sad
karan karan 100% agree
Yep
I'm an INFP and I definitely give an equal amount, if not more to ENFPs.
but we dont rly mind
Yes!!!
I think I normally make pretty good eye contact with others, but when I am crushing on someone I find eye contact more difficult....I think. ENFP here.
im finding my eye contact with you hard😍
same here
itsbygrayce1 yasss same. I just can’t look at them out of nerves
I'm great with both, but a lil more self-conscious with the latter.. 😍 lol
It depends on the chemistry. Sometimes I get shy and blush and other times I might hard-core, eye penetrating stare deep into his eyes 💥💫💯
Emotional maturity and immaturity.... Lol, yup. I am ENFP and that's spot on.
I love this, INFJ's are already people who love to study others, so getting question and examined for once is a special feeling.
I'm an infj too and I totally agree
INFJ here with an ENFP partner, I totally agree. We have such deep conversations too it’s wonderful!
It would freak us INFJs out at first but if you don't give up and you're genuinely trying to get to know us, we'll open up.
@@mistyrainbowshimmer so true! Even being questioned about yourself is a brain pause. 😅
I, as an ENFP, feel I like people more often then others. Since forming connection and simply enjoying the way others think is a big part of my life, I could probably fall in love with almost everyone. Keeping a mental checklist of qualities you want in a person is probably best for enfp’s like me because it’s so easy to only see the good in others. Just keep in mind of what you really want in a person so you are getting the same amount of effort you give out back to you. Like I’ve said before, great videos haha :)
Cheers!
Totally get what you mean, haha... This is cool to have this little community of like minded people here.
I really love thoughts. I fall in love with his mind first. These rest needs to follow logically with compatibility on a realistic & long-term level.
This is so true.
Dead ass my infp sister keeps a check list on her phone 😂
you guys are adorable. INFJ here :)
Aww so sweet we love you
[ insert witty response here ]
I’m an infj too
hellojane Awww, thank you so much! You rock 💞
No you're adorable ❤️
This is one of the most accurate ENFP videos I've watched.
Enfps can hide if they have a crush really well like that person would not expect that u like them coming from a guys perspective also guy enfps love cuddles
EDIT wow i did not expect this comment to blow up thanks
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1) They want to know everything about you. Any detail is a good detail, they want to know you at your deepest level. Bombarding with questions all the time is the norm.
2) They will try to impress you with their emotional maturity and immaturity. They will become more silly or childish than usual. Talk about past relationships or friendships to show off how mature they are
3) They are more mellow than usual when they are with you. Or they might be much more extroverted, it depends.
4) They will find reasons to be around you. It doesn’t matter what the plan is.
5) They will be more vulnerable in order to see how you will react. They want to know whether you can handle it.
6) They share what’s going on in their immediate life, like movies, videos, videogames, etc.
7) They will make more eye contact and/or become good listeners.
When I met my ENFP s/o for the first time, I was presented with one of the most complex emotional and reflective statements I've ever heard: "When you meet someone for the first time, it seems like you are the type to sit back and observe the situation first before engaging with the person" (He had been reading and analysing me) followed by a series of other complex questions, lol. He definitely sensed an "emotional intelligence equal", and therefore decided to keenly examine my emotional maturity by gauging my reaction towards a series of complex emotional questions. Only later on in the relationship did the more childish side surface, but the initial emotional maturity was very intriguing and I realised that he was flaunting his feathers (strongest traits), while also trying to examine my emotional maturity. I felt like he could see through my intentions much deeper than most people. Granted, I wasn't intimidated. It felt a lot like a soul-mate connection expressed through few words, and lots of intuition. ENFPs seem to understand the complex emotional nature of the INFJ, much better than any other type I've encountered. I have this deep suspicion that ENFP and INFJ are essentially the same at the core (or soul).
And yes, Fi either hates you or loves you in excess. ENFPs in love = HERE IS EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT ME (AND I KNOW, YOU DIDN'T ASK). FYI: this never ends, lol.
This is the relationship I pray I can have with an INFJ one day, that is kind of how I act as a person tbh
I mean I wouldn’t mind marrying someone who ISN’T an INFJ, but I feel like other than fellow ENFPs, INFJs understand my type in a way that blows my mind.
