I've always regarded MBTI as a pseudoscience - more akin to astrology than something to place trust. People exist as individuals on a fluid spectrum of traits; you can't binarily group them together. It's also not accepted by the professional psychology community. If you want to do the test for fun, all the power to you! I wouldn't let it determine your life course, though. Just be you!
The main signs that you are an ENFP are 1. SUCK at focusing 2. Struggle with thinking grass is greener mentality 3. AMBIVERT you like to be alone sometimes although you do love hanging and talking to people 4. You start new stuff all the time rarely finish (think about tv shows you watch or books you are reading)
The surest sign that I'm an ENFP is that instead of watching this video I am reading the comments. I trust the connections I find with people's thoughts than the ideal explanations of the presenter.
As well as ENFP I'm going to show you some traits that I find are very characteristic. 1. I always have the most absurd ideas and I try to bring them to life. 2.I always try to get a somewhat quiet person to join the conversation and not lead the conversation itself. 3. I talk a lot alone and always think how I'll react to diverse no proveve situations Edit: 4. I always see me lost in my ideas, it's a kinda hard organizing my thoughts.
No 1 is so true to me, you know, as a child of like 10 or 11 when the problem of water scarcity was coming up, I told my mum, "mumma why can't we just Purify sea water? That way we would have soo much!"
I feel you in all 4. And in 2, I feel bad if anybody is excluded. I have like an urge to talk to the quiet person. And lol, I'll definitely be the first to talk to anyone who sits beside me in class.
as an enfp, when thinking about my job, im always like "hmm, i could be a med student and be a youtuber while writing books and editing during my free time." LOL
for real!! lmaooo i'm so indecisive. "maybe i should get a career in nursing, then maybe go back to school and study medicine while studying law and theology" lolz
As an ENFP, we constantly encourage others. And our favorite thing in the world is to be encouraged by someone else. We probably encourage so much because it’s one of our greatest love languages 😊
You have described us perfectly, Calyb. coming from a fellow ENFP. :)) (I hope this day got a little brighter for whoever reads this comment as well. Some one loves you. Don't believe me? Look behind you. (:< )
E = Extroverted N = Intuitive F = Feeling P = *PROCRASTINATING* Written by an ENFP who’s currently watching her youtube recommendations instead of finishing three tasks which are due less than 24 hours
As an ENFP, I feel most energized when I go to a concert because I encourage everyone around me to dance like a goof. Then on some days I need to go meditate out in the woods by myself. We love people but we also cherish our independence.
I've always wanted to go to a concert but my parents and brother are such introverts they never go out, so I end up going out by myself. Also my parents are strict so I never can go out with my friends. Bring and extrovert in a introverts household is hard
@@rzangyz3672 Damn, that sounds rough. I've gone to concerts by myself multiple times too. It's a good way to push yourself to meet new people throughout the night! Everyone at a concert is usually in a good mood too, so that helps.
@@rzangyz3672 omg I feel you. My sister and parents are such introverts too and it sometimes bothers me when I wanna go out but they have no mood to do so.
Just an ENFJ popping in, wanted to say that you ENFPs are amazing! I am absolutely in love with your guys' high level of energy and chaotic sense of humour. Your adventurous and imaginative sides are so highly infectious. You might come across as clumsy or ditzy sometimes but if I had to choose any type to bring to an uncharted desert island with me, I would definitely choose an ENFP! You guys have like these weird survival instincts and are quite handy and inventive, plus you are always optimistic and like to keep morale high. You wouldn't ever leave somebody behind! Perfect desert island partner :) You guys are so charming and have a heart of gold. Hope to meet more of you in my lifetime
1. You want to deeply understand things and people 0:43 2. You are very creative. 1:16 3. You don't express extreme opinions 1:55 3. You have a very big social circle 2:22 5. You priorities communication 6. You are very persuasive 3:27 7. You hate doing repetitive tasks 3:49
I will say that not all people will have all of these traits to an extreme. Me (an ENFP), for example, love repetitive tasks (to an extent!), as my mind can wander and do its own thing, while I autopilot the task.
yes so I do relate to this stuff and I'm or was a part of big group of friends but I don't talk that much I'm super awkward but I was starting to talk more but.. guess what now the only people i'm talking is on online so that's cool yey
True. As an ENFP, I often found I can be liked easily, probably because I’m very easy going, talkative and care about people. But since I prefer quality over quantity in friendship, I’ll draw a line between people to whom I may not wanna be that close, while they have no idea what I’ve been thinking of 😂. Ironically, while I love talking to people and meeting new friends, I personally enjoy more about being alone and explore new ideas and theories. Oh...being sidetracked again from my deadline🤣🤣🤣
The reason why I know myself as an ENFP is when it comes to career choosing. Being a student in auditing department, honestly, I'd rather die than do paper work. Feel like I could be a travel blogger and adventure writter, a yoga trainer, a language teacher at the same time. And i'm 18 :3
@@Anonymous_Anon882, well, I'm in my 3rd year studying auditing, i got an internship in a big firm, and a few scholarships,..to be honest, I've never struggled with studying, but I think I would travel more and spend more time for myself this year. Wish you a happy life too
The funny thing is, I am currently taking English course to become a language teacher like what you said despite not knowing it is actualy related to our personality💀i realize enfp likes to do something laid back for their life
We as an ENFP loves parties and hang out with people, but we also *NEED* time alone to recharge our social limit, meditating, self isolation, if an ENFP don't recharge the social limit it'll get anxious and stressed.
I am an ENFP but I have small but very awesome friend group. They're mostly Introverts. I feel really comfortable around Introverts, to me, they seem more real because they don't put up a show or something
As an ENFP, I’ve been quite shocked by how many friends I have picked up along the way in life. I always have someone calling me or asking to hangout, and it’s so hard to say no to going to a party or experience. Because of this my social battery burns out so I NEED to be alone for a few days. I also realized as an ENFP that I tend to rely on how excellent my communication skills are that I can be quite lazy in certain aspects of life. In my head, I subconsciously believe that I will always be able to talk my way into anything, so it doesn’t take much work. This is a good and bad thing, because I need to stop procrastinating but I’m constantly enabled by getting what I want because of my charisma 😂
This is exactly the story of my "uni" life at this moment! I resonate quite a lot with this. Glad to see us ENFP resonate and celebrate our similar understandings and experiences like this ^^
OMG I thought it's just me thing on laziness and charisma stuff but I didn't know that was part of us ENFPs HAHA! Being lazy and still get what we want because of our natural charm and communication. I seriously feel bad sometimes though 😅
True tho, I didn't prepare much for my presentation but I'm able to talk like a professional even though I didn't study much. I know I can do it better if choose to work harder but I just didn't. Kinda disappointed on how I live my life all these time but I can't get my mind and body to do the work earlier. Somehow, ENFP can find an easier way to solve things despite of limited time.
One thing to add more, because of my ability to talk, I managed to get away from getting scold from my teacher when I didn't finish her homework. I almost shit in my pants but my mind is working diligently to create excuses
Describing my ENFP Personality: 1. While working I often get stuck while doing it and need time to gain more ideas. 2. I like to go outside and do things I don't usually do to help my creativity. 3. I love being social and meeting new friends, although my friend group is extensive. 4. I worry about my own personality myself, but in reality, lots of people enjoy being around me. 5. As I work on projects, I procrastinate ideas from my mind as a future reference for my projects. 6. I think about the future opportunities in life rather than the present in my life. 7. Being an ENFP, I really enjoy expressing my ideas and talking to other people a lot. 8. I am very talkative and love telling other people all of the ideas I have in mind. Thanks for reading! 😁
thats so true! in my actual quarantane following the past year, I began to loose myself, my abilities to make people cheer or even tend to forgett peoples happy faces. I know I was Peter Pan, but in my room I feel like in a cage...
ENFP 1. Sucks at Focus 2. Imaginative but cannot express thoughts to others. 3. Easily stressed 4. Face self critism 5. But, still understand deeper meaning of life 😇
as an ENFP, when I was younger (even now), i was always very imaginative, example: there was always a traffic jam on my way to school and I'd always say to my friend next to me on the bus that what if the bus had wings and flew over every car to escape the traffic jam lol and we would make an entire fantasy storyline about the bus nanny and the bus driver, with sky castles, winged boots, the annoying bus nanny being the villain, and luxurious airships
I'm actually crying right now. I just spent an hour taking four different MBTI tests and I got ENFP every time. I've known I was an ENFP for a while now, but somehow hearing this, and hearing that somebody understands what my life is like and what I truly deeply want is super emotional for me
You don't need to make fun of being honest and right under your comment ^^ instead, I totally get you! I've found out why I am how I am and seeing people like you resonate is not only comforting, but also inspiring. I'm quite certain you might feel the same way, let's all grow together into our best versions ❤️🔥
Being a fellow ENFP, I can relate to all of these signs, but what many seem to overlook or don’t know, is we also get stressed easily and can get very emotional at times.