@@erika89765 mmm, I hear this a lot about INFJs.. 🔥
Yeah, as an ENFP, I constantly read people. I can tell their insecurities and strengths almost immediately. Maybe this is my empathic nature, but I try so hard to understand every individual. If I can't figure their deeper part out, than the connection might not truly be there, even though I enjoy jokes and random funny moments.
Hey this is 1 year since. But are you two still together?
I feel like this is me (INFJ) with the ENFP I went on two amazing dates with, but he just keeps dissapearing after the dates and I feel like I have to pull him out of whatever hole he is in. Something I would normally never have the guts to do, I prefer to observe and wait untill I show my true feelings. But with him, I don't know, when we were together, everything clicks, but then just nothing.
As an enfp, when I like someone ( that is really rare)I really can't stop smiling, I always smile but I really can't stop having a big smile
"feelings forest"-------accurate..........
yus
INFP girl here. Love my ENFPs
Thank you! INFPs are pretty sound too ya know
Aww I love you
That's sweet 😁✌
Got an infp best friend, he cares a lot about me and understands me and makes me feel happy, I love infps
I am offended! Why are you giving all my secrets like that? Lol
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ENFP OVERTHINKING 😓
sad but tru
Me 😂
sad beans
Too true for me xD
INTJ: hold my beer
That sensual music tho😂😂😂
Didn't notice the music until i had read the comment. Fucked up sensing ;D
What's it called Sweeney..? 🔥 Made me wanna write some lyrics to it.. 💣
Sweeney..? 🤔💭🎧
lmao the ENFP I suspect likes me actually did ask me about my favorite ice cream flavor.
got em
😂😂😂 That's awesome
I asked my crush his favorite dinosaur hahaha
Did they ask you ten million questions completely unrelated to the conversation? Lol
@Altynay Rakhmatullina don't question us. Just go with it 🤣😂 jk
As an EFNP, I enjoy insight from other EFNPs. It's a community of loves to share. Keep it up ❤️
"ENFPs want to share in their experiences"
Hanging out in the feelings forest. YEAH that sounds nice
Twit Knitz LOL when he said that I was like omg that’s right up my alley😂😩
I’ll be in the overthinking tree 💀
I loved this video. I'm an INFJ and I feel like I fully understand where you're coming from.
thank you
i was young and asked someone their , get this, favorite book in the bible....
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Lol 👍
owww 💛
Awww⭐
The vulnerability thing is spot on. If I allow myself to cry in front of you, it means I trust you.
I have literally asked a person what type of dogs they like out of nowhere! It was the dumbest thing but I just wanted to know everything about what they thought!
I asked to my crush his favorite dinosaur lol
@@worldpinkmusic that's deep
@@Sweeneytv aww thank you haha, so sad he just laughed and left me there being ridiculously cool
@@worldpinkmusic the price to pay for coolness
Lol this is soo me! And bruh its not the dumbest question ever you know that! We know that as soon as they said whats their favorite in things, we can just connect the dots in that person trying to figure it out what type of person he/she is and their personality HAHAHAHA SO ENFP!!! 😆😂🙌🏼
I thought this was going to be liking in general not as a potential mate. ENFP'S are so good at being nice and polite and engaging that its hard to tell if they are just acting that way or if they genuinely like you. At least its hard for me to tell. I'm no good at reading people.
-INTJ
It is about liking someone in general, too. The only difference is whether or not there is sexual attraction as well as friendship, but at first, I treat everyone the same. And yes, it can be confusing to others. Like, I'm a straight woman, and people always think I'm flirting, but they don't notice that I treat other women pretty much the same as men.
Still, it's not just an act - we really like people, would smile and banter and try to make you comfortable, but if we REALLY like you and are interested in more, like a real friendship or even romantic relationship, we spend are always around you. There might be 20 other people in the room, but someone, you're the only one I'm focused on. I ask you questions about your love life, favourite food, favourite TV shows, your family, I would touch your hair, hug you spontanously, or might even get angry at you. I mean, I don't bother fighting with someone if I don't care about him.
You're an INTJ, ENFPs will like you 😁
V. Hansen I am an enfp and my hubby is an intj... been together 20 years, married 17... were so much alike it’s great and bad! Lol learning about each other’s personality has helped me to not be so offended with his harsh tones! Lol He is learning to deal with my emotional stuff! Lol it’s interesting! God help our kids 😂😂😂😂😂😂 We are crazy about each other but he’s also a turd. It’s honestly a good relationship in general. I recall when I met him, I sat down right by him and felt like I knew him all my life. He’s taught me to be tougher and I have taught him to be softer. In my opinion, it’s a good match. Oh and as an enfp.. I CANT be fake with anyone ever ever... so how we act is what it is!