I (enfp) always get stressed and it happens really fast. I also forget every time where I put things and then I don't have any time to search and get stressed and to late to school or to friends. I hate this typical Enfp lost moment.
Ever since I can remember I like this kinda stuff, talking to people, getting to know them, letting them tell me about the things they never say, writing, poetry, art, painting, journaling and so much more. When I first got to know about my personality being enfp I couldn't control my enthusiasm because I've never been able to put my personality in words, I've always felt confusion and doubt about the way I am because there are so many elements in this personality type, I sometimes thought do I have two personalities? The outgoing, motivated, encouraging social one and the other quiet, depressed, done with people one. I just love human psychology and studying personalities is one of my favorite things to do😭
I feel we enfps tend to be underestimated because somehow our bright personality makes us look stupid, but we are hella intuitive and we catch up on everything hahaha so I can feel how I tend to be underestimated just by the look on people's faces!
this is SO relatable omg omg omg everyone thinks i'm ditzy and stupid but the moment i have a conversation of substance, i get told things like, "wow you're so mature for your age!" it's frustrating having people assume that i'm an absolute idiot, i get patronized and my opinion gets invalidated so often. i decided i'd stop speaking at all unless asked
@@briannacasteel3334 to be honest sometimes it gets frustrating but now I try to take as something funny bcs I know what they are thinking without them even knowing that I know it, haha it's way better to be underestimated but you deep down know what's all about than be overestimated and somehow be incompetent (at least that's my opinion), ofc I still struggle and I gets tiring because I'm not stupid but what calms me is the fact that the people that truly knows and cares about me won't look down on me and appreciate me as who I am
@@bolitadenieve7114 yeah i agree actually, i'd rather be underestimated than overestimated. but yeah making people laugh is my favorite thing, if i can do that i dont mind that they assume im a dumbass haha
Struggling during my teenage, i was very sleep deprived. I was always so limp but i used that and the seemless general appearance to listen while people thought i was just spacing out and resting. Then i intervened in my friends arguments or difficulties as "neutral" to patch things up even though i had been closely paying attention for weeks and planning stuff out with my always silent friend who was too discreet.
1. you want to deeply understand things and people 0:44 2. you are very creative 1:17 3. you don't express extreme opinions 1:56 4. you have a very big social circle 2:22 5. you prioritise communication 2:56 6. you are very persuasive 3:26 7. you hate doing repetitive tasks 3:49 I hope I could help! :)
I’m an ENFP with a small social circle and I love it, all my closest friends are all introverts and I love them because I can be my real authentic self without feeling judged🤍
I genuinely don't know how im managing academic pressures tryna advance my education rn with everything going on. Like I have to fking study but its so depressing to me. Zoom university?!?!?!?! And im vaccinated now and im supposed to try to go out and talk to ppl again??? wtf is happening ?
@@lilbroomstick7914 The part about being iffy of going out and talking to people again, I feel that so much. The E in ENFP means extrovert but somehow I feel like I'd rather stay away from people lmao
On this cracked me up so much! People used to think I was high because of the enthusiasm and zest! I've mellowed but sometimes my brain perks along getting excited by creative ideas; I just keep it inside more.
im the only enfp who loves interacting and socializing but never had the opportunity to make a group of friends? like i have but disperse ones not a group,,
You're not alone girl. Having friends with different interests because of YOUR different interests and its cool and all until it's lunch break and you have no one to sit with 😒
Enthusiastic, charismatic, creative Charming, energetic, independent ✨The most imaginative type✨ 1) you want to deeply understand things and people 0:44 - your natural curiosity make you question things until you understand the underlying basics - when regarding people, you will try to create a safe space where people and yourself can show both their bright and dark side with an emphasis on honesty and authenticity rather than appropriateness 2) you are very creative 1:16 - one of the biggest signs that you are an ENFP is that you have an imaginative approach to prob solving - you actually like to confront challenges using them as opportunities to use your creativity and solve the problem through a unique and original way 3) you don’t express extreme opinions 1:57 - you would rather keep your mind open - you don’t like to express extreme opinions because you believe that you could be proven wrong at any time - you refuse to impose your beliefs on other people 4) very big social circle 2:24 - extroverted nature makes it easy for you to find new friends to add to your circle, especially over time - flexible approach to life and you can pretty much get along with anyone you meet - extroversion + flexibility = very likable person 5) you prioritize communication 2:56 - you will have excellent communication skills and you will know how to use them to engage in convos with people which makes you a very important person in social groups - you see communication as the best way to resolve conflicts building stronger relations 6) you are very persuasive 3:26 - your intuition and knowledge of what people need and want can be a very powerful tool when trying to convince people - you take pleasure in motivating people and bringing out the best in them 7) you hate doing repetitive tasks 3:48 - Are you someone who refuses to let your life turn into a routine day after day? - you will completely reject doing repetitive tasks as someone with constant knew ideas and thoughts -being a prisoner of repetitive tasks and daily routine can make you extremely depressed - facing challenges helps to develop your creative thinking and imagination As an ENFP… 4:20 - very open mind - assertive approach to life - flexible with how you treat different people - will always seek activities that will make you use your creative mind
As an ENFP I must add that we don't always have lots of friends, but we always try to be friendly to others. We are not always talking without "off" switch, but we always try to keep the dialogue or end it with the most natural and friendly way possible. Side note, tbh, creativity sometimes ruins everything 😹 Sometimes, I am a 400 IQ genius, but sometimes, I'm a 0 IQ idiot, lol Once, in school, we divided on teams of 3 and had to make the fastest wind powered vehicle out of stationeries bought with fake money. I convinced others that my "Giant ball of wrapped tape" would be the best idea, because it acts as a giant wheel with 3 degrees of freedom and relatively high ratio of cross section area to mass, but also we could buy all the tape so no other teams will get it. Apparently, you don't need any tape, to build the fastest cart, lol 😂
As an ENFP i'd say that one of the most frustrating thing is when you have the communication skills but then there's this language barrier. You have ideas that you'd like to share but since they, 1. Dont get what you are imagining, and 2. Have a language barrier, the situation will leave you 🤯. Hence we are prone to stress 😌
@@chiara7413 that's amazing! what languages do u speak? i speak indonesian (my native language), english, spanish, and i'm focusing on french right now. and i do agree with you. one of my main motivators for learning other languages is the amount of people and resources that i would be able to interact with! 😍 and yeah, it also gives insight in a way of thinking through the codes that w learn in the language 😊
Gets carried away easily, goes on tangents, makes connections most people can’t wrap their brains around, making convos awkward or uncomfortable, always has endless questions to ask when learning things to understand the nature of that thing/person is, always thinking of hypotheticals to keep mind moving, wanting to fully understand or fully experience feelings as a whole to draw conclusions in order to continue asking more questions. ENFP are about vibes. Constantly changing vibes like how music moves.
Oh my gosh, I really am ENFP! Everyone likes my extrovert way to socialize, I'm super expressive, talk a lot, I'm super creative, and I always fear to hurt people, in both ways (physically and emotionally), and I like to keep in mind I don't have an extreme opinion, I like to see the good and bad things of both sides, and take only the good part of both. I don't like to show people I'm perfect because I'm not, also I have the fear of people thinking I'm this type of person, but I'm super proud of myself when I know I made a good job and made everyone smile :) (Also I'm sorry for my English, I'm a native Brazilian, I'm still learning how to speak English in a good way)
Hahahahaha I love your description and I feel it to my core, my family always tells me I'm so fluffy and sweet on the outside but I can be a complete savage and destroy people while speaking politely
actually i feel like the “big friends circle” is more of a stereotype since there are PLENTY of enfp who distance themselves from others and has a medium size friend group full of besties or close friends. this is because of the Ne dom meaning the biggest part of our happiness comes from ideas and experiences. ive observed that MANY enfp mistype as infp. I LOVE YOUR VIDS BTW ❤️❤️❤️ - from enfp
i thought i was an infp for months due to the fact that i am introverted and socially awkward but i have started reading about cognitive functions and i think i am an enfp-
I’m not an ENFP. I am an extrovert-ESTJ and I want to say thank you for being positive about extroverts. Almost everywhere on the net, it is stated how amazing introverts are…and how unintelligent extroverts are. How reckless they are. The truth is extroverts are just AS intelligent as introverts are. We just don’t keep things hidden. We see no shame in brainstorming out loud, because human interaction is energizing. But we ALL need alone time. Just not as much as introverts. So thanks psych2go. Enfp ARE creative and are more softer extroverts.
Most are accurate but ENFPs express opinions very loudly when it’s against one of our important values. If it’s not a value of ours, then we typically can sit back, great video!