@@PreciousPotat 🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
Same here. I'm an intj and I can't read him (enfp).
MAKING EYE CONTACT IS HARD FOR ME TOO BUT MY INFJ GIRLFRIEND SAID I ALWAYS STARE AT HER SO YEAH, WE ENFPS LOVE TO STARE AT THE ONES WE LOVE!! THAT IS A VERY GOOD POINT!
i love enfps. as an infp, i feel like you guys are my favorite extroverted type. yall are so weird just like us so we end up making the best inside jokes together. especially once we figure out the other wont judge you for it
Eye contact is so hard omg and i get distracted soooo easy so if im listening to you for a long time....you know something is up
Eclectic INFJ here. Loved your video. I desire nothing more than to share myself and my passions with an ENFP. There is one who was singing a silly song when I happened to be sitting within earshot of him. The biggest smile came across my face and I started quietly to laugh, I couldn’t help it. Both you and your energy were attractive to me. An ENFP must be the personality type for me. Thank you for sharing.🦋
Glad I could help! :)
I have an enfp friend and it's like you think you KNOW them but..dun dun dun...you don't. I'm an infp and my friend's presence still overwhelms me. My Fi is shook.
I love this!! Lol I like slowly reveling my personality to people...plus it shows I like them if that is the case, I know I can trust them with more of my weird self. Lol
Eye contact !! That’s totally me!! It’s so hard for me to make eye contact with others and thought it’s just me but now I know it’s because of ENFP? Thanks so much! The rest of the points are all spotted on !! Well done
yee :)
Violet Lee thank God! I always thought something was wrong with me! Same! I can with those I’m super close with (husband and kids) but it’s hard to with most others.
I love to watch this video with no sound. The thoughts and emotions expressed by your face (your eyes in particular) are heaven on earth for me, there’s not a single split second or micro expression that isn’t perfection and that my soul doesn’t thirst to receive. Never mind that I understand you (that’s elementary) - it’s that I need you. Everything your face expresses is so completely right - has the perfection of a sphere, no beginning, no ending. I’m hardcore INFJ, so I guess that’s why. Sigh.
YES! You described me to a T! I always get "Are you writing a book?" lol. I really hyperfocus when interested so it's not as difficult to keep eye contact but day to day conversations my eyes drift and the response is them looking to see what I'm looking at. I have to try and pull myself back to the eye contact.
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Enfp- this is so brilliantly spot on and insightful. I wouldn’t have even been able to identify this stuff on my own. Are you just massively self aware?! You’re great at this, thanks for the video :)
just did a bit of studying. haha the rest is luck I guess
Sweeneytv u killin it :3
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Enfp here, definitely hard for me to maintain long term eye contact but if I'm attracted to someone, my eye contact totally changes and I feel like my eyeballs turn into literal googly eyes. Everything you touched on was spot on! Thanks for sharing! ♡♡
INTJ here! I agree with your ideas. I do think we have to at least have common interest to be compatible. What’s important is the action. Sometimes, people think LOVE is just an emotion. Idealistically, ENFP do things that make them-self improve to become more alike with their counterpart. As an INFJ I always love to give ideas for people to improve, most of them think I’m weird because I’m extra AF but this is just me, gotta find an ENFP who listen to me haha:)
I'm a enfp cancer with adhd. I wear the crown of emotions and feelings. It very exhausting. I cant keep up with me. How can someone feel 10 emotions at once then feel a whole other 10 differnt in the next 5 minutes. My soul is a constant tug a war. So th biggest attraction for me is someone who can understand and/or absorb all my feeling and emotions and know how to handle them. And person that does will get the treasure that is a enfp heart of gold and undying love. It's taken me 20 mins to write this
Sigh
sorry to hear about the cancer. check out thetruthaboutcancer . com . sending love!