Oh yeah I'm kinda a kind hearted potato I know what it feels like to have someone insult you. It's this negative feeling in your brain that's just lingering there. "Do people not understand how much words can hurt someone?" So generally I tend to try and stay positive in conversations. I absolutely hate it when I understand someone's sadness but I don't have the words to comfort them ( I'm bad at explaining things )
Being ENFP is like people thought you have something that made your day cause you look bright and happy 24/7 but instead feeling so overwhelmed and confuse and stressed all day😤
Yeah it can be easier to get stressed, but we can learn to handle our stress and anxiety in good ways and form them into other feelings like excitement and creativity. Meditation and therapy can help with this!
I empathize for others and think outside of the box for EVERTHING. This has lead me to wonder what consciousness really is and what’s after physical life. I know some of you might think i’m crazy, but i get that. I’m not gonna be mad. I just was to inform others how i think. I want to help others succeed by supporting them emotionally and not judging, i like to imagine what one is going through and try to help one. I’m just ranting now, I’ll stop. Hope everyone is doing well!
My oldest sister studied personality types and their meanings for years and can tell your personality type right away. Apparently she said that I was an ENFP but I could never see the ENFP in me because of my severe depression. Now that I’m on medication, I’m seeing the real Julia I know and I am now starting to learn to love myself. It feels good to be me again
I have two different types. ENTP is for work and intellectual pursuits, and ENFP IS for family, personal relationships, and caregiving. This is spot on for my ENFP personality.
We might have a large social circle, but we often feel the loneliest. I have my select few that I love being around and those are VERY few who I cherish tremendously.
as a ENFP i have almost 20 new ideas for storys and novels every day and I don't do any of them because every day I have something new and i dont know what to do, so I really felt the 2nd point
@@ihatekiwi4167 I swear I took literally 7 minutes to retell a five sentence story I had already written; how am I supposed to share my ideas for super long ones I haven't written, let alone not feel too nervous to share?!
I have a pretty big social circle but I managed to piss off some people I used to call freinds eaither becuse I exist as queer and trans or I called them out on there racism. Or they just can't stand me overthinking everything but hey it's there loss not mine
@@rzangyz3672 AAAAAAA me too cuz I always end up saying things that either don’t make sense or are perceived as Insults ,it’s kinda discouraged me from being social to be honesttt-
ENFPs are one of the types (if not the type) with the most ADHDers bc of the Ne dom. So while many ADHDers are ENFPs (and the other way around), it's not necessarily the case. For example, I am an ENFP and I don't have ADHD.
I'm an ENFP, I literally have a lot of ideas going on in my mind, I have phases in my life when I'm obsessed with singers and I have to know their biography and their records, the meaning of their songs, etc. My last trauma is Christina Aguilera, I watched documentaries, interviews, and fan videos, I joined fan groups and now I can tell I know Christina Aguilera. Same with Pyscology, marketing, etc.
I'm an ENFP with a very slight social anxiety twist, which made me think for years I was actually an INFP... but whenever the social anxiety is lower, the ENFP side REALLY shows ^^
My wife, best friend and another of my friends are INFP's. They are really different since we tend to look at things with multiple angles as a system where we should intervene if need be while they are more like dreamers who watch things at a very personnal angle, one angle at a time. We look around us and take things in, they project their internal world on whatever's around. When you look at it our personalities are very different on key points, even though we have much in common with minor tendancies being major to the other and vice-versa. They also generally don't like to think our fluid all over the place way, they prefer to have a strong interior opinion even if it changes with their mood. However, remember that mbti is a tool that describes tendancies, not a guide. There are people out there trying to use it as a precise thing to reinforce sectarism these days...
@@GBS4893 yes i agree, mbti is just a medium to look at the stereotypes of the personalities, and imo it's not that accurate. However, it is still nice to know your and others personality type too.
hiding the "like and subscribe" by adding it in a little visual interpretation of what you're explaining is GENIUS for someone like me who gets annoyed by someone directly nudging you to do it by trailing off the topic of the video to mention it. makes me feel like i actually wanna like and sub :3 very smart way to go about it!
Worse feeling as an enfp is not being able to keep that vibe and facing constant criticism, it just makes you question if you are really even worthy of living, but a single genuine compliment can keep us cherry lol
1.we like to enjoy the journey than final results or goal .....because we like to design it in our imagination... As an ENFP i think we are good at multitasking not perfectly but we unknowingly like multi tasking. Rather than being focused on one path we find it comfortable to do that path with some alternative ones.... And its not bec we dont like a perticular path but bec we like so many things at a time and are able to think so many possibilities about many things in many ways... Sometime the specialist in that field also wont be able to think that way...ACTULLY FOR US OUR MAIN STREAM IS OUR SIDE STREAM AND OUR SIDE STREAMS ARE OUR MAIN STREAMS WHICH WE ENJOY...😊 Means if we wann describe ourselves then if we imagine photographer taking doing his shoot then we are able view ourselves as model and also as photographer in a HD view which makes us confuse what do we actully want to be.. the most sad thing about for is we are extroverts but we can feel art,litreature with very deep meaning internally.....its like our energy source..
i just wanna say that you enfps are super fun to be around and most of my friends are enfps. the world would be a boring place without you guys ~ w/ love, infp 🌱
If I can’t focus on my ideas and create I get super stressed and depressed! Also I’m a totally “yes” person so I take on waaaytoo many things, it’s so hard to fit it all in! And I’m super pumped to do all of it all the time!! My emotions throughout any given day 😃😅😬😤🤦♀️💪🙌😃🥰
INFJ here. I married an ENFP. We have a very good relationship. His weaknesses are my strengths. And my weaknesses are his strengths. We balanced each other. 🥰💕
You hit the nail on the head with that statement. I can totally relate. I feel like I really don't want to share unless somebody is really wanting to hear what I have to say.
This is my results on the 16 personalities test. Personality type - Campaigner (ENFP) Traits: - 57% Extroverted - 56% Intuitive - 51% Feeling - 65% Prospecting - 64% Assertive Role: Diplomat Strategy: People Mastery
I am an Enfp. I lack focus. I get excited with new things eventually get bored by involved in it, will look for other new things. Love talking to people only but love to stay alone. Many ideas but sucks at implementation. Always open to opinions, love motivating people.
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Not an ENFP, but I really appreciate that type! I usually get along well and fast with ENFPs and my ENFP friends are some of the funniest, creative and wholesome creatures I met! 💓
I got this as my results. I always must understand everything fully so I always sit in front of the classroom and ask questions. My doctor is sick of me bc I won't accept a superficial answer. I NEED her to explain what is going on in my body. She's smart but dumb doctors do not like me haha! Also I am a painter and music composer. Sometimes I feel like im struck with a lighting bolt of ideas!
This is so painfully accurate... the communication skills, creative part, always full of thoughts and ideas, keep making friends because of my extroverted side. But any other enfps struggle with vulnerability? Like i do tell my friends stuff but never too deep..?? Even my best friend. I guess i keep the stuff that bugs me the most to myself because i believe there is no point. I know myself best and i need to carry myself anyway somehow. I love being people’s therapist but i’ll never have the roles reversed lmao
Stop I've been therapist to everyone my entire life hence why I'm thinking about it as a future career, yet whenever I even cry in front of my family I feel horrendous and regret showing that vulnerability later. I also have to sort out many of the arguments in my friendship group because they can't do some simple communication 🤣 So as a fellow ENFP I completely agree, that also could be down to my fucked up childhood tho. Maybe one day we can get better at being vulnerable, I can communicate everything through words but I can't show my own emotions it weird!!
Yea i totally get that. Sharing almost everything, yet nothing at the same time. Because we don't trust them enough with our deepest secret for fear it may come and bite us later
I've found that as an ENFP, my friend groups are actually quite small. I usually only regularly interact with a few people. The people that simply like and respect me go far beyond that. Often beyond my expectations. I tend to realise this when I leave a job, club, or any other artificially large social group. People I don't talk to much will suddenly give their farewells and so forth. People that I don't know the names of will also know my name.
bruh on god everyday at school somebody new will walk up to me and act like we have been friends for years and i cant even remember there name its so strange.
It's true, my classmates praised me a lot when we finished our studies, even the little gestures I made like when I came late to the class, I will apologize and bend my back a little to show my sincerity and somehow everyone in my class said that I'm a genuine person and I have a good attitude. I feel happy tho. People are also happy when they see me and remember me even though i dont remember them, im sorry for that but i cant remember people faces and names easily
heyyyyy i’m an enfp-a & i honestly love my personality. i used to hate it because people didn’t know how to handle my personality, but honestly, i just owned it. i wear it like a badge. it’s who i am and i couldn’t be happier :)
I am an ENTP but I also have all the traits of a the ENFP so I think i'm both and overtime I have found I am just so loving that but also super teasing but also like to be mysterious and intellectual like the ENTP but I also have a lot of friends and I love to talk to people about everything but mostly there life goals and I feel like I don't know you until I know your what you want in life. But I also can do those extreme thinking functions and I love destroying a persons world view and building it back up,
Enfp always have a desire to be appreciated and lauded in their groups. This is how they motivate themselves, I believe. Also, they want to hear criticism well dressed as positive feedback...