@@baconbreakfastsandwich lol hahaha no i don't have cancer. I meant the zodiac. U know cancer the crab hahaha... But thx 4 the support
Omgeez so much yessss in this post!!! This took me 7 mins to write 🤣
Im an enfp too & I understand. The person you are looking for is yourself lol. Yes, we feel a lot of things. Yes, it can be overwhelming but learn to master your own emotions because it’s not the job of someone else to do that for you. It’s your own. It took me a long, LONG time to realize that. Mediation was monumental in my life. Because I was so scattered I actually hired a teacher & took classes. This will change your life. Please, please consider learning yourself through something like meditation. I promise it’ll change your life
You're relatable. I bet you're also an HSP. Look it up.
Yeah. We are actually really mature but we love acting childish lol.
I Mean, that's how I am
Everything you said is so true man.
The fact that we act a certain way to see how the other reacts is so spot on. I can't.believe there are people so much like me around the world.
Hello male version of me 😂😂😂
hai XD
Hi, you look gorgeous in your profile, this is just a compliment, I am not flirting with you
@@Sweeneytv can enfp enfp relationship work out
Exactly 😁 💯
Let's wander to The Feelings Forest as one (but not spend too much time there). Thanks for the cool videos it's good to hear from a fellow male ENFP and feel sweet validation
Enfp were created just to befriend, adopt or marry an infj.
You guys are just great human beings overall. Without enfps the world would be so depressing.
-an infj
If in the MBTI world, there was a feelings forest, The INFJs would be the trees
I'm an enfp and I make a lot of eye contact. Other than that, this was basically step by step. Spot on. Great video!
I am an enfp and i have a "lets get to know each other" list of questions i go down to figure people (that I like or want to be friends with) out its got over 500 questons on it at this point but hey im getting deep with my people and I love knowing more about them so i can love them better!
id honestly love to see this list for future use😅 ive thought about making a list like that but of course never got around to it
Some enfp videos only describe 80% of my personality but yours seem to describe me perfectly. Makes me feel good knowing I'm not the only one that acts like this.
Omg that’s meeeeee. That’s if I can get the other person to notice me. If I can get them to notice me I will act the exact way you described. We test them out to see how they react to us when we act certain ways. Thank you for the video
I'm an INTJ with repeated unhealthy friendships with ENFPs. One after another, they come in and go out of my life. Usually they invite themselves in to my life and then eventually I kick them out. I'm sick of this pattern. When I meet my next ENFP, I will look out for these signs of interest and nip the thing in the bud. Thanks for the vid.
i just watched some videos which made by people who also are enfp and how cute and cozy you are!!!! its kind very warm emotions which i get, thanks dude
As an ENFP, when I like someone I tend to become overly interested in the little details about the person, often overthinking my own body language and either blabbering or closing off speech completely. If in a group setting I’ll start to leave little hints and clues about the types of people I like, specifically mentioning things the person in question possesses. Usually people don’t really pick up on the hints though because I veil them for fear that someone will notice what I’m trying to say, despite the fact that I desperately want someone to realize what I’m trying to say...
#overcomplicatedMuch 😅😰😂
Omg hahahaha
Okay now i get what the enfp-infj hype is about. I totally can relate and already feel myself getting interested 🤓
Same. I watched this video to try and understand the enfp-infj thing. I get it now.
if i like a person...i become childish.. actually feel like a child.. i ask ques not to disturb them.. for keeping the convo going.. but i dont liked to b questioned much.. may b because i generally tell evrything i need to. nyc video
God damnit! THANK YOU! I get self conscious about my eye wandering whilest speaking as well. I automatically fear that it looks like I'm disengaged or insecure about what I'm sharing. Couldn't be further from the truth. I'm actually deeply focusing on the topic as well as being selective with how I'll respond. Great video sir. 😊
I love it.......our emotionaly maturity and emotional immaturity......Yes. People always tell me they would never guess I'm 45 years old. I tell them it's because I act so immature, it's hard to tell. They always say that's not it but I don't know......
As far as eye contact is concerned I tend to do it with everyone
Thank you for sharing this AND the eye contact!! (; I definitely relate to a lot of what you explained.
I am an INTJ and strongly suspect my husband is sm ENFP but he won't sit down and take the test. Is that typical?🤣
hey, I just found out ur channel and it’s so great, just want to say ur awesome! -from an ENFP haha
Thanks for the shout out!