I'm an enfp but was recently hurt by my recent circle of friends for being too agreeable and not having strong opinions on things. The recent events pushed me to self harm and such and I've been recovering since then through counselling .
I'm so happy your getting help, it's not always easy but just know that even though I don't know you, I'm so proud of you. You are so strong and beautiful, and will find better friends that deserve you, love you ❤
Yeah I have a really good friend that I'll often get frustrated at becuse he used to just agree with me on alot of things and I'm like bro you can call me out if I say something stupid. It's frustrating when people don't have different perspectives or ideas on things.
Sometimes as an ENFP I have to stop myself and ask- am I manipulating something to get what I want, because I honestly don’t know that I’m doing it and I will constantly make the effort to check myself and make sure I’m acting honorably and in others best interest as well as my own
ENFP unites. Comment below if you're it! :) We did a video on INFJ too: ua-cam.com/video/D89N3_fFwrA/v-deo.html If you like to see more, let us know which ones!
I'm an ENFP and a housewife. I cook every day and one way I avoid repetition is I try to cook something I've never had before, every day. My pantry is filled with such a variety of foods!
I have a friend who's introverted but is cognitively typed as ENFP. Compared to an INFP, the pattern with her cognition can be boiled down to ideas first, feelings later. So it's no surprise that some, if not many ENFPs have small friend groups despite being labeled extraverts.
What's your MBTI?
INFJ
I am
ENFP 😁
I've always regarded MBTI as a pseudoscience - more akin to astrology than something to place trust. People exist as individuals on a fluid spectrum of traits; you can't binarily group them together. It's also not accepted by the professional psychology community. If you want to do the test for fun, all the power to you! I wouldn't let it determine your life course, though. Just be you!
ENFJ almost got INFJ it was 65% extroverted
ENFP's ideas in their head: 200 IQ
ENFP's ideas when explaining yourself: 0 IQ
Its so much like.. awosihfouwsahefr
Yes I mean i have troubles translating brain language into human language it sucks =w=
Bro how is this so acurateee💀💀💀💀💀
My gosh this is crazy accurate lol
The pain is real TT
The main signs that you are an ENFP are
1. SUCK at focusing
2. Struggle with thinking grass is greener mentality
3. AMBIVERT you like to be alone sometimes although you do love hanging and talking to people
4. You start new stuff all the time rarely finish (think about tv shows you watch or books you are reading)
This is me but x10 because I have ADHD
This is so me lol
@@cod_fishhh6554 me too, funny mix of personality and ADHD
having an ambivert side is so weird, ı would like to be surronded by ppl while drawing even if i dont really talk with them fdhjf
I’m a ENFP and I was curious about this video and this comment made me laugh
The surest sign that I'm an ENFP is that instead of watching this video I am reading the comments. I trust the connections I find with people's thoughts than the ideal explanations of the presenter.
thats literally me right now wait 😂😂😂😂
Oh same 💀
@@nandawramosz Haha
yeeeee , same
That’s literally me I paused the video at 2:00 min mark and just started reading the comments instead 😭
As well as ENFP I'm going to show you some traits that I find are very characteristic.
1. I always have the most absurd ideas and I try to bring them to life.
2.I always try to get a somewhat quiet person to join the conversation and not lead the conversation itself.
3. I talk a lot alone and always think how I'll react to diverse no proveve situations
Edit:
4. I always see me lost in my ideas, it's a kinda hard organizing my thoughts.
feel you, 1 and 3 are to real, sometimes I get lost reacting the most absurd ideas and hipotetical situations in my head, feels like a daydream
im actually in tears on how accurate this is
OMG i see me in u..
No 1 is so true to me, you know, as a child of like 10 or 11 when the problem of water scarcity was coming up, I told my mum, "mumma why can't we just Purify sea water? That way we would have soo much!"
I feel you in all 4.
And in 2, I feel bad if anybody is excluded. I have like an urge to talk to the quiet person. And lol, I'll definitely be the first to talk to anyone who sits beside me in class.
Best tell-sign you are an ENFP: You were about doing something until someone has told you to do it, then you don't want to do it anymore.
This is a constant struggle 😂😂
I feel like this is more esfp
Yeah it's so irritating
Arggghh plz so annoying
Yes absolutely!!
as an enfp, when thinking about my job, im always like "hmm, i could be a med student and be a youtuber while writing books and editing during my free time." LOL
Heh Same
yeah me too like "hm i could be a nurse and then a year later I'll be a writer and a mechanic all meanwhile I'm singing rap songs"
for real!! lmaooo i'm so indecisive. "maybe i should get a career in nursing, then maybe go back to school and study medicine while studying law and theology" lolz
Same I want to be a singer, an actor, a writer, a producer, a designer, a writer and a baker at the same time
@@lostclown2208 literally LMAO
As an ENFP, we constantly encourage others. And our favorite thing in the world is to be encouraged by someone else. We probably encourage so much because it’s one of our greatest love languages 😊
You have described us perfectly, Calyb. coming from a fellow ENFP. :))
(I hope this day got a little brighter for whoever reads this comment as well. Some one loves you. Don't believe me? Look behind you. (:< )
@@NitroCodes Woohoo Love this!
😔🥺😢😭
The saaaaame!!!
Words mean a lot to us
@@anasophia7 Plethora, for instance. ;D
ENFP: Creates a safe space, doesn't express extreme opinions
ENTP:
Fascinating how a single letter causes a complete 180 in terms of personality.
The reason for that actually lies within the cognitive functions.
ENFP:
Dominant- Extroverted Intuition
Auxiliary- Introverted Feeling
Tertiary- Extroverted Thinking
Inferior- Introverted Sensing
ENTP:
Dominant- Extroverted Intuition
Auxiliary- Introverted Thinking
Tertiary- Extroverted Feeling
Inferior- Introverted Sensing
Mature ENTPs are different lol
im a combination of both - wtf am i lmao
Well…one of my best friend is an ENTP Type 9. And I’m Type 8 ENFP, go figure. 🤣
@@vyna_mel5726You walk a dangerous road my friend.
E = Extroverted
N = Intuitive
F = Feeling
P = *PROCRASTINATING*
Written by an ENFP who’s currently watching her youtube recommendations instead of finishing three tasks which are due less than 24 hours
mine is overdue I should have handed it in yesterday..................
This is legit 😂👌
Accurate 😂
Me who was planning to learn for my exams but ended up watching this bye 😭✋
yep mhm yus definitely
As an ENFP, I feel most energized when I go to a concert because I encourage everyone around me to dance like a goof. Then on some days I need to go meditate out in the woods by myself. We love people but we also cherish our independence.
OMG YES!
I've always wanted to go to a concert but my parents and brother are such introverts they never go out, so I end up going out by myself. Also my parents are strict so I never can go out with my friends. Bring and extrovert in a introverts household is hard
@@rzangyz3672 Damn, that sounds rough. I've gone to concerts by myself multiple times too. It's a good way to push yourself to meet new people throughout the night! Everyone at a concert is usually in a good mood too, so that helps.
YES, 1000% true haha
@@rzangyz3672 omg I feel you. My sister and parents are such introverts too and it sometimes bothers me when I wanna go out but they have no mood to do so.
Just an ENFJ popping in, wanted to say that you ENFPs are amazing! I am absolutely in love with your guys' high level of energy and chaotic sense of humour. Your adventurous and imaginative sides are so highly infectious. You might come across as clumsy or ditzy sometimes but if I had to choose any type to bring to an uncharted desert island with me, I would definitely choose an ENFP! You guys have like these weird survival instincts and are quite handy and inventive, plus you are always optimistic and like to keep morale high. You wouldn't ever leave somebody behind! Perfect desert island partner :) You guys are so charming and have a heart of gold. Hope to meet more of you in my lifetime
AWHHH thank u! , now lets go on that island bestie :)
Just to say, I really love how ENFJ's vibe where they are so eager to help someone. You are really one of a kind and such a brilliant person.
love you too😂
Im an ENFPT. I wonder what makes our personality types different?
thank you bro
1. You want to deeply understand things and people 0:43
2. You are very creative. 1:16
3. You don't express extreme opinions 1:55
3. You have a very big social circle 2:22
5. You priorities communication
6. You are very persuasive 3:27
7. You hate doing repetitive tasks 3:49
I will say that not all people will have all of these traits to an extreme. Me (an ENFP), for example, love repetitive tasks (to an extent!), as my mind can wander and do its own thing, while I autopilot the task.
as an enfp i don't really have a big social circle does that mean that i'm an infp instead?