*SUPERB ACCURATED!!!* me/ as an ENFP heard from a lot of people around me that "you think real fast!" 😅
and talk ever faster
Sweeneytv oh my goodness SAME
Thanks for the video...It's so nice to hear from other people like me ☺
I came to see if I can relate to this,
I WASN’T DISAPPOINTED 😃💛
I am infj got a strong feeling with enfp but I tried to avoid him.
I want to go to the feelings Forrest. I wonder what creatures live there. My bet is they're all mystical and magical creatures
Yayyyyyyyy
Lol, and then there’s me giving people mixed messages because I’m naturally interested in people and I ask literally EVERYONE questions about the most random things
The FEELINGS FOREST THO!!! 🤣🤣
I felt all of this literally RESONATE within me lol.
I recognize myself as way too many things ENFP (particularly the flaws) to doubt that I am one. But this isn't the first time I read about ENFPs' inability/discomfort with making eye contact and that is the one thing I can't relate to.
I like to stand my grounds as well as show vulnerability, gentleness, etc. (and since I despise fighting) I find this is the only way. But even more so, I feel like it can strengthen connections if you pay attention to cues (if you sense any discomfort, diffuse it, and stuff). But I think it's easy to 'seem' like you're listening or paying attention to what someone says, but sometimes it doesn't really translate. When you do make a point of 'showing' cues that you 'see' the person who is speaking, that in that moment not only do they matter but also that they are heard, that regardless if they have rambled on, or are too soft spoken, have a stutter/a lisp/spoke very very very fast, etc. you are right there along with them... It's nice. :)
Of course, maybe it's the saying "eyes are windows to the soul" that I took wayyyyyyyyy too litterally! Or also the fact that I read it helped in one of those body language books. Ha!
I just realized I need an ENFP in my life ✨🤗 greetings from a INFJ
Greetings!
You don't have to watch it, they always do.
The feelings forest sounds so nice and cozy right now 🥺😩
True! As an ENFP, I can't make eye contact with the person that I really like. It feels like that person will read everything from my eyes.
-being introvert good listener infront of the liked one.
-Being mature and immature at the same time, maybe because of our excitements and emotions work together 😂. Strange! Weird! But, we should be loved deeply 🥰
lmao I'm an INFJ and I spotted that enfp really act weird from finding any reason to keep the conversation going. I have a conversation with an ENFP,
Depending on my mood, I test as ENFP or INFP. If I'm in a good mood, ENFP. If I'm depressed or sad, INFP. I'm always dual. I am a Gemini though! Lol.
I've often thought I was INFP I never test as one. For whateverreason, but i'm certainly chill enough.
Sweeneytv Well the difference is extrovert to introvert, so I guess depression makes me pull back into myself. Makes sense. Have you tried taking the test when you were in a noticeably altered mood? I would really like to go beyond Myers-Brigg with you though and look at natal chart info. That would be interesting. It's funny, I watched your first video, the Ireland one, because somehow I found myself sucked into all of these videos about Ireland when I started watching one channel in particular. Then your video popped up. I had no idea that you did so much on Myers- Brigg and personality traits until... well just today actually, LOL.
I think you're pretty spot-on with a lot of what I've heard you say, I haven't watched all your videos yet of course, LOL, but I definitely agree with what I've heard so far.
However I do feel like there's a lot more to it than that as well. Personality and the way people perceive things and how everyone has their own perception of the same thing, has always absolutely fascinated me. That doesn't even begin to cover it or scratch the surface, but I'm just typing this fast because I really actually should be asleep right now, the sun is up and I have yet to go to bed. (Again...oy)
As an ENFP or INFP on occasion, you can probably imagine that I have a lot of very in-depth theories and things that I would love to delve into about all of this. This isn't the best platform for it. I'd like to pick your brain sometime though. ;)
Kris Gemini I’m so glad to hear that from someone else because sometimes I’ve wondered if I was nuts lol
Kris Gemini ugh I can relate x)
The biggest difference of INFP and ENFP is whether you lead with your Ne or with your Fi. Heide Priebe does an excellent job of explaining the differences in her guides; she wrote one for INFP, one for ENFP, and one for the personalities in general. Her writing style to me feels as comfortable as my own; 12/10 would recommend checking her out. Even if you can’t buy the books, she has some excerpts posted online somewhere
BAHAHAHA... “feelings forest”!!! Yes! That’s exactly it AND the stalker questions lol, but eventually after trying so hard to show them you care, when the feeling isn’t reciprocated, the ENFP bitchslap occurs... oh love/life... I find myself rushing in and professing my love and in time I think, did I do this too fast? Is he the right one!? Help, I’m lost in my feeling forest! Good job on the video!
Yes! My brain goes a mile a minute, so I tend not to look at someone if I'm thinking and talking at the same time! Too much processing!
Great segment!
It's nice having you look at the camera
As an INTJ, I love ENFPs because they are chill and don't plan like crazy as we INTJ do, they chillness sometimes let me crazy! But that's what I love about it. The thing is that INTJs see potential in people, and ENFPs like that people say that potential to them. So both wanna be recognized and we give it to each other.
Omg, this is me!!! Ditzy blonde when I like a guy to help them feel like they are smart!
As an ENFP with ADHD, I had to watch this a few times. I was easily distracted.
This is very accurate.
I often have to tell people I meet not to get freaked out by all of the questions I ask about them because I do love feeling new people out when I meet them and if they like a movie I like or love cats or, Hell, like anything I do I will bombard them even moreso.
I want to look out the window ALL THE TIME! I THOUGHT IT WAS SOMETHING WRONG WITH ME! 😂
Yassss! Your on point Sir!! Haha Thanks for helping me know what I do when I like someone...
What's your favorite movie... haha... just kidding...
Who had to rewind the video because got distracted???
FEELINGS FOREST! Can we make that happen? I want to live in a place where there's a bunch of people, like a house in a forest, and I can't explain, but I'm writing a book about it! Dream place to live in a forest with people (especially ones who know about Myers Briggs)
haha i like the anime charachter photos at the end of the video. there's even Saitama on it. Anyways, as an enfp i usually will device ways on how this guy will get to notice or like me. I dont also usually take no for an answer. It frustrates me. If the first date didn't worked out well, i would definitely try to make a 2nd try work.
I do the strangest thing when I like someone. I look at the person warmly and say, "I like you."
the audacity
So strange to see my personality in someone else 😂
Sometimes I am soo in to a person, but after some time when I know him better, "analyzed" more and I actually know he is not my type, I kinda ignore him, till he just gives up on me... I literally hate telling someone "I don't like you anymore or I think we shouldn't date anymore". And I know this person already fell in love with me or have strong feelings towards me and sometimes I just feel guiltily, because at the beginning of the relationship I kinda see that my interest in him will fade, but I always try to convince myself that I should give him a chance. It's not because the person is not good, it just I'm searching for the perfect partner, for THE partner, so I can' t waste time on someone else, when I already know for sure it's not him. A really important things is freedom! Just give me passive signs that you kinda want to control me and I'm out and you will never understand why! Because I will not mind to explain it to you, just because I think you wouldn't understand it, no, I know you can't understand me/it!
U nailed it !
Plus all ending animation!!!
What a taste!
Samurai Champloo!¡ yes
I recently started dating again and have been struggling which led me here. Things are beginning to make sense!
Lollllll to the last part! I had to do a prerecorded video interview the other day and I could not just stare at the camera! Someone said if peoples eyes wonder while speaking it’s because they’re lying. 🤣 Thats so not what was wrong with me. 1. I couldn’t stand staring at myself and pretend I was talking to someone else I was trying to impress and 2. I kept floating off to lalaland and putting myself in the actual places I was speaking about. I couldn’t help it.
Lol off to la la land. Yeah the struggle is real.
Im an INFP hes an Aquarius ENFP we met at work. First he was starring at me then acting flirty then shy. He was litetally vomiting his entire life troubles to me and he magically showed up in the breakroom to have tea every morning exactly when i was there. He works in the kitchen jes a chef you cant tell me theres no tea there. He was always starring alot it would freak me our then he accidentally 😂touched my arm. Acting very strange after all this he didnt ask me out. Bizarre
when I look at you, do don't look so ENFP-ish, but when you started talking, the facial expression, the eye movement, oh, gosh, you look like me when I talk.
I ask friends questions too, so it isn't an indicator for me. I just love questions and answers.🤓
If I like someone ... it takes me by surprise. Haha
You actually look like my ENFP
Enfps are charming and spontaneous.We love u.
Yeah! I ask alot of questions and people get upset cause they think I am trying to gather info on them!😅 I'm genuinely interested!