@@sanaakkad10 not really, enfp's are not all the same and we have some things that are different from other enfp's
I DO EXPRESS EXTREME OPINIONS THO 😭😭😭
@sanaakkad10 Remember correlation does not equal causation
Being an ENFP is good and all that but we’re very prone to stress and anxiety so I guess it’s both a blessing and a curse.
yes so I do relate to this stuff and I'm or was a part of big group of friends but I don't talk that much I'm super awkward but I was starting to talk more but.. guess what now the only people i'm talking is on online so that's cool yey
@@diogocasstro Aw, I’m so glad you’re working on it 😊 and I hope the good vibes keep on coming for you.
@@jjbaglazer_ thank you that's very nice of you well I hope the good vibes keep coming for you al well
Like it says in the book,we are blessed and cursed - Big Smoke
I think someone in my family is one
I may have 100+ friends in my contacts but in reality i talk to like 5
Same
same ;;
Same
Sesame🎉
Samee
True. As an ENFP, I often found I can be liked easily, probably because I’m very easy going, talkative and care about people. But since I prefer quality over quantity in friendship, I’ll draw a line between people to whom I may not wanna be that close, while they have no idea what I’ve been thinking of 😂. Ironically, while I love talking to people and meeting new friends, I personally enjoy more about being alone and explore new ideas and theories. Oh...being sidetracked again from my deadline🤣🤣🤣
i can related to this..
maybe u could be an INFP instead?
The reason why I know myself as an ENFP is when it comes to career choosing. Being a student in auditing department, honestly, I'd rather die than do paper work. Feel like I could be a travel blogger and adventure writter, a yoga trainer, a language teacher at the same time. And i'm 18 :3
Yeah, accounting/auditing isn’t a very ENFP thing on average. What is it you’re doing now?
This is so accurate 😂
DO IT!!!! we were meant to do many things
Yoga instruction and massage therapy is my dream
@@Anonymous_Anon882, well, I'm in my 3rd year studying auditing, i got an internship in a big firm, and a few scholarships,..to be honest, I've never struggled with studying, but I think I would travel more and spend more time for myself this year. Wish you a happy life too
The funny thing is, I am currently taking English course to become a language teacher like what you said despite not knowing it is actualy related to our personality💀i realize enfp likes to do something laid back for their life
We as an ENFP loves parties and hang out with people, but we also *NEED* time alone to recharge our social limit, meditating, self isolation, if an ENFP don't recharge the social limit it'll get anxious and stressed.
this has totally been me the past year
It's kinda weird but sometimes when in with many people my head gets confusing idk
also, sometimes you need time alone to develop your own ideas
Ok yup I’m definitely a infp, I just like to be creative by myself!
LITERALLY
I am an ENFP but I have small but very awesome friend group. They're mostly Introverts. I feel really comfortable around Introverts, to me, they seem more real because they don't put up a show or something
EXACTLY!!
Most of my friends are infps and entps
same. my best friends are two introverts and they deal with me well
SAMEE
@@itsmebecky24 entps are the biggest show offs thouggghhh😂
As an ENFP, I’ve been quite shocked by how many friends I have picked up along the way in life. I always have someone calling me or asking to hangout, and it’s so hard to say no to going to a party or experience. Because of this my social battery burns out so I NEED to be alone for a few days. I also realized as an ENFP that I tend to rely on how excellent my communication skills are that I can be quite lazy in certain aspects of life. In my head, I subconsciously believe that I will always be able to talk my way into anything, so it doesn’t take much work. This is a good and bad thing, because I need to stop procrastinating but I’m constantly enabled by getting what I want because of my charisma 😂
This is exactly the story of my "uni" life at this moment! I resonate quite a lot with this. Glad to see us ENFP resonate and celebrate our similar understandings and experiences like this ^^
OMG I thought it's just me thing on laziness and charisma stuff but I didn't know that was part of us ENFPs HAHA! Being lazy and still get what we want because of our natural charm and communication. I seriously feel bad sometimes though 😅
True tho, I didn't prepare much for my presentation but I'm able to talk like a professional even though I didn't study much. I know I can do it better if choose to work harder but I just didn't. Kinda disappointed on how I live my life all these time but I can't get my mind and body to do the work earlier. Somehow, ENFP can find an easier way to solve things despite of limited time.
One thing to add more, because of my ability to talk, I managed to get away from getting scold from my teacher when I didn't finish her homework. I almost shit in my pants but my mind is working diligently to create excuses
Describing my ENFP Personality:
1. While working I often get stuck while doing it and need time to gain more ideas.
2. I like to go outside and do things I don't usually do to help my creativity.
3. I love being social and meeting new friends, although my friend group is extensive.
4. I worry about my own personality myself, but in reality, lots of people enjoy being around me.
5. As I work on projects, I procrastinate ideas from my mind as a future reference for my projects.
6. I think about the future opportunities in life rather than the present in my life.
7. Being an ENFP, I really enjoy expressing my ideas and talking to other people a lot.
8. I am very talkative and love telling other people all of the ideas I have in mind.
Thanks for reading! 😁
Agreed
That's exactly me thanks for sharing ❤
When you’re an ENFP but have gotten so used to being alone the past year that you start to question your personality lol
As an ENFP, this is probably one of the most relatable sentiments ever 😂
Super relatable for real😭😭😭
I want to die
Super relatable!
thats so true! in my actual quarantane following the past year, I began to loose myself, my abilities to make people cheer or even tend to forgett peoples happy faces. I know I was Peter Pan, but in my room I feel like in a cage...
ENFP
1. Sucks at Focus
2. Imaginative but cannot express thoughts to others.
3. Easily stressed
4. Face self critism
5. But, still understand deeper meaning of life 😇
No wonder they are the only people I can talk deeply to
Not much different from infp, when i have energy or with a group of people i am not scared of, my extraverted side shows. (Infp)
I agree... Yah it's cool being cheerfully most of the time but sometimes when there's no one around you fall into those conclusions
I kinda wonder why scientists say enfp are linked to ADHD i get it lol
2. Imaginative but cannot express thoughts to others [yet unironically have communication skills that simply get shit done]
as an ENFP, when I was younger (even now), i was always very imaginative, example: there was always a traffic jam on my way to school and I'd always say to my friend next to me on the bus that what if the bus had wings and flew over every car to escape the traffic jam lol and we would make an entire fantasy storyline about the bus nanny and the bus driver, with sky castles, winged boots, the annoying bus nanny being the villain, and luxurious airships
I'm actually crying right now. I just spent an hour taking four different MBTI tests and I got ENFP every time. I've known I was an ENFP for a while now, but somehow hearing this, and hearing that somebody understands what my life is like and what I truly deeply want is super emotional for me
oh wait it's that time of the month
You don't need to make fun of being honest and right under your comment ^^ instead, I totally get you! I've found out why I am how I am and seeing people like you resonate is not only comforting, but also inspiring. I'm quite certain you might feel the same way, let's all grow together into our best versions ❤️🔥
@@julien-kun5273 thank you :) That’s so sweet
I totally relate to this. It feels so good to be seen and understood
😔🥺😢😭
Being a fellow ENFP, I can relate to all of these signs, but what many seem to overlook or don’t know, is we also get stressed easily and can get very emotional at times.
Finally someone who understands me
yeah true, im all of the thingies in the video but im still usually an emotional mess and a stress wreck 😭🖑
So accurate
Agreeeeed
I (enfp) always get stressed and it happens really fast. I also forget every time where I put things and then I don't have any time to search and get stressed and to late to school or to friends. I hate this typical Enfp lost moment.
Everyone in the comments are so nice to each other: proof of enfp
Haha yep so true!!!!
exactly!! these comments make my day :)
Riiiight!!😂😂😂😂
✨💖👑💎🌈🍬💪😩🙏
Lmfao so true
Oh my goodness as an ENFP I feel so understood when watching stuff about my personality type.
Ever since I can remember I like this kinda stuff, talking to people, getting to know them, letting them tell me about the things they never say, writing, poetry, art, painting, journaling and so much more. When I first got to know about my personality being enfp I couldn't control my enthusiasm because I've never been able to put my personality in words, I've always felt confusion and doubt about the way I am because there are so many elements in this personality type, I sometimes thought do I have two personalities? The outgoing, motivated, encouraging social one and the other quiet, depressed, done with people one. I just love human psychology and studying personalities is one of my favorite things to do😭
I feel we enfps tend to be underestimated because somehow our bright personality makes us look stupid, but we are hella intuitive and we catch up on everything hahaha so I can feel how I tend to be underestimated just by the look on people's faces!
this is SO relatable omg omg omg everyone thinks i'm ditzy and stupid but the moment i have a conversation of substance, i get told things like, "wow you're so mature for your age!" it's frustrating having people assume that i'm an absolute idiot, i get patronized and my opinion gets invalidated so often. i decided i'd stop speaking at all unless asked
@@briannacasteel3334 to be honest sometimes it gets frustrating but now I try to take as something funny bcs I know what they are thinking without them even knowing that I know it, haha it's way better to be underestimated but you deep down know what's all about than be overestimated and somehow be incompetent (at least that's my opinion), ofc I still struggle and I gets tiring because I'm not stupid but what calms me is the fact that the people that truly knows and cares about me won't look down on me and appreciate me as who I am
@@bolitadenieve7114 yeah i agree actually, i'd rather be underestimated than overestimated. but yeah making people laugh is my favorite thing, if i can do that i dont mind that they assume im a dumbass haha
Struggling during my teenage, i was very sleep deprived. I was always so limp but i used that and the seemless general appearance to listen while people thought i was just spacing out and resting. Then i intervened in my friends arguments or difficulties as "neutral" to patch things up even though i had been closely paying attention for weeks and planning stuff out with my always silent friend who was too discreet.
@@briannacasteel3334 AM I YOU???? I'M LITERALLY THAT
1. you want to deeply understand things and people 0:44
2. you are very creative 1:17
3. you don't express extreme opinions 1:56
4. you have a very big social circle 2:22
5. you prioritise communication 2:56
6. you are very persuasive 3:26
7. you hate doing repetitive tasks 3:49
I hope I could help! :)
Thanks ❤️
Hi time traveller
You make it so there is no reason to watch the vid 😭😂
Thanks for putting this together!
Thanks time traveler here's your like
I’m an ENFP with a small social circle and I love it, all my closest friends are all introverts and I love them because I can be my real authentic self without feeling judged🤍
That "understanding things completely until you get satisfied" is soooooo damn relatable!
I appreciate the jujutsu kaisen references😌🤝🏼
yEs
Yesss!!!!
GOJOOO
Same.
I was looking for this comment 😂✌️
This certain ENFP has been detached from reality because of the quarantine 🙋
I'm honestly living my best Pokémon life with Lorde, in the sun
I genuinely don't know how im managing academic pressures tryna advance my education rn with everything going on. Like I have to fking study but its so depressing to me. Zoom university?!?!?!?! And im vaccinated now and im supposed to try to go out and talk to ppl again??? wtf is happening ?
@@lilbroomstick7914 The part about being iffy of going out and talking to people again, I feel that so much. The E in ENFP means extrovert but somehow I feel like I'd rather stay away from people lmao
@@lady_raineidv9297 Me to but not my selected people even tho I’m very kind to people even if I’d rather be home alone
Yo I'm in another planet, making new humans and explore the dimensions rn 📈
I thought I was an INFP for the longest time until I recently started to try to be more outgoing, and now I know I'm ENFP 😎
INFP can be extroverted/ambivert
I feel so at home reading all these comments. It’s nice to be around my people who I feel truly understand all of our quirky nuances. ❤️
An additional fact for ENFPs(at least this one lol)
You don't need sugar or drugs to be high
You can simply be high off of air
truuuu
On this cracked me up so much! People used to think I was high because of the enthusiasm and zest! I've mellowed but sometimes my brain perks along getting excited by creative ideas; I just keep it inside more.
@@suen5006 glad I got a laugh out of someone :D
TRUEEEEE
I literally spend 1 minute of my life trying to understand the joke, and now ik
*"High"*
im the only enfp who loves interacting and socializing but never had the opportunity to make a group of friends? like i have but disperse ones not a group,,
Omg same ! Like i know a lot of people but i dont have a fixed group. Its been really weird but glad to know im not alone!
You're not alone girl. Having friends with different interests because of YOUR different interests and its cool and all until it's lunch break and you have no one to sit with 😒
@@marykuttygeorge3471 YES PLS. Or if they ask who your main group is and you cant answer
same!!!
Happened also to me when younger n_ñU Now is happily different n.n
Enthusiastic, charismatic, creative
Charming, energetic, independent
✨The most imaginative type✨
1) you want to deeply understand things and people 0:44
- your natural curiosity make you question things until you understand the underlying basics
- when regarding people, you will try to create a safe space where people and yourself can show both their bright and dark side with an emphasis on honesty and authenticity rather than appropriateness
2) you are very creative 1:16
- one of the biggest signs that you are an ENFP is that you have an imaginative approach to prob solving
- you actually like to confront challenges using them as opportunities to use your creativity and solve the problem through a unique and original way
3) you don’t express extreme opinions 1:57
- you would rather keep your mind open
- you don’t like to express extreme opinions because you believe that you could be proven wrong at any time
- you refuse to impose your beliefs on other people
4) very big social circle 2:24
- extroverted nature makes it easy for you to find new friends to add to your circle, especially over time
- flexible approach to life and you can pretty much get along with anyone you meet
- extroversion + flexibility = very likable person
5) you prioritize communication 2:56
- you will have excellent communication skills and you will know how to use them to engage in convos with people which makes you a very important person in social groups
- you see communication as the best way to resolve conflicts building stronger relations
6) you are very persuasive 3:26
- your intuition and knowledge of what people need and want can be a very powerful tool when trying to convince people
- you take pleasure in motivating people and bringing out the best in them
7) you hate doing repetitive tasks 3:48
- Are you someone who refuses to let your life turn into a routine day after day?
- you will completely reject doing repetitive tasks as someone with constant knew ideas and thoughts
-being a prisoner of repetitive tasks and daily routine can make you extremely depressed
- facing challenges helps to develop your creative thinking and imagination
As an ENFP… 4:20
- very open mind
- assertive approach to life
- flexible with how you treat different people
- will always seek activities that will make you use your creative mind
:0 Ty for the subtitles!
As an ENFP I must add that we don't always have lots of friends, but we always try to be friendly to others. We are not always talking without "off" switch, but we always try to keep the dialogue or end it with the most natural and friendly way possible.
Side note, tbh, creativity sometimes ruins everything 😹
Sometimes, I am a 400 IQ genius, but sometimes, I'm a 0 IQ idiot, lol
Once, in school, we divided on teams of 3 and had to make the fastest wind powered vehicle out of stationeries bought with fake money. I convinced others that my "Giant ball of wrapped tape" would be the best idea, because it acts as a giant wheel with 3 degrees of freedom and relatively high ratio of cross section area to mass, but also we could buy all the tape so no other teams will get it. Apparently, you don't need any tape, to build the fastest cart, lol 😂
As an ENFP i'd say that one of the most frustrating thing is when you have the communication skills but then there's this language barrier. You have ideas that you'd like to share but since they, 1. Dont get what you are imagining, and 2. Have a language barrier, the situation will leave you 🤯. Hence we are prone to stress 😌
I feel your pain
Exactly, it's frustrating when people don't get what you're imagining 😌
As enfp I have lost my social:( I been going through a tough time but I’m getting better tho
And that is why as an ENFP I speak 4 languages and I am studying other 2, I love talking to people. And each new language has its own "codes" :)
@@chiara7413 that's amazing! what languages do u speak? i speak indonesian (my native language), english, spanish, and i'm focusing on french right now. and i do agree with you. one of my main motivators for learning other languages is the amount of people and resources that i would be able to interact with! 😍 and yeah, it also gives insight in a way of thinking through the codes that w learn in the language 😊
Me as ENFP around my friends
My friends: I'm bored
Me: AYYO I BEEN SUMMONED
Why is this me!
Meee
Yess
XD we even text so enthusiastically!!!
Gotta let our feelings get across, ya know? 😋
yupyup
Gets carried away easily, goes on tangents, makes connections most people can’t wrap their brains around, making convos awkward or uncomfortable, always has endless questions to ask when learning things to understand the nature of that thing/person is, always thinking of hypotheticals to keep mind moving, wanting to fully understand or fully experience feelings as a whole to draw conclusions in order to continue asking more questions. ENFP are about vibes. Constantly changing vibes like how music moves.
Oh my gosh, I really am ENFP! Everyone likes my extrovert way to socialize, I'm super expressive, talk a lot, I'm super creative, and I always fear to hurt people, in both ways (physically and emotionally), and I like to keep in mind I don't have an extreme opinion, I like to see the good and bad things of both sides, and take only the good part of both.
I don't like to show people I'm perfect because I'm not, also I have the fear of people thinking I'm this type of person, but I'm super proud of myself when I know I made a good job and made everyone smile :)
(Also I'm sorry for my English, I'm a native Brazilian, I'm still learning how to speak English in a good way)
sameee
WOAHSHA SAME >:DDD
ENFP characters are always my favorite, you guys are either fluffy wholesome cinnamon rolls or ruthlessly savage and it's great.
thank you, thats so sweet
Thank u sometimes Im worried people think im too much 😓
😂😂😂😂😂 i feel described by this comment
Hahahahaha I love your description and I feel it to my core, my family always tells me I'm so fluffy and sweet on the outside but I can be a complete savage and destroy people while speaking politely
Thats really sweet!! Thank you!
actually i feel like the “big friends circle” is more of a stereotype since there are PLENTY of enfp who distance themselves from others and has a medium size friend group full of besties or close friends. this is because of the Ne dom meaning the biggest part of our happiness comes from ideas and experiences. ive observed that MANY enfp mistype as infp. I LOVE YOUR VIDS BTW ❤️❤️❤️
- from enfp
On point👌
Same
Yesss thanks
i thought i was an infp for months due to the fact that i am introverted and socially awkward but i have started reading about cognitive functions and i think i am an enfp-
@@woowoo2475 You gonna finish that sentence?
INFJ here
I’m not an ENFP. I am an extrovert-ESTJ and I want to say thank you for being positive about extroverts. Almost everywhere on the net, it is stated how amazing introverts are…and how unintelligent extroverts are. How reckless they are.
The truth is extroverts are just AS intelligent as introverts are. We just don’t keep things hidden. We see no shame in brainstorming out loud, because human interaction is energizing. But we ALL need alone time. Just not as much as introverts.
So thanks psych2go. Enfp ARE creative and are more softer extroverts.
Most are accurate but ENFPs express opinions very loudly when it’s against one of our important values. If it’s not a value of ours, then we typically can sit back, great video!
Exactly! I can't recall I time this happened atm
But I know the feeling!
Oh yeah
I'm kinda a kind hearted potato
I know what it feels like to have someone insult you. It's this negative feeling in your brain that's just lingering there. "Do people not understand how much words can hurt someone?"
So generally I tend to try and stay positive in conversations. I absolutely hate it when I understand someone's sadness but I don't have the words to comfort them ( I'm bad at explaining things )
Valid, sometimes i question my values though, that's probably due to trauma but I try to just be as good and as whacky as possible
Love all you guys 🥲
Yeah! I was gunna say like all of these fit, but I share opinions and I’ve gotten ENFP on every single test I’ve taken bahah!
Being ENFP is like people thought you have something that made your day cause you look bright and happy 24/7 but instead feeling so overwhelmed and confuse and stressed all day😤
Yeah it can be easier to get stressed, but we can learn to handle our stress and anxiety in good ways and form them into other feelings like excitement and creativity. Meditation and therapy can help with this!
Also when you feel stressed, remind yourself that your stress will pass and that you will be just fine because of your strong nature!
Thats definetely my favorite video on the channel, I love the haikyuu and jujutsu references so much
I empathize for others and think outside of the box for EVERTHING. This has lead me to wonder what consciousness really is and what’s after physical life. I know some of you might think i’m crazy, but i get that. I’m not gonna be mad. I just was to inform others how i think. I want to help others succeed by supporting them emotionally and not judging, i like to imagine what one is going through and try to help one. I’m just ranting now, I’ll stop. Hope everyone is doing well!
My oldest sister studied personality types and their meanings for years and can tell your personality type right away. Apparently she said that I was an ENFP but I could never see the ENFP in me because of my severe depression. Now that I’m on medication, I’m seeing the real Julia I know and I am now starting to learn to love myself. It feels good to be me again
Yay get better man ☺️
xD, it will get better
You are correct. I also have to stay on my Prozac to be the best me but my ADhd is still a issue that can inhibit me.
im crying thats so beautiful
"It feels good to be me again" that's beautiful to hear, im glad you're back 😊
Signs you're an ENFP: You forgot watching this video and came back here just to remind yourself you're amazing
Hahaha 👌
Actually I clicked this video just to see knowing I was 1 type and now I think I might be an ENFP
I have two different types. ENTP is for work and intellectual pursuits, and ENFP IS for family, personal relationships, and caregiving. This is spot on for my ENFP personality.
I'm an ENFP, but I always love to express my bold opinions but I would love to hear others' opinions and I would never put my opinions on anyone else.
We might have a large social circle, but we often feel the loneliest. I have my select few that I love being around and those are VERY few who I cherish tremendously.
Agreed! Introverted ppl are most likely the ones I cherish 😭. They're the most genuine ppl on this planet!
same
Absolutely true!
Real
So true
as a ENFP i have almost 20 new ideas for storys and novels every day and I don't do any of them because every day I have something new and i dont know what to do, so I really felt the 2nd point
Same, I start and then suddenly I have a new idea and totally forget about the one I've been planning for 10 minutes
SAMEEE OMGG AND I HAVE NOBODY TO TELL THEM TO PEOPLE GET EASILY BORED
ahahahahahahaha
@@ihatekiwi4167 I swear I took literally 7 minutes to retell a five sentence story I had already written; how am I supposed to share my ideas for super long ones I haven't written, let alone not feel too nervous to share?!
Same 😭😭😭
as an ENFP i feel SO happy that i see this type of videos talking about my personality 🍵
All my ENFP gals in the comments, expressing things that i could never explain in words but i relate to so much, THANK YOU SO MUCH.
"You have a very big social circle"
I'm the most hated person
Sending you a hug and lots of love ❤️💙
I have a pretty big social circle but I managed to piss off some people I used to call freinds eaither becuse I exist as queer and trans or I called them out on there racism. Or they just can't stand me overthinking everything but hey it's there loss not mine
@@rzangyz3672 do you have a bad personality
@@rzangyz3672 AAAAAAA me too cuz I always end up saying things that either don’t make sense or are perceived as Insults ,it’s kinda discouraged me from being social to be honesttt-
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I'm ENFP and have ADHD... and I swear to god these two things are almost identical. Like sometimes I think that all ENFPs are just hidden ADHDers
i think i have it but I'm sure that it's just my personality lol
@@maya07_11 me tooooo😭
I honestly am struggling right now because I’m having problems with this and I just tend to brush it off :
I don't think so. I have a friend and she's ESFP and she has ADHD so it depends lol
ENFPs are one of the types (if not the type) with the most ADHDers bc of the Ne dom. So while many ADHDers are ENFPs (and the other way around), it's not necessarily the case. For example, I am an ENFP and I don't have ADHD.
I'm an ENFP, I literally have a lot of ideas going on in my mind, I have phases in my life when I'm obsessed with singers and I have to know their biography and their records, the meaning of their songs, etc. My last trauma is Christina Aguilera, I watched documentaries, interviews, and fan videos, I joined fan groups and now I can tell I know Christina Aguilera.
Same with Pyscology, marketing, etc.
This is the first time where I have been able to 100 percent relate to a UA-cam video. It nice to find something that properly describes me.
INFJ here,
I find you ENFP's so wonderfully amazing~
THANKS BRO!
AWWW THANK YOU
Wanna go on a date? 🤣🤣🤣
aww thank you
thanksss
I'm an ENFP with a very slight social anxiety twist, which made me think for years I was actually an INFP... but whenever the social anxiety is lower, the ENFP side REALLY shows ^^
SAMEE i just realized recently that i am more to extroverted side but (still needs time to be alone), I thought i was an infp too before
My wife, best friend and another of my friends are INFP's. They are really different since we tend to look at things with multiple angles as a system where we should intervene if need be while they are more like dreamers who watch things at a very personnal angle, one angle at a time. We look around us and take things in, they project their internal world on whatever's around. When you look at it our personalities are very different on key points, even though we have much in common with minor tendancies being major to the other and vice-versa. They also generally don't like to think our fluid all over the place way, they prefer to have a strong interior opinion even if it changes with their mood.
However, remember that mbti is a tool that describes tendancies, not a guide. There are people out there trying to use it as a precise thing to reinforce sectarism these days...
@@GBS4893 yes i agree, mbti is just a medium to look at the stereotypes of the personalities, and imo it's not that accurate. However, it is still nice to know your and others personality type too.
Dat me!!
thats me !!!!!!! i thought i was an infp for a while too bc of my social anxiety
Wow this is so accurate! So much fun being an enfp
hiding the "like and subscribe" by adding it in a little visual interpretation of what you're explaining is GENIUS for someone like me who gets annoyed by someone directly nudging you to do it by trailing off the topic of the video to mention it. makes me feel like i actually wanna like and sub :3 very smart way to go about it!
Quarantine is really messing with my ENFP brain, it's just so repetitive and I can't explore anymore
@@CartoonyPirate happened to me as well
@@atijumi8069 Oops 😅
I was mistyped. I'm actually an INFP
My bad
@@CartoonyPirate Holly, I'm really ENFP haha
Si Intensifies
The schoolworks too
Strength is not the ability to destroy the things you hate; true strength is the ability to build the things you love.
In the darkest times, hope is something you give yourself. That is the meaning of inner strength.
@@indigofenrir7236
Why is this qoute so familiar? Where is this great qoute from?
Worse feeling as an enfp is not being able to keep that vibe and facing constant criticism, it just makes you question if you are really even worthy of living, but a single genuine compliment can keep us cherry lol
1.we like to enjoy the journey than final results or goal .....because we like to design it in our imagination...
As an ENFP i think we are good at multitasking not perfectly but we unknowingly like multi tasking. Rather than being focused on one path we find it comfortable to do that path with some alternative ones....
And its not bec we dont like a perticular path but bec we like so many things at a time and are able to think so many possibilities about many things in many ways...
Sometime the specialist in that field also wont be able to think that way...ACTULLY FOR US OUR MAIN STREAM IS OUR SIDE STREAM AND OUR SIDE STREAMS ARE OUR MAIN STREAMS WHICH WE ENJOY...😊
Means if we wann describe ourselves then if we imagine photographer taking doing his shoot then we are able view ourselves as model and also as photographer in a HD view which makes us confuse what do we actully want to be.. the most sad thing about for is we are extroverts but we can feel art,litreature with very deep meaning internally.....its like our energy source..
i just wanna say that you enfps are super fun to be around and most of my friends are enfps. the world would be a boring place without you guys
~ w/ love, infp 🌱
we love you infps too🥺 u guys r sooooo cute and super funny I always think ahaha :))
we love you infps too !! you guys are so sweet
Me: An ENFP
Also me: this needs more color, sparkles, and GLITTERR!!!!!!
YAS-
Yes
I LOVE GLITTER😍
Yes
THIS ME
If I can’t focus on my ideas and create I get super stressed and depressed! Also I’m a totally “yes” person so I take on waaaytoo many things, it’s so hard to fit it all in! And I’m super pumped to do all of it all the time!! My emotions throughout any given day 😃😅😬😤🤦♀️💪🙌😃🥰
INFJ here. I married an ENFP. We have a very good relationship. His weaknesses are my strengths. And my weaknesses are his strengths.
We balanced each other. 🥰💕
My sister, step-brother, and one of my closest friends are all ENFPs and this is definitely them
And which type are you?
@@marcyssnow4018 I’m an ISFJ :)
As an ENFP myself, its hard for me to make people understand what am I saying. So most of the times, I just shut up and let my ideas be in my head.
You hit the nail on the head with that statement. I can totally relate. I feel like I really don't want to share unless somebody is really wanting to hear what I have to say.
THIS. THIS IS THE COMMENT.
SAMEE HERE 😭😭😭
This is my results on the 16 personalities test.
Personality type - Campaigner (ENFP)
Traits:
- 57% Extroverted
- 56% Intuitive
- 51% Feeling
- 65% Prospecting
- 64% Assertive
Role: Diplomat
Strategy: People Mastery
I am an Enfp. I lack focus. I get excited with new things eventually get bored by involved in it, will look for other new things. Love talking to people only but love to stay alone. Many ideas but sucks at implementation. Always open to opinions, love motivating people.
If after every relationship either romantic or not you hear “I learned a lot from you and you changed my approach to life? thank you.” please leave a like here.
Not an ENFP, but I really appreciate that type! I usually get along well and fast with ENFPs and my ENFP friends are some of the funniest, creative and wholesome creatures I met! 💓
🥺🥺🥺🥺 you're so nice
:0
OMAGAD LES BE FRENS THEN🎉
Yup, "creatures" is exactly the right word xD
And your type is?
@@sole.81 i'm an infj!
I love Enfps..thank u guys for existing
-Infj
I got this as my results. I always must understand everything fully so I always sit in front of the classroom and ask questions. My doctor is sick of me bc I won't accept a superficial answer. I NEED her to explain what is going on in my body. She's smart but dumb doctors do not like me haha! Also I am a painter and music composer. Sometimes I feel like im struck with a lighting bolt of ideas!
This is so painfully accurate... the communication skills, creative part, always full of thoughts and ideas, keep making friends because of my extroverted side.
But any other enfps struggle with vulnerability? Like i do tell my friends stuff but never too deep..?? Even my best friend. I guess i keep the stuff that bugs me the most to myself because i believe there is no point. I know myself best and i need to carry myself anyway somehow. I love being people’s therapist but i’ll never have the roles reversed lmao
omg that's right!
This is true of the ENFP, because we are ' introverted feelers ' according to the 16 personalities website
Stop I've been therapist to everyone my entire life hence why I'm thinking about it as a future career, yet whenever I even cry in front of my family I feel horrendous and regret showing that vulnerability later. I also have to sort out many of the arguments in my friendship group because they can't do some simple communication 🤣
So as a fellow ENFP I completely agree, that also could be down to my fucked up childhood tho. Maybe one day we can get better at being vulnerable, I can communicate everything through words but I can't show my own emotions it weird!!
Same y'all it sucks
Yea i totally get that. Sharing almost everything, yet nothing at the same time. Because we don't trust them enough with our deepest secret for fear it may come and bite us later
I've found that as an ENFP, my friend groups are actually quite small. I usually only regularly interact with a few people. The people that simply like and respect me go far beyond that. Often beyond my expectations.
I tend to realise this when I leave a job, club, or any other artificially large social group. People I don't talk to much will suddenly give their farewells and so forth. People that I don't know the names of will also know my name.
bruh on god everyday at school somebody new will walk up to me and act like we have been friends for years and i cant even remember there name its so strange.
Oh my god this is ME
It's true, my classmates praised me a lot when we finished our studies, even the little gestures I made like when I came late to the class, I will apologize and bend my back a little to show my sincerity and somehow everyone in my class said that I'm a genuine person and I have a good attitude. I feel happy tho. People are also happy when they see me and remember me even though i dont remember them, im sorry for that but i cant remember people faces and names easily
I’m glad you said this! Because honestly this made me think maybe I’m not the right personality type LOL
Same!! Even though I'm extroverted, and talk to many people I only keep a few people close! And I'm happy with that!
heyyyyy i’m an enfp-a & i honestly love my personality. i used to hate it because people didn’t know how to handle my personality, but honestly, i just owned it. i wear it like a badge. it’s who i am and i couldn’t be happier :)
Best comment section ever, lovely to see other enfps going through same shit like me love it, your not alone brothers and sisters!
Whoever saw this comment, or not, I wish you have a good week and a happy Easter holiday. I love you all ❤ :D
I hope you have a great Easter also!!
same to you bro!! 😃💕
Why thank you! I hope you have a wonderful Easter too! ❤️😁
Thank you this made me smile☺️☺️
I am an ENTP but I also have all the traits of a the ENFP so I think i'm both and overtime I have found I am just so loving that but also super teasing but also like to be mysterious and intellectual like the ENTP but I also have a lot of friends and I love to talk to people about everything but mostly there life goals and I feel like I don't know you until I know your what you want in life. But I also can do those extreme thinking functions and I love destroying a persons world view and building it back up,
Enfp always have a desire to be appreciated and lauded in their groups. This is how they motivate themselves, I believe. Also, they want to hear criticism well dressed as positive feedback...
Exactly! I want people to state what I did well first then tell me what I can improve
I'm an enfp but was recently hurt by my recent circle of friends for being too agreeable and not having strong opinions on things.
The recent events pushed me to self harm and such and I've been recovering since then through counselling .
I'm so happy your getting help, it's not always easy but just know that even though I don't know you, I'm so proud of you. You are so strong and beautiful, and will find better friends that deserve you, love you ❤
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Yeah I have a really good friend that I'll often get frustrated at becuse he used to just agree with me on alot of things and I'm like bro you can call me out if I say something stupid. It's frustrating when people don't have different perspectives or ideas on things.
You know as ENFPs we are open for talking
Same it feels like they're too passive..
Btw hope you be better, keep strong 💜
Sometimes as an ENFP I have to stop myself and ask- am I manipulating something to get what I want, because I honestly don’t know that I’m doing it and I will constantly make the effort to check myself and make sure I’m acting honorably and in others best interest as well as my own
This is the cutest thing everrrrrr. I love being an ENFP 🥺💖
ENFP unites. Comment below if you're it! :)
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Oh hi
Hello
2:28 AM :'l
Hi Psych2Go!
I'm an ENFP and a housewife. I cook every day and one way I avoid repetition is I try to cook something I've never had before, every day. My pantry is filled with such a variety of foods!
yay let's have a party!!!
cool...!!
-INFJ here
Yes!
Serious question by fellow ENFP..
Does it come alive?
I have a friend who's introverted but is cognitively typed as ENFP. Compared to an INFP, the pattern with her cognition can be boiled down to ideas first, feelings later. So it's no surprise that some, if not many ENFPs have small friend groups despite being labeled extraverts.
I'm an INFJ. My best friend is ENFP... I love you guys. You're the best! ❤️
Sincerity is the HIGHEST trait I look for in other human beings